All Episodes

March 16, 2025 β€’ 32 mins

SUMMARY

In this episode of Pussy Ain't Free, Pastel Brooksville McCoy shares her journey of becoming a grandmother and reflects on her personal growth. The conversation delves into the dynamics of dating younger men versus older men, exploring themes of emotional maturity, financial stability, and family planning. Pastel emphasizes the importance of compatibility in relationships and the need for women to set standards in their dating lives. She also discusses the responsibilities of parenting and the significance of protecting children in the context of relationships. The episode concludes with insights on personal development and upcoming projects.

TAKEAWAYS

  • Pastel is excited about becoming a grandmother and breaking generational curses.
  • She discusses the challenges of dating younger men and the differences in approach compared to older men.
  • Emotional maturity is crucial in relationships, and younger men may be more in tune with their partners' needs.
  • Financial stability plays a significant role in dating dynamics, with younger men often being more willing to spend.
  • Family planning is essential, especially for women who have already had children and are not looking to start over.
  • Pastel emphasizes the importance of protecting children in relationships and being mindful of their safety.
  • Women should let men court them and not rush into relationships based on attraction alone.
  • The podcast targets women aged 18 to 60, addressing their unique dating challenges.
  • Pastel reflects on her past dating experiences and the importance of growth and learning from them.
  • She shares her excitement for upcoming projects, including a new book and affirmation journals.


CHAPTERS

00:00 Introduction to a New Chapter

01:27 Embracing Grandmotherhood

02:22 Dating Younger Men vs. Older Men

09:14 Emotional Maturity in Relationships

12:55 The Dynamics of Energy and Compatibility

18:06 Financial Stability and Career Considerations

22:41 Cultural Differences in Dating

25:46 Family Planning and Responsibilities

29:46 Final Thoughts and Reflections


πŸ“š ORDER the PAF book here: https://pafthebook.com (https://pafthebook.com/)

πŸ’Œ Sign up to the mailing list: https://www.pastelbrooksvillemccoy.com (https://www.pastelbrooksvillemccoy.com/)

πŸ’‹ JOIN US ON SOCIAL MEDIA!

Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/p_ssyaintfree (https://www.instagram.com/p_ssyaintfree)

Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/@PussyAintFreethePodcast (https://www.youtube.com/@PussyAintFreethePodcast)πŸ’Œ

πŸ’Œ SAY HI TO THE HOST!


https://www.instagram.com/pastelbrooksvillemccoy (https://www.instagram.com/pastelbrooksvillemccoy)


https://www.tiktok.com/@PrettyPPastel (https://www.tiktok.com/@PrettyPPastel)


Mark as Played

Advertise With Us

Popular Podcasts

Fudd Around And Find Out

Fudd Around And Find Out

UConn basketball star Azzi Fudd brings her championship swag to iHeart Women’s Sports with Fudd Around and Find Out, a weekly podcast that takes fans along for the ride as Azzi spends her final year of college trying to reclaim the National Championship and prepare to be a first round WNBA draft pick. Ever wonder what it’s like to be a world-class athlete in the public spotlight while still managing schoolwork, friendships and family time? It’s time to Fudd Around and Find Out!

Crime Junkie

Crime Junkie

Does hearing about a true crime case always leave you scouring the internet for the truth behind the story? Dive into your next mystery with Crime Junkie. Every Monday, join your host Ashley Flowers as she unravels all the details of infamous and underreported true crime cases with her best friend Brit Prawat. From cold cases to missing persons and heroes in our community who seek justice, Crime Junkie is your destination for theories and stories you won’t hear anywhere else. Whether you're a seasoned true crime enthusiast or new to the genre, you'll find yourself on the edge of your seat awaiting a new episode every Monday. If you can never get enough true crime... Congratulations, you’ve found your people. Follow to join a community of Crime Junkies! Crime Junkie is presented by audiochuck Media Company.

24/7 News: The Latest

24/7 News: The Latest

The latest news in 4 minutes updated every hour, every day.

Music, radio and podcasts, all free. Listen online or download the iHeart App.

Connect

Β© 2025 iHeartMedia, Inc.