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November 30, 2024 33 mins

In this episode of 'Pussy Ain't Free', Pastel Brooksville McCoy discusses the importance of setting standards and non-negotiables in dating. She emphasizes the need for women to establish clear boundaries to avoid settling for less than they deserve. The conversation also touches on the concept of degrees of separation in dating, advising listeners to date within their level to avoid unnecessary heartache and disappointment. Pastel encourages her "Butterflies" to recognize their worth and not settle for less than they deserve in relationships.


TAKEAWAYS

  • Setting standards is crucial in dating.
  • Non-negotiables help define what you won't tolerate.
  • Women should demand respect and accountability.
  • Boundaries protect your emotional well-being.
  • It's important to assess potential partners carefully.
  • Don't date below your standards or degrees of separation.
  • Self-worth is key to successful relationships.
  • Be honest with yourself about what you want.
  • Men should contribute to the relationship financially and emotionally.
  • Empowerment comes from knowing your value and not settling.


CHAPTERS

00:00 Setting Standards and Non-Negotiables

09:37 The Importance of Boundaries in Dating

19:07 Degrees of Separation in Relationships


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