Stylin And Profilin FT. Alonzo Arnold

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Speaker 1 (00:00):
Like you are bad as fucking You're a virgin, you
bad as hell, you a boss like it's just a lot.
And then on top of that who you are. Some
people just want you because of who you are. Outside
of that, that bussy could be bust wide. It don't matter,
you know what I'm saying. No, I say on that.
There's a lot of people who are popular and they're

(00:21):
they're not virgins, but people want them because of who
they are. So the fact that that bussy ain't been
busted wild you. You're a baddie.

Speaker 2 (00:30):
But this is a ride, you know I'm saying.

Speaker 1 (00:35):
I'm being honest.

Speaker 3 (00:36):
It's like you keep just glazing over that bussy.

Speaker 1 (00:40):
It's in pristine conditions. Because I've seen some blown out bussy.
I get on X videos. I know what goes on.

(01:11):
What's up, y'all?

Speaker 4 (01:12):
Is your girl.

Speaker 1 (01:13):
Lexp and it's your girls Dray and a call and you.

Speaker 4 (01:16):
Are tuned in to another episode.

Speaker 3 (01:19):
Of poor Mind where a drunk mind speaks sob birthdays.

Speaker 5 (01:22):
We gotta guest today, We gotta guess today.

Speaker 1 (01:28):
Let me tell y'all something. Y'all know this person. They
are one of the best hairstylists ever to exist. One
of the most funniest people online and on top of that,
a fashion killer don't play always puts it on.

Speaker 4 (01:50):
We have the one, the Only God.

Speaker 1 (01:57):
Yes, oh yeah, that's a narration right there, girl, how
are you? I'm doing good? How you doing? I am great?
Let me tell you I always do this. I know
the listeners be like lix, please need a break. When
I see people in person and it gives everything that

(02:17):
it gives the mind, I'll just be like Chef's kids.

Speaker 4 (02:20):
I mean, it looks like you got on a parisil.

Speaker 3 (02:23):
Oh my god, you look the exact same person girl.

Speaker 2 (02:26):
And y'all it's always the pretty girls like yes, what
the compliments?

Speaker 4 (02:29):
Amazing?

Speaker 1 (02:30):
Thank you taking one? And that one it does okay.
So I like to start at the beginning, just for
the people that are tuned in who aren't familiar with
you and know, you know, don't know who you are.
So you started off as a hairstylist, yes, now do
you have your license? And you got my licenship.

Speaker 4 (02:48):
But you know what's crazy about that? I would have
never guessed.

Speaker 1 (02:50):
You know, she comes to be a tea she said,
ain't got my life saying, oh my god, yeah, it's honey.

Speaker 2 (02:54):
But you know, like you said, the best of the
best don't normally have their license. It's just like a
piece of paper to me, honest. Okay, because my aunt,
who has a license, like, she gave me the hours.
I just never went to take this test, if that
makes sense. So I learned everything from her. So it's
like child, I can literally take this test and go pass.

Speaker 1 (03:11):
Right.

Speaker 4 (03:11):
Yeah, of course.

Speaker 1 (03:13):
So when you don't have your license, I means you
can't wash hair with your package. Yeah you can't. You
can't shampoo hair when State Board come, we gotta run.
Oh my god, it's not the door.

Speaker 3 (03:20):
So you can't work in a salon either.

Speaker 1 (03:22):
Yeah, you can't really work on the salon. So I
gotta come wash. You already washed them, right, but you.

Speaker 2 (03:31):
Know I still shout to pull my girls town now, okay,
State Board, come try you.

Speaker 1 (03:34):
Know sneaking you got to go? Yeah, you do like
this right, already do? Yes, I was already doing it. Okay.
So talking about when you first started doing hair, like
how old were you, like, when did you start doing hair?

Speaker 2 (03:48):
So I was this is back in twenty twelve. I
was working at TAG on Fridays.

Speaker 1 (03:53):
Oh my god, yes, I would say, you did.

Speaker 4 (03:57):
What I used to be slanging them.

Speaker 1 (04:00):
Yeah. I worked for four months. Okay, I thought we
were I was that probationary period. Okay, okay, okay, okay.

Speaker 2 (04:09):
Yes, So I was just you know, I was busting
tables and tried the bills were behind, so you know,
try to repos status everything, honey. So you know, I
was like, let me start doing hair, and so I
started doing the girls hair at the TGI Fridays and
so like that was my little side money.

Speaker 1 (04:26):
And so the managers and stuff.

Speaker 2 (04:28):
They kind of like it kind of like overshadowed my
work that I was really there for.

Speaker 1 (04:33):
And so I started being lazy eating one o'clock.

Speaker 2 (04:36):
And so they were just like you fired, and so
I said, damn, what the hell am I gonna do now?

Speaker 1 (04:41):
So I just really stepped out on faith.

Speaker 2 (04:43):
Like advertising on craig List Instagram at the time just
kind of got started. And like I was tried for
like twenty five thirty dollars to do book presses Poe
and curls.

Speaker 4 (04:54):
I wish I was driving to.

Speaker 1 (04:59):
Taxi. Yeah exactly.

Speaker 3 (05:01):
Noways, So did you always have a passion for doing
hair or did you just start doing it because rent
was due.

Speaker 2 (05:07):
So I always like, my sister used to let me
go to the salon with her, and I would always
like just watching the stylists, the people come in leaving
looking so different and oh pretty, and so I was
just fascinated and I was like, I want to do this.
It's like, I think I was just made for beauty,
because if you think about a hair, fashion, makeup, it

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all goes together.

Speaker 1 (05:29):
They're all complete to look.

Speaker 2 (05:30):
So I was like, let me do hair first, you know,
to get my bules paid, and then I really fell
in love with it and like it's not a job
for me. Yeah, So it honestly just doesn't feel like work,
Like if you have a passion for it, I think
that it'll never feel like a job to you. Like
if you look at the icons to the Janna Jackson,
the Beyonce's, I just feel like they never retire, and

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that just I think it goes for hair too, any passion.

Speaker 1 (05:53):
Yeah, so you said you learned from your sister, So
I learned from my aunt. Your aunt, Okay, shout out
to eng East Side of period.

Speaker 6 (06:00):
My girl.

Speaker 2 (06:01):
Yes, she taught me everything, so shy. She was there
from the beginning the beginning. Yes, I love that.

Speaker 1 (06:08):
So who was your first like celebrity client, So very
first one? What y'all considered celebrity, like it's reality TV.

Speaker 3 (06:17):
Or I know, I'm a little street, I'm a little
streaks when it comes to celebrity, Like I think of
like you know, actressies, right.

Speaker 4 (06:27):
Everybody famous.

Speaker 1 (06:28):
I'll be like, but I but I do.

Speaker 3 (06:32):
But I do think it's a categorized by least, right,
So I feel like if you were like actress or
if you're a rapper, a very known rapper and stuff,
you're a well you're a least.

Speaker 1 (06:43):
Yeah.

Speaker 3 (06:44):
But then I feel like the reality stars they be
like Lee's least unless you a Kardashian then they.

Speaker 1 (06:51):
Yeah, okay, but I'll go about whatever you can. Yeah, okay.

Speaker 2 (06:56):
So, uh my first signing something was Bambi Basketball Wives. Okay,
and you know I did her hair and she had
like thirteen bundles. You know, band got a little smart head.
Oh she wanted all them bundles in their head. But
when I tell you she shot me out, everybody started
to coming, like back in the day, Instagram like shoutouts

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was coming everything.

Speaker 1 (07:18):
Gas. Now you shot the motherfucker out. You ain't gonna
get nothing else, right.

Speaker 2 (07:22):
Damn it shot your ass like you're gonna get up clients.

Speaker 1 (07:24):
So it just Instagram to algorithm change. But did her?

Speaker 2 (07:28):
And then my first real, real, real big celebrity will
have to be Portia Williams.

Speaker 1 (07:32):
All Right, I am a portious me too. I love
her and when it's okay. So I'll say this as
a consumer, it's different between like if you do somebody's
hair and all their hair looks good versus doing somebody
hair who is known for being polished, Like if you
do a porsial hair, a cast all hair like that,
that differently it does because, like you said, shoutouts aren't

(07:55):
the same. But if cash doll shout you are, you're
getting booked. But they known for hair. Yes, yes, so
that that that does hit a little different. You know
what I'm saying. Like me, if I recommend a good bean,
I like beans. I love a good good bean. Play
if I shout out some beans, the people gonna buy
it up.

Speaker 3 (08:18):
Let's talk about beans every episode. Some goddamn beans. I'm
working on that bushes deal now it's coming because all
the indoor sea.

Speaker 4 (08:31):
I have built like it's immune to it. You know
what I'm saying.

Speaker 1 (08:34):
I built up that fiber and take did you ask
her about forty Yes, I'm saying the same thing.

Speaker 3 (08:42):
I'll be like, you need to carry some bean now
in your part.

Speaker 1 (08:46):
That it is naturally in my DNA. Oh, it's in
me the beans. I made it.

Speaker 4 (08:51):
You know what I'm saying, honey, Okay, go head, go ahead.

Speaker 3 (08:55):
So I wanted to know how do you stay with
the trends because just like you just said, you know,
back in the day, the girls used to love to
wear ten fifteen bundles in their hair. Now these days,
I feel like the girls be going for a more
natural So how do you stay on top of the trains?

Speaker 1 (09:12):
Is just and on? Was always up today? You know what?

Speaker 2 (09:15):
Honestly I would see back in my day that's like
I'm eight years okay, you know, uh, the girls see
my clients because I did like a different type of hair.
They didn't really like all that hair. Like I have
some clients that like, you know, getting out of here.
But I always went for the more natural, realistic type

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of approach.

Speaker 1 (09:37):
So I think I always just been you know, ahead
of the game.

Speaker 2 (09:41):
Ye like with the baby hairs, I never you know,
you I was just about to say that, you know
them girls, they love they take their whole front of them.
They look, yes, it be a bundle of.

Speaker 1 (09:56):
Can't even see. I don't see how the girls even
drive ship. That just war because down here. But I
will say I think the baby hair Tren came from.
And I'm I love a little baby hair. But when
I have the frontals, like when that lace get a
little old and it's lifting, you need that baby hair

(10:18):
kind of you do? You know? I like baby hair.
I'm not against them.

Speaker 2 (10:22):
I just like, to me the only person that I
think they can do some good baby hairs. And I
think they really took it as his hat.

Speaker 1 (10:30):
He even natural looks.

Speaker 2 (10:33):
He does amazing just all around amazing stylar.

Speaker 1 (10:37):
And I think too it's like that soft baby hair
like yeah, just forth and they're like a curtain in
a look likewn hair.

Speaker 3 (10:45):
You cut their hair to make it look lam they
do their real hair like that.

Speaker 1 (10:51):
Yes, I got to make your work right. You know
where you get your hair? Bright of these braids is old, girl,
I ain't got to get my hair.

Speaker 2 (11:00):
I think the older they look the better.

Speaker 1 (11:03):
But when them edges start falling out, when I tell you.
I got a bob right now, right here, just sitting there.
I'm struggling. Okay, so before we get home, because I
know I'm gonna forget because I'm.

Speaker 4 (11:18):
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What are we drinking today?

Speaker 3 (11:24):
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this is for the baddest in the room.

Speaker 1 (11:30):
Okay that Instagram eight honey.

Speaker 3 (11:33):
Okay, So this is for you. This is what this
is called the baddest in the room. This is a mocktail,
but you can add whatever spirit of choice. We have
some grapefruit, we have some strawberries, some lavender, some basil,
and a little bit of lemon juice. And then we
topped it with a sparkling water, a little bit of
a gave as well, and we garnish it with some
floating strawberries and some basil inside.

Speaker 1 (11:53):
So cheers, this is the baddest in the room. Cheers, cheers.
See you, Alionza. So I do have real quick Have
you ever been a wig where m I like the
U part V part Okay, so but you've never been
like a lace? I have them, but I just can't
lay that front down.

Speaker 3 (12:09):
Yeah, Like I need the baby hair probably because when
it lefts and I'm over it.

Speaker 1 (12:13):
Yeah, I'm a braid girl. Braid or you part with
Okay that was part back in the day.

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(14:22):
ask you have you never drank liquor or you just
like gave it up or you know where.

Speaker 2 (14:27):
I never drank, but you know I was when I
was doing making a stallion here back in twenty nineteen,
and it was b till Ward's weekend. She had me
to do like two shots of duce mm hmm, and
I didn't really feel nothing.

Speaker 1 (14:39):
Oh you got that duce that little hot heat cause
you say get your I'm a little tired. I was like,
I don't han't to feel nothing.

Speaker 2 (14:48):
She was like, what you got some other girls they
was getting shine half a shot they was on the floor.

Speaker 1 (14:52):
Yeah, I'm just like, girl it up. I had two,
you know shou So I was like, damn, this is
my first time drinking.

Speaker 4 (15:00):
So twenty nineteen was your first time?

Speaker 1 (15:02):
Dream you just didn't like it? He was like yeah.

Speaker 2 (15:04):
I was like it didn't really. Yeah, it didn't really
do nothing to me. Like I smoked weed before with
my brother. That ship had do nothing to me.

Speaker 1 (15:12):
I think I have a natural high. I don't know
if that if that's something, but if he has some
bad weeds. Look because I said when I smoke, give
me the reggie. I like the bad like to be
too hot. So do you have any vices though, like
hookah or anything? You just all see that's why it's

(15:34):
half like thank you, just you know, so I want
to get into the fashion now, and I'm about to
get in your business because I'm not gonna lie. So
I am a fashion nover girl. I am a shean
type of chick period.

Speaker 2 (15:53):
I get to what I can get times.

Speaker 4 (15:57):
Okay, So I'll say this. What I do sometimes is
ill to go to.

Speaker 1 (16:00):
People's pages and get inspiration and like, oh, how can
I recreate this look on a budget? You know what
I'm saying. But I can do that most of the
time when I go to that, When your page, you
can't recreate that because you'll be having some pieces, baby,
some pieces. So I do want to ask you this.

Speaker 4 (16:18):
Do you have a budget of like how much do
you spend a month on clothes?

Speaker 1 (16:22):
Be honest, girl, let me tell you something. If I
was on my last and I had something.

Speaker 2 (16:30):
I really needed, I will get it because you know
who kind of gave me that idea.

Speaker 1 (16:35):
Kim kardashiank She did an interview.

Speaker 2 (16:39):
And Kanye West told her she had these Anniversary of
Christian loops and hills. Those are her first like big
spending pair of heels, and he told her to throw
them away, and she was like, I spent my last
on these, and you know I was almost evicted, but.

Speaker 1 (16:53):
I can't throw these shoes away.

Speaker 2 (16:54):
So not saying to spend your last I want to
stay do that, but my budget, I don't really have
a budget. I'll just be like now I'm I'm more
careful with my spending now. When I first got on tour,
I was getting every damn thing.

Speaker 1 (17:07):
But now I'm just.

Speaker 2 (17:08):
Really careful because I feel like, especially in the times
when you you got to hold on to your money, honey.
So and I like a little budget, honey, Like this
bag right here, it's worth seven eight thousand now and
I got her for nineteen hundred.

Speaker 1 (17:21):
It looks like the new collection. Yeah, it does on
her Disadventures one m Jacobs. That's right. So you don't
have a budget. Now on what you spend a month
on clothes, I would say a month, right, I would say.

Speaker 2 (17:35):
Now I'm looking at either two bags a month that
I really want or about ten thousand dollars a month.

Speaker 4 (17:42):
Okay it used to be.

Speaker 1 (17:43):
You're talking about. See that's how I know this couch
got money, right.

Speaker 4 (17:49):
I feel you send money on clothes too.

Speaker 1 (17:52):
I like clothes. A little shoe I'm fas I know,
thank you. When fashion over say how you want to
pay Clarina. Damn not fashion over with Clara. I don't
know what's funny.

Speaker 3 (18:13):
Everybody has clarin now, like even like Javanci and stuff,
they having clarinet too.

Speaker 1 (18:18):
They say that look shar boots now by my rebel.
Oh my god. We offer styling to people, you know
what I do want to start doing that. I think
you should like one. It ain't even got to be

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a celibrity.

Speaker 2 (18:41):
It could just be a girl that ain't got no
budget and be like, here's my car, go to the
mall and get what you need. And you know it's
not gonna be designed every time. Like I tell people,
be comfortable whatever your budget is. It's some people out
here you will never tell, like look at this dread tone.
You would never tell what okay swing that hair?

Speaker 1 (19:00):
Fashion week? Yes, ma'am.

Speaker 2 (19:02):
You would just never be able to tell, like it
looks like a designer piece.

Speaker 1 (19:05):
It's how you assessorize it. Your ear rings, everything you
know I'm gonna do. I'm gonna do shoes. Yeah, I'm
gonna do shoes every time because I feel like something
shoes could be a statement. Yeah, you know, make it
poking out. But I think styling is like you do
hair so good. But I also think that's another thing
that you can like dip into because the girls need

(19:28):
you on the red carpet. We ain't made it to
the red carpet yet, but I get so upset when
I see these girls. I know y'all got the money, yes,
the main ones that yes.

Speaker 3 (19:38):
They don't want to pay for a little been thinking
that they can put this ship on. They on Colonna
and Fashion over Looks with me Fashion over Looks to
do we have some cute stuff they do. Now see
that low girl Like, I really believe in mixing.

Speaker 1 (19:56):
I feel like you can't go wrong with it. You
got a question because I got another one, So let
me look.

Speaker 4 (20:02):
I'm nosy now come on.

Speaker 1 (20:03):
So I don't know if this was something I made
up in my head. So I have been following your
career for a very long time. I feel like there
was one time you did like a live on Instagram
or something, and you said, like you prefer having regular
clients over celebrity clients. Yes, And I actually I hear
that from a lot of people. I've been going to
the same girl for years. Shout out to me, d

(20:24):
Rich Look here I've been going to her for years
and when I tell you she does hair down and
she was like, honestly, my best clients are.

Speaker 4 (20:31):
Just regular working girls.

Speaker 1 (20:33):
So I think this is like a teaching moment too.
So I think a lot of people who get in
the game, the hair game, or the styling game or
nails feet whatever you do, they want them celebrity clients
so bad. So talk to the people about having celebrity
clients and the downside of it versus, you know, having
regular clientele and serving them properly. Girl, don't go after

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them celebrities.

Speaker 2 (20:57):
Girl, They're gonna come after you when you come into
business and you just like, ooh, I want a celebrity
because one thing about it, the everyday clients are the
ones paying your bills. They don't want get me. You know,
you have options with the everyday clients. The celebrity clients,
they're always going to find someone else.

Speaker 1 (21:15):
And I had to learn that because I I kind
of got tired of doing my regular everyday clients.

Speaker 2 (21:22):
And I would say, like twenty seventeen to twenty nineteen,
I was just like straight traveling and when I got
done and came back, those clients they had found enough stylust,
and so I was like, well, damn, you.

Speaker 1 (21:32):
Know, y'all forgot about me. You know, I was texting
them I'm back. You know.

Speaker 2 (21:35):
They was like, oh, girls doing my hair, you know, right, yes, right,
It's like you know, I was just like, well, damn,
you know. So I always have your everyday working clients,
over your celebrities, and then with your celebrities, sometimes they
could say months to pay you most do right now.

(21:55):
They'd be like that nineties and next sixties, not even
that now, honey, I did your hair down even now, yes,
dam and you know I have started tacking.

Speaker 1 (22:03):
They asses, they had interest rates and waiting fee. Yeah,
I need my money feeds and rent feeds and shit.

Speaker 3 (22:08):
Okay, so yes, I do have a question.

Speaker 1 (22:11):
So you always have made.

Speaker 3 (22:14):
Funny videos online as well, Like, obviously we know you're
gonna serve a look, makeup, gonna be tea body, tea, everything.
But you have a really really good personality too. And
I remember you from back in the day. We used
to make the funny videos with your wig.

Speaker 1 (22:29):
Look.

Speaker 3 (22:32):
I missed some days right years ago. I remember you
from back in the day. So do you feel like
your personality has helped it all with building your clients.

Speaker 2 (22:43):
Hele Okay, honestly, I would say sixty percent of your
clients is gonna coming you for your personality because you
have to think about it. People are going through things
like when they come and sit in my chair, they're
gonna been about their husband. You know what they done,
did you know? Or they john the stuff, so they
need a laugh. They want to look good too, but
they need a laugh to just relax and just you know,

(23:06):
let it all out, shut them. Crowd of clients laugh
with clients and they be really needing that. Yeah, they
need that healing, you know time. So yeah, I think.

Speaker 3 (23:14):
That's important because I always say that going to your
hairstylist is like theory.

Speaker 1 (23:18):
Bro.

Speaker 3 (23:18):
If you got a good one that you cool for sure,
you leave just feeling so refreshed and like the way
it is lifted off your shoulders and you look cute.

Speaker 1 (23:26):
It's like yes, And some of these hairstyles they be
so mean. Now I want you to talk. Yeah, talking's
crazy as the cup because like I said, I've been
going to d D for years. Di you knows all
my business me and d talks down and then I
think that's a part of the experience.

Speaker 4 (23:43):
Actually been in TikTok video a while back.

Speaker 1 (23:46):
And look y'all, we know you can't be in the
salon until you get that paper, right, I said, we
need to bring that salon feeling bad. We used to
go to salon and it's three four of us in there.
We got a good show playing we have and we talking.
It's like a lot of times like if you go
to a salon, it's only you in there, which is
cool if y'all have a relationship, but I like to

(24:08):
be with other girls and were talking and we chatting
it up. We got poor mons, right, We like, I
think we need that salon feel Oh.

Speaker 2 (24:16):
I was just talking about that. Yes, the sweets really
messed up.

Speaker 1 (24:20):
Yeah, because they're bad. You can't even learn nothing like
from other hairstyles. You know.

Speaker 2 (24:26):
It was like when I was coming up at the
salon with my aunt, it was five of.

Speaker 1 (24:29):
Us and I and I loved it.

Speaker 2 (24:31):
Like it was a whole reality show. You have these
two stylars arguing and you know, a client. You know,
it's it was so so good.

Speaker 1 (24:40):
It feel like community, yes, and so fun. Right, It's
like a family. I feel like that's what they talk
about with Beyonce a lot like how her mom had
the salon and salan performing. It's just so many memory
Like growing up, I used to love going to the
salon too, Like I used to be like, oh, let
me see what everybody getting and they get their away

(25:00):
French rolls. I'm snatch ponytail the baddest right, But you
know I do feel that. But you know, these days,
I definitely be trying to get in and out.

Speaker 3 (25:09):
Like if you got three people here to me, let
me know when you are almost done, and then I'm.

Speaker 1 (25:13):
Gonna pull up. Yeah, child, you know.

Speaker 2 (25:16):
Let me tell you back in the two thousands years,
my aunt she would have like fifteen twenty people and
they was this, you know, she'll be over there, and
she she had an assistant, she had two assistants. And
when I tell you should come in there, like nine
in the morning, it'd be like a line of people
writing on her should get there. They it's in and out.
Oh I see, I love that. I get thousand dollars thousands.

Speaker 1 (25:37):
Of dollars a days.

Speaker 3 (25:38):
I'm not right good, yes, but I love somebody who
can get you inting out because some hair stylists they
be slow, because you will be the only one there and.

Speaker 1 (25:45):
Then you will still be for like six, will be
there for two three days and damn I only didn't
want go on. I'm just kidd come back in the
morning so I can finish, right. I need I need
now ship don't take out. I need some pretendence just
taking up Rocky, So go ahead, go ahead, drest.

Speaker 3 (26:04):
I don't know if you have another question, I'll get
into the first topic.

Speaker 4 (26:07):
Oh yeah, one more question.

Speaker 1 (26:08):
Who was your like favorite celebrity client, Like you was like,
oh I love you like we always gonna be locked
in for life. Mm hmm. Well, I don't know if
she liked me now, oh not me inside, I don't know.

Speaker 2 (26:24):
I mean she followed me, but you know what I
always got loved for Megan honestly follow Yes, we uh
One thing about Megan a studus.

Speaker 1 (26:32):
She was so fun to work with and.

Speaker 2 (26:37):
She gets you the best gifts like birthday gifts, Christmas
gifts like that girl. I don't know if it's in
the quaries thing, but hor is they get really good gifts.
And she gave you some really really good gifts. She
was very fun even when like her around the time
I was working on her, her mom had just passed away.
You would never be able to know because she was
always so happy, upbeat. She never let nobody see her cried, never.

Speaker 1 (27:00):
Let you know what I'm saying. So I had a
really good time working with her. When is she gonna
follow you? This is like twenty twenty one, I think, because.

Speaker 2 (27:10):
I think because her best friend was and Kelsey. They
was going at it online and I had said some
of the blocks. I don't know she's seen it, but
I was just like, I don't like nobody being ganged
up on. And so I was just like, yes, Kelsey,
stand up for yourself, you know.

Speaker 1 (27:24):
But I was, but I like what was said. But ooh,
I don't know.

Speaker 2 (27:32):
Friend, I probably fall out. It was my it was
my fine, you know. And I and that's when I
really like slowed down from really commenting on yeah, because she.

Speaker 1 (27:42):
Probably took that. It's like, damn bitch, like I thought
we was cool. Yeah. But and I think to everything
she went through, she was probably doing a cleanse of
a lot of stuff that she has been seeing on
my probably not personal because she probably knows your personality. Yea, oh,
I know they're joking, but still right right, Yeah, And
I really understand what she was going through. But like

(28:03):
now looking back at it, she was going through a lot,
a lot going on.

Speaker 3 (28:07):
Yes, shut out to me.

Speaker 1 (28:10):
You killed me in fast. I see your looks.

Speaker 3 (28:12):
You know her stylist is killing sh What was that
she was in Paris?

Speaker 2 (28:17):
That Harry and in Japan and stuff, and she she
looked amazing my body looks.

Speaker 1 (28:22):
She got me motivating going to the gym, child, not me,
but I love it yout that er look like you
go to the gym. But I'll be in there walking
on the trick me. You know, I get my steps right.

Speaker 3 (28:36):
I'll be in in here sweating, bully on the step,
mass girl on the stairs. Do you do it on
like one incline or do you sweet you?

Speaker 2 (28:48):
I do level steven for forty five minutes straight and
five hundred calories. When I get about that motherfucker, i'd
be late the hell out.

Speaker 1 (28:57):
But like the stomach, thank you, very, flash very. What's up, y'all?
Is your girl a lexp And it's sagrocery and a call.
And y'all know we are some hygien girlies. So we
are here to tell y'all about good wipes. Yes, y'all, y'all,
meaning a little more than toilet paper. You gotta use
a little white backdal when you're done. That's why I
love good wipes because they hypo allergenic and they come

(29:19):
in so many different scenes like shake, Coco, lavender botanical Believe,
I love that.

Speaker 4 (29:24):
And they're free of harsh chemicals, you know what I'm saying.

Speaker 1 (29:26):
So if you need some wipes other than toilet paper,
what you're gonna do is go to your local grocery
store like a Target, Kroger, or if you're more of
an online shopper, it's on Amazon.

Speaker 4 (29:36):
So get you some good wipes, girl.

Speaker 1 (29:39):
If you want to upgrade your restroom ritual, you can
grab good wipes at Target, Walmart, Kroger, and most local
grocery stores. Just head to the toilet paper out and
look for the bright, Aqua, Rose and Emerald packages. They're
also available on Amazon if you're more of an online shopper.

(30:00):
What's up, y'all?

Speaker 3 (30:01):
As your girl x Pee and it's Sugarl Draying a
call and we have a very.

Speaker 1 (30:05):
Exciting announcement today. We have a brand new show dropping.

Speaker 3 (30:09):
Yes, we have a brand new shout dropping y'all on
Patreon it's gonna air on September second, and it's called
Poor Chronicles. We're gonna be doing so much stuff on there.
We're gonna be doing challenges. If you can't go to
Bella Dache, where the hell could you go?

Speaker 1 (30:23):
If you can't go to Blanche what a hell? Put
it out?

Speaker 3 (30:27):
We're gonna be doing talk to me, chit chat with me.
We're gonna be spelling at Little Tea.

Speaker 1 (30:32):
Oh my god, No you didn't. God.

Speaker 3 (30:38):
Everything y'all been wanting to see, we're gonna be doing
it right here on Patreon.

Speaker 1 (30:42):
Yes, y'all ask us for so much. Well, we've been
to give it to y'all every single Monday, and it's
gonna be a time. Y'all know. Poor Minds has grown
into its own little entity. Well, we're gonna have a
lot of fun still over here at Poor Chronicles. So
make sure y'all tune in Berke second, it's going down.

Speaker 3 (31:10):
So I want to get into the first topic. We're
gonna play a game called what's the Real Game? Okay,
So we're gonna get into the game and we basically
gonna read you some questions. You either have to tell
us to see or you can take a suit your drink.

Speaker 1 (31:24):
I think I think that needs another one.

Speaker 6 (31:26):
Yeah right, because I'm juice, right, okay, that juice.

Speaker 1 (31:39):
What are you like? What do you prefer? How do
you give it that? Like they now say, he she.

Speaker 2 (31:46):
You can respectful, but okay, I kept trying to say that.

Speaker 1 (31:51):
I'm like, look right, look, dang, look okay, I mean
I don't get and that ship. I'm like, I don't
get it.

Speaker 2 (32:04):
I do expect my friends like if they want to
because she Alley.

Speaker 1 (32:08):
Yeah whatever, but that I'd be like that. I had
a friend who she was like, I'm day I said,
oh you got a twin bitch. I didn't know. I'm like,
you get them.

Speaker 3 (32:21):
Because we were trying to make sure we were being
you're not respectful.

Speaker 1 (32:24):
I appreciate that. Okay, girls, okay because she drink that's
my girl. Yeah, okay, we can start the game because
got a little bit.

Speaker 3 (32:37):
Question number one, what's the worst the wig install you've
ever seen on the Celebrity You Can?

Speaker 1 (32:43):
Sepper answer ship.

Speaker 2 (32:47):
The worst wig install I have ever seen on the Liberty.

Speaker 1 (32:56):
She said, that's a lot of thinking. Girl. We got time.
I see some bad weeds I could think of. I
can too who you thinking you money? I feel y'all.

Speaker 3 (33:15):
Okay, Kim Zozi egg that wig was terrible.

Speaker 1 (33:18):
Yeah yeah, you know she like them pushed back weeds.

Speaker 3 (33:21):
Yeah yeah yeah.

Speaker 2 (33:23):
They used to mountain on top of the manpopulation mountains.
Yeah yeah, yeah, I wrote that one.

Speaker 1 (33:31):
I don't know.

Speaker 2 (33:32):
Let me bad weeds? Ooh who had a bad weed? S?
I don't have a couple of bad damn weeds.

Speaker 1 (33:39):
I had one too bad. I had a few. It's
ony Dre still got my bad You know what, I
would say, the worst wig I ever seen? This is
the BT Awards.

Speaker 2 (33:53):
What was that twenty and three in diamond I'm sorry
crying out diamonds? And I don't think she'd you know,
just Liberty, well, you know she's the rapper. So she
came in there looking like little scrap. She was in
the little scrappy honey and looking.

Speaker 1 (34:08):
Like I can tell you honey. And I said, well,
what happened in that car?

Speaker 3 (34:12):
Girl?

Speaker 1 (34:14):
That damn we was just every day we Okay, I'll
get it though, Okay, sometimes you have them nights.

Speaker 3 (34:21):
Okay, I'm about to be googling.

Speaker 1 (34:27):
Who is one influencer you think is over hyped?

Speaker 2 (34:32):
Who is one influencer. I think it's over hyped. Oh
my god, mm over hYP I be loving all the girls.

Speaker 3 (34:45):
I think if I have one to school, Oh I
got one.

Speaker 1 (34:50):
Let me take a sip. Okay, you want me to
hear her mind? Yeah, Alex earl, who is that? So
she's she's like, I don't even know. Okay, but on TikTok,
it's no offense to her get them. I just don't
get the thing about her. And I mean, she's always
on all the beauty brand trips, the tarts, the things
and this and that, and I just I don't It

(35:11):
doesn't give what it's supposed to be is for me.
I can't believe y'all don't know who Alex Early is.
You're not a TikTok scroller, but I thought you're a
TikTok top scroller girl, Alex. Let me see, y'all have
never seen this girl? Is that a singer? Her? She's

(35:32):
got like millions and millions and millions of followers on TikTok,
and what does she do.

Speaker 4 (35:37):
She's just she just makes videos.

Speaker 1 (35:39):
Get ready with me. She's dating like a football player,
but that came after she was already popular. She's a
beautiful girl. But it's just giving. Like, okay, but you
know who one influencer I think should be way bigger.
Since we're being negative, we gotta cancel out with Clark.
I love Clark. I love Clark too.

Speaker 4 (35:58):
Clark is a good one.

Speaker 1 (35:59):
Cool. Her name is Clark.

Speaker 3 (36:01):
She's real popular on TikTok, and she's a young black girl.
She graduated from I think, why.

Speaker 1 (36:08):
You I feel like I'm in my fifty so about
Clark ooh yeah, when she's young.

Speaker 3 (36:13):
She's like twenty two. She just graduated I think from
like NYU Are Columbia, one of those schools up there,
and she's about to go to law school.

Speaker 1 (36:20):
But yeah, grocer was about a million dollar house. I go, yeah,
she really is.

Speaker 3 (36:29):
So okay, let's see question number three. Have you ever
charged someone extra just because they got on your nerves?

Speaker 1 (36:38):
Oh? Yes, I did. I know. That's right.

Speaker 2 (36:41):
They got on my last motherfucking EU for real. They
came in. It wasn't the celebrity. It was just a
regular client. And this is like one of my regulars.
Honey girl, Sady s your.

Speaker 1 (36:52):
Teeth till.

Speaker 2 (36:55):
Tiffany came asking it down shop, I did some blond hair.
It was like the blonde color, honey, you know highlights,
bitch like Sierra's highlights. And then she's gonna say, oh,
I think I want to I changed my mind to
jet black.

Speaker 3 (37:07):
I would have charged extra too, though, what then you
changed your mind?

Speaker 1 (37:11):
Yeah? Girl, and tip to know.

Speaker 2 (37:13):
I had to go outside for about fifteen minutes of
cool down because I was like, girl, I don't need this.

Speaker 1 (37:16):
Color for three days straight.

Speaker 2 (37:18):
Like girl, and I came in and I did her
hair and I charged her ass extra.

Speaker 4 (37:23):
I know that's right.

Speaker 3 (37:24):
You gotta have out because that makes sense, like you
wasting my time?

Speaker 1 (37:27):
Right, like tell me right?

Speaker 2 (37:30):
Yes, said that was some good color, but you know
I did make a weed out their hair, so mood.

Speaker 1 (37:34):
I look, I look, I had two girls.

Speaker 4 (37:37):
Okay, I'm gonna skip that one.

Speaker 1 (37:38):
Drea. Okay, who's the messiest person in your DMS? Ooh,
the messiest person in my what's the messiest person in
my DMS?

Speaker 2 (37:55):
If anybody ever seen me in d have to say
me and my girl Perez?

Speaker 1 (38:04):
Is that the way to be? Like?

Speaker 2 (38:06):
Right, all the tea is how to scott for some tea,
Get that tea and we child, we'll be talking about you.

Speaker 4 (38:16):
I'm talking about in the group.

Speaker 6 (38:17):
Hell, yeah, sure, everybody do that.

Speaker 1 (38:19):
Nobody off, I think everybody do that.

Speaker 2 (38:22):
I hate one to be Oh you know, if it's
not about the money, don't talk please, so as you
ain't got no money, mother, let me tell you what
Kiki did right?

Speaker 1 (38:31):
Where the money? About the money? Right?

Speaker 4 (38:35):
Okay?

Speaker 1 (38:35):
I think you should do one more and then I'm
gonna do one more and then go to the topic talk.

Speaker 2 (38:39):
Okay, hmm, give me some good honey, I'm gonna think
about it.

Speaker 1 (38:48):
Who is the most famous person they ever slid in
your d m? Oh my god? Oh I gotta take
it that money cannot I said I was the open book.
But let me close because you know, just in case.
I know that's right, Oh girl, let me take a

(39:10):
whole glass of that, and what I see is paid.
I could look at her a little drinking. Okay, all right,
last one? Last one? Okay? What is hold on? Wait?

Speaker 4 (39:28):
I don't want to read this.

Speaker 1 (39:29):
Okay. What's the pettiest reason you've unfollowed a celebrity that
you knew in real life?

Speaker 2 (39:39):
The pettiest reason I followed a celebrity in real life? Well,
this ain't really petty. What's the girl named Lila Hathaway.
Who that hold on? Let me look lain halfaways. I
think she is a gospel sinking something like that. Who Donnie,

(40:01):
I ain't l oh Layla Hathaway, Layla Hathaway, Miss got
the way you damn it got a white honey. But
it wasn't petty. It was because I did. I was
late with her weed now I was late with him. Okay,
she needed them for a show, and she disputed the payment.

Speaker 1 (40:26):
Honey.

Speaker 2 (40:26):
It was like it was like five thousand some dollars.
She disputed to pay me, and I already sent the
wigs out. And so when the weeds got her, I said,
miss Layla, can you please send my wied I never
got the weeksvent.

Speaker 4 (40:39):
Oh, she just went down, jay hud, I found her.

Speaker 1 (40:41):
Who she did? She did? She just went down. She
got my wig out. She probably to start park from
twenty nineteen. She cut into her moulet. Oh, I'm just playing,
oh girl.

Speaker 6 (40:56):
She looked good though, but yeah, that's how ass.

Speaker 1 (40:59):
She never gave the wigs.

Speaker 4 (41:00):
You never got a payment.

Speaker 1 (41:01):
I disputed dot com honey, and it are still in
l A.

Speaker 2 (41:06):
I don't know what I'm down with. I don't know
she got them, I'm gonna follow them holes.

Speaker 1 (41:10):
Yeah. Ups, I don't know, girl, and you p has
lost and found.

Speaker 3 (41:17):
I said, did you at least win the dispute?

Speaker 1 (41:19):
You know what? I was like, girl, You know what,
I ain't even got the response to dispute because I
kind of took it.

Speaker 2 (41:26):
Like I kind of you know what's to blame for it?
And so I was just like, you know, it's a
business loss, and it is what it is.

Speaker 1 (41:34):
Yeah, but that was a good week two. Girl.

Speaker 2 (41:36):
I was like taking my time with me because you know, celebrity,
you'd be wanting to even with your regular clients, you know.
But I was like, let me pain these curls up
and I and I was late with them, and she
needed for a performance and so yeah, you know you don't.

Speaker 1 (41:51):
Because at least get him and send them back. You
will never work in this town. Yes, that's all I
would have said. That's low Keith Steely. Now don't say
that to that lady, like look or I still love you, girl.
But I had blocked ass. I ain't I blocked period.

Speaker 3 (42:07):
She said, I don't know, like right like she might
take something if she come over here.

Speaker 2 (42:16):
You have to hide your damn Yeah, you're just flying
on booting it all right that when she see the
doggyt on, it's crazy.

Speaker 1 (42:28):
Okay, I'll say this. I'm tired of y'all with the
Beyonce conspiracy theories about what y'all think she gonna do.
Obviously y'all don't be knowing. She will never know. You
never know and too so you know, I gotta y'all know,
I gotta report the negativity. There's a group of people

(42:48):
online who are very mad because she's calling it the
Chitlin circuit, and they're saying, if you're calling it the
Chitlin circuit, then you need to go to the places
that Chitland circuits actually went to.

Speaker 4 (42:59):
So you need to be.

Speaker 1 (43:00):
Touching the corners of the states that are small cities
that Chickling Chitlin circuits actually toured. But are they not
gonna have a venue big enough? That was the argument back,
They don't have the capacity to all them. But she
was like, you're and they're like, but your Beyonce created
and generate revenue for these smaller towns are smaller states

(43:25):
to start holding these artists and doing that because you
want to be.

Speaker 4 (43:28):
A pioneer, be a Pioneer.

Speaker 1 (43:31):
So it's been a lot of backlash of her naming
it the Chiit List. I mean yeah, but I also, yeah,
I'm not gonna lie, I think Beyonce, I'm not gonna lie.
I'm not mad at her for doing it this way,
but I do believe, Hell, yeah, go to these cities

(43:53):
and make these motherfuckers travel for you. We gonna see
who gonna buy tickets. Then, because I would have been
a Tuscaloose to go to Orange, Texas, I would have
hosted it for your ass.

Speaker 3 (44:04):
Yeah, I mean I agree that's fair. But then on
the other hand, I just do always feel like people
just always gonna find something, something but to complain about. Like, yes,
she called it the Chitlin Circuit Tour, but I feel
like it's not that deep to where people should be outraged.

Speaker 1 (44:22):
And Beyonce's philanthropy with no but she has donated a
lot of money to these smaller cities that have black rodeos,
and so she has done her job.

Speaker 3 (44:41):
Yeah, because I mean it's all big cities. I understand that,
but I still don't feel like people should be that
goddamn outraged by you know, like people just be up
in arms by everything.

Speaker 1 (44:52):
I think with the she could at least hit one
little chi Yeah, one little I mean she going no,
she ain't going nowhere.

Speaker 4 (45:03):
But like I said, I.

Speaker 1 (45:06):
Feel it on both ends because like I said, I
just really don't think those cities have the capacity too.
And the reason I say that, we went to Macon, Georgia,
making right outside of Atlanta for an eighty five south
show that traffic, they couldn't do it. Yeah, they didn't
have enough people to direct the traffic. And this was

(45:27):
for eighty five and eighty five is big.

Speaker 4 (45:29):
But obviously they're not Beyonce. So if a Macon can't
handle eighty.

Speaker 1 (45:33):
Five, what you think a Birmingham or a Tuscaloose is
gonna do it?

Speaker 4 (45:37):
Fucking Beyonce, bro I.

Speaker 3 (45:40):
Mean, I'm not gonna lie eat.

Speaker 4 (45:45):
That's I understand.

Speaker 1 (45:46):
That's an Alabama game, but this is Beyonce baby.

Speaker 7 (45:52):
Yeah yeah, yeah, okay mmm.

Speaker 1 (46:17):
Yeah. So basically Shane was saying, like in Alabama, they
can handle the capacity of like the roll tide and
it be a lot of people and they can handle it.
So but I do agree, I feel like she could
have found one little at least one little city to
do it.

Speaker 4 (46:32):
But I'm not mad.

Speaker 1 (46:32):
I'm going yea, we gonna see shop.

Speaker 3 (46:35):
We're gonna be there with our had sound in our
cowboy boots. You know, I've been waiting on this moment personally,
I grew up.

Speaker 1 (46:42):
So we gonna get into topic Nomber two.

Speaker 3 (46:45):
But topic Nomber two, I wanted to talk about gas
lighting yourself because we always talk about other people gaslightness,
but I think people never really talk about how sometimes
we gas light ourselves out of opportunities, are out of
doing certain things in life. So like, what do y'all
think about gask y'all? Do y'all think that there's something
that people actually do well?

Speaker 1 (47:06):
I think we definitely gaslight ourselves out of situations, and
I also think we gaslight ourselves when people are dealing
with us. Yeah, yeah, So I think sometimes like if
you're in a relationship or a friendship, or you're at
work and you have a manager who is talking to
you crazy, and you're like, well, you know, maybe he's
stressed out or she stressed out, and the only reason
they're doing this because no, they're disrespectful as but and

(47:27):
you need to check that shit. I think a lot
of times we make excuses for other people out of
love or you feel like you need this job. But
I think we need to stop staying in spaces where
we aren't felt valued. And I know I did that.
I stayed at TEGF. Friday's for ten years. They didn't
value me, right, you know what I'm saying. I think
even at my job that I had, I was so

(47:47):
good at my job and they fired me. Remember I'll
walk to your house and my little bit to the
side flats. Yeah, And I was so sad I lost
my job, I was saying too. I was so upset.
But one thing about me, and Drea knows, is about me.
When I start anything, I don't care if I'm working
at Burger King, I don't care if I'm at a
Fortune five hundred company.

Speaker 4 (48:06):
I'm giving my awe.

Speaker 1 (48:07):
And I know, like as a person who has I
run my own company now versus being a worker, we
give so much to these jobs and we and we
have these people who treat us like if you die,
they're gonna have somebody there tomorrow. So if you aren't appreciated,
it's okay to move around from these spaces. If you

(48:28):
have a friend who is treating you like you don't
like to be treated. It's okay to move around from
that friend, especially in relationships. We do this, you will
have a man or a woman who is talking crazy
to you. Oh he stress, work or stop making excuses
for people, because at the end of the day, there
is no excuse.

Speaker 4 (48:46):
To treat somebody bad, period.

Speaker 1 (48:48):
I agree, and treating people bad as a reflection of
how your life is going. I've seen that quote when
you do people bad, it's because your life is bad,
bitch and leave me. You know.

Speaker 2 (49:00):
I learned from my mom not to takee bs from people.

Speaker 1 (49:04):
Now. I used to put up with it, like.

Speaker 2 (49:06):
At jobs and stuff and give it my all, like
you said, But I guess because they happened so much.

Speaker 1 (49:12):
Now I'm like, girl, who you talking to? It's like, girl,
you let me cut you off? You know what she did?

Speaker 6 (49:18):
Girl?

Speaker 4 (49:19):
You know they call you.

Speaker 1 (49:20):
I just want to know why I ain't calling me
last couple girl, Girl, you're goron my girl.

Speaker 3 (49:25):
I mean.

Speaker 1 (49:25):
And that's the thing about people. I feel like people
definitely usually know what I mean.

Speaker 3 (49:30):
Is they just be trying to see I.

Speaker 1 (49:34):
Don't miss nothing. So when y'all are in those situations, now, like,
how do y'all take up for yourself, like what are
y'all doing?

Speaker 4 (49:41):
So you feel like somebody.

Speaker 1 (49:42):
Gased like you and they playing in your face or
they treating you bad?

Speaker 4 (49:46):
How do you take up for yourself?

Speaker 1 (49:47):
Girl? I'd be at home sometimes I let this ship
go by and I'd be like, you should have said
this head. I call that motherfucker bad girl. Look, I
know we apologize about the ship, but look bitch y'all.
You know, and it's a whole other argument.

Speaker 2 (50:01):
But uh I I love to stand up for myself.

Speaker 4 (50:06):
I used to be so afraid to do.

Speaker 2 (50:07):
That because I felt like I didn't have the power to,
especially as a child, like ooh, girl, people run off
me in school. But I also had a I don't
give a fuck mind like girl, you know to hell.
But now it is so good to stand up for yourself.
It just makes your mental like better, like it. Just
make sure you be like, damn, but you did that.

(50:28):
You know what I'm saying, Patch yourself on the back.
So it is very important to stand to yourself. Don't
let anybody mistreat you, run over you, take advantage of you,
especially if you are like an entrepreneur or anything like.

Speaker 1 (50:38):
Uh uh yeah, that can't fly. My book what about you?

Speaker 4 (50:42):
How you take up for you?

Speaker 3 (50:42):
I agree, but I feel like I have never really
had a problem taking up for myself, like I would
cush you out with the quakness.

Speaker 1 (50:48):
I'm like that now, Yeah, you brought me up absolutely Now.

Speaker 3 (50:52):
I feel like if you don't take up for yourself,
who else gonna take for you? And if you don't
take up for yourself, people think that they can keep
playing ya bab And you're not about to keep playing
in my face like one of us gotta go and
it ain't gonna be me, It's gonna be you.

Speaker 1 (51:05):
Got to get the fuck.

Speaker 2 (51:06):
On and you Yeah, girl, now you crazy, not like
you the problem you started with starting ship, your outside entity.

Speaker 1 (51:14):
You're the one that was me in real today.

Speaker 3 (51:16):
It means to me now I'm wrong because I said
something like I don't know. I think you definitely have
to take up for yourself all the time, and people
should advocate for themself way more than they do. Like
I don't know, I think people often don't take up
for themselves because they're scared to lose people, like they
scared to lose the person like oh, if I say
something something to them and rub them the wrong way.

(51:37):
They probably not gonna fuck with me nowhere. If they
treating you bad and they not a good person, you
don't need to care if they fucking with you either way.

Speaker 2 (51:44):
I agree with that you need you got to cut
that baggage your life that God want you to get
rid of that, like so you can progress to the
next level. So it's like, girl, mmm, I think that's
something I'm definitely working on because I don't take up
for myself.

Speaker 4 (51:58):
My friends take up for me.

Speaker 1 (51:59):
Yeah, d like nobody say so many of me. I'd
be like, I'll be like, they'd be like, let's stop
doing that, said my we Yeah, I am a cry
baby like everything, like, but I'm also like everything makes
me cry if I'm happy and I'm sad if I'm mad.

(52:20):
So I sometimes like I avoid conflicts a lot. And
for me, it's not necessarily that I'm scared to lose
that person. I'm just like it makes me uncomfortable, it
gets so and I sometimes it's like I be wanting
to take up for myself just but I just be like,
you know what, Okay, I'd be like, okay, like all right,
I just you know, I'm like that in relationships I'm

(52:43):
like that, like with my sister. My sister's a tourist.
Like sometimes my Like, my sister went off on me
last week and I was like okay, and I didn't
talk to her for like two days.

Speaker 4 (52:51):
She was like what are you doing?

Speaker 1 (52:53):
I was like, you hate me? She's like, girl, what
is you talking about? Like, Oh, I am just like that.
I don't know, but it is something that I know
that I need to work on, and I also need
to not I'm working on not being so sensitive too, yeah,
because a lot of times I will take the tiniest
things to heart and I'm just like, oh, somebody doesn't
one thing, I'm like, they hate me.

Speaker 2 (53:13):
I'm like that too in the night, if somebody don't
reach out to me, I'd be like because I always
reach out to my friends, right, And I'm the type
of person like they can't for advice, Like, bitch, you
went through it.

Speaker 1 (53:24):
Let me pull up at your house, like you know
what I'm saying, get you back in the mood. But
who the hell I'm checking on me?

Speaker 2 (53:29):
And I just be like, well, bitch, you know you
was the breast two weeks ago, and I came and
got your ass together and they're like, girl, now you're
like you ain't reached out to me in a couple
of days, and now like, girl, what's going on?

Speaker 1 (53:38):
But I have a friend like that. I have a
friend like that.

Speaker 3 (53:43):
And then like I'm kind of the opposite, Like I
be feeling like, Okay, if you're gonna call me, and
if I don't call you for like two weeks, it
ain't no change in our friendship, you know, like maybe
I got something going on. And I feel like sometimes
that's how people have to look at it too, like
maybe the other person in life is just a little bit.

Speaker 1 (54:00):
We're still cool. I still love you. But she felt
that way to let.

Speaker 3 (54:03):
You like, I just feel like I'm always calling you.
First thing, you don't never call me? And I was like, what, girl,
I didn't know he was keeping telling.

Speaker 1 (54:09):
I'm not gonna lie out that friend. I don't give
a fuck. If I call you four days in a row,
it's gonna be a fifth. Yeah, right, I'm finna call
you me too. I'm gonna call I don't I don't
keep tabs on.

Speaker 4 (54:20):
Oh I called her last right?

Speaker 1 (54:21):
I call her thirteen times? Yeah, I will, and I'll
call back to back. If you don't answer. I hate that.

Speaker 3 (54:28):
Oh that means and now you could see the video
not to what right my phone?

Speaker 1 (54:34):
I'll call back if she don't answer again, I'll be like, hey,
I called you, girl. I got a fear of.

Speaker 2 (54:38):
That to call you like four times back to back,
and I just be like, girl, and somebody died?

Speaker 1 (54:42):
What happened? Right? Seven thirty? God? What's going on? Ship?

Speaker 3 (54:51):
But I do think if your friend never, like, if
a person never call you first, then I do kind
of feel like that's a little bit of like a
red flag.

Speaker 1 (54:59):
What do ya thinking of relationship? Though? Wait, if the
person never call you first?

Speaker 2 (55:03):
Yeah, or you like, are you if you always the
one that's like, you.

Speaker 1 (55:07):
Know what's crazy? I think?

Speaker 4 (55:09):
I like, I'm a creature of habit.

Speaker 1 (55:12):
So every day my man calls me first in the morning,
I don't play that shit. You call me in the
morning first, and he text me, and I'm not being like,
oh he has a no, that's just what we do. Yeah,
And sometimes I do call him first or first in
the morning every now and then. But I think that's
just the thing that so it's not like, oh he
only because throughout the day we're calling each other and

(55:32):
we're texting each other, but how we get that day started?
Because he is a extreme morning person. He wakes up
like five six in the morning, so I think it's
like a pattern that we have. Like, But again, I
don't keep tabs on it. I just know, Okay, his
day has already started. I'm fill sleep. I don't.

Speaker 4 (55:50):
I'm not a riseing grind ass bit me either.

Speaker 1 (55:53):
I rise, rise, and then I'm a grind right, I
rise and shit right, rise the bath. Yes, I don't
rise and grind. He is a riser and grinder. That's
not right. So I don't necessarily keep tabs on that.
But like I said, my relationship, my friendships, anything, I
don't keep tab Now, if you're early dating stages and

(56:16):
you're always calling him first, I think that's like a
red flat because men love to chase. Yes, honey, they do.
I agree.

Speaker 3 (56:25):
I feel like if he really feeling you, he's gonna
be blowing your phone up, especially in the beginning. If
he not calling you in this early on, I feel
like as a relationship for gress, you know, y'all, donet
got used to each other, he probably.

Speaker 1 (56:37):
Not gonna call first. All.

Speaker 3 (56:39):
Yeah, but in the beginning, I think if a man
really like you, yeah, he gonna pursue you.

Speaker 1 (56:44):
So if he not calling, that's what I say. I
get my man about eleven, and once it's eleven, I'm
like up and I donet scrolled enough.

Speaker 4 (56:52):
I'm like, oh, let me see what he's doing. I'll
call him.

Speaker 1 (56:54):
You'll call what I'm saying, But yeah, I don't think
you should keep tabs on stuff like that. Like early,
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(58:23):
bead is our sex topic of the week, but we're
gonna obviously do something a little different, okay, girl for
you today because.

Speaker 4 (58:33):
You know, I like to pride in your business.

Speaker 1 (58:35):
So you are a sexual? Correct on whatever the the
heir's sex little honey. One thing about me, I'm not
a sexual. I know I know what I like. I
like mens honey. You know, y you know I like
I like my men's honey.

Speaker 2 (58:50):
I did not know that, Yes, I think that was
like back in twenty eighteen, twenty seventeen.

Speaker 1 (58:56):
You know how the motherfuckers get.

Speaker 2 (58:57):
They get confused and shipping when it goes you know,
you know, and then they'd be like, well, hey.

Speaker 1 (59:01):
I'm gay, you know. But yeah, yeah, I mean okay,
so you do like me. I never knew that this
whole time. I thought you were. But I'm a virgin,
that's what I mean.

Speaker 4 (59:12):
Yeah, I'm a veron good.

Speaker 3 (59:14):
I do remember, like seeing that you said you were asexual.

Speaker 1 (59:18):
I didn't even know what the hair asexual was at
the time. Money claim the reason like I heard you
say it a while back as well. But you're so
private with your personal life and I've never seen you
with anyone, right, and you never talk about your private
life either. So I'm like, okay, maybe she still identifies
as that, you know what I'm saying. So you like
me and so but what do you so what do

(59:38):
you identify as sexually? What you mean like my like,
do you identify as like gay? Yeah you can say gay? Yeah, okay, okay,
all right, so you do your topic then the one
that you said first, because my topic was about the
a sexual but you said you wanted to talk about
her being a virgin. Yes, I did.

Speaker 3 (59:57):
I wanted to talk about being a virgin and navigating dating,
Like how do you do that?

Speaker 1 (01:00:02):
How do the conversations go?

Speaker 3 (01:00:03):
When you normally tell a guy, look, I don't get
down like that, I'm not heavy.

Speaker 1 (01:00:08):
Six, they'd be like what and see I'm a scorpio,
so they'd be like you cannot right. It's like girl,
you you're lying to me, Like yeah, you're lying. But
I'd be like, I'm dead for real, Like I don't know.

Speaker 2 (01:00:22):
I just think that sex for me, like I love
cuddling hugs and you know, just being under someone, but
just having sex out of time. Like it was this
one guy who I had went on the date with
and he was like a sex free county like ooh girl,
just talking about what he would.

Speaker 1 (01:00:37):
Do to me.

Speaker 2 (01:00:38):
And I was just say, look, we ain't even got
an appetite to jail. You're talking about hell is going on?

Speaker 3 (01:00:43):
Try bye, that's gonna turn off to about early right.

Speaker 1 (01:00:49):
And I'm a version like you trying you're gonna break
me in? And shit, girl, ain't no house. So are
you waiting for like marriage? Are you waiting for that
special like person? A serious relationship, Like, what are you
waiting for? Or do you not want to at all?
I don't even know what the hell I'm waiting for.
A girl.

Speaker 2 (01:01:07):
God could have somebody in my damn bed to ma, right,
I just I locked the key, honey, Okay, But I honestly,
it's just nasty, y'all. It's like, let me tell y'all.

Speaker 1 (01:01:20):
I had a friend.

Speaker 2 (01:01:23):
Who like was just taking it safe and just caught hip.
And it's just like, girl, if that was me, like,
I don't know what the hell to do, and it's
just like you know what I'm saying, i'd be so scared,
like you just never know, like you know. But honestly,
I don't know what I'm waiting for. I mean, I

(01:01:44):
think God, will you know? Yeah, right, person, I'm not
gonna lie to you. I had a friend who she
was a virgin all.

Speaker 1 (01:01:52):
Throughout high school and she waited till like college.

Speaker 4 (01:01:56):
And I remember I finally like because.

Speaker 1 (01:01:58):
It was like seven of us in high school that
really close, and when she finally lost her virginia, she
was like, it was horrible. It was this, it was it.
I'm like, oh my gosh, you waited all this time
and it suck. And my first time I lost my
virginity when I was like fifteen sixteen, and it was
a magical time. It was my hoschol sweetheart. We weren't
in love, babe, I loved him down, and I always

(01:02:19):
think of that like a good it, Like my first
time was a good memory for me. So I say
I say all that to say, like now that you're like,
you know, and it was right. You've said that before though,
like my first time was like I remember it like
it was yesterday. So I feel like, since you've waited
so long, at least bare minimum, make sure it's with

(01:02:40):
somebody like you've been with you in a serious relationship,
because even if y'all do break up and not be together,
you want it to be like a good memory, right, Yeah, yeah,
like somebody who really versus somebody like, oh right, that's
a virgin I wanted to break it in. That's what
I was gonna say.

Speaker 3 (01:02:55):
I'm sure you probably think about that too, because that's
something that I would think you have to worry about
as well as people even wanting to date. You are
wanting to try to get it because nobody got it before.

Speaker 2 (01:03:04):
It ain't nobody got the body, honey. You know, don't
nobody know you know what they It's just like god,
they be wanting it, like oh and they be knowing
to girl like when I be in the club, don't
mean be.

Speaker 1 (01:03:19):
Flocking, yes, girl with their shirt something. They girl. They
acting like like they security guards.

Speaker 4 (01:03:26):
Honey, they just like come over here.

Speaker 1 (01:03:27):
You know. Yeah, I don't know my.

Speaker 2 (01:03:30):
Girlfriends, you know, just act all shy and shit because
I am shy in real life.

Speaker 1 (01:03:34):
And that's another thing.

Speaker 2 (01:03:36):
I'm so shy like what people see like on Instagram
or girl in person, I just be sar reserves like.

Speaker 1 (01:03:42):
Oh yes, really, that's so funny. And that's why I
say I think too. On top of that, you being
a baddy like you are bad as fucking you're a virgin,
you bad as hell, you a boss like it's just
a lot. And then on top of that who you are,
some people just want you because of who you are.

(01:04:03):
Outside of that, that bussy could be bust wide, it
don't matter, you know what I'm saying. No, I say
that there's a lot of people who are popular and
they're they're not virgins, but people want them because of
who they are.

Speaker 4 (01:04:16):
So the fact that that bussy ain't been busted while.

Speaker 1 (01:04:21):
You you're a batty. But this is a ride.

Speaker 4 (01:04:25):
It's you know what I'm saying, I'm being honest.

Speaker 3 (01:04:29):
It's you keep just glazing over that bussy.

Speaker 1 (01:04:32):
It's in pristine conditions. Because I've seen some blown out bussy.
I get on ex videos. I know what goes on.
I have watched gay porn before because Mandy sent it
to me. Mandy from Decisions Decisions. It's not horrible decision anymore.
But Mandy has sent me some ship before. You know,

(01:04:53):
she likes to pay. She do like get down like girl,
and there be some big peace, said Tony. Got to
hear they get that big. You know what's crazy. So
I'm not gonna lie. I be seeing the the baddy
like they be bad like titties done, and they're having
a little they be having a p p right, having

(01:05:15):
a big one. I'll be shy about it. The girl sick,
you know, bearing on showing that mother and I'll be
scrolling to be swagging to the ground. I'm like, whata
what happened to girl? Did you? So?

Speaker 4 (01:05:35):
Do you attract a lot of straight man?

Speaker 1 (01:05:38):
I do?

Speaker 2 (01:05:38):
I attract a lot of straight man, and I love
my man to be. I like trade, so trade is
like the girls canery him.

Speaker 4 (01:05:45):
They don't be knowing.

Speaker 1 (01:05:46):
I like a little bit.

Speaker 2 (01:05:48):
Of feminine, you know, you just never know. But I
like a mascular man, honey, because.

Speaker 1 (01:05:53):
I feel like I'm the girl. I am the girl
of the relationship. I'm soft.

Speaker 4 (01:05:56):
It's not anything else.

Speaker 2 (01:05:58):
But lady, lady, it's given, you know, classy, it's given.

Speaker 1 (01:06:03):
You know, it ain't giving these right. So I need
I need a man. I need a masklar man. I'm
not gonna lie.

Speaker 4 (01:06:11):
I'm probably more masculine.

Speaker 1 (01:06:12):
Than you, Damn I am. We was walking together, like,
look at that trans girl heels. I look, I still
got my heels on. The girl little walking in my sneakers, Like,
what's up? Something never it's given. It's very like you.

(01:06:35):
And because I know it's a thing in the community,
they say, the girls that are like non detectable.

Speaker 4 (01:06:39):
Yes, like I think because you're.

Speaker 1 (01:06:40):
So well known, people know. But like if you're you're
not detecting your I still don't believe me. Yeah, Like
if you just talked, I don't know if I believe
you either. I need to see that.

Speaker 2 (01:06:51):
But you know, I had a girl in a mob
one time she did not believe me, and girl, she
was like, I just don't believe you. Like she was like,
I've been following me for so long and I just
can't believe you. I said, let me see your hand,
I said, do you feel this.

Speaker 1 (01:07:08):
Right? I said, girl, you know it ain't.

Speaker 4 (01:07:11):
I got everything about you is petite.

Speaker 1 (01:07:14):
Yes. So usually when you look at people, look, my
hairs are probably be fifteen sixty. Yes.

Speaker 4 (01:07:25):
Yes, I wasn't say you know, oh, look you were
That's what I said.

Speaker 1 (01:07:31):
They're gonna look at me and be like, no, I
got they gonna look at all us, be like it
ain't now. I want to let me get all of
y'all numbers. Honey.

Speaker 4 (01:07:42):
But are you dating though? Are you dating right now?

Speaker 1 (01:07:44):
No? No, I ain't got nobody. That's up my roster. Honey.

Speaker 4 (01:07:46):
You know how God send you? Somebody used to be like, yeah,
I ain't got nobody. But are you looking though? Are
you like on the prown?

Speaker 2 (01:07:53):
I wouldn't mind looking, you know, for a little something,
you know you got to have, you you know, something going.

Speaker 1 (01:07:59):
I don't look something you know, yeah, change or something. Yeah.

Speaker 2 (01:08:03):
I just love a man that really gets to the
small things like the details, you know, like, how did
you know my my car needy gas?

Speaker 1 (01:08:11):
You know?

Speaker 2 (01:08:12):
How did you know I needed some toilet paper? You
know it's some tissue.

Speaker 4 (01:08:15):
How does you know this?

Speaker 1 (01:08:16):
You know? So I like that. I love a man
that listens. Yes, yes, the romance. Romance ain't dead, right,
it's not romance easy dead.

Speaker 3 (01:08:25):
And I feel like it's just a lost art form,
Like yeah, I just not romantic.

Speaker 1 (01:08:30):
They not They like got that hood ship and I
looked five hundred and five thousand tax time now for girls,
watch your taxi? Okay, Oh my god. Oh I had
a cousin that got got like that. Girl.

Speaker 2 (01:08:45):
So, girl, she met a man right, and she got
a new car. They both started working in May. Girl
she had a man, honey, and he was a I
flipped two thousand into twenty thousand, and girl, she gave
him down there, all that tax money.

Speaker 1 (01:08:57):
Honey, you seem never seen it again. He flips. She
he flipped on her, He flipped the door, got the
hell out, Okay, gonna give him that money.

Speaker 4 (01:09:11):
And she was like, I was like, girl, I told
you how.

Speaker 1 (01:09:13):
To do it. That is terrible.

Speaker 4 (01:09:14):
You gotta stop. Don't give no, man, no, don't.

Speaker 1 (01:09:16):
Give that man none, they gonna flip it on the
next girl. Oh yeah, you know how bad it is
to like if you give a man money, then you
find out like he on a date with a girl.
He took that money.

Speaker 2 (01:09:27):
Money, Stop giving men be put up on that date
seat what That's why I can't.

Speaker 1 (01:09:32):
Be in a relationship.

Speaker 3 (01:09:33):
And every time I see him, so I would be like,
so you are my right, said, I'll walk up to
him while he go do you have my money?

Speaker 2 (01:09:40):
Let me call my brothers a cousin's honey. But you
know what I will say when you're a good person.

Speaker 1 (01:09:45):
So this is for the ladies who have given me
and money and it didn't work out in their favor,
because I know you gave that man money out of
the goodness of your heart. Because I'm gonna say this,
not that in this situation, I gave a man money.
But it's like, even if you give a man your
all and in a relationship, let me tell you how
calmer worked.

Speaker 4 (01:10:00):
Because I am not a believer in karma.

Speaker 1 (01:10:02):
I've said that before because I think sometimes it's just
things just happen. Yeah, yeah, but I had something that
happened to me. What two days ago, we got a
text in the group chat. And when I tell you,
I am not a petty person. I don't believe in revenge.
But it felt so good to laugh at somebody that

(01:10:23):
just did not believe in nothing. And it was like,
that's why you don't holpe people, because you never know
when you might need a favorite. And when I tell you,
I said, I gave that rich white woman left absolutely right. Oh,
it felt so good.

Speaker 4 (01:10:42):
It felt so good, And that's why I said, God,
don't play by me.

Speaker 1 (01:10:44):
I deserved though. So sometimes when you do good things
for people and you may feel hurt, just wait, just
wait on that karma, especially you chosen honey, God gonna speak.
Got in the car city. You know that's sorry. I'm sorry, Okay,

(01:11:17):
my bad. But I also think it's the difference between
doing things and expecting something back and just doing things
out of the goodness your heart. So I feel like
everything I've ever done for anybody in my life, my
friends can attest for this, I'm just doing it because
I fuck with you that heart, and I believe in
you or I love you. I don't need no payback
from nothing. So when I tell you, God, I had

(01:11:39):
a moment me Andrea had went on a trip. I
had a moment where I just woke up and I
was just crying and I was thanking guys because I
cannot believe this is my life and all the struggles
I went through, everything that I did for people that
maybe took me for granted stuff.

Speaker 4 (01:11:54):
You know what, God gave that back to me. Ten folks,
was gonna give it back to you. You know what
I'm saying.

Speaker 1 (01:12:00):
I gotta let friends borrow one thousands of dollars and
they didn't pay it back, and I'll just be like,
you know what, you can keep it y and honey,
God will find a way here. Next week, I have
a book in twenty thousand dollars, like damn girl, two thousands, twenty.
It's just like, hey man, thank you Jesus. He always
gonna look out for you. This story.

Speaker 3 (01:12:19):
And I always say too because my mom taught me this.
Don't ever lend people money that you not gonna be
okay if you don't get it big. You of course
y'all need to be paying people begs. Don't just go
around not paying people big. But at the same time,
you shouldn't give it out if you can't afford to
speak right, you know what I mean, because a lot
of the time people not gonna give you your money
big and that shit is fucked.

Speaker 1 (01:12:40):
U it is. My mama taught me like that, the
same thing.

Speaker 2 (01:12:44):
I have such a loving heart, and I'd be like, well,
damn if it was me, you know, I want somebody
to help me out here, and.

Speaker 1 (01:12:50):
Like I'll call my mom, boy it. She'd be like,
what I tell your ass about giving that damn money?
You could have gave it to me. Why they say it,
I ain't gonna get it from real life. Mine ain't worked. Okay,
look just calm down.

Speaker 3 (01:13:03):
They gonna get got But that's why you continue to
get blessed yet to give it herd.

Speaker 1 (01:13:08):
And one thing I will say about like, even like
hairstylists social media influencers, you have stood the test of time,
you know how, Like we'll hear about a hairstyle and
we have never heard about them again, or a social
media influencer and you never hear. So the fact that
you've been in this game for a long time and
you still killing it and still that's the blessing thing.

(01:13:31):
I'm like a Nicki Minaj, honey, the going Okay, see yes,
can't stop that trunk tu you know what I'm saying. Okay,
So now it's the Autumn of the week, Drea. What
you got for autom of the week this week?

Speaker 3 (01:13:43):
So for my item of the week, of course, it's
gonna be Mused Beauty Collection dot Com, which is my
cosmetics brand. Make sure you get your lip glosses, your
lip liners, Matt liqu with lipsticks.

Speaker 1 (01:13:54):
Y'all shall have jelly blisses.

Speaker 3 (01:13:56):
I also have on the eyeliner in a Mescira right now,
which is coming out really really soon. So of course
I had to bring you a little cute just because.

Speaker 1 (01:14:04):
I know you will make those girls.

Speaker 3 (01:14:07):
Yes, I wanted to give you a little basket in
the spirit of Valentine's Day.

Speaker 1 (01:14:13):
Everyonec honey, I got havening came out the people, that's kind.

Speaker 3 (01:14:38):
But yes, the messcar haven't came out yet, but it's
coming out next month and I'll make sure I see you.

Speaker 1 (01:14:43):
Thank you. I'body what you got in there?

Speaker 3 (01:14:46):
Some lip glosses. I gave her some of the jelly blushes.
I also gave her some of the lip liners.

Speaker 1 (01:14:51):
And I think it might be a few mad lip
liquid lipsticks in there. Let me tell you that jelly blush,
the jelly if you do like the light makeup look
one day, oh that flush. Yes, So it's gonna give like.

Speaker 3 (01:15:07):
It'll just give you like that little Rosie cheeks.

Speaker 1 (01:15:10):
That's why I said it's giving, like, Oh my god,
you invested me.

Speaker 4 (01:15:13):
That's what you need to do a commercial?

Speaker 1 (01:15:16):
Right, that'll your girl XP and it's Sugarl Dre and
the call. Y'all know. We have a segment on Poor
Minds called Item of the Week. But do you have
a product or something that you want to promote and
you want it featured on Poor Minds.

Speaker 3 (01:15:30):
Your opportunity is here period. If you have an item
or you have a business and you want to get
it promoted. We are now having slots available on the
Poor Minds episode. So if you would like to get
your product featured for Item of the Week, all you
need to do is send an email to Item of
the Week p M at gmail dot com. That's I
T E M O F T H E W e

(01:15:53):
E K p M at gmail dot com. Send us
an email and we'll work it out.

Speaker 1 (01:15:59):
We canna figure it out.

Speaker 3 (01:16:01):
Get your product, get your business sponsored, and yeah, make.

Speaker 1 (01:16:04):
You some money.

Speaker 4 (01:16:06):
We love to moret a small business now.

Speaker 1 (01:16:08):
And a black business said that, but.

Speaker 3 (01:16:10):
I Meaninade, any business is welcome.

Speaker 1 (01:16:16):
Okay. So now it's time to get into a about
about about bow Pal.

Speaker 4 (01:16:26):
Okay.

Speaker 1 (01:16:27):
So I say this a lot. One thing I have
curated all my social media accounts. My algorithm is fire.
So I'm a music head. I'm a music girlie. And
one thing I love is like seeing a new artist
that I haven't seen before, and I'm like, how did
this come up on my timeline? Because my algorithm is fired.

(01:16:48):
I found this small artist. She only gets like fourteen
thousand listens a month. But when I tell you, it's
so many superstars out there that we just haven't even
heard of. This song is such a good song. So
her name is Sid Franklin. The song is called Plastic Waterfalls.

Speaker 4 (01:17:04):
It is such a good song.

Speaker 1 (01:17:05):
It's basically about like she's in love with this guy
and everything was plastic. It was fake.

Speaker 4 (01:17:12):
It wasn't what she thought it was. You know, you
see a waterfall and.

Speaker 1 (01:17:15):
You feel like it's so beautiful, then you get up
close and it's plastic. Yes, when I tell you, I'm
a I'm a lyrics girl. So the lyrics in this
song are just so beautiful. It gives like an R
and B vibe. So yeah, that's my bop of the week.
Like I said, music ain't dead, y'all. Just not looking
for it, y'all. Not it's such a good song, Like
it's very rare that I come across the song and

(01:17:36):
I'm like, oh, I'm excited about this. So yeah, Sid
Franklin Plastic Waterfalls Fire, I'm fucking with you said, I'm
rooting for you.

Speaker 4 (01:17:44):
Okay, go download that all right?

Speaker 1 (01:17:47):
What you're listening to? Drea?

Speaker 3 (01:17:49):
So I like Loto and Playboy CARDI new song, oh
blig song.

Speaker 1 (01:17:54):
Yeah, I love the album. Yeah, yeah, I like the
little intro.

Speaker 3 (01:17:59):
I like intro, but I just also I love when
the girls get on the track and just be popping
they sheep.

Speaker 1 (01:18:04):
Yes, you know what I mean. So shout out to
a Loto she wants to play Boy Cardy because I didn't.
I was like, he hadn't really been making no music lately.

Speaker 4 (01:18:12):
That's because he's been over there giving Iggy azillia.

Speaker 1 (01:18:15):
No, I see, you don't have to make.

Speaker 3 (01:18:17):
Music, yes, torturing that okay, but he had a nice
little run at one point. Remember he had that song
everybody was singing, woke up to the niggas get like, yeah,
I think that was his first song, right, yeah, But
then he had a few more songs after day, and
then I feel like.

Speaker 1 (01:18:31):
He's just dot well you know what. I yes, right, torturing,
I told you to.

Speaker 4 (01:18:37):
But I think his music now is more so like
it's kind of rockish, yeah, rock that rock, rap loozy
kind of vibe.

Speaker 1 (01:18:45):
Okay, So I think it's just why yeah, he's making music,
but I don't think it's like for us probably oversea
for us, Yeah, it's for us probably. Yeah.

Speaker 4 (01:18:55):
You know they're hitting a five six seven.

Speaker 1 (01:18:56):
Eights, right, you know?

Speaker 4 (01:18:58):
So okay, that's a good bye.

Speaker 1 (01:19:00):
Though. I like, I like a lot of a lot
of talks that ship, didn't y'all know. I'm an R
and B head, Honey, you know it means carry Hilson.

Speaker 2 (01:19:11):
You know, to a good old Kelly you got deep
in bad, yes, ma'am, Honey, I mean.

Speaker 1 (01:19:21):
A Marie who I love me so good, A Marie
Mary J. Blige. I mean I love R and B.
I of course the queen of rap, honey, Nick, Yes,
she's that girl, will always be. I love her.

Speaker 2 (01:19:36):
I mean I'm I'm very versatile in my music, but
I love R and B. Like that's just I'm a
hopeless for manny.

Speaker 1 (01:19:43):
So what have you been doing like this week? Like
what's your song that you just cannot stop playing? And
it could be new or old new or oh yeah,
it could be new old. I really haven't been getting
into the new music y'all that I feel like, Yeah,
it's like maybe.

Speaker 2 (01:20:00):
It's because I'm not really doing my research on underground
artist that really made it yet, but like I'm just
on my way here listening to system a Marie period
your Touch album, I was on the right right again.

Speaker 1 (01:20:14):
Look you know Scott is another one. Honey. She was
ooh girl, love love rain, love it, old school, I
love it. That's what I said. Will you have an ear? Yes,
it's hard to enjoy music now because the mainstream stuff

(01:20:35):
is not necessarily enjoyable. The Grammys just passed and I
don't know what their agenda was. But Chapel Rowan, I've
never got heard of her. I tried to listen to it,
but when I saw that performance, right, that song has
been stuck in my head. Oh my god.

Speaker 3 (01:20:53):
I tried to listen to some of her music too
after the Grammys, and I.

Speaker 1 (01:20:57):
Was just like, Okay, you know, actually it's not bad.
So a long time ago I tried to listen to him.
I was like, no, after that Grammy, I said, I
get it now. I see the what's his name, Benson Boone?
He flips off of these beautiful things and all, maybe
he gonna flip off that PM.

Speaker 3 (01:21:17):
Right, He's like Chris Brown, you ain't the only one
jumbling talking about people flipping Remember last time?

Speaker 1 (01:21:23):
Why last time?

Speaker 3 (01:21:25):
He talks about somebody flipping off of building?

Speaker 1 (01:21:27):
What happened? What I did?

Speaker 3 (01:21:29):
He talks about somebody flipping off of building?

Speaker 4 (01:21:32):
No, I don't, I promise by the same way, I
don't remember nothing.

Speaker 1 (01:21:39):
Who flipped off a building? Somebody flip?

Speaker 8 (01:21:42):
I don't know.

Speaker 1 (01:21:43):
Did I get drunk?

Speaker 3 (01:21:45):
Yes, you got drank, don't twitter?

Speaker 4 (01:21:47):
We folkey flipping off a building?

Speaker 1 (01:21:52):
Oh oh my god? Next topic, because I got drug
to hell, we definitely, oh my god, let's move on.
Let's move on. Okay, so before we get into this
last topic, because we've been to wrap it up, Alonzo,
this has been so much fun. I love you, like

(01:22:18):
honestly I love I was telling my friend before we
got here, I'm like, oh my gosh, I just I
never know how people's energy gonna be. Yeah, we've been
doing this a long time and sometimes you see people
online and they're so bubbly and so this and that,
and then you get in perfect you get in a.

Speaker 4 (01:22:32):
Person, they're like yes.

Speaker 1 (01:22:34):
So for all the listeners out there and people who
are fans of you, thank you for being who you
really are and showing up and being your real, authentic self.

Speaker 4 (01:22:42):
You have educated us today me about you and I
know I can call you girl girl, one of the girl.
So do you give good advice?

Speaker 1 (01:22:53):
Yeah? Okay, so we're gonna do our advice segment.

Speaker 4 (01:22:57):
This is called pour your Heart Out.

Speaker 1 (01:22:59):
If you want your question answered on the show, and
make sure you email us at ask poor Minds at
gmail dot com. If you're a Patreon member, put that
in a headline so you can skip the line.

Speaker 4 (01:23:10):
Okay, So I have questioned one.

Speaker 1 (01:23:13):
All right, So it says I'm thirty two and I've
always dated my age or older. I'm a guy that
likes guys. By the way, and I'm in Atlanta, so
y'all know it's a shit show. I met this guy
who on paper checks all the boxes. He's six', eight very,
handsome has a great, job was raised, right y'all know

(01:23:34):
that's where, nowadays and we've met a few times in.
Person it's been a vibe so. Far the thing, is
he's twenty. Seven. Now i've, Dated i've dated men five
plus years older than, me and they were all a
joke in one or multiple.

Speaker 4 (01:23:50):
Ways but dating younger has never been in my.

Speaker 1 (01:23:53):
Ministry would y'all keep seeing where it? Goes or be
like fuck them. Kids i'm a lover like, Y'ALL i
can't from, love And i'm, cute SO i Know i'll
find my, Person but never in a million years THAT
i think he'd be younger than. Me curious to hear
y'all thoughts how he's thirty two and be thirty two
and then a man is twenty? Seven, yes and he
usually dates. Older, god go see that.

Speaker 2 (01:24:15):
Nigga, yeah stay that, Nigga. Huney don't judge he, right
don't judge him just because of his. Age, HONEY i
could see if you said twenty three or, one you.

Speaker 1 (01:24:23):
Know then you on the butter line On. Kelly oh you, know, so,
yes go see that, man, Honey go see that. Man
you thirty, two you're getting.

Speaker 2 (01:24:32):
Older everybody's getting, Older, honey he checks all the baptis.

Speaker 1 (01:24:35):
To go check on, him cause if you, DON'T i
will right.

Speaker 4 (01:24:38):
Hello six him to right THINK i got balls, anyway.

Speaker 1 (01:24:44):
AND i SEE.

Speaker 7 (01:24:47):
I.

Speaker 3 (01:24:47):
AGREE i definitely feel like if he was a little bit,
younger THEN i can understand you having your reservations about.

Speaker 1 (01:24:54):
It but twenty seven and you thirty, two, like have
a good. Time see WHERE i.

Speaker 3 (01:24:58):
GO i, mean cause it might not even and end
up being something that's, serious but just see where it.

Speaker 1 (01:25:02):
Goes i'm just.

Speaker 3 (01:25:03):
Not give him a chance just because he's.

Speaker 1 (01:25:06):
Young he've any, Day, yeah BECAUSE i usually get. OLDER
i like my niggas knocking on depth, door damn and
mama me not one but in the, grave. Yob i'm
like where you live and may be like puny nursing
home policy looking, Right, yes but it's not my name on.

(01:25:28):
It you know What i'm. Saying but my man is
younger than. Me he's thirty, Two i'm thirty. Five i'm
about to be thirty. Six SO i feel like sometimes
it'd be the ones that you least expect that'll take
you by. Surprise let that six a man take you
for a rule you might like you eight honey likes
THAT i? Agree, Okay question number, Two, Hey, Lex drea And.

Speaker 3 (01:25:49):
TIE i Watched Poor mindes religiously and DECIDED i want
to pour my heart, OUT o. L i cut off
one of my close friends since high, school AND i
don't know how to feel about the. SITUATION i have
a two old and from the MOMENT i found out
THAT i was, pregnant she told, me damn near every
minute to get an. Abortion i've had an abortion before
and it just wasn't an. Option it confused me because

(01:26:11):
she never told any of our other friends to get an,
abortion and they are like two or three kids in
her mom died WHILE i was, pregnant AND i still
made a way to her homegoing even THOUGH i was high.
Risk i've always been there for her, daughter buying gifts
every holiday and, birthday but she hasn't even seen my.

Speaker 1 (01:26:28):
Son other than.

Speaker 3 (01:26:29):
Pictures then she messaged me On New year saying her
resolution is to be a better friend to. Me that
really rubbed me the wrong way Because i've always been
a good friend to. HER i could be a little,
defensive but do you ladies think she is a weirdo
or AM i just overreacting and she was trying to
give me friendly, advice thanks.

Speaker 1 (01:26:46):
Ladies So i'm seeing it from two points of. View
so her reaching out and Saying i'm trying to be
a better, friend and you still getting offended by, that like,
damn what can she? Do SO i think if somebody
is genuinely, saying, Hey i'm trying to be a bit her,
friend BECAUSE i had that conversation with two of my
close friends like a couple of years, ago And i'm,
Like i'm trying to be a better friend THAN i.

(01:27:06):
Will and you got to give people a, chance especially
if you really care about. Them so that's, One BUT
i think it's more to the story because her telling
you to get, abortion she don't like your baby. Daddy
that's what it's.

Speaker 4 (01:27:17):
Giving she didn't want you to have them kids because
it baby attached to an eight shit.

Speaker 1 (01:27:22):
Nigga because a lot of times you been trying to save.
FOLKS i saved a few folks in my, life AND
i have been saved a few. TIMES R I, P
R I. P BUT i say all that to, say
sometimes your friends can see things that you don't, See
so tell us about your baby, Daddy so we can
give you a good. Answer if she stayed their friend
then come to see her.

Speaker 3 (01:27:41):
Kids, yeah she says she has always been near for
her friend's, daughter but her, DAUGHTER i, mean but she's
never came to see her, son only outside of.

Speaker 1 (01:27:49):
Features. Mmmm so see that's WHAT i caught.

Speaker 4 (01:27:52):
That, yeah because now the child's here.

Speaker 1 (01:27:56):
Already yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, okay, okay yeah. Yeah.

Speaker 2 (01:28:02):
Yeah like you said that she probably telling you to
get an abortion because of that. Man, yeah either that
either that man is no good, man or she might
be fucking with that.

Speaker 1 (01:28:12):
Man you never know how Some, yeah that that's. True,
so like you, said we need a little more to
a little more to the. Story LIKE i, said the
few times in my life That i've told a friend
not to have a baby by someone or have an,
abortion it had nothing to do with the, baby or
it had everything to do with the, man everything to
do with who the man.

Speaker 3 (01:28:32):
Was, yeah because she said too that she feels like
she told her to get an, abortion but she never
told none of the other friends to get an. Abortion
maybe they got a good, baby maybe they married in.
Relationships we don't, know because you didn't provide all of
that content you.

Speaker 1 (01:28:45):
Was given a one side of but, yeah BUT i
mean in some cases, though people do be being weird
though and.

Speaker 4 (01:28:52):
Hating, yes so sometimes If i'll tell, you don't get
pregnant because she's, like because you're gonna live a glamorousy like.

Speaker 1 (01:28:58):
Right And i'm gonna be here by. Myself. Yeah, no
do what's best in your. Heart, GOD i agree it
was best for. You you know you.

Speaker 3 (01:29:06):
CAN'T i feel like when it comes to situations like,
that not trying to be, funny but if it's coming
down to you having a, child you shouldn't be taking
your friend and no way this between you and your.

Speaker 1 (01:29:16):
Men but now that your child is, here as far
as y'all's friendship, goes if this person is somebody that
you care about and you're truly happy around, them reconcile the.
Relationship but if you feel like life is good And
i'm cool not being your, friend that's your. Insurrection, yeah
it's up to. You i'm all about give a onemore,
chance one, Chance, okay, alonzo let the people. Know, okay

(01:29:39):
let me ask you. This do you still take clients
to do their? Hair?

Speaker 4 (01:29:43):
Yes not Do, Okay SO i don't know how they can.

Speaker 1 (01:29:45):
Book.

Speaker 4 (01:29:45):
Okay so a lot of.

Speaker 2 (01:29:46):
People been asking me if you go to My, instagram
which IS i Am Alonzo, arnold you can click the
link in my bio and it'll say book and appointment
and you can book their honey and you can come
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Speaker 3 (01:30:02):
Need we booked up weeks And evans once And.

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Evan some people. DO i had a girl book in
twenty twenty. SEVEN i ain't even know my damn. Book yeah, Right,
CLAUDA i don't know what the hell she.

Speaker 2 (01:30:12):
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not beat you just coming up with Trot.

Speaker 1 (01:30:16):
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right it's gonna be Uh europe in a. Minute. Shit
So i'm just, like ooh, girl you, know but YES
i do. HERE i.

Speaker 2 (01:30:28):
DO i miss doing clients, here LIKE i used to
just do nothing but make wigs in the house AND
I i'm, like, DAMN i need to get back into you,
know doing her BECAUSE i get bored at.

Speaker 1 (01:30:37):
Home, yeah So i'm. Back, Okay so for how much
can somebody expect to? Spend so if you wander, everybody you,
know if you want to get your full lace. Wig
you got to get the heir for me Because i'll
be bringing plastic hair like. Plastic we don't want to
fall right amazon. Heir we need real.

Speaker 2 (01:30:56):
Hair, okay, now So i'm gonna amazon, way ain't gonna
lie to. You they looking, good But Bob parkingmount be
about twenty two.

Speaker 1 (01:31:04):
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Speaker 4 (01:31:07):
Money now do you accept after pay or? CLARINA i
need before?

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know if uh what if the acuity scheduling has. CLARINA
i don't know if they. Do you, know put your
Search skrill number if you got a good credit, right, yeah,
frontal what do you do so? IN i do do
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Speaker 2 (01:31:30):
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their hair for. Me so like let's, say if you
get like a twenty, two twenty six and or, so
when that's like one, thousand twelve, hundred do you.

Speaker 1 (01:31:40):
Still make you part? Wigs mm, HMM i still do
you part? Wigs?

Speaker 2 (01:31:43):
Well you know what my assistant girl that doesn't she
doesn't really. Good she moved back To, Africa so NOW
i got to find. SOMEBODY i, mean she made them
tracks flat.

Speaker 4 (01:31:52):
Yeah and, GIRL i was even, like, girl how do
you do?

Speaker 1 (01:31:55):
It you?

Speaker 2 (01:31:56):
Know SO i think the more PRACTICE i get on,
it it'll it'll be. Better But i'm talking about, them
damn Damn weeds was, seamless like it was like she
had a special type of cap that she get. Made
and the way she later tracked it feels like it's
nothing in your.

Speaker 1 (01:32:10):
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Speaker 4 (01:32:11):
That, Yes so what do you offer for two fifty
is not?

Speaker 1 (01:32:15):
Sick damn, MAN i got to get in, well. PRAYER
i give you a ten minute, call oh, right a,
little a little how to do a curl for five.
Minutes that's a good old quick. Week you. Know let
us we can find you and all that good. Stuff

(01:32:36):
you can find me On.

Speaker 2 (01:32:37):
INSTAGRAM i Am Alonzo. Arnold i've been ON x Or
twitter now a. Lot It's I'm Alonzo bitch and TikTok
Alongso arnold.

Speaker 1 (01:32:48):
Six so, yeah, OVER i love. YOU i love y'all.
TOO i feel like we for thirty years for a
good lunch date or. Something, YES i love it. Much
now right we Will. Okay now, Look i'm gonna try
to commission to get that. Clon that's gonna get My.
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Speaker 4 (01:33:40):
Got New patreon.

Speaker 1 (01:33:40):
Episodes so we are giving y'all content all we, go
get your hair, done you know What i'm. Saying pull
up a chair and watch all the content we're giving,
y'all and we'll see y'all next. Week you, may. Y'all
make sure y'all share the content like, subscribe follow all
that good. Stuff and let me say this before we close, out,
y'all there is One twitter account that is connected to Poor.

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Minds it's P.

Speaker 1 (01:34:05):
O you are underscore in my. Nds y'all are tagging
the wrong Poor minds. Page if you see at Poor
minds with no, underscore that is at fake. Page do
not follow that. Page, okay they block Me andrea and
the Poor minds page on, both so we only have One,
instagram One, twitter one.

Speaker 4 (01:34:26):
TikTok it's p. O you are underscore in.

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Fake facebook page on The facebook page it's our. Face
the crazy thing is Our facebook page actually have the
least amount of Filet so if you're On, facebook one
that's ours got the least amount.

Speaker 1 (01:34:43):
Of, file but one that's not us got like two
hundred and. Fifty thou make if you actually look at
the content because the caption.

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Is like whoever it, is don't Speak?

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English because their captures are like bumba? Clad should? Men
should men pay? Bill should men pay? Bill? Yes? No
check answer below block Block like that's literally with the.
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Speaker 1 (01:35:27):
Oh very.

Speaker 10 (01:35:31):
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Downside come in my bedroom and turn off the.

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you urs me bless me know your.

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Mind i'd rather be with you BECAUSE i love the
way you free.

Speaker 1 (01:36:07):
Mine and then, no other man that gives me. Wow
he makes me feel this.

Speaker 5 (01:36:14):
Way i'd rather be with you because you have the
heart to say care. Me i'd rather be with Youes,
no rather be with you.

Speaker 1 (01:36:31):
No way you look at? Me tell meto my? Eyes
what do they say to? You?

Speaker 4 (01:36:39):
Boy don't be shy ha ha she last not you,
man see.

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LOUD i am your. Woman i'll be along telling you low,
OH i am my soul connected meeting hollow so say
And i'm nois You oh my, GOODNESS i forgot the

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lyrics baby allow man laugh to. You it's like a
high no damn for you.

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All be with you because a live wream.

Speaker 8 (01:37:26):
Man make me make me feel this away hella be with,
you ear me.

Speaker 6 (01:37:39):
With.

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oh hi ha ha hey yeah, Wow i'd rather be
with you boo yeah yeah whoa. Boy i'm rather be

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shut hi issue? Yo yeah? Boy rather how you hearing that?
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i would rather be with.

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