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Speaker 1 (00:00):
Y'all take a shot with this if y'all at.

Speaker 2 (00:01):
Home, all right, to another good episode.

Speaker 1 (00:08):
And I just want to say these real quick.

Speaker 3 (00:17):
Me and Lex are real friends in real life. I
think No, I don't think them.

Speaker 1 (00:25):
How is no? They because.

Speaker 3 (00:30):
Because because I be fed up, like I feel like
I'm very much like I'm in an era of my
life where I don't respond to she on social media. Okay,
they gonna cancel her as they said, need to take
that after, but I just feel like I'm in an
era of my life where I don't respond to stuff
on social media, but I be seeing it and we
both be seeing it all the time. We're not gonna

(00:53):
quit doing Poor Minds anytime soon, Like oh yeah, okay,
I'm glad you. This is yeah, this is our she.
We are best friends. We love doing this show together.
We have covered so much ground, so much traction, made
so many accomplishments over the years together, and we still
have so much that we want to do. Lex really
has always wanted to like host reunion shows, and she

(01:15):
really wants to get in her bag with reality TV
because that's something she's passionate about. I'm really passionate about beauty,
so we're starting two separate YouTube channels, but we still
gonna do Poor Minds together. Y'all weirdest fuck And that's
all I wanted to say.

Speaker 2 (01:29):
And I also think if y'all ever have any questions,
y'all know we real and we are open book, like
y'all can just ask us instead of going on podcasts.
And y'all are weirdest fuck and Tye, it's still our
bartender as well.

Speaker 1 (01:45):
Stop being weird. Oh yeah, the poor crew is in
the building and shout out to the.

Speaker 2 (01:49):
People who are always positive, that support us and that
see us and that yo, so they know what the
fuck going on. But yeah, y'all stop being weird on
these podcasts and talk about y'all not even on podcasts.

Speaker 3 (02:00):
Social media in general, I feel like people be dying
for a moment where me and you getting into it.

Speaker 1 (02:06):
Are we not cool with each other?

Speaker 3 (02:07):
Because I feel like we don't put enough of our
personal life on social media, so people sometimes are always
digging for something for like some type of drama or
for a breakup or whatever the case may be. Like
we straight, we good And I think.

Speaker 2 (02:21):
It's just like like I said, y'all are so used
to people faking a friendship to kind of try to
give that dynamic. But the thing is, like, that's why
I said, we have we started kind of like an era,
like we real friends and people be trying to start
this with their real friends. And literally six months of
a year in, I don't know why God has blessed
us like this, but we are very much still friends

(02:42):
and we still good and we are literally just scratching
the sirf.

Speaker 3 (02:46):
Because we genuine that's why, like, that's why God be
blessing us. But at the end of the day, like
we be having our issues. We definitely don't always get
a live of course and of the time, but like
we really are friends and like sisters at this point.

Speaker 1 (03:00):
So it ain't no tea, it's no and if.

Speaker 3 (03:04):
There ever is tea there y'all really y'all gonna be
the last to the last.

Speaker 2 (03:09):
Last because like I said, we don't record a whole episode.

Speaker 1 (03:13):
Is not even talking to each what do you call
that right now? Officially?

Speaker 2 (03:20):
And growth growth well, because we used to be yelling
at each other on our digital footprint is crazy, it's wild,
and it's still up still, go y'all, go look at

(03:55):
what's up y'all at your girl lex Pe and you
are tuned in to another episode of poor mind.

Speaker 1 (04:05):
We ain't got no guests today. We ain't got no
guests today.

Speaker 3 (04:11):
Look ready, I pulled up, Ready, he pull up, drinking hand,
drinking hand.

Speaker 1 (04:15):
Ready to get.

Speaker 2 (04:17):
Tell me when to get, tell me when to get,
tell me when to go?

Speaker 1 (04:20):
Why did he say it like that? Because you get
christ hand drinks so strict. I ain't got doing, but
planning on growing some.

Speaker 2 (04:27):
How do you spell guil ge yeah? G e mm
hmm oh, I feel like I got an h. No,
he don't say gil gil No, he don't say mind

(04:49):
it's guil Okay, so I think we spelled it right,
g g e oh.

Speaker 1 (04:52):
Oh that's a crazy way to say. Go Like.

Speaker 3 (04:57):
I hate people who do the mall like just say
the words. Well, you know what, I don't have people we
feel about me.

Speaker 1 (05:03):
We spit it out. Let's spit it out. I hate
you know what? Okay?

Speaker 2 (05:07):
So you know how they be doing the accent challenges
like on TikTok and like on different apps and stuff.
I hate when people like do an accent challenge. They
be like doing the most cause there's an accent challenge
right now where you're supposed to say five boil, five oils,
five boils.

Speaker 1 (05:26):
Oh god, I can't say it. Five bowls of boiling oil.

Speaker 3 (05:31):
That's what it is, five boils of boiling oil, five bowls.

Speaker 2 (05:34):
I said, you're gonna say five.

Speaker 1 (05:39):
Bowls of boiling oil, five balls of boiling oil?

Speaker 2 (05:43):
Okay, Yeah, So this girl got a lot at hard exactly.
But everybody talking about their Southern accent. So this girl
gonna get on there. She was like, five balls of
boiling earl er, I said, people in the South do
say earl, But I feel like that's older people that
do the and talk like that. Like I just feel
like people be adding on an extra little.

Speaker 3 (06:04):
I think that I do think that's the older person
thing because I think I talked about this on the show.

Speaker 1 (06:08):
Her mama say qursh me, yeah, where's the art.

Speaker 2 (06:12):
I think that's the older because I hate they say
Tuesday Wednesday.

Speaker 1 (06:16):
They do say chooes houesday, Huesday, Tuesday. Where doesch come from?
You know what? Lauren?

Speaker 2 (06:22):
Does my friend Lauren be doing? Lauren say restaurant. Yeah,
She's like, you want to go to the restaurant?

Speaker 1 (06:31):
You're lying?

Speaker 2 (06:32):
She does not get series I do Lauren be playing
like Lauren is and I know she be playing around.

Speaker 1 (06:38):
She's not getting serious. She's like, where we want to
go to eat?

Speaker 2 (06:40):
There's like a bunch of different restaurants around here.

Speaker 1 (06:44):
I said, what in the hell is a restaurant? That's
how she says it. She said restaurant. I don't like that.
I don't either. I don't like that, Lauren. That's the
board I told her elementary.

Speaker 2 (06:58):
I told her to stop, but I don't know. I
feel like my aunt. Shout out to my honey Lane.
I love her now Walmarts.

Speaker 3 (07:06):
I've talked about this on the show before her my
mom would say Martha Luther King.

Speaker 2 (07:10):
Martha, Now, that's disrespectful.

Speaker 1 (07:14):
Her heart is in the right place.

Speaker 3 (07:16):
She's not trying to be disrespectful, but she be saying Martha.

Speaker 1 (07:20):
And then the crazy part is when you tell.

Speaker 3 (07:22):
Her that she said it wrong, she'd be like, I said,
Marta Luther King, Yeah, his name is Martin.

Speaker 1 (07:31):
I had Martha. That's the problem. Yeah, Yeah, we took
my mom out to eat. My mom is back at home.

Speaker 3 (07:42):
She made it safe and sound makes to Houston, Texas,
Praise the Lord. But she was here for like a
while she was here for a while. So yeah, she
made it back home safely. But before she left, it
was my dad's birthday, and so I wanted to take
her out to eat she was out here because I
knew she would be like, you know, in a somber mood. Yeah,

(08:03):
And I'm like I was in a somber mood that
day too, and so I was like, Okay, let's go
out to eat. Any y'all know me Alex her neighbors now,
So I was like, Lex, you want to come.

Speaker 1 (08:12):
Thought.

Speaker 2 (08:12):
We took Mama to her favorite place and restaurant, Little Allie.

Speaker 1 (08:17):
She Lovelie.

Speaker 2 (08:19):
She got expensive safe y'all see where getting from.

Speaker 1 (08:22):
She got expensive taste.

Speaker 3 (08:23):
So we took her to Little Allie and she got
her favorite pork chop.

Speaker 2 (08:27):
Yes, and you just you me Andre in a deep
conversation and her mom just you know, adding her little
ad libs, and she laughing at us and stuff.

Speaker 1 (08:35):
All of a sudden, I hear that fork kidding. That
plate she's scraped gone, y'all. The food was gone. Me
and Lex hadn't even touched off food. Oh. It was
so funny.

Speaker 2 (08:45):
And then she had like because it didn't it come
with like some kind of beans on underneath or some
black It came out with black eyed peas. So she
had like a little bit left on one pork chop.
Banna like three little black eyed peas that she said,
can I get a bie? And I was like, girl,
you play too much. You gonna do with that little
piece of work?

Speaker 1 (09:05):
Child? She was like, you all up at my bees me.

Speaker 2 (09:07):
But you know what I always say that it doesn't
matter how little bit of a food it is.

Speaker 1 (09:11):
I'm gonna take it to go, because.

Speaker 2 (09:12):
Sometimes it matter. It do matter because that little midnight snack.
You know how you get hungry, like by the time
you get home, wash.

Speaker 1 (09:20):
Your face, take a shower, you.

Speaker 2 (09:22):
Didn't lay down and watch TV. You fin a dose off.
You might want a little snack. You don't want nothing heavy.

Speaker 3 (09:26):
Yeah, I mean I do be wanting something heavy, Like
I never really crave a snack.

Speaker 1 (09:31):
I crave a meal.

Speaker 2 (09:32):
Oh see, I crave a little I need a meal.
I need I need a meal like see. But this
is where we differ at what may be a meal
for you for me, because I'd be like, oh, I
want a little burger.

Speaker 1 (09:48):
I like, let me just get a little burger.

Speaker 3 (09:50):
I want a little piece of catfish on the side
of making cheese.

Speaker 1 (09:52):
It's a little bit. That's my snacks. I'd be like,
let me get a little a little steak.

Speaker 3 (10:00):
Old speaks. Oh my god, we found the best burger
in Atlanta.

Speaker 1 (10:06):
Oh my god. Do you remember the name of it?
Supreme Burger. Oh my god. Shout out to Supreme Burger.

Speaker 2 (10:10):
Okay, So obviously we did invest Fest.

Speaker 1 (10:13):
Have we talked about it on the show already? Haven't
we did? We? I can't remember. I don't think so
because we haven't recorded since us did. Yeah, we haven't. Okay.

Speaker 2 (10:20):
So we had invest Fest the a few weeks ago
and it was amazing. Shout out to Rashod and Troy
from Earier Leisure.

Speaker 1 (10:28):
It was absolutely amazing.

Speaker 3 (10:30):
Yes, so not gonna lie.

Speaker 1 (10:35):
Our panel was low key fire. We ate that, we
really did. We ate that.

Speaker 2 (10:39):
I feel like one thing that I never would have
guessed that we're kind of pivoting into because obviously, y'all know,
if you've been a listener from the beginning, we obviously
have gone through a major rebrand in the past year,
as y'all know, and I think we did a successful
rebrand because a lot of times people rebrand like remember
don't remember because remember Snoop told us to call us
Snoop Lyon and we was like, okay, Snoop Dogg. So

(11:01):
sometimes people try to do a rebranding it so shout
out to our rebrand because it worked and I think it's.

Speaker 1 (11:07):
Going very well.

Speaker 2 (11:08):
So this pivot that we've made into this panel space,
I love it because when we do a panel, like
we just be eating down because who.

Speaker 1 (11:15):
The fuck would the thought to have us on a
panel be for real? But I never seen myself as
a panel.

Speaker 2 (11:22):
But our panels be so good because they talking that real.
We are talking a real ship.

Speaker 3 (11:29):
I feel like he sounded like flies. I don't know,
so I just feel like album really real.

Speaker 2 (11:35):
Yeah, the real things first on the ross that's not flies,
but okay, anyways, but the panel wasn't amazing, so we went.

Speaker 1 (11:47):
We need to get flies on the shoulder. I don't
know why. It was just on my spirit. We definitely do.
But anyways, back to the panel.

Speaker 2 (11:52):
I feel like our panels do so well because I
feel like one thing we are is authentic and I
think we never try to front and put up anything
like all we know how to be as ourselves So
I do think our panels just hit a little different.

Speaker 1 (12:04):
Like you know what I'm saying.

Speaker 3 (12:05):
We're gonna tell y'all every time that we started from
the bottom.

Speaker 1 (12:09):
Yeah, but I think but it's a lot of people
who we love to tell this story. We love it,
and I'm and I'm gonna bring up the fact I
still got it. I'm balanced. That win gonna be in
the museum one day. I know because I had it
just in case.

Speaker 3 (12:28):
I truly feel like, one day, you are gonna win
an Emmy, You're gonna win an Oscar, And I am
gonna put that wing on eBay.

Speaker 1 (12:35):
No, you need to be in the audience holding up
in the air. Oh, I'm gonna get go poppy spray
painted on it. Okay, I think I got we do Okay.
So anyway, so we were at investment. I'm a weary
see that Now, that's what I'm talking about. I'm a
I'm weary. That's what I like that bad. Yeah, I'm

(12:57):
gonna getting in that bag.

Speaker 3 (12:58):
Yeah, I'm gonna get an outfeed in the shirt and
it's gonna say, like lick spy, maybe we should beach
two thousand, let's peak two thousand.

Speaker 1 (13:08):
Yeah, that was the that was the bad. That was peak.
That was when it was peak. Baby, bitch.

Speaker 2 (13:14):
Let me tell you all something. I've seen a video
a picture of me today. Somebody went back in my
media and liked it. It was when I was in Dubai.
Maybe that wig was taller than the Eiffel Tower, bitch,
I said, I didn't know. I know, I did not
go to dubab with that wig on top of my head.

Speaker 1 (13:31):
Like, no, what the crazy thing is?

Speaker 3 (13:33):
I remember when you went to Dubai and I thought
the week it was cute.

Speaker 1 (13:37):
The red ball, I thought it was, but I got
a really good memory. Yes it was the red Bob.

Speaker 2 (13:43):
I mean obviously style and hair that was changed a lot.

Speaker 1 (13:47):
It was a good QUI but yeah.

Speaker 2 (13:50):
It just it was sitting on top of my head, babes,
sitting on top of the world, and I literally was
because the picture on the top I was on top
of the hotel.

Speaker 1 (14:00):
It was I was on top of the hotel. You
could see the Dubai skyline behind me and your weed and.

Speaker 2 (14:06):
My wig was on top of the skyline and I
was in the middle of the skyline. You know what,
though I liked Yo Dubai weed, the wigs that were
sitting on top of the world.

Speaker 1 (14:17):
Was when we was chun Lee and.

Speaker 3 (14:18):
Barbie And why would you repost? I did post that yesterday.

Speaker 1 (14:22):
We looked cute. This is my thing now.

Speaker 3 (14:24):
I feel like sometimes you'll be like trying to downplay this,
but like girl bend the girls, and we really ate
that because we did our own installs. We was really
in the bathroom with the bolt hole, yes, plucking the
weeds plucking.

Speaker 1 (14:41):
I had a half up, half down. I got fancy
with it, but you had you did, and you hadn't
even need the two buns. I love a good space.
That's what I'm saying.

Speaker 3 (14:51):
Like, we really ate with them wigs, and then I
had the blunt weed.

Speaker 1 (14:54):
You did. We and we kept call ourselves chun Lee and.

Speaker 3 (14:58):
Barbie because it was around the time that Nikki had
came out with them songs.

Speaker 1 (15:03):
Barbs. We were so lame, liesus Chris. No, we was nice.
We were twenty six, twenty nine.

Speaker 2 (15:11):
Our digital footprint is just interesting. I'll say that, like
why so? I mean, I mean, I always it's not erased.
Our digital footprint is there, but our digital footprint is
just interesting.

Speaker 3 (15:24):
You almost drinks. No, I'm not said, shut up.

Speaker 1 (15:28):
Bitch, I'm thirty five. Now I got that Auntie inmy
for real. Now you streak, okay, but no I do.

Speaker 2 (15:40):
I will say our digital footprint is interesting because honestly,
I don't know what made me search poor minds on Instagram.
I always search it on Twitter, but I never searched
it on Instagram.

Speaker 1 (15:50):
And when I tell you, I was horrified, horrified is
a strong word.

Speaker 2 (15:54):
It was so many pictures of me and throngs with
my ass out, the love with the I used to
put on throngs and be like showing my whole I
loved the nasty I loved the nasty tonge I I
know it was.

Speaker 1 (16:11):
I'm sure I was horrified.

Speaker 2 (16:14):
I really used to post my bare naked ass on
the internet and it's there forever I loved you and
look and then it was on the eighty five side.

Speaker 1 (16:22):
Don't nobody take us serious.

Speaker 2 (16:24):
You remember we came out with them T shirts.

Speaker 1 (16:32):
We thought we ate that, but we did. It was
a wrap, not gonna lie.

Speaker 3 (16:36):
They sold up, they did sell off ass, and we
took the pictures on my iPhone on the balcony and
my apartment ate.

Speaker 2 (16:44):
That down and it was horrifying to me because it
was my Halloween.

Speaker 1 (16:48):
Was so cute. And then eighty five South.

Speaker 2 (16:51):
That was when we just signed the eighty five Souls
so that it was like lexp from Poor mind And
then the next one was like Drain and the Cold
from Poor Minds, and we were.

Speaker 1 (16:57):
Like last because I know the polls. We used to
be like the horror. Yes, we used to love a
good thong. Oh my god, that's so embarrassed. I mean
I still love a thonge, but not post. Yes, I

(17:18):
would never. I would never.

Speaker 2 (17:21):
Like, Okay, it's different, like in a bathing suit on
the beach, and it's like a cute little dainty pole.

Speaker 3 (17:25):
But even still, I'm not gonna post me in like
a like a G string bikini.

Speaker 1 (17:30):
I don't even I don't think.

Speaker 3 (17:31):
I would post a backshot of that these days, like
I would make it look like class last see the summer.

Speaker 2 (17:35):
I mean, because that picture I took in Turks, I'm
like laying on the ground.

Speaker 1 (17:38):
She didn't have on a throng. That's what I mean.
It was a slight. It was a slight. They was cheeky.
They was cheeky. That was cheeky. I was giving the
little cheek.

Speaker 3 (17:46):
But it wasn't like a g string to be wearing
like a piece of flows.

Speaker 2 (17:52):
Oh my god, that is actually horrible to think about
our dish.

Speaker 1 (17:56):
I want you to still wear them shirts. Yeah they do.
They definitely be wearing hers to the grocery store.

Speaker 3 (18:01):
And she say every time she wear it to the
grocery store, she looks discussed just two Jezebels.

Speaker 1 (18:09):
How did it all hang out?

Speaker 2 (18:11):
I be a real friend though, She still be wearing Yeah,
I mean I wear my draining of cold shirt sometimes
I wear it some bit.

Speaker 3 (18:17):
I don't wear my side Yeah, I don't wear my
legs T shirt.

Speaker 1 (18:20):
Yeah, you was wildly you did that little campose.

Speaker 2 (18:24):
No, you did a little kimpose. No, y'all was standing
up and I was holding my thonge.

Speaker 1 (18:29):
That was me. That was you. That pussy was wide
open to the world. No, that was you. No, that
was you. I literally no. Lie.

Speaker 3 (18:37):
Yesterday when I was looking for them pictures the post
for the friend post, were you talking about the pictures
with our bad weeks?

Speaker 1 (18:44):
I came across the picture.

Speaker 2 (18:47):
You did do the talking about on the shirts that
we got on the shirts you're busting it open and
the picture I was busting open. You was like standing up,
But I'm talking about the actual shirts. You're definitely eggs
spread eagle bitch.

Speaker 3 (19:02):
Remember when I busted they split for my birthday two
years ago?

Speaker 1 (19:06):
No, that was last year, and I ruined my birthday dress.

Speaker 2 (19:10):
I don't know what be going on over there.

Speaker 1 (19:13):
I don't know what.

Speaker 3 (19:14):
That's why I said, though, And I want to say
this publicly right now, so that everybody can record, eat
and save the day.

Speaker 1 (19:21):
Okay, this is.

Speaker 3 (19:22):
Why I'm about to stop taking shy Okay, because every
time that I take shites, especially multiple shits. Yeah, something
crazy happened. I was so sore the next day. I said, now,
why the fuck would I bust the split at thirty two?

Speaker 1 (19:37):
I don't know? And you Hols let me.

Speaker 2 (19:41):
I was impressed. I said, hey, you did your big one.
I liked it. I enjoyed it. The time was had which.

Speaker 1 (19:49):
My legs was hurting so bad. And then my.

Speaker 3 (19:52):
Dressy all, my dress was so cute. They're just like
five hundred dollars.

Speaker 1 (19:58):
The ship split all the way up to the ass.
Crah did this lead? Oh my god?

Speaker 2 (20:03):
We was wallding on your birthday last year? Yes, you
remember those videos. I was like crawling on the couch.

Speaker 1 (20:08):
Yeah, I do remember it. Oh my god, you was
walding on my birthday.

Speaker 2 (20:12):
Year.

Speaker 3 (20:12):
We always wild story for another time, yes, but like
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Speaker 1 (21:31):
Supreme Burger. Like we said, we found the vest Burger
in Atlanta. Yeah, so it was.

Speaker 2 (21:39):
It was a vendor outside of invest Fest. It's called
Supreme Burger. And I had the Jerk Burger and it
had like pepper jack cheese and.

Speaker 1 (21:50):
Oh y'all, I'm not gonna lie. I was talking about that.
It was so that bread was so moist. I took
a bye. It was nice that that meat was timber.

Speaker 2 (21:59):
When I'll talk about a little burger for a snack,
that's the that's the kind of that's the little snack.

Speaker 1 (22:04):
I won't little.

Speaker 3 (22:06):
Shout out to a Supreme Burger. I hope that they
end up. Well, I hope they see this and they
send us some burgers, and I also hope that this
gets them like even more beach.

Speaker 2 (22:16):
Yeah, if you're in Atlanta, please go search Supreme Burger.
I know they have a truck that. I do think
they have a brick and mortar store as well. You
actually like going It was a.

Speaker 3 (22:25):
Jerk Burger, yes, and they also had a Lamb Burger.

Speaker 1 (22:28):
I really wanted to try it, but I wasn't able
to try. But they was all a Supreme Burger. When
you tell people where you live, do.

Speaker 3 (22:36):
You say, what do you how do you pronounce? How
do you pronounce Atlanta?

Speaker 1 (22:39):
Atlanta? Atlanta? Atlanta? Yeah, Atlanta Atlanta. It's an inn and there, Yeah, Atlanta, Atlanta.
Who says that Atlanta?

Speaker 2 (22:50):
Well, you know, I think nine says Atlanta.

Speaker 1 (22:53):
That's she said that on this show.

Speaker 2 (22:57):
Okay, she didn't say that, but there's definitely in It's Helena, Yeah,
it's Helena.

Speaker 1 (23:02):
Yeah. I don't think anybody says at L.

Speaker 3 (23:05):
No more people still be saying they say at L.
I think people that's not like familiar with.

Speaker 1 (23:11):
They say at L. Or do they say a town
a town down?

Speaker 3 (23:16):
I don't think no one says a towndown. I don't
think anyone says a town. Now we're from Houston and
they say eight. People still say ah now yeah, definitely
say people say nobody ever said a town?

Speaker 1 (23:32):
Can? I question?

Speaker 2 (23:33):
Did y'all see that clip of Usher that went viral
and they were talking about it was a clone?

Speaker 1 (23:37):
They said it was Ai. He said, yeah, one tell,
did you know what I'm talking about? I see in
the clue? Because why did he do it like that?
He said, yeah, one tell.

Speaker 3 (23:49):
That's the problem with y'all. Though, that's the problem with
black people. Y'all don't like change what. I was just
confused and feel like let them in do him?

Speaker 1 (24:00):
Okay.

Speaker 2 (24:00):
I think maybe he was like a soft lunch of
the tour.

Speaker 1 (24:04):
I feel like it's a soft lunch of a new Okay,
But I'm ready what he come out. What if he
come out with? What if he come out with a
rock album?

Speaker 2 (24:13):
I wouldn't I would listen to it because I think
he can do it. He's just that talented.

Speaker 1 (24:17):
I used to love well imagine oh okay, okay, remember
that song.

Speaker 3 (24:24):
It was a good song, as was like, imagine Usher
doing like a panic as to do it though, I'll talk.

Speaker 2 (24:30):
You think it's gonna sound yeah, one child?

Speaker 1 (24:42):
Do you ever imagine? I feel like this is like people,
but this is probably why people think we do drugs.
I think.

Speaker 3 (24:55):
I've done the DRUGA too, not I'm not gonna die,
So like this is why people think we do drugs.
We said the most random stuff, but like, do you
ever imagine what a song would sound like if another
person did a song? Can I say something like this

(25:18):
is why I'm so mad at Ai because I feel
like I'm always mad at new inventions because I'm like, bitch,
I been thought about these. I should have tried to
like figure it out and come out and like get
a patent and figure it out and come out with
like a brand or something.

Speaker 1 (25:32):
Because what the fuck?

Speaker 3 (25:33):
Ai is what I've been doing my whole life, Like
I always be imagining songs done by another artist.

Speaker 2 (25:39):
Can I tell you how crazy that is that you
said that? Yes, this morning, I was doing my makeup
and I scrolled TikTok while I get ready because I
be listening to different stories. Listen, I found this TikTok
page that makes like different characters saying I was listening
to Peter Griffin rap Glorilla seven pm Friday.

Speaker 1 (26:01):
I was so mesorized. It was so good.

Speaker 2 (26:05):
I need that they had a version with Ariana Grande
uh huh rapping the Glorilla song a seven pm.

Speaker 1 (26:12):
It sounded good.

Speaker 2 (26:13):
I know that had SpongeBob that had a SpongeBob version
eight down.

Speaker 1 (26:18):
Yeah.

Speaker 3 (26:18):
I seen this clip of this dude the other day.
It was just white this like young white boy, and
he was in the studio and he was dropping the
track and it's like an original track, but he was
like making like a little baby track. So he did
like little baby boys and they was like, this is
the hardest little this this song harder than little Baby song.

(26:39):
And it was I ain't gonna say all it, but
it was definitely hard and it sounded just like a
little baby.

Speaker 1 (26:46):
I love ay. Y'all has a little balance with me.
I like it. I like it.

Speaker 2 (26:50):
It gets a little scary at times. It's too much
like when they do the stuff where it makes it
seem like somebody's saying something like a celebrity or somebody
saying something that they're not saying.

Speaker 1 (26:58):
I don't like when they do porn. Yeah, that's a
little weird.

Speaker 3 (27:02):
Like putting somebody head on another person's body, that's making
them sound like them.

Speaker 1 (27:08):
That's a little bit. All right, hold on before we
go on, because.

Speaker 2 (27:14):
Tar, First of all, y'all been asking they.

Speaker 1 (27:18):
Have the god damn the streets and the friends? What
the elf?

Speaker 3 (27:24):
I don't know if can we curse yet? Are the
show past five minutes?

Speaker 1 (27:29):
I mean I've just got I mean here, I'm here, y'all.
She is here, here in the flesh, So y'all give
it up? Are we drinking one? And wow?

Speaker 2 (27:45):
People are literally adding us like in the store and
they're like, where is time? Somebody posted a whole story
the other day on their Instagram story and they was like,
hold up, where's tie at Drey and the call and
at les speed?

Speaker 1 (28:00):
And that's what they don't. I don't want to start weird.
Don't beginning weird. I'm here, y'all.

Speaker 3 (28:06):
Ain't going nowhere, Okay, I'm here doing my favorite thing,
making a drink from my girls. So y'all know that
the seasons are changing, Summer is ending, transitioning into fall.
I think last night was like the last sunset that's
gonna happen after eight o'clock.

Speaker 1 (28:22):
Oh sadness.

Speaker 3 (28:24):
So this one is called the Final Sunset, just reminiscent
of summer, all those good vibes we have. We have
either tequila or vodka, some grapefruit juice, lime juice, some
lavender syrup, and then we topped it off with some
sparkling watermelon, and then we garnished it with like a
little dehydrated flower just to kind of be reminiscent of
the summer.

Speaker 1 (28:43):
So this is the final Sunset, y'all. Y'all very good?
Like it is this edible. I wouldn't eat that all about.

Speaker 2 (28:51):
Say, you know, I love the very parties. I was
about to say, beach do we look at because they.

Speaker 1 (28:57):
Don't look at a fool? I eat anything.

Speaker 3 (29:01):
I mean, I'm sure you could, but it can't taste
like a flower.

Speaker 1 (29:05):
No, we're not gonna do that. No, we're not gonna
do that. You calm down, pipe down over there. Okay,
you're getting a little right away.

Speaker 2 (29:14):
You the one that asks. You're the one that asks,
and you tasty. I would like to see you say, see,
that's how I know you was a bad kid. I'm
making the mommy face and you still talking.

Speaker 1 (29:25):
Oh I was terrible. You looked bad. Excuse me?

Speaker 2 (29:29):
That is.

Speaker 1 (29:33):
Still batter than a two year old. That's how your
captions used to be.

Speaker 2 (29:39):
Okay, you used to be posted with that ass out
batter than a two year old, and what you used
to be saying nothing.

Speaker 1 (29:49):
I'm fine and I'm funny.

Speaker 2 (29:50):
You host, couldn't you shut up?

Speaker 1 (29:57):
Okay, y'all know lick lood and hug.

Speaker 2 (30:00):
Oh, that's still my post. I love that hip. I
just do a classic hip now, you know.

Speaker 1 (30:05):
I do my hand.

Speaker 2 (30:06):
This is my new posse where I do my hands
like this.

Speaker 1 (30:08):
You have to you gotta show off their French too.
Little nails, little nails.

Speaker 3 (30:12):
Okay, Yeah, let's get into the first topic.

Speaker 2 (30:15):
The first topic of what we wanted to talk up,
talk about a little bit.

Speaker 1 (30:22):
Of course, I'm weak. Wait, do you want to do
this one? Dre? You want to just go to this one?
The first one? This one? Well, I don't yeah, I
mean we already what time is it? Twenty five? Yeah?
That's mine? Do this one? Yeah?

Speaker 2 (30:35):
Okay, okay, So we wanted to have this conversation because well,
I'll let you introduce it, because you was having a
conversation with with her.

Speaker 1 (30:42):
Okay, y'all.

Speaker 3 (30:43):
So I was having a conversation the other day, and
I was talking to our social media manager shout out
to Shane, and she was just basically saying, and she
feels like poor minds are like ogs in the podcasting
And she really said the grandmother's. And I said, bitch,

(31:03):
first and foremost, first and foremost, don't ever call me
a fucking grandmother.

Speaker 1 (31:10):
We too young, too fine, too tea to be grandmothers.
But grandma's look different. Now.

Speaker 2 (31:18):
If you're talking about a grandma like Bernice, I'd be
that Jocelyn. Ain't no, Tom is a grandmother.

Speaker 1 (31:24):
She is a grandma. That's what I'm saying.

Speaker 3 (31:25):
I mean't you right, But I'm just like, I don't know, grandmother,
don't sit right with my spirits.

Speaker 1 (31:31):
You rubbed me the wrong way.

Speaker 3 (31:33):
So she was just like, yeah, y'all like the grandmother's
of podcasts, and y'all like the ogs. And I was like,
I don't know, I don't really feel like we're OG's.
Like to me, I feel like to be a OG,
you have to be in like an industry for like
ten plus. Ye we ain't been doing anything that long yet.
But she was just like the traction that we've covered

(31:53):
the you know, the things that we have made our
mark on, all of the accolades that we have. She
feels like we're like the grandmothers the ogs. This shit
the pioneers will if you will, she said, we have
burts a nation.

Speaker 1 (32:12):
All these bitches is our sons. And I ain't talking
about Phoenix.

Speaker 2 (32:16):
Okay, but what is Okay, but let's talk about this first.
What is the criteria of a OG though? Like, what
makes you consider to be like a OG?

Speaker 3 (32:26):
I think to be an OG, you have to be
respected in your industry. I think you have to have
had your leg in the game. This is my opinion.

Speaker 1 (32:36):
Okay. I feel like some people feel like it don't
have to be ten years.

Speaker 3 (32:40):
But in order for me to feel like somebody is
the OG of anything, you have to be respected in
your lane for like ten plus years.

Speaker 1 (32:48):
Okay.

Speaker 2 (32:48):
So with that being said, I'm gonna bring up a
different industry and just ask you a question. We consider
like arrogant A is he an OG?

Speaker 1 (32:56):
In the hair game? He's the OG?

Speaker 2 (32:59):
But that's what I'm saying. But he hasn't been doing
it for yes, doing it for over ten years?

Speaker 3 (33:03):
Yes, Okay, popping Ty was popping already before I even
moved to Atlanta, okaykay, and I moved to Atlanta in
twenty sixteen.

Speaker 1 (33:11):
It's twenty twenty.

Speaker 3 (33:12):
Four okay, Okay, So to be fair, I feel like
he was already like popping and doing hair and shit
like like twenty thirteen, twenty fourteen.

Speaker 1 (33:20):
Like that's the og for real, like d og.

Speaker 3 (33:24):
Like I feel like all the other girls, all the
other guys that do hair, kind.

Speaker 1 (33:29):
Of like he was the blueprint. Okay, that's fair. That's
a fair assessment.

Speaker 3 (33:34):
Yeah, I mean that's my again, my opinion, but that
is how I feel about it. I feel like, yeah,
you have to have to have your leg in the
game for like ten plus years.

Speaker 1 (33:46):
Obviously you inspire.

Speaker 3 (33:48):
Others to emulate you or you know, want to get
in the same field and try to do what you
do because you've become so successful at it. So I
feel like in that respect maybe.

Speaker 1 (34:00):
But I don't know.

Speaker 3 (34:01):
I just like we haven't been doing anything long. Like
to me, I always say this, like Cormons is not
even fully six years old yet, Like it will be
six years with this October or November, so it's like
six years.

Speaker 1 (34:14):
It's kind of like to me, that's still kind of
like new.

Speaker 2 (34:18):
I'm on a little bit of both sides because we're
not new, okay, but I wouldn't consider us.

Speaker 1 (34:23):
I think people consider.

Speaker 2 (34:25):
Us, oh Jesus, because I think we've inspired a lot
of people.

Speaker 1 (34:28):
You know, I think, thank you Tom.

Speaker 2 (34:30):
One of the main comments that we get all the
time is when people tag their friends and be like, oh,
it's we can do this, or a girl, let's start it.
So I think in that sense, if that's what you
consider an og is somebody who inspires people, I would
take that, but I wouldn't.

Speaker 1 (34:42):
Say that we're new. I think in our minds the
reason that.

Speaker 2 (34:46):
We won't we don't consider ourselves oh Jesus, because we've
done a.

Speaker 1 (34:49):
Lot, because we ain't old.

Speaker 2 (34:52):
No, because we have so much more that we want
to do well. I think, like this, this speech all
has inspired me so much. Usher gave this speech and
I can't remember if it was at the BT Awards
or he said it somewhere else, but he was like,
what's crazy is I'm just getting started. Usher been doing
this since he was thirteen, So when he said that,

(35:13):
I'm like, oh my gods, this man has been in
the industry more like for more than his life, like
more than fifty percent of his life, and he's talking
about he's just now getting started. So I think for us,
the reason we don't consider ourselves oh Jesus, because we're like, okay,
we're just getting started. There's so much more that we're
working on and that we have in store that they
don't even know about. So for me, when I think

(35:34):
of a OG, I think of somebody that's kind of
like chilling and they out the way and they.

Speaker 1 (35:42):
Their labor. You know what I'm saying. Like, Snoop is
a OG, Snoop lyon.

Speaker 3 (35:46):
But Snoop Dogg not an OG though, because he's still
be doing shit.

Speaker 1 (35:49):
He just was hosting, dealing.

Speaker 2 (35:50):
But exactly, he's enjoying the fruits of his labor. He's
not out here trying to drop an album and go
on tour and get number one on the Billboard and Snoop.

Speaker 1 (35:58):
Drop a song. He's because he can't. Yeah, Slim Thug,
that's a OG.

Speaker 2 (36:02):
Like it's because he's out here enjoying the fruits of
his laby.

Speaker 1 (36:05):
My boy always always, Slim.

Speaker 2 (36:07):
Is always on vacation. Cause that's what I feel like
as a OG. Like that's what you do.

Speaker 1 (36:12):
I mean, like even with bun b Bunbe has.

Speaker 2 (36:13):
A successful trill Burger, like a successful restaurant. Now he's
enjoying the fruits of his labor and doing things that
he wants to do. So I feel like I don't
think that we're necessarily OG's, but I do feel like
we're like a staple in the game. Like people don't
remember Poor Minds no matter what, like were something that
we was like, okay, we little forced to be wrecking

(36:34):
with Like if you in the podcast industry as a
black woman, like you gotta collab with the girls, you
gotta collab with the girls.

Speaker 1 (36:40):
Like in twenty one twenty three. We're gonna be vintage TV.

Speaker 2 (36:43):
Yeah yeah, like you remember how you used to fall
asleep to like I love lucy stuff.

Speaker 3 (36:47):
And they're not gonna be falling asleep to Poor Minds.

Speaker 1 (36:50):
I can assure you.

Speaker 2 (36:51):
Yay, they might if I can fall asleep to the Parkers.

Speaker 1 (36:55):
That's my comfort show language what languige? What do you
mean they had.

Speaker 3 (37:01):
Proper language on The Parkers. We be cutting up on
these shows.

Speaker 2 (37:04):
But I still think, now you know how you be
falling asleep and you watch something they say something, you
be like what they said you get about your sleep because.

Speaker 1 (37:13):
They have said something interesting.

Speaker 2 (37:14):
It might be that, but I do think like fifty
years from now, Poor Mon's will be a comfort show
that people just turn on and they just let Yeah.

Speaker 1 (37:23):
I love to go to sleep to the office.

Speaker 2 (37:24):
Yes, I go to sleep to the Parkers. I've been lately.
I've been doing my wife and kids, or I.

Speaker 3 (37:29):
Just found a new show and I've been going to
sleep to it.

Speaker 1 (37:32):
The good place, The good place. I've never heard of that.

Speaker 2 (37:35):
Really, I have to say this to you.

Speaker 1 (37:38):
Oh no, I'm going.

Speaker 3 (37:39):
Christian Christian, uh, Tommy's Christian Davies the Lady who she
was in like a show back in the day. But anyways,
I was just gonna agree with you. I do feel
like we're very like overly mbcis. Yeah, and we never
really take the time out to like appreciate or real

(38:00):
lives how far we've come because we always trying to
figure out what's going to be our next move.

Speaker 1 (38:05):
I think that's something that you and I both have to.

Speaker 3 (38:07):
Work on, which needs to be a goal for us
in the next year, is to just really appreciate the
moment and appreciate how I appreciate how far we've come
because my best friend Lean teld me that all the time.
And I know me and you was having a conversation
earlier and you were telling me like your best friend
Kill will tell you that too. Like we just are
always onto the next thing. And it's just like when

(38:28):
some big shit happened, we.

Speaker 1 (38:30):
Never really be like, oh my god, I can't believe
were about to do this. It be the people around
us and we were like, OK, whatever, Yeah.

Speaker 3 (38:38):
Like I told my mom about our Essence article that
they just put out about in vest fits and they
featured us any and my mom was like so hype
about it, And like when I told you, we was
both kind of.

Speaker 1 (38:49):
Like, oh that's cute.

Speaker 2 (38:51):
But wait Waitence, if anybody from Essence washing it, it wasn't
about that. No, it was because I love and it
was an honor to be featured it.

Speaker 1 (39:00):
But like I said, for us, it's like.

Speaker 2 (39:03):
When we do ESCE Festival next year, I want to
be on like the main main Well.

Speaker 3 (39:06):
That's about to say it's since we love y'all.

Speaker 1 (39:08):
But we need to cover you know what I'm saying.
We need y'all need to do a black podcast. A
black podcast cover and feature the girl, That's what I'm saying. Horrible,
horrible details.

Speaker 2 (39:22):
Madam Joyce, Madam the UK, Yeah, from the UK that
I think Kiki Palmer obviously, you know what I'm saying.

Speaker 1 (39:30):
I think it's a lot of women. It's hard for
Crystal has a good podcast.

Speaker 2 (39:37):
It's hard for black women in the space when we're
seeing these people get one hundred and two hundred million
dollar deals and all this stuff and we are just
as good and just as funny. But you know, I
think I said this on the panel, I said black
media has to highlight us, so mainstream black media, and
I think Essence does a good.

Speaker 1 (39:54):
Job and highlighting BT does a good job of highlighting.

Speaker 2 (39:57):
But if we if black media put the black podcast
is on a main stream like how they do, you know,
like how the other people be doing with them, it
would be so easy for us to get these million
dollar deals, these multi million dollar deals, you know what
I'm saying.

Speaker 3 (40:12):
But that's okay, cause somebody got to be the first. Yeah,
it's common, and you know who is gonna be I
know it is. And I always say this cause y'all
don't realize it's crazy. But in twenty twenty four, doors
are still being broken down for black people. I agree,
and as crazy as hell, I can still be like, oh,
the first black one or the first black you know
what I'm saying. It's crazy that y'all say it was

(40:34):
the first black woman too. I think make Over eight
hundred million or five hundred million or something like that
with the Renaissance tour, it was like a crazy yeah,
but she was like the first black woman to do that,
And like when you think about all of the women
before her, you would.

Speaker 1 (40:50):
Have thought, you would have thought that they else would
have did that already.

Speaker 2 (40:54):
But no, in twenty twenty four, we're still hearing first
black something behind some kind of accolade. So I feel
like it's definitely possible. But I think, like like I said,
it's it's our responsibility and these big media outlets responsibility
to just support you know, Like I think a lot
of times these blogs too, like y'all only post the
negative stuff and because it gets you clicks, But we

(41:16):
really have control to change the narrative. Like black people,
we are the taste makers.

Speaker 1 (41:21):
Bro.

Speaker 2 (41:22):
Everybody is doing what we're doing. We're doing and they're
following us.

Speaker 1 (41:26):
Money.

Speaker 2 (41:27):
Yeah, they're doing what we're doing. They're taking what we're doing.
They flipping it. They put their dang down flipping and
reverse it. And they reversing the fuck out that bitch.

Speaker 1 (41:36):
They were versing the fuck out of it. Man.

Speaker 3 (41:38):
Why I was talking to somebody the other day about
white mediocrity.

Speaker 1 (41:45):
What did you say?

Speaker 2 (41:50):
It was, Oh, talk about no before you get talk
about say the last Dance.

Speaker 1 (41:55):
That's what I was talking about.

Speaker 3 (41:56):
So it's stemmed from It's stemmed from a post on Twitter.
And the post on Twitter was basically about Niki, which
is the Uncle Loss. Yes, and she was in the
movie if at this point, I hope all of y'all
have seen have seen save the Last Thing. But yeah,

(42:17):
so it was about Buncle Lost and as Niki in
the movie, and they were just like, Nicki wasn't a bully,
she wasn't mean, she was just having to fight against white.

Speaker 1 (42:28):
Oh my god. It was just like, first of all, Mathy,
this is my.

Speaker 3 (42:34):
Problem with Twitter and social media sometimes in general.

Speaker 1 (42:37):
Sometimes shit really.

Speaker 3 (42:39):
Just is what it is, like it's in your face.
These are the facts, and it is what it is.
Nicki was a bully and Niki was mean. She was
mad because she cheated on their men. And he moved on,
and he happened to move on to a white woman.
He happened to move on with a white woman. She
was pissed off about it, and she was low key

(43:00):
bullying that girl because not only was.

Speaker 2 (43:02):
It a white woman, it was a white woman with rhythm.

Speaker 1 (43:06):
She no, she gained rhythm. Oh yeah, because at first
she was just doing La Dog. We thought that it
went a rendition. Was fine.

Speaker 3 (43:22):
She said she ate that up girl, She ate that up.
I don't care what nobody say in twenty twenty four.
I'm about to go home and watch that movie tonight.
So anyways, like I was saying, like I just feel
like she was being a bully. She was mad, she
was hiding because that nigga had moved on and he
didn't want to be with her no more. He happened

(43:42):
to be with a white girl, So you was like
bullying her. Sometimes shit just be what it is. People
be bullies everything on Instagram. Don't have to be a
fucking thing piece. However, the way that me and another
person started talking about white mediocrity though, is because although
in that particular situation, I don't think that's true. I
think she would just be a hater and being weird.

(44:04):
But I do feel like Black people have to fight.

Speaker 1 (44:08):
Against that all the time. Yeah, like we do a
lot of the time.

Speaker 3 (44:13):
I hate to say, other people of other races get
to be mediocre in their respective spaces and industries and
then we have to be like ten times as great
and then we don't even get ten times to pay.

Speaker 1 (44:26):
Or we don't get equal paid.

Speaker 2 (44:27):
And I'll say this as well, and sometimes it be
the white people that are actually they're fucking phenomenal at
their job.

Speaker 1 (44:34):
Well, yeah, let's be real.

Speaker 3 (44:35):
It's people of all races who are phenomenal what they do,
but we talking about the ones who know, right, but phenomenal.

Speaker 2 (44:41):
Well, that's what I'm saying. But sometimes it'll be like this.
You have a person of another race who is phenomenal
at their job. They're getting paid their worth, and then
a black person comes along who is just as good
and won't even get a.

Speaker 1 (44:54):
Third to that. So it doesn't even matter if they're
mediocre or not.

Speaker 2 (44:57):
They can be mediocre, they can be great, they can
be whatever, but they're get paid their worth no matter what.
No matter what, they're gonna get paid, they're gonna get paid, period.
So I think it's just like on the spectrum of things,
I feel like it's really up to us because I
think we have shown time and time again that the
black dollar matters.

Speaker 1 (45:19):
You know what I'm saying.

Speaker 2 (45:19):
It's like, we can show them that black people can
show up, we can sell out venues, we can sell
out arenas, you know what I'm saying, Like we can
do all that stuff. So I think it's important to
media to highlight that as well.

Speaker 1 (45:32):
You know what I'm saying. I feel like.

Speaker 2 (45:35):
These blogs, you know, they want to post black women
fighting each other, throwing drinks on each other. Oh I'm
fighting with this baby daddy and this baby mama.

Speaker 1 (45:44):
But they don't want to.

Speaker 2 (45:45):
Show all the podcasts out here, jokes on you, high maintenance,
horror minds, horrible decisions where two black women sit on
the couch turning up having a good time. They don't
want to highlight that though, And that be the issue
because it's like what do what.

Speaker 1 (45:59):
Are we like putting on a pedestal? You know what
I'm saying. I'm not saying that we out here doing
God's work.

Speaker 2 (46:04):
Speak for yourself, okay, but I do think, you know,
we need to highlight some positive things as well. That
needs to be a good balance, but it starts with us.
You know, we have to highlight our own goodness and
our own goods because you know what I'm saying.

Speaker 1 (46:21):
What they was mad at.

Speaker 3 (46:22):
Michael Ruber is he sat up there, he said, black
people love us, hear each other down.

Speaker 1 (46:26):
We don't support each other. But I mean, he wasn't lying.

Speaker 2 (46:29):
They got mad. They said, shut up whitey.

Speaker 1 (46:31):
They did, they did.

Speaker 3 (46:33):
And I was watching a clip shout out to some
ownA because we are on the show along timing. Yeah, yeah,
Mama had either clip and she basically well, she did
an episode and then I seen the clip on social
media and she was basically standing in the clip that
like she understood why black people were mad. Because at
the end of the day, no matter if you're seeing
some true sheet or you're seeing some real sheet, as

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a white person, you cannot comments on nothing that black
people do. We have been oppressed for hundreds of years.
We live in this country that we do not ask
me in, which is a fact if you really think
about it, you asked to.

Speaker 1 (47:08):
Be here, bro. This shit stinks.

Speaker 2 (47:14):
So I'm just saying you think about it, bro, like
we are paying like rent. The average rent is like
fifteen hundred dollars in Atlanta. And that's if you want
to livet just somewhere decent. Then if you want to
have a lock on your door, you gotta pay fucking
extra five hundred dollars a month. If you want a
lock on your door. Oh, don't even think about getting
a fucking dog, bitch. You want some happiness, you want

(47:36):
a fucking dog.

Speaker 1 (47:37):
I want to pull be Oh that's.

Speaker 2 (47:39):
Six hundred dollars a fridge and a washer and drive.

Speaker 3 (47:42):
Don't even give me. Don't even get me started on insurance.
We're the only country that has to pay for health care.
And then they got the audacity, so then you can
pay for health care. But then you gotta pay for
vision and then on separately.

Speaker 2 (47:56):
Bitch, don't get me round my lab, bro, but not
the two bitch.

Speaker 1 (48:00):
We can't fix the tooth. I'll fix your leg.

Speaker 2 (48:03):
Your eye is hanging out, you're on your own.

Speaker 1 (48:05):
Good look, bitch, do you have did you have vision?
I guess it can't help you. Yeah, I mean it
sucks a little bit.

Speaker 2 (48:15):
Hones that they should have been a commis like go
back to your country.

Speaker 1 (48:19):
I would love to.

Speaker 3 (48:21):
If I was not born there because I, you know,
unfortunately got ship here.

Speaker 1 (48:28):
Yeah, so it's hard toimes is hard right now?

Speaker 3 (48:31):
Yeah, it is hard people thinking they ate that talk
about go back to your country, bitch, they be living
it up in Nigeria having a ball, talking about having
a ball.

Speaker 1 (48:41):
What the fuck are y'all? Let me say, like because
they I think.

Speaker 2 (48:44):
Every country, of course has their social issues. Yeah, you know,
everybody has their social issues.

Speaker 1 (48:49):
But you know, like, like you said, we have to
be here.

Speaker 3 (48:53):
And I'm saying, they be living it up in Africa period,
not just in Nigeria, in multiple countries.

Speaker 1 (49:00):
Like gladly let me get a dual citizenship, y'all ain't on.

Speaker 2 (49:06):
Me.

Speaker 1 (49:07):
I'm out there, but yeah, I don't know.

Speaker 3 (49:09):
Like so yeah, she was just saying, like, you know,
although I understand, I understood where his heart was there,
but she was like, no, y'all should never feel comfortable.

Speaker 1 (49:21):
Issue.

Speaker 2 (49:21):
It was, well, yeah, because it was like when I
was younger, my sister used to beat my ass, beat
the fuck out of me. But what they gotta do
with white people because as soon as somebody else looked
at me wrong or said something to me, she was like, nah, bitch,
don't talk and look at my sister like that. So
it's the same thing. I can beat your ass, but
you can't see what I'm saying.

Speaker 1 (49:40):
I get, I get where you go. I'm sorry, I apologize.
You know what I'm saying.

Speaker 2 (49:44):
You had a good point, but that's what I'm saying.
She it was just it's the same thing. Like it's
like if I tell you something and I'm like, drag,
you're being a bit, shut the fuck up. But if
somebody else be like, drag, you're a bitch. Shut the
Who are you talking to though?

Speaker 1 (49:58):
Bitch?

Speaker 2 (49:58):
Yeah, you know what I'm saying. You gotta it's keep
it in the family. We have to cookout talking see
Michael Rubin and threw two three cookouts everybody in there
with they all white on. He done got a little too,
and that's how that's not his fault.

Speaker 1 (50:13):
Though he never invited us to the He never he
said I'm cleaning the house.

Speaker 2 (50:17):
He gonna see this episode, never come into the party.

Speaker 1 (50:24):
I'm show up anyway, and my all white gonna be
at the door. You hear me knocking. Let me okay,
let's move on. Let's move on. We really only got
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I had a conversation with Drea, and y'all know we
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know we like to stream church, we love to read

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the Bible.

Speaker 1 (52:05):
But it's a strong But.

Speaker 2 (52:09):
Do y'all feel like in twenty twenty four, pastors are
doing too much to try to be relatable. And let
me give you example. If I walk into church, you
should not be saying it's seven pm Friday in ninety five.

Speaker 1 (52:24):
Greef, I ain't got the devil, but God got me.
What are you doing? Everybody in church going like this?

Speaker 3 (52:32):
The funny thing is I literally seen a video on
Instagram the other.

Speaker 1 (52:37):
Day somebody doing that and this.

Speaker 3 (52:39):
Girl was rapping over that song and she was doing
a god gospel version.

Speaker 2 (52:45):
It was I was like, what happened to the bit?

Speaker 1 (52:51):
No I felty a little bit.

Speaker 2 (52:53):
We need to go back to church, We need to
go back to stomp.

Speaker 1 (52:56):
Oh, my brother say but if we be.

Speaker 3 (52:58):
An honest though, if we're being real, thought.

Speaker 1 (53:03):
That was an original That was an original song. It
was an original composition. Yes.

Speaker 3 (53:08):
However, though, I feel like Kirk Franklin was the pioneer
of making like Church relatable because Stomp was like a
bridge between like gospel and hip hop R and B
like when he started coming, when he got popular in
the nineties and stuff. He really made like bridge the

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gap between gospel and.

Speaker 1 (53:34):
Like hip hop music.

Speaker 3 (53:36):
He did because I think that's it made it more
relatable and especially because we maybe because we grew up
in the nineties. Yeah, because we grew up in the nineties,
we didn't really realize it for real. But like that
was because that was some of the first gospel music
that we had heard. If Kirk Franklin got popular around
the time, I would say I was like four or.

Speaker 1 (53:54):
Five sis Now I agree with that, though.

Speaker 2 (53:57):
I think there's nothing wrong with making a genre of
music that sounds like hip hop but it's Christian music.

Speaker 1 (54:02):
I have no problem with that.

Speaker 2 (54:04):
But I don't think you need to remix a song
where we're talking about twerking, just make another song. I
don't like when they're taking this music what they said
on uh Ray the movie with Jane's that's sacrilegious, girl.

Speaker 1 (54:19):
You can't do that, you know what I'm saying.

Speaker 2 (54:22):
I just think at a little line just needs to
be drawn.

Speaker 3 (54:26):
I think the past is sometimes do a little bit
much too, because I feel like, I don't know if
I talked about this on the episode before or not,
but I just feel like, Okay, so we know that
we all got haters, like everybody, well, I ain't gonna
say everybody. Okay, maybe not everybody got haters, all right,
but I think for the most part, but I think

(54:49):
for the most part, you know, everybody kind of know
what it's like to be hated on about something once
or twice in their life. So I get it. But
then it's like some want the past to be preaching.
It's like, are you really trying to give us a word?
Or are you trying to throw shots to sho haters?

Speaker 2 (55:07):
Not the pastor got ops? Yeah, why does my pastor
have ops?

Speaker 1 (55:11):
I mean everybody got ops? Though?

Speaker 3 (55:13):
No, for real, it's literally in the Bible, no whipping
formed against me shall prospual.

Speaker 1 (55:19):
What do you think they were talking about? Ops? The ops?
The ops wung't prospal with me. Yeah, I'm no opposition
okay formed against me will pross Okay, that's the truth.
That's the truth. Now I'm serious.

Speaker 3 (55:33):
So I just feel like though for me personally, sometimes
the message would be feeling personal with the pastors, like
it's like, are you trying to lo key tell yo haters?
You thought I was gonna feel but now I'm huge
thought from the bottom.

Speaker 1 (55:49):
Not with you.

Speaker 2 (55:49):
They'd be like, he see me with my lous batons
on price God, nigga, nobody is trying to hear about
show Louis Vatan loafers and talking about praise God.

Speaker 1 (56:00):
Then you passing the bishop? Why are you doing all this?
You know? I think I think it needs to be
a balance. It's a balance.

Speaker 3 (56:14):
I think for sure, you do need to be relatable
because I think that the last two generations have veered
very far lived from the Lord.

Speaker 1 (56:23):
Yes, if we're.

Speaker 3 (56:24):
Being honest, Millennials and gen Z, we have strayed from
the bag, We strayed from the like we have. So
I think that you do need to be relatable to
real people back in. But it still needs to be
a balance of relatableness and also being authentic and talking

(56:48):
about Christian real Christian principles, talking about but I you
were talking rictures.

Speaker 2 (57:00):
God speaking to you almost hit the little tongue. But
I sound have to say so, I think we need
to go back to actually teaching the word, like teaching
the word.

Speaker 1 (57:16):
In the Bible.

Speaker 2 (57:17):
I feel like every time you go to church, they're
trying to give you a message like don't stop, don't quit.
And while we do need those messages, we need to
go back, y'all to me, we.

Speaker 1 (57:25):
Need to go back to learn the ten commandments.

Speaker 2 (57:29):
You know, I say, see, thou shalt not lie. I'm
out of it.

Speaker 1 (57:36):
That's what I say. I'm like, I feel like you
got five. I'm cooked.

Speaker 2 (57:42):
Thou shalt not lie, Thou shalt not cheat, Thou shalt
not commit a.

Speaker 1 (57:49):
Don't cheating committed? That the same You know what I meant, though,
But you got.

Speaker 2 (57:56):
H Thou shalt not kill, Yes, you got, and after kill,
thou shall not steal.

Speaker 1 (58:05):
And then thou shall not praise no other God before me.

Speaker 3 (58:11):
Oh my God, that's the same one I was thinking
of you.

Speaker 1 (58:16):
That's thou. Oh come on, lex keep on show, not
be a hohass niggle. That's what a pastor would doing.

Speaker 2 (58:27):
Talk y'all to see that's what they do to really
see you see what I'm saying.

Speaker 1 (58:31):
Though, That is how they would switch it up. You
feel me.

Speaker 3 (58:35):
You got a good point, though, I do think sometimes
the pastors be doing a bit much like I haven't went.

Speaker 1 (58:40):
To actual physical church in a few years.

Speaker 3 (58:42):
But I do watch church online a life, and I
kind of try to switch it up and watch like
a few different pastors, you know, but like some of
the ones that I'll be watching, it just a bit
much for me, yeah, because I'll be feeling like the
the topic at hand be very much given, like you
directed me specifically to somebody, to a target audience or

(59:03):
to a target person.

Speaker 1 (59:05):
Halo's be hating.

Speaker 3 (59:07):
We know, we know, but it's like God damn, like
we know you made it, We see you, and I
just feel like, like you said, the message has shifted
from scripture and teaching the words and teaching the word
to like telling people, oh, you need to you need

(59:27):
to show up and be present and not worried about Joe.

Speaker 1 (59:30):
Halo's not worried about the opposition. What a God word?
What scripture is this? And it?

Speaker 3 (59:37):
And although those things are true, but that's more so,
I want to hear from like a motivational speaker. And
I also feel like, to be real, if you're living
your life the right way and you following the Word
and you learning the scripture, those other things are gonna
come sick in nature anyway. Like if you really get
into your Bible and you really get into the Word,
you automatically not gonna be worried about hater. You automatic

(01:00:00):
not going to be pressed or feel the effects of
like drama and stuff that's going on in your life
because you focused on your word. And if you following
the Word of God, like you're not gonna be worried
about this stuff anyway. So it's like we don't really
need to place so much emphasis on those things.

Speaker 1 (01:00:18):
And more so the word the word. What was the
song shake Shake, Shake, shake the devil.

Speaker 2 (01:00:26):
Off in the name of Geezus, shake the devil off.

Speaker 1 (01:00:32):
See Jesus already told that they be like shake them,
hate us off, shake.

Speaker 2 (01:00:43):
Childish the church. But let us know what y'all think.
We don't want to get too too deep into.

Speaker 1 (01:00:48):
It now, because y'all know we are Unseriously, I'm like.

Speaker 2 (01:00:51):
That was we need good. It was a serious topic
but I think, like I said, I always I don't
have a problem with the mega churches, but I find
myself about Amen, I do like I said, I do
think we need to get back to you know more
and so teaching the word. I do find when I'm
like streaming, smaller churches that do the streaming stuff, like

(01:01:12):
they tend to be more you know, focused on.

Speaker 3 (01:01:16):
Yeah, I don't want it to go to none of
the mega churches in Atlanta because I just can I
be real real quick, I want more things.

Speaker 2 (01:01:23):
Okay, I'm gonna let it out my spirit, Amen, let
me take a sip of my juice.

Speaker 3 (01:01:29):
So I just I just feel like the mega churches,
it just kind of gives like who's who's of Atlanta. Yeah,
everybody trying to pull up in They g wag and
they range rose, they trigs with a fresh and speaks.
Church was sit in front row everybody posting the same message.

(01:01:52):
It's like, I really do feel like the smaller churches
have more impact.

Speaker 1 (01:01:57):
But I grew up in a small.

Speaker 3 (01:01:59):
Church too, like when I but I'm also I grew
up Catholic, like church for us was a little bit
it is for like nine denominational and Baptist Church was
like fifty maybe our max on Easter Sunday and were
getting straight to it. Yeah, school when I was in kindergarten. Yeah,

(01:02:20):
you remember, I do. I getting straight to it. We
don't play no game. You ain't even said no words.

Speaker 1 (01:02:37):
They didn't either. I can't wait for them to attack
you in because I enjoy Catholic. The funny thing is that,
I all, I will say this, y'all funerals be long. No,
they don't. The Catholic funerals. They say, what's it called?
Y'all say with the bees and y'all the Rosary?

Speaker 2 (01:02:56):
Oh lord, y'all say that for about three hours.

Speaker 1 (01:02:58):
Yes, okay, now with no no, no, No.

Speaker 3 (01:03:00):
Funerals don't be long because they don't do the rosary
at all.

Speaker 1 (01:03:04):
Of the funerals. The one it was long. Yeah, maybe
it was like during Easter season.

Speaker 2 (01:03:09):
Shoot, I don't know where she She's gonna waited a
few months.

Speaker 3 (01:03:12):
But leading up to Eastern Being Catholic, you do the
Rosary like every Sunday, and it does take a while,
and then you have to go to confession and all
of that stuff.

Speaker 1 (01:03:23):
But no usher, amen, Okay, I got you back. I
don't fucking forgot what I was about to say.

Speaker 3 (01:03:35):
Fish, I was gonna say at my church, so we
used to sing Kirk Franklin.

Speaker 2 (01:03:42):
At your Catholic church. I thought y'all Catholics weren't allowed
to dance. Oh, no, it's Baptists.

Speaker 1 (01:03:49):
Oh they've have to get to get on you. I
corrected it, because why would you say that. That's so ignorant.

Speaker 2 (01:03:55):
That's not ignorant, because I got it messed up Baptist.

Speaker 1 (01:03:58):
But now, sometimes ignorance is what you don't know.

Speaker 3 (01:04:00):
I don't mean it to offend you, but that's ignorant
to say that, yes, Catholics.

Speaker 1 (01:04:05):
Can, No, it's it's Baptist.

Speaker 2 (01:04:07):
That's they're not They're not supposed to dance in the church,
or something like that. I know a bunch of Baptists. Hos.

Speaker 1 (01:04:14):
It depends on the church.

Speaker 2 (01:04:15):
Okay, See I know a bunch of Okay, So this
is someme.

Speaker 1 (01:04:23):
This is when we move on. This is this is
when we move on.

Speaker 4 (01:04:27):
Please leave the whole port, keep the strip befork.

Speaker 2 (01:04:32):
So let us know, do y'all, how do y'all feel
about church in twenty twenty four? And how do y'all
you know even if you're not religious, it's okay. You
can pass this segment up if you are. Let us
know how y'all feel about and how you you know,
praise the Lord.

Speaker 1 (01:04:46):
Amen, what's up y'all?

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Speaker 2 (01:05:47):
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Speaker 2 (01:06:10):
Okay, So today I wanted to talk about something that
really piqued my interest. I don't know why this crossed
my mind, but I was just thinking about like male
versus female, man versus woman, whatever you want to call it.
And I was thinking about why is virginity so valued
in women but not in me?

Speaker 1 (01:06:34):
Like if you meet a woman.

Speaker 2 (01:06:35):
Who is a virgin, now a lot of men will say, oh,
I don't want no virgin. I want somebody who is
well seasoned and stuff. But a lot of men they
kind of they wouldn't mind dealing with a virgin, are they.
It's like a trophy to say, oh I took a
girl's virginity, Like she waited till she was twenty seven
to have sex, and I was the first person she chose.
But it's like it's society if like if you're even

(01:06:57):
twenty one as a man and you're a virgin, they
like you laying what's wrong with you? You've heard of
a virtuous woman, You've never heard of a virtuous man?

Speaker 1 (01:07:06):
Hello, why do you think that is?

Speaker 3 (01:07:10):
I just think it's a double standard. It's the perfect
example of a double a double.

Speaker 1 (01:07:22):
God. This is why they be missing talk because what
ain't no fuck is in this dream. I'm wak ah lot.
I'm like the perfect.

Speaker 3 (01:07:31):
Example of a double standard because men are not held
to the same standard that women are healthy. Right, although
I feel like it's equally as important because can niggas
not catch std right?

Speaker 1 (01:07:44):
Right? Right?

Speaker 2 (01:07:45):
And I think too, it's important to have a good
relationship with sex and really understand what sex is, what
you know?

Speaker 3 (01:07:55):
They make us feel like as well. You know, I've
always felt like when I was young, or you could
let me know if you felt this way, they would
always say, if a girl have sticks with a whole
bunch of niggas, y'all pussy get lose.

Speaker 2 (01:08:07):
So I used to be scared to like she said,
I don't want. I didn't want.

Speaker 3 (01:08:13):
As I got older, I realized we talk about it,
or is your granny folk?

Speaker 1 (01:08:18):
You just lose? Yeah? But like I wonder, like do
niggas have like an effect like that?

Speaker 2 (01:08:26):
Like if you like, no, I don't because you know
how they they told us that, but it wasn't true.
There's not even a thing that they tell But I'm saying.

Speaker 3 (01:08:35):
I wondered if me and oh, you're saying, I know
that's not true, but.

Speaker 2 (01:08:40):
Right, that's what I'm saying. We know it's not true
as women, but they told us that. There's nothing that
they tell little boys like oh, if you do too
much of this with a woman, this is the repercussions
of that.

Speaker 1 (01:08:52):
You know what I'm saying. So I just think even how.

Speaker 2 (01:08:54):
Our like I said, our relationship with sex is different,
you know, like up they tell little girls, you know,
sex instead of explaining how sex really is, you know,
between two adults who love each other to you know,
have children and this and that.

Speaker 1 (01:09:10):
They just tell us, oh, sex is bad, don't.

Speaker 2 (01:09:12):
Have it, you can get pregnant and men are gonna
look at you like a bad person. Like that's what
they tell us about sex when we're little, you know,
like no, don't do this, don't don't let nobody touch you.
Rich is rightfully so. But then when you when they
tell little boys, they be like, oh, yeah, you like that.
You see her? She thinks she fine, look at her. Yeah,
that's what when you turn this and let me let
let uncle. No, I'm I'm gonna put you on some shit.

Speaker 1 (01:09:34):
You know what I'm saying. But do we not? Almost? Okay?

Speaker 3 (01:09:36):
So I struggle with that, even though we don't have kids. Yeah,
I always struggle with like trying to figure out how
I'm going to like introduce sex yeah to my kids
and like talk to them about it, because to me,
is it is it bad that they made us feel
like it was a bad thing. I actually think that
was probably a good thing because they made a lot
of us like be scared to have sex versus now

(01:10:00):
everybody ready to pug everybody ready to get it. Pussy
up there, little up. It ain't even full grown. I
feel like I just feel like we were we had
a certain sense of fear in us back in the
day when it came to sex and getting pregnant in
all of that. I think these days the fear is gone.

Speaker 1 (01:10:21):
The fear is gone.

Speaker 3 (01:10:23):
So it's like, what's worse like scaring your child into
like not wanting to have sex, or like making them
feel like it's comfortable.

Speaker 1 (01:10:34):
It's a part of life. It's okay.

Speaker 3 (01:10:37):
And then now all of these like because I don't know,
I feel like it's been like a high increase of
like young pregnancy because I remember I had read an
article maybe like at this point, I want to say,
six seven years ago, and in an article they was
just saying, like, basically, millennials, we were not producing kids
at a high rate in comparison to a lot of

(01:10:59):
the other general Yeah, for sure, but I feel like
with gen Z, you know, they done brought that sheep back.
They be pregnant as for twenty twenty one, twenty two,
ready to have a baby.

Speaker 1 (01:11:11):
I'm not being funny, and we was not like that
twenty twenty two.

Speaker 2 (01:11:14):
Bitch, I'm outside well you know why though, I'm not
being funny. They did a study when MTV Team Mom
dropped teen, pregnancy went down tremendously.

Speaker 1 (01:11:24):
And that was our I'm telling you.

Speaker 2 (01:11:27):
They did a whole study about this, like pregnancy drop
when tea Mom came out.

Speaker 1 (01:11:31):
But also when I think about when I don't want
to be like Pharaoh.

Speaker 2 (01:11:35):
Ooh, you've seen Faara En now I seen, But did.

Speaker 1 (01:11:40):
You see little Bentley?

Speaker 2 (01:11:41):
I used to love Bentley and Macy, such a cute family,
but Anyways, when I think about how my mom taught
sex to me and about sex, when she talks about
sex to me, it was always very like, what questions
do you have? She was very much like, you know,
that's how you have kids. You don't want to now.

(01:12:02):
She did scare me out of having kids. Honestly, I
think that's why I'm still thirty five with no children,
because I'm still like, ooh, is that what I want
to do? Because she was like having kids as hard.
She let me know about std She was very open
with me about STDs. That's why we were talking about
this yesterday. I think it's so crazy that y'all just
be so willing nearly having sex with people with no condoms.

(01:12:24):
I mean, I think we all that had a little
whle phase or whatever. But baby, I was pulling out
them rubbers on your ass.

Speaker 1 (01:12:30):
We is not. I was definitely that.

Speaker 2 (01:12:33):
No glove, remember, no glove, no no love, no glove,
no love facts.

Speaker 1 (01:12:40):
I don't know.

Speaker 3 (01:12:40):
Me and my mom we never really had like a
sex talk necessarily.

Speaker 1 (01:12:46):
But my mom was a nurse, like she was an RN, and.

Speaker 3 (01:12:50):
So she had like all of like the medical encyclopedias
at our house. Oh lord, she would just pull them
hose out, open them up to page three hundred and
six and it would be somebody with comedia on agenitals.
Do you remember the bodies herpies on a genitals, like
the discharge all of that stuff. I stay a baby, stayless.

(01:13:11):
You ain't gonna say nothing. And then when I turned
fifteen or fourteen number one, I had bad period cramps,
not really bad, but like to the point that it
was like they'd be hurting a little bit. So my
doctor had basically gave me the option of getting on
iron pills or getting on birth control. I'm almost like,
put it on birth control. She was about to go

(01:13:31):
to high school.

Speaker 2 (01:13:33):
She knew, she knew what she seeing the way you
you know, how you be walking?

Speaker 1 (01:13:38):
How do you walking that way?

Speaker 2 (01:13:39):
Since she was.

Speaker 1 (01:13:50):
I do not fucking lie like that. You're fucking lie.
But the what's up, y'all? You're a liar.

Speaker 3 (01:14:08):
The funny thing is, though, one day I was walking
and my nigga was like, why do you walk?

Speaker 1 (01:14:13):
You do walk like that? That booty be twists and
then you know, Clay shout out to Clay.

Speaker 3 (01:14:18):
I had onto the video on me walking the other day,
and Clay was like, I love your walk so fierce.

Speaker 1 (01:14:24):
It's that stank walk. You don't stink though, not like
you know what I mean. That's that stank walk. Like
that booty just be jiggling in the wind. I'll be like,
oh my god, what's all that move? But anyways, back
to the top of your hand.

Speaker 2 (01:14:41):
I think the way that we need to teach sex
to kids and people in general is we need to
teach the value of virginity and waiting and everybody.

Speaker 1 (01:14:50):
Boys and little girls.

Speaker 2 (01:14:52):
It's not cool to just like when like when the
teachers get caught having sex with the student.

Speaker 1 (01:14:57):
When it's a guy student.

Speaker 2 (01:14:58):
With a little girl, it's all, my god, how dare you?
But when it's a woman with no it needs to
be the same energy. And I think that we that
that little boy should feel the value of their virginity
just as much as just one Tucsa, just as much

(01:15:20):
as little girl.

Speaker 1 (01:15:21):
I have a question for you.

Speaker 3 (01:15:23):
Although you are not a mother yet, you have a
nephew that's about to be a preteen.

Speaker 1 (01:15:29):
So God, does that scare you? Like thinking about that?

Speaker 2 (01:15:32):
You know what scares me more because I'm not gonna lie.
I have my oldest nephew is a little different though.
He's such a good kid, and I think you don't
have a lot of kids like that. He's very now,
he does have his ways, don't get it twisted. But
I think I'm more so fearful of the world tainting him.

(01:15:53):
And that's it gets me emotional, Like I don't even
want to cry.

Speaker 1 (01:15:56):
It makes no it's gonna make me emotional. But it
just so.

Speaker 2 (01:16:00):
Innocent, and I just think about I just think about
me growing up and how like when I got in
the real world, how much it changed me. And because
I think everybody starts off when you are born into
this world person, you're so innocent, but then you learn
the ways of people, you learn the ways of as
a man, you learn the ways of women.

Speaker 1 (01:16:21):
As a woman, you learn the ways of man.

Speaker 2 (01:16:23):
You have to deal with all these different emotions and
these different feelings. You have people gaslighting you, you have
people you know, you just have to deal with the world.
So that's more what I'm fearful of of him navigating
this world, because me, at thirty five, I'm still struggling
navigating this world. That's why we started this goddamn I show.

Speaker 3 (01:16:42):
Yeah, we both still struggling navigating ya, I don't I
feel like I always say this, like people, for whatever reason,
feel like you're gonna reach a certain pinnacle of success
or a certain pinnacle of like awareness or spirituality or whatever,
and then it's gonna be like, ah Aha, I've made it. Yes,
I don't feel like a yeah. I don't feel like

(01:17:04):
you ever make me. I feel like life is a
constant evolution and you're always evolved me, And so I
can understand your fear when it comes to that, because
it's just kind of like, don't you feel like that's
inevitable though, Like life changes you unfortunately, and it sucks.

Speaker 1 (01:17:22):
That's the thing that sucks.

Speaker 3 (01:17:23):
About Like at one point we were children and now
we're a those and when watching like our little sisters,
little brothers, nephews, cousins grow up and like it's nothing
you could do to change it, and it makes you
a little emotional because you know that innocence is gonna
be going soon as you.

Speaker 1 (01:17:43):
Realize, like.

Speaker 3 (01:17:46):
People ain't right, people ain't all people, ain't good people,
and unfortunately we can't do anything to stop somebody from
doing some fucked up shit. So our nephews, your little
sisters and little brothers, little cousins. So you know, it
just sucks because I think that that does taint you.
But it's nothing we can do about it. It's just like, okay,

(01:18:06):
protecting from the world. But I think good people are
gonna remain good people. Oh yeah, and bad people remember
that she taints.

Speaker 2 (01:18:13):
But the thing that while I'm not scared for my
nephew is because he has a good heart. Like I
see some kids, I'll be like you bad as fuck,
like you already taint it. You.

Speaker 1 (01:18:24):
I saw, y'all.

Speaker 2 (01:18:25):
I saw a clip of two fourteen year old boys
on a bus. This little fourteen year old boy walked
on the bus, pulled out a gun. Pull the kill
that boy three but the gun jam yep, the gun
jam yup. That Hey, God, you want to talk about

(01:18:45):
our little boy is tainted?

Speaker 1 (01:18:47):
Lock him up and throw away the key.

Speaker 3 (01:18:49):
That they did though he got uh he got like
sixteen years or twenty years. I I feel like he
needed life for sure, yeah, but like he got sixteen.

Speaker 1 (01:19:00):
It's there. But that's what she was talking about favor. Hello,
that's what you call God's faith literally, because.

Speaker 2 (01:19:07):
It was three times he was trying to pull and
I mean the bus driver ran off the bus.

Speaker 1 (01:19:12):
She was scared.

Speaker 2 (01:19:12):
Everybody was mad at the bus driver, but it was
like she was scared for her life. But anyways, to
get back to the point, and it was a shooting today.
I just was on social media.

Speaker 3 (01:19:20):
It was where an hour away from Atlanta at a
high school.

Speaker 1 (01:19:26):
And that's another thing I fear too.

Speaker 2 (01:19:28):
Like I fear, I just it's the world is scary,
and when I think how wild I was when I
was a teenager, I'm just like, ooh, I hope my
nephew is not like that. But I just all you
can do is just pray that he makes the right
decision and that God, you know, protects him. But I
will say as far as him dealing with the world,
he has a good He's a good person, and he
has a good heart, like I know him. So I

(01:19:49):
think that's what makes me feel okay because I know
I have a good heart, and I know I've attracted
the right people around me, and I feel like that's
why I'm so blessed and I'm able. I'm still trying
to figure out life, but life is good, you know,
Like I can lay my head down a night and
be like, you know what, I'm doing something right. And
that's all I want for him is just to be
you know, just to be okay and not dealing with

(01:20:10):
them demons that people be fighting with mentally. So I
think knowing him and knowing his heart, I think he'll
be okay.

Speaker 1 (01:20:16):
I think so. So he's a sweet kid. He is
a sweet kid. So now it's to oh so, anyways,
let us tell what.

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Speaker 1 (01:21:37):
Before we do that, let's just talk. What's y'all to?
You want to take it right now? I need to.
I'm gonna take it after I read the first question.
I need. I need my words to be coherent.

Speaker 2 (01:21:48):
Okay, So my bop of the week this y'all know
I usually do indie artists, but I did not do
it indie artists this week. I did this artist because
she has been everywhere and I was just like social
because I'm like where she came out of nowhere for me.
Somebody said this is her fifth or sixth studio album.
I had no idea. I'm not in the tea, I'm
not in the no But Sabrina Carpenter released the album

(01:22:13):
Baby When I tell you, I don't know who she
got on her team writing and producing for her. Baby,
keep this team and don't switch up. Oh, keep this
team forever. She got a song on her album called
bed Kim and it's about having like bedroom chemistry with
a man. And when I tell you it got that
like like you cant low key do a little two.

Speaker 1 (01:22:33):
Step to it.

Speaker 2 (01:22:35):
She got a little she could she be vibing. She
got a little voice, a little tone on her.

Speaker 1 (01:22:42):
She is a vibe.

Speaker 2 (01:22:44):
So that's my bop of the week, Sabrina Carpenter Bed Kim, y'all,
this is actually a really solid pop album. This is
what I will say now. Remember how we were talking
about white mediocrity, mediocracy, Oh white y'all got that shit
down packed the pops.

Speaker 1 (01:23:01):
They brought back pop stars.

Speaker 2 (01:23:03):
We haven't had no pop stars since, like Britney Spears
and Christina Aguilre and Mandy Moore and Jessica Simpson.

Speaker 1 (01:23:10):
They got Tate, Tate, Tate McCray.

Speaker 2 (01:23:12):
That little girl, Sabrina Carpenter doing her thing, Billie Eilish,
They your.

Speaker 1 (01:23:18):
Oh you know what, I just want you to think
about it real quick. I am thinking who is my favorite?

Speaker 2 (01:23:28):
Oh Jojo c a star staw star exactly. Jojo Sea
would have been a staroh since she was like twelve. Yeah,
but I'll say this, y'all, y'all, the the white people,
they got that on lot right now, the white the
white girls are doing their thing with the pop music.
I can't lie y'all doing y'all big one. Sabrina Carpenter,

(01:23:49):
you got an album on your hands, and it is
Grammy is a Grammy worthy album. And I hope she
released it in time where she can submit it to
the Grammys because come February, I want to see my
girl with.

Speaker 1 (01:24:01):
A Grammy in the hand. Okay, Mmmm, what you got? Okay?

Speaker 3 (01:24:07):
So I really liked that song Problem by Cash Problem.

Speaker 1 (01:24:13):
You know, that's Most Death Daughter Layla. No.

Speaker 3 (01:24:17):
I did not know that that's crazy, So yeah, that's
my wife of the week Cash Cobaine and Layla Problem.
I think that song is so cute, It's so catchy.

Speaker 1 (01:24:27):
It's been going.

Speaker 3 (01:24:28):
Crazy on social on TikTok, Instagram, everybody has been using
it as a little background. So, yeah, I didn't know
that was Most Daughter.

Speaker 2 (01:24:39):
What was the other song that she had that went
viral on social media? Yeah?

Speaker 1 (01:24:43):
Do you want oh that was her song too, like that.

Speaker 3 (01:24:49):
Yeah, yeah, okay, period shout out to shout out to Cashin.

Speaker 2 (01:24:55):
I like when the when people are you know, offspring
of stars and they kind of start creating their own
lane and their own way.

Speaker 1 (01:25:03):
People be mad at info babies. I don't. I ain't
mad at it. I hope my kid is one insane
to be honest, because look at what Bronnie's Why work
Hardronnie is literally on the Lakers right now because who
is daddy is? And I love it. I don't care.
I love it too. I'm like, why work hard when
you don't have to?

Speaker 3 (01:25:20):
If you could live off of the fruits of my labor,
let's do it something right, Let's.

Speaker 1 (01:25:25):
Do it right.

Speaker 2 (01:25:26):
I wish I could have lived off the fruits of
my parents, like I'm telling you, but they fucked up.

Speaker 1 (01:25:32):
Damn it. I'm kidding. I love y'all. What's up, y'all?
At your girl XP and it's Sugarl Dre and the Cale.

Speaker 2 (01:25:39):
Y'all know, we have a segment on Poor Minds called
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Speaker 2 (01:26:34):
But yeah, So now it's time to get into our
favorite segment of the week.

Speaker 1 (01:26:41):
Question number one, Pour your heart out.

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saying poor like pr It's like, ooh, anyways, question them boy, Hey,

(01:27:19):
Alex Andrea. I love me some y'all, and I watch
y'all every chance I get. I try my best to
not miss an episode. I'm a thirty three year old
woman with no kids, and I'm loving my thirties. It's
really like my twenties with more money. Unfortunately, I'm in
a conflicting situation right now when it comes to my relationship.
Me and my nigga been together on and off for

(01:27:41):
going on eight years. I've come to conclusion that I
no longer want to be with him. He's done some
things that I really just can't get over, and I've tried,
but I just can't. Not only that, but I'm not
trying to be nobody's forever girlfriend. Eight years is a
lot of time to be playing house with no ring.
We live together, and just wants to completely rebrand my life.

(01:28:02):
New city, new career, new home, and new men because
me and my Sneaky Link are feeling are falling in love.
Yes I'm cheating, but that nigga cheated first. I don't
know when and how to tell my current boyfriend I'm
leaving him. Do I wait to solidify a new place,
then tell him? Do I tell him when I'm walking

(01:28:22):
out the door with my sheit. I want to be
considerate because we go fifty to fifty on all the bills,
and I don't want to just leave him hanging. But
I also don't want to put my own once and
needs on the back burner. Outside of him being my boyfriend,
he's also like a best friend too. How and when
do I tell him? Because I got to get the
fuck out of here. So I'll say this, that's actually

(01:28:46):
that's crazy. That's eight years. That's a lot.

Speaker 1 (01:28:48):
And I get it. He cheated on you.

Speaker 2 (01:28:50):
You tried to forgive him, and you tried to make
it work. You did your due diligence as a partner,
You tried to get over it and you couldn't. Now
you got you a whole little situation. You fall in
love and you were ready to move on. Don't so
I think, for one, I want to tell you, don't feel.

Speaker 1 (01:29:03):
Bad for that, Like chitting.

Speaker 2 (01:29:05):
Maybe it's not right and you could have done that
part a little different, but don't feel bad for.

Speaker 1 (01:29:10):
Wanting to move on and let go of the situation.

Speaker 2 (01:29:11):
But I will say this the fact that y'all are
splitting bills and things like that. I think solidify your
new place. Give him like a thirty day notice and
let him know, Hey, just to let you know this
is what's going on. But give him a thirty day
notice and be on your way. I feel like one
thing about it. If the roles were reversed and he
was ready to leave, we always say this me and

(01:29:32):
gonna do what they want to do. When he would have,
you know, I don't know if he would have left
out the blue. I don't know him obviously, but he's
gonna be leaving.

Speaker 1 (01:29:39):
And I don't care if the rolls were seending me what.

Speaker 2 (01:29:46):
Okay or what what? The rolls could be reversed. They
could be rolls rois seend him.

Speaker 1 (01:29:59):
In the rolls. I don't care. I got get the
fuck Okay, you're right.

Speaker 2 (01:30:05):
Okay, I get it out. Yes, I agree one thousand percent,
But yes, I do think you should do what you're
gonna do and do what's best for you. You're only thirty
three years old, you have no kids, you have life
ahead of you.

Speaker 3 (01:30:18):
I love a good rebrand me too. I ain't mad, addie.
I feel like when you gotta go. You gotta go,
you know when your time is up. The worst thing
that people do is like God trying to tell you
when you need to get rid of somebody or a
situation or a thing in your life, and you're trying
to hold on to it because at the end of
the day, he's going.

Speaker 1 (01:30:36):
To make you get rid of it regardless.

Speaker 2 (01:30:38):
So you can either get rid of it willingly or
you can get it snatched from you because let me sorry,
something bad can happen. Let me tell you how God
beat my ass because I wouldn't get this man out
of my life, and he beat my ass.

Speaker 1 (01:30:49):
Down to the ground really bad bad. I was there. Yeah,
I like, I hear.

Speaker 2 (01:30:55):
Look, I'm still showing up smiling every week, but I
was rock bottom. But I say all that to say,
you seem like you're in pretty good spirits. You know
what you want to do, and just leave right now.
Give them a little thirty day notice. You can at
least give him that. But like I said, you tried
to make it work. Some people can get over cheating
and some people can't. And you're a person who can't

(01:31:15):
get over it. And that's okay because you're going to
find a man who's not going to cheat on you,
who realizes your worth and understands your loyalty. And you know,
it may be the new dude you with, it may
be somebody else. You have time. Like I said, you're
thirty three, no kids, girl, you literally have the world
on your side. And that's what it took me to realize,
Like I have everything going for me, I can leave

(01:31:38):
and find something better, and I did just that.

Speaker 1 (01:31:42):
You did. Don't worry about them rolls.

Speaker 2 (01:31:44):
Don't worry about them rolls, whether they send him in
or roys.

Speaker 1 (01:31:48):
Period or back shut the hell. Okay, this is from
a patriot. I remember, Hi, ladies.

Speaker 2 (01:32:03):
I love the show and I've been watching it for
a few years now. I'm a twenty three year old
female who is stuck in between two guys that don't
know about each other. Gud number one I met around
October twenty twenty three, and we hit it off immediately,
great communication, A real lover who looks out for me,
and it is a great time.

Speaker 1 (01:32:20):
I can talk to him all day.

Speaker 2 (01:32:22):
God number two I met around June of twenty twenty three,
and instantly I was physically attracted to him and we
hit it off well, we also grew up together when
we were kids, so our family loves each other. The
problem that I'm having is that both of them want
to settle down with me and make it.

Speaker 1 (01:32:37):
Official for me to be their girlfriend.

Speaker 2 (01:32:39):
God number one has great conversation, but the sex isn't good.
He smokes a lot as as well as his highgie
needs to improve. Not that he is dirty, but just
things like dirty fingernails outside, clothes in the bed, like
one time I saw him blow his nose and a
pair of gem shorts because he didn't want to get
up for a tissue. I haven't had with him in months.

(01:33:01):
God number two, we have great sex. The attraction is there,
the hygiene is amazing, but that attitude is terrible. We
argue all the time to where we will stop talking
for a few days. Sometimes we eventually make up, but
it's draining.

Speaker 1 (01:33:15):
I don't know what.

Speaker 2 (01:33:16):
To do or what its issue is easier to fix,
Like do I pick good sex and bad communication or
do I pick good communication but bad sex?

Speaker 1 (01:33:25):
Lol?

Speaker 2 (01:33:25):
Help I love them both first of all.

Speaker 3 (01:33:27):
To say, no, he not dirty, but his nails dirty
and he blowing his nose in jeans.

Speaker 1 (01:33:32):
Jim short, that's even more. Oh what I'm saying, Jim schwyts,
because that's worse than gene is it?

Speaker 2 (01:33:38):
No, just just better because they saw No Jim tchortes
are worse because you've been sweating and you got that
dunk butter in there.

Speaker 1 (01:33:45):
You know what duck butter is. That's nasty.

Speaker 3 (01:33:48):
He dirty, And I'm glad you're not fucking him no
more because he probably gonna give you something.

Speaker 1 (01:33:54):
Because if he don't wash his nails, if you don't
like washing underneath them balls.

Speaker 3 (01:33:59):
He definitely washing underneath the balls, and that mean he
don't drink water.

Speaker 1 (01:34:05):
I don't know. I don't like that.

Speaker 3 (01:34:07):
I think you should get rid of both the niggasactly.
I think you should get rid of both the niggas
because I don't want a nigga with a bad attitude.

Speaker 1 (01:34:17):
But I also don't want a nigga with motor oil underneath.

Speaker 2 (01:34:20):
His nails changing look like he's been changing all all day.

Speaker 1 (01:34:25):
I even got a job.

Speaker 3 (01:34:26):
A nigga with dirty nails always gonna reb me the
wrong way because you see that and you don't want
to clean it, like you don't want to go get
a manicure, Like manicures are so nice on men. I
don't understand why men don't be wanting to get manicures.
You don't even got to get polished like some dudes
like to do the clear coat. You don't have to
do the clear cold. You could just get a nice little.

Speaker 1 (01:34:45):
Buff get their feet if you get a nice little buff.

Speaker 3 (01:34:48):
But like, go get your nails done as a man,
Why do you have dirty ass fingernails?

Speaker 1 (01:34:56):
A man who don't go to the nail shop is
not a man for me. Me neither. I don't like
that honey man and have his feet none in his hands. Money,
you don't gotta be done.

Speaker 2 (01:35:05):
But oh, I mean like a manicure, a pedicure like
cleaned up was hanging all.

Speaker 1 (01:35:09):
No, I understand what you're saying. I get it.

Speaker 3 (01:35:11):
You don't want no black fingernails. You don't want black polish.
You're not saying done done.

Speaker 1 (01:35:16):
No, you're not. I don't need you with a French
tip now.

Speaker 3 (01:35:19):
Yeah, because you may be doing that these days, but
you need a man who is well kept, who takes
pride in his appearance. I feel like if a man
don't take pride in his appearance, if he don't take
pride in how to.

Speaker 1 (01:35:34):
Fuck he be looking walking around every day. Why he
give a fuck about anything else? And all of all
I feel.

Speaker 2 (01:35:41):
And also I feel like you're twenty three. You should
not have an ultimatum to feel like you have to settle.
This man not doing this and this man not doing this,
go get you another one.

Speaker 1 (01:35:53):
You're twenty three years old.

Speaker 2 (01:35:54):
I'm telling you, when you turn twenty five, you probably
gonna look back at them two niggas and be like,
what was I even thinking?

Speaker 1 (01:36:01):
So don't settle, Go have fun, go.

Speaker 2 (01:36:03):
Be outside, because I don't know if you want to
be in a relationship or not, But don't settle until
you have a man that has I feel like this.
If you have a list of ten things, you're the
person that you should pick.

Speaker 1 (01:36:16):
Sure, mark off. Nine agreed. I agree. Nine things.

Speaker 3 (01:36:21):
That's like you said a word because you really give
it a little bit too much grace. Because the nails
is enough for me to stop talking to Dinney.

Speaker 1 (01:36:28):
Oh yeah, you're not even getting my number, and.

Speaker 3 (01:36:31):
You damn sure not getting these scuochy no more. Now,
what's that, Craig, what's all that moving back?

Speaker 2 (01:36:36):
Then?

Speaker 1 (01:36:39):
Oh my god? Yes, the horror wish face.

Speaker 2 (01:36:45):
This was from first exactly.

Speaker 1 (01:36:55):
That is dray up. What is this from our first tour?
This is the second?

Speaker 2 (01:37:01):
No, we used it on both tours. I think though, no,
this was last year. But what I'm saying is.

Speaker 1 (01:37:09):
This was twenty twenty.

Speaker 2 (01:37:10):
Yes, because I remember this was before my boob surgery. Oh,
this was before my my boob surgery.

Speaker 1 (01:37:17):
It's even taken over for the No.

Speaker 3 (01:37:19):
I ain't gonna lie on. This was cute, like nine
nine cent in two thousands. It was even Hot Boys.

Speaker 1 (01:37:24):
Oh god, god, this is so embarrassing. It was given
Hot Boys nineteen ninety nine. This is actually awful as hell?
Is he? I like it? I like the money following
in the bag. I think like it just shows our
g I ain't grown that much.

Speaker 2 (01:37:39):
This pose and this pose is crazy because look I
got on the jasetties. You got on the tomb for
her and skintily clad closely because why.

Speaker 1 (01:37:49):
At least you had on a little cover up. I
was letting it all hang out. Look at that bottom titty.
That's a whole chicken cutlet right there. They is dry.
That's yized. Oh my god, bro.

Speaker 2 (01:38:05):
Yeah, this looks like only whrrors advertise advertisement.

Speaker 1 (01:38:11):
But you know what's crazy? Them shirts so they need
shout out to the poor crew. Y'all supported. It looks
cute though, but that's what I'm saying.

Speaker 3 (01:38:19):
Evolution growth, the next photo shoot, the next post of
y'all see, we would be sitting at a table with teacups.

Speaker 2 (01:38:26):
Yes, in my long, drain my long. I will never
Oh my god, Craig.

Speaker 1 (01:38:33):
Now you know you wrong? Are you embarrassed? Are you
I'm ashamed? I'm not ashamed.

Speaker 2 (01:38:39):
Well you know I'm not ashamed, and I'm just like,
what were you doing? We was having fun.

Speaker 1 (01:38:44):
It was fun.

Speaker 3 (01:38:45):
I love like, I loved that about us stuff because
I feel like we're gonna be seventy, like looking at
all versions of ourself, but at least we have all.

Speaker 1 (01:38:53):
The versions of ourselves.

Speaker 3 (01:38:54):
I feel like people be so afraid to like do stuff,
and then they get old and they be like, damn,
I wish I would have did I wish I would
have did that. I can honestly say, we're gonna be
seventy and it ain't gonna be shit.

Speaker 1 (01:39:04):
We wish we would have, did you know what? Rich said?
Rich tweeted this the other day.

Speaker 2 (01:39:08):
He said, when lexpi Andre used to walk out to FMF.

Speaker 1 (01:39:14):
By glow realer on that first row.

Speaker 2 (01:39:15):
You just had to be there because it was like
when that beat drop and everybody.

Speaker 1 (01:39:20):
Was just like it was like, oh, it was like it.

Speaker 2 (01:39:27):
Was like we would walk out and it was like, oh,
my fucking guy.

Speaker 1 (01:39:31):
It was. It was a time like I will never
both tours. And we still walking on to glow really.

Speaker 3 (01:39:37):
Because we walked off the Hood and Best Fishing and
people was looking at.

Speaker 2 (01:39:39):
Her like and I was still Pete fred Is ninety
five degree, don't give We're really about us.

Speaker 1 (01:39:46):
We're gonna be ourselves because what y'all gonna do? Tell
me to get off the stage. I hate, like why
people gotta be some down bougie y'all.

Speaker 2 (01:39:53):
They was, but I think they started feeling this at
a time.

Speaker 3 (01:39:56):
No, they did start feeling us later, but it was
like they was definitely looking at it.

Speaker 1 (01:40:00):
It's crazy when it came out. All right, all right,
what's you?

Speaker 3 (01:40:07):
Of course, Musbauty collection dot com. Make sure you get
your lip glosses, your liquid lipliners, sticks, liquid lipsticks and lipliners.
I'm a little tipsy, but yes, Musbaty Collection dot com.
Of course, make sure y'all subscribe to my l t K.
I'm always posting everything on there, from like my outfits

(01:40:29):
to my skincare to my makeup routine, hair products, literally
everything you can think of, I'm posting on my LTK.

Speaker 1 (01:40:38):
What else? Let me think your TikTok, my TikTok.

Speaker 3 (01:40:42):
Follow me on TikTok, follow me on Instagram, follow me
on poor mine period.

Speaker 2 (01:40:49):
Oh you are, and y'all know, look Auntie, I've been
I've been.

Speaker 1 (01:40:54):
Acting on Oh.

Speaker 3 (01:40:56):
Yeah, follow my YouTube at raading the call with threes,
I'm dropping get ready with me, chit chats all of
the above all type of beauty contents.

Speaker 1 (01:41:06):
So y'all follow me over there. Oh and make sure
y'all vote for her for the Saphora. I know it's
gonna be over.

Speaker 2 (01:41:13):
It's okay, so, y'all, I've been to TikTok now support
of queen.

Speaker 1 (01:41:17):
Y'all.

Speaker 2 (01:41:18):
Make sure y'all follow me on TikTok. I've been doing
good on my TikTok. Y'all know my YouTube. Hopefully by
the time this drop, I don't know when this is
gonna drop, but hopefully the house falls and stuff will
then drop. Y'all know I'm getting in my reality TV bag.
I'm gonna be talking about all the tea, all the
mess y'all been asking me to this for a long time,
so by the time the drop, hopefully everything will be

(01:41:40):
set up and ready to go.

Speaker 1 (01:41:41):
See y'all.

Speaker 2 (01:41:42):
Make sure y'all follow me on YouTube YouTube dot com
slash love lexp.

Speaker 1 (01:41:46):
We're gonna be talking about everything on there. I'll follow
us on Patreon.

Speaker 3 (01:41:50):
We have a new show called Core Chronicle every Monday
on Patreon, so make sure y'all follow us on there,
and then we also are now dropping all of the
new episodes weekly early on Patreon. For the bottle poppings
here every Wednesday, it's gonna be on Patreon, and then
of course if not, you know, you can still watch.

Speaker 1 (01:42:11):
Here on Friday period. All right, we'll see y'all next week.

Speaker 2 (01:42:14):
By y'all, y'all, make sure y'all share the content like subscribe,
follow all that good stuff. And let me say this
before we close out, y'all. There is one Twitter account
that is connected to poor Minds. It's p oh you
are underscore in my nds. Y'all are tagging the wrong
poor Minds page. If you see at poor Minds with

(01:42:35):
no underscore, that is at fake page. Do not follow
that page. Okay, they block me Andrea and the poor
Minds page on both. So we only have one Instagram,
one Twitter, one TikTok it is p oh, you are
underscore in my nds all.

Speaker 1 (01:42:52):
Right, And we got a hell a fake Facebook page.
All the Facebook pages our face.

Speaker 3 (01:42:58):
The crazy thing is our Facebook page actually have the
least amount of fileport. So if you fay, the one
that's hours got the least amount of.

Speaker 1 (01:43:05):
File but one that's not us got like two hundred and.

Speaker 2 (01:43:08):
Fifty make if you actually look at the content, because
the caption is like whoever it is, don't speak English,
because their captains are like bumba claude, should men?

Speaker 1 (01:43:17):
Should men pay bill? Should men pay bill? Yes?

Speaker 2 (01:43:20):
No? Check answer below block block po Like that's literally
with the captions.

Speaker 1 (01:43:28):
I'm like, what that DG is?

Speaker 2 (01:43:30):
Bumba claude, bumba claud.

Speaker 4 (01:43:34):
Ki lea to my eyes like open doors.

Speaker 1 (01:43:40):
I thought I was a girl leading.

Speaker 5 (01:43:44):
You into my card where if he comes so nice
without a soul, my speries sleeping somewhere cold until you

(01:44:04):
start it there me and leave.

Speaker 6 (01:44:14):
Wake me down, then wake up, wake me up and
save me.

Speaker 4 (01:44:21):
The save me.

Speaker 5 (01:44:23):
From the spin my blood on before racle for a comment.

Speaker 4 (01:44:31):
From the nothing of because no that I know with
them with.

Speaker 1 (01:44:43):
You can't just leave me.

Speaker 4 (01:44:47):
Breathe into me and make me.

Speaker 1 (01:44:53):
Breathe lo.

Speaker 6 (01:45:01):
Wake me up and said, wake me up inside, save
me from that time, my blood in my bloods before
I call, before I comment, save.

Speaker 4 (01:45:17):
Darkness, time be come free, breath me to.

Speaker 6 (01:45:40):
Fro in inside without trying without Joel.

Speaker 1 (01:45:53):
On the log among the day. Oh this is my
fond keepping the dog, but she was in front of
me was a thousand years, it seems.

Speaker 6 (01:46:08):
Got to open my eyes to everything.

Speaker 2 (01:46:10):
Without a thought, without a voice, without soul.

Speaker 1 (01:46:13):
Don't let me die here. There must be something more.

Speaker 5 (01:46:17):
Breed me.

Speaker 6 (01:46:22):
Up beside, break me up inside, name and save me
from that dog.

Speaker 5 (01:46:31):
Beat my bloods along right before.

Speaker 4 (01:46:34):
A comment, SA the darkly side, breathe mey.

Speaker 1 (01:47:02):
That was good? What it? Yeah? Yeah, Saly
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