Love Starts Here with Love and Life Coach Melissa Snow

Lack of self-trust shows up in many different ways:

• Overthinking
• Questioning yourself
• Doubting yourself
• Worry and anxiety 

When you learn to trust yourself, you're able to go through life, dating and relationships with more clarity, certainty and confidence.  New opportunities are available to you, inner peace is more easily accessible and you have WAY more fun! 

In this episode I share how self-trust (or lack of)...

In this episode, Sex Coach Danielle Savory explains how sexual pleasure is the key to feeling more alive, more confident and attracting the right kind of man for you!

We also discuss the most common obstacles standing women and pleasure and how ambition and perfectionism are stopping you from having more pleasure in your life right now!

Danielle believes a pleasured woman is an empowered woman - regardless of your...

Are you one of those people who brushes off a compliment quickly or assumes the other person is "just being nice"?   Do you have a hard time seeing yourself the way that other people see you?

When you can get to a place where you see yourself as your truly are - a smart, beautiful, confident, capable, successful woman that ANY guy would be lucky to have, things will change for you. 

You will show up wi...

I've learned that attracting the kind of man you want requires about 10-15% knowledge and skill and about 85-90% mindset and foundation.

When you only have the knowledge and skill, you're essentially building a house on quicksand.  It may look really pretty for little while, but eventually it is going to crumble. 

In today's episode, I share the 3 main areas where you need to build your foundation...

Today I'm bringing you a replay of one of our MOST POPULAR episodes from back in the day (when the podcast was still called Quest for Love). 

No matter who you are or how you feel about yourself, there is always room for improvement when it comes to self-esteem, self-worth and self-value. 

When you believe that you are worthy and valuable just as you are - that you don't have to say the right things to d...

What if I could GUARANTEE that the man you are looking for is out there, looking for you too?  What if I could PROMISE you that you will find YOUR person?  How would that change things for you?

My guess is, you'd have a lot more fun dating (yes, even on dating apps), it would be a much easier process and you'd be even more likely to find your forever sooner!

This episode is all about how to get that guar...

On today's episode, I'm joined by Lindsey Georgoulis from Married at Sight Season 14! 

She dishes on EVERYTHING including:

• Why she decided to get married to a stranger on television 
• What she learned about dating and relationships through the process 
• What she's up to now (and exactly what she's looking for in her next relationship)
• Her best advice for women still swimming in the murky waters ...

As I'm wrapping up the first round of my new group program, Date Like You Mean It, the ladies I'm coaching keep coming back to ONE piece of advice that has changed everything for them - and today I'm sharing it with you!

Whether you're considering jumping back into the dating pool for the first time in a long time or you've been treading water for a while and are starting to drown, this ONE mindset...

On today's episode I'm joined by The Pleasure Priestess, Erin Berry Bliss, to discuss ALL THINGS PLEASURE. 

We're digging into:

• What pleasure really is 
• How to find the things that bring you pleasure 
• Why pleasure is hard for high-achieving women
• How pleasure can increase your confidence and make you feel more empowered

This episode is SO JUICY!

Want more pleasure in your life?  CLICK HERE to b...

Today's episode is all about jealousy - and you're gonna want to listen even if you think jealousy is not an issue for you. 

The truth is, jealousy shows up in lots of ways you may not even recognize as jealousy and it can ruin a relationship without you even knowing that's what happened. 

Today we discuss:

• The difference between envy and jealousy and how each shows up in relationships 
• Where jeal...

On today's episode, I interview Communication Expert Ali Arena about the four main communication styles:  Captivator, Factor, Director and Listener...

Ali explains:

• How to identify your communication style
• How women and men differ in communication styles
• How communication styles show up in dating and how you can use yours to your advantage

Whether you identify more as a "Listener" or as a "Director...

When it comes to dating, there are a lot of things that create anxiety...

Will he like me?  Will I like him? Will he call me again? Should I call him?  What if I look desperate?  What if I get my heart broken?

The keys to wiping this anxiety out for good are ACCEPTANCE and HAVING YOUR OWN BACK.

In this episode, I'll explain exactly what I mean and tell you how you can start doing both of these thing...

On today's episode I interview Dedeker Winston, cohost of the Mutliamory podcast. 

Dedeker is also a relationship coach specializing in non-traditional relationships and the author of The Smart Girl's Guide to Polyamory.

We dig into the process of deciding what kind of relationship you REALLY want, not just what you think you're supposed to want.

We also discuss the similarities between ...

Last week, in the Love Starts Here Facebook group, I asked what the HARDEST thing about dating is and you told me things like:

• Men are dumb
• Online dating sucks
• It's such a waste of time

Today I'm going to lay down some tough love that you need to hear. 

I'm going to tell you the REAL reason dating is hard for you - and it's probably not what you think (or what you want to hear). 

In Episode # 65, we discussed how to SPOT low effort men.  

Today, I'm going to tell you the secrets to becoming a woman who actually repels emotionally unavailable, low effort and low value men.  

And the best part about this is that when you become that  woman, you will automatically attract the exact type of man you thought only existed in your dreams. 

Plus, we chat about why it can be so hard to...

On today's episode, I'm chatting with Dating Coach and founder of the Manfunnel Method, Megan Weks!

We discuss

• The #1 mistake women are making in dating right now 
• The difference between linear dating and the Manfunnel Method (and why the latter is SO much more effective!)
• The criteria you should use when deciding whether to commit to an exclusive relationship with someone
• The art of "nexting" and why i...

One of the biggest reasons women get burned out on dating (especially online) is because they waste too much time and energy on low effort men!

On today's episode I'm sharing some of the key things to look for on the apps, on your first few dates and beyond to help you identify a low effort man much quicker and more easily than before!

Be sure to tune in next week for part 2 where we'll discuss why ...

The topic of overthinking has been coming up a lot lately with my clients and in the Love Starts Here Facebook group.

The problem with overthinking is that although it can feel very productive, it's actually not. 

Overthinking keeps you stuck in indecision, prevents you from moving forward, drains your confidence and zaps your time and energy.  

On today's episode, I'll tell you exactly wha...

In today's episode, I interview the UK's top Celebrity Dating and Relationship Coach James Preece!

We discuss:

• Why now is actually the PERFECT time to find your person (and how to get over your excuses, no matter how true they sound!)
• Why it seems like there are no good men left (even though there are!)
• James' #1 tip for dating successfully in the "new normal"

And SO much more!

Also, ...