Oscar Wilde, Novelist & Poet

Welcome to Power Talks! Today's episode is just for you if you’ve ever struggled with self-love. We’re diving into a powerful quote by the legendary Oscar Wilde: “To love oneself is the beginning of a lifelong romance.”

Think about it—how often do we seek love and validation from others while forgetting to give it to ourselves? Loving yourself isn’t selfish; it’s essential! It’s about treating yourself with kindness, confidence, and respect. When you embrace self-love, life feels lighter, happier, and more fulfilling.

Stick with me as we unpack this quote and explore how to build the best relationship of all—the one with yourself! Let’s dive in!

Episode Transcript

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This is Life is Positive.

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Welcome back to Power Talks by Life is Positive,
the podcast where we break down powerful words that can change how we think, feel, and live.
Today, we've got a quote that is pure gold.
It comes from the brilliantly witty and ever-iconic Oscar Wilde.
To love oneself is the beginning of a lifelong romance.

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Oscar Wilde was an Irish poet, playwright, and novelist
known for his sharp wit and flamboyant style.
Now, I don't know about you, but I love the sound of that.
A lifelong romance? With yourself? Sign me up.
Alright, let's talk about it.
Loving yourself. It sounds like a no-brainer, right?

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But be honest, how often do you truly treat yourself like someone you love?
Do you hype yourself up the way you do your best friend?
Or are you more like that over-critical gym coach in your head, pointing out every tiny mistake?
Here's the thing. Wilde wasn't just being poetic.
He was dropping some serious life advice.

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Loving yourself is not about ego or vanity.
It's about respect, kindness, and appreciation for you.
You know, the same way you'd cherish someone you're in love with.
Think about it. When you love someone, you care for them, support them, and forgive their flaws.
Now imagine if you did that for yourself. Game changer.

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So, how do we start this lifelong romance with ourselves?
First, talk to yourself like a friend.
If your bestie made a mistake, would you say,
Wow, you're the absolute worst?
No, right? You'd be supportive and remind them that they're human.
So why not extend the same kindness to yourself?

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Second, invest in what makes you happy.
Love yourself enough to do things that bring you joy,
whether that's painting, traveling, dancing in your living room,
or just taking a nap without feeling guilty.
And third, set boundaries.
Loving yourself means knowing your worth and not settling for anything less,

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whether in friendships, work, or relationships.
Oscar Wilde was onto something big.
Self-love isn't just about feeling good at the moment.
It's about building a strong, lasting relationship with the person who will always be with you.
You.
So, let's make a pact.
From today, let's start treating ourselves with the same care, patience, and admiration

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we give to the people we love.
That's it for today's Power Talks.
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Until next time, love yourself, trust yourself, and most importantly, enjoy your company.
See you soon.

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Remember, happiness is not by chance, but by choice.
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