U Got It Bad

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Speaker 1 (00:19):
How is your girl XP? And is your girls? Right?

Speaker 2 (00:22):
In the call and you are tuned in to another
episode of Poor Minds, where a drunk mind speaks sober thoughts.
We ain't got no guests today. We ain't got no
guests today. We don't we don't.

Speaker 1 (00:35):
So I'll be so excited. I know me too, So
I have a question for you.

Speaker 2 (00:39):
Oh damn, well, how you doing?

Speaker 1 (00:43):
I'm great? I'm great.

Speaker 3 (00:46):
So we've been getting a lot of questions lately when
we be like introducing ourselves to people.

Speaker 1 (00:50):
Would you ever change the name of the show? You
know what? Honestly, who asks us that? At? Was this Harris?
That ax us at Basha? He said we.

Speaker 3 (01:03):
Gotta change he did, He said, we gotta change the
name from poor Minds because even though it's p oh,
you are the fact that we have to let people
know that every time speaks volumes and we should change
it because the power of the tongue is real.

Speaker 2 (01:19):
But the power of the tongue is real, but it's
not we're not speaking on our finances and our I
don't you know what if we had to change our name,
like if we get picked up by like a major
network and they wanted to rebrand the show and grow
into something different.

Speaker 1 (01:33):
I won't. I don't care because I'll say this.

Speaker 2 (01:37):
Our dynamic is our dynamic. And sure the name of
the show doesn't make us. So if we absolutely had
to because.

Speaker 1 (01:44):
Of like a higher up or somebody that we're trying
to go into.

Speaker 2 (01:46):
Business too with, I wouldn't mind. But for now, motherfucker's
paul mind.

Speaker 1 (01:51):
I know, I like our name. I think it's cute.
I think it's cute. I like explaining it. I think
it's cute. I also like like the play on words.
I like it.

Speaker 3 (02:00):
It's like a double untendre, like that's why we named
the show.

Speaker 1 (02:02):
Then, yeah, I don't know.

Speaker 3 (02:04):
I like it, but you know, it is annoying though
that Sometimes I do feel like we always have to
like whenever we tell people, like what the name of
the show is, you always gotta be like, it's po.

Speaker 1 (02:14):
You are well see.

Speaker 2 (02:15):
I like it because I feel like it's a it's
an icebreaker a little bit, because I'd be like, oh, yeah,
we be getting lit.

Speaker 1 (02:20):
Now you're gonna get litten. Yeah, maybe, like you know,
it makes them feel a little more comfortable. So obviously,
this episode is.

Speaker 2 (02:28):
Gonna get released and we're talking about things that are
still getting released or that haven't been released yet. So
we just came back from doing Essence and the BT Award.

Speaker 1 (02:37):
Yes, So how was your first BET Awards experience? I
had fun.

Speaker 3 (02:44):
I really had a good time, Like, which's so crazy
because when we went to LA we wasn't even really
expecting to go to the BT Awards. It really just
went out there to do the media house for the
Awards because they wanted us to come do that.

Speaker 1 (02:57):
And then I kind of had wanted to go to the.

Speaker 3 (03:00):
Show because you know, our our friend Aly, she works
with ET and she always gets tikis. But because we
went last minute, she couldn't get us any tickets, so
me and Lex didn't think that we were gonna go,
and then they ended up giving us tickets at the
last minutie.

Speaker 1 (03:12):
But I had a really.

Speaker 3 (03:13):
Good time because I feel like from my from what
I've heard from people who actually go to the award
show now always say it's BLI it's drab, Like you're
gonna be ready to go because it's obviously if you're
at home watching it, you have the commercial breaks and
all that stuff. But if you're just there, you're just
kind of sitting there while they changed six right right, but.

Speaker 1 (03:35):
They was changing them sets quick movie it was. It
was quick.

Speaker 3 (03:40):
It was real quick, like I feel like they did
not miss a beat. And I had a really great time,
and some of the performances were really good, Like obviously
it was amazing we got to see Will Smith performing
because I feel like I would never see that.

Speaker 1 (03:53):
I thought he was gonna do our song, what Well Smith?
I remember that freestyle.

Speaker 3 (04:02):
It was a freestyle he had a few years ago
and he was in a booth and me alexis obsessed
with this freestyle because y'all know we're in his We
thought it was so fucking fuddy, and I don't think
it was supposed to be funny that he was the
strip club and he was saying how rich he is,
Like if he throw his money up, he'll probably kill.

Speaker 1 (04:21):
A strooper knock ass because you know, a brig. Yeah
that's what he said. I said, I know that's right.

Speaker 3 (04:28):
Will, But no, he didn't perform that. He performed something
much more. It was a motivational. It was a gospel
song and it was good. I didn't know he was
coming out with new music.

Speaker 1 (04:37):
So this is how I.

Speaker 2 (04:38):
Feel about the BT experience, right, the media house was great.
They said, we did amazing. Hopefully we'll be at the
pre show next year, you know.

Speaker 1 (04:47):
So they were.

Speaker 2 (04:48):
Really everybody, I'm not lying to y'all. I'm not lying.
Y'all know i'd be I'm not lying today. Everybody that
made their rounds and they came to us, they were like,
this is my favorite interview today because we weren't asking
like typical questions. And y'all know, I had that bottle
in my purse. I keep that thing on.

Speaker 4 (05:05):
We was.

Speaker 2 (05:07):
Pouring people's shots like I think our experience like when
they came to.

Speaker 1 (05:10):
Our little booth thing. It was just different.

Speaker 2 (05:13):
But that made me feel really good. Like people was like, oh,
I was waiting to get over here. Y'all been lit,
So that was fun. Another thing was it was last
minute and we didn't have a glam team, and when
I say, we put our lives together very last minute,
and we looked the good. So everybody that was well,
not everybody, cause it was only a few people that
had something to say about our outfits. We had three

(05:34):
hours to find dresses and do our makeup and we
did damn good.

Speaker 1 (05:37):
We looked amazing. And we felt amazing.

Speaker 2 (05:39):
Y'all have to realize we started this show again on
her floor, so to go there.

Speaker 1 (05:44):
To be at the BT Awards. I thought we did that. Okay,
it was fun, Like I was a drunk.

Speaker 2 (05:51):
We did, I know, But that's okay. But I will
say this, this is one thing I do want to say,
and this is about us and the BET Awards. I'm
so tired of getting online and seeing people being like, oh,
the BT Awards suck. Essence Festival sucks. How do you
know You're not here? And people keep saying, oh, well,

(06:13):
back in the day, ESCE Festival used to be this xyz.
I used to go to Essence Festival with my mom
when I was like eighteen nineteen and going now as
a thirty four year old woman. This shit is still
the same. It's the same thing. You're commenting on something
that you're not experiencing. So y'all are trying to decrease
the value. But y'all don't realize these are black people

(06:33):
in media working behind the scenes. Our friend Elise, she
works very very hard, you know, putting on this show.
You know, the girls who had booked us for Essence Festival,
these are all black women, a lot of black men
behind the scenes as well too, Black people just behind
the scenes putting on these shows for y'all to entertain
y'all and y'all sitting at home on the couch, complaining

(06:53):
and just being negative.

Speaker 1 (06:55):
You're not here. How can you say the BT Awards
are trash.

Speaker 2 (06:59):
And you're literally just you're not really Experiencing a concert
live is different from being at home, you know what
I'm saying. So I feel like, let's just hold down
on the commentary. Everybody was talking about Usher's tribute. Usher
asked for that. Usher one of the all female performers
for him, and it was damn good.

Speaker 1 (07:18):
Tyler or Ate, Kiki Palmer Ate. You know what I'm saying.

Speaker 3 (07:25):
Yeah, Like you know, I always have a theory hating
from outside the club.

Speaker 1 (07:29):
He's insane.

Speaker 2 (07:31):
You're not here, Essence, y'all are seeing clips of a concert.
Essence is a festival. There's things going on at the
convention center all day. There's day parties, it's craziness. New
Orleans is crazy durings and it is a ball.

Speaker 3 (07:48):
Essence was fun. We had fun in New Orleans. Soon
stop it, we did, and our panel.

Speaker 1 (07:52):
Was really, really good. We ate that up. We did.
That's our first panel, by the way, it was.

Speaker 3 (07:59):
Thank you and it was it was really fun, like
I had a good time.

Speaker 1 (08:03):
You know. It was a lot of the poor crew
was there, hang'll.

Speaker 2 (08:07):
And we met our first poor baby breeze shut out
to our girl breathe a picture with a poor baby.

Speaker 1 (08:13):
Oh he was so cute. He was so excited.

Speaker 2 (08:15):
He was and yes, skipping when he gets to the
bed by.

Speaker 1 (08:20):
But we had a good time.

Speaker 3 (08:22):
And then we went to like the Cash Money Reunion concert.

Speaker 1 (08:26):
It was good. A few we did and we ate
and we ate really good.

Speaker 2 (08:32):
Man shout out one thing I always shout out to
Big Larrow, my boy Larry Morrow. He always made sure
we eat good, get into all his restaurants because I'm.

Speaker 1 (08:42):
Telling you how the minds belong around the.

Speaker 2 (08:46):
Around the corner. We'd be in there fiving literally. So
the food is amazing. So if you're ever in New Orleans,
make sure you go Tomorrow's Mondays. He has Moral Steak Steakhouse,
dun Chong, a lot of fire restaurants. But yeah, I
feel like we've had an eventful like months and you know,
I was in La on vacation.

Speaker 1 (09:07):
You was I was in the middle of my.

Speaker 2 (09:09):
Bad shoulder and he and our management hit us up
and they was like, hey, y'all want to do BT Awards.

Speaker 1 (09:15):
I was like due, so I had to hop off
that dick and get to work.

Speaker 2 (09:21):
Of course, you know my bad y'all tea in my tea.
I told y'all should have took that shot.

Speaker 1 (09:29):
God damn it.

Speaker 3 (09:30):
This is the lea's okay. So now we didn't need
a little wrap up. We got an X tie. What
we drinking today's time? Because this is really good.

Speaker 1 (09:37):
This is a little more than just champagne. You said
you didn't want to liquor liquor hold up, So this one,
the summer anthem is big Mama, Big Mama. So this
is the name of this drink.

Speaker 3 (09:55):
Okay, have a couple of these you may be calling period.
So this this one has a little bit of passion fruit.
We have some lemon, We have some prickly pear syrup,
and then I sprintched it with some rose. Now I
minda added a little tequila. If y'all want something, I
can add a little tequila, little vodka toua. But we
was taking it easy today. It's nice and breezy summertime,

(10:16):
and then we garnish it with a beautiful passion fruit.
So when y'all are done, you can actually eat it.

Speaker 1 (10:21):
Okay, so good. You just swooped in the middle. You know,
I don't think I ate a passion fruit. Can you
eat the seeds? I like that?

Speaker 3 (10:31):
Yeah, So now it is more tart. It's not sweet
as you can think it.

Speaker 1 (10:36):
That's perfect. Well, it's tangy. It's good. You could hit
me with a little tequila. Tequila, I got you. I'm
pasting myself today now, y'all, I'm gonna try check back
in in the hour. Stop asking me, go ahead.

Speaker 2 (10:48):
And add some vodka asking me, so you ain't gotta
pull my arm.

Speaker 1 (10:53):
Damn Jesus Christ. Okay, So while we get that and
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Speaker 1 (12:08):
Can I tell you something I don't know? I don't know? Yeah,
sure so, and please don't judge me.

Speaker 2 (12:16):
Did y'all know that carrot cake has actual carrots in it?

Speaker 1 (12:21):
Yeah? That's why it's called carrot cake. But I thought
it was carrot flavoring.

Speaker 3 (12:25):
You ain't never seen the strips of carrots in the cave,
don't like they literally have it, you know, like the
shredded carries they usually be in the cake.

Speaker 1 (12:33):
I didn't, I don't recall. I thought it was like
a carrot flavoring. No, it's real carrots. Okay, that's crazy
to me because who would think to put carrots in
the cake for real?

Speaker 3 (12:49):
Well, I mean, you know, the thing about carrots is
like it's a vegetable. But I think people make it
in like a way where it's sweet a lot of
the time. Like I know people who make like the
sugar carries, like the Glades okay.

Speaker 1 (13:01):
With the brown shirts. I didn't think of it.

Speaker 3 (13:03):
Yeah, people be making well I don't know if it's
is it with brown sugar, white sugar. I don't know
either way, they'd be making like Glades carrots. And he
kind of tastes like candy.

Speaker 1 (13:10):
Am a little bit brown sugar bag. I get, Oh
you hurt? I want someone your brown Come on, y'all.

Speaker 3 (13:27):
That's why I did it though, because lex Let's let
me tell you something about les Lex got like the
same five songs she's been singing for the whole ten
years I've been on her.

Speaker 1 (13:38):
So I actually.

Speaker 3 (13:39):
Did that on purpose because I knew he was gonna
eat that up, just like in New Orleans.

Speaker 1 (13:44):
Tell him about the taxicount. He was sugar.

Speaker 3 (13:48):
She was asking a man to play Life, classic, her
favorite song. She's asking the men to play Life, and
he was like Life, and then she was like, yeah,
play Life, and I said please because Lex Smith and
in this song for ten years. Literally Lex loved that song,
and you love brown Sugar.

Speaker 1 (14:06):
It never gets on.

Speaker 3 (14:07):
You always have need that little little quiver. I'm trying
to think, what's another song? You've been singing?

Speaker 1 (14:18):
All the Monica songs? Ohs a mountains, nothing more? You
like that? She liked that. You are ridiculous.

Speaker 4 (14:35):
But no y'all ever turn the mac Return of the
Man got my little girl on.

Speaker 2 (14:41):
Okay, But I will say this, when I hear Life,
it just never gets old every time I hear It's why.

Speaker 1 (14:47):
What is it about? Can you explain to me what
is it about? He came in or did he come in?
He came in soul. Something was going on. It was tight.

Speaker 2 (14:59):
It's like a bird. He was really trying to fly
free because it's hard.

Speaker 1 (15:03):
It was hard. That's why he said he want to
fly away. You wouldn't let me hit my long note off.

Speaker 3 (15:13):
And because you don't know when to stop, like definitely
wasn't that long. But I should just let you keep going.

Speaker 1 (15:28):
You never let me do it. You're right, I don't. Okay,
let's get into these topics. I'll be ready for you
to wrap this ship up. It's strict. It's strict in here.
And oh he did perform that song. He did, you know, well,
but nothing. Let me drink, Okay.

Speaker 2 (15:47):
So we're gonna get into this first topic to day.
Y'all know, we usually don't talk about the things that
be going on in the twitter verse, but there was
a topic that came up the other day and I'm
gonna actually shout out the girl who tweeted it.

Speaker 1 (16:05):
I'm gonna pull it up in a second.

Speaker 2 (16:07):
But we were The topic was basically answering the phone
for your man when you're with your friends, and I
just could not believe the back and forth and the
commentary on it. So I'm gonna ask you and I
want you to elaborate on it, whether at dinner with
your friends, on vacation with your friends, or whatever the
case may be.

Speaker 1 (16:26):
When your man calls and.

Speaker 2 (16:28):
Say he's like, whether it's calling you once or blowing
you up, whatever it is, are you answering the phone
when you're with your friends and you with your man dinner?

Speaker 1 (16:37):
I feel like not so much.

Speaker 3 (16:39):
Like you know, I might like just send the text
and be like you good, you okay, because the dinner
is like a few hours.

Speaker 1 (16:46):
But like, if we're on vacation.

Speaker 3 (16:47):
I'm gonna answer the phone for my men, yeah, because
I feel like we gone for like a few days.
He probably wanted to check on me.

Speaker 1 (16:52):
He want to see how I'm doing.

Speaker 3 (16:54):
I feel like that's appropriate. I think it starts to
become an issue when you on the phone.

Speaker 1 (16:59):
For like hours, yeah, hours and hours with your man.

Speaker 3 (17:02):
But if you like do a little one two your
man call to check on you, and y'all on the
phone for like twenty minutes, thirty minutes and y'all haven't
talked in a few days, I.

Speaker 1 (17:09):
Would like that's fine, that's appropriate to me.

Speaker 2 (17:12):
So I feel like this on vacation, I always do this.
I call him when I first wake up, you know,
have a little chat in the morning. Throughout the day,
I might shoot some texts, then I call him before
I go to sleep. But on vacation, like, my man
don't really he don't call me because he knows I'm

(17:32):
gonna call him and check in with him whenever I'm free.
I feel like, if you're at dinner or on vacation
and your man is calling you and blowing you up
and just doing the most, I feel like he trying
to just like be nosy, see what you're doing. It's
not like coming from a genuine place. You know where
I'm at, where I am, you know where I'm at.

(17:54):
I'll be thinking sometimes men, and I'll say women might
do this too. We won't make this agender because sometimes
a man will be on vacation and a woman is
blowing up his phone. Leave people alone when they're on vacation.
Leave people alone. Like when I'm out to dinner with
my man and my friend calls, I give him that
same respect.

Speaker 1 (18:12):
Hey girl, I'm gonna call you back.

Speaker 2 (18:14):
So when I'm out with my man and my friend calls,
hey girl, I'm gonna.

Speaker 1 (18:18):
Call you back. It's a respect thing. I feel like.
And if we're having girls time, like when we went
to Turks, same thing.

Speaker 2 (18:26):
I would call him in the morning. I'm shooting him
text throughout the day. Then I call him before I
go to sleep. While do y'all need to be sitting
on the damn y'all in the uber were trying to
listen to music.

Speaker 1 (18:36):
Turn it down. I can't hear day cwying. Girl. Get
off the damn phone. You killing the void. I feel like,
what if he's trying to make sure you're not you
didn't get it abducted or anything. He has life a
thing it is, but I feel a body man, don't
go I take location.

Speaker 2 (18:52):
Well, me and my man have each other location on
no I know, but I'm saying everybody.

Speaker 1 (18:57):
Don't everybody.

Speaker 3 (19:01):
Other people be doing little shit. They might not want
they mean to know where they.

Speaker 1 (19:04):
Are all the phone.

Speaker 2 (19:04):
Well, if that's the case, not me, you know. I'm
just saying, right, But I'm saying, but if that's the case,
y'all have deeper issues. But if your woman says, hey, babe,
I'm going to dinner with my friends.

Speaker 1 (19:15):
What are you calling her for? They he need me?
It might be an emergency, then you answer the phone.
Oh babe, what a remote ad like niggas just be
calling to see if you're gonna answer.

Speaker 2 (19:26):
That's an emergency though, that is not an emergen it
is it is. It is because if you the bitch
that be answers, because if he went because if he
went on vacation and I couldn't find a remote, that's
a fucking emergency. And he better answer the phone and
tell me where they who egg Shoot him a text
and he'll get back to you when he came five
hours later.

Speaker 3 (19:45):
What if he drunk off the cost of migos. No,
I didn't even know where a remote at right now. Honestly,
technology need to know where it's at.

Speaker 1 (19:51):
Write your phone.

Speaker 2 (19:53):
There's apps on your phone where you can set it
up to the TV and use your phone until he
can contact you or no call you.

Speaker 1 (20:01):
Y'all be trying to ruin people's time and ruin people.
But I don't even.

Speaker 3 (20:04):
Think it's that deep like ruin You think that's.

Speaker 1 (20:07):
Trying to ruin someone.

Speaker 3 (20:09):
To me, if my man called me and I'm on vacation,
I be happy, like I be like.

Speaker 2 (20:15):
Well, I'll say it depends like if he calls you
and he's just checking on you, that's different. I'm talking
about the people that be like no, I gotta go,
I gotta go, or he keep blowing you up and
doing stuff like that, like there's no.

Speaker 1 (20:27):
Reason, like you said, you should be sitting on the phone.
What if he call you and he like asking you
how to use like the juicer?

Speaker 2 (20:36):
See that's how real, queen. Are you already juiced them
for my man for the week?

Speaker 1 (20:41):
That's the week? That's real? Like you, right, you gotta
set your man.

Speaker 2 (20:48):
You y'alla set your man up to whenever you leave.

Speaker 1 (20:50):
He don't need to call you for nothing. Nothing. I
don't see. But that's the thing.

Speaker 3 (20:56):
And I guess that's the problem because maybe I don't
mind him.

Speaker 1 (20:59):
Calling like oh you, like I said, morning, not a
few text messages anything other than that. I feel like,
what comes up? What you want?

Speaker 2 (21:09):
Because my man don't do he just don't. I guess
that's our relationship. Everybody different, different folks. Now, I'm not disagreeing.
You know, I can't call me all the time. I
ain't gonna lie he calls a lie?

Speaker 1 (21:19):
He do? Oh I go, he called a lie? He
gonna call like about fifteen times a day. That's about accurate.
I was hoping, right, number I was hoping you would
say the right. But the funny thing is he don't
even be wanting nothing. He just be like, hey, he
trying to make sure that she ain't gonna go. He

(21:40):
know it ain't. He already knows it ain't gonna go.

Speaker 3 (21:43):
He just be wanting to see what I'm doing, or
like sometimes I feel like, you know, like he just
likes to be on the phone with me. Like I
don't know if like other people men be like that,
but like he just like to like be on the phone.

Speaker 1 (21:54):
Yeah, me and my best friend do that.

Speaker 2 (21:57):
But me and my when we weren't like at each
this house so much, we would just sit on the
phone while he's doing stuff for a while.

Speaker 1 (22:04):
Now I'll just be at.

Speaker 2 (22:05):
The house, but that more and so be needed be
like all right, me and Laura said, me and you
used to sit on the phone.

Speaker 1 (22:12):
We did. We used to like that no more though,
all right, yeah, I talk to you later. You got
ship to do.

Speaker 3 (22:18):
Now we don't be having ship to do. We just
gonna be wanting to sit on the phone.

Speaker 1 (22:22):
It's because we spend a lot of time with each
other period because like we work, but also.

Speaker 2 (22:27):
When we're working, we also have our friend time, So
we spend a lot of time together. Yeah, so I
think that's why we don't necessarily just sit on the
phone anymore.

Speaker 1 (22:36):
Yeah, but I mean.

Speaker 3 (22:38):
Yeah, because like when we're trying to think, Like when
we was in Miami for your birthday, he had called
me a lot of songs, but I was trying not
to stay on it.

Speaker 1 (22:46):
I was trying to keep it, letting me Well, I'll.

Speaker 2 (22:47):
Say this about you though, you definitely pick up the
phone and you.

Speaker 1 (22:51):
In the house. What's up?

Speaker 2 (22:53):
That's how you Hey, what's up? And he say what
you gotta say? You be like, all right, yeah, we
finna go here, We're finna go there. I'm call you
want to give it into the house. Like you always
keep your convers you never interrupt the vibe by you know,
leaving it.

Speaker 1 (23:07):
I feel like if you gotta leave, no, I feel
like you're a lame ass nigga. Yeah.

Speaker 3 (23:11):
If you be interrupting the vibe the whole time, Like
if you staying on the phone at the table while
we on vacation with your man for thirty minutes, your lad,
that's what I and that's I'm talking about. But like
if I feel like I don't never want my nigga
to feel like I'm acting funny because I'm on vacation.
So it's like I'm an answer the phone, just like
I answer the phone when I'm at home. But I say,
but I'm gonna be I'm gonna keep it short and sweet, because,

(23:34):
like you said, I do feel like you know I'm
on vacation. You know I'm trying to have fun with
my homegirls, So why do you want to be on
the phone with.

Speaker 1 (23:41):
Me for thirty minutes?

Speaker 5 (23:42):
Now.

Speaker 3 (23:42):
I do feel like in those type of situations a
nigga do, he might be trying to like keep tabs
on you are ruin your time, because if he know
you out with your girls and he trying to keep
you on the phone all the time.

Speaker 1 (23:54):
That's a little weird.

Speaker 3 (23:55):
But checking in just trying to make sure you straight,
make sure you good, or see what y'all do today.

Speaker 1 (24:00):
I think that's fine.

Speaker 3 (24:02):
Yeah, that's okay, But they called that a nigga back
when you get back home, because when you get back
to the house and you chilling you in your room
or whatever, then I feel like then it's appropriate to
talk to your man for like thirty minutes or whatever.

Speaker 2 (24:14):
I one thousand percent agree. But like I said, if
my if my man calls, I'm not gonna lie. If
I'm at the if I'm actually at the dinner table
and we're all talking, I'm not gonna answer.

Speaker 1 (24:23):
I'm gonna text he out and say, hey, babe, it's
loud in here. Are you good? And he'll let me know.
Oh old baby, I was just checking on you. Are
you good? And I'm like, yeah, I'll call you.

Speaker 2 (24:31):
I'm working. You know what's crazy? I feel like I
am a handyman. I fixed the garage door last night.

Speaker 1 (24:39):
You did? I did? What was wrong with you?

Speaker 2 (24:43):
Let me say you, I'm such a handyman. But I
get that from my mom.

Speaker 1 (24:47):
What was wrong with the girls?

Speaker 2 (24:48):
Something happened and his nephew had like kicked the ball
and it like got off the track. And one thing mean,
I am a YouTube university girl, so I looked at
the brand of garage door with I went on YouTube
and I figured we were like trying to figure it out.
I was like, something is off the track, because you know,
I had a garage door growing up and it would
always like get off the track like that.

Speaker 1 (25:09):
And I went there and I fixed it.

Speaker 2 (25:10):
I said, big Mama, Big stop playing with me. I
don't know how we got on the topic of that,
but yeah, if it's simple, he wouldn't call me about
on ship like that.

Speaker 1 (25:24):
Though my man is functional.

Speaker 2 (25:26):
I don't like when people act like, you know, oh,
my man, I sent my man to the grocery store
for past and he came back with diapers.

Speaker 1 (25:33):
Oh my god, that's so funny.

Speaker 2 (25:35):
No, it's not. It's called weaponized incompetent. That's what they
call it because they think it's cute and it's funny.

Speaker 1 (25:45):
Oh I can't do this, babe. I don't know how
to do this. You're not here. That shit not funny
to me. I've never thought stuff like that is funny.

Speaker 3 (25:52):
I don't be thinking it's funny because when people do
that type of shit, like I said, I really think you.
I think you probably a little slow. Yeah, then got
a problem because I got with you. With you a
little slow, we got bigger problems. We got bigger fish
because how you confuse a diaper.

Speaker 2 (26:06):
But they be doing that, and they be doing them tiktoks,
and they be thinking it's funny that shit.

Speaker 3 (26:11):
Don't but I mean feeling like that should be playing
the thing about TikTok.

Speaker 1 (26:14):
I don't believe nothing I see on TikTok. I told
you I hate a TikTok. But's how you knew to
set the camera? The camera be right there. They can see.

Speaker 2 (26:21):
It'd be a whole set up like this. They'll be
like I'm about to prank Drea and.

Speaker 3 (26:25):
Be like I'm.

Speaker 1 (26:26):
About to get robbed. Oh, y'all know.

Speaker 2 (26:30):
I saw get ready with me while I go pick
up a plan B. I said, we too deep in
the trenches.

Speaker 6 (26:37):
Get ready, bitch, if you don't put your hand a bunny,
go pick up.

Speaker 1 (26:40):
That plan B. Because girls bad into the upper room. Yes,
because why do I want to go with you to
do this? I don't. I don't they get rid? What's
the climax?

Speaker 3 (26:49):
That's how I feel when I be watching videos, Okay,
like get ready to get ready with you? To go
do something? What's gonna be the climax? Like, what's gonna
be the thing that made me want to keep watching you?

Speaker 1 (26:57):
Well, some one of the girls said get ready with me.
I'll go to jail now. I would have watched. I
watched that.

Speaker 2 (27:03):
She was actually like taking her hair down, taking her
lashes off.

Speaker 1 (27:07):
I don't know what she did. Though.

Speaker 3 (27:09):
Those type of people are real interesting to me, though
they'd be a little unhinged because I got a cousin
like that who used to go to jail. She would
have made a killing on TikTok back in the day,
because I think she.

Speaker 1 (27:18):
Got her life together.

Speaker 3 (27:19):
Okay, good, good, But she would have made a killing
back in the day because she used to like get tickets,
not pay them, and get warrants and then lifting poll
up and then she would just go sit it out
because she would be like, they're not about to get
her money, period, so she would just put her if
she would go home, put her pajamas on, eat a
nice hot meal, a nice hot meal, and then she

(27:42):
would just go see in jail in the county jail
for like three days until like she set her warrants out.

Speaker 1 (27:47):
But why wouldn't she just stop getting pulled over?

Speaker 3 (27:51):
Now you know that's that's a valid question as a
as a reformed person who used to get pulled over,
Like I don't think you want to get pulled over.

Speaker 1 (28:01):
I just think it happened.

Speaker 3 (28:02):
Like I used to speed a lot when I was younger,
So you think you're a good driver, He'll know I
wasn't think I'm a driver, and I don't know why
they let me on the road.

Speaker 1 (28:17):
That's how you know. But that's how you know. When
people like me get a driver's license.

Speaker 3 (28:21):
Y'all want y'all just get that ship to anybody for real,
cause now, hell no, I can't drive. I feel like
I can get us to where we need to go.
But like I feel like people, I feel like, Okay,
you ain't never dated a nigga where you was like,
because I feel like niggas be great drivers, like men
be really good drivers. Women you do have some women

(28:42):
at a good driver, but I feel like men be
really great driver.

Speaker 1 (28:46):
You ain't never been in a car with a nigga.
You be like, damn, this nigga could be.

Speaker 3 (28:52):
Tied you on a little men, because it's like, damn,
this nigga really could drive.

Speaker 2 (28:57):
Like the reason I asked that because on the way
back from New Orleans when you were driving, Shane was
just in the back seat and he was like, sorry,
I was just crying.

Speaker 3 (29:12):
I mean I was driving, so I was like focused
on the road. I didn't know if she had seen
something in her phone and gas.

Speaker 2 (29:19):
She was just like, oh, she was gribing on to
the thing, you know, the little thing at the top.

Speaker 1 (29:23):
My daddy used to do that and I used to
laugh at him too. Yeah, but I don't think I
could drive.

Speaker 3 (29:30):
I feel like I know how to get to where
we need to go. I'm gonna make sure you get
there safe, too. Were gonna get there safe, I mean
on a good driver. I just drive slow. Now that's
the thing about Shoot, that's the difference between you and me.

Speaker 1 (29:44):
You drive slow, and I'll be driving what's the speed limit? Sixty?
I'm going forty five? No, Lex does drive slow, y'all?

Speaker 3 (29:53):
And you know what's crazy? Like did you did y'all
know that? Like you can get a ticket for boat,
you can get a ticket for driving.

Speaker 1 (30:00):
And for real, I said, I was a joining the scenery.
How dare you? It's a beautiful I'm driving through the land.

Speaker 3 (30:07):
Well we know that I forgot how I found out
because the show wasn't because I was driving.

Speaker 1 (30:11):
He said, ma'am, is there an issue? I said, is
that if you tell me.

Speaker 3 (30:16):
No, I'll be driving fast as fucked Like even when
we was coming home, you was flying, even when we
was coming home from New Orleans, like I would look
down and he said, like ninety eight.

Speaker 1 (30:26):
I said, ooh, bro, because I knew you were driving fast.
We ran out of gas so.

Speaker 2 (30:31):
Quickly we ran Like when I drove, I drove the
whole way to New Orleans right by Oh, I ran
out of gas. We had seventy miles on the trip left.
By the time dre ran out of gas, we had
two hundred miles left.

Speaker 1 (30:45):
We had to stop midway for you. We did. Yeah.
When I stopped, we only had like an hour left.

Speaker 3 (30:51):
Hey, you know I put that pedal to that motherfucker
you did and I got us home.

Speaker 1 (30:57):
We said six hours.

Speaker 7 (30:59):
I said, she.

Speaker 3 (31:03):
I'm fucking wait, he's giving four forty five.

Speaker 1 (31:07):
Now we beat the plane there. I don't be playing, y'all.
I be going, bitch, I be ready to fucking get home.

Speaker 3 (31:19):
Like and then on top of that, I hate driving
long decencies like Lex was like, because even when we
was on the way to New Orleans, you was like, oh.

Speaker 1 (31:27):
I feel fine.

Speaker 3 (31:28):
He was like, I'll just drive the whole way, okay, cool,
Because I had offered to drive halfway.

Speaker 1 (31:34):
On the way back, I told Shaye and Elisa, say, look,
you did. My time's almost us.

Speaker 3 (31:39):
I said, well, ladies, y'all did in my three hour beat.

Speaker 1 (31:43):
It's a wrap for me. Okay, to the back seat.
What's up, y'all.

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Speaker 1 (32:30):
We gonna move on. You want to bring in the
second topic?

Speaker 3 (32:33):
Yes, okay, So for the second topic, I wanted to
talk about like the order of things, you know, like
people love to say that, like you're supposed to date someone,
get engaged, get married, then have a baby. But obviously
a lot of people don't do that, and because if

(32:54):
that was the case, a lot of us would not
be here, including me. So I just wanted to know, like,
what do you think about that? Like when you see
people online kind of debating all the time about like
the order of how you should I guess technically do life,
Like should you get married first and then have a
baby and then. I also think it's interesting when people

(33:15):
say things to women online, like women who have had
children for men, they say they've been with them for like,
you know, maybe four or five years or so, and
then they're like, I still want to get married. I
still want the ring, And people are like, well, you
should have got a ring before you had a baby.
Do you feel like that really matters as far as
like a man proposing to you, like if you give

(33:35):
him a baby first, or if you just give him
too much I guess in a relationship before you get married,
do you feel like that matters?

Speaker 2 (33:44):
Well, I think everybody's timeline is different. What works for
this person may not work for you. I always like
to say that, but I feel like this goes into communication,
and we got to stop projecting because a lot of
times you do see women who have babies they live
with a man and they're like, oh, I still want
to get married, and that man never marries them. But
I also think that goes into communication and having a timeline,

(34:07):
you know.

Speaker 1 (34:07):
What I'm saying.

Speaker 2 (34:07):
Like, I feel like if you have a timeline and
you have open conversations and it's something that you want
and that you're always vocal about, it's not going to
be a problem.

Speaker 1 (34:16):
So let's say like.

Speaker 2 (34:18):
Oh, me and my man move in together, and I'm like,
you know what, well, I want to have a baby
right now, and I want to get engaged right now.

Speaker 1 (34:24):
I think things should just be discussed.

Speaker 2 (34:26):
But I think it's kind of crazy to say, oh,
if you do things in this order, it's never gonna
happen for you.

Speaker 1 (34:33):
Now.

Speaker 2 (34:33):
I do believe that if you move in with the
man and have a baby for him and you've never
brought up marriage and you've never brought up anything like that,
and all of a sudden you spring it on him
now that situation, it's gonna be harder to get a
ring out of him, because he thinking everything cool because
one thing I will say about it for let me
not speak for all men, but I think most men
are kind of like they be cool as long as

(34:55):
you cool, you.

Speaker 1 (34:56):
Know what I'm saying.

Speaker 2 (34:57):
So I feel like a lot of times that pressure
of me marriage and the ring, A lot of times
they be wanting the baby me yeah, because they want
their legacy and all this stuff. They don't really care
for the marriage and thing. But I think that's a
conversation that you have to have.

Speaker 1 (35:11):
So I feel like, as long as it's like a deal,
you know, I give you the baby, you know you
keep your end of the bargain, I keep my end
of the bargain. If that's the order, y'all want to
do things, you know, if you're not doing it traditionally,
first come to love, then come to marriage, then come
to baby and the baby carriage. You need to put
a time limit on it. If I give you a baby,
then how long do I get my ring? See? And
that's where I get the logic of the.

Speaker 3 (35:32):
Women who feel like that, like because I just don't
be trusting these niggas to keep up the end of
the bar. Y.

Speaker 1 (35:39):
That's that's true too.

Speaker 3 (35:41):
Same now, them push this baby out and you feel
like or you feel like I got married, yes, and
granted I'm sure we both wanted the baby, but if
marriage is a priority for me, and that was the agreement,
and now we're like, now our baby eighteen, you still
ain't eighteen?

Speaker 1 (35:58):
Is nuts. I'm thought you about to say a.

Speaker 3 (36:01):
Year old, I'm away, nah baby, about to go to
college and you still ain't married. Me like that very crazy,
And I feel like it happens all the time. But
I think the main thing is to you gotta be
with a nigga who want to get married. And I
feel like the signs of men who want to get
married and the signs of me and that don't really
prioritize marriage is always there with signs. I feel like

(36:25):
you could tell by the conversations that you have with
a man whether his intent is to be a family
man and get married or whether his intent is to
just be a baby daddy. Like I think that the
conversations matter. Like a man who cares about marriage and
who actually really wants to be with one woman, he
talks about it, you know, he has conversations about it.

(36:46):
I think he also moves like somebody who don't want
to be out here already.

Speaker 1 (36:50):
It's just like.

Speaker 3 (36:51):
Women who, in my personal opinion, if you're ready for marriage,
you're already moving like a woman who wants to get married.
I don't know, that's my thoughts and opinions on it.
But you know, there are people who want to get
married who don't necessarily move like they want to get married,
and they still end up getting married.

Speaker 1 (37:10):
Do you think we move like women who want to
get married.

Speaker 3 (37:12):
I think you do now that you're in a relationship.
But I think you started moving like that when you
got in a relationship because I was sorry, Yeah, but
I think that what you want from this specific relationship
that you're in, you're moving like somebody who wants that
from the relationship. I feel the same way about the

(37:33):
relationship that I've been in. I feel like I've moved
like somebody who wants to be married, who wants to.

Speaker 1 (37:39):
Be like locked down.

Speaker 3 (37:40):
I don't want to just be your baby mama, right,
you know what I mean? But in the past, do
I think we moved like women who wanted to be married?
Not necessarily because I never I never heard about marriage though, Well.

Speaker 1 (37:51):
I think you, well, no, because you always I don't know.

Speaker 2 (37:55):
I always wanted partnership. Yeah, you did say. I never
said because I was like, I don't know. I said,
I don't know if I'm going to have children, I
don't know if I get married, But I want partnership,
you know what I'm saying.

Speaker 1 (38:04):
But I never really cared about, you know, marriage like that. Yeah.

Speaker 3 (38:08):
And I never even just really cared about being in
like a long term relationship like that until my relationship
right now.

Speaker 1 (38:15):
So yeah, I mean, I don't know, friend, but I
do feel.

Speaker 3 (38:19):
Like you have women who literally from like a younger age,
like and even maybe were groomed that way by their
parents and like by family members and stuff to like, Okay,
if you want to get married, this is how you
gotta move. It's how you have to present yourself.

Speaker 1 (38:33):
X, Y, and Z.

Speaker 3 (38:34):
And it might have yielded them the results that they
wanted if marriage is the goal. But then you know,
that's another topic to get into in itself that I
feel like a lot of people that's married, they ain't
even married to who they want to get married to.
They just married because society made them feel like they
had to get married by a certain age. And I'd
rather be single till I'm fifty, right, and to marry
the wrong nigga, just because society made me feel like

(38:56):
I had to be married by thirty five.

Speaker 1 (38:58):
And I also think the fact that I have waited,
I'm so glad I waited, Like I used to feel
like I was so behind. But now being this age.

Speaker 2 (39:07):
And I don't have any kids, i've never been married,
I feel like I know everything I want to partner
because I've been through hell and back. I've experienced so
much and I know everything. I know what's a red
flag now, I know things I need to look out for.

Speaker 1 (39:20):
So I'm so happy I waited.

Speaker 2 (39:22):
But do I feel like the order needs to be love, marriage, baby,
and the baby carriage not necessarily, but I will say
I have my you know, like, oh this needs to
happen before this happens for me, you know what I mean?

Speaker 1 (39:37):
Because I'm not gonna lie.

Speaker 2 (39:38):
Though, I do feel like, in my opinion, if you
move in with a man, get pregnant, and have a baby,
and y'all are like splitting bills or y'all doing y'all
have integrated your life and you haven't got married yet
or got a ring yet.

Speaker 1 (39:52):
I think if you've done all that.

Speaker 2 (39:54):
And y'all have never had conversations about it, it'll be
harder to get a ring.

Speaker 1 (39:57):
I do feel like that way. And if y'all have
never had.

Speaker 2 (39:59):
A converse about it, because if he wanted to do it,
he would have been did it. Y'all are living together,
y'all have a baby, y'all are doing all this in
a household, and it's like, what's the hold of why
hasn't he.

Speaker 1 (40:10):
Done it yet?

Speaker 2 (40:11):
And at that point, I want my man. When my
man proposes to me, I don't want it to be
like I've dropped any hints. I want to be one
hundred percent surprised. I shouldn't feel like, oh I gotta
drop hints and I gotta do this and got I
don't want to feel that way.

Speaker 1 (40:24):
So I think that, yeah, you definitely can't do it.

Speaker 2 (40:29):
You don't have to do it in a certain order,
But there is an order of things. I still feel
like you should maybe go by. So maybe I'll change
my mind on what I said in the beginning.

Speaker 3 (40:39):
I definitely feel like it's the order of things. Okay,
I think I definitely feel like it's the order of things.
If this is what you want, like if you are
hell baby, at least, if you're held men on getting married,
then yeah, okay. If you not, then no. I think
it just really depends on the person. But it's like,
if this is the result that you want, if you
want to be a married woman, then I feel like

(41:01):
you need to be strict about your goals, just like
you strict about your goals in any other area life.
I don't know why women be afraid to be strict
with these niggas. If this is what you say you want,
then you should make sure that you do what you
need to do to get the ring first. And I
don't think having a baby before the ring it's that
smart of an idea if that's what you say you

(41:21):
want first, especially if this man has not proven to
you or showed you that he really wants that commitment
or that he's really that ready.

Speaker 1 (41:30):
To be a husband.

Speaker 3 (41:31):
And I feel like the signs is always there, you
know what I mean. I personally feel like it ain't
really no.

Speaker 1 (41:40):
Order for me. I feel like, whatever order, it happened.
But that's just how I think. I know.

Speaker 3 (41:45):
Some women are really like I have to get married,
I have to get married, or I have to get
married by a certain age.

Speaker 1 (41:51):
It has to happen by this point, or I'm just.

Speaker 3 (41:53):
Gonna feel like a failure, or I'm not gonna feel
like i'm a woman or I'm woman enough if I
don't have the ring or get married.

Speaker 1 (41:59):
I don't feel it.

Speaker 3 (42:00):
But I feel like in a lot of ways, I
don't let society really put pressure on me to do
things by a certain time frame, which I'm so glad
that I have been released from them, shehackles, because I
feel like when I was younger, I really used to
put time frames on myself, and not just for things
that I'm supposed to have as a woman, but just
things i'm supposed to have in general, like, oh, by

(42:21):
the time I'm twenty five, I need to be driving
this type of car. By the time I'm twenty six,
I need to be making this amount of money. And
it's okay to have those standards for yourself, but then
if you don't meet them, you're not a failure because
we're not in competition with anybody else. We only in
competition with ourselves and becoming a bus version of ourselves.

Speaker 1 (42:40):
No, for real, So isn't even that word.

Speaker 3 (42:42):
No, I'm serious, seriously, it's like we're only in competition
with ourselves. The only clock we should be beating is
our clock. So you can look at somebody who was
twenty two to twenty three and.

Speaker 1 (42:51):
Got engaged and then had.

Speaker 3 (42:53):
A baby by twenty five, and you feeling like, oh,
I'm twenty seven, I'm twenty eight. I still haven't even
met a man yet. Okay, that's her story. And you
also don't know what be going You don't know what
the fuck be going on behind closed doors in these
people homes.

Speaker 1 (43:07):
Y'all need to go watch TikTok murders.

Speaker 3 (43:09):
Yes, shit be looking real motherfucking good on social media,
but you do not know what people be dealing with.
So I feel like you gotta stay focused on your
own sheet. And I think that, like I said, I
don't let society force me into thinking like, oh I
have to have this by a certain age, or I
have to have a baby for I mean, get a

(43:30):
ring first, whatever order it happening. If I get pregnant first,
I get pregnant first. If I get a ring first,
I get a ring first. If I don't never get
a fucking ring from the nigga. If I have a
baby and we don't and I don't get a ring,
and I have to go out and start dating somebody else.
That's just the order of things. And I feel like,
God know what's gonna happen in your life anyways. You
can't force sheet. You just gotta leot it fluck.

Speaker 1 (43:54):
Liot it flued. Tony did is going with it? She did?
I'm telling you, I like that God to let it flow.

Speaker 3 (44:04):
You don't agree, it's gonna happen when it happened. Don't
put the pressure on yourself because if anything to a
lot of women, be putt pressure on niggas and then
you run them away because you're trying to force him
to do something he ain't ready to do with. If
a nigga want to marry you, he's gonna marry you.

Speaker 1 (44:19):
It's that simple.

Speaker 3 (44:21):
You ain't gotta put no pressure on him. You ain't
got to give him no timeline. You ain't got to
tell him all we've been together five years, you got
two more before I leave.

Speaker 1 (44:30):
He know how long y'all been together, and he know
you ain't going nowhere else, and he know you're probably
not gonna leave in two years.

Speaker 2 (44:35):
But especially especially if you depend on him, well, especially
that That's why I said, y'all got to get Hey,
we want a man who's ambitches who got money, but
get your own.

Speaker 3 (44:46):
And do you want and this is another question too,
do you want and engagement or do you want to marriage?
Because it's a lot of people who've been engaged, like
niggas will give I don't see any to happen numerous times.
Give you a ring just to shiit you will because
you was like, oh, I want to ring.

Speaker 1 (45:01):
I want to be engaged.

Speaker 3 (45:03):
They'll give you a ring and then don't never want
to say to date, don't never want to plan a wedding.

Speaker 1 (45:07):
But like you said, the signs are there.

Speaker 3 (45:09):
And still be out here doing them because they didn't
want to get engaged.

Speaker 1 (45:12):
Like I don't mind a long engagement, but see my thing,
but why is it long? If financially stable?

Speaker 2 (45:19):
I'll say this, I don't mind an engagement of like
one to two years. After that second year mark, we
should start playing the wedding.

Speaker 1 (45:26):
I just feel like I don't know.

Speaker 2 (45:28):
I guess my timeline how I look at things like
I'm either gonna get pregnant and get engaged, or get
engaged and get pregnant either or but I'm not in
a rush to because I want my wedding to be
like my wedding gonna be leag.

Speaker 1 (45:40):
Not Paris in springtime.

Speaker 3 (45:44):
It's gonna be You're gonna have angels hanging from.

Speaker 1 (45:46):
The ceiling, but you don't.

Speaker 3 (45:49):
It's gonna give you Harrys in springtime looking at and you.

Speaker 1 (45:55):
Know, I love a good tile of period moment.

Speaker 2 (45:58):
But anyways, I feel like I don't mind the long
engagement just because, like I just I like to enjoy moments.
I'm a moment person, So I feel like I want
to enjoy my engagement. I don't want to be like, oh,
I spent my whole engagement planning my wedding, yeah, because
we were in a rush to do it. Like I
want to be like, man, you remember when we were

(46:18):
engaged and we had this house. Now we're married and
we're in this house or whatever our story unfolds.

Speaker 1 (46:24):
I'm just not in a rush.

Speaker 3 (46:26):
But see, when I think of a long engagement, though
a year or two years, it's not long Like I
feel like you need a year to plan a good wedding. Yeah,
Like if you want, if you want your wedding to
be like the wedding of your dreams and you wanted
to be extravagant and have everything that you want.

Speaker 1 (46:40):
I think it takes a good year to plan that.

Speaker 3 (46:43):
When I think of a long engagement, I been thinking
the people who being engaged for like five years, ten
years still ain't broke up and got engaged.

Speaker 1 (46:54):
Then you see what I'm saying.

Speaker 2 (46:55):
You know, they fitna be on our ass in these comments.
They're gonna be like these two bitches neither what do
y'all got reds?

Speaker 3 (47:01):
Don't never take what they say, don't never take advice
from single women. I'm weak saying that all the time
in the comments. Behave I just I'm just saying, you know,
because at the end of the day, it might not
be married, but I don't see it.

Speaker 2 (47:15):
Look okay, So now let's let us know in the
comments what y'all think about the order. First comes love,
then comes marries, then comes the.

Speaker 1 (47:24):
Baby, and the baby cares. Do y'all agree with that?
Do you believe in common law marriage? No? Now the state.

Speaker 3 (47:31):
That's that's why I say what I say because I
don't seen it my whole life, like I feelow, we
all got.

Speaker 1 (47:37):
Unties uncles who done being with their boo but like
crazy being a third being.

Speaker 2 (47:43):
A thirty year boo, A thirty year a boo at
eighty three years old is nuts, yo, that's my boo.

Speaker 1 (47:49):
That's my little friend. That's how we be though, your
old friend, my little friend, my old friend, a low
old friend.

Speaker 2 (48:00):
Like once you reach like forty five and fifty, y'all
should date for like four months to get married.

Speaker 1 (48:05):
I don't think.

Speaker 3 (48:06):
I think see, And I feel like, if you fifty
and you ain't been married once, don't get married.

Speaker 1 (48:10):
Okay, Now I agree with that.

Speaker 2 (48:12):
But I feel like, if if it's your second married,
you're fifty, and you're dating for four or five months,
just marry him the fuck?

Speaker 1 (48:18):
What's your white on?

Speaker 3 (48:21):
Like, like I said, if it's gonna be your second one, yes,
then then cool, then cool.

Speaker 1 (48:27):
But I feel like I don't know, you don't know
I'm walking down that.

Speaker 2 (48:34):
Okay, So now it's time to get into you'na say
the bed, bow my bed, the bed bow bow bow
bow bout getting into the bed. I'm getting some head.
Been a drink my drink. You heard what I said?

Speaker 1 (48:51):
This drink good. I ain't got loud. I'm ready for
another one time m hm not gonna die bad segment today.

Speaker 2 (49:00):
Shout out to cast Facts because I seen this post
that he had posted.

Speaker 1 (49:05):
Shout out to our good friend cast.

Speaker 2 (49:08):
He was saying, ladies, stop bringing your vibrators on vacation.

Speaker 1 (49:12):
It's getting a little too horny in here.

Speaker 2 (49:16):
So I wanted to talk about bringing vibrators on vacation.

Speaker 1 (49:22):
Why are you looking at me? Because what you said, mmm,
you don't bring them on. I'm gonna put my thing down.
I'm flipping and reverse.

Speaker 2 (49:30):
You keep that thing on you, don't you?

Speaker 1 (49:34):
You accidentally packed a butt plug. It was an accident.
Like that's how you know you keep that thing on you?
It was an accident.

Speaker 3 (49:41):
I myself was shocked when I pool, when I said, whoa.

Speaker 1 (49:44):
What is this?

Speaker 3 (49:47):
I thought it was a piece of jewelry and it
was but jewelry nonetheless not but.

Speaker 1 (49:53):
Lester, What are you doing here? It was some jewelry
for a very specific place. But okay, can I admit something?
You'll be packed? I know, I know you carry him.
Not gonna lie. I never have brought my vibrator with
me on vacation.

Speaker 2 (50:11):
I don't, But you ain't never brought your role No,
but I don't have a role with that's your fault.

Speaker 1 (50:16):
I tell you I don't like her role. So I said, well,
that sound like a problem. But let me tell you
what happened though. I have I have something to confess
to you. I'm scared because why are you getting serious?

Speaker 2 (50:26):
Because I never pack it with me because I'm like, okay,
I'm gonna be right back.

Speaker 1 (50:30):
What is it.

Speaker 2 (50:31):
I didn't bring no vibrators to London with me, right,
I didn't bring nothing with me. I had a quick
maybe ten minutes when you was in the shower, your
fingers hey, I was call me DJ many Fresh. I
had to get to it. I was like, oh fuck,
I hope you don't come out the shower.

Speaker 1 (50:51):
Are you serious? I have to get to it. When
I was in the shower, oh lord, you had the
music playing or something. Maybe he was in there and
you was out there.

Speaker 8 (51:01):
Uh no no.

Speaker 1 (51:07):
I'm like, I couldn't take it no more. I couldn't
take that ship no more. But I was like, damn
if I would have my.

Speaker 2 (51:16):
Because you would have been yeah, would have been quick
thirty seconds. Max was there like their roles be getting
you out there.

Speaker 1 (51:24):
I couldn't even focus you. Was scared.

Speaker 3 (51:27):
No, I feel like yes, so like, especially if I
go out of time with my man, I for sure
be taking my rolls with your man.

Speaker 1 (51:37):
Yeah for them, Oh be cause y'all be getting.

Speaker 2 (51:40):
Too freaking yeah, like not for like be me by myself,
Like why would we be having you ain't never used
your rolls while he was having absolutely but Rose, the
guy was dating at the time when used the ros
and he had a role how you freaking no?

Speaker 1 (51:55):
Because we went and got it. Oh, I was like,
you can keep it because y'all sterilized need every time
I would be you got a boy that rosa for real? Well, No,
we went and got it together.

Speaker 2 (52:08):
But I told him he can keep it because I
was like, just keep it at your house because I didn't.

Speaker 1 (52:11):
I didn't actually like it.

Speaker 2 (52:12):
But honestly, I'm not gonna lie going on girls trip
moving forward, I will bring my vibrator. I'll use it
in the shower maybe, But I was like, man, I
need to be I'm gonna be mad if I come
in the bathroom and you on the wall.

Speaker 1 (52:28):
Screen, I'm gonna turn around like, what's his name? Boy?
I would be terrified by leg. I would never do it.
I've never been caught. I would not true.

Speaker 3 (52:47):
Story though, I've never masturbated in the room. Like if
I went on vacation one of my friends and we
was like in the same room, I've never masturbated. You're
a freaky ass bitch, but I need to start. You
need to stay your ass.

Speaker 1 (53:01):
I'll take that, because what didn't you be talking about me?

Speaker 3 (53:05):
I can't believe you was rubbing your pussy while I
was in the fucking shower.

Speaker 1 (53:09):
Why cause you was rubbing guard fields so vulger.

Speaker 3 (53:15):
You know, I sound vulgar because I'm saying it, But
you was doing the shep in the bed we were
sleeping in, but you didn't no.

Speaker 2 (53:23):
No, well, yeah, we were in the bed together. I
did it on my side.

Speaker 1 (53:29):
This why this why?

Speaker 2 (53:30):
You know?

Speaker 3 (53:31):
At one point, y'all, at one point, me and LEXI
used to always share rooms, right when we first started
like making money with poor minds. Whenever we got a time,
we'd always share rooms. Then for a little mommy, we
was like, you know, we need privacy, like we should
say in separate rooms. So for a while we started
saying it staying in separate room.

Speaker 2 (53:49):
But then we will always be in the other person room.
Then we would always be in each other rooms all
the time. Anyways, y'all know Lex be missing me? So
no is that the same head right handed?

Speaker 1 (54:00):
Sorry?

Speaker 3 (54:03):
So then Lex will be missing me. And we was like,
you know what, we should just start sharing rooms again.
So now when we went to London, we was in
the same room, y'all and like never again.

Speaker 1 (54:14):
Be let's time we go to London. We had in
a separate room. Was a safe space. I thought it
was a safe bed and it was nice. I didn't
get your side was clean. You act like I was
in that squirten. I don't know.

Speaker 3 (54:30):
I don't know, super soaca and you know this, that's
fucking wild this. I do be taking my vibrator at
the time.

Speaker 1 (54:40):
Well now I know I'm taking mine now and my
butt plug.

Speaker 3 (54:43):
But that was an ectody that I brought it with us.

Speaker 1 (54:46):
You keep that thing on you. I'll be ready, CG.

Speaker 7 (54:54):
I cannot deal with you today.

Speaker 2 (55:27):
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follow all that good stuff. And let me say this
before we close off. Y'all, there is one Twitter account
that is connected to poor Minds.

Speaker 1 (55:39):
It's p O.

Speaker 2 (55:40):
You are underscore in my nds. Y'all are tagging the
wrong poor Minds page. If you see at poor minds
with no underscore, that is at fake page, do not
follow that page. Okay, they block me Andrea and the
poor Minds page on both. So we only have one Instagram,
one Twitter, one.

Speaker 1 (56:01):
TikTok it is p o. You are underscore in my
nds a.

Speaker 9 (56:05):
Right, and we gotta hell a fake Facebook page the
Facebook page it's our face. The crazy thing is our
Facebook page actually have the least amount of follow So
if you're on face, the one that's ours.

Speaker 1 (56:17):
Got the least amount of but one that's not us
got like two hundred and fifty.

Speaker 2 (56:22):
You make if you actually look at the content because
the caption is like whoever it is, don't speak English,
because their captures are like bumba claude?

Speaker 1 (56:29):
Should men? Should men pay bill? Should men pay bill? Yes?

Speaker 4 (56:33):
No?

Speaker 2 (56:34):
Check answer below block block pull pull pull, Like that's
literally what the captions.

Speaker 1 (56:41):
I'm like, what that DG is?

Speaker 10 (56:43):
Bumba claude, bumba claud Okay, so.

Speaker 1 (56:47):
Now it's time to get into.

Speaker 2 (56:49):
The bop a about bow Bow Bow Bow Bow.

Speaker 1 (56:56):
This is my Bob of the week. I can't wait
to talk about this song.

Speaker 2 (57:00):
Oh Okay, stop stop, stop, stop stop.

Speaker 1 (57:07):
Let me tell you something, y'all. This licks just running
this song in the ground.

Speaker 2 (57:11):
Our girl Meg first of all, our Bodi lingual queen.

Speaker 1 (57:15):
Because who you know rapping in Japanese? Who you know
rapping in Japanese? Though? Nobody and Japanese. I about to say,
but the japan But what did I say? It?

Speaker 10 (57:28):
Like?

Speaker 2 (57:30):
Meg has a song off her new album, which the
album is solid. I'm gonna talk about the whole album
in a second, but she has a song on there
called Mamushi and she's rapping in Japanese and it sounds
so good, and I just I love this for her.
It's featuring Yuki Chiba. I hope I'm saying that right.

(57:50):
He's very popular in Japan, a Japanese rapper.

Speaker 1 (57:53):
And when I say it's a bop.

Speaker 2 (57:55):
One thing I love about Meg is like I like
when artists go in the studio and they make music
and it.

Speaker 1 (58:00):
Happens to turn into a TikTok.

Speaker 2 (58:02):
I don't like when artists make TikTok music like they're
trying to. I don't think Meg when the studio was like, oh,
they're gonna do a TikTok dance to this, you know
what I'm saying. But the song is fire. It's so catchy.
It's one of them songs like I get Ready, you
know you getting Ready? I love to get Ready song,
and it's just it gets the vib's right. It gets
the vibs right, cuz like I Get Money, I'm a
star period because I am. I was listening to that

(58:25):
the whole day we got Ready for the bt A wards.

Speaker 1 (58:26):
You was listening to it in LA and New Orleans.

Speaker 2 (58:29):
It was and I'm not gonna stop. So I'm The
whole album is fire. Very solid album from Meg. I'm
very impressed. Not that I'm mean anybody's impressed, but I
feel like this is one of her most solid projects
since the Tina Snow project. I really do. I think
she really took her time with this. You can tell
she was like in her bag rattle. She gave us

(58:50):
bars on that one where them girls at you going
to the club on that one A surprising collaboration. She
has a song called Miami Blue with Big Crit.

Speaker 1 (59:02):
Y'all know how I feel about Big Crit.

Speaker 2 (59:04):
Legendary, one of the greatest, and it's so it's such
a smooth record and I love when Meg makes so
smooth records. Of course, she has UGK on the album
Victoria Monet. It's a solid album. It's one of those
things you can listen through straight through and you're gonna
fuck with it.

Speaker 1 (59:17):
So shout out to Meg Mamushi. That's my bop of
the week song. I like it. It's very catchy, a hit.
Shout out to me the HWN period. So my bop
is from another female rapper. My bop is Big Mama
Balado Big. I love that song. I think it's so

(59:40):
catch It is what you're gonna do for Big Mama?
For real?

Speaker 3 (59:43):
What do I get for my birthday? Oh that's perfect
for you because your birthday coming up? It is, But
it's very catchy, like and you know for a long time,
Why am I gonna say a long time, but like
maybe for like a month or so, she kept dropping
like that one little tone, and I feel like everybody
was like, okay when she gonna drop the song, like

(01:00:04):
to like build the anticipation, And when she.

Speaker 1 (01:00:07):
Did drop the song, it definitely hit.

Speaker 3 (01:00:08):
And I even like the little second half of the
song to which you know, the beat change. I love
when songs do that. I love that song, so big Mama,
Big Mama, It's.

Speaker 1 (01:00:19):
A good song. I like Lotto.

Speaker 2 (01:00:21):
I got that's a lot of yeah a Lotto was
a good artist. She I feel like once an artist
that she keeps dropping hits.

Speaker 1 (01:00:26):
She does. She didn't denied the talent.

Speaker 3 (01:00:28):
And I went to Birthday bash in Atlanta, which was
like probably my first I think that was my first
time ever seeing her perform in person.

Speaker 1 (01:00:36):
And she did a good job.

Speaker 3 (01:00:37):
Yeah, and she had a lot of like great people
come out, which is just kind of like a testament
to how many people fuck with her.

Speaker 1 (01:00:42):
I mean, she did Usher's tribute.

Speaker 3 (01:00:44):
I think, well, she needed Usher's tribute and then Usher
came out at Birthday.

Speaker 1 (01:00:47):
But yeah, I think you know, she was on his
last album too.

Speaker 2 (01:00:51):
I think she was the only rapper, female rapper on
his tribute.

Speaker 1 (01:00:55):
I want to say she was.

Speaker 2 (01:00:57):
Yeah. So I think that's just a testament to who
she is in her art artistry as well. So shout
out to Lotto. We love big lot of period. Hope
y'all is your girl.

Speaker 1 (01:01:05):
XP and it's sugarl Dry and the Call. Y'all know.

Speaker 2 (01:01:08):
We have a segment on Poor Minds called Item of
the Week. But do you have a product or something
that you want to promote and you want it featured
on Poor Minds.

Speaker 1 (01:01:15):
Your opportunity is here period.

Speaker 3 (01:01:18):
If you have an item or you have a business
and you want to get it promoted, we are now
having slots available on the Poor Minds episode. So if
you would like to get your product featured for Item
of the Week, all you need to do is send
an email to Item of the Week PM at gmail
dot com. That's I T E M O F T
H E W E E K PM at gmail dot com.

(01:01:42):
Send us an email and we'll work it out. We
gonna figure it out.

Speaker 2 (01:01:46):
Get your product, get your business sponsored, and yeah, make
you some money.

Speaker 1 (01:01:51):
We love to sport a small business man.

Speaker 3 (01:01:53):
And a black business said that, But I mean on
a scrimma dad, any business.

Speaker 1 (01:02:00):
Is welcome, all right.

Speaker 2 (01:02:03):
So we have the Item of the Week, y'all know,
I think it's time for me to give a fair
and honest review.

Speaker 1 (01:02:09):
Now.

Speaker 2 (01:02:09):
I wanted to talk about Crowns of Love. Y'all know,
we had Tracy on the show from Crowns of Love Incorporated.
And I got the what is it the raw Indian
curl that I have in my hair. I've had it
in my head for a long time. I want to say,
almost two months at this point maybe, and I'm not
I'm not gonna lie.

Speaker 1 (01:02:28):
This is this hair is bomb. It's great hair. It
is some good hair.

Speaker 2 (01:02:32):
Because the fact that this hair is like two months
old and it's still fresh, all y'all do is spray
a little one two, comb it through and keep it pushing.

Speaker 1 (01:02:40):
Now.

Speaker 2 (01:02:41):
I don't braid it at night like I'm supposed to,
because you do have to break curly hair at night.
But even when I don't braid it, I can still
just spray it in the morning blend my hair with it.
I twist my hair to blend it. Y'all gonna see
the London episodes that are about to drop and the
ones that previously start previously drop. My hair wasn't blended
like I like it because I didn't take the proper

(01:03:01):
products to London because I had just gotten the hair done,
so I didn't really know how to play with it.

Speaker 1 (01:03:05):
So now I've really figured out how to play with it.

Speaker 2 (01:03:08):
And when I tell y'all, if you're a curly hair
girl and you love curly bundles, this is it. I
amy you did your big one because you have it
in as well.

Speaker 3 (01:03:16):
Yeah, so I have in hair from Crowns of Love
as well. I'm not sure if this is like the same.
I think that's alute way, but I don't know because
I feel like it's not the same texture as the
hair that I just had in for my braid that
was like a little looser than this.

Speaker 1 (01:03:31):
But this also isn't.

Speaker 3 (01:03:32):
As tight as it's not as tight as my hair,
but my hair is.

Speaker 1 (01:03:36):
Also like longer. But y'all, this hair is so good.

Speaker 3 (01:03:40):
So I have like a flip over quick weave, so
I have like my real hair out at the perimeter,
and then you know, I have the bundles from Tracy.
I think it's like a twenty and two twenty two.
And y'all, this hair is so easy to manage. I
probably should be taking better care of it. But I'm
one of them girls who I do not betid my
hair up. When I go to sleep sleeping with a

(01:04:01):
bunnet on none of this sheet, And when I say
I be going to sleep just with my hair out
like this, and I'll be waking up in the morning
and it's never tangled. I literally just have to spray
water on it and brush through it and I'm ready
to go. I don't really even have to put no
products in it. To be honest, I love this hair.
It's amazing. I never want to wear Yeah.

Speaker 2 (01:04:23):
Same now I will say with the curlier hair, I
do have to put product in it.

Speaker 1 (01:04:27):
Well, yeah, because cause it's.

Speaker 2 (01:04:29):
Like when I don't have products on it, cause like
y'all have to. It's raw, curly in it hair, but
it's very good. We'll make sure we put the link
in the bio for you, and yeah.

Speaker 1 (01:04:39):
Shout out to Tracy.

Speaker 2 (01:04:39):
I'm about to get some braids, so I'm gonna get
I think I'm gonna get that texture when I get
some braids.

Speaker 1 (01:04:44):
Okay, So what we got next?

Speaker 3 (01:04:47):
So now it's time to get into the poor your
Heart Out segment, which is our favorite segment of the show.
Y'all know, if y'all have any questions, thank you Tom.
Y'all can always send them to ask poormids at gmail
dot com. It's ask you are in my NDAs at
gmail dot com. Send us your questions, send us your testimonials.

Speaker 1 (01:05:06):
I feel like y'all ain't really.

Speaker 3 (01:05:07):
Been sending our testimonials yet, so I feel like maybe
we've been doing a good job with the advice, because
I feel like the testimonials wasn't good ones I was
getting them. So yeah, just keep writing these questions in
y'all because we love to give y'all our feedback.

Speaker 1 (01:05:23):
You readily.

Speaker 3 (01:05:25):
Yeah, go ahead, okay. Question number one, this is from
a Patreon member too. Hey, lex Andrea, how do you
get back someone that you dubbed because you were unsure
about them? Now I'm looking back, thinking about the potential
of how things could have been. I might have stood
on business too hard. I made a list of things
I did and didn't like. There was only one thing

(01:05:45):
I really didn't like, but the others weren't anything too crazy.

Speaker 2 (01:05:50):
Now I'm questioning why you want to go back because
you dubbed this person for a reason. Now you might
have I think you trying to see because you see
them treating somebody else right, or they done moved on
and they was impressing you. Because now I'm wondering what
your intentions are because if you only had one thing
that was bad and all the rest were good, why
did you dub them? So maybe you need to look

(01:06:11):
within and take your well and move on. I don't
like when people do that though, like, don't dub somebody
and then you see I don't know what the situation is,
but if there was only one con and you had
all these pros, why did you so and why are
you trying to change your mind now?

Speaker 3 (01:06:29):
I just don't feel like you should want somebody back
that you dubbed for a long time. I feel like
people that you dubbed for a long time they becoming
You get him a chance, Yeah, they be coming back
with vengeance. He's asked about to do you in and
I said, don't get it.

Speaker 2 (01:06:42):
I was like, no, they not. I feel like cause
that listen, girl, it happened to me. It happened to me.

Speaker 3 (01:06:48):
It happened to me too. Don't get it in, don't
get in it. Don't get a nigga no chance. And
you wouldn't give him no chance the first time he
tried or the second time, I would just say, girl,
let it go. It's more niggas. I think you ain't missing.
I don't know things because when I tell you he
gonna do you dirty, he.

Speaker 1 (01:07:03):
Gonna do you in.

Speaker 2 (01:07:04):
He can't wait, all right. Question number two, it's a
few questions. So it says Heydrea and Lexp, I have
a few questions for you, for both of us, What
did you ladies think of the Usher tribute. I think
we answered that earlier. I enjoyed it personally. I think
it was great seeing it live. It was a different experience.

Speaker 5 (01:07:22):
I liked it.

Speaker 2 (01:07:23):
Chloe Bailey did amazing as well, Tanasee, everybody, Marsha, she
did great. Like I said, I think sometimes when you
see something on TV versus actually being there, you don't
get the full experience.

Speaker 1 (01:07:35):
But I enjoyed it. I did too. I thought it
was really really good and I liked it. It was
all women.

Speaker 2 (01:07:40):
Yeah, Coco Jones, I could have worry about Coco. She ate,
she ate, and she said, I enjoyed it. The internet
sceneed to be less impressed and was wondering where all
the male artists were. But again, Usher requested a female tribute. Now,
Childish Gambino was indeed, you know, I think they wanted
to have him kind of intro it and open it.
But Usher specifically said, because let me say this, this

(01:08:03):
may cause a little controversy. Y'all may not like this,
but if y'all can name one artist that's relevant right now,
a male artist that could do Usher Justice, more than
Victoria Money, more than Tayona Taylor, more than Kiki Palmer
that can dance and sing right now outside of Chris Brown.
Because I don't know how Usher and Chris Brown's relationship is,

(01:08:24):
but there's no male R and B artists that can
sing and dance like that right now. I mean, maybe
I'm tripping and I listen to a lot of R
and B, but these are R and B singers, But
ain't nobody Finna moon walk and do all that shit
like Usher besides Chris Brown and Chris Brown on tour.

(01:08:44):
So I think there was a good idea for him
to do female artists right now because the women are
killing it right now and out Victoria Money is the
hottest R and B artist right now man and women
to me personally, so Teyanna Taylor has been doing amazing
with her creative directing. Who can out dance Teianna Taylor?

(01:09:07):
The only other person I would have added, what's another woman, Sierra,
but she's on tour again. We don't really have any
men right now.

Speaker 1 (01:09:15):
That can leak say they want us to see Jack Queeze.

Speaker 2 (01:09:18):
And the second question said, Lex, have you heard of Nippa?
He's an R and B artist, and I want to
know what you think of his music. You know you
have an here I haven't heard.

Speaker 1 (01:09:34):
I haven't heard of n I was trying to read,
you know, I read slow. I'm the king of R
and B.

Speaker 2 (01:09:41):
I haven't heard of Nippa, but I'll listen to him.
Who is She's trying to put me on an R
and B artist? She said, I just told you about one.

Speaker 1 (01:09:52):
I know who I know.

Speaker 3 (01:09:53):
That's what the people were saying. They want us to
see we're people. They were saying that on Twitter. Oh okay,
where's Jack Queez?

Speaker 1 (01:10:00):
Oh? I think his name Jakeyes, yeah, that's fair. Everybody
has the right to their opinion. That's fair. What do
you think?

Speaker 2 (01:10:08):
I think the tribute was an amazing tribute and there
was nothing I would change about it.

Speaker 1 (01:10:14):
Would you have liked to see a man I saw
shouders can be no and that was good enough for me.

Speaker 2 (01:10:20):
If there was one man I would want to see,
I guess you know, I would say, like Chris Brown.
But like I said, fair, this is no shade because
I love the male. I love R and B music
right now, but there's nobody in R and B that
can sing and dance like us shirt except for Chris Brown.
Except for Chris Brown. And he's the only one that

(01:10:41):
could have only man right now, that's relevant. That could
have done him justice. You know, if they were going
to do a throwback, you know, they could have thrown
a little marion in there. Maybe, you know, they definitely
could have got mar you know, they could have thrown
a marion in there. That's one another one I would say.
But I think they were trying to keep it fresh
with a young crowd, you know. They That's what they

(01:11:01):
have to do when you have to appease gen Z,
you know what I'm saying. So for gen Z to
tune in, you know you're gonna have to have the Lottos,
the Coco Jones, the Kiki Palmers.

Speaker 1 (01:11:13):
You know. So, I think they did amazing at picking
and I think it was fabulous. I think it was great.
I think it was great.

Speaker 2 (01:11:22):
Drea, last question for you for me, Yes, she has
multiple questions. Damn she she got it in, Drea. Have
you heard of ching diamond pronounced chan?

Speaker 1 (01:11:36):
I don't know I read anymore. She said she get aman.

Speaker 2 (01:11:42):
Pronounced ching like to ching, shake down and another bitch
bist to dust are my face from her?

Speaker 1 (01:11:48):
What do you think?

Speaker 2 (01:11:49):
I think these are your friends and you just got
a free shout out. I'm gonna send my inbood because
she said ching Diamond and she.

Speaker 1 (01:11:56):
Asked me, yeah, you think that I would know more
than Lyn. Well, this is a rapper, I guess, but
you listen to more like indie artists. Yeah, I think
these are her friends and she just got them a
free shout out. But that was smart. You got me.

Speaker 3 (01:12:10):
We're gonna I'm gonna listen to it, and I'm gonna
let you know I'm gonna listen to it too, because
it's on the next episode of What I Think About It.

Speaker 1 (01:12:15):
I got you, see, Thank you for your questions. Thank
you girl, bully point.

Speaker 2 (01:12:20):
So, now y'all know we haven't done the shot line
in a while, but we do have a shot line number.
Hobby is gonna put it below or right here, y'all
can call the shot line.

Speaker 1 (01:12:32):
This is not advice. It's just a good things off
your chest. How you feeling?

Speaker 2 (01:12:36):
Keep it short under a minute, please, So let's go
ahead and play the shot line for the week.

Speaker 5 (01:12:41):
On the shot line, Hey, y'all, So I'm a listener.
I've been a listener since twenty twenty two, so I
just want to say, like, I don't know, like when
I be outside by myself and I'm not with my niggas,
sometimes I just be almost grabbing a bitch to be

(01:13:02):
a third Like, I don't know what's that about, but
I just want to tell you about that. I'm not
in no way like by or like I never did
anything with a female. But when I be drunk with
my friends and I be outside, I'll be damn near
about to grab a bad dish for me and him, Like,
I don't know what that's about, but I wanted to

(01:13:23):
tell you all about that.

Speaker 1 (01:13:26):
I'll tell you what it is. A drunk mind speaks
sober thoughts. You want that couchie her mind selling. Oh
I can't seen that, but y'all know where I was going.

Speaker 2 (01:13:36):
Y'all know where I was going with that. That drunk
mind is speaking that sober thought. You want that little
coachure that's okay?

Speaker 1 (01:13:43):
Try, yeah, I think so too. I feel like, yeah,
just try. You know you don't like it. Throw that
little pussy beg. You know the water all right? Drawn
we for the rack like it. That's what I did.
What's up? Y'all's your girl? Xp andy Sgarirls ran a
call and.

Speaker 2 (01:14:01):
Y'all do not forget to call our shot line. I
know you heard of a hotline, but this is the
poor mind's shot line. Yeah, we love to hear from y'all.
Y'all need to call in, y'all, and this is not
necessarily for questions. You know, we just want to hear
from y'all.

Speaker 3 (01:14:14):
We want to know y'all, feedback, y'all, thoughts on the show,
or just what's going on in your life. So you
can always call six seven eight eight two seven one
eight two seed Yes.

Speaker 1 (01:14:24):
And y'all know, keep it short and cute.

Speaker 2 (01:14:26):
Don't be calling and letting us know about your baby daddy,
says a brother, cousin, boyfriend.

Speaker 1 (01:14:30):
Okay, well I want to hear about that.

Speaker 2 (01:14:32):
Actually, well you know, they can let a little some
but you know, we want to keep it cute and short.
Like she said, this is not questions, This is not
pour your heart out, So just call give us a
little feedback, what you want to see on the show,
any suggestions, what you think about the show. If you
just want to simply give us our flowers, you know,
or any It could be anything.

Speaker 1 (01:14:49):
What's bothering you this week? What got on your nerves
this week?

Speaker 2 (01:14:51):
If you just want to vent and get some things
off your chest, pull the shot line again. The number
is six seven eight eight two seven one eighth too sick,
So draw make sure y'all go to Music Beauty Collection
dot com.

Speaker 1 (01:15:06):
You know I always have that on my lip plane.
What you got on today? Oh? What is it? What's
the like? Chestnut liner? And what's the light? The light?
It has like the tint to it. A lot of
stuff they got tent it's like the little brown tint
to it. I wore a different one. It's not less though, marveling, yes, marvelous.

(01:15:30):
You know I can't read.

Speaker 4 (01:15:34):
I have on.

Speaker 3 (01:15:36):
I have on my favorite lip combo, which is chestnut
and honey dip, the Matt liquidlip liner, I mean the
Matt liquid lipstick, and then I also have on glaze.

Speaker 1 (01:15:46):
I'm all right, yeah, I didn't do glaze on top.
I was like, okay, trying to get more of a Matt. Yeah.

Speaker 2 (01:15:50):
I wanted to give a little that look today. So
once again, y'all go to Music Beauty Collection dot com,
get your lippies, and we have a lot of good
stuff opping for y'all.

Speaker 1 (01:16:02):
Can we say something about Yeah? Okay, is it what's today?
It's in September.

Speaker 2 (01:16:10):
Okay, So we're bringing back Poor Solt Karaoke. I don't
know if y'all remember we did this with music Soul
Child last time. So we have some more people coming
out this time Poor Sol Karaoke in Atlanta. It'll be
at City City Winery September twenty first. I believe it's
September twenty first, but y'all get y'all tickets. Y'all can

(01:16:32):
come turn up with us. We're gonna have a good time.
So you have were bringing back Poor Soul Karaoke, y'all
been asking. So it's back September and.

Speaker 1 (01:16:40):
We got a special game. Yes, we do somebody different
this time. It's not music. It's not music. Shout out
to music. We got somebody different this time and it's
gonna be lit.

Speaker 3 (01:16:50):
So Poor Soul Karaoke September twenty first at City Winery. Yes,
make sure y'all get y'all tikis soon. We're gonna be
dropping the links soon. Get him to eat. Come pull
up and see your girls period and.

Speaker 1 (01:17:04):
We'll see you'll next week you sh sho do your
dad brand new name. We ain't got a brand new style,
We got a brand new sound. Hit it from me,
dre yow.

Speaker 3 (01:17:24):
They say I'm a rapper and I say no. They say,
what you're doing trying to do? Sometime to go?

Speaker 5 (01:17:31):
Just let some.

Speaker 4 (01:17:31):
Music come from a saul so all of my people
can't stay on the floor. They got a brand new
Oh you gotta move your mother, so brand new that
it's called a cup and shuffle.

Speaker 1 (01:17:44):
It don't matter if you're young or your old. We
gonna show you how. We go to the right, to
the right, to the right, left left.

Speaker 10 (01:17:59):
Now walking by yourself. All, let me see you out
you dance. Then let me see your do the cuban
down to your day. Now, let me see your do
the cuban down to your dance.

Speaker 1 (01:18:16):
Yeah, whoa how down to your name? Do your name?
Now down to your early Yeah. We count to the right,
to the right, to the left, to the left, to
the lock, mack cake.

Speaker 10 (01:18:39):
Knocking, now walking by yourself, now walking by yourself to
the right, through the rake, to the right, to.

Speaker 4 (01:18:46):
The ring, to the left, to the left, to the left,
to the left, knock knock.

Speaker 1 (01:18:51):
Knock, kick nanke now walking by yourself.

Speaker 6 (01:18:55):
Hey, you see what I'm talking about. I'm represented from
the dirties off. Yeah, don't fuck swing it out. I'm
gonna show.

Speaker 1 (01:19:08):
You what I'm talking about. Yeah, hey, let me see
you doing it.

Speaker 4 (01:19:17):
Keep me hey for the keep cuep it, shuffle thet
keep shovel the cup cep in shovel.

Speaker 1 (01:19:25):
Whoa hey, hey, whoa.

Speaker 10 (01:19:34):
Yeah, yeah, yeah yeah to the right, to the right,
to the right, to the rank.

Speaker 1 (01:19:40):
To the left, to the left, to the left, to
the left. Naki, I'm about bro keep it. Now walking
by yourself, keep it. I'm tired. Cuep it. You gotta dream,
cuep it. You gotta be a shake to send to
cup it shovel God damn na K I done kicked.
I'm out of brain. If y'all.

Speaker 8 (01:20:02):
Ho y'all, shake that ass, shake that ass, Drea, distract them,
dream my breath, shake that ass. Pop that monkey, pop
that monkey, pop that mokey them needs really work, pop
that mokey them knees.

Speaker 1 (01:20:25):
Oh, shut up, to cup it. It's just an exercise.
What the ammn cue

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