You're Done FT. Kash Doll

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Speaker 1 (00:22):
What's up, y'all. It's your girl Legs Peet and it's
your girl Dray in the call and you are tuned
in to another episode of Poor Mine.

Speaker 2 (00:29):
Where a drunk Mine speaks so birth but.

Speaker 1 (00:32):
We gotta guess today, We gotta guess surday.

Speaker 2 (00:38):
Y'all know.

Speaker 1 (00:39):
We are so excited, okay, because y'all have been blowing
our comments up at AUS tagging us all that stuff,
and we finally delivered. Okay, we made it happy for y'all.
We have the one, the only, the beautiful actress.

Speaker 2 (00:55):
Mom Hueen.

Speaker 1 (01:02):
That you ain't that youm yum. First of all, let
me ask this because I think I like to start
the episode off like this, especially when we have black
women on the show who are mother's bosses.

Speaker 2 (01:21):
How are you doing? How are you doing? You know what?
I'm good? Yeah, I'm good. You know. I just got
to a point where, you know, I just accept things
for it is what it is, and it makes my
life way more peaceful, you know, like it just is
what it is. Yeah, you know what I'm saying, And
that's just lately, that's just all I say. Here is
what it is. You know what I'm saying. I accept it,

(01:42):
and I try to change it because I don't like it.
You just accept things for what it is and you
find a way to live through that. You know, because
one thing about life, something's always want to be happening
every So once you realize how to live life with
things happening all the time, that's when you start living
because that shit ain't gonna stop, you know what I'm saying.
It's always it's always something. It's always throwing a carved volage. Okay.

(02:09):
It's like once you just get jiggy with the fact
that you know that's what makes life creative. It's like
you just got to look at it like, oh, that's creative.
You know it is what it is, and then just
keep a pushing. So I'm fine right now. I'm in
a very good space.

Speaker 1 (02:23):
Good because you look good.

Speaker 2 (02:24):
You look I'm over here, like y'all look good to
y'all are both of y'all are beautiful. I'm it's just
some things that I like. I'm from Detroit. Yeah, I
love me some furs and some jewelry and some furss y'all.
That's my that's my thing.

Speaker 1 (02:47):
We went to Detroit for the first time last year
and I feel like we say these every time we
have somebody from Detroit. I'm sure we just gotta let
them know we love Detroit so bad. Like we had
so much fun. That was probably the bish that we
had last year we were on tour. Yes, I think
I do know because my best friends. Yeah, she asked

(03:08):
me one time to come on here.

Speaker 2 (03:09):
I'm like, I will be. I'm gonna wait until it's
time for me to come on there, like when I
yeah something. She was like, Okay, I'm gonna tell them
because I've seen Rope came on payroll. Oh but I
see he came on here, so so yeah, y'all talking
about that time.

Speaker 1 (03:22):
Yeah, yeah's a garden theater.

Speaker 2 (03:25):
Yeah, so I'm not gonna lie. I've never been to Detroit.

Speaker 1 (03:31):
Yeah, and I wasn't excited because it was kind of
like I knew it was gonna be kind of cold. Yeah,
and I'm a Texas girl to the core of Okay,
I was like, my expectations wasn't high. But it's like
I'm like, I don't. I'm like, do we even have
a fan base in Detroit? But he ended up selling
out and I'm like, yeah, no, Detroit.

Speaker 2 (03:50):
When I'm gonna tell you the fact that y'all tickets
sold out. It's freak because Detroit is funny acting Detroit,
And every time I come to Houston's a time of
my life, Babe.

Speaker 1 (04:03):
I think that's what it is. When you go where
you're not from, they show you way more love.

Speaker 2 (04:09):
You don't think so no the love.

Speaker 1 (04:13):
They they be trying to play us. They trying to
low ball us with the bookings and some years.

Speaker 2 (04:20):
Girl, but oh no, you know they feel like that's home. Yeah,
and I think that's what anybody at home. They're gonna try.
But y'all are y'all dope. We had a time and I.

Speaker 1 (04:31):
Could not believe like they had the room rocking.

Speaker 2 (04:35):
Yeah, and they play a lot. D is so sweet.
I love a girl's girl. That is my heart. I
know I has my heart. That is my soul. Make friend,
my soul, my lover. That girl. I get emotional sometimes,

(04:56):
like really, there, she's who she she's her, like what
very genuine? Yeah, but she don't let everybody in her
space because she's so genuine. It's like I don't feel
like she could spread herself like that. You know what
I'm saying. Everybody is not available. They can't be in
kindred space, but when you in it, it's a time.

(05:16):
Meet like in high school at church, at church. Really
we met at church. We were young, still coming out
of middle school, and she always had her hair done
and fly and I always just fly, but I need
her to do my hair. And that's what started with
my hair. And we used to our way of like
filling each other. I was like, I like your shoes,

(05:37):
and She'll walk past me like, oh, I like your shirt,
and I'm like thank you, thank you. The next day
we'll see each other and I'll be like, I like
your shoes. She was like I like your pants, and
I'm like thank you. And then one day I was
like I like your hair. She was like I did it.
I'm like, really, like can you do my hair? She's like, yeah,
come over. I went over that girl house. We've been
best friends every single We used to be in church

(05:58):
texting each other on our little no kias play a
Snake and we used to be just texting and talking
crap like that is my heart I love. Yeah.

Speaker 1 (06:14):
Yeah.

Speaker 2 (06:15):
We never had an argument. The only time we had
disagreements is when she didn't do my hair. That's crazy.
She never did nothing foul to me, and if we
if if we ever felt any type of way about anything,
it's like a real, like simple conversation, never raising our

(06:35):
voice or like I'm not talking to you, no, I
feel you.

Speaker 1 (06:39):
The fact that y'all were young, and you know, when
you go and you're growing and you're immature a lot
of startings, you don't handle situations. The fact that y'all
went through growing up and becoming women and never.

Speaker 2 (06:51):
She'll tell you, never that. And I think it's the
reason why is because you know, like you said, some
people do growth, grow through things. Yeah, right, But I
think that it's because me and her is really the
same person, but we're not. It's the craziest shit, but
we're the same person. And it's so easy to treat
a person how you want to be treated. And it
never stopped. Yeah, it never stopped. It's just always been

(07:12):
like I wouldn't do that. I'm not gonna post that
because she wouldn't like or even if I think she'll
think or whatever, even though that's never the case neither, right,
It's just never been no bullshit. They never talked about
me behind my back. We always it's just like I
genuinely love me some motherfucking candrel I would be a
bit I love that too. I feel like I have
a friend like that too.

Speaker 1 (07:33):
Her name Lynn, and she is Saga series too. Okay,
well it's like I'm a toy.

Speaker 2 (07:37):
Oh you're a tourist. Okay, okay, okay, but my.

Speaker 1 (07:39):
Best friend is a sag the series too, like Hendri
and like, I feel like we have a relationship like
that as well. Like we never had an argument, never
gotten into it. But we became friends when I was
like twenty six, so it's been in adulthood. It's been
like eight years now, but we're adults, so I'm like, okay,
we never had an argument, but like Lake said, coming
from knowing each other in the middle school, and y'all,

(07:59):
never had an issue, never had not talking.

Speaker 2 (08:02):
We always talk. We always or like if she ain't
hit me and she like, I remember when she won
her senior trip and she ain't talk to me for
like two days, right, And I'm a piss I'm a
little spoiled, a little emotional. I won my time, yeah,
you know, and I get spoiled, y'all. I'm used to

(08:23):
getting things when I want to. I want it so
I can't get my hair done. You and answer the phone.
I'm trying to ask you what shirt? You know what
I'm saying with shirt to wear with this, and you
ain't saying nothing. But when she came back, she just
knew how to make me feel better. She brought me
a souvenir and it was a I had just got
my belly button peers and she brought me a belly
button ring. I was like, I missed you, and I
was like, I'm not mad. So it's always been like

(08:45):
little stuff like that, yeah, you know, and it's just
like it's still a relationship, like friendships are relationships. They
are people think like their significant others like the only
relationship that they prioritize. And you know, you have to
every relationship in your life. I agree, your business. You
gotta nurture every relationship in your life, your your business relationships,

(09:07):
your kids, your kid's relationship, your man, your friends, your mother,
your your sisters, all those relationships have to be nurtured
in some type of way to keep it healthy. I
believe you know, you can't neglect nothing in your life.

Speaker 1 (09:19):
I remember when y'all went viral because I can't remember
whose birthday, it was what are y'all gifted the other?
One of barking? And I sent that to all my friends.
I said, step your cookies up, step it up.

Speaker 2 (09:31):
I bought Kendre a Burken before I got myself one.
That you that with that. I bought her a Burken
before I bought myself one. Because every time it's time
to gift her, I think of things that I will
want because we like the same ship. Right, what do
I want that I haven't gotten yet, or that's cost
too much that I'm not spending it or something. Let
me just break the ice? Yeah, you feel me? And

(09:53):
I was like a Burken. And that year I gave
her a Chanelle first. So she opened the box and
seeing the white chanelle and she was so excited about that. Yeah,
I'm like, no, which, that's mine. Here you go bring
that orange spots out here. And they brought that orange
spot said no you didn't. I said yes right now.

Speaker 1 (10:09):
She was so happy and we had a good time.
But I'll always go viral for giving each other. Y'all
always give each other the best year, Like if your
relationship is really that's my dog, Yeah, that's feel like
it shows that women can coeag especially two beautiful, successful
women exactly. They have a healthy relationship with no drama.

Speaker 2 (10:30):
No.

Speaker 1 (10:31):
People always love to believe that black women we can't
be friends without any drama are jealous.

Speaker 2 (10:36):
Yeah. Yeah, and and it always been like that, you know,
and it takes too, it takes two. I can't take
all the credit for that. She is a very great friend. Yeah,
she's a very great friend, even though sometimes I'd be like,
what's you doing, Like I've been texting your phone.

Speaker 1 (10:53):
M h.

Speaker 2 (10:54):
Life is happening. It's it's it's a it's a balance. Yeah.
But see, I'm the one who gonna she she's gonna
start some stuff from me in person. Okay, you know
I'm saying it right when I feel it. And now
she's about to lay all this ship on me, and
I'm like, hilarious, not you, Oh so you were just.

Speaker 1 (11:19):
Waiting for the right She's look, she can get her evidence,
she fought, she can get it big too.

Speaker 2 (11:24):
And then as soon as I say, well you you
was having too much fun when you was with and
she was like, I know you ain't talking because like, oh,
I be like, girl, I'm not about to argue with you.

Speaker 1 (11:36):
What you do right anyway, So I'm gonna take it
back a little bit. I want to talk about like
growing up in Detroit, because, like I said, I'm from
the South.

Speaker 2 (11:45):
I'm from a very, very small town.

Speaker 1 (11:47):
So like once I got out of you know, my
small town and I moved to Houston, and now being
in Atlanta, you know, I like to learn about how
different people grew up because I grew up, like I said,
in the country. So I always like to get people's experience,
Like how was it like growing up in Detroit.

Speaker 2 (12:04):
You know, I had a good time. Yeah, I'm not
even about to sit up here and cat out. I
had a great time in Detroit. It wasn't all gravy though,
yeah saying, but you know I used to have I
used to fight, you know, I had dance contests. You know.
I always was like a dreamer. I always dreamed of
this cash doll girl. I always dreamed of her. You know.

(12:28):
I used to draw a lot and they stayed outside
a very my mom for Christmas. I used to always
like get big. My mom used to buy big playing
posters and pencils and paint brushes, you know, so I
did a lot of that stuff. I always listen to music.
So I always got CD player, I pad pods and

(12:48):
all that stuff, you know, and sometimes I would be
by myself, but I was I was always popular, y'all.
That's the crazy part. I was the girl, that girl
in the neighborhood. I was that girl at school, you know,
before I even got on social it was like I
was always like one of those girls. Yeah, and I
used to have I make the best of it. And
I grew up in a household. It was six of us,

(13:08):
you know what I'm saying. I'm the oldest of six,
so it wasn't as flashy as I would have liked it.
But as soon as I turned fifteen, I got a job.
I know, that's right, That's how I was. I got
a job mister Alice's shoe factory, and I worked and
I was buying myself shoes every day, like I like
to be, like I've always been like that something that

(13:29):
I it's in me, you know what I'm saying. And
I grew up and you know, I was into this.
I was this girl yard. I had this vision in
my head.

Speaker 1 (13:40):
But I think that shows in a lot of people,
to like a lot of people who have the career
that they do now.

Speaker 2 (13:44):
They've always been that girl. It's always been something like even.

Speaker 1 (13:49):
If we look at like stuff like Beyonce, even though
she's always been shy, it's like footage of her just
dancing and singing it everywhere, just always sticking out, you
know what I'm saying.

Speaker 2 (13:59):
So always it's always yeah, like you could tell when
you like you you always wanted to do that, you
know what I'm saying. And I always did. Like even
like when I was younger, my mom said, you know,
I used to be standing on the couch with my
comb and my breast singing Anita Baker. When I used
to come to my parties, at my like my family parties,

(14:20):
they used to be like, yeah, come on, it's a
little you know how to dance. She thinks she knows
how to dance, should come sure, how to do it.
I's coming there, like oh, like I was looking for me,
like coming there already. Yeah. So man, I just always

(14:43):
been like this. I got to a point where I
had like three jobs. I worked at Little Caesar, better Made,
Chip Factory, best Buy, all that was not I liked.
Coach at the time was my favorite. Yeah. I had

(15:03):
all the part and I wanted to keep my hair done.
You know what I'm saying. Or you ever a Dooney
and Bird girl. I never got into dony b.

Speaker 1 (15:14):
I had a little everybody you know in certain areas,
Yeah that's popular.

Speaker 2 (15:18):
Oh yeah, do you.

Speaker 1 (15:20):
Be feeling like pressure to like always have your hair laid?

Speaker 2 (15:23):
No. But I told somebody the other day when they said, listen,
cash out, it's never nothing is never out of place,
And I said, let me tell you something. You might
catch me outside with the head scarphone because my wig
braids is in and I'm hydrating my hair. Listen'll better
stop thinking that I don't be looking. I got my time,

(15:46):
and I had my time when I'm ugly. Let me
enjoy myself. No make up, no lashes, no weave. I
like to have my time.

Speaker 1 (15:55):
Well, I'll say this what I mean though, I feel
like sometimes you see like a celebrity or a person,
they'll do an interview or they'll do red carpet and.

Speaker 2 (16:05):
Be like, ooh they missed. It's a hit on me.
I think like when.

Speaker 1 (16:08):
People see you, you don't ever have like it's always polish,
always like me. You know, my wig might be slad,
it might be too light, not flitted.

Speaker 2 (16:25):
Surprised when I'm polished together today. But I think that's
what it is about you.

Speaker 1 (16:35):
Like when we see you, it's always very much hairlaid this,
you know, it's like very well put.

Speaker 2 (16:41):
Against, always put against, always, y'all. I really take pride
in that, I know. So I appreciate that because sometimes
I think, well, lately I've been noticing, haven't been going unnoticed,
you know, because I'm seeing it way more now. But
I used to be like, oh, well, you know that's
what they like, you know. Yeah, like what I have
to bring to the test, fine, and it's fine, but

(17:02):
this is me. This is genuinely me, you know. And
like I told y'all, like from fifteen, I was buying shoes,
you know, I like outfits. I sit there and I
put this stuff together all day every day. I know, oh,
I want to have this color next week, or best friend,
she'll send me a goddamn load of mink Brazilian shout
out to mink Brazilian. Yeah, she had sent us some here.

Speaker 1 (17:22):
I said, listen, because it really is hair. Yeah, body
way yea early and I had curly.

Speaker 2 (17:31):
Yeah you have curly.

Speaker 1 (17:32):
I had straight and we had a really big episode
to record. We was recording for that one.

Speaker 2 (17:37):
So I went, I got.

Speaker 1 (17:38):
My hair done, I show Yeah, okay, talk about me now,
so what did you get it?

Speaker 2 (17:46):
A quick?

Speaker 1 (17:47):
We were so I ended up she gave me the
bundles and then I ended up ordering a closure, so
I had got like a little unit made.

Speaker 2 (17:54):
I still got im about to say them units. Listen,
laugh forever. Hello. Even the burgaining when I just had
on like probably like a week or so ago, that's
an old I'm talking about like two week three. Yes,
but I rinsed it, re rinsed it, put that boy
back on it. Listen. I know my hairstyle is hate
to see me. Come what I want cash?

Speaker 1 (18:19):
Give me that video she did when you had just
got your hair.

Speaker 2 (18:25):
The curtain bag. Give me this right now, give me that.
It's also like knowing how to keep it up. Yeah,
it's it's the way that you keep your hair up.
You have to if you don't have silk pillowcases and
silk sheets. Beat it, yeah, beat it. That cotton gonna
dry that hair out, is going to make it flat
when you lay on it. When you lay on that silk,

(18:46):
you won't even get creases in it. Get creases in
your hair, like even if you don't get a chance
to put it up. Let me go my hair off
this couch. Okay, I creasing up for real because my tips, bitch.

Speaker 1 (18:59):
But I think it's the same way Dre like y'all
remind because she's very like but you.

Speaker 2 (19:05):
Know what I have to deal with DC yesterday. Don't
come in here with that. I'm just saying that.

Speaker 1 (19:11):
I'm just saying, look now I'm taking my tip because
DREDA know me.

Speaker 2 (19:15):
I wait back when I get home, I take the
wig off. I'm mad at that. I'm not mad at that.
I'm happy. It might be sliding back and bit Dred
be like we be on the stack. She's like, but
I think.

Speaker 1 (19:28):
For me, But I do appreciate women like y'all because
like I was a tomboy girl. Yeah, but I think
y'all being so like into it, like it kind of
rubs off on me a little bit, you know, And
I think that's good for women to see, like you
can have that balance, like you said, like it's cool
to be polished, but hey, every time, it ain't gonna
hit every time, but work on it, get it together.
So yeah, gets to the point where it's always it's

(19:51):
always there, practice, make perfect. I'm ten percent cash se.

Speaker 2 (20:00):
I know she's talking about because you know what, I
think that when I'm on, I'm so on that when
I'm off, I'm so off, like I'm talking about, I
might just like, who is that? I be like homeless?
It's no in between with me. It's homeless.

Speaker 1 (20:20):
I can't say for you because I haven't seen your
homeless look, but her homeless look it has given my
bad bitch look.

Speaker 2 (20:29):
I'm like, damn, bitch, you looked at you like I'm depressed.
I was like, you ain't you ain't that up? My
homeless is really homeless. Okay, homeless is really hard.

Speaker 1 (20:42):
If that, I wonder what you'll your homeless look like.
If you're homeless, y'all, they probably don't look look like.

Speaker 2 (20:48):
My homeless look. Dan, my homeless homeless look like. She's like, well,
they don't give homeless. I know it, y'all don't understand.
Only time it don't give homeless is if my real
hair is out and then ain't braided down. Yeah, when
that hair braided out, it's homeless. When nobody say I

(21:09):
let them lie to me when their hair is braided up,
in the Wig Breaks book, It's Giving Home.

Speaker 1 (21:17):
Y'all know that scene in Cadillac Records when y'all say
it was Edna James and she was crying and she
had that little short wing.

Speaker 2 (21:24):
She was like, that's how you know? What was it?
I can't remember that movie that queen.

Speaker 1 (21:29):
It she having her braid too. But then I don't
know what be going on at the front. It just
be a whole bunch of hair everything.

Speaker 2 (21:39):
Half bro. I don't care. I'm living.

Speaker 3 (21:45):
I'm not mad at that Thio life.

Speaker 1 (21:47):
Look, I got video truth. I gotta give y'all when
I can't give.

Speaker 2 (21:52):
Y'all okay and just accept it.

Speaker 1 (21:56):
I think what it is to I don't try to
dip in other people like like, of course I want
to look good.

Speaker 2 (22:00):
But I know what y'all here for, y'all, here for
the joke.

Speaker 1 (22:03):
If y'all want some makeup tips, y'all, they be looking
at the girls, you know they want some hairtips.

Speaker 2 (22:07):
They looking at cash doll. If y'all want some jokes,
I know what y'all know.

Speaker 1 (22:11):
You know, I think everybody can take from everybody in.

Speaker 2 (22:14):
Certain a certain areas. Just just know you're laying and
stay there. Yeah, you know, you can grow with different things.
That's one thing about that damn Kendra that is a perfectionist. Really,
I mean you can tell back her daughter if you
tell something about your damn Kendre. I used to be like,
I'm outside, we're not going to prime. Come on, oh yeah,
now yes, now I'm leaving. And then as soon as

(22:37):
she come out side, I'm like I want to be
She'd be like, you want to see what I got?
I don't know. I want to be surprised. I start
doing this thing.

Speaker 1 (22:46):
When we be like out of town and she be
getting dressed, I'll just walk out the hotel like I'm
standing in the hotel door, just like open the door.
Let her know, like come on, come walk out like
I can't find my phone and still be in the bear.

Speaker 2 (22:59):
I'll be like, bro oh, like she long to get ready,
but it shows we'll get to a point where we're
just telling each other how good we look. You you
killing that's a black queen, right. Okay, So of course
I did my research.

Speaker 1 (23:20):
So you went to college, yeah, my father, So what
was your pevotal point that made you be like, okay,
you know what I'm not doing these nowhere like I
want to be a performer. That's my dream. I'm gonna
chase my dream. And my goal wasn't it you know what?
I leave whatever don't serve me no more.

Speaker 2 (23:41):
And when I'm there and I'm just I'm forcing myself,
Like what I tell people, I don't never force myself.
I might apply some pressure and I'm not forcing nothing.
If it's just not there, it's not there because I'm
not going to give it my own right. And once
that left and I was I was so into making
fast money. I was so into making money, that's all
I knew, y'all. You know what I'm saying. I was like, Nah,

(24:03):
this ain't it. This ain't it. And I just, you know,
pay people that did do it right, because you know,
it's jobs for them and they're great at what they do. Yeah,
it wasn't for me. It's like you said, it's the
lame for everybody. I know it's for me, and I
wouldn't know it ain't What did you go to What
were you trying to go to school for? I did
business management? Okay, yeah, business management, yep, I did that.

(24:26):
I was in there for like two three years. Okay, yeah,
I want to fast forward a little bit.

Speaker 1 (24:30):
But before we get into that tie, what're we drinking today?
Because you hardy and got me a little chatty. Now
I was trying to be.

Speaker 2 (24:36):
Too, and I love this right?

Speaker 1 (24:40):
How did her biggest one on this champagne?

Speaker 2 (24:43):
Like? What utah?

Speaker 1 (24:45):
This is from our Midwest queen, Okay, And it's cash
all herself. This one is called the cash commandment. A
little smoke because who owns the smoke?

Speaker 2 (24:54):
All right? All right?

Speaker 1 (24:57):
So when you can have your spirit of choice, you
have a little lemon juice, a little grapefruit juice. I
used an ube syrup, which is made from sweet like
a purple yam. I would get like fig vanilla, a
little flavoring to that. And then we had it just
a little pinch of butterfly pea droplets. So before we've
used the butterfly pea powder and now we've used some
droplets for it. And then I have some pomegranate seeds

(25:20):
floating at the bottom. And then we just lit a
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We got a little buttle something you different.

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Almost almost there, But I'm gonna ask you that we
got a butterfly pee in it seed just a little bit. Yeah, yes,
well no I knew it was because of the just
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Speaker 2 (29:28):
You because you have been going viral.

Speaker 1 (29:32):
I don't know if you've seen it, like for the
past few weeks, because you did an appearance on Batties.
Oh yeah yeah, and everybody was like cash Doll looked
like she don't want to be there.

Speaker 2 (29:40):
That you. She was shook. She was like, oh my god,
the ratchetess and this and that.

Speaker 1 (29:45):
So I kind of want you to clear the air
on like your facial expression that you could be honest,
this is a safe snme. How did you feel seeing
that and see because I'm not gonna lie to you
like I'm thirty five, Like you know what I'm saying.

Speaker 2 (29:57):
The batties that ain't for me.

Speaker 1 (29:58):
Okay, it's a little I don't like to see the
girls doing things like that, but it's an audience for that.

Speaker 2 (30:05):
Motherfuckers can fight.

Speaker 1 (30:06):
I can't fight, Okay, But like I said, how did
you feel seen that and seen.

Speaker 2 (30:12):
That in person?

Speaker 1 (30:13):
Like was it kind of like, Okay, this is not
as bad as people think it is, or was it
like shocking?

Speaker 2 (30:19):
To be honest, I didn't know what I was walking into.
I haven't watched the show. Yeah, I didn't know what
I was walking into. I know the girls, like some
of the girls I like, like Natalie and Tsiki. You
know a few of them. I know a few of them,
so I've seen them on the internet. And my sister
actually watched the show, so she was like, Keisha, you
know that you know it go down? And I'm like,

(30:41):
I mean, I'm sure I've seen fights. I'm from Detroit,
you know what I'm saying. And I used to fight.
I haven't thought I don't know how long when I
had to girl, Yeah, I did, I think my big
ass be fighting. I'll be the one running. But the
back of these big I ain't gonna tell y'all. I'm

(31:03):
gonna just give y'all a little. I went to jail
because of Kendrew before, so I'm just allna put my
girl up in and stuff there. But that one right there,
I had to turn myself in because her. But we're
gonna leave that there, leave that there. So I wasn't
aware of, you know, like the reasoning, Like I know,

(31:25):
a fight, like when you got to you gonna do
what you gotta do is protect yourself. But it was
just so much. It was so much, you know what
I'm saying, And I just it was just us women
as black women on there just doing that for any
for no reason, for the girl that didn't do nothing
to you, you know what I'm saying. And that's just
the only part. Like I don't even want to speak

(31:46):
on it. You know, they gave, they did what they did.
Appreciate them. And I didn't know I was gonna get
captured like that.

Speaker 1 (31:54):
When I was like yeah, you was like it was like.

Speaker 2 (32:00):
You know, you couldn't hide. You don't have a poker face.
I don't because I was like, and that's what all
my friends were saying. You do not have a poker.

Speaker 1 (32:09):
Face because you was like you like you were clutching
at first, like oh my god, what is going on.

Speaker 2 (32:15):
It's just gonna show on your face eating when you
think you hide and eat, you can't fake it. And
it was just like, oh, what the hell.

Speaker 1 (32:23):
You're sticking out like a sore thumb. I'm not gonna
lie to your friends when she don't belong the clip
of me.

Speaker 2 (32:32):
All I was like, oh wow, yeah, I look like
one of those women that just.

Speaker 1 (32:38):
Oh my goodness, who said that clutching your eyes?

Speaker 2 (32:44):
Clutching that ice.

Speaker 1 (32:45):
Not the pearl.

Speaker 2 (32:51):
And then you know, my girl went on there Jasmine Renee,
this is funny. Yeah, no, she's She's hilarious. That's one
of them. I always think about her. When she said
forty who that damn jazz man, I'll be like you,
like I always tell her stuff like you was just obedient.
This is the conversations we have and she's like what
I do, like I ain't doing? Kyle, Like, yes you did.

(33:13):
She'll call me for some advice, y'all. I still on
the phone with this girl for a hour, giving her advice,
great advice. She'll get off the phone with me and
go do the total opposite. And I'd be like, Jasmine,
why did you just don't call me for nothing else? Yeah,
And I said, don't call me for nothing else. She
called me next week about some shit. But she's on
there right now, so you know, that was the reason

(33:33):
why I was like, Okay, I'm gonna go. You know. Yeah,
it was like to support to support my friends. Yeah,
it all worked out because she's on there and ship
and we had a good it was. It was cool.
It was cool. I like that. Okay, That's why I
had to ask the people. You know, the people was wondering.
People have been asking. They wanted me to respond to
that too, and I'm just like, I believe it where
it's at because I don't look down on nobody, right,

(33:56):
I do you know what I'm saying? Like we the
same way.

Speaker 1 (33:58):
We had a clip, right, It was an episode we
did and they cut the clip and the clip basically
we were talking about Baddies and we was just saying
how we don't watch the show and we were just like, oh,
we feel like because it like makes black women look
bad to a certain extent. And they was like, well,
what's y'all talk about when y'all used to be doing
y'all show, Because we've been doing the.

Speaker 2 (34:18):
Show for a long time, they'd be like six years.

Speaker 1 (34:20):
We started off on my one of the one of
the bedrooms in my apartment.

Speaker 2 (34:24):
We started off recording on the floor.

Speaker 1 (34:26):
Yes, started from the bottom literally. So they was like, well,
it's the same stuff y'all used to be talking about
back in the day.

Speaker 2 (34:34):
They dream chass too. I was like, y'all be getting
a little too not they dream chases too, I mean,
but they are.

Speaker 1 (34:44):
I guess for me, Like I said once, I've seen
like a clip on Twitter, because they always go viral
on Twitter. I've seen somebody too fell out?

Speaker 2 (34:51):
Seen it? Yeah, I thought I've seen somebody to get
knocked out? Didnt somebody piece of break get pulled off
their scalp? Why at the audiention.

Speaker 1 (35:00):
Yes, I'm telling you, it's very It's a difference between
like fighting, but it's very barbary.

Speaker 2 (35:06):
It's hurting each other. Yes, it's very very violent. And
don't get me wrong, if a person is defending themself
or it's a reason behind it, you kind of look
at it different when it's like just just because this
is why we hear. It's like, damn what they said,
zoos be paying they know zeus name paying on no

(35:28):
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Speaker 2 (38:24):
Crashing out over a man. Oh man, So.

Speaker 1 (38:28):
I have recently, not recently, I've always seen like when
a girl get mad at a man, she runs online
posting stories, posting receipts, she arguing with the other girl.
They going back and forth on Instagram, they arguing on Twitter,
they posting everything. So I wanted to know y'all's thoughts
on like crashing out over man. Do you feel like
sometimes they deserve that and you need to let the

(38:50):
world know how he's treating you, or do y'all believe
in just moving on gracefully?

Speaker 2 (38:55):
I believe in a mixture. Okay, you're a little bad,
we're gonna get we're gonna get a little creative. Okay.
And this is why I say this. I wouldn't go
to the internet telling all my business that's what thing,
But he gonna know how I feel. Yeah, you know,
because some people need to know how it how that
makes you feel. It need to impact. You need to
leave an impact some people for them to change, even

(39:17):
not even for me, for the next bitch, for the
next person you get that's of some type of value.
You need to know not to do that, you know
what I'm saying, Or for the next woman you know,
your your kids, or whoever. You need to learn from that.
Because I feel like moving on gracefully. People take advantage
of that. They're not a good person's Yeah you know,
what I'm saying, you moving on gracefully, they'll take advantage

(39:38):
like okay, yeah, cool, next victim. Right, But you know what.

Speaker 1 (39:42):
I also feel too, I feel like even if you
don't move on gracefully, we will see a man dog
out a woman that we you know, like we can
see what's going on. Maybe he cheated on her, maybe
he trapped her, whatever the case the case. Maybe, but
there still be women that be like, oh, I don't care,
he's the fuck with cash? Do I'm finna get on?

Speaker 2 (39:58):
Oh yeah, okay, I feel like that don't have the
same I'm finna talk to him. I don't care what.
Mother the fucking luck come after me, good luck, good luck.

Speaker 1 (40:18):
That's what's crazy, because it's like, that's why I feel
like sometimes I feel like I understand the crash out
and because it's like I'm a leo.

Speaker 2 (40:27):
That up. I'm not against crash right, Let's be one
hundred percent clear, because when people do crash out, But
like that's how you felt own that ship. It is
what it is. You can't take it back. I'm moving forward.
How would you handle it? You know what I'm saying.
You see how that made you feel like you crashed out,
you know, because even when I announced my break my breakup,
you know, some people's like, you don't even do that,

(40:47):
you don't come into the internet. And it was like
I felt like that at the time. I don't take
it back, and it is what it is.

Speaker 1 (40:52):
And you know what, I'm too like, I wouldn't count
you like what you did as a crash out. I
feel like you were just letting the people know because
like wondering what was going on.

Speaker 2 (41:00):
You know what I'm saying. I didn't go on there
and say, yeah, my baby daddy this and he does
da da or this is what happened, And I didn't
do all that. It was just I'm just gonna get
away from like that's why they filling me up with

(41:20):
this champagne. Yeah, because I'm about to just kill it off,
you know. But no, no, no, what you was saying.
It was just me and my baby dad. We just
you know, I think we just grew apart. Yeah, it
don't happen, you know, and we really it's healthy, were graceful.
I just want him to be a great dad to
my kids. That's it at this point, you know, I

(41:42):
don't think we just mentally are in the same yeah.

Speaker 1 (41:46):
Because sometimes that happens, and I think a lot of
the world look at it like, oh, it's a bad thing.
But if you are a person who is spiritual and
emotionally intelligent, you're constantly growing. Yeah, and another person is
constantly grown. But y'all may be growing like yeah, different
ways instead of growing like this.

Speaker 2 (42:03):
Yes, and that's okay, But I won't count what you
did as a crash out.

Speaker 1 (42:07):
I was like, okay, and I think too, it's important
for people to see because I feel like this. I
don't know you personally, this is the first time I've
ever met you, but being somebody who's like a fan
of yours and i've you know, watch your social media,
I feel like you handled it the right way and
women need to see that.

Speaker 2 (42:23):
And I kept going, I didn't you didn't them? Yeah,
and I'm not sure I'm not acting like I don't
give a fuck. I'm hurt. Yeah, I'm hurt. I had
two kids with somebody. I thought that that was going
to be it. You know I'm saying, of course I
didn't want it to go that way. I wouldn't have
had the kids, right, you know what I'm saying. So

(42:44):
I'm not about to beat the bitch on there and
trying to act tough and no, my heart gate broken
to I'm human like you. Things happen time. It's time
to go on, you know. And it's no hard feelings.
I'm not trying to do nothing to tarnish that man,
none of that. You know. It is what it is.

Speaker 1 (43:02):
It's crazy because I was having a conversation with my
friend the other day and she's going through a breakup
or whatever, and she was telling me. She was like, yeah,
I'm going out tomorrow and going outside, but I went
out last night. It don't make me feel better, but
I just want to be like, you know, showing that
I'm outside, I'm not bothered, I'm having fun. I did
the problem because you shouldn't be going out to show

(43:22):
him that if you're trying.

Speaker 2 (43:24):
To, if you're trying to, yes, hell yes and cry
and get it out and let you and be honest,
be vulnerable. It's okay. You know how many other people
can relate to that. Everybody's not fake tough. It's okay.
You got your heart broken, you got to let down,
you got cheated on too, you got this. It is okay. Yeah,

(43:46):
it's okay. Life goes on. He'll face the problem. Face it,
don't drink it, don't get drunk. I'm gonna be in
your section crying.

Speaker 1 (43:55):
Don't invite me to the club when I'm saying why
as soon as that the end of the club close
and they playing Usher all that ship and the love
it and you know you are about to go home,
I'm crying.

Speaker 2 (44:10):
I'm okay. No, when that song come on, turn up,
I feel like that, I'm still crying. I ain't got
on it. And then oh and my baby daddy bout
sexy bread. Listen my songs right there. But when they
go when the slow songs come on, now, I'm looking

(44:31):
at everybody, see I'm a real cry.

Speaker 1 (44:33):
But then he hit different too than in the club
than when you in the car. And then come on.

Speaker 2 (44:40):
Your heart broken.

Speaker 1 (44:41):
And that's why I said, I think we as women
like we feel like when we go through a breakup,
you gotta put on your sixty dress on your story.

Speaker 2 (44:47):
The nigga never says you was ugly. He just he
just don't want to. It just didn't work. You bad.

Speaker 1 (44:53):
Yeah, nothing that you're not proving nothing because I used
to be that girl like oh, let me post, let
me post.

Speaker 2 (45:00):
Yeah.

Speaker 1 (45:01):
Now the worse when you're posting for him and he don't.

Speaker 2 (45:07):
And then you got like an hour left before the story. Man,
I gets so many now viewers. I wouldn't even I
don't even John, I'd be such in a place like
healing for me is really like and not even talking
about my situation with my child's father or like you
know that that is what it is. I'm this way

(45:28):
right so, but it's like even for me when I'm
going through things, I kind of just get it out
my way. Yeah, out of sight, out of mind. I
take pictures down. I don't want to follow. I don't
want to see you. I don't want you to see me.
I'm not even looking to see I don't want it
because it's like, yeah, it's like that's when it's out
of sight, out of mind, and I'm focusing on healing

(45:51):
and and facing what. What What did God want to
teach me in this situation? What? Because everything is a
lesson everything that happens to you, you that touches you,
that hurts you, or they even make you happy. It's
like it's lessons in every blessing, you know. And I
be learning. I be trying to focus on what what
is God trying to teach me? Why did I go

(46:13):
through that? Why am I why? You know what I'm saying,
and trying to focus on, Okay, moving forward? What could
I do better? You know what I'm saying, Even it
ain't it's never us, you know what I'm saying, but
just you as a woman? What could I do better
as a woman, as a mother, as a boss, as
a as an entrepreneur. It's like, what could I do better?

(46:33):
To just make myself feel better? And I get in
my bag of just better in myself. I don't go
rush to another nigga. I'm not rushing to go be outside.
I see, my my job is being outside, but I
get paid to be outside. You know, I'm putting all
that energy into my craft instead of putting that energy
into trying to show a motherfucker anything that they already know.

(46:55):
I mean, it's like I'm when I put everybody know
what's up? You know? And it's like I just put
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Speaker 1 (47:09):
You're in the call, y'all know we are always going
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therapist Carrie. She's been my therapist for probably that last
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(47:30):
covered so much ground, we have had so many different
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Speaker 2 (47:33):
Yeah, so shout out to her.

Speaker 1 (47:35):
She's probably my second or third therapist that I've had
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Yes, And also I want to give a shout out
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Speaker 2 (48:29):
Are you dating? And I'm open? You open? I'm open
today and I mean I'm single. Yeah, you know I
can't have a little fun a little bit.

Speaker 1 (48:38):
I do have a six three CEO of an oil company.

Speaker 2 (48:46):
Like that's what you need? Do you want to go
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the Yes, that's what. That's what I always you. I
came over here and not hear you go not here?
And you know who you remind me of? That was
just bits of my friend for since twenty fifteen. Be small.

(49:10):
You know what? That girl right there, Me and that
girl used to be in a car crying, laughing for
no reason, like you are a fucking idiot. That's how Yeah,
I love he got that energy and she's from home
Texas to holler at you I'm sorry. I'm sorry.

Speaker 1 (49:31):
Well, no, I was gonna ask you, so, are you
one of those people when you're done with a relationship
you've done like you absolutely not spending the block?

Speaker 2 (49:37):
Or do you be spending the block? Okay? First off,
I'm five six, Okay, do I spend the block? I
haven't you have me? No? She said I heard that
yet under your breath. Do you think it's different now
than you got kids? Maybe? You know what? Because I
do like familiar Okay, I do like familiar. Well, I'm
not gonna say I'm not gonna say block, about to

(50:00):
say I spend a block because the block can get spunk.
You know what I'm saying, little Curve.

Speaker 1 (50:07):
No, no, no, no, no, no, no, no no no,
I'm not talking about I wasn't talking about him.

Speaker 2 (50:11):
I'm just I'm staying in general, y'all. God damn it.
Y'all know how this ship could be.

Speaker 1 (50:18):
No blame it on the cast man got ship to
do it like that?

Speaker 2 (50:23):
Neither you know what it's in general? Okay, Okay, the
block can get spunk from a certain level of where
I was at in my life when I dated you,
because it's certain quality. Yeah, and it's got to be
a certain amount of growth, right, Yeah, that happened when
we were apart, so I could give you the conversation.

(50:45):
Is what you do with it? Okay, you know what
I'm saying. But I am a free agent, all right.
I'm not talking about nobody is specific, nobody, No, I'm
just having a good time. Okay. On her, she focused
on healing. You know what I think, I'm well whatever,

(51:05):
I don't know. Like you said, it kind of is
what it is. It's a process and you have to
take it day by day, you know.

Speaker 1 (51:12):
And I think that's what I'm learning too, because like
I went through a horrible breakup before and it was
just like it was really.

Speaker 2 (51:17):
Life changing for me.

Speaker 1 (51:18):
Because even now in my new relationship, I just move
different and I know there's certain things that I can accept.
I know what I can and I cannot handle, and
I know how to move accordingly. But I also know,
like my faith is so strong, what's meant for me?

Speaker 2 (51:30):
It's not gonna miss me exactly. And I'll see how
I said, you always learned something, Yes, you learned something
for every relationship. Yes, just learn how to move forward?
You learn how Okay, you learn what you want now
you learn what you don't want, you to learn what
you can tolerate. You learn what because now you'd have
been through it you and experience is the best teacher. Yeah,
I don't feel like, you know, somebody's telling you things,

(51:53):
somebody that you really look up to, Yeah, that could
teach you too, But when you actually feel that shit, Yeah,
it's a difference. Yeah. So I think that that's why
I said what you said, Like, you know, you got
to go through the process and that's when you figure
out that is a deal breaker, Yeah, that I can
deal with at long ass or he has to be

(52:14):
like this, and that's when you get to your husband.
It's practice. It's like you get to your husband by
going through And it's sound crazy, but we're here. We're human,
We have feelings. Feelings are meant to be hurt. People
are meant to be date, money is meant to be spent,
is meant to be had. You know what I'm saying.
That's life right, But through that process you learn what

(52:36):
you want in that one that husband, You gonna be
a good wife? Yeah you think so? I really do.

Speaker 1 (52:42):
I feel like you're very like centered and I think
one thing, like I said, me being somebody who has
followed your career for a while.

Speaker 2 (52:50):
You put your kids first, that's they show up. Oh
you know what I'm saying.

Speaker 1 (52:54):
And I can see that when in certain mothers because
that's how my mom was. I didn't realize my mom
was a huge until she passed away because it was
always like.

Speaker 2 (53:03):
Put up this superwoman.

Speaker 1 (53:05):
Yeah, And I think it's important now as I get older,
Like whenever I do have children, I do want to
show them like, you know, mommy's a human, but I
do want to be that superwoman for them. Yeah, because
especially in the younger years, I think that's important.

Speaker 2 (53:16):
Yeah.

Speaker 1 (53:16):
And so even throughout this whole like breakup that you've
been going through, it's like we still see you being
a great mother and smiling, because that's not always smiling.

Speaker 2 (53:25):
And that's the thing. Yeah, people make relationships their life. Yeah,
that's not your life. That's another part of your life. Right.
You have to prioritize everything in your life. And you
know it's like everything you can't neglect these because if
I neglected that, my kids would show it would show,

(53:46):
you know what I'm saying. So it's like you have
to prioritize everything in your life, and that wasn't just
my life. It was a part of my life and
I did give a lot to it. But you know,
when it's gone, it's not a big void that you
have to feel. When you prioritize everybody. My best friend, relationship,
my mother, and my sisters, and my son and my business,
all of it was so prioritized well to where when

(54:09):
that void is gone, I'm not just lost. I'm not
lost because I don't have nothing else to do. Everything
is important to me, not just this person because that's
who I'm fucking, because you prioritize all of it. I
all love the relationships. Like I said earlier, you got
to nurture are your relationships because it's important because when
this go, now what now you running back to everybody

(54:31):
that you know. You got to prioritize that. So now
it's not And I'm not acting like I don't care
about a relationship because I don't want to give him
so much, you know, because it is what it is
and it's where it's at. But when, like you know,
you're going through these things, it's so important to just
it is what it is and everything else, you know,

(54:54):
go and stay.

Speaker 1 (54:55):
But I'm going to nurture that too, because we were
talking about crashing out on me and a lot of
times I see a lot of women are crashing out
over men because they're also their support system. So it's
also important we say this all the time because we
used to talk about on the show getting a BDB,
catching the BDB A be big baller, okay, believe you

(55:18):
should have a man in your life, that.

Speaker 2 (55:24):
You should have you a BD boy always. But it
as we grew and our careers grew, and.

Speaker 1 (55:34):
We started getting the situations where we were able to
walk away because I got my own, I'm not crashing
a lot of these women are crashing out because they
need the retday.

Speaker 2 (55:43):
They want to still live that crashing out over that.

Speaker 1 (55:46):
I always feel like if you get to a level
of crash out, you really love it, Like.

Speaker 2 (55:52):
No, So okay, so what is crashing out?

Speaker 1 (55:55):
I crashed out one time on the internet one time,
and I.

Speaker 2 (56:00):
Remember that I ever because I'm never do it again.

Speaker 1 (56:04):
She disrespected you first, the girl okay, looked like somebody
to look like.

Speaker 2 (56:11):
I know what she's gonna say. I want to see
if she gonna say what everybody say. Give me, let's keep.

Speaker 1 (56:17):
Talking Okay, it's always two people, but most.

Speaker 2 (56:24):
But mostly one person because I think it's Jada. Yeah,
that's what everybody says. Everybody. It's like a beast someone
and the Jada. But y'all, beautiful person person. They'll get
me wrong. But I'm looking at you and as you're talking,
I'm like, who is she? Okay, she looks like somebody
I know.

Speaker 1 (56:41):
It's so funny too, because we just went on Jada
and this podcast at normal a few weeks ago, and
girl the comments because people already be under our comments
scene there all the time. People already be under her
comments scene and all the time. But when they finally
seen us both at the same time, that's all comments
was saying.

Speaker 2 (56:58):
Okay, yeah, no, beautiful may I'm not going.

Speaker 1 (57:01):
There up there really yeah, okay, fun time, okay, cool,
but yes, I was saying. I crashed out one time
on the internet over this dude that I was going with,
but he lied to me about some stuff and then
this girl that he was dating I found out she
was like dirty macking on me, like she had.

Speaker 2 (57:20):
Got cold and she had got coold with this girl
that I knew.

Speaker 1 (57:24):
Dirty was finding out stuff that I was telling the
girl that I thought I was friends with about him
was going back telling him then he was lying to
me about his relationship with her and so girl. When
we first started these podcasts, it was probably like twenty eighteen,
I did. We did an episode and I talked about
the Nia and I said his name. Everything I said

(57:45):
the beach's name. I was going in. I was saying everybody.
I was saying everybody ain't shit mind you. Back then,
nobody was listening.

Speaker 2 (57:54):
To the show.

Speaker 1 (57:54):
We probably had like a thousand listeners if that. So
I obviously ended.

Speaker 2 (57:58):
Up going and deleted it.

Speaker 1 (57:59):
But I've really crashed out over that nigga, and I
regretted it afterwards because although I accomplished what I wanted
to accomplish in the moment, because my feelings were hurt
and I called everybody out and I made everybody look sloopy.
That's not even my character though, Like I'm not even
the type of person that move like that.

Speaker 2 (58:17):
I don't like people in my business. I'm super privy.

Speaker 1 (58:19):
So the fact that I let that situation take me
to that place, I regretted it. I was like, why
the fuck did I do that? Because I gave you power.
I showed you how much you eff extactly.

Speaker 2 (58:31):
And that's why when she asked me that earlier, I said,
it's a mixture of crashing out and but it's like
crashing out where that nigga can feel. Fuck the Internet.
They ain't gonna do nothing but spread your business and
laugh me talking.

Speaker 1 (58:43):
About it because I'll be missy feel me.

Speaker 2 (58:47):
Yeah. Not if anything I crashed on nigga, he takes
it Internet, that's you. You did that. Yeah, yeah, you
gonna feel it though. But the reason and that's not
how I was so. I was just so, but it
was her And it was because you got played away, bitch,
telling your business that you thought was cool him her.
You ain't knowing what's going on, you know, it's it's.

Speaker 1 (59:07):
You're human and somebody have you ever dated somebody that
like you was carving him for a little bit and
then you finally give this motherfucker the time of like
like I feel like.

Speaker 2 (59:16):
They got a vendetta again, like they'd be out for blood.

Speaker 1 (59:19):
That happened to me, and that's why why is the
people so fucked up and intentions is so wrong?

Speaker 2 (59:27):
But why was my life if you knew that you
were coming.

Speaker 1 (59:31):
To get me Okay, guys, like, why would you do
that just because I didn't, just because I didn't like
because I used to carve him at first, but it
wasn't like, oh no mean ship if it wasn't interested,
I really didn't think I was interested. Then I finally
was like okay, because he started applying a little pressure,
and I was like, okay.

Speaker 2 (59:49):
You hadn never ignored the pressure. You. I love when
the pressure begin to please anybody that even think coming
this way, please buy some pressure. Cause I don't.

Speaker 3 (01:00:00):
I don't see it.

Speaker 1 (01:00:01):
I don't know, right, I'm telling you exactly because I
was like, okay.

Speaker 2 (01:00:08):
Let me give him a little shot, and he played
It's school.

Speaker 1 (01:00:14):
I know he But in the long run how the
story ended up, you got the last last but.

Speaker 2 (01:00:18):
Yep, like this is a while ago, it's like sixty
years ago. But yeah, But the.

Speaker 1 (01:00:22):
Reason I was going back to saying, like the crash outs,
Like on the other side of it, a lot of
women crash out because they still want to live that
lifestyle that the man is buying.

Speaker 2 (01:00:29):
You think that's what it is. It's something you got
fifty to fifty, right, But most of the time, in
most cases, when that show livelihood. Yeah, when you can't
get them bags, everybody wearing them shows, everybody wearing keep
your hair and nails done. Like they're like, well, you
know a lot of people live for the internet. A
lot of people ain't out here getting out the mud
and living how they need to live on their own.

(01:00:52):
You know, they're living for everybody else's approval, right, So
when they don't have that no more, that validation, no more,
they like they have nothing or the nigga that got
the bag. Don't let them be somebody. That's somebody they're
crashing out. How are you bowing out gracefully?

Speaker 3 (01:01:11):
How that's I.

Speaker 2 (01:01:17):
Mean in whole relationships with married men.

Speaker 1 (01:01:22):
Exactly, get seen material, give a certain steady.

Speaker 2 (01:01:27):
I'm telling you they are crashing out at anesthetic. And
that's why it's so important for women to have their
own no matter what. Listen, I'm not saying, oh, date
a man that don't have nothing because you have your own. No,
you know, whatever he do is like plus it's like
the cake and the ice cream, the dessert. Don't let
that be your bread and butter, and don't let that

(01:01:47):
be how you eat. Don't let that be the only thing.
You know what I'm saying. Only time that could be
the case is if that's your husband. Yeah, you know
what I'm saying, if it's your husband and you you
fell off for a minute, or whatever the case may
Because life happens, y'all. We are not always going to
have it all, you know. We might, you know, but

(01:02:08):
don't let no man be the reason you're eating, because
he's going to be the reason you're starting. And that's
just float out. That's just flat out. And it's nothing
wrong with a man taking care of a woman neither,
because that's another conversation. I would love for men. I
love for men to take care of me. That made
me feel real and I love it there. I love

(01:02:32):
it there, But you stop working. But I'm not about
to stop doing me. And also when that man take
care of me like that, I want to have my
own so when it's my time to show out for
him for his special occasions, I can. You know what
I'm saying. You want to reciprocate energy these days, you know,
And I think that's where women go wrong. They look

(01:02:54):
at they get a man with some money, they get comfortable.
Now they don't want to work no more. Now they
don't have the shit on no more whole time. The
reason he was attracted to you because you had your
ship together too, and he felt like he could build
with somebody. And sometimes he wants the reciprocated energy too.
Men might not say this, but they want to feel
special cool. They want to feel good too. And me,
I love a spoiling nigga. I ain't gonna lie. I

(01:03:17):
like a little cuteuf, especially if you make my life easier.
If you make it, you're making me feel good, You're
making me feel all girl, and you make it, you're
making me want to post these type of pictures and
with this passion like of course, I want to impucate
the energy. I want you to feel good, like my

(01:03:37):
girl for my birthday, she just and I had to
give a dime, you know. But not all the time
because men to get it fucked up and now they
think they're the woman. But you know what, motherfucking dust,
that's the problem. But it's like like those special occasions
make it real masculine, you know what I'm saying, Where
they can live in a masculine energy and you live

(01:03:58):
in your feminine Yes, get your bag, ladies, that's what.

Speaker 1 (01:04:01):
You gotta get your own money. You gotta be able
to take care of yourself. But do you know what
I do think some men liked it though they like
women who don't.

Speaker 2 (01:04:11):
Like they like them. Yeah, they like that to the
crash out. Yeah, they like to be like it.

Speaker 1 (01:04:22):
Don't be the manipulative type man like that. Yeah, but
you don't want them anyway. Yeah, but what do we
call that? Early we were talking about that type of abuse,
reproductive abuse?

Speaker 2 (01:04:31):
Oh yeah, we were talking about how a lot of
times men thing no no, no, no, I said, you did.

Speaker 1 (01:04:39):
But we were talking about how men will literally like
get a woman pregnant, not because you know he valued you,
but he wants to trap you.

Speaker 2 (01:04:48):
Yeah, you want to have access to you for the
rest of his life.

Speaker 1 (01:04:50):
And a lot of women be like, girl, you want
to get me prayed, you love me, you love me,
And it's like y'all better pay attention to them signs
and listen to what these men be saying, because they're
gonna show you in every any man that doesn't want
a woman to work as far as because he wants
to control you.

Speaker 2 (01:05:05):
Financial abuse is real.

Speaker 1 (01:05:07):
That's somebody who is manipulating you because they want you
to depend on them, a real man is gonna be like, Okay,
I've been taking care of my wife or my girlfriend
with other situation. Mate, well babe, what do you want
to do? Is there anything that I can invest or
help you with? Like what are your dreams and aspirations?
You know what I'm saying, That's what a real man
want to.

Speaker 2 (01:05:23):
Do because he know that. You know, when you get
up and do things on your own outside of your
like and like we said what I was saying earlier,
having all these different relationship, nurturing all these different relationships
and not just that one. When you have your own
thing that you're putting your all into every day, it
makes you feel good like this is mine, you know,
let me go, this is my craft. This is what
I'm working on outside of my husbands. Because you know

(01:05:45):
us women, we're superwoman. We got to help everything. Yeah,
but it's like I have my own and a man
that's of any type of value understand that you need
that you need your own thing that you're putting your
all into every day, that your you know, blood, sweat
and tears into and nursing every day to when it's

(01:06:06):
growing you like, damn, she's really doing her thing. You
know what I'm saying. I think that real men of
value though quality man understand that. And it's such a
big difference. A man that have money that don't make
him valuable. We just don't make him valuable. A man
that have status don't make them valuable. Yeah, I feel
like the inside makes you a value that person, the

(01:06:28):
way you look at other women, your morals, you know
what I'm saying, you having dignity, integrity? Can he even
tell you the truth? Right? You know what I'm saying?
Because do he pray? Do he pray? What? Now? That
is a super turn on a man. Tell you I
prayed for you, or y'all pray together? We pray together.

(01:06:50):
That'd be like a y'all know, that's like a green
flag for me.

Speaker 1 (01:06:52):
Like if we're on the first day and they bring
out the food and like he prays, cause I'm gonna pray.

Speaker 2 (01:06:58):
I always, you know, pray. So that's like a big
green flag.

Speaker 1 (01:07:02):
Yeah, Like especially if it's the first day because you
know you're not one hundred percent comfortable, it's.

Speaker 2 (01:07:06):
All the first time hanging out. That's like, yeah, like okay,
he prays, Yeah, he prays.

Speaker 1 (01:07:11):
Like that goes to show like you're serious, and because
I know a lot of times people feel uncomfortable praying
in front of other people or whatever the case may be,
so that'd be like a big green flag.

Speaker 2 (01:07:19):
I'm like, okay, yeah, and it's like even after they pray,
it's like, Okay, I can loosen up a little bit,
you know what I'm saying, and make you feel like
that could be a little comfortable. Yeah, yeah, like green pray,
big green. Okay, big green.

Speaker 1 (01:07:30):
You want to bring in the next So now we're
going to get into the second topic. We wanted to
talk about women who want to have a kid but
they fear being a single mom. Do you feel like
that's a logical fear or good fear.

Speaker 2 (01:07:47):
No, you can't have no fear of having kids. I agree,
you don't have to have You don't supposed to have fear.
Fearing kids is not the same thing. They don't supposed
to be in the same sentence. Okay, that is a blessing. Yes,
a kid is a blessing. Regardless if you gonna be
with a man or not. That is a blessing. Don't
even intertwine them with the two, because whether that man

(01:08:07):
is there or not, you're gonna always be You're gonna
always be that kid's mom, right, no matter what. So
I would never, ever I could even say fear in
my kid's name in the same sentence. I was never scared.
Of course, you know I thought about, oh, am I
gonna be with him? Am I just gonna be a
baby mama? Of course, you know, because you want to

(01:08:30):
get married, you want all of your kids and your
man and you to have the same last name. Of course,
y'all a one. You know that's a thought. Yeah. No,
I don't think you should ever go into a situation
because whether you're a wife, you can get a divorce,
whether you're just a baby mama, whether you're just a
single mom, you're gonna be a mom.

Speaker 1 (01:08:51):
Ye, regardless, Like take all those titles away.

Speaker 2 (01:08:55):
You're that kid's mom.

Speaker 1 (01:08:56):
I agree, That's what I was gonna say. I agree
with you one hundred percent. Everything you see. It is
literally how I feel about it. I feel like, as
a woman, you should have a kid for no other
reason than wanting to be a mother, because, regardless of
what happens, if you really have the desire, and that's
really a desire of your heart to be a mother.
Regardless of what happens with that man, You're gonna be

(01:09:17):
okay with your Decisionsion.

Speaker 2 (01:09:19):
Listen and I see clarity smile. First off, she's so
damn goofy, and she looks like she looks like her
that yeah, and I still be like, this is my no,
you know, it makes me feel No, she looks like her,
you know, and it's like, no, those are my babies,
Those my babies for what happened in this world whatever

(01:09:40):
behind me.

Speaker 1 (01:09:41):
Not necessarily that I'm scared that the relationship won't work out,
or like, oh he's not gonna be around. It's so
of the fear of can I do it? Am I
able to do it?

Speaker 2 (01:09:55):
Will I be strong?

Speaker 1 (01:09:57):
Because I know like things that I deal with person,
and sometimes I'll be having moments where I shut the
fuck down.

Speaker 2 (01:10:03):
You know. It's so crazy with them kids booth. Yeah,
they give you a whole nother level of goddamn superwoman.
Like them you like, I can't I can't let them down.
Like when you lay eyes on that first child of yours,
it's like you get a whole new set of eyes.
It's like now you just like you become this woman

(01:10:24):
that can do everything can do everything. I ain't cooked
before I had cash, I went in the kitchen until
I seen until I see my schnuog out one. I
lay eyes on my snod kitchen like, okay, let me
bake him some food because he needs a little bit
of New Street. Nothing ain't every day. Let me go

(01:10:48):
get some stream means some mash. I got what my
little snug out. Oh my god, that is hilarious. Never
was in the kitchen until I had me to cash. Okay, yes,
I'm telling you like that when them you feel like
you could do anything.

Speaker 1 (01:11:06):
And I and I hear you and I get that.
But like that's what I said. Like I'm like, like
how it clicked for you? Yeah, and but it's like
what if it doesn't click for it?

Speaker 2 (01:11:15):
Is you know what I'm saying. You're a woman of God.
It is He got you. And you just in a
woman too.

Speaker 1 (01:11:21):
Like I just feel like as a woman, we're supposed
to be, like we're meaning to be nurseous.

Speaker 2 (01:11:26):
She's gonna be.

Speaker 1 (01:11:29):
It's crazy because every time, like I have two nephews
and I pretty much like raised my smaller nephew until I.

Speaker 2 (01:11:35):
Had to move to Atlanta. And you're gonna have a boy.
I know I feel like that too, but I want
so don't put that on me.

Speaker 1 (01:11:44):
When I was younger, if people go back to all
the episodes of the show, I used to always say
all I wanted was boys.

Speaker 2 (01:11:50):
But now as I get older, I just want to
have a healthy baby. Yeah that's what I said. When
I first got pregnant. I was like, I want a
healthy but You're got.

Speaker 1 (01:11:56):
It perfectly because I'm a boy girl.

Speaker 2 (01:12:02):
You know, I'm just a girl. I'm both.

Speaker 1 (01:12:04):
Yeah, I'm like a hood princess, and I.

Speaker 2 (01:12:09):
Guess this is what an istor like.

Speaker 1 (01:12:10):
I know I'm good with children, like children always love me,
like it can be a complete stranger. Like I remember
one time my best friend, one of her friends has
a kid, and whenever we were going out to you,
she was like, y'all, chicken, they call her chickens cheating
the bad mood. Y'all please just don't she like she
don't go to nobody. I know she's rude, so y'all
please it. That girl came straight to me and she

(01:12:30):
was just like she was like her mom was like,
oh my god. Like so I always have a way
with children, and I always feel like Okay, I do
want that, but it be like something in the back
of my mind, Like, like I said, it's not about
the man or if we're gonna be together, because it
happened like my dad passed away.

Speaker 2 (01:12:46):
And he wasn't able to be there. My mom has it.

Speaker 1 (01:12:48):
It's not even about if we Yeah, so it's not
about if we break up. It's more so of if
the worst of the worst happens and I have to
stand on my own two by myself.

Speaker 2 (01:12:59):
Can I show up every day? You know you're going
to less least later on once you have your babies,
You're gonna be like, how did I even think I couldn't? Like, yeah, girl,
it's gonna happen. Okay, yeah, all right. I'm trusting y'all because,
like I said, I'm gonna be what they call it
a gatric pregnancy bitch. I'mna be about four to five.
But my girls shout, oh well, I'm thirty five. So

(01:13:19):
by the time you got time, you I mean, I
do it the next five years. That's the next thing.

Speaker 1 (01:13:25):
By the time I get pregnant, hopefully, I'm like, if
I do want to have a kid within like the
next two years, But you know, after what is it
thirty it's after No, it's after thirty five, ye, after.

Speaker 2 (01:13:36):
A geatric pregnance geriatric, pediatric. Sorry what that means? It
means old?

Speaker 1 (01:13:41):
Yeah, my my societal standards, by medical standards, Yeah, at
thirty five, once you hit thirty.

Speaker 2 (01:13:47):
Five years old, like old, when you be pregnant, yeah, doctor,
it's more risky, it's more risky. Yeah. Yeah, my doctor's like,
what you're gonna do? Barbecue and mildew, girl, you better
get out. I'm not knock both of my Yeah, I'm done.

Speaker 1 (01:14:01):
And that's what I was going to ask you, like,
did you feel any pressure to have kids as you
was getting older, because like, I'm thirty three and I
be feeling that way what she said about being thirty.

Speaker 2 (01:14:10):
Five, Like I'm like, well, I gotta have a baby
before I hit thirty five. But no, well that's why
I did, like because you know, once I met my
child's father, uh huh, and I got pregnant, I was like,
I'm not I'm having my baby. Yeah. You know what
I'm saying. I am getting of age, yeah, and I'm
getting up through there. I ain't going back. Let me

(01:14:31):
go ahead. I'm having I'm having this. Yeah, you know
what I'm saying. And then it happened again and I
was like, okay, yeah, you know, here we go. Are
you done having kids or you want more? I'm done. Okay,
I'm done. I don't want anymore. I got a boy
and a girl. I don't want anymore. I asked my
mom after I have my girl, I said, why do
you keep going? My mom had me first, I'm a girl.
That my brother right after me, he's he's a boy. Yeah,

(01:14:54):
and we're eleven months apart, like me and my brother out.
She went went crazy and it was like, damn, why
did you keep going? You had a boy, you had
a girl? Why? She was like, I just I enjoyed
my kids and I wanted to continue. And I was
just like, you're crazy because once I got my once

(01:15:16):
I had my son, I was like, I want a girl.
And when I found out Clarity was a girl, I
was ecstatic because I said, listen, I'm never pushing anoy
and it's like that's perfect. You know you always want
the boy to older. Yeah, yeah, you got it. I
got a good God. Don't play about about me. I
love God. You all love God. Was wrong? I think

(01:15:40):
it's God and my dad. My dad been with me
through this whole journey. He's always been there. He he
died on my first birthday, so I always feel like
since then, he's always been one of my spiritual angels
and he takes very good care of me. That's how
I feel too.

Speaker 1 (01:15:55):
I feel about my dad too, like I always feel
like I feel his praisings around me.

Speaker 2 (01:16:00):
Way up there doing my dad doing his bill. Okay,
I love him. Yes, it's like our guardian angel. I
never feel like that, and that's crazy because it's like,
you know, you can have your dad here. Of course
I would love to be with my dad here. Yeah,
but it's like my dad is spiritual and he protects
me spiritually, and that's like a big guardian like your daddy.

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Speaker 1 (01:18:53):
Of course, you know we're talking about pregnancy and all
those beautiful things.

Speaker 2 (01:18:56):
So we wanted to talk.

Speaker 1 (01:18:57):
About having sex, was pregnancy and how that is because
you know, everybody, you know, we know, they're supposed to say, like,
you know, you gotta wait six weeks and you gotta
heal and all this stuff. But we want to know
the real sea, like how is sex after the baby?

Speaker 2 (01:19:13):
Do you really wait? Like you said, you feel different?
Does feel different?

Speaker 1 (01:19:18):
Because I know a lot of times women be saying
they don't even feel sexy afterwards, and they now they
don't be in the mood.

Speaker 2 (01:19:23):
Like it's something about me that I feel like I'm
that bitch at all times. I don't know where I
get this from. I don't know. Even when I'm big
and pregnant, y'all be feeling like I'm hurt, like I
don't care, like is period, I be feeling like that.
So it's like it's always great. It's like it's always good.

(01:19:43):
Now did you wait the six weeks though? Because I
didn't even man, y'all know what. I ain't even really
did much like I meant my baby daddy once. I
ain't know. I wasn't even that yeah this time around,
and at okay, that's fair enough.

Speaker 1 (01:19:58):
That's fair enough, because I guess that's my fear too,
like Quinn having a baby naturally, I don't know what
you mean, like naturally through I might do a little
c section body up thirteen times anyway, but I feel.

Speaker 2 (01:20:15):
Like bodies are meant for that, Like why are you
gonna snap back? I'm just afraid?

Speaker 3 (01:20:20):
Why is this.

Speaker 2 (01:20:25):
Did the light of the baby he's been chucked did everything.
Cut him out, cut him out, Hey, cut him out.
Let's go ahead, I do surgery. Get it over with.
You don't want to go through the pain.

Speaker 1 (01:20:41):
It's not even like the pain. I'm just like it
just seems like a lie. And like my mom would
always tell me the story about how I ripped her
and she had to get stitches, and my head was big.

Speaker 2 (01:20:53):
I do not want to rip and go through days.
But then I also heard that after you have the
so silly what that they can sew you back up
and that make it tighter. That's what I heard too.
To be honest, I don't know, because I ain't gonna
tell you all how I had my kids, right, I

(01:21:13):
don't know. I don't know. I don't know, don't know,
I don't know. Maybe they could have.

Speaker 1 (01:21:20):
Tighten you up now that like or like me not that.

Speaker 2 (01:21:28):
Girl, but I'd be like, I want to little section.

Speaker 1 (01:21:33):
Even tuck that tell me why you were now Okay, okay,
I don't think that they can do.

Speaker 2 (01:21:40):
You gotta go the same. It's the same decision. You
can't tuk it. Yeah, you gotta heal man, all your all,
your every inside has been moved by the Maybe you
can't go get a tuck right after that. And I
hate when people go around I'm playing like celebrities be

(01:22:01):
doing because you've got you gotta heal man, the insize
is pushed. Clarity was eight pounds or four ounces? That
little girl pushed everything away? Yeah? Okay, well I feel.

Speaker 1 (01:22:12):
It's already pushing pushing the rest of that.

Speaker 2 (01:22:15):
No, no, no, you need your inside, you need you.

Speaker 1 (01:22:17):
Just take a little real Why are you this way?

Speaker 2 (01:22:24):
I'm just saying, like, let's just.

Speaker 1 (01:22:26):
Do it all at one time, because I don't know anyway.

Speaker 2 (01:22:29):
I'm about to go get my body done. What you're
doing next week, I probably don't delive. I'll get my
body birds. Do you work out? Yes?

Speaker 1 (01:22:39):
I do?

Speaker 2 (01:22:39):
Okay, working out is the best, like shouting out to
the King of Fitness. Yes, working out is the best
thing to do, especially when you're going through postpartum. Yeah,
not even just for the physical, for the mental.

Speaker 1 (01:22:51):
I'm not gonna lie has helped my mental so much.

Speaker 2 (01:22:55):
And they think they just always think of the physical, like,
go work out and see how that really makes you
you feel in the end, you know what I'm saying,
Especially when you're dealing with postpartum, like it's not easy.
It's not easy. And just to be able to cope
with life, coping with your kids and having to be
there twenty four hour all day, every day, and coping
with shit, your career and everything things that come with

(01:23:18):
men and whatever the case may be, being social media,
your podcast. You have to get in that gym, eating
right like that shit makes you feel better genuinely in
an inside not just look better. See people go for
the physical. Yeah, it's way deeper than it's ways very
But I.

Speaker 1 (01:23:38):
Do want to ask you that because you did say, like,
you know, you always felt like you were that girl
and things like that. So after because I feel like
people always say the second baby is the hardest, she
wan so, but how did you feel about yourself fit?
Because like you're known for being super fine, body, tea everything. Yay,
you have a fire body. But that's what I'm saying,

(01:24:00):
So after the second baby, like after clarity, how did
you feel about your body? Like, how did you feel
when you looked at yourself in the mirror? Because I
know a lot of women struggle after pregnancy looking at
themselves a second.

Speaker 2 (01:24:10):
I ain't gonna lie Clarity, did me dirty? Yeah? I'm
whooping her as but no clarity. She did me in,
She did me in. But I don't know. It's a
mental thing. I don't know if it's my dad. I
don't know if it's God. I don't know what it is.
But it's mentally me like, all right, then me give
myself back to where I would like to be. It's motivation.

(01:24:31):
It's motivation. As I'm sitting there looking at myself, you know,
I'm like, Okay, I don't have stretch marks. Thank god,
that's hereditary. Though, you know, they say, yeah, but my mom,
I don't know your mom. Yeah she do. She's gonna
why are you talking about business? A little nervous yep. I
don't think it's all about how active you are. Yeah,

(01:24:53):
you know what I'm saying. I stayed working. But I
do say that, like I was just looking at myself.
It was motivation. It was motivation. It was like, let
me just get myself together, and it was just it's
a mental thing. Some people mental it's just not as strong.
It's like, you know, mental health is real, it's very real.
You have to it. Gotta put it in there at first, Like,

(01:25:17):
I don't know how to explain how blessed. I am
as having a mental of knowing that, all right, I
gotta get myself together. I'm not happy there, you know
what I'm saying. And I just got in the gym,
you know what I'm saying. And or even when I
couldn't get in the gym, I put my body shapers on,
put my five highs on, you know, like just preparing
myself to be back her. You know what I'm saying.

(01:25:39):
It's like you kind of gotta you kind of manifested.
You have to manifest it. If your body not looking right,
you have things to put make your body look right.

Speaker 1 (01:25:47):
And have not the house too, because like I think,
so many women right after they have kids, they be
so consumed with this new life and then they just
be in a house.

Speaker 2 (01:25:57):
You need to give yourself. Except the six weeks is
pushing it for me. I don't know about everybody else,
because they was all like you're already off side. You
just had for me. Them like them two three weeks,
I said that I was in the crib. I was
in the crib. I had my feet up, and I
bonded with my child and bond it with my other

(01:26:19):
child to get used to alright, this is us now
you no more. That was important to me, and when
I felt like it, it's like, okay, every now and then,
I'll get out of go get me a little drink,
you know, because I haven't had one of nine months.
I'll get I'll go shop a little bit for things
that I buy some ship I know I can't fit,
like I'm getting movation. I outside my closet so I

(01:26:39):
could see it every day. I'm gonna get it, you
know what I'm saying. I'm gonna get it. In the
dress I bought this time, it was like thirty five
hundred dollars. Yall, I'm like a fashion See that, ain't

(01:27:00):
you don't want to make your money now?

Speaker 1 (01:27:01):
Look in the large No, no, no ordering, the ordering
the medium.

Speaker 2 (01:27:08):
But I ordered the dress, and I'm aware that's a
good motivation. But I ordered the dress and I spent
that type of money on it because I'm like, I'm
gonna get in there and guess what, Because guess what
If I don't ever get in then I wasted my
fucking right. Okay, okay, you see what I'm saying. So
you gotta spend a little coin on it so you
can feel better. I go to revolve how you do

(01:27:30):
this every day? I don't even suck it.

Speaker 1 (01:27:32):
Out the house to see a little band.

Speaker 2 (01:27:42):
Like the h the one that costs though, you know,
the one that got the studs and stuff said five hundred. Ovey,
you know what I have to since house to c
B is no purpose and that material will be good too.
It's a little cheaper. That's a good material. I like
a little house c B. Yeah, so get one of
the talks like so you can feel like he's one

(01:28:04):
of the Yeah, y'all got to hurry up a gohand
and popping babies. No, girl, I think it's tom. Let
me get y'all business. Y'll be asking me on my
business with y'all. In relationships, what's going on with y'all?
Who getting pregnant? What what's up? Yeah? I mean I've
been a relationship for a year now.

Speaker 1 (01:28:23):
It makes a here this this next month, it makes
it makes a year.

Speaker 2 (01:28:27):
So but like I said, a year, that's not enough
time to know if like I want to be, don't
worry about that. Ever that don't worry about that because
guess what, if you get pregnant, you better just have
that baby.

Speaker 1 (01:28:43):
But I will say this now, I will say this
about him that it gives me peace. He has a
child already and when I tell you, he is an
amazing father.

Speaker 2 (01:28:54):
So I know that low kid, little Junior.

Speaker 1 (01:28:57):
Gonna get taken care of because you finna be with
her daddy.

Speaker 2 (01:29:01):
I got tell me to got to heal baby, Go
get your dad.

Speaker 1 (01:29:04):
When you look at your like when when the same
what I tell you the same day, you don't tell
you you can't?

Speaker 2 (01:29:16):
What is wrong with you? That's a good one me.

Speaker 1 (01:29:24):
Because I told her, I said what I tell you.
Just want to tell me what I know.

Speaker 2 (01:29:31):
You. It's not about to get no tummy tuk no
hey okay, but I'll say no, you're not. You can't.
Like maybe if you go to Columbia. No, you're that friend.
They know me in Columbia, Citizing, they know me in Columbia. Okay.
So y'all, I was.

Speaker 1 (01:29:55):
In a relationship for the past two years and we
just broke up.

Speaker 2 (01:29:59):
Like in may Or j it's broke. It's kind of.

Speaker 1 (01:30:06):
Girl be for real, like what bright like they need
together damn man.

Speaker 2 (01:30:11):
Every day, but we are not together no more.

Speaker 1 (01:30:16):
See him bro last night. Today I'm ago. I'm just
saying no, but we're not in a relationship. And let
me say this. We broke up in May and then
we did like a little sabbatical. We didn't have six
for like two three months.

Speaker 2 (01:30:34):
Okay, we just a cleanse. Yeah, you've been throwing it.

Speaker 1 (01:30:38):
Yeah, I thought I told you that, not like like redating,
but I think so. I think we're trying to figure
out if we want to get back in a relationship
like you only they like, but we're.

Speaker 2 (01:30:52):
Not in a relationship. I'm gonna lett you have it.

Speaker 1 (01:30:55):
I'm gonna let her have it. Long story short, though,
if I get pregny in the next year, you gonna
be okay, Okay, I'm sure, I'm sure. But y'all is
not perfect. Perfect he would be.

Speaker 2 (01:31:11):
I've never heard somebody say that about that person he
had perfect. She said he's perfect. I think he's a
great he's a perfect.

Speaker 1 (01:31:18):
For her, and that's when I would be a perfect dad.
I think he didn't say right because he ain't perfect. No,
but he's probably perfect for you. He probably that's probably
your guy.

Speaker 2 (01:31:32):
We'll see.

Speaker 1 (01:31:33):
We're gonna play it my ear. Okay, we gonna see
what happens. But one thing that I do know is
if I did have a child with him, because he's
already an amazing dad. He already has one son. He
would be a great dad. And I know even if
things don't work out between us, he would still do
what he needs to do and take care of our kid.
And it wouldn't you know, weird energy, and we will

(01:31:56):
be able to healthily call.

Speaker 2 (01:31:57):
Paring our child. Think I did not want people where
you feel like you just have to beef with and
be mad. And I know, and it wouldn't be no
drama like That's would do what we need to do.
That's take care of our child, and that's what matters.

Speaker 1 (01:32:09):
It's important to have a good father, I think, or
somebody that displays that or shows you that, because I'm
gonna be a dead be mom.

Speaker 2 (01:32:15):
Okay, so I'm gonna just I'm gonna just go back
over here. I'm not even looking over there. I'm fucking
done to you.

Speaker 1 (01:32:20):
Be done.

Speaker 2 (01:32:21):
Yeah, I'm done. You don't have to say absolutely nothing
to me.

Speaker 1 (01:32:25):
You know what, Cash, if you have a baby and
it don't work out with her, man, she's leaving the
baby whim she.

Speaker 2 (01:32:43):
Not child support? I will you agree baby? Every other weekend?

Speaker 3 (01:32:49):
Why would men do it.

Speaker 2 (01:32:50):
It's like always understandable. I will pay my child support
on time. I might give you a little extra. You
come give me some of that dick lay ye'll about
to go.

Speaker 1 (01:33:03):
I don't just when she said your problem, she's crazy.
Why would you say, get a little discount and then
you're gonna egg it on.

Speaker 2 (01:33:16):
He's gonna get a this sound he crazy? She gonna
get a No, you do a problem too. Whim always
said in a comment like just be egging.

Speaker 1 (01:33:31):
I will pay my child support and I get my
child every other weekend.

Speaker 2 (01:33:34):
What's the problem? Why are you your careal? I don't
know wht she see this baby? Y'all listen, no way,
you don't want Once you see that baby, all better off.
I just feel like you like this baby coming. Can
wish you give my mother a baby? No, I am
just kidding. I feel like I carry a baby for
nine months, you staying with me when you ain't going

(01:33:56):
with him. See, I'm having this conversation with y'all and
y'all don't have kids. That's the only reason that's conversation.
Once y'all had them kids, and y'all gonna be in
here like cash. You was telling the truth.

Speaker 1 (01:34:06):
I love this baby, you too, You're gonna be y'all
gonna be here like you know what. I changed my mind,
all right, and me and my man break up. I'm
com knocking on your do.

Speaker 2 (01:34:19):
The damn baby, the baby you know where to stay
because you was not about to let a man be everything. Okay,
we talked about this, we did, didn't we talk about this?

Speaker 1 (01:34:32):
Okay, So now it's time to get into the bop
a ow bow.

Speaker 2 (01:34:42):
So now we're gonna talk about the music that we've
been jamming this week, what you've been listening to. I'm
not gonna ye all the time we need y'all are
like a lot alike, ya really are.

Speaker 1 (01:34:57):
I'm not even gonna My song right now is Day's
Low featuring Cash All. Okay, ladies, leave your man at home.

Speaker 2 (01:35:09):
I love it. Y'all need to listen to that. And
the next song is Tink featuring Cash Doll. I love
me some team comfortable because never get too comfortable. You can't,
Okay now with a girl like me that, I ain't
gonna say nothing, but I'm gonna let you have it.

Speaker 1 (01:35:29):
I'll leave the babies at home, not leave the man
at home.

Speaker 2 (01:35:33):
Lead the babies at home. Yeah, it's how much longer
I have? I want to get your opinion.

Speaker 1 (01:35:43):
How I always ask the rap girls when they come
on this show, how do you feel about a female.

Speaker 2 (01:35:49):
Rap right now? And everything that's going on? We rush it? Yeah,
this is what it is. I love where it's at.
I'm glad to be a part of it. Okay, I'm
happy to be here. Yes, I love it.

Speaker 1 (01:35:58):
I think the girls are taking over at the boys
been mad about it, but cahall be coming out with
them box style, you know, the women empower me anthems, cash,
thank you, thank you, giving.

Speaker 2 (01:36:11):
The girls games. Yeah, that's just where I'm met in life,
you know. And that's where I'm at in life. That
even where I'm how old I am, like that, just
that's where I'm at. It's like my music gotta speak
to me too. Yep, you know what I'm saying. I
ain't just always outside. I want some ship that's gonna
teach me, some ship or something to make me feel
empowered and something to motivate me in the morning, something
to keep get me, keep me going right. And you know,

(01:36:33):
so that's just I make music for me and women
like mem Hm. You know they don't like me, that's fine,
and you just we just don't he asked you this.
You know, you know I'm a little missy. Now get
messy girl. Go ahead. So did you an Asian doll?

Speaker 1 (01:36:47):
Ever talk and work that whole situation out that was
going on between, like about the song that y'all did
the same song and she was upset and stuff first
anything like that.

Speaker 2 (01:36:59):
No, we never even talked about it. I was just like,
I was kind of disappointed because we we was cool. Yeah, okay,
but then I seen her at the battiest thing. She
wasn't on that, and I was like, all right, whatever,
I'm just grown, y'all. I don't have it time for
all that. I don't like that caddy stuff. I don't
want to go back and forth on the internet. But
I just feel like, men, you cool. We we really
got cordial at one point, you know what I'm saying,

(01:37:20):
even before all the other stuff. So it didn't happened
on my son's birthday. I'm at my son party. I'm
viral because you're saying I'm stealing your song. You know,
I ain't eve no net Like, let's be if we
gonna be any motherfucking thing. Let's pay for real, like
for real, you know what I'm saying anything, And it's like,

(01:37:43):
you know, but when I seen her at the Battiest Thing,
it wasn't no smoke or nothing. It was like, you know,
the vibes was there, So I don't know, she probably
just was like I was probably tripping or it was
just never nothing. Yeah, you know, so I just leave
it where it's at. It's nothing. It's no beef. It's
no it's no beef, it's no friendship, is no nothing.
It's like we're just cool, y'all. Just we're just resisting.

(01:38:04):
And when I see her, it ain't no disrespect because
it ain't no disrespect, right right, But it's like, okay,
that's fair. You know. I had to ask because I'd
be real, I don't mind asking some stuff. If I
want to clear it up, I clear it up. But
if I don't, I be like I answer that.

Speaker 1 (01:38:17):
When I like, if I'm not the person y'all will
never catch me like y'all, I'm not a person that
be in the shade room comments of the neighborhood. Every
now and then I might leave a joke, say something funny. Yeah,
but I ain't gonna lie. I was a common warrior
that day.

Speaker 2 (01:38:32):
I would what you say. I did. I'm not gonna
I'm not gonna stay on the show.

Speaker 1 (01:38:36):
But I was just like, well, because I feel like
one thing about you, you you don't bother.

Speaker 2 (01:38:41):
No, you don't bother nobody in your own world. You
really do. Don't feel nobody like that. That's the part
like I don't really gotta do that. I don't have
to do that be for real.

Speaker 1 (01:38:53):
I like people who marches to be of their own drum.
And I really feel like I talk about this all
the time because I feel like we're in a age
where people are super like materialistic or they want to
be known for the wrong things. But you can tell
when somebody is genuinely like it. Like you said, you've
been working at your shoe store, Like you being like
this and liking the nice things is because we can
tell that's things that you really like.

Speaker 2 (01:39:15):
I'm to do it to make nobody all all type
of way, or to show off or to stunt on nobody.
I genuinely like these things, y'all. I go to the
mall with my jogging suit on, with a with a
scarf on, no makeup a hoodie on to buy these
luxury things in a wig braids and my wig brads.
I swear to God, my salespeople, if they're looking at this,

(01:39:36):
they'll say, she's not lying. I come in there and
I sit there, and I'll have on like the shoes
I even have on that I put on before. These
are like some shoes I bought on Amazon. And I
will go in there and I buy these luxury things,
these things that cost ten thousand, fifteen thousand. I just
bought a person costs twenty five thousand. Oh and I
get these things because it's what I like. It's not like, oh,

(01:39:59):
I'm got to to get all the way done up
so I can get content of me buying this really good,
right man. I go on that ship and put in
our cars and a wait for her to come unboxing. Yeah.
I don't even unbox my own stuff. I don't even care.
I just I know I got it. As long as
I know I got it, i'd be like, all right, whatever, Okay,
I got my piece I wanted. You know what I'm saying,
it's genuinely what I like. I don't do it for them.

Speaker 1 (01:40:18):
Yeah, it's just projecting you know people be projecting. I
know people just wanted to have a problem with anything.
When I seen on the internet people was being nasty
towards you about your baby shower, and Louis was son
and that, honestly is this like come on? And it
wasn't ghetto because first of all, they wanted you to

(01:40:39):
have the baby, asked me, because I was just in
there behind shit casually look meaning so much money. But
that's what they don't know because they don't.

Speaker 2 (01:40:46):
Know my profile paid for that. My sales associated said
we should have you a baby shower here. And it
was so crazy because I spent so much money on
Cash's baby shower that I threw at the Detroit Pistons facility.
I said next year, well, when I got pregnant with Clarity,
I said, I'm not paying for no more baby shower.
To the point where my best friend in Jasmine, my

(01:41:08):
friend Jazzmin, they threw me a tea party for Clarity.
Clarity grand her god grandparents. They threw me one at
their house. They have this beautiful home. And then I
was like, okay, well that's it. I'm not having one
in Atlanta. And then I went to go buy her
some blankets, little outfits. I'm just in there shopping normal.
This is that's what I do, y'all. You know I'm

(01:41:29):
not son, it's just your lie. This is my life.
And I'm buying a blanket and all this. And they
was like, you know what, we should throw you a
baby shower. I said, Okay, where it's gonna be at.
She's like over there in that little room that we
have you change in and I was like, oh here
at the store. I was like I like that. I
was like, yeah, I do it. I was like, do
it because I might have her any day because I

(01:41:50):
was huge. And they put it together in a week
and they just told me to come in and I
invited all the people that I love and they came
and it was a rate time and nothing about it
was getting get out.

Speaker 1 (01:42:05):
The crazy part is next year five, all of a sudden,
people gonna be having baby showers. Louis was on because
the cashier at Rainbow asked me to have mine there
and I was like, yeah, this is my time.

Speaker 2 (01:42:17):
I'm done with you. You're done. You're absolutely and if
you one more, if you say one more thing, you,
if you say what, I'm getting up and I'm leaving.
I don't believe in this house. No, no, no, did
you hear I say I don't because people talking about

(01:42:39):
my things targeting? I thought we was bobbing. No, no,
you're done, you're absolutely fune diabol I'm just saying no,
I'll be dropping the bag and because the no, because
now people gonna be inside these stores, like do y'all
throw baby showers? How much have I gonna think? She real? Oh? Okay, Dre,

(01:43:03):
what's your pop of the week? Man? Okay? So I
didn't listen to Glo reala album? Okay, Glorious?

Speaker 1 (01:43:09):
Okay, Glory it's so her favorite song on there. I
like the rain down on Me song with her crankly.
I love a good gospel re refusion.

Speaker 2 (01:43:20):
No, you don't like that. I told you I like
my gospel straight I do. But you're not into.

Speaker 1 (01:43:28):
That relicious right, they have a whole genre over Christian.

Speaker 2 (01:43:34):
Rad I'm done with her. You wouldn't. You don't listen
to Christian I don't I like you know how? I
like my church. That's what I listened to in the car.
Something you don't even listen to that? Why are you not?
I like listens to that liked. Y'all done. Y'all don't

(01:43:58):
think it's a problem with the Glow Reller song.

Speaker 1 (01:44:00):
I love that for her because obviously she's a pretty
nice song she's a Christian woman. I'm just saying for me,
I personally like mine separate because when that song go off,
guess what song coming on after that?

Speaker 2 (01:44:12):
Pop your coachie in the club. I don't know, but
you know who you made. I told you had one
more time. I need my album separating time. I did
because I can't help it. It's toxic to the cash. Come.

(01:44:33):
I just like it separated.

Speaker 1 (01:44:34):
But you're right though, because I also like procedure with
a lot of exactly okay, and I'm balanced.

Speaker 2 (01:44:41):
Balance.

Speaker 1 (01:44:41):
It's a balance. It's love Glow realer. Let me just
say that. First of all, I think the album is amazing.
I'm glad she took her time because I feel like
it was a point in time where they were rushing
artists that had a good single to drop an album,
and these girls were dropping these albums and guys too.
I'd be seeing a lot of artists drop out and
they're not they're not selling us. Also, we're in a

(01:45:03):
streaming era as well, so glow drops her album and
she's projected to have like the second highest selling album
of the year, like her and Meg her Neck and Neck.
So that means that she's gonna be right under Nikki
with the top selling album this year. That's a big
deal because they had kind of go out. Yeah, So
I think the fact that she took her time with
this album and you can tell it was really a

(01:45:24):
labor of love.

Speaker 2 (01:45:25):
And that's what I can appreciate from an artist. Yeah,
I am. I mean the album itself, like this solid
album is good. I like, I have heard a couple
of songs, but I haven't had the chance to just
ride to the whole thing just yet.

Speaker 1 (01:45:36):
But I am yeah, am I love go. Yeah, I'm
happy to see her. I like even though she.

Speaker 2 (01:45:41):
Always want to argue, I'd be like, oh, I didn't
do nothing to you, what are you talking about this?
She all down here, no cast like when we all
you don't want to drink with me? And I'm looking
down at her, like, girl, why you would to argue
with me?

Speaker 1 (01:45:56):
But yeah, And I saw her in concert over the
summer when she was opening up for Meg, and she
ate down.

Speaker 2 (01:46:04):
Yeah. I love that. Yet I haven't seen her in
concert yet she's good.

Speaker 1 (01:46:11):
Yeah, I haven't seen her in concert, but we saw
her perform at the Awards and she was really good.
I think that stage presence is what a lot of
people are missing. And I'm not saying you gotta do
a full eight counting this and x y Z. I
just think it's how you yes, and she can really
rock a cry Meghan stage, I don't know fire what.

Speaker 2 (01:46:29):
Like an eight count? You like? You're from Houston and
Beyonce is the eight count queen. She is.

Speaker 1 (01:46:36):
Megan is a dancer too, mean gonna do an eight count?

Speaker 2 (01:46:40):
Bro? Oh? Yeah? I like, but I like a little
bit of both. But I told y'all me, yes, she
doesn't dance with her cousin was dancing.

Speaker 1 (01:46:50):
She's one of them dances like y'all remember how mc
henry his dancers used to say they would pass out
because they was dancing.

Speaker 2 (01:46:55):
That's what it gives me, like dancing for meg Ambionce
and Beyonce playing baby. But I told you you mean.

Speaker 1 (01:47:04):
Yeah, But I do feel like glow like she does
a little a count and it's cute, but she's she
works the crowd well, So okay, shout out to glow. Yeah, okay,
y'all know, y'all know how to mix it up from
my bop of the week. Y'all know, I love me
some Tanner Adele. She is a black country music artist
right now that's killing it. And she dropped a new

(01:47:24):
song called Silverado, and I just love the fact that
her voice is so country but you can still hear
that soul. I love a country artist where like, you know,
you can hear it when it's a black woman singing okay.
So it's like you can tell, like, and she has
a distinctive voice. I love when I hear a voice
on the radio, like when you hear Beyonce, you know
it's her.

Speaker 2 (01:47:42):
When you hear Adele, you know it's her.

Speaker 1 (01:47:44):
I feel like Tanner Adele has that voice where it's like, okay,
this is Tanner Adale singing okay.

Speaker 2 (01:47:48):
So I'm also sense of both of them. Yeah, yeah,
is good.

Speaker 1 (01:47:52):
She's fired, She's fired. So yeah, shout out to Tannerdale Silverado.
That's my BAP of the week.

Speaker 2 (01:47:58):
What's up, y'all? Iss your girl? Xp andy Sgirls ran
a call and.

Speaker 1 (01:48:01):
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know you heard of a hotline, but this is the
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Speaker 2 (01:48:08):
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Speaker 1 (01:48:09):
Y'all need to call in y'all, And this is not
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Speaker 2 (01:48:13):
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Speaker 1 (01:48:14):
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So you can always call six seven eight eight two
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Speaker 2 (01:48:24):
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Speaker 1 (01:48:26):
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says a brother, cousin, boyfriend.

Speaker 2 (01:48:30):
Okay, well I want to hear about that.

Speaker 1 (01:48:32):
Actually, well you know they can let a little some
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Like she said, this is not questions, This is not
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(01:48:54):
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(01:49:17):
that's your questions. Send us your testimonials, because you know,
sometimes we be fucking shut up to buck y'all, life
up a little bit.

Speaker 2 (01:49:25):
You give good I think you do. I don't know.
I like you. I take some good.

Speaker 1 (01:49:30):
Advice today I know now, like I'm not giving my
child up twice a month.

Speaker 2 (01:49:33):
Yeah, what's the what's the advice? Okay, what's the question?
Number one? I'm done with her. I'm done. It's around,
it's over, it's around. You know what. I ain't gonna lie.
You're right, I'm done. Pushed it myself. You took it there,

(01:49:56):
all right? Yep?

Speaker 1 (01:49:57):
Okay, hey, early to start off, I love the show.
I started watching you guys at the time when I
was at my lowest, and I've been tuned in since.
I'm in a situation where i've met this dude back
in March around spring break in Miami. Turns out we
are from the same state, just two hours away from
each other. After Miami, we kept in contact and met

(01:50:17):
up on several occasions. After the third link up, we
became real acquainted. If you know, you know, and it
was going good. So I thought, if you know, you
know what.

Speaker 2 (01:50:29):
I don't know? I don't know.

Speaker 1 (01:50:35):
She said, And it was going good, so I thought.
On the fourth time I came over to his house,
I found some lashes in the bathroom. I brought this
to his attention, but he claims it's old. I'm usually
the type to keep it hard on a go on.

Speaker 2 (01:50:50):
Hard on a go thank god, hard on the whole.
She probably did, or maybe that's what they stayed. Where
she from? Okay, where's she from?

Speaker 1 (01:51:01):
Hard on the gost But I was really like him,
so I just ignored it.

Speaker 2 (01:51:07):
The next week after that, we went to his.

Speaker 1 (01:51:09):
Crib and I walked up to his dog showing up
a pretty little thing tag not mine, obviously, Hey, what's wrong.

Speaker 2 (01:51:16):
With pretty little things?

Speaker 1 (01:51:17):
It wasn't hers, so it was another girl that was Yeah.
I don't think she was saying, Okay, have a baby,
showered her too. You don't say nothing no more, and.

Speaker 2 (01:51:36):
That was my last link whim.

Speaker 1 (01:51:38):
Months later, I still think about him because we was
really hitting it off until that happened. I haven't found
a vibe since then. I know I should stand on business,
but weirdly he comes across my mind too often. Mind you,
I don't really do the situationships. I'm more of a
long term relationship girally. I actually told talk to you
about this yesterday. We were on the phone and I

(01:52:00):
was like, one thing that I learned is stop trying
to be the cool girl and not telling a man
what you want because you want to be like, Oh,
I don't want to say I want a relationship, but yeah,
I think that you should tell your intentions. I'm not
dating for a situationship. I'm not dating for friends with benefits.
I am a woman who is looking for a relationship.
I usually do more serious, committed things. So you could
have saved yourself the heartbreak by having that conversation before.

Speaker 2 (01:52:23):
Y'all got jiggy witty.

Speaker 1 (01:52:25):
So I think a lot of times we waste our
time by trying to be like chill when you know
you don't want to just chill and hang out, because
that could have been clarified. He could have told you, hey,
I'm not looking to settle down. I got other people
i'm dating and I'm just trying to figure it out
right now, you wouldn't have got your feelings hurt. So
I think to prevent that, have conversations at the beginning.
But you are obviously already gotten past that point. So

(01:52:46):
I think it's okay sometimes to get clarity. I think
a lot of times people have pride. If you want
to communicate with him and say, hey, you know what
I've been thinking about you, I'd.

Speaker 2 (01:52:54):
Like to have a conversation.

Speaker 1 (01:52:56):
And if he dismisses that, you know what it is,
so you can really properly move on. But if he's
open to have a conversation, have the conversation. I'm just
not a powerful person anymore when it comes to oh
I take him last.

Speaker 2 (01:53:07):
I called.

Speaker 1 (01:53:08):
If I want to talk about something and get something
off my chest, that's what I'm gonna do.

Speaker 2 (01:53:11):
I'm mature about it.

Speaker 1 (01:53:12):
If you want to feel some type of way, whatever,
you're not the person for me.

Speaker 2 (01:53:16):
So that's how I feel about it. Yeah, I don't know,
that's right. I see I was being good. Girl was
coming something.

Speaker 3 (01:53:27):
Yeah, all right, all right.

Speaker 1 (01:53:29):
Okay, hello Drea and Lex. I adore you guys, and
your podcast is my go to source of comfort. But
I've been dating this guy for six months, and I've
lately told him that he's not romantic enough and that
he doesn't do enough. I've also told him that he
doesn't express his feelings to me, which makes me feel
like he can't trust me or talk to me about anything.
I open up and I am eager to do more
romantic things, but only if he puts in the same effort.

(01:53:52):
We recently broke up and he advised me to find
someone better who could provide me more than he does.
But I don't want anyone else, just him. But a
part of me wanting to give him another chance, and
a part of me doesn't.

Speaker 2 (01:54:05):
What should I do? I'm twenty, by the way, Oh
drop that nigga's like a mixtape. Yeah.

Speaker 1 (01:54:10):
If a man tells you go find somebody else, listen
to him.

Speaker 2 (01:54:13):
He's telling you because he told kill him nothing else
to provide. You're twenty. If that man don't want to
change change the man, hey, come on that word change?
I did you change them? I agree. I feel like
if the word he's a problem a big one.

Speaker 1 (01:54:34):
I feel like when you ask a man something or
a thing.

Speaker 2 (01:54:38):
A band, usually if he really fucks with you, he
gonna lie. Right. Maybe I'm troll, baby, I love your baby.

Speaker 1 (01:54:44):
But if a man straight up tell you nah, I
ain't finna do that shit, go you can move on. Please,
you're not like you and I know be hard for
you to hear in harsh words. I guarantee you, six
months from now you're not even gonna be thinking about him.

Speaker 2 (01:54:59):
You're twenty years old. That's first of all. That's yeah.
First one foremo, if you don't even stop writing us
about that, you got other stuff to be working talking
about boy about something that, don't write us about nothing
about No man, I don't want to hear nothing at Rainbow.
Did you what that was it? I had a great time.

(01:55:20):
I had a great time. No ever, we're gonna do it.
And you took it there. Okay, you're right, but you
wheeled me back in when you gave that great advice
and not here you go. I tricked you? What did
you trick me?

Speaker 1 (01:55:29):
What did she say about she was only twenty? That
was probably my cashier at Rainbow.

Speaker 2 (01:55:35):
You see, you have to say that you you did
that on your own, cash doll, Where can we find you?
She said, she probably I'm gonna I'm leaving after this
because she followed me. Where can they find you? You know,

(01:55:58):
I'm sorry that you are. We little all gone, Okay,
we expect from cash dog. Where we gonna find you?
At all that good stuff? Can I say? I was
so sad when they killed you off being y'all know

(01:56:20):
the lady I played really died. I know how she No,
that's not how she passed. Okay, but she really passed.

Speaker 1 (01:56:28):
That is crazy? Like job, next time you do a
Detroit movie telling me, you know.

Speaker 2 (01:56:34):
I don't want to hear nothing. You have to say that.
I don't even want you to take out for real.
You need to get hired. You know everybody producing. We're
best friends. We gotta travel cross country so I can
pick up my kids.

Speaker 1 (01:56:47):
Yeah, left Detroit be having all the good to be
movies though.

Speaker 2 (01:56:56):
Job, and we're gonna pick right up on the way
girls Detroit version. I got my accent downpacked. What up? Though?
That is not what she said her ascent because she
said what up, doll? I mean my lingo, what okay?

(01:57:18):
What up? All right? What up? Though? Then be like
you got dog ship? One? You got dogs? Could I'll
be saying dogs is dog ship? Dogs? Dogs ship? Yeah?
I mean I feel sound like I'm country. And then
when they say you got that dog ship, that means
you got that. Yeah, you know, I might have.

Speaker 1 (01:57:37):
Like a a cat farttting on like that cat litter
like a little cat poot.

Speaker 2 (01:57:44):
Okay, y'all can follow me at cash all k A
S H D O L L album coming over in
the fifteen. Don't get that. I got a single out
right now with Tink. It's called Coffee. And don't ever
ever get to comfortable. Lex is fucking crazy and the

(01:58:05):
video with her, you don't ever have to worry about
me again. Couples of that video, Shoot, you're not you
and you asked she asked the ship on, y'all, I'm not.
You're not getting the past.

Speaker 1 (01:58:20):
You add this ship on and be sitting here laughing like,
what's she crazy?

Speaker 2 (01:58:24):
No, but this was an amazing episode. I had a
good time. But I got all.

Speaker 1 (01:58:33):
I've been waiting on you and we had so much
fun today.

Speaker 2 (01:58:36):
Time I let you all in my business A little bit.
What I'm saying, I told my b a little bit,
you know, a little bit. Ain't nothing wrong with that.
You know, I'm humans, you know, Yeah, we like to
see the human side, we do. I've been trying lately.
I've been doing vlogs and I've been you know, expressing
myself a little more and just like I'm not going
to that ship. Yeah, and you know what, it's helping me,

(01:58:59):
so you know, we love it. It's relatable to so
many women though, especially now too that you're a mom,
you know, Like I know, women love to see that
because you're so multifaceted, like you do so many different things.

Speaker 1 (01:59:10):
You're a business woman, you're a boss, and you a mother,
and you always will put together, Like I feel like
that's something that women really struggling.

Speaker 2 (01:59:19):
A long time ago.

Speaker 1 (01:59:21):
This is when I had three dollars in my bank
account and you was doing a flag That's another story.

Speaker 2 (01:59:27):
This is why I'm leaving her. The way you did
a tour, a house tour. This is when you're still
live in Detroit. You know what video I'm talking about?
Are you talking about? When I said off the water?
I don't, Yes, And it was beauty. Thank you it
was such a delight the light. Then I flipped my
three dollars into but I think good to see because.

Speaker 1 (01:59:50):
It's an inspiration. Yeah you know what I'm saying.

Speaker 2 (01:59:53):
So I've been getting back into that, you know, like
even Jazz, she's my social media manager, and that's why, y'all.
She will tell y'all she's here. I used to buy
stuff and just put it up and she would come
to my calls and she'll see it, like you didn't
do it on boxing and I'd be like no, She's like,
you got to start putting that stuff.

Speaker 1 (02:00:10):
Yeah, you know what I'm saying, And it's motivational, and
she like.

Speaker 2 (02:00:12):
You know, it's motivational. Like I got to a point
where I was like, I don't want to put it
in people's face no more. Yeah, you know, I started
felying bad. Like my birthday post, she made it me.
I spent a whole bunch of money on like a
whole bunch of stuff, and she like, she made her
little post and she said what she said on there,
and I was like, I took it off my profile,
oh no, cause I was like I don't like it's
just making people feel bad.

Speaker 1 (02:00:31):
I ain't gonna lie, but that's the hate like you,
it's the haters that's feeling mad. The people who need
to be motivated, and the people who like you appreciate
appreciate it.

Speaker 2 (02:00:42):
And I learned that even she was teaching me that
because she she fly herself. You know, she was teaching
me that, like, no, we want to see that shit. Yeah,
a little crazy. Yeah, you had picture a long time ago.

Speaker 1 (02:00:52):
I can't remember exactly the outfit you had on, but
I know you had Louis Vatan on from head to toe.

Speaker 2 (02:00:57):
Everything.

Speaker 1 (02:00:58):
I think you had, like the bell, the head man,
it was like the bag, the shoes, it was like
everything was.

Speaker 2 (02:01:04):
Oh my god. And I remember that picture distinct.

Speaker 1 (02:01:06):
I was like, man, she really be like And they
got to a point to work because I like to
shop too, and my nickname they call me to Louis
Vaton Don. I don't like don because I will I
love Louis Vatan. I do like I love Louis Vatan
always they see me in the airport, they'd be like, okay,
the dawn Okay. But I say that because I think
that's important to see sometimes because it's not about bragging,

(02:01:26):
it's about inspiring people. Because that little picture that you posted.
I didn't take it as oh, she's bragging. It inspired me.
I'm like, bro, we can really go out here and
get this get on our own.

Speaker 2 (02:01:36):
Okay. So y'all motivated me some more too, So I'm
gonna start showing a little bit more. I appreciate that.

Speaker 1 (02:01:41):
I said, I need to see some more money in
Louisa's son because I need to have a baby shower
there too.

Speaker 2 (02:01:45):
Exactly. I got to a point because I used to
do it so much, and you know, Detroit, we are
like stunners. Yeah, like the son. We like to show
off and all that stuff. And then the other part
of the world was not really familiar with that, and
the thought that it was more bragging and posting and
stuff like that. And I never want to try to
make people feel small. I'm really a sweetheart in the inside.
So I bagged off of it. My regular life was

(02:02:08):
just my regular life. I was never just posting it,
like how people they're shopping, they're showing. I stopped and
then once I you know, she's twenty five, so she like, no,
you're gonna post this. I'm posting it. I don't care.
She'll say, I'm pushing posts I'm sitting in now, and
I'll just like go ahead whatever. Yeah, and then once
I see it it made me cringch I'll take it

(02:02:28):
off my profile like it'd be like, no, it'll be
on my real side.

Speaker 1 (02:02:32):
Yeah. Though it's not like you're getting it from somebody
else or and it's my I always say this, and
this is no shade.

Speaker 2 (02:02:38):
This is no shade.

Speaker 1 (02:02:38):
I always say if you go to a woman's profile
and she has a lot of things and she doesn't
brag about like what she does for a living, or
you don't know what she does for a living, it's
probably not necessarily the person that you want to look at.
Because I feel like, if you are a person who
is passionate about being a boss, you can look at
your page and we can see what you do.

Speaker 2 (02:02:57):
I mean outside of people who are like, you.

Speaker 1 (02:02:59):
Know, in the medical so they don't want to you know,
they don't want you to know where they work or
things like that.

Speaker 2 (02:03:03):
I'm I'm a doctor, doctors and stuff. But people but
you know, they always I say that. I say that
when you go to girls page and you you see
all these this luxury things and you don't know what
they do they doing something. You don't need to know
what they do. You don't need you don't need to
know they don't what they do. This they bread and butter.

(02:03:25):
I'm not shading that, but I'm saying for you, either
they're a prostitute. You a scammer maid. You're a scammer cammer. Yes,
you're a rich nigga baby mama, you wanted them. You
ain't wanted somebody to have their own theme. That's going
that they're actually, you know, nurturing and and it's feeding
them in their family. That's not knowing.

Speaker 1 (02:03:47):
And I think that's important for especially Black women to
see losses and people like, we know what you do.

Speaker 2 (02:03:52):
We need you working because it ain't that much private.

Speaker 1 (02:03:55):
Not because when you're a woman and you're proud because
first of all, when you really.

Speaker 2 (02:03:59):
Built some sheep. But look, listen, that's what I was
happy about my plaque. Yeah, I'm like, I got me
some I'm doing my things. You know what I'm saying.
Not easy to get. Yeah, And y'all every time I
go someth be out still double platinum in my home. Okay, No,
for real, I'm serious And for everybody I know, for

(02:04:19):
everybody got to be platinum in a lot of cars. Well, yeah,
you gotta play for your nigga when you've got to
tell him what he's time for him. So good, I
love it. But yes, thank you for joining us. Y'all.
Make sure y'all follow Cash y'all album gots win again
November fifteenth.

Speaker 1 (02:04:38):
November fifteenth, y'all running up and we'll se y'all next week.

Speaker 2 (02:04:42):
A y'all, y'all, make sure.

Speaker 1 (02:04:44):
Y'all share the content like subscribe, follow all that good stuff.
And let me say this before we close out, y'all.
There is one Twitter account that is connected to four Minds.
It's p O. You are underscore in my n ds.
Y'all are the wrong poor Minds page. If you see
at poor Minds with no underscore, that is at fake page,

(02:05:05):
do not follow that page. Okay, they blocked me Andrea
and the poor Minds page on both so we only
have one Instagram, one Twitter, one TikTok.

Speaker 2 (02:05:17):
It's p O, you are underscore in my nds, all right,
and we gotta hell a fake Facebook page. The Facebook
pages it's our face.

Speaker 1 (02:05:26):
The crazy thing is our Facebook page actually have the
least amount of file. So if you're on face the
one that's ours got the least amount of file, but
one that's not us got like two hundred and fifty.
Make if you actually look at the content, because the caption.

Speaker 2 (02:05:40):
Is like whoever it is, don't speak English? Because their
captures are like bumba claude? Should men? Should men pay bill?
Should men pay bill? Yes? No? Check answer below block
block pull pull pull off like that's literally with the captions.
I'm like you what that DG's bumba claude shell? Can

(02:06:02):
you handle this? Beyonce? Can you handle this? I don't
think they can handle this? Whoa barely move weave.

Speaker 1 (02:06:09):
Arrival looking sexy, look and fly bad as hit chick inside.

Speaker 4 (02:06:15):
DJ jail the night spight to me, tend the thing
there you are?

Speaker 2 (02:06:20):
Come on, baby, don't you wanna dance with me? Can
you handle you? Know what I mean? You gotta do
much better if you're gonna dance whip me tonight. You
gotta work your chentley if you're gonna dance whip me tonight.

Speaker 3 (02:06:34):
So's my hip blessedly if you.

Speaker 2 (02:06:36):
Like what you'll say, do your groo had with me?

Speaker 3 (02:06:39):
My your looks I got you shook up A scared
of me, baby, I.

Speaker 2 (02:06:44):
Don't think you're headed fo this jelly. I don't think
your headed for this jelly. Out of your head for.

Speaker 3 (02:06:50):
This, because my body too borner this shits for your bad.

Speaker 2 (02:06:54):
Head and fro this jelly head, fo this jelly. I
on your head, folk, that's my body too, but delicious
for your bag. Can you handle this? Baby? Can you
handle this? Baby? Can you handle this? I don't think
you can handle this? Whoa? I'm about to break off?

(02:07:15):
Hey shall.

Speaker 3 (02:07:17):
Leave my lips, slap, swing my hall, swam my eyes.

Speaker 2 (02:07:22):
Looking smelling good, growing like I'm from over your shoulder
your kids. Can't you handle head? I don't think you're
ready for this, Shelley. I don't think you're ready for this, Shelley.
I don't think you're.

Speaker 3 (02:07:36):
Ready for me, because my body too.

Speaker 2 (02:07:38):
By cigarette for this day. Out a cigarette for this daigarette.

Speaker 4 (02:07:45):
For because my body too booty. It just for your
your body up and down, make your body crow. I
can't help my What the way soviv olicious.

Speaker 2 (02:07:58):
For your back? Shake my jelly with with my hips?

Speaker 3 (02:08:03):
Yeah, just put the wall and Johney that I got,
try a little while. If sket just can't whoa?

Speaker 1 (02:08:08):
What fun.

Speaker 2 (02:08:15):
Bowl pal pow pal, I don't think red. Yeah, because
my body too bore.

Speaker 1 (02:08:27):
So.

Speaker 2 (02:08:30):
Distant out the figurehead f thing.

Speaker 3 (02:08:32):
Because my body too bootash is for your back.

Speaker 1 (02:08:35):
Out the figurehead soire, figure head.

Speaker 3 (02:08:41):
So thing, because my body too botash. I don't r head,
it's so dishing out of the bigre head. Out of
there head thing because my body too boon. Shots for
your baby, ye can figure right, your body too bodher.

Speaker 2 (02:09:02):
This is fine man, I'm okay, figurehead fout this head
out of figurehead, fout this My body too boorderless shots
fine your baby?

Speaker 1 (02:09:13):
Hey, y.

Speaker 3 (02:09:16):
You that now that was the best karaokey.

Speaker 2 (02:09:22):
We ain't bad now.

Speaker 3 (02:09:23):
Shout out to these kids.

Speaker 2 (02:09:26):
We ain't the children and were kids.

Speaker 3 (02:09:29):
We have to kiss just kids

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