How much do you trust your information? We know just how difficult it is to trust our information. Sometimes we let other people influence us to make decisions against our intuitions, and we end up in a hot mess.
Lili recalls ten years ago in LA. One of her friends was moving from their apartment, and they wanted Lili to take it up in case they came back later. It would be easier to have it back. Deep down, Lili didn’t want it. She consulted with people who made her believe it was a good idea. Her friend offered to pay half the rent since it was higher than Lili's. Besides being more expensive, the apartment was too far away from all the jobs Lili had. A few months down the line, Lili’s friend stopped chipping in with the rent. Lili’s failure to trust her intuition cost her a lot.
Shannon grew up with a voluntary parental role. She was always taking care of other people starting with her sister. Her experience made it difficult for her to depend on other people. She had a rough time expressing her needs in her relationships. These relationships always hurt her deeply, especially when people rejected her because she gave her all to them. Deep down, Shannon knew she wasn’t doing right by herself, but she continued.
In this episode, we will share how we learn to trust our intuitions, the boundaries we are setting and what we are unlearning.
Listen to this episode and learn.
Key Talking Points of the Episode:
[00:48] How Lili trusts her information
[07:07] How Shannon trusts her information
[11:39] How to become aware of your emotional needs
[13:37] Why is it so hard to trust yourself?
[22:01] Setting boundaries and saying no to people
Magical Quotes from the Episode:
“When you trust other people's information, the outcome is never great.”
“My time and energy are sacred; not many people should have access to that.”
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Resources:
School for Meditation and Healing
Center for the New Age
Book: Boundary Boss
Note: This podcast is for informational and entertainment purposes only.
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