U Dont Know Me

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Speaker 1 (00:00):
All the tea that y'all have on us is because
we gave it to you. Everything that y'all know about
us is because we have talked about it on the
show and we have been vulnerable and honest. You have
never clocked our tea because you really saw something or
found something.

Speaker 2 (00:15):
And realistically speaking, ivy curving niggas that you niggas be
ready to FuG booty whole wid wide open, busted wide
opens booty like what blown out?

Speaker 1 (00:50):
What's up?

Speaker 3 (00:51):
Y'all?

Speaker 1 (00:51):
Is your girl lix Pete and it's sugar jer in
the call and you are tuned in to another episode of.

Speaker 3 (00:57):
Poor Mine, where a drunk mind speaks sought.

Speaker 1 (01:00):
We ain't got no gifts today. We ain't got no
gifts today. Hey you know what? Yeah, let me just
say this. I have to give us our flowers and
our things. We just went on a crazy press run
and we got so much good content that's out right now,
like we did Roya Mall. Shout out to Roya Mall.

(01:22):
That was a fire episode. Hopefully by the time this drops,
EYO will have dropped. I think it should have. I
think it's gonna drop this week. Actually shot out to
RuSHA and Troy.

Speaker 3 (01:37):
And we did the name it is wrong with you?
I'm a little tipsy?

Speaker 1 (01:42):
Who is?

Speaker 3 (01:44):
And that was my fancy lady.

Speaker 1 (01:48):
I'm gonna talk about a trouble queens, but we're gonna
get to that in a second. But we just did
a breakfast club.

Speaker 3 (01:54):
With you don't need but however for me, as for
me and my family?

Speaker 1 (02:01):
Are we? But yeah, we just had breakfast club Royal Man,
aren't your leisure? And oh my gosh, like we just
took New York over. We was in the streets stomping around.
What else is new? And then we did open thoughts
with Marco Summers. Our episode with him dropped last week.

Speaker 3 (02:18):
Four months we did two open thoughts with Marcos.

Speaker 1 (02:22):
Shout out to Marco Summers. I think we have been doing.

Speaker 3 (02:25):
A great job.

Speaker 1 (02:26):
I just feel like every time people think we have peaked,
we just keep on push.

Speaker 2 (02:32):
I don't really understand why people think that there's a
ped Well.

Speaker 1 (02:35):
I think people are mean, Well know people are mean
to us on Twitter.

Speaker 2 (02:40):
I'm about to deactivate my Twitter person there with well,
I probably will delete it. To be honest, I just
feel like real celebrities like real I mean to be honest,
I think at one point it was like an era
where like Kim Kardashi and Rihanna negsweet, but Kim Kardashian Rihanna,

(03:01):
I think jay Z used to be tweeting, quote because
quote me if I'm wrong, let me know if I'm
wrong in the comments, y'all.

Speaker 3 (03:08):
But I think jay Z kan Kanye still be tweeting.

Speaker 1 (03:11):
But jay Z did because I remember he said he tweeted.

Speaker 3 (03:14):
He I feel like jay Z had a Twitter.

Speaker 1 (03:16):
He tweeted. He was like, hey, lex follow back and
I was like, oh, what's up?

Speaker 2 (03:20):
Bro?

Speaker 3 (03:20):
Yeah, so he.

Speaker 2 (03:21):
That was a burner. I mean, not even a burner,
my bad. That was a fake account. A burner be
actually people, it actually be the person try it.

Speaker 3 (03:32):
That is a fake account up follow back.

Speaker 2 (03:34):
But no, I do I feel like it was a
point in time maybe like ten years ago, because it's
twenty twenty five right now. So yeah, ten fifteen years
ago where celebrities did used to be on Twitter tweeting
and stuff, and now she used to be monetizing their tweets,
baking because Kim Kardashi used to make like, I think
two thousand, three thousand dollars.

Speaker 3 (03:53):
It was more than that.

Speaker 2 (03:54):
It was more than that, but like she used to
make money from promoting things on Twitter.

Speaker 3 (03:59):
I just think we're in an era now where.

Speaker 2 (04:01):
It's nothing but like troll. I've been on Twitter like
nothing but miserable people. Don't get me wrong, it's still
some of some of y'all are nights like. It is
a lot of people on Twitter who support poor minds,
who support Lenx and I, but it's also a lot
of very negative, mean people like bitch, I can't say nothing.

Speaker 1 (04:23):
We're gonna talk about what you said in the second
because I'm.

Speaker 3 (04:26):
In I say what I said.

Speaker 1 (04:29):
But I'm getting a shout out to niny Lee. I'm
getting attacked right now. I'm getting called all kind of
N words. Why because I twiteted so Aiden Ross the streamer. Yeah,
he went on a stream the other day. He called
Meg thee Stallion the B word and was talking about
free Toy. Then he decides to say that do she

(04:49):
is unintelligent and she's a beat B word. So I
was like, he's always speaking on black women and it's
never positive. Because my thing is, if you always want
to be in.

Speaker 3 (04:58):
This black these blacks spaces.

Speaker 1 (05:01):
Okay, I get it, you don't have to like every
person whatever, but at least be positive. Do you ever
have anything to say about anything with black women? So
I said, I was like, damn, he's a little too
comfortable speaking negatively.

Speaker 3 (05:13):
I saw that. Oh, they are in my mentions. You know,
you went viral. It didn't go viral.

Speaker 1 (05:18):
It didn't go viral, but it has like a thousand
retweets whatever. But they are in my comments calling me
everything but a child of God. But guess what, I
don't give a damn about no streamers.

Speaker 3 (05:28):
I'm not in that world.

Speaker 1 (05:30):
Y'all, don't scare me. I said what I said, stop
being in these black spaces and speaking on black women.
Y'all don't know how hard it is for us to
be in these spaces.

Speaker 3 (05:41):
Because you're a.

Speaker 1 (05:42):
White man who gets to do whatever y'all want to do.
It's different for us. So again I say, if you're
gonna be in black spaces, you need to move a
little better. But of course he doesn't have to because
you have black men who allow him in these spaces.

Speaker 3 (05:57):
And they be around him and allowing him to.

Speaker 1 (05:59):
Do whatever he wants to do because of his name
and who he is.

Speaker 3 (06:02):
But I said what I said, Well, I tweeted something
like that.

Speaker 2 (06:05):
I tweeted something that was similar to that earlier today
because it was a particular celebrity who made a post.
I saw that too, about the Cassie and d D trial,
Yes or whatever, And this particular celebrity is always on
the Internet spewing ignorance and misogyny, and people are always

(06:29):
in our comments saying, oh, y'all need to have this
person on the show.

Speaker 3 (06:33):
How while I do think that he is a hoots, agreed,
I would never.

Speaker 2 (06:38):
Care to have him on this show because he's always
on the Internet saying some bullsheet that I.

Speaker 3 (06:44):
Don't agree with.

Speaker 2 (06:46):
So I said nothing about the particular person, but I
just made a separate tweet. Well, I did retweet the
tweet and I put like the little side I faid.
But after that I made a tweet. I composed a
tweet and I said, you know, I really wish a
lot of these celebrity men would ship the fuck up,
because every time they get on the Internet, they're saying

(07:09):
some bullshit and needs nothing, and the misogyny is jumping out.
The misogyny is jumping out these y'all face. Somebody responded
to me and they said Andrea, which.

Speaker 1 (07:22):
My name is Drea.

Speaker 3 (07:24):
It is Dre and the cold because I hate.

Speaker 1 (07:29):
Because when people call me my first name, me too.

Speaker 2 (07:33):
Bro it pissed it when I say, and it boils
my blood. Do not call me by my fucking first
name if you don't know me like that.

Speaker 3 (07:42):
Get you don't know me like that, getting bad.

Speaker 1 (07:46):
You don't know me like in a word. So come
on and the words of big called bag big give.

Speaker 3 (07:55):
Me fifty feet, Give me fifty feet.

Speaker 1 (07:57):
Because y'all do not know me. I didn't know you
knew I go.

Speaker 3 (08:09):
You don't know the words.

Speaker 2 (08:10):
Actually, that's why you were trying to low key do
background box. But you would have made me waste my
drink on myself shaking his damn who she's shaking the table.

Speaker 3 (08:21):
You made me waste this ship on myself.

Speaker 2 (08:23):
But no, so yeah, so thank you, thank you, because
I was looking for the tweet where the dude, because
I retweeted the guy they said something crazy to me.
He gonna say, He said, Andrea, we know you'd be
quick today for money and fame to stop. I said,
I'm already getting the money and the fame too, without

(08:45):
having to be publicly attached to a man, what's your knicks?

Speaker 1 (08:48):
Argus? Oh clocket?

Speaker 3 (08:52):
Because where do people that?

Speaker 2 (08:54):
And that's why I said I'm gonna take a break
from Twitter, thank you.

Speaker 3 (08:56):
See, That's why I said I'm just.

Speaker 2 (08:58):
About to deactivate my Twitter because y'all are losers. Respectfully,
you don't know me. I don't know you. You don't
know me. All everything you know about me you know
from poor minds. You don't know nobody y'all dated. You
don't know none of my friends. You don't know anything
that I have going on. But you have created this
opinion about me where you feel like I would date
for fame and money. If I would date for fame

(09:20):
and money, why ain't ity a lot of your faves
be trying to holler turning it down?

Speaker 3 (09:28):
Curry.

Speaker 1 (09:28):
I also say that all the tea that y'all have
on us is because we gave it to you. Everything
that y'all know about us is because we have talked
about it on the show and we have been vulnerable
and honest. You have never clocked our tea because you
really saw something or found something.

Speaker 2 (09:45):
And realistically speaking, ivy curving niggas, that you niggas be
ready to FuG booty whole Why why open busted wide open?

Speaker 3 (09:53):
Oh booty like what blown out? Like a I think
what juvenile said?

Speaker 2 (10:01):
He said loose booted something something I don't know, but
if the gangster can't hit it, what you're busting it for?

Speaker 1 (10:07):
But I will be.

Speaker 3 (10:09):
For real, y'all be just saying anything.

Speaker 2 (10:12):
And then I think people love to speak on you
and I and the things that we said five or
so years ago. We've evolved into all different people and
it's like that's that's okay though, because that's a version
of myself.

Speaker 1 (10:26):
But I ain't never ashamed of any version. All the
episodes are still Yeah, I'm never.

Speaker 2 (10:30):
Ashamed of any version of me. Cringey at times some
of the things that I will say, but I'm not ashamed.
That's why they're still up because we always have the power,
like you just said, to delete the ship if.

Speaker 1 (10:39):
We don't want it up. Delete for what, but deleted
for what? It's not that deed.

Speaker 2 (10:45):
So the things that people be thinking is a clockable
moment or you think you're really saying something profound, you
ain't really saying shit because you don't know me, and
you never have receiveds who somebody said you saying all
of these, but you'll be moving in them circles.

Speaker 3 (11:02):
With who in what circles? Where are the receipts?

Speaker 1 (11:07):
And this is what I have to say. I like,
like I said, out of all the apps, is the
one app that you don't make money on, and I
think this is what it is. Though I think people
are mad because we graduated from that app and a
lot of people want to do what we're doing.

Speaker 2 (11:20):
We was on the couch in our house right and
now we've elevated and y'all still.

Speaker 1 (11:26):
Couch and this is not me just be but y'all
are be so rude to us on there. It's crazy
because when when drama goes on with poor Minds retweets
three thousand, these birds retweets three thousand, but when it's
something positive retweets eight retweets. Folk which camera is my
camera for?

Speaker 2 (11:46):
Let me look directly at this camera when I say these,
because I mean this wholeheartedly. No opinion of anybody that
is on the X app, the Instagram app, the TikTok app,
none of these apps.

Speaker 3 (11:59):
Like y'all's opinion don't matter.

Speaker 2 (12:01):
It's not going to ever stop anything from me and
Lex because this is God.

Speaker 3 (12:05):
Ordained an annoyance. We're annointed.

Speaker 2 (12:09):
Our lives have been annoyed long before y'all ever met us.
We were supposed to be on the path. This was
already the past for our life. Y'all can't stop shet.
All y'all can do is be mad and keep watching
the elevation.

Speaker 3 (12:22):
And this is for anybody.

Speaker 1 (12:24):
I was on the path of doing hair, doing makeup,
you know, being a doctor, being a lawyer. Don't let
nobody talk about you and get you off your path.
And to all the people that are supported and have
been positive, I love y'all, I see I love y'all, school, y'all,
my people, y'all are all people. Because the fact that
two black women shout out to travel queens. We had

(12:46):
a great season. The season finale was last week. You
make sure y'all run it up so we can get
a season. To the fact that two black women got
a travel show and having fun because y'all made that happen.
So to the support orders, thank y'all, because y'all know
our hearts and y'all see us, and y'all know who
we are. It's just the people who tune in. It'd
be people who we don't even get a word out.

(13:09):
They look at us and to be like, who are
these ghetto birds? This ghetto bird has a college degree
and I started from nothing. We both started from nothing
and made something happen. Y'all are mad because the American
dream looks like what these white people told y'all. And
two black not only two women, but two black women

(13:30):
made the American dream happen and that wasn't in the
cards for what they wanted it to be. But you
don't get me on my woke shit now.

Speaker 2 (13:37):
But you know what's interesting to me, instead of being inspired,
it's so crazy to me that people would just rather
tear down black women who came from the same space
as them, because we did start off like on Twitter,
on the program, just on the timeline. And I feel like,
now that we've elevated to this level that a lot
of other people haven't elevated to, it's so much backlash,

(13:59):
it's so much negativt is so much what you said
these five years ago.

Speaker 3 (14:03):
He sure was five years ago, five years ago.

Speaker 2 (14:06):
Look at what I'm doing now currently, and what are
you doing now talking about what I was doing five
years ago?

Speaker 1 (14:12):
But it's so crazy because you don't on the app.
They don't even let you mute stuff anymore. So I
can't even they I mute stuff and you can still see.
But even with and we've been to talk about that.
My friend Diamond shout out to Diamond, mother of Gotti
on Twitter. She went viral recently because she was having
a moment with her grandmother and her grandmother's party. She's

(14:32):
working and dancing. First of all, my friend is West Indian. Okay,
that's her culture. That's what they do. They twork, they dance.
They don't look at it as sexual. Okay, she's dancing
on her grandma. Her grandma is laughing.

Speaker 3 (14:45):
And cause it's like the second or third time the
video went.

Speaker 1 (14:49):
Viral, right, She's having a good time, her grandmother's laughing,
her grandmother's not discusting. She knows her granddaughter, she says
what she does on social media. She knows what she is,
and she loves her and she accepts her. And she's
having a good time. But instead of seeing this moment,
y'all try to rip her to stress for what because
this is something that you wouldn't do with your grandmother.

Speaker 3 (15:11):
Your grannie ain't lead and your granny.

Speaker 1 (15:14):
Probably dad, just like mine grannie did.

Speaker 3 (15:20):
Who am.

Speaker 1 (15:22):
Well?

Speaker 2 (15:23):
You know he is confusing with me. Both of my
biological grannies are alive. My grannies they raise.

Speaker 1 (15:31):
But I'm just saying, leave people alone, scroll past things
you don't like. Stop calling people bitches, especially as women
and black women and black men. We need to stop
speaking to each other like that. We need to stop
letting people in our spaces and talk about each other
like that.

Speaker 3 (15:47):
It's just like this.

Speaker 1 (15:48):
If I got a problem with what Drea does, I'm
gonna tell her. But public, where are you? Not your wind?

Speaker 3 (15:54):
Smell my?

Speaker 1 (15:56):
What your wind.

Speaker 2 (15:59):
Is?

Speaker 1 (16:00):
Well?

Speaker 3 (16:00):
Not the twart because you didn't. Yeah, I smelled it.

Speaker 1 (16:04):
I said, you know what I do? Now you know
what it is?

Speaker 3 (16:07):
What is it?

Speaker 1 (16:08):
So? I've been doing this for years? But okay, my
three best compliments that I get all the time is
I'm funny. My looks in the way I smell. You
know why the girls have stopped powdering, y'all?

Speaker 4 (16:20):
Don't?

Speaker 3 (16:22):
Oh I powder down? I have.

Speaker 1 (16:24):
It's called.

Speaker 3 (16:26):
My beautiful.

Speaker 1 (16:28):
Yeah, I've been using it since I've been in high school.

Speaker 3 (16:30):
You use that andyodoring?

Speaker 1 (16:32):
Yes, So I put my deodorant on, I put my
powder on.

Speaker 3 (16:36):
I put the powder on my taties. I put it.

Speaker 1 (16:38):
Underneath the booty crack. Sometimes I'll dab it on the
back of my neck. So I have a body oil
that I use. What's the one that we like the
pink bottle? I can't think of bottle. Pink bottle I got.
I like the no Delena, Oh, the I got the
body oil. So I put the body oil and it

(16:59):
makes me really really greasy. So well it doesn't. It's
a dry oil, so it drives down. But while it's
still wet, I put that powder on and it makes
my skin matt Then I go in with my leves
Bell lotion. The girls.

Speaker 3 (17:16):
Don't y'all need to.

Speaker 1 (17:17):
Powder it up?

Speaker 2 (17:18):
Now, I personally don't use powder. But what I do
think is a gem that I'm dropping for the girls
is I use booty deodoring, oh and stuff. Now, do
have a body so I have a Yeah, So I
have a I have a body deodorant where it's really
called booty theodoring.

Speaker 3 (17:33):
Booty, booty, booty.

Speaker 2 (17:39):
You gotta say booty with so much because we got
a wee because we got boot No, I don't have
a booty no more, you do.

Speaker 1 (17:45):
I have a.

Speaker 3 (17:46):
I have a rear end.

Speaker 1 (17:48):
I'm skinny, rump, I have a rump now, I'm thin,
I'm very skinny.

Speaker 3 (17:54):
You are skinny.

Speaker 2 (17:55):
But I do think you still got that thing on.
I got a little cuff. I do, but I don't
have to putant under that cup.

Speaker 1 (18:02):
I still do.

Speaker 3 (18:03):
I put powder.

Speaker 1 (18:04):
That's what I'm saying.

Speaker 3 (18:05):
You gotta put something under that cup. Hey, because that crease.
Oh that do do if you don't oil it down,
theodoring it down.

Speaker 1 (18:17):
Okay, So what's the powder now?

Speaker 2 (18:19):
So I be using the booty the utterant, So you
gotta put it up the crack.

Speaker 1 (18:24):
Oh so we can go in there?

Speaker 2 (18:26):
Yeah, okay, so we can go in there. Okay, do
you put it underneath the crease the cuff?

Speaker 1 (18:31):
Okay?

Speaker 3 (18:33):
Do you put it underneath your breast? You know, I
love the breast. Breast is very mature.

Speaker 2 (18:40):
But I'm also getting very mature, so I should start using.

Speaker 3 (18:44):
I'm thirty four, now I have bredge. You definitely got breast.
I have bridge. They all this time for a redo.

Speaker 1 (18:51):
You got bread. He is ten years old. They definitely breast.
That was the year or two, not a bren. I
got my new ones in twenty twenty two. But you
ain't gotta get them swapped out. No, I don't have
to do nothing. That's what I gotta do. Though, Yet
it's almost a time.

Speaker 3 (19:11):
I have.

Speaker 2 (19:13):
Brisk So me and my breasts we need a little
extra body. Yeah, we need to be secure. So that's
what y'all have to start doing. Y'all need to find
some type of layer to put in the creasy. What
ever works for you, whether it's a powder, whether it's
a deodory, whether it's you know, a little.

Speaker 3 (19:34):
Spray or something. You need to do something.

Speaker 1 (19:37):
Well, no, this is the problem. Y'all are getting out
the shower, drying off with a towel and just spraying
yourself in lotion.

Speaker 3 (19:44):
That's not enough.

Speaker 1 (19:45):
First, it starts in a shower, so I have it's
called it's a body wash. It's a neutralizer. What oh,
I don't have my phone. What's that body company called?
Nobody got their phone? Anyways, I can't think of the
name that pitch. Let me see, I'm weak. So it's
a body wash that neutralizes the body older. So no

(20:07):
matter what you've been doing, it's gonna clean your body,
but it's gonna neutralize the older. Right, So after I
do that. Then I go in with my neo Cinema cinema.
Did I say it right? I don't know neo cinema
cinema not whatever.

Speaker 3 (20:20):
That what she said.

Speaker 1 (20:21):
It's a vitamin C body wash, so I go in
with that afterwards. Then on my third wash, that's when
I go in with my leves Bell.

Speaker 3 (20:32):
Body body. Two washes.

Speaker 1 (20:34):
I don't do three. Well, the only reason I do.

Speaker 2 (20:36):
I do two and then I do two Kuci washes
with the Kuchi cleaning.

Speaker 1 (20:41):
Only reason I do three is because the the neutralizer.

Speaker 3 (20:46):
I need that older.

Speaker 1 (20:48):
You know how, sometimes your natural pheromones, sometimes people just
stink naturally. I don't stink naturally, but just in case
I did, I don't know if I do. I've been
clean for so long. I don't know what my natural family.

Speaker 3 (21:02):
You know, I disagree. I feel like you would know
if you do. I think people that think naturally they
know they ignore it. Oh well, I don't know.

Speaker 1 (21:11):
If I sink I be so clean, I think they
so fresh and so clean clean.

Speaker 3 (21:15):
Yeah, I feel like that's something.

Speaker 2 (21:16):
That we can say about ourselves. We don't have a
reputation for being Musis baby. We got a reputation or
having bad breads.

Speaker 1 (21:22):
Do you know that's the number one compliment I get
when I hop in the uber every time they'd be like,
you smell so good.

Speaker 2 (21:28):
That's my number one compliment to People are always like,
oh my god, what do you got so?

Speaker 3 (21:33):
And then they be saying it to sex one.

Speaker 1 (21:35):
I'd be like, hold on now, so listen this. I'm
gonna tell you the next steps.

Speaker 3 (21:39):
They're a little too excited.

Speaker 1 (21:41):
The third wash jump. The third wash is always the
perfume stuff. So my third wash, I go in with
my levis Bell body wash because that's just the smell
good I get out. It depends how much time I have.
But I air dry. I air dry. But what I
do is I put on my Deleaner body oil while

(22:03):
I'm still wet. I'm still wet, Okay, I let that
lock in. I let that lock in, so I'm still
a little greasy.

Speaker 3 (22:10):
Then I go on with my powder, my.

Speaker 1 (22:12):
Estate Loda power on your whole body. I do behind
the knees. I do with my crease. I do with
my little thigh crease right here behind knee. Behind that.

Speaker 3 (22:22):
Yeah, I'll do it right here. And I do under
my arms.

Speaker 2 (22:25):
And let's talk about something real, queen, you cannot be
a bad bitch if you stank behind the ear.

Speaker 3 (22:30):
What who's stank behind the ear? That's crazy?

Speaker 1 (22:34):
Do you watch behind your ear? Yes? Every song?

Speaker 2 (22:38):
Every time I was just shaking. Well, you know I
got to do because I like to dig in there too. Yeah,
I be using I use qt ill stay say you're
not opposed to use them.

Speaker 3 (22:48):
I still use them.

Speaker 2 (22:49):
Most old school, my old school. I like to make
sure I get sitting there for real.

Speaker 1 (22:54):
I got to hear this.

Speaker 3 (22:56):
Mm hmm, I agree.

Speaker 1 (23:05):
Hey, hey, I like to hear everything.

Speaker 2 (23:07):
I like to hear some so period, so exactly. But
people don't be washing. That's the thing stinking behind your
ears and your navels thinking, well, I have a I
used to have an audi. Are we too warn to say?
If we say navel, people be saying belly button.

Speaker 1 (23:29):
Well I've always had an audi growing up. But when
I had my what's it called? Remember, what what was
that surgery?

Speaker 2 (23:34):
Head? Well, if it's out, I know, but that's what
I'm saying.

Speaker 1 (23:39):
What was the surgery I had when my belly button
was pushing out?

Speaker 3 (23:42):
Hernie hernie?

Speaker 1 (23:43):
I had a hernia surgery. So now I haven't any
but it ain't deep in there, my any not in
But when it was out, it couldn't stank, it couldn't
stay because you could just rugby.

Speaker 3 (23:53):
Yeah, but when it's in there, you gotta you gotta
dig in there.

Speaker 1 (23:56):
Yeah. Don't people be having deep belly buttons? Have you seen?
You know?

Speaker 3 (24:00):
I think mine kind of deep.

Speaker 1 (24:01):
Yours is kind of deep. I remember when I discovered
that about you, because I thought, why did you discover that?
Because we were laying in bed one time, and I
think I poked it and you got mad at me.

Speaker 2 (24:11):
I can see that I'll be getting mad at you
about a lot of stuff, but it would just be
doing dumb shit.

Speaker 1 (24:16):
I just thought that deep belly buttons were for thicker people.
I am thick. No, I'm talking about I don't want
to say the.

Speaker 3 (24:23):
F word, what if word?

Speaker 1 (24:28):
Oh, okay, but I'm saying but usually So when I
figured out that you had a naturally a deep diving
pool in that motherfucker, I was like, I have never
seen a thin person with a deep belly button.

Speaker 5 (24:46):
No.

Speaker 2 (24:46):
When when it's hot outside, if I'm like laying by
the pool and I'm sweating, it's a pool.

Speaker 1 (24:51):
Work the liquor drive. So yeah, So after all that,
then my last step is my spray and I always
wear ooh body teeth, always.

Speaker 3 (25:05):
Look at them, my legs. You look good.

Speaker 1 (25:09):
So my last spray is my perfume, my loves Belle.
So if y'all are just getting out of the shower
and just drying off lotion spray, people are not talking
about you want your cent to last.

Speaker 2 (25:21):
I'm telling y'all when Lex we've been talking about now,
we've been talking about it for ten minutes.

Speaker 3 (25:25):
Because when she did that, I said.

Speaker 1 (25:28):
And I've been on set at this point. I've been
here since What time is it now? What time is it, Shay,
It's four forty eight. When I got you, I got
out the shower at ten am. So this is this
is from ten am. This is a ten am spray. Now,
I know, I know I'm trying to put the girl.

Speaker 3 (25:45):
Somebody could ever say my queen listen.

Speaker 1 (25:47):
Ever, I mean somebody probably could. No, I ain't gonna
hold it. Somebody can probably fall. I'm not gonna lie.

Speaker 3 (25:54):
What you've You've never been musky, I've never been mussy.
But what I'm saying is like.

Speaker 1 (26:02):
When I would leave the gym sometimes, not that I'm musty,
but I don't smell fresh.

Speaker 3 (26:07):
I don't see anybody smells fresh when they leave the gym.

Speaker 1 (26:09):
But to me, the gym don't count.

Speaker 2 (26:11):
Okay, but that's not fair to judge somebody hygiene off
of when they leave the gym.

Speaker 3 (26:15):
Okay, that's fair because that's.

Speaker 2 (26:16):
When that's when it's okay to be funky, especially if
he was putting that working have think on you.

Speaker 1 (26:24):
You remember when David Banner said.

Speaker 2 (26:26):
Why you think Andre three thousand named the album?

Speaker 1 (26:31):
Remember when he remember when no David Banner knows. He said,
bring it yes, sweaty, because I love it when it's.

Speaker 3 (26:38):
Smoky, which is still concerning to me to this day.

Speaker 2 (26:44):
We find about things I'm concerned about. But why he said,
why do you love it when it's funky?

Speaker 1 (26:50):
He said, let me see, it's the fallless funky.

Speaker 3 (26:56):
It's the fact that he want.

Speaker 1 (26:58):
You to play with your monkey Wallace.

Speaker 3 (27:00):
But that's what I be saying. Nobody can convince me.

Speaker 2 (27:03):
That's why when I was seeing the tweets about sayings,
they was like, I know it was funky in it.

Speaker 3 (27:07):
I know it was, so that's when the room stinks.

Speaker 6 (27:11):
But now move pal pal, But no, for real, somebody
tell me.

Speaker 1 (27:28):
Him of nothing, but no, for real?

Speaker 3 (27:32):
Like you see this movie too now, because I seen
that shit twice.

Speaker 2 (27:39):
And that's how you know this ship was good. Because
I'm never gonna see a movie more than once. So
I be fallowing a slop.

Speaker 1 (27:44):
Saying Parlene pussy was phunky. No, I'm not talking about Parlene.

Speaker 2 (27:48):
I'm saying in general, that's where till the rooms think,
like that's the era that it came.

Speaker 1 (27:55):
Out because they was sweating.

Speaker 3 (27:57):
You see how sweaty they was. It wasn't no air
conditioner inside, no fan inside.

Speaker 1 (28:06):
The fans are not there. And you know when men
get hot. You know when men get hot, they balls
start to hang more. Yes, so when men get hot,
they balls hang extra loan. When they cold, they.

Speaker 3 (28:22):
Be somebody research department.

Speaker 1 (28:25):
When men No, I'm telling you, when men are cold,
their balls are like they're so tight to their body.

Speaker 3 (28:32):
When niggas be hot, them balls be long.

Speaker 1 (28:36):
I know it is. I didn't need you to read it.
I didn't need you to read it. I know what
my nigga balls do, and they be hanging low when
he hot and when he cold. I can tell because they.

Speaker 3 (28:52):
Be cutting your balls love.

Speaker 1 (28:54):
So I know, and that you're joined them. Balls was
hanging low them, balls was hanging low, bitch.

Speaker 2 (29:02):
I just feel like it was thinking in there back then.
But to me in twenty twenty five, it should never.

Speaker 1 (29:08):
Say, it should never stay. But it's still stinking there.
It's staking there, in will in there. What's in there?

Speaker 5 (29:16):
You know?

Speaker 1 (29:18):
Wait? Wait there, that's mom.

Speaker 2 (29:21):
When you said that, I was like, Mitch, please, but no,
for real, doll like in twenty twenty five, wasche thank
you got booty, you gotta.

Speaker 1 (29:32):
Powder, don't care, don't care, you got it. Let me
tell you when I walk in the bath millions of
bath so when I used to I hate to say this,
but when I used to work in the club and
I used to walk in the women's bathroom, it smelt
like what Lotto said, you left your pussy in the bathroom. Y'all,
y'all please, first of all, let me teach you how

(29:52):
to watch your kouchie real quick.

Speaker 3 (29:54):
Lex.

Speaker 2 (29:54):
This is not a high before we even got into
the first time I find.

Speaker 1 (29:57):
To get into it. We're finna get into it because
we finished gone. We gonna wrap this ship up.

Speaker 3 (30:01):
How we ain't even need to That's not like we're
gonna get to one of them.

Speaker 1 (30:04):
Tell you get in that shower and stop putting everything
down there. Use a wash that's specifically for your koochie
and put it in your hand and get in them folds.
This is how your fingers should look. This is for
the middle part, and this is for the side parts.
Get in there like that.

Speaker 2 (30:25):
You see how I meant that be my favorite part
of shower. And it be a little surprised. Oh brother,
this guy know it, don't And that's why because I
know how to wash.

Speaker 1 (30:39):
She But why are you It's supposed to be a
rub down, not a rub. But I'm saying you get
in there with that. You're supposed to wash with your hands,
your kuchie, and it's supposed to be a wash. What
what wash you use down there?

Speaker 3 (30:55):
The salt eggs so wash. I've been using that for
a few years.

Speaker 1 (30:58):
Okay, okay, that's good one. What's the old school one?
In the pink bottle? I got the big pink bottle.
You know what I'm talking about? What's that brand? You
don't wash? Your couchie said, I don't know, No, not
Summer's summer.

Speaker 3 (31:15):
We don't know because you two damn.

Speaker 1 (31:18):
It's the old school vaginal wash. I don't know, but anyways,
that's the one I use.

Speaker 3 (31:25):
In a pink bottle. It's in a pink bottle.

Speaker 1 (31:28):
It's the old It's like the first brand Dodge Seal Vegiceal.
I use vegicel wash. Gudin't the collar just approved? That's
what the bottles say. And when I tell y'all, my
coochie always smell like the ocean.

Speaker 3 (31:45):
But which one?

Speaker 1 (31:48):
Let me say that.

Speaker 2 (31:51):
Go to Mexico question bring brown They had a flesh
eating cia in one.

Speaker 3 (32:00):
Let me say, let me do that again. My couchie
always smell like water.

Speaker 2 (32:06):
Fiji Fiji, Miss Aqua Fema, you the real miss Aquafeina.

Speaker 1 (32:12):
And you better ask about me because they know, they know,
they know who should I ask? The people who that
evil thick bitch all was talking about on Royal Moule show.

Speaker 2 (32:23):
As I wouldn't ask him a motherfucking thing. I wouldn't
ask him a goddamn thing.

Speaker 7 (32:29):
And he may not ask me for shoot, But yes, y'all,
please wash your kuchie with a different product honey pots
salt ex so that.

Speaker 3 (32:39):
You use and the South x SO is black owned.

Speaker 1 (32:42):
Yeah, okay, So I'm gonna start buying this.

Speaker 3 (32:43):
It's black owned. It's so good and it's like.

Speaker 2 (32:46):
When you put it on, it is it makes the
juicy it do because when you put it down there,
it's it's kind of like, y'all remember doctor Miracles is
Doctor Miracles feel cool.

Speaker 3 (33:00):
It gives you that tingling feeling but down there.

Speaker 2 (33:04):
And then they also have an erotic an erotica one
that you use before you have SIG.

Speaker 1 (33:10):
But I don't really you know, need that, okay, but anyway,
but I.

Speaker 3 (33:16):
Do like it though.

Speaker 1 (33:16):
It gives you a good feeling.

Speaker 2 (33:18):
But I guess it's supposed to help if you don't
naturally put produce the juices.

Speaker 1 (33:22):
Yeah, a lot of people don't naturally, and I think
that's okay too. We don't need to be embarrassed about that.
Some people don't naturally produce them juices. So if you
need a little hair, I'm.

Speaker 3 (33:30):
Not embarrassed because it's not me.

Speaker 2 (33:32):
But I don't think that nobody should be embarrassed about it.

Speaker 1 (33:36):
Just the only embarrassing thing is if you stink. So
I hope y'all learn something today. Wash you coushi with
your hands. Stop using towels and rags and different things
down there.

Speaker 3 (33:45):
Okay, and get rid of that cottage cheese.

Speaker 1 (33:50):
Do you like cottage shees? I love cottage cheese actually,
so I hate when people talk about cottage cheese in
that manner.

Speaker 3 (33:56):
But that's what it'd be looking like.

Speaker 1 (33:57):
Cottage cheese is very tasty, it's protein, it can help.

Speaker 3 (34:02):
I like cotta cheese. I put it on my toes.

Speaker 1 (34:05):
You could put it in a lot of things. Some
people put it on their peaches.

Speaker 2 (34:09):
My mom used to eat it like sweet or savory
with cottage shee.

Speaker 3 (34:13):
My mom used to eat it like that growing up.

Speaker 2 (34:14):
But so now I make an avocado toes, and I
mean the cotta cheese avocados host So I put the
avocado spread, cottage cheese, the chili oil, the girl chili oil,
and then I put a little hot honey.

Speaker 1 (34:29):
Come on, now you need the tray. So when I
posted my cheat meal yesterday, I had made some pasta
with some salmon. They said, if this is your cheat meal,
what do you usually eat? I said, y'all, pasta is
a cheat meal.

Speaker 6 (34:41):
Yeah.

Speaker 3 (34:41):
Did you use a what is it called cheek bee pasta?

Speaker 1 (34:45):
No? I didn't. That's why I said it was a
cheat meal.

Speaker 3 (34:48):
I was cheap. I went all the way.

Speaker 1 (34:50):
You didn't see me nothing I did it. I only
made it. You know, I cooked for one or sometimes
if I cook, you know i'm cooking. I cook for
whoever in the house at the time. It should have
showed up, you would have got you a plate.

Speaker 3 (35:02):
Well, how did I know you was cooking?

Speaker 1 (35:05):
Sometimes I shouldn't.

Speaker 3 (35:06):
I don't feel like you should call people when they
cook it. I feel like they should call you. You're cooking.

Speaker 1 (35:11):
I cook all the time, so you should be like, hey,
dre a hooked, No, you live next door. Do you
want to play plate next time? I will?

Speaker 3 (35:19):
Because that samon was fired.

Speaker 1 (35:21):
Okay, all right, let's get on and see speaking of
passive aggressive aggressiveness in relationships.

Speaker 2 (35:27):
That was really aggressively. It wasn't passive because I said
that's okay.

Speaker 1 (35:31):
Yeah, that's passive because it's not okay. It's really not okay.
But you was saying it was okay. What is that aggressive?

Speaker 2 (35:39):
If I'm being honest, it really is okay because every
time I see that you cooked, if I cared that much,
I would say something. But there was an example of
passive aggressive. It wasn't though because I was kidding.

Speaker 1 (35:49):
You were kidding, but I was. I know you.

Speaker 3 (35:52):
You wasn't giving an example.

Speaker 1 (35:53):
But if people didn't know you, if this is their
first they don't know me.

Speaker 3 (35:56):
That's why they probably think I'm being serious.

Speaker 2 (35:58):
They're probably gonna be like, no, Dre, Drea was a
fucking real fuck that beach leak.

Speaker 3 (36:02):
She don't like you, no way. And then I'm abos
to make me a burner.

Speaker 1 (36:06):
Start agreeing with y'all really cause chaos, and I'm about.

Speaker 3 (36:09):
To make me want too and start saying the.

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Thanks, I'm fucking with Okay. So the first top today,
we're gonna talk about passive aggressiveness in relationships, Like, you know,
are you more of a I'm gonna give you the
solid treatment or I'm setting a boundary? Are you being
distant to protect your peace or are you doing this

(38:38):
to punish your partner? Like? What how do you look
at passive aggressiveness?

Speaker 3 (38:44):
Is it like?

Speaker 1 (38:44):
Am I being passive aggressive? Or am I just protecting
my peace?

Speaker 3 (38:48):
I'm not a big punisher.

Speaker 2 (38:50):
I don't believe in doing it.

Speaker 1 (38:53):
Who is Oh, big, big pun that's what I was
thinking about.

Speaker 3 (38:56):
You're not a big punisher.

Speaker 1 (38:58):
I'm like, I'm not, okay.

Speaker 2 (39:01):
I I don't even give a fuck so much that
I would just stop talking to you. Yeah, I think
that's probably the worst thing about me. If I could say,
probably my worst trade as a friend as a partner,
it's probably that I won't have a conversation with you
about shit and just stop fucking with you. Even if

(39:22):
we still cool, I'll distance myself from you, like we
still cool, but we probably just don't talk as much.
We probably just don't deal with each other as much.

Speaker 3 (39:30):
That's my gym.

Speaker 2 (39:32):
So I don't believe in passive aggressiveness because I'm also
very vocal. So if I'm having an issue in the
beginning stages, bitch, you know the issue, I'm gonna let
you know the issue. If you don't care to change
it and you keep doing the same thing, it's to
me it's nothing to talk about. Because I saw a
clip from Tyler Perio the other day.

Speaker 3 (39:53):
My Cinema King MEDIAZ.

Speaker 2 (39:56):
I saw a clip from Taller Perry the other day.
He said, my life got exponentially bitter when I started
letting people be who they are and I stopped having expectations.
And I think that that is the point that I'm
I'm almost there. I'm not gonna say I'm fully there,
but I'm almost there to like where when it come
to people, I'm really cool with just letting you be

(40:18):
who you are because you're showing up is you, and
that's okay. It don't meet my standard, and that's okay too,
So I just don't deal with you in that capacity
anymore because who you are does not meet the standard
of what I need as a partner, as a friend, whatever.
So yeah, so you know, I have to make the

(40:40):
choice because you're not showing up. It's who I need
you to be. Do I want to keep you in
my life? Do I want to get rid of you?
Or do I want to deal with you accordingly? And
those are the three areas that I put people in
my life. It's either I'm gonna cut you off, ain't
no dealing with you, I'm gonna still deal with you,
or I'm gonna deal with you accordingly and put you

(41:03):
in a certain box. And I think that I'm very
very great and putting people in boxes and them not
knowing that they're in a box.

Speaker 3 (41:10):
Because you, they also don't necessarily need to know.

Speaker 2 (41:13):
I think that's a beautiful thing of knowing how to
not be passive aggressive because it's like you in a
box and you don't even know it.

Speaker 1 (41:20):
So I think for me, i'm passive aggressive, but it's
until I'm ready to talk. So I know in my
relationship that's something that I struggle with. I'll be like, oh,
I'm fine, and i'm not, but I'm not ready to
talk about it right now. So I need to work
on saying I'm not okay right now, but I'm also
not ready to talk about it right now, because that's
something I've been working on.

Speaker 3 (41:39):
Y'all know I'm still in therapy, but I am.

Speaker 1 (41:42):
Very passive aggressive just because I I'm trying to learn
how I'm trying to learn how to like pick my
battles wisely, but also still speak on it without it
being like a conflict, you know what I'm saying. So
I think with me, it's like I'll say I'm fine,
knowing i'm not, but then I want to address it later,

(42:04):
but I just need time to address it. So I
think with my passive aggressive in that moment, I need
to say hey instead of saying I'm fine. I need
to say, hey, you know what, I'm not okay, but
I'm also not ready to talk about it right now.
And that's something that I have been practicing. I actually
have been doing an exercise, like I said, with my therapist,
so being like, you know what, it's okay to create boundaries. Hey, no,

(42:24):
I'm not okay, and I do want to talk about it,
but can we talk about it at a later state,
at a later date when I am in more of
a you know, mind frame of receiving this information. You
know what I'm saying Because I think a lot of
times when people are passive aggressive, they're doing it to
kind of I don't want to say protect their peace,
but they're doing it because it's kind of like they're

(42:46):
shutting down I just like to shut down moment.

Speaker 2 (42:50):
From my personal experience with people that are passive aggressive,
I also think they do it to get a reaction.
Like I think they be wanting to make like, okay,
I'm a beating way because I'm gonna see if he's
gonna make this. Persons react this way, and then if
you don't, then.

Speaker 1 (43:05):
Then they start acting out now or then.

Speaker 2 (43:07):
They want to say like or then they want to
have a conversation, but it's like, nah, because I already
seen what you said on Twitter. I already seen what
you said on what you posted on Instagram, So it's like,
why do I want to talk to you now? But
I think people who are passive aggressive they do that
to try to garner a reaction when in reality, to me,

(43:31):
I don't know, and.

Speaker 3 (43:32):
This is not towards you.

Speaker 1 (43:33):
No, No, I know because I'll do that because I'm
shutting down. This is not that.

Speaker 2 (43:37):
Yeah, this is not towards you specifically. But I always
have wondered, like why do people be I just don't
really understand being passive aggressive versus just telling people how
you feel outright, Like is it like a fear thing
you don't know how they're gonna react. You're afraid that
like if you say the wrong thing, they may not
talk to you anymore, or if might ruin the relationship

(44:01):
or the bond, Like what's the reason for being passive agreace?

Speaker 1 (44:05):
So for me, like I said in that moment, I'm
shutting down and I'm breaking down and I don't want
to talk about it right now, so I'm just like,
let's just keep it cool for the moment and we can.

Speaker 3 (44:13):
Talk about it later.

Speaker 1 (44:14):
Now, what you're talking about, I see that, and I
have people that do that to me as well, like
oh no, I'm cool, no, let oh you good, No
you're good, you're mad, and you're trying to get me
to react. So when I see people doing that, when
I'm being passive aggressive, I'm not looking for a reaction. No, please, like,
I'm fine right now, we can talk about this later.
I'm not looking for a reaction because it's gonna actually

(44:36):
make it worse. So for me, when people do that,
now that crosses from being passive aggressive to also being manipulative,
because now you're trying to make somebody react, get something
out of them that you couldn't get out of them
without just having a regular conversation. You know what I'm saying.

(44:58):
So I think what you're saying is one hundred percent
valid because most of the time, I will honestly say
ninety percent of the time when people are being passive aggressive,
they're doing what you're saying, They're trying to get a
reaction out of people. With me, I'm literally like, I'm
breaking down. I don't want to I really, I literally
don't want to talk. I don't want you to react. So,
like I said, for me, I think it's just learning

(45:19):
how to communicate better. And that's something I've always prided
myself on, but something that I thought I was great at.

Speaker 3 (45:25):
But I'm not as good at it as I thought.

Speaker 1 (45:28):
So I think it's all about accountability and awareness too.

Speaker 3 (45:30):
Yeah, like I'm aware that I do that.

Speaker 1 (45:32):
People who are passive aggressive, they will lie and be
like I wasn't being passive aggressive.

Speaker 3 (45:38):
I was fine.

Speaker 1 (45:39):
I really was okay. I didn't give a fuck bit.
Yes she did cap Yeah you care?

Speaker 3 (45:46):
You mad? Yeah?

Speaker 1 (45:48):
I mean I don't know.

Speaker 3 (45:49):
I feel like you could tell.

Speaker 2 (45:50):
I think it's just like indicators, like you know, I mean,
if I'm being completely honies, I hear you. But I
think anybody is being paid massive aggressive care.

Speaker 1 (46:01):
Oh you don't not care like you care.

Speaker 2 (46:04):
You don't know how to express yourself, so you're exacting
yourself in a passively aggressive way because you don't know
how to really vocalize your real feelings. So you're going
in a roundabout way of trying to make it seem like, oh,
I'm cool, I'm okay. I don't think that you don't
it's no way to be passive aggressive and not really care.

Speaker 1 (46:23):
Being pass aggressive because you care. Yeah, my mind, I'm
trying to gather my thoughts. I'm shutting down. I'm hurt
for whatever it is. I'm hurt. I want to I
don't know what to say. I'm shot, whatever it is.

Speaker 2 (46:35):
And so the I'm saying nothing versus being passive aggressive.

Speaker 1 (46:38):
No, but that's what I'm saying, because it'd be if
somebody asked me, what's wrong? You good? Okay?

Speaker 3 (46:43):
I'm fine. I don't want to talk about it. But
I don't think that's passive aggressive.

Speaker 1 (46:46):
How they passive aggressive is it's when you say you're
fine when you're not.

Speaker 2 (46:50):
But to me, that's not I guess when I think
of passive aggressiveness, I think of making slurs, making comments
like if some you and somebody get in to it, right,
and then they get on Twitter and they tweet some
shit about like a situation that's similar to what y'all
just had, and then you say something to them about
it and they're.

Speaker 1 (47:11):
Like, oh no.

Speaker 2 (47:13):
To me, somebody, if I asked ty if you're okay?
If I asked you, are you okay? And you just like,
oh no, I'm fine. I don't receive that as a
because what's aggressive about that? What's passive aggressive about that?
To me, passive aggressiveness is more when people try to
say I'm cool, and then their actions are reactions say otherwise, Well,

(47:35):
I think.

Speaker 3 (47:36):
Very you telling me that you're good.

Speaker 2 (47:38):
But then I'm getting on the internet and I'm like, bitch,
I think you subbing me. Right, this post is about me.
This tweet is about me. You said something that has
to do with what I just said or what me
and you just went through, but you're telling me.

Speaker 3 (47:50):
That you're good.

Speaker 2 (47:51):
We got into this an hour ago, this tweet is
from ten minutes ago.

Speaker 3 (47:55):
Let's see.

Speaker 1 (47:56):
But you gotta say passive aggressive passive aggressive outside of
like social media, in real life, you think somebody just
if I ask, like if I'm saying I'm fine, but
look at my body language, look at the way I'm
acting and the way you know what I'm saying. So
if I say, Drea, are you okay? You like, I'm fine,
but you kind of just like maybe sitting in the.

Speaker 3 (48:15):
Corner or you're not talking or you're not so.

Speaker 1 (48:18):
I think there's different ways to show passive aggressiveness. So
you're not necessarily being like like I said, outside of
the internet, in a real life situation, if I say
I'm fine, but I'm not being my normal, bubbly self,
that's being passive aggressive. That's fine.

Speaker 2 (48:32):
But then I also think to it be more emotional
manipulation to like communication with all these sicks, with holding
like different things. You're saying you're cool, but like you're
not communicating with me, like you know what you do.

Speaker 3 (48:44):
You don't want to.

Speaker 2 (48:45):
Have sex with me. It's a distance in a household.
I always with you, you know, that's okay, okay, well,
but affection all of these things, like to me, that's
more of past now aggressive. But I just don't think
somebody telling me they find because I look at it.

Speaker 3 (49:05):
If something, oh yeah, let's take a shot.

Speaker 2 (49:07):
I look at it like if you tell me that
you're okay, even if I know that you're not okay,
I don't look at that as passive aggressiveness. I look
at that more as you not wanting to talk about
it right now, Like maybe you gotta find maybe you
gotta find your mojo, maybe you gotta find when you
ready be in the headspace to have the conversation with

(49:28):
me because I feel like it's things that you've been
through where I've asked you, are you okay, and you
was like, oh, I'm good, friend, I don't want to
talk about it. And then I talked to you two
days later and you was ready to let me know
what was going on, and it doesn't it and it
has been things that hasn't had anything to do with me.
It's been personal things, but like at that moment, you

(49:48):
didn't want to talk about it. Now two days later,
I'm in a different space. I don't have time to
think reflects. I know how I want to let you
know what's going on. So, okay, friend, this is what's
going on. No, I don't look at that. It's passive.

Speaker 1 (50:02):
Well, the reason it is because, and I'll tell you
the difference between that. If I if you ask me
if I'm fine, and I say I'm fine, and I'm
really not, and then two days later you find out
it has nothing to do with you, I'm not being
passive aggressive towards you because they had nothing to do
with you. If you ask me if I'm fine, and
I'm not fine, and it has something to do with you,

(50:23):
I'm being passive aggressive. But that's the definition of it.

Speaker 2 (50:26):
But if your body language and stuff is not giving that, nobody,
it's still I hear you. But nobody can think you're
being passive aggressive if they don't know you get what.

Speaker 1 (50:37):
I get what you're saying.

Speaker 2 (50:38):
I get what you're saying, like if you like, oh,
I'm cool, and then you seem like you cool versus
I'm cool.

Speaker 3 (50:46):
I get what you're saying.

Speaker 1 (50:48):
Right, But if i'm if I'm not talking, if I'm
not saying what it is, I'm just I'm being passive.
I'm not saying. The issue is when you start withholding things, sex,
you not calling me? Yeah, Now, once you start doing that, now,
I will say this with my passive aggressiveness, I don't
do that. I don't be like, oh well, I'm not

(51:10):
calling her, I'm not talking to her. I just do
it whenever I'm ready or if like me and my
man are into it. I'm definitely not withhold, no sex, no, no,
I was done?

Speaker 3 (51:21):
Are you where are you?

Speaker 1 (51:23):
Yeah?

Speaker 2 (51:23):
Go ahead, Okay, I'm not even trying to be funny.
Nobody cannot not talk to me because I'm gonna just
be like, okay.

Speaker 3 (51:29):
Oh I know, because you be not giving a fun
you could just not I mean, we could just not talk.

Speaker 1 (51:35):
Man, It's just up.

Speaker 2 (51:37):
To you if we reconcile, because I just especially if
I'm not in the wrong.

Speaker 1 (51:42):
Yeah, that's what I was about to say. When you not, like,
when you are in the wrong, wah, you definitely be
like okay, But when you feel like you're one hundred
percent not the wrong, you be like, fuck it, I
don't give a fuck. We don't have to talk.

Speaker 2 (51:56):
Then I'm burning at the stakes. Honestly, I'm just saying
the facts. Yeah, So it's kind of both of It's
what both of y'all are saying. The definition or passive
aggressive behavior is a pattern of indirectly expressing negative emotions
through subtle acts of resistance, defiance, or neglect, and then

(52:18):
when they go into like different signs of passive aggressiveness.

Speaker 3 (52:22):
What you were saying as far.

Speaker 2 (52:23):
As like like okay, nice of you to finally show up,
like that's being kind of passive aggressive. But for what
you were saying, silent treatment or evading issues is also
another sign of passive aggressiveness.

Speaker 3 (52:36):
Okay.

Speaker 2 (52:37):
So I think it's just like to your point where
you were saying, it's about like kind of your tone
and how you're saying. I'm fine like that is a
little more making it more passive.

Speaker 3 (52:46):
Okay, I see what you're saying, and I.

Speaker 1 (52:48):
Agree with you.

Speaker 3 (52:49):
Lex.

Speaker 2 (52:49):
I'm the same way, like I shut down. Yeah, I
just need my time. I'm not trying to be passive aggressive,
but I'm non confrontational, right And I don't want to
create a bigger issue without me being able to lie
articulate my thoughts and what I want to say, because
I really want you to understand how I feel. But
I'm so pissed off in that moment or her or
emotional that I can't really articulate that in that moment.

(53:11):
I kind of lean more towards how Lex puts it
out there. Maybe I need to be more like that
because I can put it on a beach. What it is,
let's put it, Let's.

Speaker 3 (53:21):
Put it on the floor. This is how I feel
right now.

Speaker 1 (53:23):
Beach.

Speaker 3 (53:23):
You got me fucked up?

Speaker 1 (53:26):
You know what we no. No, but I will say.

Speaker 3 (53:28):
One thing that.

Speaker 1 (53:28):
I've loved about your growth too, is that you have
learned to approach situations a lot more delicately than you
used to.

Speaker 2 (53:37):
So now it's your delicacy what that's not like a meal.

Speaker 1 (53:45):
Raise that toys and you be jumping out love a
good meal. No, but I will say like versus our
relationship when we first became friends versus now, like you're
so much more easier to talk now you are, like,
I don't mind bringing like if I be like Drea friend, like,
I don't mind saying that now. In the beginning, I

(54:06):
used to be like, I'm just not even gonna say nothing,
because I know how she's finna react, and I know
how she finna do.

Speaker 2 (54:11):
Like what how would I used to react in the past,
So in the past, if.

Speaker 3 (54:14):
I would be like, I'm trying to think of an example,
like with a man or something.

Speaker 1 (54:18):
No, okay with me, let's just use a man for example.
That's not true. This is not real, but that's what
I'm saying.

Speaker 2 (54:25):
Let's use a more true example, because I think I've
always been understanding about.

Speaker 1 (54:29):
Like, okay, okay, I'll say something like about let's say,
like about you being late or something I feel like
when we first became friends of our friend, come on now,
like you need to work on your time, like you
be late. You'd be like, well, lex, I don't care,
like if I'm not I'm trying. I got shit to do.
I'd be like, so, I'm gonna get here when I

(54:50):
get here, So I'm here now though, That's how you
used to be. Now i'd be like, friend, you'd be like,
you be like, I'm sorry, friend, i know I'm trying.

Speaker 3 (54:57):
I'm working on it. I'm running behind.

Speaker 1 (54:59):
Like that's how more you be like more receiving to
like things that if somebody has a problem. You used
to be like if somebody approached you with a problem,
you would be very aggressive about it, and you wouldn't
just take it. And because how dare you have a
problem with me? But now you have a problem with
the queen. I'm fucking but now.

Speaker 3 (55:21):
Because well i'll say this too with legs. That was
a terrible example. We were just using any only because.

Speaker 2 (55:29):
You always fucking late, not no more. Then it would
be like, no more, legs, bitch, you got here five
minutes ago, and you telling me that, I'm like, you
were here five minutes earlier or ten minutes earlier, you
still wasn't here at one o'clock. That was the thing,
the old thing.

Speaker 1 (55:47):
Now I'll be on I'm on time, queen now. But
I was just using that for an example. We just
use it for an example. But like I said, for anything,
I feel like you're more.

Speaker 3 (55:56):
See what I'm gonna see my drinks today has to aggress.

Speaker 2 (55:59):
We was just it's not you know, I'm trying to
I'm trying to move on.

Speaker 1 (56:05):
We were just using a random example. But like I said,
even if it was like a man like back in
the day, you probably would be more But now you'd
be like I hear you friends, you're just more like
receptive of things and you understand what people are saying.
Like You're not so like I don't understand you be
more so like I see where you're coming from.

Speaker 2 (56:26):
Because the thing about it right, and I really feel
like people.

Speaker 3 (56:31):
I hope this gives people more of.

Speaker 2 (56:33):
An insight to me, cause I feel like I've said
this before on poor minds. It's not even that I
don't be trying to be receptive to what people be
going through.

Speaker 3 (56:43):
I just be wanting better for people.

Speaker 2 (56:45):
Like sometimes when people tell me certain stuff, I'd be like,
what the fuck, why are you dealing with that?

Speaker 3 (56:52):
Why are you putting up with it? Why are you
leaving yourself in that situation?

Speaker 2 (56:56):
And I don't want it to ever come off judgy,
just be wanting more for people that I care about.
But I think that people take it in a way
of like you be feeling like, oh you, it could
never be you. It could never and respectfully, I hope
this doesn't sound bad, but like in certain situations, I
do be feeling like it could never be me because
I'm not gonna deal with it.

Speaker 1 (57:18):
But I'm not gonna because different people want different things
out of life, and that's fine.

Speaker 2 (57:22):
But I go based off of, to be fair, what
people tell me that they want. If we're talking about
people that I'm close to, I'm also going based off
of what you're telling me you want, the type of
relationship you say you want, the type of life you
say you want, and it's nigga or the situation that
you're putting yourself in. It's not conducive to what you're
saying you want. So then if you're coming to me

(57:43):
complaining to me all the time about it, the first
few times, I'm gonna be like okay, but.

Speaker 3 (57:49):
Then after that it'd be like bitch, please.

Speaker 2 (57:52):
And then I also hate when people come to me
telling me things about myself that they also do, so
it's kind of like, you can't come to me telling
me I'm late when you be late, you just seeing
me in this earlier If that makes sense.

Speaker 3 (58:05):
Yeah, No, I feel like that's why.

Speaker 2 (58:08):
It would be different if you was getting there at
twelve forty five and then you're like, okay, beat you
pulled up at one fifteen, you got there at one
oh five.

Speaker 3 (58:13):
We're supposed to be there at one. Cool.

Speaker 2 (58:16):
So I think more so that's where when I was
younger the aggressiveness. The aggressiveness came from. As I'm older,
it's just more so kind of like okay, I'm in
my okay era. People got it, like that's where you
be sen seen. I'm not arguing with you. It's cool.

Speaker 1 (58:35):
It is what it is. Boom.

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That was a good topic though it was it was
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(59:05):
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thirty eight on VEZ Here. I asked the question before
we get into the next topic. Do y'all think directive
niece is a bad thing though, because I feel like
me being very directed, like me being very direct and
blood is also perceived as a bad thing. Sometimes.

Speaker 3 (01:01:50):
I don't think it's a bad thing.

Speaker 1 (01:01:52):
I just think it depends on how the person that
you're talking to can perceive it. I don't think nothing
is wrong with being direct. If you're being honest, honest,
you see, it's never a bad thing. Yeah, I agree.
I think that people people who don't like directiveness are
people who can't handle real shit.

Speaker 3 (01:02:07):
That's in my opinion.

Speaker 1 (01:02:09):
Like I think that people who are direct, They're saying
how they feel. How can you get mad.

Speaker 3 (01:02:13):
At somebody for being honest about their feelings?

Speaker 2 (01:02:16):
I agree, But do you think it's like I think
it's levels to be in direct though, like I think
you can still be. I think you can still be
the blunt, direct person but still be careful about not
hurting somebody's feelings. And I think I try to do that,
Like I think it's I don't never try to say
things to people to go for the jugglar, like I

(01:02:39):
don't never want to like hurt your feelings. But bingach,
I'm gonna let you know how I feel, and I'm
gonna tell you what the real shit is versus Sometimes
I think people try to use that as a cape
of like, oh.

Speaker 3 (01:02:51):
I'm blunt, I'm direct, but then.

Speaker 2 (01:02:53):
You mean as fucking you saying rude, hurtful shit all
the time to your friends or to your family members
are to people that you hear about what you put
the kp on.

Speaker 3 (01:03:01):
Of blunt mes and being direct you get what I'm saying.

Speaker 1 (01:03:06):
I hate people like that first of all, because I
always say, it's not about what you say, it's how
you say it. I don't want no mean ass friend.

Speaker 3 (01:03:14):
I'm sorry, I don't need you.

Speaker 1 (01:03:16):
I'm not saying sugarcoat shit, but I don't need you
being like. It's a difference between like, if I got
something tacky on, is it? Lex?

Speaker 3 (01:03:24):
You look fucking awful?

Speaker 7 (01:03:25):
Yeah?

Speaker 1 (01:03:25):
Like what the fuck?

Speaker 3 (01:03:26):
Why would you wear that?

Speaker 1 (01:03:27):
Versus somebody being like, ooh, Lex, this don't compliment you
as well?

Speaker 3 (01:03:30):
Did you try on?

Speaker 1 (01:03:31):
Or maybe oh remember that spanceshot we had bought the
other day. It's a difference on how you say shit.
I don't like that mean shit because I don't talk
to people like that, so don't talk to me like that.
I definitely believe in being direct, but it's all about
how you say it to people like I have friends
from all different walks of life, like you, Lauren Kiler,

(01:03:53):
be Leanne and my sister are all so different. But
I'm very direct with each one of you in the
same way when I talk to y'all, because it's easy
to be nice but also tell somebody how you feel,
and it's easy just to be understanding, because sometimes you
gotta understand why this person made this decision to put
that dress on. Maybe they thought that they felt sexy

(01:04:14):
in it. Okay, well, let's spruce it up a little bit,
or let let's let it if you want to wear
this dress so bad, you go some sprank friend, you
got a little sprink. You know what I'm saying, Like,
it's just a way to say things. So I've never
been that friend. I hate people who disguise being blunt
with being a bitch. I don't like bitchy people. I
don't like mood people. Keep that shit away from me

(01:04:36):
and my family.

Speaker 2 (01:04:37):
I agree, I agree. I don't like that she either. No,
I don't like that she either. But I ask that
because I think sometimes people try to feel like that's
how I be being, but I don't. I feel like
I just be saying how I feel.

Speaker 1 (01:04:50):
Yeah, I think sometimes when people.

Speaker 3 (01:04:52):
And people don't like you, like sometimes people don't like honey.

Speaker 1 (01:04:56):
Well, I think sometimes stands you or get your tone
of things. They don't understand, like it don't be that deep.
But people who don't know you, they'd be like, oh
my god, Drea's a bitch. They don't not a bitch,
but they just be like why she liked, Well, you're
not but you're not wrong. You're not wrong. People do

(01:05:17):
be thinking.

Speaker 2 (01:05:18):
I think also, what makes it worse is that I
don't really give a fuck.

Speaker 1 (01:05:24):
That's gonna be like, look at them, but I don't.

Speaker 2 (01:05:26):
But but to be fair and time, maybe let let
me let Tad chime in on these be cause she
be here with us.

Speaker 3 (01:05:33):
She's been with us for what to two.

Speaker 2 (01:05:35):
Years now and a half two and a half years now,
we've been.

Speaker 3 (01:05:38):
In this studio for a minute.

Speaker 2 (01:05:40):
But I feel like not giving a fuck is not
a bad thing, because why should I give a fuck
about what people think that don't know me personally? Like,
I don't know, how do you feel about what I
just said? You still have empathy? And I think that's
what when you're talking about like mean girls or people
that are just blatantly mean, I think they're lacking empathy.
I still care, but you don't care enough for it

(01:06:02):
to stress you out, you know what I mean?

Speaker 3 (01:06:04):
Like it's a I think it's a difference.

Speaker 2 (01:06:06):
When I'm I feel like I'm very direct, for sure,
but I really direct.

Speaker 1 (01:06:10):
When it comes to my business.

Speaker 2 (01:06:11):
Yeah, yeah, I'm not negotiating on that with my friends.
You got to have a little bit of emotional intelligence
to deal with them, because you love these people, right
and you want to respect them or you still respect them,
but you also have your boundaries for yourself that are
personal to you that hey, I have this level of care, but.

Speaker 1 (01:06:31):
All right, cool, you don't care. I don't care either.

Speaker 2 (01:06:33):
I'm good, like I'm chilling. But I don't think you're
a bitchy, mean, direct person. You still care and you
still have empathy for people.

Speaker 1 (01:06:41):
Yeah, I think so too.

Speaker 2 (01:06:42):
I think when it comes to people I care about,
I have a lot of empathy.

Speaker 3 (01:06:46):
I think I'm very empathetic, but when.

Speaker 2 (01:06:49):
It comes to people that I don't know, I don't
necessarily really care that much. But I'm also just being honest.
I think that sometimes the space that we're in with us.

Speaker 3 (01:07:01):
Being like public figures, no.

Speaker 2 (01:07:07):
I think sometimes with us be in the face that
we're in of being public figures or influencers. I think
you can say something and then it will hit home
for somebody and then they take it really really personal,
and then they're like, well, bitch, you a bitch and
you don't understand or you feel like it could never
be you.

Speaker 1 (01:07:26):
But I don't even know you.

Speaker 2 (01:07:28):
I don't even know your situation specifically, so I wasn't
talking specifically to you, but you took it like I
was talking specifically to you.

Speaker 3 (01:07:38):
But anogo like, that's what it be.

Speaker 2 (01:07:39):
A lot of the time people, I'll say something that
people be feeling like, oh, this resonates with my upbringing
or my situation with my dad, or my situation with
my mom, or my situation with my men, my baby.

Speaker 3 (01:07:50):
Daddy, my child whatever.

Speaker 2 (01:07:53):
So she said this and bitch, I'm taking it personal
because bitch, fuck you.

Speaker 1 (01:08:00):
But I don't even know you.

Speaker 2 (01:08:02):
I'm just speaking in general on what I think in
my opinion. Plus I also feel like opinion shouldn't matter
that much. I said my opinion by the watch the
other day, people was.

Speaker 1 (01:08:12):
In oh you brought that.

Speaker 3 (01:08:14):
They was so mad uproar. People were in such an uproar.
But I love that for me.

Speaker 2 (01:08:22):
Because we have to talk about I think people got
to get stopped giving me so much power, because to
understand the Taurus is to understand that I sometimes revel
in the fact.

Speaker 3 (01:08:34):
That y'all get so mad.

Speaker 2 (01:08:37):
At the things I say, because I'd be like, Wow,
I'm really that powerful that I can what was the
tweet again, that I can make the whole timeline getting
the uproar.

Speaker 3 (01:08:50):
Okay, So I just basically said that let me go
look at my.

Speaker 2 (01:08:55):
Go look at somebody's messages because they sent it to me.

Speaker 3 (01:09:00):
And me, see, I am so weak.

Speaker 1 (01:09:10):
Because I've never seen you want an Apple watch on
asking what's wrong with an Apple? Oh? Brother? But read
this tweek but no, you.

Speaker 3 (01:09:19):
See laugh because exactly.

Speaker 2 (01:09:23):
But anyways, y'all be adding that gold band on y'all
Apple watches and thinking that me, you could wear it
to dinner?

Speaker 3 (01:09:31):
No, okay? And I said what I said, and it
was me looking at my goal Watch like, oh, you
be wearing it to dinner? I'll wear it whatever I don't.

Speaker 2 (01:09:41):
But I also didn't read that like, oh my god,
Drea hates me either.

Speaker 1 (01:09:44):
You know what I'm saying?

Speaker 2 (01:09:45):
Like, I laughed at it and moved on.

Speaker 1 (01:09:48):
That's what I okay, So let me say this is
how I felt about it as a person who I
wear my Apple.

Speaker 3 (01:09:54):
Watch a lot.

Speaker 1 (01:09:55):
I change out these bands, but y'all know I'm serious
about my Apple y but this is my thing.

Speaker 3 (01:10:02):
Y'all be like, why do.

Speaker 1 (01:10:03):
Y'all you think? Because first of all, if you like
your Apple Watch, how you wear, why do you care
what this complete stranger is saying about what you have
on Do you know how many times I have put
on something onward something and this person or this person
be like, oh, I think that tall bitches who wear
platform heels. It looks crazy, because why you walking around

(01:10:24):
looking like sasquatch? Because I'm a bad bitch and that's
what I did. Well, you can never tell me about
shit that I like, and I'm not gonna lie. Did
I think the tweet was funny? Yes, but I thought
it was so funny. How y'all are sending things to
her mention trying to prove that your watch looks good.

(01:10:45):
That's for you to enjoy, not her. She thinks it's tacky,
and that's okay. Y'all have stopped. Y'all have got to
stop trying to get approval from people who don't care
or know you exist. It's a joke. It's supposed to
be lighthearted, funny. Y'all got butt her because you are
wearing your Apple watch to dinner, and that's okay.

Speaker 2 (01:11:03):
No, they got butt hurt because it was Drea from
poor mind. If somebody random as hell hey tweet that
on Twitter and it went.

Speaker 3 (01:11:11):
Viral, nobody would have cared.

Speaker 2 (01:11:13):
I know, people always get very defensive when they see
it's me or you and it goes viral and we
said something and they'd be like, oh, you got a
lot of nerves. It was y'all when I say it
with so many people in my comments, like yeah, everybody
not a big baller like you. Everybody can't have a
ten fifteen thousand dollars watch.

Speaker 3 (01:11:34):
Everybody can't do X, Y and Z.

Speaker 2 (01:11:38):
And my watch was eight hundred dollars, so you right,
it was one thousand dollars.

Speaker 3 (01:11:41):
I'm a wear it every day.

Speaker 2 (01:11:43):
The thing is, though nobody some of them, yeah, But
the thing is, nobody made it about money. I never
said nothing about money.

Speaker 3 (01:11:53):
For me. It's more about like the esthetics.

Speaker 2 (01:11:57):
To me, if you have on a ball gown or
you have on a tuxedo, are you out at a
fancy dinner?

Speaker 3 (01:12:03):
Even if you have on a cute little two piece.

Speaker 2 (01:12:06):
Save and you out at dinner at Hell's with your man,
I don't feel like you should have on an Apple watch.

Speaker 3 (01:12:14):
I feel like you.

Speaker 2 (01:12:14):
But it's so many cute, dainty watches that you could
get JBW. It's so many of the influencer girls Alia's
face Kyra Aminique shout out to them. They be always
promoting JBW watches. Those watches are like two hundred three
hundred dollars. They're cute, little dainty watches. Nobody said it
has to be a rolex An ap a potect.

Speaker 3 (01:12:36):
Y'all made it.

Speaker 2 (01:12:36):
About that because y'all saw who tweeted it. I never
said nothing about money.

Speaker 1 (01:12:42):
So I'll say this. You know, I think I'm not
gonna lie me personally, like the like the band that
Ty has on, I think that's cute.

Speaker 3 (01:12:50):
I'm not gonna lie.

Speaker 1 (01:12:51):
I mean, I had one of them, but no, this
is my problem because I agree with her on this end.
Changing the bands, that's not an issue to me because
I think if you have your Apple Watch on there
are like the gold band like that, I'll be seeing
cue bands. I've seen somebody they had a Cuban link with.
It was a fake bust down. That's that's tacking to me.

(01:13:14):
If you have a cute little gold band something like that,
it matches what she have on a Cuban link. To me,
a fat Cuban link is just a lot anyway. But
at the end of the day, it's an opinion. If
you like your Cuban link on your Apple Watch, that's fine.

Speaker 3 (01:13:29):
I just want to say these.

Speaker 2 (01:13:30):
I think people, even you, I think missing the point
I never said nothing with even if you want to
wear the Cuban.

Speaker 3 (01:13:36):
Link, that's fine.

Speaker 2 (01:13:37):
I don't think it's anything wrong with how Ty has
her watch on. But Ty does not have on a
formal outfit.

Speaker 3 (01:13:43):
She not going to a wedding.

Speaker 1 (01:13:45):
You don't know she might even go a little too.

Speaker 3 (01:13:47):
I do, ah, she not at a wedding.

Speaker 2 (01:13:51):
She's not going on a date night with a beautiful
dress on, like she's here at poor mind's count on herself.
That's fine, even with her out feed like she worthy
shit for the episode.

Speaker 1 (01:14:04):
I'm not gonna lie.

Speaker 2 (01:14:04):
I don't see nothing wrong with that. I think people
were missing the point that I'm saying. All I was saying,
which maybe I should have articulated myself better. Maybe I
should have made the tweet more extensive. But I'm a
person I don't think tweets should be there long.

Speaker 3 (01:14:18):
It's a tweet. A tweet.

Speaker 2 (01:14:22):
I just think that shit is still to me, a
tweet is a brain fart. Like it's short, it's not long,
So maybe I should have articulated myself better. But what
I'm more so meant was I don't think that it
doesn't matter if you change your Apple watch band out
for a gold man, it still doesn't make it appropriate

(01:14:42):
to word with a tuxedo. Now you look like a
spy kid. Now you're looking like you are mission impossible.
I just don't think that goes together. Same thing with
a woman with a beautiful date night dress. You actually
a nice little dress from fashion Over?

Speaker 1 (01:15:01):
That be me?

Speaker 2 (01:15:02):
Yeah, you got you a nice little dress com fashion Over.
You and your man is going out for dinner. Y'all
want Marcel, let me say something that's more universal that
people know about. Y'all want to know, boob, you got
on this beautiful dress with your Apple watch and then
you switched out to bend for a gold being, and
you think that make it appropriate to wear. Just get

(01:15:23):
you a cute little dainty watch. Nobody is saying it
has to be your row legs. Go get your little
three hundred dollars cute gold watch.

Speaker 3 (01:15:29):
That's a dinner. Why.

Speaker 1 (01:15:32):
I think it's more like, if I'm being honest, maybe
I'm a little biased. I guess I'll never pay I
don't be paying attention like that.

Speaker 3 (01:15:42):
Well, I seen somebody in New York.

Speaker 2 (01:15:44):
That's what made me tweety okay, because we was out
at dinner and I seen a lady with a silk
dress on and then she had on her Apple watch
with a gold Man I don't pay attention like that neither,
because I don't really give a fuck what people be waring.

Speaker 1 (01:15:57):
Yeah, like, I feel like if you got it on
your wrist and that's what you like.

Speaker 3 (01:16:00):
It was a thought. I tweeted it.

Speaker 2 (01:16:03):
I hate the fact that people think I care them much.
We're elaborating on it because we're just talking about it.

Speaker 1 (01:16:09):
Somebody do out a watch with I will say this.
Stop letting people affect how you feel about yourself. That's
how I know y'all don't have no confidence. And guess
what if I put a bag out on with my
Apple Watch on, I don't give fuck what this whole thing.
I'm still working that room bad as bitch, and who
gonna tell me anything. Y'all have confidence in yourself? Who cares?

(01:16:31):
That's all I'm saying, though lex.

Speaker 3 (01:16:33):
Will take their watch off.

Speaker 1 (01:16:34):
Don't listen to Yeah I am, I am, But what
I'm saying is give you example, perfect example. I went
to DC last year. I went to a w NBA game.
We sitting courtside in the section. I had to hurry
up and pack my bags last minute because he was like, hey,
bab we couldn't do it. I left my watch, but
guess what I had on? My Apple Watch on with

(01:16:55):
my outfit, and I didn't care because when you have
that confidence about how you look at your swag and
you who you are. It was a tweet. It was
meant to be funny. Stop taking shit so hard because
if you that girl, you're gonna beat that girl apple
watch or not.

Speaker 2 (01:17:08):
But that's the thing that I This goes back to
what I was just saying. I feel like people always like.

Speaker 1 (01:17:14):
What you say the heart personally I was playing it
really wasn't that seriod Like it was really a joke
because y'all know.

Speaker 3 (01:17:21):
I don't play by my steps.

Speaker 1 (01:17:23):
I wear my.

Speaker 3 (01:17:23):
Apple Watch every day.

Speaker 2 (01:17:24):
That's also why I laugh because I'm like, no, she'd
be wearing her Apple Watch, but it was let me.

Speaker 3 (01:17:28):
Get it, but I'm not. But I'm not gonna wear
it to Leg's wedding.

Speaker 1 (01:17:32):
If you was beefing that they're with, you should have
been at that wedding. But honestly, I will say this,
and y'all gonna be mad at me. The watchers, y'all
was sitting in her mentions, wasn't putting up a good fight.
If y'all was gonna put up a good fight, y'all
should have did better than that. Because I was trying
to be on y'all side.

Speaker 2 (01:17:48):
You wasn't because she didn't say she one thing I
love about my bes friend Lean, she don't be trying
to be on nobody's side of mind because.

Speaker 3 (01:17:54):
She retweeted that she and she put that little meanness head.

Speaker 2 (01:18:02):
Lean always what people about my girl, she gonna have
my back and in Twitter stream.

Speaker 1 (01:18:09):
Okay, honestly, I didn't even know it was vile.

Speaker 3 (01:18:13):
I didn't even know when viral because.

Speaker 1 (01:18:15):
I've seen it first on a spiritual world and I.

Speaker 3 (01:18:18):
Said, what the hell is this?

Speaker 1 (01:18:21):
And when I tell you, I'm sorry, But the first
the first thing I seen was the one with the cuban.
That was the first tweet.

Speaker 2 (01:18:29):
I saw, and then I retweeted it and I just said, Okay.

Speaker 3 (01:18:33):
Then everybody was even more mad because what I told God,
why would you do that?

Speaker 1 (01:18:39):
Why?

Speaker 2 (01:18:39):
I'm really in my own y'all gotta understand this about
me y'all gonna see twenty twenty five. It's a new
meaning not going back and forth with you niggas. I
never was the type to really go back and forth,
but sometimes I think we'll interact with people on Twitter
like iry just say something else will get made.

Speaker 3 (01:18:58):
We might respond.

Speaker 1 (01:18:58):
I called out somebody's I know, we said you are
aurful white man in America. You can't talk about what
black women do. This world was handed to you.

Speaker 2 (01:19:08):
One thing about me and Lex. We will get upset
on Twitter and we will responding to people. But I'm
trying to practice a new mantra going forward. Okay, because
all you gotta do is hit the beach with an okay.

Speaker 3 (01:19:21):
It's simple and effected.

Speaker 4 (01:19:23):
It makes people feel so stupid if you if they
if they put an elaborate post out and all you
say is okay, that post got ten k tweets, three tweets, Okay, yes,
I don't.

Speaker 2 (01:19:36):
Even Everybody was cracking up in the comedy Damn because
she was like, she said, yeah, because my apple watch
looks like this.

Speaker 1 (01:19:47):
You gotta stop right off.

Speaker 3 (01:19:50):
She hit the tax my apple wash looks like it.

Speaker 2 (01:19:54):
Was given what is it called q QC QB TV QBC,
qb CC. She thought she was on that fucking TV channel.
She said, my Apple Watch was like the hell hell
a wait, and everybody was in the comments like exactly
because what the fuck was she talking about?

Speaker 1 (01:20:15):
They was like in her watch too, don't do that.
It was people complimenting.

Speaker 2 (01:20:19):
No, I said, they were saying exactly what the fuck
was I talking about? And then I was just like,
it's just the whole community of Tay people. It's crazy, okay,
and I'm about to get cutsed out in these comings.

Speaker 1 (01:20:32):
But again, I don't.

Speaker 3 (01:20:37):
Like I said, where what you? I love flow Key.

Speaker 2 (01:20:41):
I probably shouldn't even put this out there, but I
love being the building of poor minds.

Speaker 1 (01:20:46):
I feel like.

Speaker 2 (01:20:46):
Everybody loved feet and everybody hates me. It is true
if you look at the comments. I say, everybody hates me,
but I feel like everybody loves you.

Speaker 3 (01:20:59):
And then with me, they be like the people that
love you.

Speaker 1 (01:21:02):
The people up, the people that love Drea. They have
found their way to hate me. They have snuck over.

Speaker 3 (01:21:08):
To love Lex because they never say nothing about me.

Speaker 2 (01:21:11):
The people for them from your stand accounts, they're going
to mention you in my sheep, my people, even if
they like me and don't like you.

Speaker 3 (01:21:19):
Nobody ever be on your page.

Speaker 1 (01:21:21):
You're talking about my supporters are the minaces.

Speaker 2 (01:21:24):
Yes, because your supporters be the ones that be like, yeah,
because I love les Drea stupid.

Speaker 3 (01:21:32):
My supporters don't say that to you.

Speaker 1 (01:21:34):
They don't be.

Speaker 2 (01:21:35):
They might not, people might not like you, but they
don't be in your commedist talking about me, is what
I'm saying.

Speaker 1 (01:21:40):
They do. Oh, you're talking about my YouTube page.

Speaker 3 (01:21:44):
I'm talking about in general.

Speaker 1 (01:21:45):
On no, in general, they definitely do. They be like
dre is so educated, so smart, she's so so that
she got a smart bitch somebody. They be talking about
the way I look. Dreya needs to tell Lexi she
can't dress d you're a liar. Oh I put this

(01:22:07):
on my mother.

Speaker 3 (01:22:08):
I'm not lying.

Speaker 1 (01:22:09):
They'd be like, Drea needs to be honest with lex
about the way she dressed. She needs to tell her.
They do be saying that. Nobody probably don't see them
because I delete them my ac.

Speaker 2 (01:22:18):
I just be leaving them up because I be like whatever,
somebody left the or sometimes I can't leave them. Somebody
left the comment under the Brexfeast Club interview and they
was like yeah, somebody said, uh, Drea, I mean Lex
has always been my star. Drea will used to be boring.
I'm glad she caught on. Somebody left the comment and said, yeah,

(01:22:39):
that's what I be saying. Lex is the star in
the personality, Drea is boring.

Speaker 8 (01:22:45):
Misses me too, because I'm.

Speaker 3 (01:22:56):
Be y'all so sorry.

Speaker 2 (01:22:58):
But anytime people say anything like that about me and Les,
I have a good.

Speaker 3 (01:23:03):
Key, because beach, are you hous dumb?

Speaker 2 (01:23:07):
We been two separate people our whole life, but' and
we came together indeed something amazing. I didn't need Lecks
for for me to become who I was gonna become.
She didn't need me for me to for her to
become who she was gonna become. We were going to
shine our lights regardless. We was gonna be straight in

(01:23:28):
life regardless.

Speaker 1 (01:23:29):
But it's not about that. It's more so that y'all
see No, no, no, no, it's not about that. What it
is about is y'all see two black women who come together,
who have different personalities, who made it work, and this
chemistry is undeniable. That's why y'all are here. That's why
we were able to go on Breakfast Club that's why
we have tribal queens. That's why we have all these
endeavors that are working out for us. And the thing is,

(01:23:52):
there's like look at the growers, TLC and drunk today.

Speaker 3 (01:23:56):
It ain't no such thing.

Speaker 1 (01:23:58):
T bars and left time and chili. They were a
unit together. Baby, this is a unit, y'all have to understand. Yes,
Drea is an entity on her own, Lexp is an
entity on her own, but in no world, in any side,
I don't care.

Speaker 3 (01:24:13):
Where do we not do this shit together?

Speaker 1 (01:24:16):
No?

Speaker 3 (01:24:16):
No, no, did I needed you?

Speaker 1 (01:24:19):
I don't care how. I know I'm a star, but
I needed I could not have done poor. There's no
poor minds without Dre and the car.

Speaker 3 (01:24:26):
That's what I'm saying.

Speaker 2 (01:24:27):
That's what I but that's literally what I just No, No,
you said no, that's not the point.

Speaker 3 (01:24:32):
I said, Yes I would.

Speaker 2 (01:24:35):
I don't be giving a fuck about what people be
saying in the comments about you being a personality or
you being whatever, bach I being raw, my whole life,
check my resume. Let's go back to high school, let's
go back to college, long before our met leaks. No disrespect,
but I'm just saying respect. But I'm just saying, because
I don't want it to seem that way, but it's
like me and Lex are our own people. Neither one

(01:24:57):
of us need each other to be nothing. He was
going to be amazing without me, regardless, because she's an
amazing person.

Speaker 3 (01:25:03):
That's who God created her to be. Same thing with me.

Speaker 2 (01:25:07):
I was gonna be an amazing person regardless, because that's
who God created me to be. We came together and
we built something really special because that was obviously also
again ordained in the past.

Speaker 3 (01:25:19):
This is what we were supposed to do.

Speaker 2 (01:25:21):
But when y'all be trying to throw shade and try
to put us against each other, y'all not really doing
it because me and Lex really having a good key.

Speaker 1 (01:25:30):
Adding because if y'all go back to the older episodes,
what I always said, you know how many and this
is no shade to nobody. You know how many people
in my life that I used to be friends with
that I'm no longer friends with now wanted to do
something with me and wanted to do this with me.
I always felt like I just want to do something
on my own, or maybe I'm just figuring out I
don't know. When I met Drew, I was like Oh,
we can do something together for real.

Speaker 3 (01:25:51):
I always said that.

Speaker 1 (01:25:53):
Of course, when we started out, Drea wasn't as open
because she's a private person. Never gave boring, were gay boring?
But I knew y'all didn't know what I knew and
what I saw, what I knew was gonna happen. We
always talked about that in the older episode.

Speaker 2 (01:26:08):
But also to be fair, I also in early episodes,
we've always talked about how you didn't even want to
show your personality. You used to be like, I don't
know if I should say these or don't. I don't
know if I should do these because I don't know
if people are gonna perceive me the right way. I'm
not sure are people gonna feel about my personality. And
I was always like, beat your funny. You have to

(01:26:30):
start posting more content. You need to start showing more
of your personality. So it's not even to say that
I mean nobody.

Speaker 3 (01:26:36):
It is to say we pushed each other. That's what
I'm saying, Like, what do y'all be talking about?

Speaker 1 (01:26:42):
I just think they'd like to create a narrative because
maybe they came in three years, in four years in
we been doing now be sh'ld be.

Speaker 3 (01:26:49):
People from the beginning may be just weird.

Speaker 1 (01:26:53):
But you can't say that because people love you. I
don't know, do they?

Speaker 2 (01:26:57):
Yes, shut up, Yes, I'm not playing the victim. I
just feel like, but let me say this, and I
feel like I've always said this. I be cool with
she though, because I almost kind of like feel vindicated
in effects that people like.

Speaker 3 (01:27:15):
I love the fact that people.

Speaker 2 (01:27:17):
Just be feeling some type of way about me and
I do nothing, but exactly, I don't think they feel
some type of way about you.

Speaker 1 (01:27:21):
They do. Some people don't understand you, but people who
have whatever it is, they love you. Whatever it is,
it's fine, they still have you.

Speaker 2 (01:27:32):
I just feel like I've been feeling that way my
whole life. I think that's where me and you have
have differences. Like you've been liked your whole life.

Speaker 3 (01:27:41):
Oh I'm the girl, Yeah about everybody.

Speaker 1 (01:27:44):
You've to do.

Speaker 2 (01:27:49):
Right, You've been liked since you were like in middle school, yeah,
elementary school. Because I feel like you have more of
an underdog story. That's not my story. So I feel
like that it makes it easier for people to like
dislike me because I'm not really an underdog.

Speaker 3 (01:28:04):
Like I don't.

Speaker 2 (01:28:05):
I'm not as relatable and that's fine too, but it's
always been that way since like high school.

Speaker 3 (01:28:11):
Yeah, so you know it's cool.

Speaker 1 (01:28:13):
I think the people who get it and get it
and that people who don't don't and they understand the chemistry,
but I don't. I will disagree with you. People fucking love.

Speaker 2 (01:28:22):
I don't think, don't give me. I think the people
that fuck with me fuck with me. We both started
separate ventures, and I feel like a lot of people
support me too. On my own personal YouTube channel, them
cell Set said it's at all but so people definitely fuck.

Speaker 3 (01:28:39):
Okay shot period.

Speaker 2 (01:28:43):
But yeah, I just think that, you know, I think
you get a little more what I've said before, on
the show, you get a little bit more understanding and
reception than I think I get because I think people.

Speaker 3 (01:28:58):
Just love to feel like I'm that's okay.

Speaker 2 (01:29:01):
I also think you like being a villain, though I
don't you think I like I think you kind of like,
why do you think I like you? I gotta kink
a villain king like it's nothing bad, but I think
you kind of.

Speaker 3 (01:29:12):
Like being that villain. Why do you think I like you?

Speaker 1 (01:29:15):
Because you're good at.

Speaker 2 (01:29:15):
It and I feel like because you don't care what
people think, like that stuff be rolling off your shoulders,
like you don't be really taking that in and wearing
all these people comments. So it's really like, but y'all
got thirty k on my wrists? What are you talking about? Like,
I'm still a baddie like you. You know that you
wear your confidence and that's beautiful. Yeah, but I think
that's why people don't like sometimes they make it want

(01:29:38):
to be not as confident because I be like, damn,
I gotta be less confident for y'all to like me.

Speaker 1 (01:29:42):
That's a beautiful thing about you, That's all I'm saying.
That's why I be like, I hear you, but I
don't feel you. I don't feel you. That's beautiful. That's
a beautiful thing about you. Being unapologetic, unapologetically yourself is
a beautiful thing. Like that's good. That's a good thing
because it doesn't matter. There's a lane for everybody, and

(01:30:04):
you have created a space for the bad bitches. It's
so many bad bitches that want to get on the mike.

Speaker 2 (01:30:10):
I didn't even be liking to be categorized as a
bad beach because like, what is the.

Speaker 1 (01:30:15):
It's whatever you Whatever you think it is a bad
bitch is different to everybody. But what I'm saying is
for this space, for this particular I don't because that's
what it is. It's okay, that's okay. Because women who
look like us, they were looked at as a certain way.
We just talked about this on the Breakfast Club. I'm

(01:30:37):
not trying to be funny. Now. Women who look like us,
the BBL girls, the now, they'd be like, okay, let
me show far let me show my personality. I'm so goofy,
I'm so silly. Who told you to do that? Drain
the colon XP And that's okay. You're supposed to be yourself.
It's a beautiful thing. I think that people love you

(01:30:59):
and people love you silently though, because to agree with
Dryanda Cole, you're agreeing to be the Joker, you're agreeing
to be bane. It's okay to agree with Batman. We
can agree with Batman publicly, but guess how many people
agree with Joker silently? Why do you think the Joker
is literally one of the most popular villains because he's

(01:31:19):
low key be right? Mm hmm.

Speaker 3 (01:31:23):
If Batman is sorry without the Joker.

Speaker 1 (01:31:26):
If we're being honest, I'm not that. I'm not sorry,
but you know what, I'm strong. No, no, no, no,
I get what you're saying. You get what I'm getting at.

Speaker 2 (01:31:34):
But I think too again, I appreciate all of everything
that you just said, but I think the worst, probably
dealingiche thing about me is that I don't really give
a fuck.

Speaker 1 (01:31:44):
For real, whether they agree with me or nice.

Speaker 2 (01:31:46):
But I was saying, I hate the bad bitch like
aesthetic thing you're just because do you mean? I yeah, me,
because this is who God created me to be. I'm
not trying to be and steady.

Speaker 1 (01:32:00):
They're not an aesthetic. It's just what you are, though,
It's just what you know. We're baddies. We are. We're
beautiful women. That's why a lot of times people will
see us.

Speaker 3 (01:32:12):
Before we look like the Joker and then coming.

Speaker 1 (01:32:14):
I don't give a damn because they say, what y'all
y'all cheekbones. Let me tell y'all something. Check the gaddy bitch,
check the geddy. Do you know I really giddy?

Speaker 3 (01:32:28):
Okay?

Speaker 1 (01:32:28):
That ain't that? Ain't you? Was there? You? Was there?
Come on? Now?

Speaker 3 (01:32:32):
It was a song.

Speaker 1 (01:32:33):
I know, I know, but that's because I'm the one
who really giddy. But what I'm saying is the face
cards are there. Y'all want us to feel so bad.
Y'all call me loud. But as much as y'all say
about Dre, y'all call me loud. Y'all be talking about
I'm big, I'm overweight, I'm just this, and that, I
don't I'm here though.

Speaker 2 (01:32:51):
They just be saying I'm stoopid and I'm having no,
not stupid. They be saying Drea is such a fucking bitch.
She always tries to purposely disagree with lex. She thinks
that she knows everything, and she acts like she can't relate.
That's what I always see the most about me. So
that's why people like, oh, I'm a villain.

Speaker 3 (01:33:10):
Well, I think a lot of time it don't never
be about my look.

Speaker 1 (01:33:12):
With the breakfast club interview, even with Roy and Mam,
they looked at the comp they before they even started
the episode. I'm seeing as soon as the episode drop,
its comments already who.

Speaker 3 (01:33:21):
Are these birds? Who are these people?

Speaker 1 (01:33:24):
Would can you listen? I'm educated, we both graduated from college.
We've been doing this ship for second line.

Speaker 2 (01:33:33):
No, I'm lying don't look, but I love a good
lie sometimes.

Speaker 1 (01:33:42):
We've been doing this for seven years. You know how
many podcasts we've seen start and stop. But we did it.
Can we just give some accolades and some hand claps
for women who start businesses and keep going and don't
give up.

Speaker 3 (01:33:54):
At the hand club being uh, what's his name? Hurricane Creuse?
Let me get their hand club?

Speaker 1 (01:34:00):
Let me if I'm fum fum fum fum fum.

Speaker 3 (01:34:03):
Fum way or was that little bootsy? No that was
let me get that handcloud?

Speaker 1 (01:34:08):
Was that was? That was Hurricane? I just said maybe
maybe he did a remix little boosy. What the hell?
My own boy Dick down in selling you did not.

Speaker 2 (01:34:21):
Have to and he thought it was okay to tell men.

Speaker 3 (01:34:25):
But you was on the phone like this, Now what happened?

Speaker 1 (01:34:28):
Then?

Speaker 3 (01:34:30):
Now what you did after that? You be liking that tea?

Speaker 2 (01:34:33):
This is not an Orthodoxy episode because we didn't even
get into none of the topics.

Speaker 3 (01:34:39):
My homeboy sell it.

Speaker 1 (01:34:41):
So for the bad topic this week. If you have
a homeboy who is Dick down to selly, right us
in and let's talk about it on next week's episode. Okay, Now, uh,
if you have a home. Was that dick down is Sealey?
I want to know what went down in that sell it?
Tell me?

Speaker 2 (01:34:57):
I don't want to know that actually because I feel
like it's definitely smelling like but this in there it's.

Speaker 1 (01:35:03):
Lex p you got sell mats one, two, three, it
went down? I want to know who suck hadn't gave
the meat?

Speaker 3 (01:35:12):
That eight's girl the nick down her selling.

Speaker 1 (01:35:20):
Okay, now it's time to.

Speaker 3 (01:35:22):
Get and she about to get what you got?

Speaker 2 (01:35:29):
What I said, I'm coating broomsticking by the leaking broomsticking
that's going in jail?

Speaker 1 (01:35:37):
Do they the women prison? Nobody talks about that. They
don't talk about the struggles of women prison.

Speaker 2 (01:35:43):
We should have a whole a woman sale mate, look
up a woman.

Speaker 1 (01:35:47):
Who has been in jail for like five years to
come on the show.

Speaker 3 (01:35:50):
But somebody that's not gonna.

Speaker 2 (01:35:51):
Like somebody that's been released. And we're not like no murders,
y'all a sugarl xp.

Speaker 1 (01:35:57):
And is sugarld the call y'all know we have a
segment on Poor Minds called Item of the Week. But
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Speaker 1 (01:36:43):
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Speaker 3 (01:36:44):
A small business man and a black business said that,
but I.

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Mean a scramminade.

Speaker 3 (01:36:51):
Any businesses welcome.

Speaker 1 (01:36:55):
What's up y'all? As your girl XP and it's your
girl drain a call and we have a very exciting
announcement today. We have a brand new show dropping. Yes,
we have a brand.

Speaker 3 (01:37:05):
New shower dropping y'all on Patreon.

Speaker 2 (01:37:07):
It's gonna air on September second, and it's called Poor Chronicles.
We're gonna be doing so much stuff on there. We're
gonna be doing challenges. If you can't go to Bill
and Roche, where the hell could you go.

Speaker 1 (01:37:18):
If you can't go to Bellanche, What the hell we're
gonna be doing.

Speaker 3 (01:37:23):
Talk to me, chit chat with me. We're gonna be
speeling a little tea.

Speaker 1 (01:37:27):
Oh my god, No you didn't.

Speaker 2 (01:37:33):
God, everything y'all been wanting to see, We're gonna be
doing it right here on Patreon.

Speaker 1 (01:37:38):
Yes, y'all ask us for so much. Well, we've been
to give it to y'all every single Monday, and it's
gonna be a time. Y'all know Poor Minds has grown
into its own little entity. Well, we're gonna have a
lot of fun still over here at poor Chronicles. So
make sure y'all tune in September.

Speaker 3 (01:37:55):
Second.

Speaker 1 (01:37:56):
It's going down, says.

Speaker 3 (01:38:04):
My bop of the week. My bop of the week.

Speaker 1 (01:38:06):
I do have to say this because I was riding
to work today and I just wanted to have some
throwback music because I'm not gonna lie. I'm tired of
this era of music record labels. Let's stop with a tick.
Stop only signing people if they have a TikTok hit.
This ship is trash. The TikTok thirty second clip be fired,
but the whole song be trash. You know what I

(01:38:29):
listened to Today on the way here, I let you
come on money Baby. You remember that that was Hey Camp,
k Camp, Yeah, fucking Fatty wid We don't get hits
like that no more. We can't dance in the club
no more. Man, k Camp got soft. I'll let you

(01:38:53):
come my money baby, you my honey, man. We don't
get songs like that. They always looking like, yeah right,
I'm telling you Camp featuring Fatty.

Speaker 3 (01:39:04):
Get on the train.

Speaker 2 (01:39:05):
Yeah, we have like a poor mind single. So you
know what I'm doing for my birthday? Right, You're going
to stud where I'm gonna get a studio. That's what
we're doing. And everybody gotta write your best verse. I'm
not gonna write. I'm gonna be like l Wayne, Oh no, please.

Speaker 3 (01:39:19):
Write a verse.

Speaker 1 (01:39:21):
Yeah yeah, Okay, we gonna need you to write.

Speaker 3 (01:39:27):
I'm right, okay, it's gonna be so off.

Speaker 1 (01:39:29):
I'm gonna get somebody to write my verse. I'm gonna
act like I wrote it, and it's gonna be so
y'all gonna be like, oh.

Speaker 2 (01:39:34):
Oh, I got some I do have somebody that I
will write my verse. So mm, I can't tell you
what I might be thinking about the same person.

Speaker 1 (01:39:42):
No, I'm definitely thinking about somebody different cause mine is
like nobody knows that he can really really rap. He
never became famous, he never did nothing, but he got
them bored. Oh you gonna hear him?

Speaker 3 (01:39:56):
You got a direct Oh you do, got a direct line?
I have his number? Is okay?

Speaker 1 (01:40:06):
What's your Papa the Week?

Speaker 3 (01:40:07):
What's your bob? Seeing Green?

Speaker 2 (01:40:10):
Yeah, speaking of oh my god, speaking of all school songs. Well,
only because I'm gonna tell y'all why I love this song. Right,
niggas was really trying to count Lil Wayne out. Y'all
was really trying to play on his top, like he
is not the greatest of our generation.

Speaker 1 (01:40:31):
That's a fact.

Speaker 3 (01:40:31):
And it's just no shade to.

Speaker 2 (01:40:33):
Someone else because I'm not gonna say no name, but
y'all was trying to say somebody else is gonna be
the new Lil Wayne, And it's like, okay, but like
Lil Wayne is really that cold. And I feel like
when he came out with the Seeing Green, well that
was Nikki song first and foremost, But when Sea and

(01:40:56):
Green came out, I really think it showed.

Speaker 3 (01:40:59):
Niggas that, like, lot lo Wayne's still here.

Speaker 2 (01:41:03):
You know why I keep them and he could really
pop out when he wants to. He choose to be
ducks off in the cut. He choose to live a humble,
low key lifestyle. But when he want to pop out,
he can. And I think seeing Green showed us that
that was a great summer. That was with Summer twenty
twenty one. That was when I turned thirty. That was

(01:41:23):
a year I turned thirty.

Speaker 1 (01:41:24):
We had a great year.

Speaker 3 (01:41:26):
What do we do for your thirty year?

Speaker 1 (01:41:27):
What's man? You know what I listened to yesterday?

Speaker 3 (01:41:31):
I got a few things. I listened to that song
the other day.

Speaker 1 (01:41:35):
You know, I keep that White Girl, that Lindsey's Low Huh.

Speaker 3 (01:41:39):
You got Christina at your liver?

Speaker 1 (01:41:42):
Man? That was I remember that. That was how you know,
we don't but we don't get music like that no more.
That Gezy era in the Strip Club, Oh my god,
it was life change. Jane God. I feel like when.

Speaker 2 (01:41:57):
Jez and Gucci and all the started getting oh, that's when.

Speaker 3 (01:42:03):
It died.

Speaker 1 (01:42:05):
It died. Oh, y'all have to something has to happen
that Gez era. Y'all don't get it. Y'all was too
young when Jeez was dropping this music in the Strip Club.
My life changed when that right to.

Speaker 3 (01:42:23):
Lord knows to stay.

Speaker 1 (01:42:24):
But when that came on, the dancers would run to
the and they would shake and pop that pussy like
their life depended on it.

Speaker 3 (01:42:34):
Gonna shake that ass, beach, I'm gona throw this many.

Speaker 1 (01:42:38):
Oh my god, y'all don't get it.

Speaker 3 (01:42:41):
Y'all, don't get y'all will never get it.

Speaker 1 (01:42:43):
All right, moving on, moving on, All right, it's time
to get into our favorite segment of the week. Pour
your heart out.

Speaker 3 (01:42:51):
One question.

Speaker 1 (01:42:52):
Let's do one.

Speaker 3 (01:42:53):
Let's do one.

Speaker 1 (01:42:53):
Pour your heart out if you want your question to
answer on the show, and make sure you email us
and ask poor minds at gmail dot com. If you're
a Patreon member, make sure you put that in the headline.

Speaker 3 (01:43:01):
You get to skip the line. Go ahead.

Speaker 2 (01:43:02):
Drea, Hey, Drea and Lex. I love y'all show so
much and proud of everything you have all accomplished together
and individually. You all inspired me every week to chase
after my dreams.

Speaker 3 (01:43:14):
Thank you.

Speaker 2 (01:43:15):
Okay, so here's where I need some advice. I lost
my job about two months ago. At first, I felt
defeated and worth least because I've never been unemployed before.
But God knew I didn't want to be there, and
I was ready for a change. Fast forward two months
and I'm still unemployed in trying to figure things out
as a hairstylist. I've loved hair since I can remember,

(01:43:37):
and I went to cosmetology school, graduated, and became licensed
about a year ago.

Speaker 3 (01:43:42):
This transition has been hard.

Speaker 2 (01:43:45):
And I often feel like giving up because I don't
know where to start. I've reached out to more established
stylists and salons to help me grow and master my skills,
but haven't had much luck. I'm unsure if I should
keep going or pivot. Y'all's advicesppreciated. Oh, go ahead, you

(01:44:06):
want to go first, you go first.

Speaker 3 (01:44:07):
I just think.

Speaker 1 (01:44:10):
That's a little a different area because when you're giving
a service to someone I know what that field is
hard because again I talk about d D all the time,
and she's been in that field for a long time
and it took her. She was telling me how long
she's been doing it and how long it took her
to get her footing in it. But I think that
if you're passionate about something, you have to show your passion,

(01:44:34):
you know, like it'll happen for you. I know it
sounds so cliche, but it's like you and you have
to get creative too, but you if you give good service.

Speaker 3 (01:44:44):
Let me tell y'all something.

Speaker 1 (01:44:45):
When I say I found d D off of like
a random post that went by all of hers like
six years ago, and I've been going to this girl
for six years. And people in the industry who are
heavy hitters like a When I told Alonzo Hou did
my hair, he was.

Speaker 3 (01:45:02):
Like, oh, you know DD, like I'm at d D.

Speaker 1 (01:45:05):
Like. So, when you're good at what you do and
you don't need the accolades a million followers and this,
and just give good service to people, and when you're
good at what you do, you will excel and if
you keep consistent at it. Sometimes, though I talked to
somebody about this the other day, sometimes you know what
you're gonna have to do somebody here for fifty dollars,
you might have to do somebody here for free. You know,

(01:45:26):
I'm much shit that we did that. We didn't get
paid for, but it paid off because we made these connections.
I understand rent do. I'm not saying do everything for free,
but sometimes you gotta make connections and do things you
never know. But when you treat somebody, well, give them
good service. Guess what, when people come to get their
hair done, if you can wash and break their hair down,

(01:45:48):
you already won because people be wanting you can wash
and break down anyway. You doing that off the rip,
you gonna win. So I just think in this day
and age, people have forgot the meaning of being a
good person and giving people good service. So I think
if you focus on that, the transition is hard, but
keep going. Because I had that transition of trying to

(01:46:11):
figure out who I was and what I wanted to do,
and I was like, you know what, I know, I'm funny,
I know I'm entertaining, and all I want to do
is make people feel good. I'm not gonna stop until
I make people fucking feel good. So when you're really
passionate about something, you're not gonna let anything get in
your way. I agree, period. Can I say something absolutely, I.

Speaker 2 (01:46:32):
Feel like, for when you're in a service industry, whether
it's so saturated, because here is a saturated industry, bartending
is a saturated industry, I think you need to find
ways to be innovative in your craft and stand out
amongst everyone else. And that's something that I had to
do as being a bartender and starting my own bar
catering company, Like I had to put in those ten

(01:46:54):
thousand hours to be to get in front of some
of the mentors or some of the people that I
looked up to and wanted them to become my mentors,
because why would they just want to mentor someone that's
fresh out of whatever program and haven't tried as much,
you know, or haven't had those opportunities yet. They need
you got to be able to showcase your talent, your
passion and why you're here and why they should give

(01:47:16):
you a chance to. But I really think as a
business person, just finding creative ways that that's gonna set
you apart from anybody else in your field, in your industry.

Speaker 1 (01:47:25):
Own that.

Speaker 2 (01:47:26):
Learn that and be open to continuously learning and being
educated in what you're doing, and that's what's going to
like propel you a little bit more too. But give
yourself some grace and give yourself some time.

Speaker 3 (01:47:36):
To grow in your profession. Agree, because you got to
be pay shipped.

Speaker 1 (01:47:40):
Yeah, And I think that's what people be thinking, Oh,
I've been doing this for three years, that's not enough.
Three years ain't nothing that's light work all right, All right, y'all,
make sure y'all tune in to love lexp every Monday
ten am. We're reviewing Real Housewives of Atlanta. Now Basketball
Wives has started, y'all.

Speaker 3 (01:47:59):
The tea is hot on basketball WI, isn't it.

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So make sure y'all tune into that rich look hair
on the tresses up top. Let us promote the bartend
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We have some major partnerships that we are going to
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We also have liquid eyeliner and mascara now as well.
Also make sure y'all follow my YouTube channel Dre and
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(01:48:56):
stay tuned and see where we at next.

Speaker 3 (01:48:58):
Here you see, y'all, next week because where y'all ain't.

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Make sure y'all share the content, like subscribe, follow all.

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That good stuff.

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And let me say this before we close off, y'all,
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It's p O. You are underscore in my nds. Y'all
are tagging the wrong poor minds page. If you see
at poor minds with no underscore, that is at fake page,
do not follow that page. Okay, they block me Andrea

(01:49:34):
and the poor Minds page on both so we only
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Speaker 3 (01:49:42):
It is p O. You are underscore in my nds,
all right, and we gotta hell a fake Facebook page.
The Facebook page, our Facebook.

Speaker 2 (01:49:50):
The crazy thing is our Facebook page actually have the
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that's ours, y'all.

Speaker 1 (01:49:57):
The least amount of f.

Speaker 3 (01:49:58):
One that's not a It's got like two hundred and
fifty thou.

Speaker 1 (01:50:02):
Make if you actually look at the content because the
caption is like whoever it is, don't speak English because
their captains are like bumba clade.

Speaker 3 (01:50:09):
Should men?

Speaker 1 (01:50:10):
Should men pay? Bill? Should men pay bill yes, no
check answer.

Speaker 2 (01:50:16):
Below block block pullo pollo poio like that's literally what
the captions.

Speaker 3 (01:50:21):
I'm like you, what that DG is?

Speaker 1 (01:50:23):
Bumba claude, bamba claude.

Speaker 3 (01:50:26):
Hey do you want to be down? Are you down?

Speaker 1 (01:50:30):
Dre and the cold with three e's Oh my hair
got in your thing?

Speaker 3 (01:50:35):
Oh yeah, hit it, hit it, give it to him
just like that.

Speaker 1 (01:50:41):
Mm hmm yeah yeah yeah.

Speaker 5 (01:50:46):
How to get to know if I could be.

Speaker 1 (01:50:51):
The can up girl you could be down for cause
when I look at you, I see something tell me
the sure the kind of guy that I should make
him more.

Speaker 5 (01:51:09):
And if I don't let you know, then I won't
be for real.

Speaker 1 (01:51:15):
Roland feel like something good be going on.

Speaker 3 (01:51:20):
The more I see, the more that it becomes so true.
There ain't no other for me.

Speaker 1 (01:51:29):
Only I won't to mean well, what you go through,
I wont to read. I want to be now, no
matter time of dagging night. It's true.

Speaker 5 (01:51:47):
I want to be now knowing anybody he's gonna be lone.

Speaker 3 (01:51:58):
Without the reason they Hey, you got someone to care for?

Speaker 1 (01:52:03):
Maybe babe, you need a shoulder to cry on.

Speaker 3 (01:52:09):
If that's up that thing, I'll be money you.

Speaker 1 (01:52:12):
E's a dream.

Speaker 5 (01:52:16):
If all you need is my time, that I got plenty,
our dad, a kat on, my love.

Speaker 1 (01:52:24):
To you, only paper. I wanna stay by Guessa, be
there to cool you out and let you know every Yeah,
with what you're going through, I want. I mean down.

(01:52:45):
I won't. I mean down in no matter time.

Speaker 3 (01:52:51):
I'm dagging night extre I won't.

Speaker 1 (01:52:54):
I mean now. Okay, all right, we're gonna see it.
We're gonna you know what, got got the cameras, got
the cameras.

Speaker 3 (01:53:08):
It's time to go, bitch. We'll see y'all next week.

Speaker 5 (01:53:13):
Hm h

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