January 15, 2025 • 24 mins
In this episode of the Pure Intentions Podcast, we explore the joy of play in relationships and how fun, intentional activities can strengthen emotional bonds. Chrissy A. and Sir Anthony introduce the "You & Me" deck, a fun activities card game for couples designed to inspire connection, creativity, and shared growth. From creating secret handshakes to designing vision boards to funny improv storytelling, this episode is packed with ideas to bring more playfulness and depth to your relationship.
Looking for ways to deepen your connection? Check out the "You & Me" deck, your ultimate tool for meaningful and playful moments with your partner:
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💬 What’s the most playful thing you’ve done with your partner that brought you closer? Share in the comments below—we’d love to hear your stories!
Key Takeaways:
- Fun activities like games and creative exercises can strengthen your emotional bond.
- Shared experiences, such as creating secret handshakes or vision boards, promote deeper connection.
- Incorporating play into relationships fosters creativity, spontaneity, and joy.
- Intentional tools, like the "You & Me" deck, encourage meaningful conversations and shared growth.
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Chrissy A. (00:00):
They're so cute.
The cars are super cute.
Sir Anthony (00:02):
Create a unique secret handshake together.
Keep adding moves until one ofyou forgets the sequence.
And that's going to be oursecret handshake Mmm, mmm, mmm,
mmm, mmm, mmm.
Chrissy A. (00:15):
Perry, don't still watch it.
Welcome to the Pure IntentionsPodcast, where real love, raw
emotions and intentionalrelationships come together.
Welcome back to the pureintentions podcast where we talk
everything relationship from anintentional point of view.
I am your host, chrissy a andI'm your co-host, sir anthony
and today we're going to dive alittle deep into our cards.
(00:40):
You guys have been purchasingour cards and, for those of you
who have purchased them, pleasego to our website and leave a
review and tell us how you feelabout them and be completely
honest.
If there's anything that we'remissing that we can add to, we
would love to hear from you.
So, uh, yeah, I'm gonna let youkick this one off.
Sir Anthony (01:03):
So this is our new deck the Me and you deck and
we're gonna actually practicewhat we preach.
So it has activities to keepyour relationship intentional.
So you can use this on datenight, on marriage date night,
on makeup date night, first datenight, whatever you want to do.
(01:25):
So we're going to kick it offwith ourselves.
You can find the cards in ourstore on pureintentions314.com.
We have about five decksavailable.
It's going to expand out tomore, so give us your feedback
if you want us to add, changewhatever in the decks.
Chrissy A. (01:44):
But pretty cool, we're gonna get started before
we get started, I did want togive like a little background on
the you and me deck.
The you and me deck is a littlebit more light-hearted, fun, um
, engagement between couples,because typically when you get
into a relationship, before youget into a relationship, before
you get into a relationship,there's a you and there's a me.
(02:06):
So this deck is to makerelationships fun by creating
moments and memories andcreating the us out of it.
So we're going to get to someof them.
I'm so excited because Iabsolutely love this deck.
(02:26):
You guys Like I took time withthis one.
I did.
Sir Anthony (02:31):
I saw a card that I'm going to sneak to the top.
Chrissy A. (02:35):
Oh, my God.
Sir Anthony (02:38):
A secret handshake.
Chrissy A. (02:39):
Oh, you saw the secret handshake.
Now read it.
Sir Anthony (02:42):
It says create a unique secret handshake together
.
Keep adding moves until one ofyou forgets the sequence and
that's going to be our secrethandshake.
Chrissy A. (02:52):
Okay, you ready.
Sir Anthony (02:55):
Okay.
Chrissy A. (02:57):
So, okay, we got to keep creating.
So you want to start thecreation?
Sir Anthony (03:05):
First we're going to shake.
Chrissy A. (03:07):
Shake.
Sir Anthony (03:08):
Or just clap hands, clap.
Now it's your turn.
What are we doing?
Chrissy A. (03:14):
I'm going to get real gangsta and hit one of
these.
Sir Anthony (03:17):
Hit one of those, and then I'm going to hit that.
Ah, no, let's start over.
Chrissy A. (03:22):
No, no, no, okay, clap this one Clap.
Sir Anthony (03:28):
And then we're going to bring it up.
Chrissy A. (03:30):
Bring it up, throw it down.
Sir Anthony (03:32):
Throw it down, slap .
Chrissy A. (03:35):
Okay, now what do we do?
Sir Anthony (03:37):
It's your turn.
Chrissy A. (03:39):
But we got to keep doing it.
We got to do it again before weforget it.
Bring it up, throw it down,slap Okay doing it, we gotta do
it again, okay, okay, no, yeah,keep going oh so after this,
it's my turn yep we go?
No, it's not your turn.
Sir Anthony (03:59):
It's not your turn.
Leader.
Chrissy A. (04:02):
Leader we go here.
Sir Anthony (04:07):
And then we kiss, and that's our handshake.
Chrissy A. (04:10):
You want to do it all together.
Sir Anthony (04:11):
Yep, okay.
Chrissy A. (04:17):
Terry, don't steal our shit.
Don't steal our shit.
Sir Anthony (04:21):
Your turn.
Chrissy A. (04:22):
Okay, you definitely snuck that Just all the way at
the bottom.
You turn Okay, you definitelysnuck that Just all the way at
the bottom you guys.
Okay, and the cards are so cute.
Look at this, they're so cute.
They're so cute, the cards aresuper cute.
Okay.
So improv storytelling Taketurns telling the story, with
(04:45):
one person starting and theother adding to it, keep
building until it becomes ashared masterpiece.
So I'll start this time.
Okay, you start the handshake.
Let's, I'm gonna start theimprov storytelling.
I want to do it.
Um, I didn't put it in there,but a sentence at a time.
However you want to do it isfine, but a sentence at a time
(05:07):
will make it More, you know, fun.
Okay.
So Once upon a time, there wasa beautiful young Lady named
Lucy.
Sir Anthony (05:18):
And Lucy Was desperate to find Love.
Chrissy A. (05:24):
Damn, why did Lucy gotta be desperate, okay.
So she searched high and lowfrom grocery stores to the
liquor store.
The liquor stores.
Sir Anthony (05:39):
And all she found was Dusty's until.
Chrissy A. (05:41):
she found was Dusty's until her fairy god pimp
sprinkled some pimp juice onher and she met the most
wonderful man she's ever seenbefore.
Sir Anthony (06:05):
But he had a big zip on his forehead the size of
the Eiffel Tower.
Chrissy A. (06:17):
And she could not get past that eyesore, so she
made him a doctor's appointmentto see if anything could be
fixed.
Sir Anthony (06:28):
And when he got the doctor's appointment they bust
a vessel and he bled so muchthat he cried.
And when he cried she got tosee his vulnerable side and she
was so happy that she lookedpast the zit.
And they lived happily everafter.
Chrissy A. (06:56):
What the hell baby.
Sir Anthony (06:58):
Gotta throw some curveballs in there.
This is life.
Life ain't so.
You know, life is like rollercoasters.
Chrissy A. (07:05):
That was the most beautiful love story I've ever
heard in my life, I bet you, ifwe film it, it's like pretty
good movie, right?
Okay, you want to pull see howfun these cards are like and you
can create anything that youwant out of it, so it's pretty
(07:26):
dope yeah, so the card I justpulled is called relationship
rules.
Create five relationship rulesthat reflect how you want to
support and care for each otherokay, um, so a rule that I think
this would probably be good ifwe wrote these down too and
(07:49):
stuck with them, because this iswhere the building intentional
relationships come in.
With these cards, like they'relight, they're fun, fun, but
you're also building intimacyand stronger relationship
connections, and if you want tocreate more than five rules,
(08:13):
that's completely fine.
I just thought five was a goodnumber yeah, you first rule
number one never do anythingthat you wouldn't do if I was
standing there.
If you're thinking about doingsomething that you wouldn't do
(08:37):
if I was right there, then don'tdo it.
Sir Anthony (08:40):
Okay, rule number two listen.
Listen not just to respond, butsometimes listening doesn't
require a response.
Okay, you write, all right youwrite.
Your writing is impeccable wehad penmanship class in grade
(09:03):
school.
Chrissy A. (09:04):
Oh.
Sir Anthony (09:08):
Number three.
Number three is never go to bedmad.
Number four a weekly check-inon the relationship.
Chrissy A. (09:33):
Okay, I like that Okay.
Sir Anthony (09:39):
What's the final one?
The final one would be put eachother first well, we gonna
probably put this, scan this andput it on the screen later yeah
, so we can show it to y'all.
Yeah, our relationship rulessend us y'all relationship rules
(10:01):
.
Go to pureintentions314.com.
There's a contact button.
Go ahead, send that to us andlet us know.
Chrissy A. (10:09):
We want to see it and share it yeah, it might be
essential for us to even shareit on the next podcast and talk
more about it.
Sir Anthony (10:19):
So, yeah, send us that all right, y'all back to
the cars.
Whose turn is it, yours or mine?
Chrissy A. (10:29):
Okay, share your favorite memory of your partner
and why it's special to you.
Go ahead, oh, my memory.
That's really special.
I have so many, I have so many,I have so many.
(10:54):
But I'm going to take it backto the day that we started
talking, like the very firsttime we started talking.
I talk about it a couple ofpodcasts, you know from this one
.
However, it was just such amemorable day for me.
(11:17):
Um, the way that I felt like itwasn't like I expected us to be
in a long-term committedrelationship.
I was open to it, but it waslike just enjoying a moment,
like that was the one time thatI lived in the present moment
and did everything that I feltand wanted to do, and you were
(11:40):
very receptive of it.
And we had some hiccup momentslater on that night and it was
so fun, I don't know.
I enjoyed seeing you in acertain level of vulnerability.
You know what I'm talking aboutyeah.
Yeah, so I enjoyed seeing you ina vulnerable state and making
(12:06):
like fun of it.
You know like I saw so manystages of you that day and I
feel like I showed you so manystages of me and we were drunk,
but that's not the point.
But that was one of the bestmoments, that most memorable
moments, the best moments thatI've shared with you for me.
Sir Anthony (12:30):
I'm gonna go back to how you treated me for
sweetest day weekend.
Forget sweetest day, it was awhole weekend.
It was a complete surprise.
I didn't have to plan anything.
All I had to do was pack andshow up and didn't even have to
pay and didn't even have todrive, and so we just went
(12:54):
surprised, enjoy, ate well andhad a lot of fun and it was more
surprises because other familycame and joined in the.
Chrissy A. (13:09):
You know couples fun , so yeah yeah, I got my little
gloss on you so I'm popping yeah, you popping baby you look good
though, okay, okay reversedrawing one partner describes an
(13:30):
object without naming it andthe other has to draw it based
on the description.
Okay, you want to draw or youwant to describe?
Well, I can draw and this canbe any object, you guys,
anything you think of, just justdescribe it and the other
(13:52):
person has to draw it.
See if they get it right let'ssee let me think about okay,
okay, this object is round,round and it's so round because
(14:14):
it has air in it and it has alot of lines on it.
On it it's orange okay it hadsome words on it, one word
(14:49):
specifically.
I can't tell you the word,because then you'll know the.
It don't have that many lineson it and the lines are through
it that look like a Show thepeople that.
That look like a.
That looks like a DNA,something DNA-like.
(15:10):
The lines are through it.
Sir Anthony (15:17):
And it's orange.
Chrissy A. (15:18):
Yes, and it has a word on it that starts with S.
It could have other words on it, but this one is famous on a
movie that it stars in.
This thing stars in the movie.
Sir Anthony (15:41):
I need more that's everything.
Chrissy A. (15:46):
Sp okay in the movie .
It's not like a star, like witha name, it's just everywhere in
the movie Because you can playwith it and then the movie has.
Sir Anthony (16:07):
Is it a basketball?
Yes, Spalding.
Chrissy A. (16:10):
And then the movie has it a basketball.
Yeah, spalding let's redo that,because then they're like you,
slow no, no, that's the point ofthe game is fun, man, it's been
a basketball, I'm ready.
Sir Anthony (16:34):
My object is you gonna get this fast?
The object has big eyeballslike two big eyeballs like this
big.
Even though it's happy, it'salways frowning With eyebrows
(16:59):
frowning.
The nose looks like a littlewiener hot dog.
The little snossages looks likea little wiener hot dog.
The little sausages.
The hair is, imagine BartSimpson spiky, but to the back.
(17:22):
So Bart Simpson spikes is up,this spikes is to the back and
it's blue.
I knew once I said blue, is itsonic?
(17:45):
okay, period thinking about camfavorite character I see I love
that about you.
Chrissy A. (17:51):
I love that like you , how you love my son.
It's such an amazing thing towitness, like even with his
y'all my son watch youtube theweirdest shows and the fact that
you are able to like pinpointhis shows and be like man.
(18:13):
He was watching this show andyou telling a whole story about
this show and I'm just like,okay, cause me, I will sit there
and pretend like I'm watchingit with him, but I ain't
watching it.
You know, I'm just likeenjoying him watching it and
seeing him like sitting therewhile you're actually engaging
(18:34):
into his favorite things, and Ilove how you are with him.
I love how he loves you Like.
It's such a special thing forme.
Sir Anthony (18:43):
That's easy.
Chrissy A. (18:45):
Yeah, aww.
And then you thought of hisfavorite character, okay, okay,
do we got another one?
Oh, was that the last one thatwe was gonna do?
Sir Anthony (19:00):
I'll give one more, but otherwise you should go to
our store, pureintentions314.com.
And one.
We always all do this, but do avision board which you may I'll
read it.
Create a vision board together.
Use online images or oldmagazines to visually map your
shared goals and dreams.
Chrissy A. (19:20):
So do that as a couple creating a vision board
helps you understand what youenvision, actually see it for
your future, so that you canmake the moves to actually do it
.
It's like you could wantsomething and say, hey, I want
to be married, or I want areally big house, but if you
(19:41):
don't know what that home lookslike, if you don't envision it,
or you don't know what thatmarriage looks like to you, to
you as a partnership, becauseit's something that you do
together, this isn't you get aboard, I get a board.
This vision board in this gameis specifically meant for you
(20:02):
two to create one big visionboard together.
So now you're learning whateach other wants like.
I know I want to build a homefrom the ground up.
I know you want to build a homefrom the ground up, but what
does that home look like?
You know what I mean, becausemy home could be completely
different than what you envision.
(20:22):
So, to make sure we're on thesame page, the same path, and
that we're more moving in theright direction, it's really
essential to do that.
Sir Anthony (20:32):
I agree, and if you take a look at the link up here
, the manifestation episode,this is just a version of that.
So you're actively thinkingabout what you all want.
So you are clipping out andwriting those things down.
You're thinking about it, thenyou're saying it, and then, if
you see it every now and again,or if it's in your subconscious,
you'll manifest and you'll doit.
Chrissy A. (20:55):
Yep, I encourage each one of our listeners, our
watchers, our followers to headover to our website.
Our website is really dope.
We have a lot of informationthere.
We have articles that aretalking about high-value men,
man things that, um, how to tellif a man you know just like a
(21:17):
whole bunch of things.
Sir Anthony (21:19):
you probably could speak more on it in the
resources section, we have awealth of content.
So we have stuff on how toidentify red flags, how to
manifest the relationship, how,uh, the traits of a high value
man.
We even have a high-value mantest so you can test to see if
yourself, as a fella or lady, ifyour man, is a high-value man.
(21:42):
To test yourself.
Coming soon, we have a lovelanguage test and attachment
style.
Yeah, but now when this airs,it'll be out, so go check that
out.
Um, the podcast whateverplatform you're on, we have
every platform.
So, um, youtube for the visual,we have apple, we have amazon
(22:07):
music, spotify and like 57others.
Chrissy A. (22:10):
So, whatever platform you're on, just search
pure intentions podcast, you'llfind us make sure you follow us
on any platform that you'relistening to us on as well.
Like that way, you'll always behave a notification of when we
post a new podcast.
Our podcast comes out everyWednesday.
(22:31):
And also, if you are aninfluencer or a social media
influencer or someone who wantsto possibly join our podcast,
send us an email.
Go to the website, send us anemail.
We would love to look at yourcontent to see if it fits with
(22:52):
our purpose of our podcast andhave you guys on there.
Um.
Also, if you are just a viewer,a watcher, a listener, then go
to our website and there's asection where we would love to
give you guys advice.
People actually write usletters and they used to inbox
(23:15):
us a lot, so we decided to?
Um move the platform over tothe website to make it easier
for you guys to just go aheadand submit a story, a question,
anything you've been strugglingwith, and we'll talk about it
here on our podcast, um.
So make sure you're followingus if you also submit that, so
(23:37):
that you'll know when yourquestion may be answered yep
yeah yeah, it's a lot on thewebsite, a lot on our socials, a
lot in the podcast.
Sir Anthony (23:51):
So, uh, keep sending us things.
Your questions encourages usbecause we talk about our
vulnerabilities on the show, butwe want to talk about others,
because everybody will have anysame kind of problems or some
people have unique problems andthis may be the thing that you
see somebody else going through.
You're not alone and it helpsyou through it.
Chrissy A. (24:13):
Yeah, yeah.
Sir Anthony (24:16):
Close out.
Close out Okay.
Well, this has been anotherepisode of the Pure Intentions
podcast.
We showcased the cards.
Just one of our newest decks,the UME.
Go and purchase that deck fromthe PureIntentions314.com
website.
Thank you for that support.
Chrissy A. (24:34):
Until next time.
Sir Anthony (24:35):
Until next time.
Chrissy A. (24:36):
See you.
They're so cute.
The cars are super cute.
Sir Anthony (00:02):
Create a unique secret handshake together.
Keep adding moves until one ofyou forgets the sequence.
And that's going to be oursecret handshake Mmm, mmm, mmm,
mmm, mmm, mmm.
Chrissy A. (00:15):
Perry, don't still watch it.
Welcome to the Pure IntentionsPodcast, where real love, raw
emotions and intentionalrelationships come together.
Welcome back to the pureintentions podcast where we talk
everything relationship from anintentional point of view.
I am your host, chrissy a andI'm your co-host, sir anthony
and today we're going to dive alittle deep into our cards.
(00:40):
You guys have been purchasingour cards and, for those of you
who have purchased them, pleasego to our website and leave a
review and tell us how you feelabout them and be completely
honest.
If there's anything that we'remissing that we can add to, we
would love to hear from you.
So, uh, yeah, I'm gonna let youkick this one off.
Sir Anthony (01:03):
So this is our new deck the Me and you deck and
we're gonna actually practicewhat we preach.
So it has activities to keepyour relationship intentional.
So you can use this on datenight, on marriage date night,
on makeup date night, first datenight, whatever you want to do.
(01:25):
So we're going to kick it offwith ourselves.
You can find the cards in ourstore on pureintentions314.com.
We have about five decksavailable.
It's going to expand out tomore, so give us your feedback
if you want us to add, changewhatever in the decks.
Chrissy A. (01:44):
But pretty cool, we're gonna get started before
we get started, I did want togive like a little background on
the you and me deck.
The you and me deck is a littlebit more light-hearted, fun, um
, engagement between couples,because typically when you get
into a relationship, before youget into a relationship, before
you get into a relationship,there's a you and there's a me.
(02:06):
So this deck is to makerelationships fun by creating
moments and memories andcreating the us out of it.
So we're going to get to someof them.
I'm so excited because Iabsolutely love this deck.
(02:26):
You guys Like I took time withthis one.
I did.
Sir Anthony (02:31):
I saw a card that I'm going to sneak to the top.
Chrissy A. (02:35):
Oh, my God.
Sir Anthony (02:38):
A secret handshake.
Chrissy A. (02:39):
Oh, you saw the secret handshake.
Now read it.
Sir Anthony (02:42):
It says create a unique secret handshake together
.
Keep adding moves until one ofyou forgets the sequence and
that's going to be our secrethandshake.
Chrissy A. (02:52):
Okay, you ready.
Sir Anthony (02:55):
Okay.
Chrissy A. (02:57):
So, okay, we got to keep creating.
So you want to start thecreation?
Sir Anthony (03:05):
First we're going to shake.
Chrissy A. (03:07):
Shake.
Sir Anthony (03:08):
Or just clap hands, clap.
Now it's your turn.
What are we doing?
Chrissy A. (03:14):
I'm going to get real gangsta and hit one of
these.
Sir Anthony (03:17):
Hit one of those, and then I'm going to hit that.
Ah, no, let's start over.
Chrissy A. (03:22):
No, no, no, okay, clap this one Clap.
Sir Anthony (03:28):
And then we're going to bring it up.
Chrissy A. (03:30):
Bring it up, throw it down.
Sir Anthony (03:32):
Throw it down, slap .
Chrissy A. (03:35):
Okay, now what do we do?
Sir Anthony (03:37):
It's your turn.
Chrissy A. (03:39):
But we got to keep doing it.
We got to do it again before weforget it.
Bring it up, throw it down,slap Okay doing it, we gotta do
it again, okay, okay, no, yeah,keep going oh so after this,
it's my turn yep we go?
No, it's not your turn.
Sir Anthony (03:59):
It's not your turn.
Leader.
Chrissy A. (04:02):
Leader we go here.
Sir Anthony (04:07):
And then we kiss, and that's our handshake.
Chrissy A. (04:10):
You want to do it all together.
Sir Anthony (04:11):
Yep, okay.
Chrissy A. (04:17):
Terry, don't steal our shit.
Don't steal our shit.
Sir Anthony (04:21):
Your turn.
Chrissy A. (04:22):
Okay, you definitely snuck that Just all the way at
the bottom.
You turn Okay, you definitelysnuck that Just all the way at
the bottom you guys.
Okay, and the cards are so cute.
Look at this, they're so cute.
They're so cute, the cards aresuper cute.
Okay.
So improv storytelling Taketurns telling the story, with
(04:45):
one person starting and theother adding to it, keep
building until it becomes ashared masterpiece.
So I'll start this time.
Okay, you start the handshake.
Let's, I'm gonna start theimprov storytelling.
I want to do it.
Um, I didn't put it in there,but a sentence at a time.
However you want to do it isfine, but a sentence at a time
(05:07):
will make it More, you know, fun.
Okay.
So Once upon a time, there wasa beautiful young Lady named
Lucy.
Sir Anthony (05:18):
And Lucy Was desperate to find Love.
Chrissy A. (05:24):
Damn, why did Lucy gotta be desperate, okay.
So she searched high and lowfrom grocery stores to the
liquor store.
The liquor stores.
Sir Anthony (05:39):
And all she found was Dusty's until.
Chrissy A. (05:41):
she found was Dusty's until her fairy god pimp
sprinkled some pimp juice onher and she met the most
wonderful man she's ever seenbefore.
Sir Anthony (06:05):
But he had a big zip on his forehead the size of
the Eiffel Tower.
Chrissy A. (06:17):
And she could not get past that eyesore, so she
made him a doctor's appointmentto see if anything could be
fixed.
Sir Anthony (06:28):
And when he got the doctor's appointment they bust
a vessel and he bled so muchthat he cried.
And when he cried she got tosee his vulnerable side and she
was so happy that she lookedpast the zit.
And they lived happily everafter.
Chrissy A. (06:56):
What the hell baby.
Sir Anthony (06:58):
Gotta throw some curveballs in there.
This is life.
Life ain't so.
You know, life is like rollercoasters.
Chrissy A. (07:05):
That was the most beautiful love story I've ever
heard in my life, I bet you, ifwe film it, it's like pretty
good movie, right?
Okay, you want to pull see howfun these cards are like and you
can create anything that youwant out of it, so it's pretty
(07:26):
dope yeah, so the card I justpulled is called relationship
rules.
Create five relationship rulesthat reflect how you want to
support and care for each otherokay, um, so a rule that I think
this would probably be good ifwe wrote these down too and
(07:49):
stuck with them, because this iswhere the building intentional
relationships come in.
With these cards, like they'relight, they're fun, fun, but
you're also building intimacyand stronger relationship
connections, and if you want tocreate more than five rules,
(08:13):
that's completely fine.
I just thought five was a goodnumber yeah, you first rule
number one never do anythingthat you wouldn't do if I was
standing there.
If you're thinking about doingsomething that you wouldn't do
(08:37):
if I was right there, then don'tdo it.
Sir Anthony (08:40):
Okay, rule number two listen.
Listen not just to respond, butsometimes listening doesn't
require a response.
Okay, you write, all right youwrite.
Your writing is impeccable wehad penmanship class in grade
(09:03):
school.
Chrissy A. (09:04):
Oh.
Sir Anthony (09:08):
Number three.
Number three is never go to bedmad.
Number four a weekly check-inon the relationship.
Chrissy A. (09:33):
Okay, I like that Okay.
Sir Anthony (09:39):
What's the final one?
The final one would be put eachother first well, we gonna
probably put this, scan this andput it on the screen later yeah
, so we can show it to y'all.
Yeah, our relationship rulessend us y'all relationship rules
(10:01):
.
Go to pureintentions314.com.
There's a contact button.
Go ahead, send that to us andlet us know.
Chrissy A. (10:09):
We want to see it and share it yeah, it might be
essential for us to even shareit on the next podcast and talk
more about it.
Sir Anthony (10:19):
So, yeah, send us that all right, y'all back to
the cars.
Whose turn is it, yours or mine?
Chrissy A. (10:29):
Okay, share your favorite memory of your partner
and why it's special to you.
Go ahead, oh, my memory.
That's really special.
I have so many, I have so many,I have so many.
(10:54):
But I'm going to take it backto the day that we started
talking, like the very firsttime we started talking.
I talk about it a couple ofpodcasts, you know from this one
.
However, it was just such amemorable day for me.
(11:17):
Um, the way that I felt like itwasn't like I expected us to be
in a long-term committedrelationship.
I was open to it, but it waslike just enjoying a moment,
like that was the one time thatI lived in the present moment
and did everything that I feltand wanted to do, and you were
(11:40):
very receptive of it.
And we had some hiccup momentslater on that night and it was
so fun, I don't know.
I enjoyed seeing you in acertain level of vulnerability.
You know what I'm talking aboutyeah.
Yeah, so I enjoyed seeing you ina vulnerable state and making
(12:06):
like fun of it.
You know like I saw so manystages of you that day and I
feel like I showed you so manystages of me and we were drunk,
but that's not the point.
But that was one of the bestmoments, that most memorable
moments, the best moments thatI've shared with you for me.
Sir Anthony (12:30):
I'm gonna go back to how you treated me for
sweetest day weekend.
Forget sweetest day, it was awhole weekend.
It was a complete surprise.
I didn't have to plan anything.
All I had to do was pack andshow up and didn't even have to
pay and didn't even have todrive, and so we just went
(12:54):
surprised, enjoy, ate well andhad a lot of fun and it was more
surprises because other familycame and joined in the.
Chrissy A. (13:09):
You know couples fun , so yeah yeah, I got my little
gloss on you so I'm popping yeah, you popping baby you look good
though, okay, okay reversedrawing one partner describes an
(13:30):
object without naming it andthe other has to draw it based
on the description.
Okay, you want to draw or youwant to describe?
Well, I can draw and this canbe any object, you guys,
anything you think of, just justdescribe it and the other
(13:52):
person has to draw it.
See if they get it right let'ssee let me think about okay,
okay, this object is round,round and it's so round because
(14:14):
it has air in it and it has alot of lines on it.
On it it's orange okay it hadsome words on it, one word
(14:49):
specifically.
I can't tell you the word,because then you'll know the.
It don't have that many lineson it and the lines are through
it that look like a Show thepeople that.
That look like a.
That looks like a DNA,something DNA-like.
(15:10):
The lines are through it.
Sir Anthony (15:17):
And it's orange.
Chrissy A. (15:18):
Yes, and it has a word on it that starts with S.
It could have other words on it, but this one is famous on a
movie that it stars in.
This thing stars in the movie.
Sir Anthony (15:41):
I need more that's everything.
Chrissy A. (15:46):
Sp okay in the movie .
It's not like a star, like witha name, it's just everywhere in
the movie Because you can playwith it and then the movie has.
Sir Anthony (16:07):
Is it a basketball?
Yes, Spalding.
Chrissy A. (16:10):
And then the movie has it a basketball.
Yeah, spalding let's redo that,because then they're like you,
slow no, no, that's the point ofthe game is fun, man, it's been
a basketball, I'm ready.
Sir Anthony (16:34):
My object is you gonna get this fast?
The object has big eyeballslike two big eyeballs like this
big.
Even though it's happy, it'salways frowning With eyebrows
(16:59):
frowning.
The nose looks like a littlewiener hot dog.
The little snossages looks likea little wiener hot dog.
The little sausages.
The hair is, imagine BartSimpson spiky, but to the back.
(17:22):
So Bart Simpson spikes is up,this spikes is to the back and
it's blue.
I knew once I said blue, is itsonic?
(17:45):
okay, period thinking about camfavorite character I see I love
that about you.
Chrissy A. (17:51):
I love that like you , how you love my son.
It's such an amazing thing towitness, like even with his
y'all my son watch youtube theweirdest shows and the fact that
you are able to like pinpointhis shows and be like man.
(18:13):
He was watching this show andyou telling a whole story about
this show and I'm just like,okay, cause me, I will sit there
and pretend like I'm watchingit with him, but I ain't
watching it.
You know, I'm just likeenjoying him watching it and
seeing him like sitting therewhile you're actually engaging
(18:34):
into his favorite things, and Ilove how you are with him.
I love how he loves you Like.
It's such a special thing forme.
Sir Anthony (18:43):
That's easy.
Chrissy A. (18:45):
Yeah, aww.
And then you thought of hisfavorite character, okay, okay,
do we got another one?
Oh, was that the last one thatwe was gonna do?
Sir Anthony (19:00):
I'll give one more, but otherwise you should go to
our store, pureintentions314.com.
And one.
We always all do this, but do avision board which you may I'll
read it.
Create a vision board together.
Use online images or oldmagazines to visually map your
shared goals and dreams.
Chrissy A. (19:20):
So do that as a couple creating a vision board
helps you understand what youenvision, actually see it for
your future, so that you canmake the moves to actually do it
.
It's like you could wantsomething and say, hey, I want
to be married, or I want areally big house, but if you
(19:41):
don't know what that home lookslike, if you don't envision it,
or you don't know what thatmarriage looks like to you, to
you as a partnership, becauseit's something that you do
together, this isn't you get aboard, I get a board.
This vision board in this gameis specifically meant for you
(20:02):
two to create one big visionboard together.
So now you're learning whateach other wants like.
I know I want to build a homefrom the ground up.
I know you want to build a homefrom the ground up, but what
does that home look like?
You know what I mean, becausemy home could be completely
different than what you envision.
(20:22):
So, to make sure we're on thesame page, the same path, and
that we're more moving in theright direction, it's really
essential to do that.
Sir Anthony (20:32):
I agree, and if you take a look at the link up here
, the manifestation episode,this is just a version of that.
So you're actively thinkingabout what you all want.
So you are clipping out andwriting those things down.
You're thinking about it, thenyou're saying it, and then, if
you see it every now and again,or if it's in your subconscious,
you'll manifest and you'll doit.
Chrissy A. (20:55):
Yep, I encourage each one of our listeners, our
watchers, our followers to headover to our website.
Our website is really dope.
We have a lot of informationthere.
We have articles that aretalking about high-value men,
man things that, um, how to tellif a man you know just like a
(21:17):
whole bunch of things.
Sir Anthony (21:19):
you probably could speak more on it in the
resources section, we have awealth of content.
So we have stuff on how toidentify red flags, how to
manifest the relationship, how,uh, the traits of a high value
man.
We even have a high-value mantest so you can test to see if
yourself, as a fella or lady, ifyour man, is a high-value man.
(21:42):
To test yourself.
Coming soon, we have a lovelanguage test and attachment
style.
Yeah, but now when this airs,it'll be out, so go check that
out.
Um, the podcast whateverplatform you're on, we have
every platform.
So, um, youtube for the visual,we have apple, we have amazon
(22:07):
music, spotify and like 57others.
Chrissy A. (22:10):
So, whatever platform you're on, just search
pure intentions podcast, you'llfind us make sure you follow us
on any platform that you'relistening to us on as well.
Like that way, you'll always behave a notification of when we
post a new podcast.
Our podcast comes out everyWednesday.
(22:31):
And also, if you are aninfluencer or a social media
influencer or someone who wantsto possibly join our podcast,
send us an email.
Go to the website, send us anemail.
We would love to look at yourcontent to see if it fits with
(22:52):
our purpose of our podcast andhave you guys on there.
Um.
Also, if you are just a viewer,a watcher, a listener, then go
to our website and there's asection where we would love to
give you guys advice.
People actually write usletters and they used to inbox
(23:15):
us a lot, so we decided to?
Um move the platform over tothe website to make it easier
for you guys to just go aheadand submit a story, a question,
anything you've been strugglingwith, and we'll talk about it
here on our podcast, um.
So make sure you're followingus if you also submit that, so
(23:37):
that you'll know when yourquestion may be answered yep
yeah yeah, it's a lot on thewebsite, a lot on our socials, a
lot in the podcast.
Sir Anthony (23:51):
So, uh, keep sending us things.
Your questions encourages usbecause we talk about our
vulnerabilities on the show, butwe want to talk about others,
because everybody will have anysame kind of problems or some
people have unique problems andthis may be the thing that you
see somebody else going through.
You're not alone and it helpsyou through it.
Chrissy A. (24:13):
Yeah, yeah.
Sir Anthony (24:16):
Close out.
Close out Okay.
Well, this has been anotherepisode of the Pure Intentions
podcast.
We showcased the cards.
Just one of our newest decks,the UME.
Go and purchase that deck fromthe PureIntentions314.com
website.
Thank you for that support.
Chrissy A. (24:34):
Until next time.
Sir Anthony (24:35):
Until next time.
Chrissy A. (24:36):
See you.
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