Where My Gurls At? FT. Our Besties

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Speaker 1 (00:00):
I'm not trying to see you holes on Valentine.

Speaker 2 (00:03):
Oh what a dickad you want to see?

Speaker 1 (00:05):
What?

Speaker 2 (00:05):
That's the thing I knew you was gonna say.

Speaker 1 (00:07):
No, I don't want to see no bitches on ballance.

Speaker 2 (00:12):
Look, I'm not as sorry. Don't call me, don't text me.

Speaker 1 (00:15):
I'll talk to you on the fifteenth or the sixteenth bit.
But if you're single, what she gonna do?

Speaker 2 (00:21):
Somebody finna fuck me.

Speaker 1 (00:22):
So if you're a single, somebody finna fuck me. At
least she said she don't want to see us at Somebody.

Speaker 2 (00:28):
Finna lick this coachie clean. If I can't find no
dick on Valentine's Day, that's gonna be my thirteenth reason.

Speaker 1 (00:35):
Bit. What's up, y'all? It's your girl legs and it's

(01:01):
your girls ray and a cold And you are tuned
in to another episode of poor Mind.

Speaker 2 (01:06):
Where drug Mind speaks sober thoughts. We got a lot
of we.

Speaker 1 (01:10):
Got a lot of we got a lot of day ay,
it's a special Gallatines episode. Yes so all, yes, so,
we are doing a special Gallentines edition of Poor Mind
today and we are doing something that we haven't done
in years. So the first time we did this, it

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was when it was still wind down Wednesday and we
had our dear friend Kellen on the show. Shout out
to Kellen, thank you so much. But six poor Minds
has grown so much, and y'all see us. We have
sat on this couch where whiz Khalifa, T Paine, Ts Madison, all.

Speaker 2 (01:49):
These great people, but y'all.

Speaker 1 (01:50):
Never get to see the support system behind us, the
girls who keep us going, who keep us sane and grounded.
So we have a special episode with our best days today.

Speaker 2 (02:05):
What about your friends?

Speaker 3 (02:07):
Yay?

Speaker 2 (02:08):
So was given for karaoke period.

Speaker 1 (02:11):
So on the couch we have Lauren, Yes, we have
a lease, yeah, and we have Lynn uh. So.

Speaker 2 (02:20):
I want y'all to like go.

Speaker 1 (02:22):
Through each of y'all just like a little introduction about yourself,
like let the girls know what it is or what's up?

Speaker 2 (02:29):
Yeah, and like maybe how we met or something. Yeah, yeah,
tell little you know a little one too. All right, Well,
I'm Lauren, me and lex Met.

Speaker 1 (02:37):
I want to say, what was that twenty It was
definitely before BBL, so it had.

Speaker 2 (02:44):
Fourteen it had to have been.

Speaker 1 (02:45):
Okay, we met twenty fourteen through a mutual friend. Yeah,
shout out jazz. We both worked at the strip club together.
I got fired and so leg.

Speaker 2 (02:55):
Loki your replace. He was really my replacement.

Speaker 1 (02:57):
And so from that everybody would be like, oh, you
need to meet Lix like y'all would get along so well.
So one of our musual friends ended up introducing us,
and from there we were like.

Speaker 2 (03:07):
Peas in a pot, like we literally were in separate.

Speaker 1 (03:09):
It's crazy because when everybody was telling me, like, oh,
you're Lauren's replacement, That's what everybody kept saying to me.
And then I was like, Okay, I remember you came
in and you were walking through the kitchen and like
we just walked by each other, and I'm like, girl,
you ain't getting your job back. But I remember jay
Bone started playing your music.

Speaker 2 (03:28):
I said, oh, she sounded like me. The girl can
one thing about it. You catch a tune goodbye.

Speaker 1 (03:35):
So I really, honestly I fell in love with your
music before I fell in love with you. I said, friend, Yob,
thank you for trying to do what I can do
when I can do it. Yes, period, Okay, Elise give
us a little background.

Speaker 4 (03:53):
I'm Elese and sunny en Us. I used to produce
for the girls, so actually Ryan, which we all know,
y'all love Ryan.

Speaker 2 (04:02):
I love Ryan. Me and Ryan worked together.

Speaker 4 (04:06):
We both were working and producing the.

Speaker 2 (04:09):
What Was It?

Speaker 4 (04:10):
Hip Hop Award that eighty five South hosted, and so
he hit me up one night and was like. It
was random too though, because he texted me at like
two in the morning and I was just like hey,
and he was just like, can we talk tomorrow? I'm
like sure, Like did you think he was trying to
take you one to day?

Speaker 2 (04:30):
I didn't know what he was trying to do because
we don't.

Speaker 1 (04:32):
We weren't.

Speaker 4 (04:32):
We didn't talk like that, Like I just knew him,
like from doing eighty five and like some BT shows together.

Speaker 2 (04:38):
So he was like we talked the next day. He
was like, so I have these.

Speaker 4 (04:41):
Girls, two dope girls. I would love for you to
meet them. They're looking for a few month producers. So
he was like, come on down, So I came down.
We all went to Super Rica after watching you guys
because we just wanted to see like did we vibe,
like what was it?

Speaker 2 (04:59):
And we just like hit it off and I think
it's may when.

Speaker 1 (05:07):
I'm lehn Cher. We met at a restaurant Louds a
slash lounge. Yeah back in twenties, teen, twenty seventies. I
was twenty eight twenty in twenty eighteen, okay, and then,
funny enough, I thought she was somebody else you think
I was. I thought she was somebody else, and I

(05:28):
was like, so and so the baby mom was working here. Okay,
I was like, all right, cool. So then got to
know her and then just fell in love with there.
I've even besties ever since, just causing chaos and mayhem
up there.

Speaker 2 (05:43):
At the daw Yes and then yeah, story.

Speaker 1 (05:47):
Yes, so these are our friends, these are our best
We love them. So let me ask y'all these how
did y'all feel about like, because well, besides the least
because you met us kind of when poor Minds was
in his girl station. Even when we first met you,
poor Minds isn't what it is now, So how do
y'all feel about like knowing us before like the show
became what it is now?

Speaker 2 (06:08):
Like how did y'all feel like, Oh, I knew this.

Speaker 1 (06:11):
Was gonna happen. Yeah, y'all kind of like like surprised,
Like how do y'all feel about seeing where the show
is now? Especially y'all too, because I was like y'all
remember the Florida It's really open minded, Like I kind
of just wanted to see where things would go.

Speaker 2 (06:25):
So as you guys progressed, I'm like, damn, they really
about to here with it.

Speaker 1 (06:29):
Yeah, So for me, I can say that, like I
was always excited and I felt like you guys balance
each other out, so it was always gonna work.

Speaker 2 (06:37):
You know.

Speaker 1 (06:37):
You guys just needed that platform to get where y'all
needed to be.

Speaker 2 (06:40):
So for me, I'm just excited to see y'all.

Speaker 1 (06:42):
Y'all are doing a great job, and it's been a
pleasure to watch y'all from the beginning. Cause it was Kaoti,
it was Lauren was definitely my friend.

Speaker 2 (06:53):
I was like, yeah.

Speaker 1 (06:55):
Is soid Just like friend, It's okay, just go and
do your thank if y'all go. Lord is literally your
house can be on fire, your dog just died, you're
six months pregnant.

Speaker 2 (07:07):
She's gonna be like, bro, just be still. This is
a universe. It work out.

Speaker 1 (07:16):
Oh my god, it don't matter what's going on. Like literally,
like just breathe, just breathe, Like do you do you
have your crystal girl?

Speaker 2 (07:25):
Do you have your did you Okay? I'm out I
feel like I always saw the vision. Yeah, I tell
you that all the time.

Speaker 1 (07:32):
I mean, I'm not just saying this because I love
you guys, but I've just never seen anybody do it
like you too.

Speaker 2 (07:36):
The chemistry is just different.

Speaker 1 (07:37):
Yeah, and you guys are funny and so you know,
of the time people do not be funny.

Speaker 2 (07:43):
But everybody, everybody think everybody though.

Speaker 1 (07:48):
But yeah, I think I feel like I've always seen
the vision.

Speaker 2 (07:51):
Okay, I thought what it was, Okay, what about you
at least?

Speaker 4 (07:55):
Well, of course that's why I came on, because I
really believed in you guys, and you know me, like,
I'm not going to do any job that I don't
believe or have passion in. So I knew, like from
when I first met y'all, like, oh yeah they have something. Yeah,
they're going places like you know, and so I would
love to like see be part of your guy's journey,

(08:16):
you know.

Speaker 2 (08:16):
But whoever thought we would be friends? Yeah? But also just.

Speaker 4 (08:21):
When I first came on, and you know, y'all was
in that little space with the red and black.

Speaker 1 (08:26):
With oh my god, don't bring that up no more.

Speaker 2 (08:32):
Like I came in there and I was like, where
am I.

Speaker 4 (08:35):
Supposed to set my stuff like, oh, I.

Speaker 2 (08:37):
Was so embarrassed because friend, oh my.

Speaker 4 (08:43):
Just even then from there, you know, the set changed
there and was the white.

Speaker 2 (08:47):
And we got real quick you well upgrade.

Speaker 4 (08:53):
And then now to see the set here. But even
just y'all too like just like just it's grown in
so many different way. It's just even there. Just think
like when y'all first came out, y'all was wearing like
T shirts.

Speaker 1 (09:03):
We were like, it's sweats, we will be in this road.

Speaker 2 (09:08):
Don't eat me up like that. You ain't dragons never
showed up in a T shirt.

Speaker 1 (09:11):
She did one time. Well, this is what I will say.
I used to pull up and it used to be
business up top, chilling at the bottom. So underneath the table,
I used to have a flip flops and sweat pants
at the top. I would have all like a little
corset something sticky.

Speaker 2 (09:31):
Us at the bottle. And let me say this about Elise.

Speaker 1 (09:34):
I always I'll be talking about Elise all the time
because when I tell y'all, Atlas is that girl, like
at least like that girl, so she can I say.

Speaker 2 (09:44):
Who you work for? You don't want to say it
because I don't want people.

Speaker 4 (09:46):
I mean, you can say it, but like I mean,
I said it like you could say it.

Speaker 2 (09:50):
Okay.

Speaker 1 (09:50):
So she works for BT, like and she has a
resume like very a big long resume, like it's married.
So I will say, like even that we're friends, I
feel like you are the type of friend that people
need in a corner. Because I said this at your birthday, Like,
at least is that friend that you need in your corner,

(10:12):
because even when you're not in these rooms, she's that
girl that's in the room fighting for you and making
sure that your name is being said among the people
that it needs to be said among. So cause I
feel like one thing about me. I think Warren knows
it's about me. If I'm in a position, I don't
care if I am making seven dollars an hour, how
can my friend make full? And how can we make

(10:33):
this work?

Speaker 2 (10:33):
Yeah? You know what I'm saying. So I feel like
at last that friend, Like, no matter what, I'm always
gonna go hard for my friends.

Speaker 4 (10:38):
Yeah, Like I'm always like going to look out for
my friends and make sure like if you my friend.

Speaker 1 (10:45):
Yeah yeah, I was like, you know what, that's my girl.

Speaker 3 (10:51):
You know.

Speaker 1 (10:51):
I feel like I could say that about all three
of y'all, Like I feel like all three of y'all
are very very supportive friends, and it's so important to
have those type of people in your corner. Because one
thing about y'all, y'all gonna pull up to the event,
y'all gonna pull up with me. Yes, I'm saying, y'all
gonna pull up to the VID and in different cities
and stuff too.

Speaker 2 (11:12):
Because Lenn, you came to the Miami show last year.
I think we had a good time.

Speaker 1 (11:16):
Lynn was there for my bark that we was all
there for the bar. But it's like, yeah, and that's
why I said, of course, like Alisa's gonna be there
because me and Alista her friends and Lauren. But you know,
like me and Lynn are friends, but you know you're
Drea's friend. So when when Linn pulled up, I said,
it's party time, let's do it. Because when is like

(11:37):
the sneaky assassin, not.

Speaker 2 (11:40):
So quiet, so sweet, get the crawling that ass gets
to show, for sure, but it's Lynn not even quiet.

Speaker 1 (11:50):
I just feel like she just be observed and patting attention.
But then she say stuff that you would never think
she would say, like she always needs says, but I'll
be like, why would I say that? I always say LeAnn,
Twitter is my burner account. We just say everything I'm thinking. No,
Lenn's hilarious on won't canceled. Oh my god, it's so funny.

(12:11):
And I do want to ask this, like to the
opposite friends. Well, I'll ask you this first, Alice, because
you can give it for both of us. What was
your first impression of Drea? Then?

Speaker 2 (12:21):
What was your first impression of me? I mean I
always say this.

Speaker 4 (12:27):
I thought when I first met Drea, I was like, oh,
she's bougie and we are not going to get along.
Like not that I'm not bougie either, but I just
felt like me.

Speaker 2 (12:37):
And her are gonna bump head like you know, and
then lax.

Speaker 4 (12:40):
I'm like, Okay, she she likes to have a good time,
like she's she's so I felt like Dre was more
of the quiet one and Lex was more of the
outspoken one.

Speaker 1 (12:52):
Okay, that's fair, and we're really like I don't want
to be at home, no want to do nothing.

Speaker 2 (12:56):
Dre be outside absolutely.

Speaker 4 (12:58):
And then that's what I learned, Like after we started,
we were like tape and then we were like Okay,
let's go get We used to have a weekly me
and dinner. Yeah, we'd be like I loved like I'm
long home. I'm like, okay, you know, it's total actually
the opposite.

Speaker 2 (13:18):
I'd be at home.

Speaker 1 (13:19):
Lauren, what was your first impression of Drea Well, I
didn't really get to have like a first impression because
I don't know you guys had or I guess our
friend Jazz had came to Atlanta, so.

Speaker 2 (13:33):
I don't hear about you know, that was a disaster.
It was from what I heard, it was a disaster.

Speaker 1 (13:39):
And so I never really got to have a first
impression because I feel like people were already telling me
like their impressions of Dreya. So for me, it was like, okay,
let me just meet her to see because god damn.

Speaker 2 (13:49):
Y'all laying it on thigs.

Speaker 1 (13:50):
So once I actually met her, in comparison to what
everybody was saying, she was a complete opposite with me,
Like it was literally always nice, always welcoming. So for me,
my first impression just without everybody else they say, yeah,
I didn't, I don't have anything negative to say, Like
it was just like we literally clicked. We were cool,

(14:13):
and I didn't really get to see a side or
the side that I feel like everybody else had.

Speaker 2 (14:17):
Kind of.

Speaker 1 (14:18):
Yeah, the situation was crazy too, because all weekend.

Speaker 2 (14:25):
In La La Land, I.

Speaker 1 (14:27):
Don't even know people don't like me. I don't even
know they had any issues, They feeling no type of way.
They telling legs like you'll be running up behind and
all of these crazy stuff, and I'm just like, what's
the problem.

Speaker 2 (14:39):
You know what's crazy about that? Y'all?

Speaker 1 (14:42):
And me and Jazz laugh about this to this day
because they had called.

Speaker 2 (14:45):
Me we went to some restaurant. What's it? What cirk?
It was?

Speaker 1 (14:48):
No, we went to came a shit I'm talking about
when they said don't bring Drea and I went to
dinner with.

Speaker 2 (14:54):
Them, was I didn't want to go.

Speaker 1 (14:59):
No. I pulled up and they were all sitting on
one side of the table and I was sitting by myself,
and they were like, yeah, we feel like you just
be following Drea around.

Speaker 2 (15:09):
And I said, first of all, I ain't.

Speaker 1 (15:10):
Got no place to stay, bitch, I'm living with her
at the moment. Second of all, at the time, you.

Speaker 2 (15:15):
Bitch, just let me come live with y'all. Oh, y'all
leave in.

Speaker 1 (15:17):
Hugheston exactly, but also at the time, so I'm living
with her. My friends are in town, so when I'm
going places, I'm including her, right, So I'm like, oh, Dre,
we're finna go eat. But mind you, you know how
I love girl. I love me some jazz now, but
jazz takes four hours to get ready. She done. Me
and Dread going to all the restaurants and we're showing up,

(15:38):
We're waiting, we're waiting, and you know Keisha at the time,
that was an old friend of mine.

Speaker 2 (15:43):
Keisha and jazzmen together four hours for each. That's eight hours.

Speaker 1 (15:48):
Me and Dre at these restaurants, just sitting for hours
waiting on them. And eventually we're like, okay, girl, let's
go and we're finna do our own thing.

Speaker 2 (15:56):
So I think it was a.

Speaker 1 (15:56):
Lot of but I never said nothing to nobody. It's
a crazy part. They didn't like me, but I never
said nothing to anybody about nothing. It was crazy because,
like I said, when I showed them out.

Speaker 2 (16:08):
Used to that a little bit.

Speaker 1 (16:09):
They were off be on one side and I was
on one side by myself, and they were like, I.

Speaker 2 (16:14):
Said, why am I siting? I said, somebody fit to
throw water on me.

Speaker 1 (16:17):
It was given basketball loving hip hop scene.

Speaker 2 (16:20):
Now.

Speaker 1 (16:21):
It was crazy because when Lex came back home and
told me and I said, really, and you know, I
cry about everything else, I was like, that's crazy. It was,
you know, like I said, the person that kind of
led the conversation and led the thing, me and her
are no longer, you know, and it's it's no shade
towards her. But I think it was just young and

(16:44):
dumb being stupid. And I think what it was is like, Alex,
I want to hang out with you, just one on one,
like we want to spend time with you. Just say
that because I'm bringing my friendlong because I'm like, oh
my god, y'all gonna love her work.

Speaker 2 (16:57):
Because you know me, I like to mesh my friends.

Speaker 1 (17:00):
I do. I'm that friend like, oh wait till you
meet her, Wait till you meet her. Like literally, I
told because like my newest friend of my y'all know,
I love a new friend being it is my new friend.
So I'm like, oh my god, be ling, you have
to meet Lauren. So I just like bringing my friends together.
So in my head, I'm like, let me bring Drea
because I love her it's it's a good time that like, oh,
we want to just spend time with you. But I
don't think it came off that way, you know what

(17:22):
I'm saying. Yeah, so but anyways, out to Jazz.

Speaker 2 (17:26):
A new mother, we love.

Speaker 1 (17:27):
But the other ones you can and to the rest
of you ho and to the rest of you hope.
Because if Lauren, do you remember when that girl Taylor
she attexts me. She was like, she said, my mother
has readings in her mind and she said you're not.

Speaker 2 (17:45):
A good person.

Speaker 1 (17:46):
I said, I'll fuck you in your mama up, Taylor.
It was another girl that ended up showing up on
the trip.

Speaker 2 (17:55):
It was just a Atlanta Yes, yes, and she was.

Speaker 1 (17:58):
Like, my mother had visions about you, and she said,
you're not that girl.

Speaker 2 (18:04):
I said, do y'all mama want to get whooped this
my friend.

Speaker 1 (18:14):
I was literally, now I'm not a fire. I was
about to whoop that girl ass in the hotel room.
Jazz was like, lex I love you. She was like
you you you. She was like, just leave because it's
not worth it. Like Jazz was mad at the end
because she was like, what the fuck are you doing?
Why would you try to fight my friend? And Jazz
is a very calm person. So it was just a situation.

Speaker 2 (18:32):
We were young. We were I wasn't there, but you
weren't there.

Speaker 1 (18:35):
But I remember I called Lauren did and I was
going I think that was like around the time, like
because we were always friends, but during that after that trip,
we really got closer because I was like venting to
you about it because I was like, I cannot believe
they came here and did that. Yeah, because then later
that year that's when I met you and opulent, Yes,

(19:00):
I said, a great time, right times. I posted that
video for your birthday. You remember, Dre we was swoo
turned the fighting and you took my weeds off. Oh no,
you took my wing off. We wasn't fighting for real.
We wasn't fighting for real.

Speaker 2 (19:13):
You was like fighting. It was like play fighting.

Speaker 1 (19:16):
But Kellen got this video and her found of us
rolling on the ground and we both don't got a wig.

Speaker 2 (19:21):
Oh time to find that video. But wasn't this event
like dressy and class?

Speaker 1 (19:29):
Yeah, well we had, But how did y'all like get
on the ground?

Speaker 2 (19:34):
Was back in the room, girl, were just playing. It
wasn't crazy. Okay. What was your first impression of me.
I don't remember.

Speaker 1 (19:43):
I just thought you were silly so loud. No see,
because sometimes I feel like with quiet people and I
come on and oh she doing a lot, she doing
too much. You didn't scare me. I just thought you
were really silly. You were just funny, scared of the
quoted is gonna be there? Okay, okays, so what did

(20:09):
you think about me? Lean?

Speaker 2 (20:11):
I like you. I really liked you. I feel like
we mad and we was just cutting up behind the bar.
We had a blast. Now we used to be getting
so at the club. It was crazy. I really like that.

Speaker 1 (20:25):
I don't get why people feel like you're so mean
or stand office.

Speaker 2 (20:29):
You were always face.

Speaker 1 (20:31):
I really don't think that looks nicepable. You have that
Kim Kardashian face. It's always like but I don't know
because I feel like you got a resting bitch face.

Speaker 2 (20:43):
But people still think you know this because I'm gassy,
bit gassy, I'll be looking I don't know, the old
bladder to the bathroom.

Speaker 1 (21:03):
Up to me. I cannot wait till we've done recording
and I know what I'm ordering, Chipotle extra pinto. Okay,
so I'll say this my first impression of Elise because
like the way Ryan ran it down to me, He's like, yeah,
like come this and that and then. And you know,
at that time, we hadn't had a lot of experience

(21:24):
in the industry yet. So I was like, oh, my gosh,
Elise is a serious person, like she's gonna come and
be so like, oh my god. So I was like,
let me, you know, put on my tie, my ever
lavine tie.

Speaker 2 (21:36):
You know what I'm saying. Like I was, yeah, I
had to get serious.

Speaker 1 (21:39):
But like once I got snow, I was like, oh,
she's very down to earth, and I can see why
you have your job, because I think to have a
job like you have, you have to be plugged in
and like no, like cuz you are very like young hearted,
like we are, like very much can hang with the girls,
have a good time.

Speaker 2 (21:57):
So I was like, okay, I thought you were like.

Speaker 4 (21:58):
A very serious even I was on your asses. Oh
you were Houston Show. Oh let me tell you though.
Oh I'm glad you brought up.

Speaker 1 (22:06):
We were so drunk and I.

Speaker 2 (22:09):
Was standing on the side and my arms were crossed.
She was shaking my head like a disappointing mother. I
don't it was. So it was so bad.

Speaker 1 (22:20):
When we got back home, at least made us go
to her house and we had to review the live
show until this day. Do you know me Andrea limit ourselves.
We can only take two shots. Yeah, till this day.

Speaker 4 (22:32):
I was remember, I was like, oh, she was like
doing this Like I was like, remember, I was like.

Speaker 2 (22:37):
Two shots, that's it, Like give me the bottom because
watching the footage, it was just so cretchy.

Speaker 1 (22:44):
I was like, I was like, let's get Oh my god.

Speaker 4 (22:54):
I was just like all over the wash.

Speaker 2 (22:58):
They was like talking to the y'all friends.

Speaker 1 (23:03):
Yeah, like oh my inviting my shout out to my
other base friend, jazz me in biding jazz me on
stage and we was doing the south.

Speaker 2 (23:13):
Side like you hero mostly done. It was just real
good o.

Speaker 1 (23:19):
It was realizing, yes, come up here, jazz dang.

Speaker 4 (23:25):
And I'm like, why are y'all choosing y'all friends to
play the game, Like what.

Speaker 2 (23:28):
Is we got in trouble? Yeah? I would we got
a pop. Yeah, they were on time out for a
little while.

Speaker 1 (23:35):
Okay, tis, we've been having such a good time. We
didn't even get into what we're drinking today, what you
got for? So, first of all, y'all love these little cups.
They so cute. We have these little heart shaped cups
and this one is gonna be called the Queen of Hearts.

Speaker 2 (23:50):
Okay.

Speaker 1 (23:51):
We have our Girls on the Couch Gallantine's theme.

Speaker 2 (23:54):
So this one we have.

Speaker 1 (23:55):
You can choose whichever spirit of choice you like. We
have our cranberry juice. We have a little bit of
strawberry puree inside some magave, a little bit of lemon juice.

Speaker 2 (24:04):
We topped it with some.

Speaker 1 (24:05):
Blood orange and a little bit of ginger as well,
and then inside there's some garnish with either some basils,
some strawberries. I kind of just did like a medley
and change it up for everybody. So this is the
Queen of Hearts. And if you want more recipes like this,
you can cop our so mixedy calendar that we just dropped. Okay,
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Speaker 2 (24:25):
F my little so you're not gonna change mine up? Now?
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Speaker 2 (25:43):
Ever since I.

Speaker 1 (25:43):
Was a little girl, I've loved being on camera, entertaining
myself and everybody around me by sharing my thoughts and
opinions on anything pop culture. For the past few years,
I've heard your requests, but now it's finally time to deliver. Okay, y'all,

(26:06):
let's get into the teeth with love lex p.

Speaker 2 (26:12):
M Tasty. It's gonna be about twenty questions.

Speaker 1 (26:18):
A lot of the questions that y'all think me were
kind of similar, So I've merged some of the questions together,
and y'all gonna let y'all get in my busits a
little bit. Let y'all be a little nosy. I know
I don't normally do that. What did you learn from
your early commit twenty I just lost my dad. I'm
twenty one. I'm not sure how to keep going. Any

(26:38):
tips on how to keep on it? Heydre asking a
genuine question.

Speaker 2 (26:41):
Do you get lit feelers?

Speaker 1 (26:42):
Okay, this is another question I feel like I answered
all the time, but I don't mind answering it again.
What is your take on having a lot of female friends?

Speaker 2 (26:51):
I never really been the type.

Speaker 1 (26:54):
Are you making a personal YouTube channel because poor Minds
is changing or canceled?

Speaker 2 (27:00):
Let me clear the air with that.

Speaker 1 (27:07):
Okay, we're gonna get into the first game because you
know we're gonna sit here chatting aud.

Speaker 2 (27:11):
We are, So yes, let's get into the game. Okay,
we're gonna play.

Speaker 1 (27:16):
You know, I know y'all heard of, but we listen
and we don't judge. This game is called we listen
and we might judge. So basically we're going to give
y'all some scenarios and you're gonna say either yes, I'm
judging or no I'm not.

Speaker 4 (27:34):
Okay, Okay, okay, all right.

Speaker 1 (27:40):
Vastly different political views. For example, dating someone and finding
out they voted for Trump.

Speaker 2 (27:46):
I'm judging. I'm judging. I'm judging. I'm for show judge,
I'm going off.

Speaker 1 (27:53):
Yeah, Like if I found out anybody that y'all were.

Speaker 2 (27:55):
Dating, and you're like, well, you have to understand, I'm like,
you're a weirdo and your nigga a weird though. Yeah, yeah,
I'm judging.

Speaker 1 (28:02):
Yeah, so we can all agree we judging. Okay, okay.
Oh poor hygiene mm hmm. If your friend told you
they've dated someone and realized they don't use rags, don't
shower freakingly frequently, and don't wash their hands, are you
judging your friend?

Speaker 3 (28:21):
Hell?

Speaker 2 (28:22):
Yeah, you must, don't bathe either you're just getting dirty
and you are dirty? You're dirty like that? You let
me say this.

Speaker 1 (28:35):
I had a friend I started off roll. Nope, I
had a friend who I would like the guys that
she would date.

Speaker 2 (28:44):
I would be like why why?

Speaker 1 (28:47):
And we talked about this on the show before and
when I went on a trip with her, I realized,
this is why you're dirty.

Speaker 2 (28:55):
You're dirty. Yeah. So now, back then I didn't judge.

Speaker 1 (28:59):
Because I'm like, oh, I'm being a good friend. You
know what I'm saying. I'm like, I don't judge the
men you date. But then once I realized, oh, your
booty hole dirty too, Yeah, you dona be wiping.

Speaker 2 (29:10):
So now I used to not judge, but now I'm judging. Yeah,
for sure. Lets you learn.

Speaker 1 (29:16):
Let's and learn series Dirty Living Space. I know men
can be missy and a lot of women too. Is
this a deal breaker? Yes, talk about it. You know
I'm talking about k Jazz, old roommate. Oh, I thought
she was something of y'all old friends.

Speaker 2 (29:35):
That's who K is.

Speaker 1 (29:37):
Lauren. Tell the story about how what you found in
that room?

Speaker 2 (29:42):
Tell it? I remember, I remember her.

Speaker 1 (29:47):
She was just she just wasn't a clean person I
found rolled up dollar bills with substances in it, draws all.

Speaker 2 (29:56):
Types of stuff.

Speaker 1 (29:57):
She really wasn't a crunchy ones sure, but yeah, definitely
wasn't a clean person. And I can say for me,
like it's just a deal breaking because I feel like
you gotta be clean, Like yeah.

Speaker 2 (30:10):
We a doult like that. Yeah.

Speaker 1 (30:12):
Every time I go to Houston, I stay with Lauren,
and like, Lauren has a two bedroom, but I love.

Speaker 2 (30:17):
Her couch, so I usually sleep in the Liberals.

Speaker 1 (30:19):
So when she goes, yeah, my room because Lauren is
and then she's a decore queen like me. I think
that's where we relate a lot. Like you talk about home.
Me and Laura will be on the phone talking about
home the core for about four hours. Like so I
have to have clean friends because sometimes if I need
to come over and sleep on your couch, I need.

Speaker 2 (30:37):
To do that.

Speaker 1 (30:38):
Yeah, Dreda is clean too, but she'd be doing things
on her couch, so I got to make sure.

Speaker 2 (30:44):
I need to start putting that plastic because Drama is
very clean, but I'll be having to do some expection.
You need a black light when you come to my house,
might have to shake the wall, Yeah, wall the wall.

(31:05):
Next time y'all come over, don't touch wondering like we'll
really be going off. I'll be all into bed and
you just you do.

Speaker 1 (31:18):
All over the house, Alice, you'd be all hoping I
slept in the bed. Let me say this, guys, I
be washing my sheets before y'all come over.

Speaker 2 (31:32):
So it's clean sheet.

Speaker 1 (31:34):
It's not no substances.

Speaker 2 (31:37):
Okay, okay, So it's a.

Speaker 1 (31:39):
Dirty friend a deal breaker for y'all.

Speaker 2 (31:42):
Yeah, I could say all of y'all are pretty clean.

Speaker 1 (31:45):
Yeah, yeah, and honestly, like it's the same women I said, friend, Look,
I ain't done my laundry, like I'll give them a
little warning. But my house, it ain't like you can't
walk on the floors because we had a friend. We
used to walk on her floors and we looked at
our feet and oh my god, would be so black
at the bottom. Every time, the me legs will look
at each other and we would be like, yeah, every time,

(32:08):
feet check every time, and our dumb asses will still
go barefoot.

Speaker 2 (32:13):
That's about to say, why y'all taking your shoes off.

Speaker 1 (32:15):
I used to drink a lot though. We used to
be drunk over there, so it was.

Speaker 2 (32:19):
It was literally like a dungeon. Oh my god, because
it wasn't no window off. I like taking my shoes off.
People need to be able to take their shoes off. No, no,
I agree, like from my house when you come in,
but your house.

Speaker 1 (32:31):
Is very tidy.

Speaker 2 (32:32):
It is. At least don't play and you know what
I mean. You're like, I can't go to sleep with
dishes in my seat? Yeah, like, oh you want to?

Speaker 1 (32:42):
Okay, So this is my thing, but I hate the
clean police. I hate when people be trying to clock
people's cleanliness, like, oh my god, you don't take four
shours a day. Oh my god. Now, at least I
get it. I do believe you don't fall asleep with
dishes in the sink. Some people really aren't like that.
But bitch, you might get a bean plate in the scene. Yeah,

(33:03):
a ball of beans might be in the saint. Bitch
might be a little in there.

Speaker 2 (33:07):
Yeah for sure, you fall asleep with dishes in the saint.

Speaker 1 (33:11):
I mean I have, but I'm one to like I
don't like having dishes. Yeah, so it's like I may
be tied, let you know, go to sleep, but the
next day I'm like, get in there.

Speaker 2 (33:22):
For days and days. Yeah, I gotta get it out
and see that's my thing.

Speaker 1 (33:27):
I don't like to have to do it in the morning,
so I used to do it before I go to bed.

Speaker 2 (33:31):
Yeah, I don't like to have to a little bit.

Speaker 1 (33:35):
Lauren has to thing about water on the floor. Really oh,
she will have a heart attack. I don't like my well,
it's really not I would say hair like I don't
want air in between my toes and stuff like that.

Speaker 2 (33:47):
I'm a sweeper.

Speaker 1 (33:50):
Alli is the same way everybody, Me and Ali share.
Like we had the we had the house of Miami
member and me and Ali had the master bedroom.

Speaker 2 (33:57):
You know, my bundles be everywhere. Was like, looks get
it off.

Speaker 1 (34:06):
Okay, okay, okay, uh we listen and we might judge
still living at home with their family, how old.

Speaker 2 (34:18):
Like like I need an age. I just feel like
any of any of your friends. Oh and that we're
still talking about friends.

Speaker 1 (34:26):
Yeah, friends, boy friends, somebody you're dating anybody.

Speaker 2 (34:31):
I guess I'm a little bias my friends.

Speaker 1 (34:34):
If you got a little situation going on, like whatever,
But I personally, I can't date someone that still lives
with their parents.

Speaker 2 (34:42):
That's my thing. I want to be able to walk
around in my role.

Speaker 1 (34:46):
Your mama can't be coming out in the kitchen and
we both in the kitchen looking at each other. Y.

Speaker 2 (34:50):
No, for me, I can't do that. Okay, I feel.

Speaker 4 (34:54):
I actually I'm gonna say, I'm not. I'm not gonna
judge because again, you don't know people's situation.

Speaker 2 (35:01):
They might have lost their job and they need to
go back home.

Speaker 4 (35:04):
Or they might be living at home because they're stacking
their money to buy a house. Yeah, like, oh, why
pay this rent for an apartment for this long, you know,
for a year when I can stay at home and
stack my money and get out.

Speaker 2 (35:15):
So I'm not gonna judge, you know.

Speaker 4 (35:17):
But again, like Lynn said, I probably can't take you again, I.

Speaker 2 (35:21):
Don't know, I don't know. I'm not judging, but we
probably won't date. Yeah, yeah, yeah, I agree with that
for sure. Yeah for real. So I feel the same.
I feel like a friend.

Speaker 1 (35:33):
I'm more understanding because I'm not fucking you, right. But
the reason sometimes I don't have as much sympathy is
because I have been the Brokens of the broke and
y'all know that, like you especially know, And I feel
like if I can get it out the mud and
make something happen.

Speaker 2 (35:51):
And Lauren, you know how hard.

Speaker 1 (35:52):
I used to work like day in, day out, and
I feel like if I can make ends meet and
figure out a way, anybody and I get it now.
If you do have the help of your family, you're
very blessed. It ain't nothing wrong with that. But I
do think there's a thin line because are you staying
with your family just to stack it up? Are you
just you got comfortable there?

Speaker 2 (36:13):
Right? Yeah?

Speaker 4 (36:13):
It all just depends. You don't need to be sleep Yeah,
I don't care.

Speaker 1 (36:17):
You don't take no naps, nigga, go look for an apartment?

Speaker 2 (36:21):
Yeah, get out. Yeah you need to be up at
three am looking for looking for.

Speaker 1 (36:31):
You need to be standing outside waiting on them to
open the doors.

Speaker 2 (36:34):
Open the sting the alarm coat in bit put it.
But yeah, friends, not so much.

Speaker 1 (36:41):
It's just because you know, somebody is going through something
like Lindsay and then they need to go back and
live with their parents, and they have the luxury to
do that. That's great because a lot of people don't
even have that option. Like a lot of people gotta
get it out the movie. They gotta figure shit out
and make ends meet because they don't have nobody that
they can go live with it. Say, you know, life happens, Yeah,
but my me, No, m absolutely freed it down. Okay,

(37:04):
next one, dre Okay, we're gonna do two more. Okay, cool,
this is a good one. Painted fingernails. I know this
is a trend, but everybody has their opinion on you.
How do y'all feel about dating a man with painted fingernails?

Speaker 2 (37:22):
Okay? Can I say something? Yes?

Speaker 1 (37:25):
I used to think it was so weird until I
wanted to give some pussing a time dollar sign and
them nails be done and he can bend me over
all type of ways.

Speaker 2 (37:37):
So I used to. But sometimes they rocket.

Speaker 1 (37:40):
If that's your style and you do it a certain way,
I'm not gonna lie so rockets.

Speaker 2 (37:46):
Yeah.

Speaker 1 (37:46):
So I think if that's your style and you do
it and it works for you, I'm with it.

Speaker 2 (37:51):
Wiz paint his nails.

Speaker 1 (37:52):
But Wizard is in a relationship, so I respect that woman.

Speaker 2 (37:56):
But Wiz we can.

Speaker 1 (38:01):
Okay, okay, sorry, but you know what I mean, damn it. Yeah,
m M no, no, like you is not about to
put your fingers in my COOCHI with polish on is
this a color like a painted color nail or is
it just I got a manager. We's freety like green
sometimes be green.

Speaker 2 (38:23):
Green is my favorite coat, it is. I never knew that.
I don't know why I didn't know that. But what
do y'all think? What do y'all feel?

Speaker 1 (38:32):
I mean, if it's just like a clear coat and
you just keeping up with maintenance, you.

Speaker 2 (38:37):
Know what I mean?

Speaker 1 (38:38):
I'm fine with it now. I don't know if color
nails is my thing. I just would prefer my man
to not have polish on his nails. And no shade
to anybody who does have it, but me personally know
I'm fool with a cool manicure, but color nails, yeah,
I feel the same.

Speaker 2 (38:58):
Police. No, it's a no for me. I know what
you like? She said, No, you know, we know what
she's like. She said, a little aggressive. No.

Speaker 4 (39:14):
The crazy part is last night I literally was having
this conversation with my homeboy. It was him and another
friend and he had when it got a man in
here he always goes, and he had clear jail on it,
and me and her both was like, why do you
have clear jail? Like, I'm like, you just get a
buff that that buff shiny, but like I don't even

(39:34):
want you to have clear jail.

Speaker 2 (39:36):
Really clear jail, y'all.

Speaker 1 (39:37):
Stream that ship be too shiny, like yours can't be shy.

Speaker 2 (39:43):
I like better than mine, Like you know what if
I need.

Speaker 1 (39:46):
Like I ain't gonna lie. I like that clear. I
do like the clear jail, buff or the clear jail,
but I like, yeah, I like I like.

Speaker 2 (39:55):
Buying it up. What about you Lee and Buff? Is
it okay?

Speaker 5 (40:01):
You know.

Speaker 2 (40:05):
Lanja making she don't?

Speaker 5 (40:09):
She don't college boy? You could have little it's for me.

Speaker 2 (40:23):
That's like Lena is my girl because why now? Why
because why you had a polish? Why? And then it
be growing out?

Speaker 4 (40:32):
Like you know, I know we both got to go
together exactly because you can't like now you've.

Speaker 2 (40:36):
Got this grow this, No, you gotta say so.

Speaker 1 (40:41):
I feel like the jail, but I like, I just
like a man that goes and gets manni's and petties period,
like like but like go get your feet done and
go get your yeah petty here.

Speaker 4 (40:53):
Like nothing wrong with a man. Ain't a manicure a
petty here.

Speaker 2 (40:58):
Because y'all hard.

Speaker 1 (41:00):
Yeah, I remember we saw that person that had dirty
nails and you was disgusted. Yes, I can't stand no
dirty ass nails. Why are your nails dirty? Like I
feel like nails will tell you so much about men? Men?

Speaker 2 (41:15):
Why is there dirt underneath your nails?

Speaker 1 (41:17):
Did you didn't take a bath to that you cannot
come there's nobody took a bad shower, and your nails
are dirty after a shower because.

Speaker 2 (41:24):
That water gonna graze down and all that dirt gonna
rinse out of them.

Speaker 1 (41:30):
Also, you're eating with your hands like you don't look
under your nails and see.

Speaker 2 (41:33):
Don't touch me with those dirty nails especially.

Speaker 4 (41:38):
Okay, then now we can yeast infections, you know, like
you like all that, because if you're dirty nails, I'm telling.

Speaker 2 (41:46):
You I don't like that. And he unless you a mechanic,
and he was not agree he was shut the hell up.
I don't know what that man had to do. Okay, yeah,
I know that he didn't take a bath. I know
he didn't have time for that.

Speaker 1 (42:00):
Imagine coming somewhere not taking a bath before you go
has happened with a few of our guests as well.
All right, we're taking that out. You said one of
them smelled like sausage. We've never had musty women though
never it's never been a must I just last one,

(42:24):
last one, I want to get Okay. They consume male
chauvinists or male centered content, for example, Kevin Samuel's, Charleston White,
et cetera. Do y'all judge people who do kind of

(42:44):
do the red pill content type of stuff, like, yeah, why.

Speaker 2 (42:49):
Are you quoting Kevin Samuels to me? Yeah, that's a
little extreme. I'm judging. Mm hm.

Speaker 1 (42:57):
You know, you know it's no you and a little
bit are you kind of probably like I like it
and I know America great again.

Speaker 2 (43:08):
I don't. I don't like it.

Speaker 1 (43:11):
No, okay, But you know what's scarier than a man
listening to Kevin Samuels and Charleston White is a man
who follows them accounts that be like fellas, listen to
your queen if she in the bed crying, go hug huh.

Speaker 2 (43:27):
Those be the worst ones.

Speaker 1 (43:28):
Those be the cheaters, the liars, the deceivers, the men
that get into that content, those be the ones that
be learning how to manipulate, cause it be the women
like I wish I had a man like that.

Speaker 2 (43:39):
No shade, no TD, I remember that.

Speaker 1 (43:41):
Derek Jackson tobaccle because he used to be sitting in
his car.

Speaker 2 (43:45):
And treat your woman like a queen.

Speaker 1 (43:48):
If she gets off work and she wants to talk, listen,
if she needs help, it's addition to seek wash it.
And they're like the girls are eating it up and
the men are like, yeah, I need to do that,
but all you're doing is you're pandering. So to me,
listening to Charleston White and Kevin Samuels, yes, that's probably bad,

(44:10):
but because people probably act like if she listened to
poor minds, fucked that hole. I don't really like any
man n gets on the internet and talks too much.

Speaker 2 (44:20):
Yeah right.

Speaker 1 (44:21):
The only thing about it is that sometimes, like watching
Kevin Samuels and stuff, it's like, damn, this is the
perspective that like men have, so it kind of puts
things into like like I snap into reality, Like damn,
you know this is how people are men view us. Yeah,

(44:41):
you know, I definitely take no, but like I said,
I still would judge, but I do kind of pick
up a few things like Okay, well this is wild. Yeah,
and like I like a man who like stands on
his own too.

Speaker 2 (44:53):
I'm not looking.

Speaker 1 (44:54):
At the father to tell situation. Yea, but it really
be and no offense to anybody that eighty five percent like.

Speaker 2 (45:02):
Let me see what Carlos said, because that's what I'm
gonna do. Yeah, is that like? What is going on?
I do got one more? Okay, go ahead, go ahead?

Speaker 1 (45:11):
Being too well killed eyebrows done, super clean cut. Is
this a red flag or a gay flag?

Speaker 2 (45:16):
A metrosexual if you will, that's what they're called. They
think it's a gay flag.

Speaker 1 (45:23):
But I also I don't want you to be getting
your eyebrows wax.

Speaker 2 (45:27):
You don't, man, what if he like it a little?
I guess I can see he clean it up? Look
not a arch but yeah, lookay like just a little
clean up. Okay, I don't know. I kind of like
my men rough around that too. I like a little yeah.

Speaker 1 (45:45):
Yeah, we know, we know, we know, we know.

Speaker 2 (45:53):
Real and but no, I will say, an arched eyebrow,
it doesn't need to be arch.

Speaker 1 (46:02):
No, yeah it does ARCHI your eyebrow is crazy. But
I think you should go get facials. You know you
have a sain care routine. We said this on eighty five.
Do not use the six and one soap if you
got something that's shampoo conditioner, face washing, booty hole, leave

(46:23):
me alone.

Speaker 2 (46:25):
So, yeah, you need a little, a little one to.

Speaker 1 (46:27):
A routine you do do. Yeah, but it's definitely a line.
If you had a crylic on that big toe. I'm
I ain't never seen I ain't never seen any crylic
on the he got his square shape?

Speaker 2 (46:45):
Can you can you get that corner? Can't imagine? So
upset up? I wouldn't say nothing. I'm like, we got
the same Sure I would scream and run.

Speaker 1 (47:02):
Okay, Okay, so we agree that we don't judge a
metro sexual. But it is a fine line.

Speaker 2 (47:09):
No, No, you're judging a metro sexual.

Speaker 1 (47:13):
Yeah, if you don't want to facial.

Speaker 4 (47:16):
I mean, if you want to get a facial, that's fine,
because what if he has no real No, I do not,
But I mean, like, I just I'm gonna look at
you a little.

Speaker 1 (47:32):
You don't like when a nigga wake up and brush
his seat?

Speaker 2 (47:36):
Did you just flass disgusting? Absolutely not? No, I don't know, Like, yeah,
I don't know.

Speaker 4 (47:46):
You can't have more routines than me, Okay, And so
I am judging if you have more routine, yeah, or
doing it more frequent than I'm doing it and stuff.

Speaker 2 (47:57):
Then yeah, I'm jj.

Speaker 1 (48:01):
You know, I dated a guy that had intensive skincare routine,
but I liked it. Dad, your dad, your old dad, Dad,
my baby, that blanket. Dad definitely had an extensive skincare routine,
but I liked it because he had beautiful skin.

Speaker 2 (48:19):
Yeah, but I'm like that.

Speaker 1 (48:20):
I'm very you know, I'm a skincare girl, so it'd
be certain things like, you know, it's just like take
care of yourself.

Speaker 2 (48:26):
We're getting older. I agree. We you know what what
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in a situationship and call it a relationship?

Speaker 2 (50:08):
Oh that's easy. I don't know, won't one two three
bitch now? Because if I know it's a situation, Yeah,
me too.

Speaker 1 (50:23):
It's a very like go with the flow. Type girl
because she's so busy. So she'd be like, it's cool,
it's cool, but she'd be like, oh you my man.
They didn't have a discussion about it, but she don't get.

Speaker 2 (50:33):
People would be like, so, y'all had a conversation. No,
we don't need to know. I have like several situationship
like you know, God damn, but you know what's crazy.

Speaker 1 (50:49):
I get it though, because I've been in that situation before,
because honestly, I feel like the last guy you've been
dealing with that was your boyfriend, that was.

Speaker 2 (50:59):
A lot or is a lot or whatever, that's your man.

Speaker 1 (51:03):
And I mean, and the reason I say that because
it's like a lot of times I think men and
women be in the now because they don't have that conversation.
But you're doing the things in a relationship anyway. No,
you don't think so. And I think that you're not
in a relationship until y'all in a relationship.

Speaker 2 (51:22):
That's how I look at it.

Speaker 1 (51:23):
I feel like, once we, like Lauren said, it needs
to be an understanding, like we need to have a conversation,
it needs to be an understanding. We're exclusive, you're not
dating nobody. I'm not dating nobody unless you're into an
open relationship, because you know, some people be cool with it. Oh,
I ain't shit open over here, right, but some people

(51:47):
be with that. So it's like, if you're a person
who's cool with an open relationship, then no, it don't
really need to be but okay, So for topic number two,
we wanted to talk about, do y'all prefer to spend
Valentine's Day with your girls?

Speaker 2 (52:03):
Do y'all like a Galentine or spend it with your
booth either.

Speaker 1 (52:09):
We've seen a tremendous rise in women, you know, doing
Gallentines every year with their homegirls, and a lot of
people like to say, you know, that's beautiful that you
could spend time with your friends if you don't have
a men, or are y'all just like fuck, I won't
a men.

Speaker 2 (52:22):
I don't want to hang with your house.

Speaker 1 (52:25):
I mean for me, it really doesn't matter, Like, of
course I would like to spend time with my man
on Valentine's Day, but I'm all for a good girl tonight. Yeah,
Time's day too, or if it's like before Valentine's Day,
I get to experience my girls, but then Valentine's Days
be in mine. So I'm fine with both of them personally.

Speaker 2 (52:44):
Okay, what you think, Alice, why do you make that say?
Oh yeah here, lord just got here. She's like, I, miss,
I really did let on the way here? Sweet?

Speaker 1 (53:07):
Then what Gallentine's Day? She's feel raise hell all night?
What y'all got to lies? I hosted the Gallentines, but
you weren't in town. It was me Jazz Katie, and
it was a week before Valentine's. No, it was a
few days before. We had a grando a few days before.
Because on Valentine's Day you be with your man. Yeah,
when I have one, sure they with it. I like

(53:31):
both of them, though both of them is part of me.

Speaker 2 (53:33):
Yeah, I agree with Lauren. I like both of them.

Speaker 4 (53:36):
You know, like, you know, I could do something the
day before with my girls and then Valentine's with my men,
or daytime with the girls, night time, you know, like
we could do me and the girls go to brunch
and then my man dinner and dessert.

Speaker 2 (53:56):
I don't know that's worried. She watched her said dessert
dessert because.

Speaker 1 (54:00):
You know what tarm is at least gives me You're
walking take them draws off.

Speaker 2 (54:06):
That's what it be. It's time? What about you ly
Valentine's or boom?

Speaker 1 (54:13):
I mean, if I'm with someone, then I want to
spend Valentine's Day with my man said yah. But if
I am single, then the Galentine's is nice, right?

Speaker 2 (54:23):
I love our Galentine on our Gallantine. Hey, I agree
because I feel like what I haven't?

Speaker 1 (54:32):
Why are you?

Speaker 2 (54:33):
What the fuck?

Speaker 1 (54:34):
I'm not trying to see you holes on Valentine Oh
what a dickade?

Speaker 2 (54:40):
What that's the thing I knew you was gonna say.

Speaker 5 (54:42):
No, I don't want.

Speaker 2 (54:43):
To see no bitches on battle. No, I'm not as sorry. Now,
don't call me, don't text me.

Speaker 1 (54:49):
I'll talk to you on the fifteenth or the sixteenth.
But if you're single, what you gonna do me?

Speaker 2 (54:57):
So, if you're single, you want to.

Speaker 1 (55:00):
Me at least, she said, she don't want to see
us at somebody.

Speaker 2 (55:03):
Finna lick this coochie clean. If I can't find no
dick on Valentine's Day, that's gonna be my thirteenth reason. Bitch,
it's the day of love. None of you Holles can
love me. That is not true. Fuck you? Oh my god.

Speaker 1 (55:22):
No, your friends are the ones that will love you
when the man is gone.

Speaker 2 (55:26):
Bye.

Speaker 1 (55:27):
You got three hundred and sixty four as.

Speaker 2 (55:29):
To love me, bitch, Give me one day for some dick.

Speaker 1 (55:33):
That's the one day that's crazy. Listen.

Speaker 2 (55:36):
I knew you was gonna say that I love I
don't know.

Speaker 1 (55:41):
I appreciate having friends when I don't have a mean yeah,
let alone on Valentine's Day.

Speaker 2 (55:49):
It's always a man in the bushes for me. No fags.
What I'm saing because I think about it. We've never spit,
we never had a Gallentine.

Speaker 1 (55:59):
I don't think I even have I ever called you
a valance because.

Speaker 2 (56:01):
I'm hot off, I'm busy the fuck. That's the day
of Dick. I gotta go back in time, the day
of the dick. You know, the Mexican's got Day of
the Dead val Day of the dick. Bitch, Leave me
the head alone.

Speaker 1 (56:18):
I love y'all, But thirteen, the thirteenth I can do
for y'all. Fifteenth maybe maybe in the evening or the sixteenth,
February fourteenth.

Speaker 2 (56:28):
Leave me the head alone.

Speaker 1 (56:30):
You and your cool she need to be go away
with me, go away with this to follow.

Speaker 2 (56:36):
I don't know what the fuck, y'all, talking about Oh
I love.

Speaker 1 (56:38):
My girls, bitch, I love you. On the thirteenth, leave
me alone. I talk to you every day, Okay.

Speaker 2 (56:47):
Thirteenth at mid night. Happy Valentine's Day, bitch.

Speaker 1 (56:49):
I'll see you on the fifteenth.

Speaker 2 (56:51):
All y'all just remember this.

Speaker 4 (56:52):
So she don't have no ye call us, don't answer y'all.

Speaker 2 (56:59):
She not y'all.

Speaker 1 (57:00):
She probably should stay at home and watch movies.

Speaker 2 (57:02):
She's gonna call.

Speaker 1 (57:04):
I ain't gonna call, y'all. I'm gonna be mad, how
y'all if I have a date or not. I even
have talked to none of y'all. I don't care if
I see y'all, y'all pajamas flipping pancakes and mimosas. I
don't want to see y'all. They're gonna be like he's stupid,
whack ass.

Speaker 2 (57:24):
Damn we all mad and lonely, bitch.

Speaker 1 (57:27):
But no Valentine's Day versus spending it with it, spend
it with my boot please. Yeah, Now, I do, Like
I said, if it's before or after cool, or if
it's like maybe he can't make like if he got
something to do, and if you do got something to
do on Valentine's that you you decide a bitch, you know,
But the main Valentine's Day celebration to me is with

(57:48):
your boot. Yeah, of course you're that's romance. Valentine's Day
is a romance. And that's why I say I love
my friends, I love y'all, But Valentine's is romance.

Speaker 2 (57:58):
I'm not, y'all. Aren't romance in me? Y'all.

Speaker 1 (58:02):
Finna make me some mimosas and we're finna eat rowtail.

Speaker 2 (58:06):
You know, we listen, I know we.

Speaker 1 (58:08):
Might do all the romance.

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Speaker 1 (01:00:47):
Topic number three six Veectations. It's Valentine's day over rady
in the bedroom where y'all feel like you're supposed to
go all out, pull out all the whips in the
chain in the tricks on Valentine's Day? Or do y'all
think it's overrated? I don't think it's overrated. I think
it's one day to have a lot of fun. So

(01:01:13):
I agree, I'm here for the fun. Up some handcuffed
me arm right, I'm to get tied up right now?

Speaker 2 (01:01:23):
Okay, what y'all?

Speaker 1 (01:01:27):
But yeah, I'm with Land, Like I feel like it's
one day for you to be like extremely sexual and just.

Speaker 2 (01:01:33):
Really getting into it. Show out. I mean I like
to show out all the day time, whether it's Valentine's
Day or not.

Speaker 1 (01:01:39):
But I mean that is one day to kind of like,
you know, turn it up a notch, pull out.

Speaker 2 (01:01:44):
Your best streaks. Mmm. At least.

Speaker 4 (01:01:49):
I'm about that life three hundred.

Speaker 2 (01:01:55):
So that day, like what you wear something? Right?

Speaker 4 (01:02:00):
YEAHID like, but no, that's that's regular.

Speaker 2 (01:02:05):
I'll be butt naked.

Speaker 4 (01:02:07):
I don't got to y'all, Okay, but I think it
just really depends because I learned that that like some.

Speaker 2 (01:02:13):
Men want lingerie like they like and take it off.

Speaker 4 (01:02:16):
Yeah, and I was like, but you're just gonna take
it off, and they're like, but still just to see
you in there and then me take it off, so like.

Speaker 2 (01:02:24):
You can get some lingerie.

Speaker 1 (01:02:25):
Has it become I put a as.

Speaker 2 (01:02:31):
Mama size just be naked?

Speaker 1 (01:02:35):
Yeah, y'all all right, but yeah I agree some men
like the little razzle dazzle, like theye wanting you to
wear the laune gerie or like a little costume so
they could take it off. Oh yeah, you ain't got
to spice it up. But okay, so at least you
said you're three sixty five, So but what can you
do on Valentine's Day?

Speaker 2 (01:02:52):
That's like out of the ordinary.

Speaker 1 (01:02:55):
For somebody who's like freaky all the time, because it's
some girls who freaky all the time.

Speaker 4 (01:03:00):
Maybe like something like that might be on like his
fantasy list.

Speaker 1 (01:03:05):
Okay, that's a good idea, and maybe y'all come up
with a fantasy list together.

Speaker 2 (01:03:14):
Of ida trying to be romance. That's a good idea,
that is.

Speaker 1 (01:03:21):
But I do think Valentine's Day is something that you
should do that y'all don't normally do because you know
when you are when you're dating the same person, y'all,
tend to have sex the same, like, yeah.

Speaker 2 (01:03:30):
Like the sex be great. Yeah, it's the same.

Speaker 1 (01:03:33):
So I do think like Valentine's Day, like y'all probably
donet went out to dinner. Y'all are drinking, y'all. Don't
exchange gifts, like make do something that's out of the ordinary,
whether it's lingerie, adding a toy, maybe role play.

Speaker 2 (01:03:46):
Oh my gosh. You know what I love to do.

Speaker 1 (01:03:48):
I love to go to the sex store with my guy.

Speaker 2 (01:03:54):
It is fun. I've done that too. It's a time
I don't think i've ever done. I've done that. Yeah,
we had a time last What are you looking at
me like that? I'm gonna start calling you the sprinklers?

Speaker 1 (01:04:10):
Oh my god, no, like the joker, this is the sprinkler.

Speaker 2 (01:04:17):
No.

Speaker 1 (01:04:17):
It is fun though, because you can literally go with
him and like, see what he likes. Yeah, let him
pick out stuff that he like, versus you just buying
a toy that you think.

Speaker 2 (01:04:26):
Y'all like both and Julie, you know David.

Speaker 1 (01:04:29):
Guy, he used to send me things to get to
you know, this is what I like. Yeah, I was like,
would you was your dad.

Speaker 2 (01:04:38):
Dad? I can see that you guys inspire me.

Speaker 1 (01:04:42):
Honestly, No, dad was a wild boy, and dad was
a wild boy.

Speaker 2 (01:04:47):
No, it's not Dad could be. He is fine. You know,
I gotta get off my daddy to get on.

Speaker 1 (01:04:56):
Your friend to turn to your stepmom. He calls and
she'd be like, hey, y'all, I'm like, sit your ass.

Speaker 2 (01:05:05):
He is cute.

Speaker 1 (01:05:06):
Fine.

Speaker 2 (01:05:08):
I'd be like, I need to see him show me a.

Speaker 4 (01:05:11):
Look, like so I have a question talking about the
sex store. Have any of y'all got that like vibrator
that like goes in you and then like he controls
it on his phone.

Speaker 1 (01:05:23):
Yeah, I like to like out of town.

Speaker 2 (01:05:28):
Honestly, to me.

Speaker 1 (01:05:29):
It was cool, but I think the Internet kind of
over hyped it a baka because it was like, oh,
it's funny because it's between you and me.

Speaker 2 (01:05:37):
But it's not like I'm like sitting at the table
like I can't take that? Can I get my steak? Players?

Speaker 1 (01:05:45):
No, it wasn't like that at all. It was just like, Okay,
this is cute. Okay, so that's the hyped up.

Speaker 2 (01:05:50):
Yeah, I think it's all.

Speaker 1 (01:05:51):
Cool, Like if y'all are maybe having phone sex because
he's out of town and he's like doing the controls
to like what he's saying to you.

Speaker 2 (01:06:01):
So it feels like you.

Speaker 1 (01:06:02):
Know what I'm saying, Like you know how a guy
would like talk you through it. So it's like he's
doing the motions of the vibrator to like feel that way.
I think that's more exciting than the actual Oh, nobody
knows the vibrators in you and we're trying to order
a steak, like I know, like the phone the type.

Speaker 2 (01:06:19):
That I used.

Speaker 1 (01:06:19):
You have to be in like close proximity. No, yeah,
they have a home. Yeah, it's like you can. They
can control it from wherever they are. That's the one
that I have. So if they're out of town or whatever,
you heavy, they can control it from their founding.

Speaker 2 (01:06:34):
Like got that AI coach.

Speaker 1 (01:06:35):
You like, so he could be on FaceTime and like controlling.

Speaker 2 (01:06:45):
Our robot two.

Speaker 1 (01:06:48):
That motherfucker cutting up now holding it down.

Speaker 2 (01:06:52):
You have to keep it spice, Okay, okay, okay.

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Speaker 2 (01:06:59):
Of the week. What you got? What you got?

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Speaker 2 (01:09:39):
Y'all know.

Speaker 1 (01:09:39):
I love me a good afro beats shune and I
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year of inspiration. We are reaching our goals, we're doing
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So Tenny is an artist, afrobeats artist, Nigerian artist, and
she has a new song called Money, and it's just

(01:10:00):
about like I'd rather cry on a Bentley, like I'd
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don't want the regular life.

Speaker 2 (01:10:07):
I want to get to the money. I want to
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So when I heard this song, I was like, this
is giving what I want for twenty twenty five. I
have made a lot of financial goals for myself this year,
and I think when you manifest certain things, you have
to vibrate in all the types of things that you
want in life.

Speaker 2 (01:10:22):
So it's the things.

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That you say to yourself it's the music that you
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this year. Okay, period, What y'all been listening to me,
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(01:10:45):
ob I just really fuck with the vibe of the record.
I don't really have like a extensive meaning behind it
or whatever, but I've really been fucking with that.

Speaker 2 (01:10:53):
So that's is this new? It's new?

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Okay, okay, Yeah, they have like a joint an album
that they're doing together. Okay, okay, I want to say
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Speaker 1 (01:11:28):
So I got but I'm playing on rowing song all right,
alst what you've been listening to?

Speaker 2 (01:11:35):
So my aback of the week is sailor Will You Lie?
That is like on replay, Okay, replay, that's.

Speaker 1 (01:11:43):
The la I didn't want to that's when I had
that song, I don't.

Speaker 2 (01:11:48):
Hope You're happy? Got you and me need Me.

Speaker 1 (01:11:51):
I thought she was speaking Korean on that song because
she said, bet you meet your mom.

Speaker 2 (01:11:56):
I don't think I've heard that song. So that's the.

Speaker 1 (01:11:58):
First one I heard of her. So she got the
rema with Summer Walker.

Speaker 2 (01:12:01):
Really. Yeah, but I'm gonna have to listen to that one.
You haven't listened. Oh it's cute. It's a cute little
one too. It's a cute. Okay, So Lauren, do you
like that song better? I like pois better?

Speaker 1 (01:12:14):
Yeah, I said that right, Yeah, I like her first
thing first.

Speaker 2 (01:12:18):
This one is cool, but I just like that one better. Yeah,
I'm about to play that in the car.

Speaker 1 (01:12:24):
Yeah. I thought she was saying Ben, she mean she mom.
I don't know what she was saying.

Speaker 2 (01:12:29):
She's saying, I.

Speaker 1 (01:12:30):
Said, your mom, she gets a dog and after you,
hey pooky. Yeah, but it sounded like she was speaking
another ling. It does because the one thing about me
I liked, I am bilingual. Well, Tashi was okay, I.

Speaker 2 (01:12:48):
Said, what does that mean? I give money? I'm a star?
Do you think that means that? It does? Okay, I
didn't know me and that's Jack singing it and I
don't know what he's saying. I don't care.

Speaker 1 (01:13:09):
I lie what y'all going to do, because it matters
how I say it, because you don't know what you thought.
I cursed and I could be saying something nice.

Speaker 2 (01:13:21):
Okay that I said?

Speaker 1 (01:13:28):
Okay, you know I'm really enjoying Push to Start by
Oh yeah, that is in the car cutting up to
that just a little bit.

Speaker 2 (01:13:42):
I like me, s Tyler, you like that? You know
it's crazy.

Speaker 1 (01:13:45):
I never really do mainstream artists on the show, but
I almost tweeted that like two days ago because I
was listening.

Speaker 2 (01:13:51):
To that in the car.

Speaker 1 (01:13:53):
I said, Push the Start by Tyler is such a
good song. I don't know who her producers are, who
her writers are.

Speaker 2 (01:14:00):
But they got it right.

Speaker 1 (01:14:00):
They have a formula with her right now and it's working.
You know who I'm rooting for. Do y'all know who
Tate McCray is. She's like a pop girly. She's a
pop curly and she's actually really good. She can she
can't really sing, but who needs a singer when you
can dance? Right, Tate McCray, she has to sing.

Speaker 2 (01:14:19):
I want done myselnd.

Speaker 1 (01:14:23):
You know, yeah, so you know who she needs. She
needs a timbling beat. Remember when Timberland did that run
with Nellie Fritato and Brittany Spears. She needs Timbland real
bad and they can eat it up together. So I
like the young girls. Tyler has that formula with her team.
So she's got that sound. I think that's what the

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people are missing, that that signature sound like when Sissa
hops on it. You can hear a beat and be like, oh,
this is a scissy scissor tight beat.

Speaker 2 (01:14:52):
You know what I'm saying. Yeah, I agree. Yeah, so
that was a good one. I like your ear ling, Dre.
I haven't been listening to nothing new this week. Drake
dropped a clip.

Speaker 1 (01:15:06):
I thought of something. Yeah, he dropped a snippet, but
the album actually does hasn't dropped yet.

Speaker 2 (01:15:14):
What did you think about the snippet? The snippet was good.

Speaker 1 (01:15:16):
I mean anything that Drake and Party next door do together,
I think it's always Oh oh lord.

Speaker 2 (01:15:22):
I was like, we don't got insurance.

Speaker 1 (01:15:26):
It's so funny because it's so funny because that happened
to me earlier.

Speaker 2 (01:15:31):
I had tripped up it in too. But y'all think
anything that.

Speaker 1 (01:15:33):
Drake and Party next Door do together is just always
gonna be a classic.

Speaker 2 (01:15:36):
So you know, I feel like it's gonna.

Speaker 1 (01:15:38):
Be a good album because it's supposed to be album. Okay,
but a colas he does love a collab. But yeah,
in height of Beyonce, like announcing the tour, I've been
listening to Cowboy Carter again again because it's not that
I ever really just stopped.

Speaker 2 (01:15:57):
But I haven't.

Speaker 1 (01:15:57):
I will say I haven't listened to it all will
go around for probably a few months, but I've been
listening to that because I was like, Wow, I forgot
the artistry, how good this album is. And I have
to prepare for the show because this ain't Texas, it
ain't no cards down down, but it's just a good album.

Speaker 2 (01:16:17):
Like it's literally so good. So yeah, shout out to Beyonce. Ok,
that tashi Wa star. Now what if you saw her? Girl?
Fuck you?

Speaker 1 (01:16:25):
I would never tell my queen that she knows my heart?

Speaker 2 (01:16:33):
She know my heart?

Speaker 1 (01:16:38):
You SI do y'all feel like y'all give good advice?

Speaker 2 (01:16:43):
Yeah, Okay, I think y'all sat a little unsure. I'm
not assured I really do give good advice.

Speaker 1 (01:16:49):
Laura, I'm not gonna lie. Lauren gives great advice. I
don't listen all the time, but when I do listen,
it always works out. But Lauren give it's good advice,
but you don't listen to advice.

Speaker 2 (01:17:03):
That's not about to say with me.

Speaker 4 (01:17:04):
I feel like I give good advice, but it's like, damn,
why can't.

Speaker 2 (01:17:07):
I give myself? Yeah? Why can't to what I'm saying?

Speaker 4 (01:17:11):
And sometimes when I tell my friends, I'd be like,
I know I'm telling you this, and I know I don't.

Speaker 1 (01:17:16):
Do it, but like it's easier on the outside looking
at it. Because me and Lauren had a conversation this morning.
We were talking about, like, guys.

Speaker 2 (01:17:24):
We used to deal with the date. I was like, friend,
what were we doing? Cringe worthy?

Speaker 1 (01:17:29):
Like, what the hell when you told me that Khaki
Khaki killed me?

Speaker 2 (01:17:35):
You gotta relax, bro, you.

Speaker 1 (01:17:38):
Have to like Tasha, Yes, okay, y'all. So we're gonna
ask them questions. I think you give good advice too.
I think you give pretty good advice. And I feel
like everybody give good advice. My God, don't lie on
me like that, everybody on each side, everybody on this
I can be on. Yeah, everybody on the side, So yes,

(01:17:59):
go sh'all some questions, So it's time to get in
to ask poor Minds. If you have any questions, send
them to askp oh. You are in my nds at
gmail dot com. Send us your questions, send us your testimonials,
because you know, sometimes we be giving bad advice too.
Question number one, Oh, your question along, Maybe maybe we shouldn't.

Speaker 2 (01:18:24):
Question number one.

Speaker 1 (01:18:26):
Hey, ladies, First off, let me say I love y'all
down That sh'all is amazing and I look forward to
always watching.

Speaker 2 (01:18:34):
So excuse me.

Speaker 1 (01:18:38):
So I've been cool with this guy for five months
and everything between us works.

Speaker 2 (01:18:44):
We get along really well.

Speaker 1 (01:18:45):
So he's going out of the country and it's going
to be going for a month, which is fine. However,
since he's been away, I haven't really heard from him.
He hits me up sporadically, and then at times he
doesn't even respond when I reply back to whereas I
send message.

Speaker 2 (01:19:00):
And he literally ready and didn't respond.

Speaker 1 (01:19:02):
My question for you, guys, is am I wrong for
feeling it's another woman he's with and would I be
wrong to just cut ties while he's on vacation he's
with his wife?

Speaker 2 (01:19:12):
Yeah, having the greatest grand old time. What's the status
of their relationship?

Speaker 1 (01:19:17):
I think, because I mean, I can't it's been cool
with him for five exactly, that's the answer, right there,
y'all been cool for five months? Yeah, yeah, I'm not
being cool with ship for five months, but my fuckingfrigerator.

Speaker 2 (01:19:31):
Bitch, get the fuck on, hang it up.

Speaker 1 (01:19:35):
I just felt like, you know, when I was younger,
and this is me just coming from an older woman.

Speaker 2 (01:19:39):
Okay, a man knows.

Speaker 1 (01:19:42):
If he's gonna take you seriously and be with you,
you don't need a year two years of keeping it
casual and being cool.

Speaker 2 (01:19:51):
So five months, I'm.

Speaker 1 (01:19:53):
Sorry, but I feel like at like the third or
fourth month.

Speaker 2 (01:19:57):
We should have it. Okay.

Speaker 1 (01:19:58):
So I'm not saying getting a relatelationship, but it should
be like, Okay, what are we doing? Are we on
the same page, are we both looking for a relationship,
We're trying to be serious? What are we doing here?
Because at five months, if he's on vacation and you
still don't know, cause, let me tell you what I
was doing at five months, baby, Like you know.

Speaker 2 (01:20:17):
What I'm saying.

Speaker 1 (01:20:17):
I knew what we were whether it was casual and
you can go on vacation and not talk to me
or whether we were like, Okay, you're on vacation, but
you hey, babe.

Speaker 2 (01:20:27):
This is my day.

Speaker 1 (01:20:27):
I'm starting my day and we're checking in every day.
At five months, you should know what y'all are. And
I'm not saying in a relationship, but you should understand
it should be in black and white by then. That's
all I'm saying.

Speaker 4 (01:20:39):
I agree, And I just think, like, you're on vacation,
so you have like we all go on vacation, even together,
and like we still gonna FaceTime our men, you know,
like hey, like you know, we still gonna like talk,
so like it's not like he's gone for a month
for work so busy that he time difference and he

(01:21:00):
might not be able to call you, but he's on vacation.

Speaker 2 (01:21:04):
Yeah, and you ain't hear me up now one time?
And why is it taking you so long to respond
on vacation. I'm about to blow that.

Speaker 1 (01:21:14):
Phone up, ski, I will be blowing it if you're
on the jet pull up next to him.

Speaker 2 (01:21:21):
Hey, what's going on?

Speaker 1 (01:21:24):
You know what I'm saying, And like you said, we've
all been on vacation together. And one thing I love
about y'all is because we're not the girls that be
on vacation on the phone with they dudes all the time.
I cannot stand being on a trip and the girls like,
I gotta go call my man. We call our men
in the morning and we call them at night. Yeah,
during the day we turned up having a ball. We
do like we don't. We don't meet on the phone

(01:21:45):
with our dudes the whole time and like killing the vibe.
So I think that's important too, But bare minimum, a
phone call in the morning and a phone call at night.
He's hiding something that's not your man. And like you said,
y'all are.

Speaker 2 (01:21:58):
Cool, all look cool. He's just giving cool behavior.

Speaker 4 (01:22:00):
Yeah, and when what if she say, should she cut
it off while he's on vacation, I would just I mean.

Speaker 2 (01:22:05):
It's point you're not talking. It's nothing to cut off.

Speaker 4 (01:22:10):
I'm not talking to you, really, So I would just, yeah,
I would leave him on red the next time you git.

Speaker 1 (01:22:15):
You anybody that's okay with going twenty four hours without
hearing your voice.

Speaker 2 (01:22:19):
He's not that into you.

Speaker 1 (01:22:21):
So say, I agree, COVID they've been gone, he was,
he's been going for a long time. Why the hell
I haven't heard from you one time? What if I'm not? Okay? Right,
I thought she was gonna I could be heard. I
could be doing that with Tasha wat Star. Listen, y'all

(01:22:41):
knew what I meant when I save that. I did,
Oh my god, I did Okay, bilingual, good points. But
like I was saying, I just feel like, yes, if
you if this man really fucked with you like that,
you would have heard from him at least once, you know,
and that's bare minimum. I think you just need the
leady go because I don't think his feeling is gonna

(01:23:01):
be there.

Speaker 4 (01:23:02):
Hurt too, like you say, like both of y'all said, basically,
like if he really likes you, he would be concerned
of what you're doing back at home, like ain't seeing you? Like, oh,
let me make sure she ain't dibbling and dabbling.

Speaker 2 (01:23:19):
But right, you don't give a Downright, That's what I'm saying.

Speaker 1 (01:23:24):
I want to be gentle because I know this is
fucking with you. But you know you got to call
a space of space.

Speaker 2 (01:23:29):
It sounds like she likes him. Yeah, but I mean,
that's what I'm saying. Some One. The biggest thing is
men are jealous creatures. That's all.

Speaker 1 (01:23:38):
Not that you're worried about what he's doing. But if
a man not worried about what you doing, that's when
you need to be like uh, because I can tell
when my phone calls start getting more frequent when I'm going, like,
what you'll doing?

Speaker 2 (01:23:52):
I'm chilling at the crib though? Who Yeah, yeah, all right,
what y'all was doing? Thought me happy? Just wander in
your stores? You barely post that? Motherfucker use that first.

Speaker 1 (01:24:05):
It'd be one you him always, Yeah, let me ask
y'all questions.

Speaker 2 (01:24:10):
Y'll put y'all man in y'all close friends my public,
so shit, I'll be posting everything. But but we started
off like close friends for sure, but then it was
just kind of yeah.

Speaker 4 (01:24:23):
Then when he made it to the regular, I said, oh,
I was like, yeah, I'll be like, yeah, she is.

Speaker 2 (01:24:33):
I didn't be posting that.

Speaker 1 (01:24:35):
Man, I said, oh, you're supposed to be to though, No,
he started it.

Speaker 2 (01:24:39):
He started it.

Speaker 1 (01:24:40):
He did.

Speaker 2 (01:24:41):
I said, excuse me, did you ask for Mitchel? But
I feel like that's how it's supposed to be. He
posted to post you first, and I.

Speaker 1 (01:24:47):
Love that, Like I can't say that, like it definitely
feels good to know that you're comfortable, you know, showing
me off. So you're playing about his baby girl, play
about his baby girl.

Speaker 2 (01:25:00):
But my man and close friends.

Speaker 1 (01:25:02):
I thought you meant like, No, I didn't mean any
your close group chat. I meant close friends on Instagram.

Speaker 2 (01:25:09):
No.

Speaker 1 (01:25:10):
I thought you meant like adding him to your close friends.

Speaker 2 (01:25:15):
Yeah, like he can watch.

Speaker 1 (01:25:16):
Yeah, they thought like him.

Speaker 2 (01:25:21):
People to see him.

Speaker 1 (01:25:23):
No, I meant like, is your man in your close.

Speaker 2 (01:25:25):
Friends That's what I was saying.

Speaker 1 (01:25:26):
Yeah, no, your man friends. It's okay, it's not in
my closes. But I really haven't posted anything though I
haven't posted anything. Yes, my man and my close friends,
I don't care, but I been in posting him in
there so he got to.

Speaker 2 (01:25:43):
See himself mine mine was happen. We remember he.

Speaker 4 (01:25:52):
Was highly upset about it, even though it was in
my close friends, and I'm like, you're in here.

Speaker 2 (01:25:59):
I know you're in here to get it. And it
wasn't even it wasn't anything matter.

Speaker 4 (01:26:03):
It was something that someone else said to me in
my d M and I reposted it like he's corny,
like corny like and he just didn't like what was
like Yeah, and like after that he I took him
out of my close friends, but he also muted my stories,
so he don't even look up my stories no more

(01:26:25):
after that.

Speaker 1 (01:26:25):
You know how bad that pisses me off? Like stories,
I can know when he mad at me. That's what
y'all think.

Speaker 2 (01:26:33):
Baby haven't burns because she's not talking about was saying
the man.

Speaker 1 (01:26:41):
Some the man sometimes be viewing from other pages, or
though he had a friend to look and report yep,
or they just be looking from the home voice page,
or because why are you looking from somewhere?

Speaker 4 (01:26:53):
Do you feel like damn, you don't want to you
don't want to see, like you know.

Speaker 2 (01:26:58):
But something some niggas don't care.

Speaker 4 (01:27:00):
They like right now, he's standing on business by really
keeping me mute and not letting me like see that
he's looking from his page. I'm like, hm, hmmm, So
now I'll just suppose now I try not to look
at his y'all.

Speaker 1 (01:27:20):
Yeah, because I'm looking. I'm the first I'm looking.

Speaker 2 (01:27:26):
And then I got hit it. I'll get it and
I'll be like, I'm looking.

Speaker 1 (01:27:33):
I asked me resweet and stuff. I want you to
know I'm here, Yeah, I see you, Yes there, I mean.

Speaker 2 (01:27:40):
I'm here you see me? Hello? Who else in here? Okay,
let's move on. Y'all are crazy? Oh gosh, I love y'all.

Speaker 1 (01:27:54):
I love you, ladies. This is what the means is
you ask me, let me get a Oh I was.

Speaker 2 (01:28:00):
Reading, give me a cupcake? You yeah, you're the cupcake.
I got a long message to read. Yes, So why
you read this? I'm going no, no, no, I don't
want to look pregnant. Bitch. Let me tell y'all something.

Speaker 1 (01:28:12):
I'm not fucking pregnant.

Speaker 2 (01:28:14):
Leave me and my belly alone.

Speaker 1 (01:28:15):
A bitch had a little one too many burritos on vacation.
Now lex she done told these people these three times?
I sat on the show already, you three times.

Speaker 2 (01:28:23):
I'm sorry. I had to make sure they know I
heard my family. I was thirty. I feel I'm finla.
You know.

Speaker 1 (01:28:29):
Once I get on the zippy, y'all gonna be mad
because my head big and my body small.

Speaker 2 (01:28:35):
Girl, she's gonna take all right.

Speaker 1 (01:28:39):
You're right, you're right, all right, I'm sorry I wrapped
it up.

Speaker 2 (01:28:41):
You're right, you're right, you're right. I love you, ladies.

Speaker 1 (01:28:44):
I've been with y'all since the beginning. The growth and
elevation is amazing and so inspiring. Wishing you ladies continued
blessings and success. Should I end my friendship with one
of my closest friends of over fifteen years. We recently
had a fallout because she started dating my ex sneaky
link to give some backstory, Me and my homegirl met

(01:29:05):
junior year of high school.

Speaker 2 (01:29:07):
As friends do.

Speaker 1 (01:29:08):
I told her about the guy I was dealing with.
She shared that he was her ex boyfriend. They dated
a couple of years prior freshman year. They never fucked,
and they're just friends now. I gave her the courtesy
of asking are we good if I see him? She
said absolutely, It's cool and it really was. Never no beef.

(01:29:30):
I would tell her all about us, no issues. She
was dating new men and very happy. Long story short,
I was dating him for about three something years, on
and off, never an official relationship.

Speaker 2 (01:29:44):
I know now.

Speaker 1 (01:29:45):
I was young and dumb as fuck for not getting
the fuck on, but the dick was too good.

Speaker 2 (01:29:52):
We ended without closure.

Speaker 1 (01:29:54):
He ghosted me one day and I ain't seen or
heard from that man in over ten years. Fast forward
to the present day. We're in our early thirties. I'm
happily married with a family, and out of the blue,
my friend went from telling me she reconnected with my
old sneaky link her ex BF on some friendship now
a few moments later, feelings are involved, she loves him,

(01:30:18):
wants to rekindle their relationship and their dating. What the
entire fuck am I wrong for being upset? And side note,
I summarized my letter down three times just.

Speaker 2 (01:30:28):
For you, Drea, For Drea. Drea can read, bitch, I'm
the bit summarize my letter do home three times just
for you, Drea.

Speaker 1 (01:30:42):
So don't zeel me. I just get that because I
be saying the letters be too long, and that she
steal long because.

Speaker 2 (01:30:50):
You're married from over here. It's like five pairgraphs steal
too long. They both weird. You're a loser. Yeah, I mean,
she ain't wrong. You're married with a family.

Speaker 1 (01:31:05):
But this is why people are scared of marriages and
people don't because why are you married with children in
a family, and you're worried.

Speaker 2 (01:31:14):
About somebody from ten years ago.

Speaker 1 (01:31:16):
You're talking about somebody from high school. You are in
your early thirties talking about somebody you fucked your senior
year in high school.

Speaker 2 (01:31:24):
And they were never in a relationship either, she said, like.

Speaker 1 (01:31:28):
That dick was not that good for you to be
talking about it ten.

Speaker 2 (01:31:30):
Years later, not in high school.

Speaker 1 (01:31:33):
I mean, she's weird for Karen, But then the friend
is also weird because there's just too many men on
the planet. Why are you, Yeah, I agree, why are
you dating somebody that your friend used to fuck with?
But also as they married happily because you said happy
happily married? One mean, why are you even worried about

(01:31:54):
what's going on? Like I would just cut her off,
Like I wouldn't have wrote a little to poor Mone
thank you. That's what I'm like, I would have both
with ask four minds that email. Like I'm just saying, though,
like you should just cut the girl off because she's weird,
Like that's weird at fuck that she did that, But
like you shouldn't be so passionate.

Speaker 2 (01:32:13):
It's about you. She losing sleep, happy away, I should go.

Speaker 4 (01:32:25):
I feel like, yeah, you're married, Like, why do you
care about any other man besides your husband?

Speaker 2 (01:32:32):
That's first, Yeah, you know, so are you really happy?

Speaker 4 (01:32:36):
But also on the other hand, guys, I don't think
there's nothing wrong with the friend going and talking to him.
I'm I'm like, so what like and again is that
if they are happy now, like they're grown now, they're
in their thirties. People change and everything, you know, so

(01:32:58):
if they were able to find love with each other,
you should be happy for your friend and be like,
you know what, I'm happily married.

Speaker 2 (01:33:04):
If this makes you happy, like go for it? Supported you?

Speaker 1 (01:33:11):
Well?

Speaker 2 (01:33:11):
No, no, no.

Speaker 1 (01:33:12):
The only reason I say that because I'm thinking the
friends thought process was you're happily married, you don't care
about other men, because when I get married, I want
to be obsessed with my husband. So she was probably
assuming that her friend is obsessed with her husband.

Speaker 2 (01:33:26):
She's married, she's happy, and they reconnected.

Speaker 1 (01:33:29):
Probably she was probably like, oh, let's reconnect on some
sneaky shit, and they ended up finding love.

Speaker 2 (01:33:34):
They found love and a hopeless ye, I feel like
they found love. Fuck No, then I would be like,
what the hell, bitch, was you.

Speaker 1 (01:33:45):
Thinking about this ten years ago?

Speaker 2 (01:33:46):
Like what's your student? Come on now? I don't know
nobody was thinking about this.

Speaker 1 (01:33:50):
She sometimes people cross, Yeah, I think that it's too
many men in the world, Like, yeah, I'm happily married now,
but why the hell do you need to go date
you're so may well then you wouldn't know if you
didn't go fuck the nigga. But I did and I
found out now, y'all, and.

Speaker 2 (01:34:09):
Now we're not for you. I don't know if I
were a weird at.

Speaker 1 (01:34:15):
All, Why would you go and fuck somebody that you
know I used to funk with.

Speaker 2 (01:34:19):
It's with them first, Yes, the friend they dated first.
That's what's fair, just that they dated for a year,
but they never had said. You don't have a fact
that her boyfriend first, it's okay.

Speaker 4 (01:34:31):
I feel like the friend also felt like it's okay.

Speaker 2 (01:34:37):
You shouldn't have thrown her paper me, And.

Speaker 4 (01:34:39):
That's why I feel like the friend also felt like
it was okay to tell her because it was like.

Speaker 2 (01:34:44):
I did friend first. No, No, I didn't small.

Speaker 1 (01:34:52):
She shared that he was her ex boyfriend and they
dated a couple of years prior her freshman year, and
they never fucked, but they dated, they dated, They were actually.

Speaker 4 (01:35:03):
In a relationship, and I had it once but I
got find not technically because you didn't fuck him first.

Speaker 1 (01:35:12):
So it was my job in a relationship now doing
different phones.

Speaker 4 (01:35:18):
The first one they were in a relationship, she was
never they weren't they were fucking, but we're never in
a relationship.

Speaker 1 (01:35:25):
They were fucking and we're never in a relationship. And
they were in a relationship, but they wasn't.

Speaker 2 (01:35:32):
And now they're back in a relationship.

Speaker 1 (01:35:34):
So I'm dating my ex again. I'm dating my It's
the long of the way. Sorry, I'm getting mixed.

Speaker 2 (01:35:46):
It's time to go, baby. We don't have to.

Speaker 1 (01:35:49):
Look like damn right, Like if you got all he
must be.

Speaker 2 (01:35:54):
Yeah, he probably the only finding And guess what.

Speaker 1 (01:35:59):
You're watching man, because I'm finna try it now ten
years and you still thinking about it. Let's be good,
exact and you ain't getting them back. I just feel like,
if you gotta do all that explaining, just let it go.
I'm there because does she can write about like.

Speaker 2 (01:36:17):
Who is that going to write in about me? Just
let y'all have it. I've been watching the show.

Speaker 1 (01:36:22):
I've been watching this show for four years, and I
wrote in a letter and then the whole started sucking.
My man shouldn't have bragged about it less and learned, bitch.

Speaker 4 (01:36:30):
Now he gonna write in and be like, right up.

Speaker 1 (01:36:38):
Right, okay, so as you can she send us.

Speaker 2 (01:36:42):
You send those pictures?

Speaker 1 (01:36:43):
Are you asking this episode? I really hope you see
this shade. Can you actually send her an email back
until we need then update.

Speaker 2 (01:36:49):
We need a photo and we need a photo of
this man. We need to buy him on face. What
Google like, Yah, find the face? Search somebody's face. She said, no,
I'm exotic can. I said good? I'm like God, she was,

(01:37:14):
it's time. But this has been so fun, y'all. This
has been so fun. I love you.

Speaker 1 (01:37:20):
I'm so glad that y'all came. We love y'all so much.
This has just been so great.

Speaker 2 (01:37:26):
We've never had our friends on the couch with us.

Speaker 1 (01:37:29):
It's like she said, outside of killing and that was
like six years ago.

Speaker 2 (01:37:32):
So I'm so glad y'all are here. This is so great.

Speaker 1 (01:37:36):
Yay, and thank y'all for always supporting us. It's not
easy because we be everywhere and y'all don't do these
y'all don't.

Speaker 2 (01:37:44):
Yeah, y'all don't do this.

Speaker 1 (01:37:45):
So really, thank y'all for showing us and always being
like the support system that we need, because, believe it
or not, this job is not easy, but a lot
of it comes from y'all being supportive and being there
for us and keeping us level headed and around.

Speaker 2 (01:38:01):
Well. I'm glad we can provide that for y'all. Have
we didn't. I remember all nervous. I was a little nervous.
I feel like I can tell y'all a little I was.

Speaker 1 (01:38:12):
No.

Speaker 2 (01:38:12):
I can tell Laura has been very reserved like this
at all, like this not I'm like Lauren.

Speaker 1 (01:38:23):
Y'all were all asleep in Miami because she was so
lit when she went. I found this about the way
because why so mad.

Speaker 2 (01:38:35):
Mother Lauren.

Speaker 1 (01:38:37):
Oh my goodness, hey, Laurie, I want no smoke.

Speaker 2 (01:38:44):
I'm just get my.

Speaker 3 (01:38:50):
Story. In the kitchen day, I don't know what three
drumsticks they.

Speaker 2 (01:39:02):
Z me, yall, and it was to wings. She was so.

Speaker 1 (01:39:09):
I know, y'all, I was gonna be bringing up the
potropical stories the world.

Speaker 6 (01:39:15):
Because I don't know what.

Speaker 2 (01:39:17):
With my boyfriend. He was like, ni ya, I'll never
forget that you ate that your tropical you shipping. I
don't know what it is about that they love.

Speaker 1 (01:39:28):
We gotta pay on comparel and I'm gonna check and
used cold, Laurenie, they're gift.

Speaker 2 (01:39:34):
Use that you call Lauren?

Speaker 1 (01:39:38):
Maybe she the ambassador of Pollo Tropic So.

Speaker 2 (01:39:41):
Mad I was, by the way, though I was fucked.
You was your So I don't even remember like I
did that.

Speaker 1 (01:39:51):
I really did miss everything because I'm like going around.

Speaker 2 (01:39:53):
So this was the me and dre a drugs bone
no no, no no.

Speaker 1 (01:39:56):
But everybody in the house all run so everybody was drunk.
I'll give you all run down the story. This is
for my birthday. We went to Miami. I rented this
beautiful house on the water. One of my friends shout
out to Jazz, my old roommate she had, was like, Okay,
we're drunk. We need to order some food so we
can get ready and go to the restaurant. So Jazz
orders a bunch of food for the house or whatever.

Speaker 2 (01:40:18):
I don't know if.

Speaker 1 (01:40:19):
Lauren maybe thought she ordered something.

Speaker 2 (01:40:21):
I think I did. I think I thought I ordered
my own I think eating what happened was either way.
Jazz was like, don't worry.

Speaker 1 (01:40:31):
I think what happened was Lauren tried to order something
different and Jazz was like, I got it.

Speaker 2 (01:40:35):
Don't worry about order for the house everybody. So when
the food.

Speaker 1 (01:40:38):
Came in, it was like one box of like chicken.

Speaker 2 (01:40:41):
It wasn't even that much because it was supposed to be.

Speaker 1 (01:40:45):
A little because we was going out in Lauren has
been dead outside by the pool for like two hours
chicken thigh, whereas lest where's my food?

Speaker 2 (01:41:01):
Is nice food?

Speaker 1 (01:41:02):
He had no I ordered this, so Laura gets fertilized.

Speaker 2 (01:41:06):
She made this big. I mean yeah. So everybody was like.

Speaker 4 (01:41:13):
With me, I didn't want nothing to eat because there
was nothing less to It was two.

Speaker 2 (01:41:17):
We should have ordered something. Literally, she said. I I
was in your slim suit.

Speaker 1 (01:41:34):
And you was eating to that not I had the
two beets with the two and I think somebody said
something to Lord.

Speaker 2 (01:41:42):
I can't remember.

Speaker 1 (01:41:43):
This was like everybody and she was, wow, I'm not
taking it off my plate.

Speaker 2 (01:41:47):
I don't know. I don't know what you'll eat. I
know what I'm gonna said. Look, and jan is so sweet,
my sweet little ship. She was like, but none of that.

Speaker 1 (01:41:58):
He's just like, you know, like everybody hungry.

Speaker 2 (01:42:03):
It's no jazz is like she trus mediator. She's always
like her plate.

Speaker 1 (01:42:09):
Is so like a drumstick. I said, rice planting. But
it was a time, it was we had everything. This
is Lauren has been very conservative.

Speaker 4 (01:42:26):
Because the first time I met Lauren was the Houston
Show and she was drunk.

Speaker 2 (01:42:31):
Laura, you not Yeah, got out that was a crazy day. No,
was that not not gotten? That fight? Y? Yes? Yes
ass again pulled up afterwards because you took her. Was
this the night of ash yes? With the mother had

(01:42:55):
to run? It was, yeah, but it's a good day.
It was a good day. And tell me because I
fights niggas, I didn't make it that far.

Speaker 1 (01:43:08):
Yeah, and that was that was I was finna be
this thick.

Speaker 2 (01:43:11):
Ass I was. It was anything to promote.

Speaker 1 (01:43:14):
I'm demoting that song that you had and you didn't
even have it on Apple Music and everybody's like, where's
Lauren's song where.

Speaker 2 (01:43:21):
It's not done? But no, the one you sent me
was done. That was not done. You told me to
promote it.

Speaker 1 (01:43:26):
I did not you're talking about when you asked me about, like,
oh you should just the week.

Speaker 2 (01:43:31):
I was like, let me get it done. No, and
you said, go ahead and promote it because it'll be
ready by But it wasn't ready. It wasn't Is it
gonna be ready now?

Speaker 1 (01:43:42):
I'm finna take it and take it to my producer.

Speaker 2 (01:43:45):
What we finna do? What we doing? Can you can?
You got a studio right there? Are you an engineer?
Got a studio?

Speaker 1 (01:43:52):
So you really know how to like, are you I'm
a name?

Speaker 2 (01:44:02):
Yes, don't fight with us.

Speaker 1 (01:44:08):
Stop playing with us. We got professionals in the motherfucker. Okay,
So yeah, Lauren, you need to drop that song for
the I will drop it. It is not finished, So
y'all know how to drop that album. And like Lebron
James is like the e p on it. This dropped
her album and Jada was the e p on it

(01:44:28):
and you the EP to do that. I got that
ear bro you he don't drop that hot fire.

Speaker 2 (01:44:37):
We're finna changed the game. Watch what I do problem
when we fed?

Speaker 1 (01:44:43):
So anybody anybody got anything to do?

Speaker 2 (01:44:47):
You have you got your tech things?

Speaker 1 (01:44:48):
I com Yeah, so I do have an av company.
So if you're looking for surveillance, just total home motivation
or lighting control anything like that, just follow advanced underscore
environments on Instagram.

Speaker 2 (01:45:02):
Are just going to the website a tech girly you
in a different bade love that, Alice.

Speaker 1 (01:45:11):
Catch me at the red carpet, bitch, that's what you're
supposed to say.

Speaker 4 (01:45:15):
Yeah, No, I'm about I have NAACP image words. It's
live February twenty second and so like, yeah, that's all
I'm really working on Yeah. Oh yeah, I just did
a home renovation show that's going to be on bet
Her and that drops February twenty six.

Speaker 2 (01:45:36):
So it's a cute home renovation. You know.

Speaker 4 (01:45:40):
We went to four homes and you know, change a room,
you know, but they all have stories that go along
with why we chose them.

Speaker 2 (01:45:50):
So okay, okay, that's what I'm me and Raia working.

Speaker 1 (01:45:56):
I got the same stuff going on you every week
US Beautycollection dot com. Make sure y'all shop the Valentine's
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that stuff.

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It drops every Sunday. And make sure y'all tune in
poor subscribe to the channel period. Make sure y'all watch.

Speaker 1 (01:46:23):
It's Time that million. I agree, Yeah, make sure y'all
tune in every Monday.

Speaker 2 (01:46:30):
Love LEXP.

Speaker 1 (01:46:31):
We get messy, we get to the t we get
into the drama. It's a lot going on right now,
and I know y'all be wanting us to talk about
hot topics. I do that on Love LEXP. I'm trying
to get to one hundred k subscribers. We are on
the road there, so y'all make sure y'all go like, comment, subscribe,
love lexp every Monday at six pm.

Speaker 2 (01:46:50):
Okay, and what's the y'all next week?

Speaker 1 (01:46:52):
By y'all, y'all, make sure y'all share the content like subscribe,
follow all good stuff.

Speaker 2 (01:47:00):
And let me say this before we close off.

Speaker 1 (01:47:02):
Y'all, there is one Twitter account that is connected to
pour Minds.

Speaker 2 (01:47:06):
It's p O.

Speaker 1 (01:47:07):
You are underscore in my nds. Y'all are tagging the
wrong pour Minds page. If you see at poor minds
with no underscore, that is at fake page, do not
follow that page.

Speaker 2 (01:47:18):
Okay.

Speaker 1 (01:47:19):
They blocked me Andrea and the four Minds page on
both so we only have one Instagram, one Twitter, one TikTok.

Speaker 2 (01:47:29):
It's p O, you are underscore in my nds, all.

Speaker 1 (01:47:32):
Right, and we gotta hell a fake Facebook page on
the Facebook page it's our face. The crazy thing is
our Facebook page actually have the least amount of file.

Speaker 2 (01:47:42):
So if you're on Facebook, one.

Speaker 1 (01:47:43):
That's ours got the least amount of file, but one
that's not us got like two hundred and fifty. Thou'll
make if you actually look at the content because the
caption is like whoever it is, don't speak English because
their capches are like bumba clad?

Speaker 2 (01:47:56):
Should men? Should men pay? Bill? Should men pay Billy?

Speaker 1 (01:48:00):
Yes? No? Check answer below block block pull poyo.

Speaker 2 (01:48:07):
Like that's literally with the captions. I'm like you what
that DG bumbaclaud bomba.

Speaker 1 (01:48:11):
Claud You already now sway from side to side, day
to the all right you get it's the Gallatines girls shah,
the Gallatines girl g square.

Speaker 2 (01:48:28):
Hey here we go.

Speaker 6 (01:48:31):
Take a min and girl, come sit down and tell
us what's been having it?

Speaker 2 (01:48:36):
What's up in your face? I can see the page.
Don't you try to come that you cabby fun taking
the advantage and your passion because we come so far
for you feel alone. You don't let him walk in
your home.

Speaker 6 (01:48:52):
I'm telling you, girl, I can say I been crying
at your needs. Somebody the top to girl, I can
tell he's been and pretending that's paper.

Speaker 2 (01:49:02):
Lenny loves you. You don't have to be hot.

Speaker 6 (01:49:06):
And don't you be ashamed to say hurt you your girl?

Speaker 2 (01:49:09):
DM my girl. We have girls. Don't you know that
I love you?

Speaker 6 (01:49:14):
See, we don't don't know about him? And they let
him go because he needs me at stressed from the jobs,
and I ain't making it easy.

Speaker 2 (01:49:25):
I know you see host of the towns, but I
know he's being signed. You don't mean it because we
haunt you, but I need my man. I don't think
y'all under say. I'm telling you, girl, I can tell
he's been lying. Ain't need some talk to girl. I
can tell he's been and pretending that is papil Lady

(01:49:45):
loves you, girl. You don't have to be hot. Don't
you be ashamed to say I'm no girl? We are girls.

Speaker 3 (01:49:55):
Girl, Don't you know I love you?

Speaker 2 (01:50:01):
Come on in your follow this girl?

Speaker 5 (01:50:07):
I know you.

Speaker 2 (01:50:08):
You would see you had not hide from your friends.

Speaker 1 (01:50:24):
I have been knowing you since you seen you cannot
hide from your friend.

Speaker 2 (01:50:35):
Wow, period, don't you know that love?

Speaker 1 (01:50:42):
Wait?

Speaker 2 (01:50:43):
Wait me now, I haven't known you since you girl
trying to play with this? This is the boot leg worsion. Oh,
I picked the wrong one. That was my man and it.
Don't should be ashamed to say her and shop your girl?
You my girl?

Speaker 1 (01:50:59):
You go?

Speaker 2 (01:51:00):
Don't you know?

Speaker 7 (01:51:06):
Hey, Hey, Hey, I'm your girl.

Speaker 2 (01:51:19):
We love girls. Don't you know I love you? Don't
you know we love you.

Speaker 1 (01:51:30):
Yeah, don't you know we love you?

Speaker 2 (01:51:34):
Don't you know we love you? Don't you know we
love you? Don't you know we love you?

Speaker 1 (01:51:41):
Yeah? Don't you know we love you?

Speaker 2 (01:51:43):
What's he y'all?

Speaker 1 (01:51:44):
Next week, Gallitize Girls, Girls Free

Speaker 2 (01:52:06):
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