August 25, 2025 • 59 mins
Stasia Jaramillo is Subconscious Healing Expert and Founder of http://createhigher.com/. Today we're exploring: The power of our subconscious mind and how it runs 95% of our life on autopilot, how limiting beliefs are formed and how they’re there to ‘protect’ us, and using ThetaHealing to reprogram the subconscious mind so we can create quantum shifts with more ease than we’ve been taught.
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Stasia (00:00):
Even if I was just there to play with my children, I
would have like a to-do listrunning at the back of my head
or be like, okay, like I need todo this later.
And after this, I'm gonna readthis book and then I'm gonna do
this, you know, and yada, yada,yada.
And when I tuned into it, forme, there was a belief that it
was tied to success.
So it was a belief that inorder to be successful, I had to
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be productive.
And in order to be productive,I had to be busy.
Ryann (00:34):
Hey friends, welcome back to the Raising Wild Hearts
podcast.
I am so excited to be heretoday.
Oh my gosh.
Um, so the school year hasstarted.
It's August and the end ofAugust as I'm recording this,
and actually, you're gonna hearit pretty much at the end of
August.
I'm kind of recording anduploading episodes in real time
(00:55):
uh because I took a little timeoff from recording interviews
over the summer, um, which wasgreat.
And now I'm back, and that'sgreat too.
Today I'm joined by StasiaHaramijo.
Stasia is a subconscioushealing expert and the founder
of CreateHire.com.
After years as a high-achievingleader in the corporate world,
she realized that externalsuccess didn't equal inner
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fulfillment.
Yes, please.
Uh, and she chose to follow herdeeper calling for more.
As a mother of two, she wanteda life led by intuition, not
office hours, where family comesfirst.
Love that.
Today she helps high-performingwomen answer their own call for
more and lead from alignmentusing subconscious and energetic
reprogramming to release thepatterns that hustle and
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strategy alone can't touch.
She believes healing does nothave to be hard and no longer
takes years of therapy to breakthrough that glass ceiling of
success.
Yes, please, to all of it.
Stasia is just a wonderfulintuitive healer.
I had a session with her beforethis interview, and it was so
profound.
I am so excited to announcealso that Stasia is going to be
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one of our amazing speakers atthe Rise and Flourish, the first
annual Rise and Flourish SummitOctober 25th in Deerfield
Beach, Florida.
My friend Ashley and I areco-organizing an event uh for
mothers and women who want totake a day off, who want to go
show up for themselves, who wantto get self-care connection and
education in a really amazingluxe space.
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It's at the Five Element Spa inDeerfield Beach, Florida.
Um, and you're just gonna be socared for, and the event is
going to be awesome.
Dotsie is gonna be one of theamazing practitioners there.
So I'm so excited to bring herto you guys in real life.
So if you want to join us onthat day, the early ticket sales
are still happening now.
So go to iRiseandforge.com.
I'll put the link down in thedescription.
(02:43):
Um, and join us that day.
I cannot wait to give you a hugin real life and for you guys
to just see all the amazingthings that we have planned for
everybody.
All right, without further ado,let's get into my conversation
with Stasia.
Hi, Stasia.
Welcome to the Raising WildHearts podcast.
Stasia (03:01):
Hi, Ryan.
I'm so thrilled to be here.
Ryann (03:04):
Oh my gosh, I'm so thrilled that you're here.
We just got done with a ThetaHealing and powerful like
doesn't even describe it.
I love that we're recordingthis directly after because I
knew there were gonna be so manydownloads for me and I knew I
was gonna just be so fresh fromthe experience to talk about it.
And I am literally blown away.
And I can't wait to, I guess,integrate it.
(03:27):
But I'm curious from yourperspective with theta healing,
with subconscious programming,is that how you would say it or
with subconscious reprogramming,perhaps?
Like both.
Okay.
Is there an integration periodor is it just like, okay, and
you're done?
Or do you have to kind of likego through and journal and like
do all that?
Stasia (03:46):
So it works instantly.
And oftentimes people literallyfeel a shift like right there
in the session where they'relike, oh my God, I feel like
lighter, I feel more open, orwhatever that looks like.
Yep.
But there are, I feel like someclients, and honestly, I'm kind
of one of those people as well,that for me, it's almost like I
need to like see it to believeit.
So it's almost like it's not somuch that it takes time to take
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effect, but it's rather justlike your own lived experience
where, you know, how are youshowing up the next day where
you're like, you know, I wouldhave doubted myself in this
case, but I actually don't feelthat way anymore.
Or I would have felt this way,but no, I'm actually, you know,
I feel good to do this.
And so almost just to likeprove it to yourself to really
be able to see it.
But otherwise, I mean, it itreally does work instantly.
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So wow.
Ryann (04:30):
Can you do it on yourself?
Yes.
Or you can.
Stasia (04:34):
I do it all the time.
Ryann (04:35):
My God, that's amazing.
What a great personaldevelopment growth tool that you
have in your toolbox.
Stasia (04:42):
Honestly, when I first started this work, um, I did a
first session with apractitioner.
And the way she was able toarticulate my like beliefs and
feelings that literally I feltdeep in my soul, but I was like,
I couldn't have evenarticulated them better myself.
That I was like, okay, I needto like literally after two
sessions, I was like, I need tolearn this work.
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And really the only intentionwas for me.
I was like, I just want togrow.
Like I wasn't expecting to be,you know, a practitioner.
I was in corporate and I waslike a high achieving corporate
girly.
And I wasn't uh, you know,expecting to become a theta
healing practitioner.
But the more I got into it andthe more I just recognized how
powerful this work is.
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And then the more I just likecouldn't wait to share it with
others.
And it was like working on mymom, my sister, and just trying
it on like anyone that would beopen to it.
And I mean, it was, it wasimpactful.
The work kind of spoke foritself.
And then frankly, I felt like Igot pretty good at it because
it's like the skill is really tobe able to, you're channeling,
but it's the ability to be ableto like interpret and understand
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energy and understand whatneeds to shift as well.
And so then it just became likea craft a little bit, like to
understand that and interpretit.
And then, you know, and then Ijust got so excited about
sharing it with as many peopleas I could.
Ryann (06:03):
Yeah.
It seems like it's like an artand a science.
Like the interpretation of itis like the art, but the science
of it, I don't know, like howyou actually learn the science
of it, like just closing youreyes and being able to tune into
someone else's energy.
Maybe you can tell us that.
Um, but the way that you justlike went there, I mean, so
many, most of the things youwere saying, I was like, yep,
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yep, nailed it on it.
Like, I mean, it was just youwere just right there.
And it was stuff like we talkedabout after the session.
I didn't even know was reallythere.
It wasn't a top of mind.
It's not the question that Istarted with.
It all just kind of came.
So tell us about like how it'san art and a science and maybe
like how you learn how to do it.
Because I'm going, like, thereis some sort of like, it seems
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like maybe you're just anintuitive person at the core.
I wonder if you were alwaysintuitive, like as a child, and
it was a gift that you've justbeen learning over time.
So that was like a multifacetedquestion, but just let's roll
with it.
Stasia (07:04):
I'll tackle it.
Yeah.
No, so I do feel like I wasalways intuitive.
And I do feel like everyone hasthat sense.
And sure, some might have itmore heightened than others.
But for me, for a long time,and really until I started doing
theta healing, I didn't reallyknow how to tap into it.
I didn't know, like I was like,I would see healers that would
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tell me, oh, you know, you'reintuitive.
And it's like, great, how do Iaccess it?
How do I like leverage it?
And so with theta healing, it'sessentially like a meditative
technique.
And um, I touched on this withyou a little bit about the seven
planes of existence.
And I want to briefly explainso this is not just unique to
Theta Healing, but the sevenplanes of existence, like we as
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people are on the third plane,spirit is on the fourth plane,
your higher self is on the fifthplane, sixth is the laws of the
universe, and the seventh planeis source or creator or
universe or God or whatever youwant to call it.
And essentially, it's aboutgetting to the seventh plane or
like, you know, channeling fromsource.
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And I would say the biggest,other than like kind of the, you
know, the training that I wentthrough in Theta Healing of
understanding how to access it,other than that, it's just been
practice.
And I mean like, like for me,it's been daily practice and not
out of like a chore that I hadto do it, but just because I was
like, how do I tap into thatagain?
You know?
And so when I'm comparing thatto say a psychic or something
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like that, if you've seen apsychic and some people are
like, oh, you know, psychics arelying to you, or they said
something to me and it didn'tresonate, or others are like,
oh, this was amazing and theychanneled everything.
Chances are it's not like thepsychic is completely like lying
to you, but you don't reallyknow what they're tapping into.
Like they might be tapping intospirit on the fourth plane, for
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example.
Right.
Or, you know, channeling yourlike great aunt Sally or
something.
And um, so, or you know, oreven your higher self.
And the higher self, yes, yourhigher self has your best
interest at heart and like iskind of, you know, some people
think of it as like all-knowing,but the higher self can
actually have like limitationsof its own.
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And the analogy that I like tocompare it to is like a newborn
baby and a mother.
Because if the newborn baby isalone in his crib crying because
the mother stepped out to getthe bottle for five minutes, and
the baby's like, I'm alone, I'mscared.
But the mother is like, you'resafe.
You have nothing to worryabout.
I'm just, you know, I'm gonnabe back in the room in five
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minutes.
And um, but the baby is cryingbecause he doesn't know.
So if you're that baby, but themother might not know what's
outside or what's gonna happennext.
You know what I mean?
And so, like the the higherself also has uh limitations, I
guess.
And um, so really with thetahealing and its uniqueness is is
getting to that seventh planeand understanding like the
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highest truth of all that is,um, and being able to tune in
and and channel from thatenergy.
So is the highest truth of allthat is love?
Yes, yes.
I mean I think um I think I'veheard you speak about the book.
Have I heard you speak aboutthe book A Return to Love?
Probably, yeah.
Okay, because that was one ofmy first books on my spiritual
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journey, and that like changedeverything for me.
And uh, you know, everythingshe talks about there is is how
I see the world as well, whereit's either fear or love.
Ryann (10:30):
Yeah.
Stasia (10:31):
And so go ahead.
Ryann (10:32):
Sorry, you know what's interesting is that I have my
grandma's copy who justtransitioned on Sunday of Return
to Love.
And that's yeah, that's mycopy.
And it was a gift from my auntto her.
But yeah, so you've definitelyheard me talk about that book.
Yeah.
Stasia (10:49):
Beautiful.
Ryann (10:50):
Yeah.
So because when you say thehighest truth of all that is, I
you know what I do?
I picture others going, Well,what could that possibly be?
You know, and then I'm like,Well, I think I I know what it
is.
I think it's love, right?
And then we have these, I'llspeak for myself.
I have these moments of doubtbeing in this three-dimensional
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plane that we are in as humanson the earth, right?
Where we forget the love and wemess up and we stumble and we
veer off course and we makemistakes and you know, all those
things.
And so I think I don't know ifit's just through learned
experience or if I'm like, yeah,well, that must be love, or
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maybe from the book that I read.
I don't know.
But like, how do we, I guess,how do we land on that as the
highest truth for everyone?
Like, my question is alwayslike, how do we get everyone to
be loving?
Because then there'd be no warsand then all the kids would be
happy, and then everybody wouldbe, you know, there'd be no
violence and there'd be noabuse.
Like, so how do we geteverybody to like realize that
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like what God is is love, whatthe highest truth is, love, what
all the religions are saying,the the common denominator, the
common thread is love.
Like, how do we how do weconvert people to love?
Stasia (12:11):
I mean, I can't say I have the answer to that.
But I would say, like, eventhough love, because love, the
energy of love vibrates at sucha high frequency.
But when I talk about thehighest truth and creator of all
that is, it's really the energyof like pure creation, also
where anything is possible,essentially.
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And when I speak about thehighest truth, it's not even
necessarily like, I mean, it islike the perspective of the
all-knowing, but it's when I'mtapping into someone's energy
and I'm seeing your highesttruth.
So for example, you know, ifyou come to me and you're like,
hey, you know, I have this blockaround business, and then it
really takes me to a familything.
(12:54):
You know what I mean?
And so it's almost like thatblock in business, for example,
could have stemmed from from youas a childhood because you, you
know, created a belief in yoursubconscious mind that stemmed
from your childhood, or frankly,even a past life, or beliefs
that we can carry in our umgenetics as well.
So that's what I mean when I'mspeaking about the high highest
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truth as well.
It's almost like what is thebottom belief or the highest
truth of the situation that youare dealing with or that you're
energetically blocked from.
Ryann (13:25):
Yeah.
Cool.
How do you or do you advisepeople to get the hell out of
their brains and into theirhearts?
Because I am, as I think manyuh people out there listening
right now, are like I'm anoveranalyzer.
I'm very, you know, I identifyas smart and with it and fast
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and quick witted and like reallylike on it mentally.
But I think from doing work fora number of years, like the
work, right, I've realized thatnothing good really happens up
there in that mind of mine.
Like it's mostly monkey mind,right?
Unless I'm like trying to solvelike a math equation or like
figuring out what's for dinner,like very practical and
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logistical things.
And so multiple times a day,I'm needing to remind myself to
get back into my body, get backinto my heart, right?
And so, how do you advisepeople, even during your healing
sessions?
Because I noticed that I wouldstart to go like, you know, like
I would like follow the thoughtand I'd be like, no, no, no,
back to here, right?
And I'd have to like back tocenter.
And I have practice of thisbecause of um meditation and
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just like being aware.
But how about somebody who'slike, well, how do I not
overthink everything?
And what's the differencebetween this mental realm and
this kind of love realm and thenlike the feeling realm of the
body too?
Stasia (14:48):
Does it make sense?
Yeah, no, okay.
And I'm gonna answer it in liketwofold.
Cause I think the first one isreally it's not like a theta
healing answer necessarily, butI would just say literally
getting into your body.
And frankly, this was areminder that I needed as well.
Because I think for a longtime, this literally just
happened a couple of weeks ago.
For a long time, I was like,you know, just I can theta heal
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my way out of anything.
Like I could just, you know,this must be a limitation.
How do I reverse it, you know?
And um, there was a week that Iwas just like trying to
progress and I had all theseideas, but I was just feeling
like stuck and I couldn't getpast it.
And I was like, I have to, youknow, all these things on my
to-do list.
And every single day that week,something happened.
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Like I got a call from my kid'sschool, had to pick him up
because he fell.
And then my daughter got sick,then I got sick, then something.
And it was just like a veryclear reminder of like, okay,
no, like what you're doing isn'tworking.
Like you need to get into yourbody.
The first thing I will say isjust how important like getting
into your body is.
And that can look different fordifferent people.
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And, you know, sure, likeexercise is incredible.
But for me personally, uh, I'vebeen doing a lot more breath
work and it's just been verypowerful, just like a quick
eight-minute breathworkmeditation.
And I swear it just changes mywhole day.
Ryann (16:06):
Yeah.
Stasia (16:06):
Um, and even somatic healing as well has been big
lately.
But the other thing, part twoof that, what I will say, and
this is kind of from the thetahealing or subconscious mind
perspective, is that sometimesthat need to overthink is
actually a limiting belief inour subconscious mind.
Oh.
And I can, and I can give you avery direct example from my own
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life because for a long time Istruggled with being present.
And it's like I could getpresent when I'm meditating, and
you know, and I was always avery like spiritual person.
Like I knew how important itwas, but I wasn't actually
present as often as I'd like tothink I was.
And for me, it was like beingwith my children.
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Remember, you know, I knew notto be on my phone and I and I
wouldn't really be on my phonewith my children.
But even if I wasn't, even if Iwas just there to play with my
children, I would have like ato-do list running at the back
of my head or be like, okay,like I need to do this later.
And after this, I'm gonna readthis book and then I'm gonna do
this, you know, and yada, yada,yada.
And when I tuned into it, forme, there was a belief that it
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was tied to success.
So it was a belief that inorder to be successful, I had to
be productive.
And in order to be productive,I had to be busy.
And so when you have thosebeliefs, and this was just the
case in, you know, my example,but for everyone, it could look
different.
But when you have that, youknow, you could be operating on
constantly finding things to be,you know, to be busy, you know,
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to think that you're productiveor make you feel productive
because you have those beliefs.
And like, was it effective?
Probably not, you know, but itreally that's, you know, one of
the big shifts I've seen as wellis just kind of being present
and showing up presently with mychildren and with my husband.
And like by clearing that, itjust allowed me to, I don't
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know, to have space to just be,you know, to really be there and
not try to rush my playtimewith them, you know?
Ryann (18:08):
Yeah.
I think so many of us, I know Ido resonate with that because
I, I mean, I joke with myhusband, like he's the fun one,
like he's the one who can likesit down and play and do the
puzzle and this and that,because I have like a 20-minute
limit.
Like I will literally sometimesset a timer and be like, I
played with our son for 20minutes today.
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And my husband's like,congratulations, and he can do
it for longer.
And I think I have a similar asa kind of a self-identifying
ambitious woman.
Um, I have a similar belief orhad, let's say had a similar
belief around ambition and theto-do list and the check boxes
and things like that.
That really ex um resonates,that example.
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Um, and I think too, one of thethings that I was really
surprised by, but not so much atthe same time, was that I came
into you and I said, okay, Ihave this problem, right?
We wanted to focus kind of onone question.
And my question was belongingand like, you know, this sense
of where do I belong?
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Do I belong?
I'm not sure if I belong.
I don't think I belong, thatkind of a thing.
And in our session, we went toall these other beliefs, these
other examples that I like justdidn't even have in my mind.
Like they weren't top of mind.
I would have never logicallygone, oh, well, it must be
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because when my brother was bornwhen I was 10, you know, this,
that, and whatever happened.
But yet we went to thoseplaces.
So can you speak a little bitabout like just the power of the
subconscious and how like thesethings that the beliefs, the
worldviews, the the things thatwe're struggling with, like
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they're not even on our radar.
They're not conscious, likehence the definition of
subconscious.
Can you speak a bit on that andhow it's like kind of running
the show?
Stasia (20:04):
Absolutely.
So, yeah, so exactly what yousaid about running the show, our
subconscious mind runs 95% onof our life on autopilot.
So when we want to changesomething or when we want to
say, like, you know, I reallywant to do this, but it's not
part of your 95% that's likeautomatic based on your beliefs,
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your patterns, your behaviors,your, you know, knowledge, your
whatever else in your life, thenit literally, the reason that
change can feel so hard is itliterally takes the 5% of your
conscious mind to then decide,and then to have also the
willpower to then like, youknow, keep it up essentially.
And so, so with that, sometimesit's difficult to know, like as
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you said, it's you know, thedefinition of subconscious, like
it's difficult to know whatactually lives in our
subconscious.
And the clearest way to seewhat's in our subconscious is
our reality today is to look atyour life, you know?
Ryann (21:02):
Like everything that's in front of you, you've created
that kind of a job.
Stasia (21:05):
Absolutely.
Yep, yep.
Yeah.
And um when we the thing aboutour subconscious is it's there
to protect us, right?
And so when we create somethingthat we don't necessarily like
in our life, it's easy to thinklike, oh, I'm being punished, or
look at this, this toxic, youknow, relationship again, or
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this, you know, boss that isterrible to me again or or
whatnot.
Chances are there is a beliefin your subconscious mind that
is actually, you know, puttingyou from something else.
And so for example, if you'reuh one example is around money.
Say if you're like calling inmoney and you're like, you know,
I want more money, and youcould be practicing all the
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affirmations and saying, I'mabundant and bring me more money
and all of that.
But maybe you grew up in afamily where, you know, your
parents fought about money.
Or um, you know, oftentimes, orsay if you grew up with with
parents that were separated andone was abundant and the other
was, you know, had a scarcitymentality.
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And so maybe your money wasjust confusing for you.
Maybe you're like, I don't wantanything to do with money
because it's confusing, youknow, and I and I've seen that
in clients as well.
And so when you are statingsomething that you want or
calling in a manifestation andyou say, you know, I want more
money, it's almost like, whatare you asking for louder?
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Are you asking for more moneyor are you saying, please
protect me from money becausemoney separates families?
Or, you know, money is evil,money is dangerous, money is,
you know, whatever that lookslike.
My parents fought about moneyand I don't want to cause that.
Therefore, please protect mefrom money.
You know, and and so with thetahealing and and just in
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general, just accessing thesubconscious mind, why it's so
critical to kind of be able tosee that and you know from your
session, like the first part ofour session, it was just almost
me tapping in and channeling.
So I wasn't, you know, makingcommands to clear beliefs.
I was saying, oh, like, did yougrow up?
Did you have a brother?
Did you do this?
And it was just like I waspicking up little bits and
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pieces, and then it was slowlystarting to shape up.
And I was like, okay, great,that's where those beliefs came
from.
And I think a big part, I mean,part of this work is me kind of
energetically witnessing thatenergetic shift.
But a big part of it is alsofor your subconscious mind to
get on board with your consciousmind.
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And so when I speak about whenI speak these belief clearings
and when they resonate with you,and you're like, oh my God, of
course this stemmed from mychildhood.
Of course this is whathappened.
Like a big shift is actuallywith you just consciously
recognizing it because it's kindof like they say, you know, 50%
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of the solution is justadmitting the problem.
And so, and so when you canrecognize it where it's coming
from, then you can just say, youknow, yeah, I don't want to
operate from this anymore.
And so when I clear thosebeliefs, you can say, like, yes,
I I want to clear that.
And and it helps to get yourconscious mind on board as well.
Ryann (24:11):
Yeah.
So I'm so curious how you useyour knowledge of Theta Healing
and the subconscious as a mom,because I am under the belief
and um from the childdevelopment studies I've done
that basically zero to seven islike that subconscious mind just
being programmed all day, everyday.
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And so I'm curious how you useyour knowledge as a mama.
Stasia (24:38):
I knew this would come up, but honestly, I feel like I
don't use it as much as likeyou'd expect me to do.
Okay.
Yeah.
I think, I think in what I dodo is like energy clearings on
my children because my childrenare only one and three.
And so they're going todaycare.
And so if, you know, andthey're and they don't like, you
know, my three-year-old speaksto me, obviously, but it's not,
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you know, I don't know how muchof it I can trust at this point.
And so for me, like I have kindof tapped into their energy to
see like, okay, it's cool here.
Yeah.
But it's really just been moreabout like clearing their energy
so that way they are not,especially my three-year-old,
and he is such a sweet andsensitive soul, and he's like my
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little mama's boy.
But um, you know, I I feel likeI'm like protective over his
energy, especially because he ismore cautious, he is more
sensitive, he is more like, youknow, gentle.
And so it's just kind of doingthese like energetic clearings.
And one thing I will actuallyshare is that my son, my
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three-year-old, for about sixmonths, literally like every
single day, he'd be like, Mytummy hurts.
And but he it wouldn't be likedrastic.
Like he'd just say it andcontinue playing, or you know
what I mean?
And so for a while we kind ofwatched it.
And then, you know, the doctortold us like maybe try to limit
dairy.
And so we try to do that.
And so, anyways, and so we tookhim to um the hospital.
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And then she's like, honestly,it's not like considering he
doesn't have any other symptoms,considering, you know, there's
not that.
She's like, there's reallynothing that we can like test
for.
She's like, we could take hisblood, but she's like, there's
nothing that I'm like overlyconcerned about.
But she's like, I alsounderstand you're the parent,
and you know, he's kind ofcomplaining about this almost
daily for like a long time.
And so for me, and I didn'tthink to do this until then, but
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essentially, like, I tapped inand I really felt like it was
very energetic for him.
And so it was actually sincethen that I started doing these
energy clearings for him.
And it was specifically likeafter school, and I would just
do it, it was just a quick likemeditation, connecting to the
light and like clearing hisenergy through Theta Healing.
And I kid you not, you couldask my husband, but he has not
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complained about his tummyhurting since then.
And so like it was such apowerful thing for me too,
because kids are so open.
They are so open to to changeand to just so susceptible, and
as you know, from especiallyages zero to seven.
And so that was just like onebeautiful way that I saw a
direct impact.
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It was like from every daysaying it to ever never saying
it again, yeah, from thatchange.
And so I would say like thatwas the biggest thing that I've
like done with data healing onmy children.
But other than that, I mean,our children are here for their
own experience.
They are their own littlebeings.
So it's not so much that it'sus as adults that develop all
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these like limiting beliefs fromour childhood, where as adults,
we're like, that doesn't serveme.
I am ready to move past it.
I am ready to shed thoselayers.
But as kids, like they are,they already know who they are.
They know who they became tobe.
They don't have so many layersto shed.
So it's really just about likecleansing their energy and um,
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you know, clearing off anyenergy that doesn't belong to
them.
Ryann (27:57):
Yeah.
And you don't have to be atheta healer to do that, right?
Is it all about the intention?
Like if you have young kids, Ididn't realize how little your
kids were, one and three.
My gosh, so sweet.
So I guess I think, because,you know, I I mean, I've done
Reiki, like I've done a Reikitraining, but I think even not
as a Reiki practitioner, just asa mom with a bit of knowledge
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on how energy works and, youknow, how we can heal the
system, I would place anintention, like a loving
intention, and I would maybe putmy hands on my child or even
just like kind of send thisloving energy and this intention
for their field to beessentially like cleared.
Would you say that that's allyou need to do?
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Like for somebody who's like,how can I do that?
Stasia (28:42):
Yeah, yeah, I think so.
I mean, for me, the onlydifference is that I kind of tap
into the seventh plane, butreally I agree with you that
it's it's mostly about theintention, right?
And there are plenty, even likeguided meditations online to
just try to, you know, clearyour own energy and you could do
that to your children.
And for me, I even started kindof saying that to my
three-year-old out loud as welland putting on like some guide.
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I remember even before ThetaHealing when he was younger, I
would put on like a guidedmeditation and just, you know,
sometimes he would sit,sometimes he would play,
whatever.
But I'm just like, it can'thurt.
The intention is more, is morepowerful than anything.
Ryann (29:18):
So I want to talk about ambition.
You took a chance, you took aleap, you left your corporate
career, you learned how tobecome a theta healer, you
really decided from where I'mstanding to take the path less
traveled.
And for me, I think that issomething that is really
important to talk about becausethere are so many people out
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there who want to do it andhaven't for whatever reason, or
who are doing it and perhaps itfeels lonely.
So, can you speak a bit on justlike, you know, following your
dream and creating thisalternative path for yourself
career wise?
Stasia (29:58):
Yeah, absolutely.
So I I mean, I was on like aspiritual journey for honestly
close to a decade at this point.
And for a long time, I knew Ihad, you know, a calling, like a
higher calling, a highercalling or a calling for more.
And I knew there was something,you know, out there for me.
And, you know, I liked my jobin corporate, but I knew that it
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wasn't like my sole purposehere, you know?
And for a long time, I didn'treally know how to pursue that
calling and, you know, how tofrankly have the courage to step
into it.
And it was a couple of yearsago that I started learning
theta healing.
And so I was doing, and again,my intention was just to learn
it for myself.
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And so I was, you know,practicing it like literally
every day since.
And until, you know, later Iwas like, okay, I can actually
do this.
Like this is this is prettycool.
And I can kind of step intothis.
But there were still so manybeliefs around being seen.
I mean, talk about like evencoming out of spiritual closet,
as I like to call it.
But, you know, that was not thevibe in my corporate role.
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Right.
And so um, so yeah, I mean, itwas, it was scary.
And actually, well, whatactually happened was I got laid
off from my corporate role.
So it wasn't, it wasn't like Icompletely stepped into it.
But in in my mind, I wasthinking, I'm gonna, you know,
do this and make this a businesson my spare time.
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And then when I'm like makingmore money, then I'm gonna leave
corporate.
But it happened a lot sooner.
And frankly, it was this innerknowing that I was just like, I
know this happened, this layoffhappened for me divinely.
I didn't think I'm ready, butGod thinks I'm ready, clearly.
No, and I didn't, I, you know,because I could have just as
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easily slipped back into anothercorporate role and like, you
know, look for another job.
But it was just this innerknowing that I was like, no, I
know I am meant to go all in.
I know I am meant to trustthis, and this happened
divinely.
And frankly, it was thanks toTheta Healing that gave me the
courage because I don't know howelse I would have been able to
like clear, clear a lot oflimiting beliefs.
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And a big one of mine wasaround being seen.
I mean, that was that was huge.
And to even think that I'mposting videos on my social
media with my face just talkingin the videos is wild.
Ryann (32:19):
Yeah.
Oh my gosh.
I just I love stories like thisbecause there is an inner
knowing that I believe we allpossess and we don't all walk
the same path, and we're not allmeant to leave corporate
careers.
And, you know, it's not it'snot like that for everybody, but
I do believe there is a pathless traveled for everybody and
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a a courage.
I love that you use that word,that we need to tap into to kind
of step into, walk into thepath that will unfold the most
growth, that will serve humanityin the best and highest way.
You know, I do think that thereis room for us, most of us, to
step up right now and to really,really start to be courageous
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in the moves that we make, theway we work, the way we play,
the way we live our lives, theway we parent.
You know, there there's thisshift that I believe does need
to take place.
And so I love seeing peoplelike you who took a chance on
themselves and like cleared thebelief of like, I can't be seen.
I don't want to be seen.
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It's scary to be seen, whateverthat was.
And that you cleared it and youstepped through it.
And I'm sure there will beother blocks as you move along
the path.
And I don't think the work isever done.
But how do you see this like umhamster wheel?
Cause I think for a long time Iwas on a hamster wheel of like
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healing a little bit.
Like I thought, oh, just when Iget this place, oh, just when I
get this healed, oh, when I,and it was just like another
vision of like empty success,just dressed up in like a
different outfit, kind of.
So, how do you see, like, forme, your work seems just more
like one and done, like set itand forget it.
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Like, okay, I'm good to go.
Like, I don't need to now gofrom this to my Reiki session
and that then do this.
And then I can't, I don't needto do this and that and
whatever.
Like, I think I got caught up,and many of us get caught up in
this like healing loop of, oh,we're not healed yet.
We haven't shed all the beliefsyet.
Like, how do you see that fromwhere you're standing?
Stasia (34:28):
And I I hear you, and I was on that wheel for a long
time too.
I was always the person that,you know, wanted to read more
books and listen to morepodcasts and, you know, take the
courses.
And I also got certified onReiki and so, you know, and do
all of that.
And so I I totally hear it.
And I feel like to some extent,you know, sometimes it is kind
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of like a calling for us thatdoes help to lead to the next
step.
And but I think what's key isalso recognizing, I think like
recognizing who you are and andhow you show up when you're
going through it as well.
So again, going back to are youmaking this decision from love
or from fear?
Are you making it out of fearbecause you don't know enough
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and so you need to learn more?
Or are you called to it?
Because sometimes, like forexample, with Reiki, you know,
it's like maybe that wasn't mypath to become a Reiki healer,
but maybe it did serve me inthat time.
You know what I mean?
And so it's not necessarilythat the courses and the, you
know, the podcast and and allthat stuff are are bad.
Well, everyone's path justlooks different.
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But I would also just say,like, trust your own voice more
than anyone else's.
And that could look differentfor different people.
Meditation is a good resource.
But I think also when you areoff track, for example, then
life will throw something inyour path to kind of shift you.
And so I think a big thing of,you know, getting on your right
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path, following your truth andkind of getting closer to um,
you know, who you want to becomeand your purpose or your
destiny is to pay attention tolike how you react to things
that come on your path.
Because even for me, speakingabout getting laid off, you
know, like I could have seen itas like the worst thing ever.
Cause it's like I wasn't ready.
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I didn't think I was ready, youknow.
I wasn't ready to just quit,you know.
And so it could have beenextremely scary and I could have
been like, oh my God, I'mnever, you know, gonna make
money doing this on my own.
So I have to start looking foranother job and all that stuff.
But that decision would havebeen out of fear.
So, you know, COVID is anotherbig example.
I know many people for whom itcompletely shifted and realigned
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their lives, but it ended upactually creating something
beautiful in it, you know?
And so whether it's a globalpandemic or a layoff or just
something in your path that, youknow, doesn't align.
So you keep trying to push inone direction and then it's, you
know, something isn't workingout, trust that as well.
And take it all as, take it allas like, you know, breadcrumbs
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of information and as littletips for you.
Ryann (37:07):
Yeah.
What would you say to somebodyright now who's going through a
challenge, who feels likethey're kind of in a dark time,
who feels like they're trying toovercome something and they
just feel like they're kind ofup against a wall.
They maybe perceive that theydon't have the choices they
want.
Like, what would you say tothat person who just feels like
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really stuck in their lives?
Stasia (37:31):
I think a big thing is about shifting the mindset from
like victimhood to empowerment.
And I know that can, you know,sound and be very difficult in
the moment when you're goingthrough a really rough time.
But I think it can be literallyas small as making a list of,
you know, say you have yoursituation that you're going
through and you make a list withtwo columns.
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One is what I can't control,and the other is what I can
control in that situation.
And, you know, what you can'tcontrol, there's power in just
writing it down and owning it tobe like, you know what, I can't
control this situation.
And that's okay.
It's like a way of releasingit, even if it's just on paper.
But there could be micro thingsthat you can control in that,
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you know, situation.
It could be, well, you know,I'm gonna make a phone call that
could lead to this, or I'mgonna take a walk outside
because it's gonna make me feelbetter, or, you know, whatever,
depending on the situation, ofcourse.
And so I think just it's aboutthe micro actions that kind of
train your mind to start lookingfor and getting more of
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empowerment rather thanvictimhood, you know?
And and I think that's the trapbecause because of course, if
when hard things happen to us,like, you know, it it's hard not
to see ourselves as a victim.
But it's like what happens fromthere that matters, you know,
are you gonna go down furtherdown that hole or are you gonna
take little micro steps to um toget out of it?
Ryann (39:00):
Yeah, love that.
I think in retrospect, likelooking back at the times that
I've struggled, especiallyrecently, my husband lost his
job in 2020.
I got pregnant that same year.
We started homeschooling, likeso many we had financial issues,
sold a house, we moved.
I mean, it was like bam, bam,but it was like just the waves
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like kept coming and they keptcoming.
And I never really in thattime, like I never succumbed to
like, oh, I'm depressed, or Ijust like can't get out of bed.
And and I I can see why that'sso easy for people to to go to
that place of like despair.
And I think during that time, Ijust like made the best out of
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it, even though there were likesome really shitty days and some
really hard days.
And I still look back and gowent like, oh my God, that
happened.
And um, like I chose to likebring my kids to the beach and
just like play music really loudwith the windows down.
Like, I think so much of whatI'm hearing you say is like we
have these micro choices everysingle day amidst the struggle.
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And um, I also think you let meknow your take on this, really,
maybe to a fault, think likethat struggle so triumphant in
the end.
Like we have to have thatstruggle, we have to have that
friction to really like walkthrough that and become that
next up-level version ofourselves.
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Maybe that's a limiting beliefthough, that things have to be
hard.
I've kind of grappled with thata little bit of like, oh, work
has to be hard or this has to behard in order for it to really
pay off.
Like, what's your take on thechallenge and the struggle?
Stasia (40:42):
So this is a juicy one.
I love this question.
So I don't necessarily believethat work has to be hard or
like, you know, we have to gothrough a hard battle
necessarily.
But I because I think even inthe battle, it's almost like how
hard do we want to make it?
I think one key thing torecognize as well is our
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triggers, actually.
And I talk about triggersbecause they truly are and can
be our expanders.
Because when we pay attentionto what is it that, you know,
triggers us, it's like if we'retriggered by someone else's
success, for example, thenchances are there is a part
there that is ready to be healedwhere we are not allowing that
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abundance for ourselves, youknow?
Or if we're triggered bysomeone being, you know, like
too much or something, you know,then chances are there's a part
of us that's not allowing ourfullest expression, you know?
And so this is where I alsotalk about like the subconscious
work always being is like italways protecting you as well,
you know?
And so like your limitingbeliefs are not about
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punishment, they're aboutprotecting you because they're
serving a purpose in your life.
So going back to the originalquestion of, you know, do you
need to go through a struggle?
I think struggle in generalcan, you know, looks different
from for different people.
And I think it's like aboutlearning and moving through it.
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So for some people, I mean,sure, it can, you know, you
might be dealt some like a poorhand.
And um, you need to overcomethat in order to get on the
other side.
But even for me and my example,I didn't like my journey into
healing didn't come from trauma.
I didn't come from like a very,you know, traumatic background,
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but it was this knowing that Ihad like a calling for more.
And I would say, like, one ofthe biggest things that I had to
work through.
I mean, I can't say I have it,like, it's not like I'm not
trying to limit the amount ofthings I had to work on because
there was definitely likescarcity blocks and a lot of
that.
But one of the biggest things Ifeel like is really about um
overcoming the fear of beingseen and stepping into my full
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expression.
And someone else can look atthat and say, that's nothing.
Like really, like, you know,overcoming showing up on camera.
But for me, it was terrifying,you know?
And so, and so struggle is isrelative.
But I also wanna really spreadthe message that healing doesn't
need to be hard andtransformation and change don't
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need to be hard.
And I think that's really whyI'm so just in awe of this work
of Theta Healing and why I dothe work that I do is because I
realize like how quickly thingscan shift.
You know, it no longer needyears of therapy to like hash
out old trauma.
It's it's really a big part ofit, is as I mentioned, getting
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your subconscious mind on boardwith your conscious mind and
just like hearing that to beable to release it, to be able
to admit to yourself, you knowwhat?
Yeah, I did have that beliefand it's no longer serving me,
and I don't want to operate fromthat truth anymore.
Ryann (43:51):
Amen.
I mean, I think as someonewho's been on that roller
coaster of like, oh, I'll I'llbe fine when I can overcome this
and overcome that.
And I just remember telling acoach in like 2019-ish, like, I
just don't know when I'm gonnafeel like I'm not like trudging
through the mud anymore.
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And little did I know in 2019,that was just like the practice
round.
I mean, it wasn't even like youknow, the hardship wasn't even
really happening at that time.
But I really distinctlyremember that.
Our session, Stasia, was soeasy.
It was like, oh, okay.
And you asked me like as wewere wrapping up, like, how do I
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feel?
And I was like, I feel lighterand I feel so satiated and
satisfied, which like had to dowith another limiting belief and
something else I've beenstruggling with in, you know,
just like everyday life.
And it just was so simple.
Like, how often do we need todo this?
Like, is it like one and done?
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Should we do it like monthlyfor some maintenance?
Like, is it when when shitcomes up, then we we call you?
Like, how often should we doit?
Stasia (45:02):
So I wouldn't say it's for like maintenance
necessarily, because it's likethese these beliefs are lasting,
right?
And so the work that we didtoday is lasting.
But I would say, I mean, Iguess it's depending on where
you are in your journey.
Because if you're completelynew, like you haven't even
looked inward at all, you know,there might be deeper and deeper
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layers and deeper beliefs that,you know, you've been kind of
holding on to and haven't beenable to admit.
And so, yes, like it might belonger because I can't speak
enough beliefs out in an hour,you know, to get through that.
The other thing I will say isthat as long as we keep living,
we will continue to keepgrowing.
We will continue to havedreams.
There is never going to be atime where it's gonna be like,
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well, I have no more desires.
I am satisfied.
And that's not coming from aplace of, you know, not having
enough or like, you know, I'llnever be good enough.
It's like you can get to aplace where you are so thrilled
and grateful and happy andecstatic about where you are
today, but still desire morejust because you know that there
is more life to live, there'smore abundance to create,
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there's more joy to be had.
And so, you know, that's that'sanother way where it's like as
long as we keep, you know,expanding, we can be, you know,
we can always do more of thiswork to get to the next level
and the next level after that.
But I would always just saylike it's more of, you know, a
calling.
Like I feel like you wouldknow, you know what I mean?
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It's not something I'd be like,Ryan, your prescription is in
two weeks.
We're gonna be back.
Tell me what to do.
Ryann (46:35):
Yeah.
Okay.
Yeah, that makes sense.
What I heard you say in thattoo is there's a level of
contentment that if you'vealready been doing the work and
you have some, you know,understandings of where you've
come from, where you're going,what you've struggled with, like
there is this, and I can attestto this because I feel this way
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after our session today.
There's this level ofcontentment.
And I think we are so used toin our culture and our society,
like the highs and the lows.
And, you know, we're kind of onthis roller coaster with the
news and just, you know, thethings that happen in the world
and our emotions, you know, wecan really get kind of tripped
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up into living these like highsand lows.
And for me, one of the placesthat I seek is just like simply
like peace and contentment.
Like happy in this moment, eventhough it's raining, like happy
in this moment, even thoughlike whatever is just is.
And we can be content in that.
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And I don't know about anyoneelse, but that sounds like a
pretty awesome place to live.
Just like being content that,like, you know, things are
happening all around me, and Iget to choose.
It's like as simple as that.
Stasia (47:55):
Yeah.
And I mean, honestly, tying itback to the work, like sometimes
there is a limiting belief thatwe can't or we don't feel safe
in just being content.
We feel like we always need tobe striving in order to or
productive or moving.
And I mean, even just relatingit back to the example I gave
earlier, like I thought, youknow, to be successful, I had to
be busy always, you know?
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And so that was a limitingbelief.
And so because I wanted to besuccessful, it was like I'm
gonna keep doing that.
And, you know, one basic thing,like one of the basic things
that we do in theta healing isactually download feelings.
And so sometimes we literallydon't know what safety in our
body feels like or what successfeels like, or what abundance
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feels like.
And it's not to say that, youknow, the people that don't know
how that feels like thatthey'll never achieve it or
they're cursed from gettingsuccessful, for example.
But it's it's like if you don'tknow what success actually
feels like in your body, then itwill never be enough.
You can achieve levels ofsuccess and still be like, oh,
it's not good enough, or thisperson has it better, or I need
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to keep trying, like keepstruggling, or or whatever that
looks like, where you won'tactually take the time to be
satisfied or to celebrate yoursuccess and to actually be at
peace.
And so, so, so yeah, I mean, Ifrankly like I've seen stuff in
myself as well.
And sometimes it really is alimitation and a limiting belief
that we can't actually be, orwe we rather like protect
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ourselves or prevent ourselvesfrom fully enjoying it.
And another one I will sharereal quick as well is a fear of
when you have, you know, theperfect marriage or the perfect,
you know, success in yourcareer, or the perfect whatever
that looks like, the fear thatit'll be boring, or the fear
that it won't meet yourexpectations, or the fear that,
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you know, it's not gonna be goodenough.
And so you keep yourself onthis hamster wheel of being
like, well, I need to, you know,I need to keep, you know, cause
chaos.
I need to do this, I need to dothat.
Because if it's gonna beperfect, it'll be boring, or if
it's perfect, it's not goodenough.
Ryann (50:02):
Those are such good examples, and I can relate to
that.
I gave up, like, I like to saylike I gave up gossip like five,
five plus years ago, probablyeven more than that.
Stasia (50:13):
And I love how you have a timer.
Ryann (50:15):
I do, I know, I do.
I'm like, I gave up gossip likehowever many years ago.
And um sometimes though, I'llcatch myself wanting to like
stir the pot in like a verysubtle way.
And I'm like, where's thatthing again?
You're trying to, you're tryingto make things all chaotic.
Or if my husband says somethingthat's like very just like
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innocent or whatever, I'll likehave a tendency to like want to
make it a very dramatic andor umself-speaking.
Spread a rumor about you.
Spread a rumor, yeah, somethingsilly like that.
Those are such good examples.
You are a gift.
Thank you so much for the workyou do in this world.
I'm so excited to be againwalking this path with you.
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I'm so excited for the Rise andFlourish Summit, where you will
be one of our speakers and oneof our session holders.
I don't even whatever, one ofour practitioners there.
I am like beyond thrilled thatwe will be able to gift your
masterfulness and your presenceand your expertise to everybody
there, including myself.
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Like I'm so excited.
I created this event and Ashleyand I created this event
because it's an event that weneed.
It's a day off, it's a chanceto reset, it's a chance to let
go of the things that have beenholding us back and really,
really walk away so filled up,so just like overflowing at the
brim that it spreads out intothe world, it spreads out into
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our families, and I believe thatthe ripple effect is real.
And so I'm so thrilled that youwill be there to help usher
this beautiful vision into theworld with us.
Stasia (51:51):
Well, Ryan, thank you so much.
And I'm just so thrilled to bepart of the event.
So thank you, thank you, thankyou.
And I um I'm so thrilled aboutit.
I mean, I'll be talking aboutthe subconscious mind and
ultimately empowering thesewomen to understand how much
power and control we actuallyhave over our realities and over
our life.
Because so often, you know,when when we have limitations
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and limiting beliefs in oursubconscious mind, because it's
subconscious and we can't, youknow, really identify them, we
think that it's outside of us orwe think that the circumstances
happening to us are, you know,happening to us as opposed to us
creating them or, you know, orthe relationships we attract or
whatever that looks like, or thepatterns we're playing out in
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our marriages or as mothers orin our careers.
But your subconscious is a partof you.
Like it is, it is you.
And so once you understand itspower and also how to harness
it, that there are tools to gointo the subconscious, and it
doesn't have to be, you know,years of therapy, just to
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understand that you do have thatpower is empowering, frankly.
But also, I'll be hosting alive group data healing session.
And I'm so thrilled to that.
I've done a number of groupsessions, and of course, it's a
little bit different thanone-on-one's because one on ones
is just goes so deep intochildhood and you know, all this
(53:16):
stuff.
But group sessions actually goquite deep as well.
And I just kind of put theintention that everyone, you
know, listening, everyone thereis is, you know, hears exactly
what they're meant to hear andit hits them as much as it can.
And um, sometimes we tap intolike collective consciousness,
you know, and and clear beliefsthere.
So I'm I'm so thrilled.
Ryann (53:36):
Oh my God, it's gonna be so powerful.
I cannot wait.
I think when a group of women,when a group of mothers, when a
group of conscious women andmission-driven women get into a
room together, I just I don'tknow of anything else more
powerful.
I mean, I really use that wordpower and I am really, really
(54:00):
feeling that.
So yes, join us.
It's October 25th in DeerfieldBeach.
The early ticket sales arestill happening now, so I'll
link it down below.
Come say hi, come give us a hugin real life, come do a theta
healing collectively with us.
It's going to be amazing.
In the meantime, Stasia, wherecan we find you and follow you
(54:23):
and learn all about the workyou're doing in the world?
Stasia (54:25):
Absolutely.
So my Instagram handle is atcreate higher, higher svelt
h-i-g-h-e-r.
And my website iscreatehigier.com as well.
And that's that's where you canfind me.
Ryann (54:37):
Amazing.
So now I'm gonna ask you thethree rapid fire questions I ask
everybody at the end of theinterview.
And the first one is what'sbringing you joy today?
Stasia (54:44):
Oof, yes.
I would say connection.
I mean, this is beautiful.
Our session earlier brought meso much joy.
I I'm so privileged to workwith the people that I do work
with because I take it as suchan honor to be able to let into
your space, like your highesttruth, you know, in that way.
And so it truly brought me joytoday.
What if anything are youreading right now?
(55:05):
This is actually not my typicalreading, but I'm reading a book
called Feng Shui Manifest.
And what's interesting is I'veI'm totally new to Feng Shui,
but I've had a, you know, littleping to follow through with it.
Uh, this book is written by awoman named Chelsea Vandenberg.
And what's really cool about itis she actually ties it to the
(55:25):
subconscious mind because sheexplains that we don't actually
see with our eyes.
Our eyes just let the light in.
We see with our brain becauseour brain is what perceives
everything around us.
And so, you know, with all mywork in the subconscious mind,
it's like, of course, our brainis perceiving our physical
environment.
And so she kind of speaks aboutfeng shui and explains it from
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that perspective.
And yeah, it's been it's beenan interesting read.
That sounds so cool.
Ryann (55:52):
Okay, the last question I have for you now is who or what
has taught you the most?
Stasia (55:56):
Oof.
I would say my husband.
My husband and and my childrentoo, but mostly my husband.
And I would say it from theperspective that everything
around us is a reflection of us.
And so, as I mentioned earlier,to pay attention to your
triggers because they are ourexpanders.
And uh, my husband and I, we'vebeen together for about a
(56:18):
decade now, married for fouryears, and he has seen me go
through my entire spiritualpath.
Like I, you know, learningabout all this and going all in,
and and you know, there weredefinitely triggers that were
brought up early on, you know,and and uh, but it's once you
focus on your triggers and work,see them as your reflections
(56:38):
and expanders, and you workthrough them, then it's
beautiful.
Ryann (56:42):
I think you're the second person who's named her husband
as her biggest teacher.
And the first time I got soemotional because it reflected
something back for me that wasso profound.
And this time I'm not cryinganymore, but I shed a lot of
tears earlier, so maybe I'm allout.
Um, again, such a beautifulreflection.
(57:04):
Like, shout out to all the menout there who are just like
holding it down for theirfree-flowing feminine wives,
because oh, I just, I just loveit.
So shout out to all the goodmen out there.
Stasia (57:21):
I love that so much.
It's so true.
I literally thank my husbandbecause I was like, not only was
it weird for me to come out ofthis closet and tell you, like,
oh yeah, I channel now.
Oh, I'm tapping into source,you know, and and yes, I can,
you know, control energy, butfor him to also be supportive in
me stepping into this work fulltime and and just kind of
(57:42):
believing in me and trusting inthat vision and and my dream and
seeing it for himself as well.
And I'm so grateful for that.
Ryann (57:50):
So beautiful.
Thank you so much again forbeing here.
Stasia (57:53):
Thank you so much for having me.
This was such a pleasure.
Thank you so much, Ryan.
Even if I was just there to play with my children, I
would have like a to-do listrunning at the back of my head
or be like, okay, like I need todo this later.
And after this, I'm gonna readthis book and then I'm gonna do
this, you know, and yada, yada,yada.
And when I tuned into it, forme, there was a belief that it
was tied to success.
So it was a belief that inorder to be successful, I had to
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be productive.
And in order to be productive,I had to be busy.
Ryann (00:34):
Hey friends, welcome back to the Raising Wild Hearts
podcast.
I am so excited to be heretoday.
Oh my gosh.
Um, so the school year hasstarted.
It's August and the end ofAugust as I'm recording this,
and actually, you're gonna hearit pretty much at the end of
August.
I'm kind of recording anduploading episodes in real time
(00:55):
uh because I took a little timeoff from recording interviews
over the summer, um, which wasgreat.
And now I'm back, and that'sgreat too.
Today I'm joined by StasiaHaramijo.
Stasia is a subconscioushealing expert and the founder
of CreateHire.com.
After years as a high-achievingleader in the corporate world,
she realized that externalsuccess didn't equal inner
(01:17):
fulfillment.
Yes, please.
Uh, and she chose to follow herdeeper calling for more.
As a mother of two, she wanteda life led by intuition, not
office hours, where family comesfirst.
Love that.
Today she helps high-performingwomen answer their own call for
more and lead from alignmentusing subconscious and energetic
reprogramming to release thepatterns that hustle and
(01:39):
strategy alone can't touch.
She believes healing does nothave to be hard and no longer
takes years of therapy to breakthrough that glass ceiling of
success.
Yes, please, to all of it.
Stasia is just a wonderfulintuitive healer.
I had a session with her beforethis interview, and it was so
profound.
I am so excited to announcealso that Stasia is going to be
(02:02):
one of our amazing speakers atthe Rise and Flourish, the first
annual Rise and Flourish SummitOctober 25th in Deerfield
Beach, Florida.
My friend Ashley and I areco-organizing an event uh for
mothers and women who want totake a day off, who want to go
show up for themselves, who wantto get self-care connection and
education in a really amazingluxe space.
(02:22):
It's at the Five Element Spa inDeerfield Beach, Florida.
Um, and you're just gonna be socared for, and the event is
going to be awesome.
Dotsie is gonna be one of theamazing practitioners there.
So I'm so excited to bring herto you guys in real life.
So if you want to join us onthat day, the early ticket sales
are still happening now.
So go to iRiseandforge.com.
I'll put the link down in thedescription.
(02:43):
Um, and join us that day.
I cannot wait to give you a hugin real life and for you guys
to just see all the amazingthings that we have planned for
everybody.
All right, without further ado,let's get into my conversation
with Stasia.
Hi, Stasia.
Welcome to the Raising WildHearts podcast.
Stasia (03:01):
Hi, Ryan.
I'm so thrilled to be here.
Ryann (03:04):
Oh my gosh, I'm so thrilled that you're here.
We just got done with a ThetaHealing and powerful like
doesn't even describe it.
I love that we're recordingthis directly after because I
knew there were gonna be so manydownloads for me and I knew I
was gonna just be so fresh fromthe experience to talk about it.
And I am literally blown away.
And I can't wait to, I guess,integrate it.
(03:27):
But I'm curious from yourperspective with theta healing,
with subconscious programming,is that how you would say it or
with subconscious reprogramming,perhaps?
Like both.
Okay.
Is there an integration periodor is it just like, okay, and
you're done?
Or do you have to kind of likego through and journal and like
do all that?
Stasia (03:46):
So it works instantly.
And oftentimes people literallyfeel a shift like right there
in the session where they'relike, oh my God, I feel like
lighter, I feel more open, orwhatever that looks like.
Yep.
But there are, I feel like someclients, and honestly, I'm kind
of one of those people as well,that for me, it's almost like I
need to like see it to believeit.
So it's almost like it's not somuch that it takes time to take
(04:08):
effect, but it's rather justlike your own lived experience
where, you know, how are youshowing up the next day where
you're like, you know, I wouldhave doubted myself in this
case, but I actually don't feelthat way anymore.
Or I would have felt this way,but no, I'm actually, you know,
I feel good to do this.
And so almost just to likeprove it to yourself to really
be able to see it.
But otherwise, I mean, it itreally does work instantly.
(04:28):
So wow.
Ryann (04:30):
Can you do it on yourself?
Yes.
Or you can.
Stasia (04:34):
I do it all the time.
Ryann (04:35):
My God, that's amazing.
What a great personaldevelopment growth tool that you
have in your toolbox.
Stasia (04:42):
Honestly, when I first started this work, um, I did a
first session with apractitioner.
And the way she was able toarticulate my like beliefs and
feelings that literally I feltdeep in my soul, but I was like,
I couldn't have evenarticulated them better myself.
That I was like, okay, I needto like literally after two
sessions, I was like, I need tolearn this work.
(05:04):
And really the only intentionwas for me.
I was like, I just want togrow.
Like I wasn't expecting to be,you know, a practitioner.
I was in corporate and I waslike a high achieving corporate
girly.
And I wasn't uh, you know,expecting to become a theta
healing practitioner.
But the more I got into it andthe more I just recognized how
powerful this work is.
(05:25):
And then the more I just likecouldn't wait to share it with
others.
And it was like working on mymom, my sister, and just trying
it on like anyone that would beopen to it.
And I mean, it was, it wasimpactful.
The work kind of spoke foritself.
And then frankly, I felt like Igot pretty good at it because
it's like the skill is really tobe able to, you're channeling,
but it's the ability to be ableto like interpret and understand
(05:48):
energy and understand whatneeds to shift as well.
And so then it just became likea craft a little bit, like to
understand that and interpretit.
And then, you know, and then Ijust got so excited about
sharing it with as many peopleas I could.
Ryann (06:03):
Yeah.
It seems like it's like an artand a science.
Like the interpretation of itis like the art, but the science
of it, I don't know, like howyou actually learn the science
of it, like just closing youreyes and being able to tune into
someone else's energy.
Maybe you can tell us that.
Um, but the way that you justlike went there, I mean, so
many, most of the things youwere saying, I was like, yep,
(06:26):
yep, nailed it on it.
Like, I mean, it was just youwere just right there.
And it was stuff like we talkedabout after the session.
I didn't even know was reallythere.
It wasn't a top of mind.
It's not the question that Istarted with.
It all just kind of came.
So tell us about like how it'san art and a science and maybe
like how you learn how to do it.
Because I'm going, like, thereis some sort of like, it seems
(06:50):
like maybe you're just anintuitive person at the core.
I wonder if you were alwaysintuitive, like as a child, and
it was a gift that you've justbeen learning over time.
So that was like a multifacetedquestion, but just let's roll
with it.
Stasia (07:04):
I'll tackle it.
Yeah.
No, so I do feel like I wasalways intuitive.
And I do feel like everyone hasthat sense.
And sure, some might have itmore heightened than others.
But for me, for a long time,and really until I started doing
theta healing, I didn't reallyknow how to tap into it.
I didn't know, like I was like,I would see healers that would
(07:24):
tell me, oh, you know, you'reintuitive.
And it's like, great, how do Iaccess it?
How do I like leverage it?
And so with theta healing, it'sessentially like a meditative
technique.
And um, I touched on this withyou a little bit about the seven
planes of existence.
And I want to briefly explainso this is not just unique to
Theta Healing, but the sevenplanes of existence, like we as
(07:45):
people are on the third plane,spirit is on the fourth plane,
your higher self is on the fifthplane, sixth is the laws of the
universe, and the seventh planeis source or creator or
universe or God or whatever youwant to call it.
And essentially, it's aboutgetting to the seventh plane or
like, you know, channeling fromsource.
(08:06):
And I would say the biggest,other than like kind of the, you
know, the training that I wentthrough in Theta Healing of
understanding how to access it,other than that, it's just been
practice.
And I mean like, like for me,it's been daily practice and not
out of like a chore that I hadto do it, but just because I was
like, how do I tap into thatagain?
You know?
And so when I'm comparing thatto say a psychic or something
(08:29):
like that, if you've seen apsychic and some people are
like, oh, you know, psychics arelying to you, or they said
something to me and it didn'tresonate, or others are like,
oh, this was amazing and theychanneled everything.
Chances are it's not like thepsychic is completely like lying
to you, but you don't reallyknow what they're tapping into.
Like they might be tapping intospirit on the fourth plane, for
(08:51):
example.
Right.
Or, you know, channeling yourlike great aunt Sally or
something.
And um, so, or you know, oreven your higher self.
And the higher self, yes, yourhigher self has your best
interest at heart and like iskind of, you know, some people
think of it as like all-knowing,but the higher self can
actually have like limitationsof its own.
(09:13):
And the analogy that I like tocompare it to is like a newborn
baby and a mother.
Because if the newborn baby isalone in his crib crying because
the mother stepped out to getthe bottle for five minutes, and
the baby's like, I'm alone, I'mscared.
But the mother is like, you'resafe.
You have nothing to worryabout.
I'm just, you know, I'm gonnabe back in the room in five
(09:36):
minutes.
And um, but the baby is cryingbecause he doesn't know.
So if you're that baby, but themother might not know what's
outside or what's gonna happennext.
You know what I mean?
And so, like the the higherself also has uh limitations, I
guess.
And um, so really with thetahealing and its uniqueness is is
getting to that seventh planeand understanding like the
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highest truth of all that is,um, and being able to tune in
and and channel from thatenergy.
So is the highest truth of allthat is love?
Yes, yes.
I mean I think um I think I'veheard you speak about the book.
Have I heard you speak aboutthe book A Return to Love?
Probably, yeah.
Okay, because that was one ofmy first books on my spiritual
(10:20):
journey, and that like changedeverything for me.
And uh, you know, everythingshe talks about there is is how
I see the world as well, whereit's either fear or love.
Ryann (10:30):
Yeah.
Stasia (10:31):
And so go ahead.
Ryann (10:32):
Sorry, you know what's interesting is that I have my
grandma's copy who justtransitioned on Sunday of Return
to Love.
And that's yeah, that's mycopy.
And it was a gift from my auntto her.
But yeah, so you've definitelyheard me talk about that book.
Yeah.
Stasia (10:49):
Beautiful.
Ryann (10:50):
Yeah.
So because when you say thehighest truth of all that is, I
you know what I do?
I picture others going, Well,what could that possibly be?
You know, and then I'm like,Well, I think I I know what it
is.
I think it's love, right?
And then we have these, I'llspeak for myself.
I have these moments of doubtbeing in this three-dimensional
(11:13):
plane that we are in as humanson the earth, right?
Where we forget the love and wemess up and we stumble and we
veer off course and we makemistakes and you know, all those
things.
And so I think I don't know ifit's just through learned
experience or if I'm like, yeah,well, that must be love, or
(11:34):
maybe from the book that I read.
I don't know.
But like, how do we, I guess,how do we land on that as the
highest truth for everyone?
Like, my question is alwayslike, how do we get everyone to
be loving?
Because then there'd be no warsand then all the kids would be
happy, and then everybody wouldbe, you know, there'd be no
violence and there'd be noabuse.
Like, so how do we geteverybody to like realize that
(11:57):
like what God is is love, whatthe highest truth is, love, what
all the religions are saying,the the common denominator, the
common thread is love.
Like, how do we how do weconvert people to love?
Stasia (12:11):
I mean, I can't say I have the answer to that.
But I would say, like, eventhough love, because love, the
energy of love vibrates at sucha high frequency.
But when I talk about thehighest truth and creator of all
that is, it's really the energyof like pure creation, also
where anything is possible,essentially.
(12:32):
And when I speak about thehighest truth, it's not even
necessarily like, I mean, it islike the perspective of the
all-knowing, but it's when I'mtapping into someone's energy
and I'm seeing your highesttruth.
So for example, you know, ifyou come to me and you're like,
hey, you know, I have this blockaround business, and then it
really takes me to a familything.
(12:54):
You know what I mean?
And so it's almost like thatblock in business, for example,
could have stemmed from from youas a childhood because you, you
know, created a belief in yoursubconscious mind that stemmed
from your childhood, or frankly,even a past life, or beliefs
that we can carry in our umgenetics as well.
So that's what I mean when I'mspeaking about the high highest
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truth as well.
It's almost like what is thebottom belief or the highest
truth of the situation that youare dealing with or that you're
energetically blocked from.
Ryann (13:25):
Yeah.
Cool.
How do you or do you advisepeople to get the hell out of
their brains and into theirhearts?
Because I am, as I think manyuh people out there listening
right now, are like I'm anoveranalyzer.
I'm very, you know, I identifyas smart and with it and fast
(13:47):
and quick witted and like reallylike on it mentally.
But I think from doing work fora number of years, like the
work, right, I've realized thatnothing good really happens up
there in that mind of mine.
Like it's mostly monkey mind,right?
Unless I'm like trying to solvelike a math equation or like
figuring out what's for dinner,like very practical and
(14:09):
logistical things.
And so multiple times a day,I'm needing to remind myself to
get back into my body, get backinto my heart, right?
And so, how do you advisepeople, even during your healing
sessions?
Because I noticed that I wouldstart to go like, you know, like
I would like follow the thoughtand I'd be like, no, no, no,
back to here, right?
And I'd have to like back tocenter.
And I have practice of thisbecause of um meditation and
(14:33):
just like being aware.
But how about somebody who'slike, well, how do I not
overthink everything?
And what's the differencebetween this mental realm and
this kind of love realm and thenlike the feeling realm of the
body too?
Stasia (14:48):
Does it make sense?
Yeah, no, okay.
And I'm gonna answer it in liketwofold.
Cause I think the first one isreally it's not like a theta
healing answer necessarily, butI would just say literally
getting into your body.
And frankly, this was areminder that I needed as well.
Because I think for a longtime, this literally just
happened a couple of weeks ago.
For a long time, I was like,you know, just I can theta heal
(15:10):
my way out of anything.
Like I could just, you know,this must be a limitation.
How do I reverse it, you know?
And um, there was a week that Iwas just like trying to
progress and I had all theseideas, but I was just feeling
like stuck and I couldn't getpast it.
And I was like, I have to, youknow, all these things on my
to-do list.
And every single day that week,something happened.
(15:31):
Like I got a call from my kid'sschool, had to pick him up
because he fell.
And then my daughter got sick,then I got sick, then something.
And it was just like a veryclear reminder of like, okay,
no, like what you're doing isn'tworking.
Like you need to get into yourbody.
The first thing I will say isjust how important like getting
into your body is.
And that can look different fordifferent people.
(15:52):
And, you know, sure, likeexercise is incredible.
But for me personally, uh, I'vebeen doing a lot more breath
work and it's just been verypowerful, just like a quick
eight-minute breathworkmeditation.
And I swear it just changes mywhole day.
Ryann (16:06):
Yeah.
Stasia (16:06):
Um, and even somatic healing as well has been big
lately.
But the other thing, part twoof that, what I will say, and
this is kind of from the thetahealing or subconscious mind
perspective, is that sometimesthat need to overthink is
actually a limiting belief inour subconscious mind.
Oh.
And I can, and I can give you avery direct example from my own
(16:30):
life because for a long time Istruggled with being present.
And it's like I could getpresent when I'm meditating, and
you know, and I was always avery like spiritual person.
Like I knew how important itwas, but I wasn't actually
present as often as I'd like tothink I was.
And for me, it was like beingwith my children.
(16:52):
Remember, you know, I knew notto be on my phone and I and I
wouldn't really be on my phonewith my children.
But even if I wasn't, even if Iwas just there to play with my
children, I would have like ato-do list running at the back
of my head or be like, okay,like I need to do this later.
And after this, I'm gonna readthis book and then I'm gonna do
this, you know, and yada, yada,yada.
And when I tuned into it, forme, there was a belief that it
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was tied to success.
So it was a belief that inorder to be successful, I had to
be productive.
And in order to be productive,I had to be busy.
And so when you have thosebeliefs, and this was just the
case in, you know, my example,but for everyone, it could look
different.
But when you have that, youknow, you could be operating on
constantly finding things to be,you know, to be busy, you know,
(17:39):
to think that you're productiveor make you feel productive
because you have those beliefs.
And like, was it effective?
Probably not, you know, but itreally that's, you know, one of
the big shifts I've seen as wellis just kind of being present
and showing up presently with mychildren and with my husband.
And like by clearing that, itjust allowed me to, I don't
(18:01):
know, to have space to just be,you know, to really be there and
not try to rush my playtimewith them, you know?
Ryann (18:08):
Yeah.
I think so many of us, I know Ido resonate with that because
I, I mean, I joke with myhusband, like he's the fun one,
like he's the one who can likesit down and play and do the
puzzle and this and that,because I have like a 20-minute
limit.
Like I will literally sometimesset a timer and be like, I
played with our son for 20minutes today.
(18:29):
And my husband's like,congratulations, and he can do
it for longer.
And I think I have a similar asa kind of a self-identifying
ambitious woman.
Um, I have a similar belief orhad, let's say had a similar
belief around ambition and theto-do list and the check boxes
and things like that.
That really ex um resonates,that example.
(18:51):
Um, and I think too, one of thethings that I was really
surprised by, but not so much atthe same time, was that I came
into you and I said, okay, Ihave this problem, right?
We wanted to focus kind of onone question.
And my question was belongingand like, you know, this sense
of where do I belong?
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Do I belong?
I'm not sure if I belong.
I don't think I belong, thatkind of a thing.
And in our session, we went toall these other beliefs, these
other examples that I like justdidn't even have in my mind.
Like they weren't top of mind.
I would have never logicallygone, oh, well, it must be
(19:32):
because when my brother was bornwhen I was 10, you know, this,
that, and whatever happened.
But yet we went to thoseplaces.
So can you speak a little bitabout like just the power of the
subconscious and how like thesethings that the beliefs, the
worldviews, the the things thatwe're struggling with, like
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they're not even on our radar.
They're not conscious, likehence the definition of
subconscious.
Can you speak a bit on that andhow it's like kind of running
the show?
Stasia (20:04):
Absolutely.
So, yeah, so exactly what yousaid about running the show, our
subconscious mind runs 95% onof our life on autopilot.
So when we want to changesomething or when we want to
say, like, you know, I reallywant to do this, but it's not
part of your 95% that's likeautomatic based on your beliefs,
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your patterns, your behaviors,your, you know, knowledge, your
whatever else in your life, thenit literally, the reason that
change can feel so hard is itliterally takes the 5% of your
conscious mind to then decide,and then to have also the
willpower to then like, youknow, keep it up essentially.
And so, so with that, sometimesit's difficult to know, like as
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you said, it's you know, thedefinition of subconscious, like
it's difficult to know whatactually lives in our
subconscious.
And the clearest way to seewhat's in our subconscious is
our reality today is to look atyour life, you know?
Ryann (21:02):
Like everything that's in front of you, you've created
that kind of a job.
Stasia (21:05):
Absolutely.
Yep, yep.
Yeah.
And um when we the thing aboutour subconscious is it's there
to protect us, right?
And so when we create somethingthat we don't necessarily like
in our life, it's easy to thinklike, oh, I'm being punished, or
look at this, this toxic, youknow, relationship again, or
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this, you know, boss that isterrible to me again or or
whatnot.
Chances are there is a beliefin your subconscious mind that
is actually, you know, puttingyou from something else.
And so for example, if you'reuh one example is around money.
Say if you're like calling inmoney and you're like, you know,
I want more money, and youcould be practicing all the
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affirmations and saying, I'mabundant and bring me more money
and all of that.
But maybe you grew up in afamily where, you know, your
parents fought about money.
Or um, you know, oftentimes, orsay if you grew up with with
parents that were separated andone was abundant and the other
was, you know, had a scarcitymentality.
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And so maybe your money wasjust confusing for you.
Maybe you're like, I don't wantanything to do with money
because it's confusing, youknow, and I and I've seen that
in clients as well.
And so when you are statingsomething that you want or
calling in a manifestation andyou say, you know, I want more
money, it's almost like, whatare you asking for louder?
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Are you asking for more moneyor are you saying, please
protect me from money becausemoney separates families?
Or, you know, money is evil,money is dangerous, money is,
you know, whatever that lookslike.
My parents fought about moneyand I don't want to cause that.
Therefore, please protect mefrom money.
You know, and and so with thetahealing and and just in
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general, just accessing thesubconscious mind, why it's so
critical to kind of be able tosee that and you know from your
session, like the first part ofour session, it was just almost
me tapping in and channeling.
So I wasn't, you know, makingcommands to clear beliefs.
I was saying, oh, like, did yougrow up?
Did you have a brother?
Did you do this?
And it was just like I waspicking up little bits and
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pieces, and then it was slowlystarting to shape up.
And I was like, okay, great,that's where those beliefs came
from.
And I think a big part, I mean,part of this work is me kind of
energetically witnessing thatenergetic shift.
But a big part of it is alsofor your subconscious mind to
get on board with your consciousmind.
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And so when I speak about whenI speak these belief clearings
and when they resonate with you,and you're like, oh my God, of
course this stemmed from mychildhood.
Of course this is whathappened.
Like a big shift is actuallywith you just consciously
recognizing it because it's kindof like they say, you know, 50%
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of the solution is justadmitting the problem.
And so, and so when you canrecognize it where it's coming
from, then you can just say, youknow, yeah, I don't want to
operate from this anymore.
And so when I clear thosebeliefs, you can say, like, yes,
I I want to clear that.
And and it helps to get yourconscious mind on board as well.
Ryann (24:11):
Yeah.
So I'm so curious how you useyour knowledge of Theta Healing
and the subconscious as a mom,because I am under the belief
and um from the childdevelopment studies I've done
that basically zero to seven islike that subconscious mind just
being programmed all day, everyday.
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And so I'm curious how you useyour knowledge as a mama.
Stasia (24:38):
I knew this would come up, but honestly, I feel like I
don't use it as much as likeyou'd expect me to do.
Okay.
Yeah.
I think, I think in what I dodo is like energy clearings on
my children because my childrenare only one and three.
And so they're going todaycare.
And so if, you know, andthey're and they don't like, you
know, my three-year-old speaksto me, obviously, but it's not,
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you know, I don't know how muchof it I can trust at this point.
And so for me, like I have kindof tapped into their energy to
see like, okay, it's cool here.
Yeah.
But it's really just been moreabout like clearing their energy
so that way they are not,especially my three-year-old,
and he is such a sweet andsensitive soul, and he's like my
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little mama's boy.
But um, you know, I I feel likeI'm like protective over his
energy, especially because he ismore cautious, he is more
sensitive, he is more like, youknow, gentle.
And so it's just kind of doingthese like energetic clearings.
And one thing I will actuallyshare is that my son, my
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three-year-old, for about sixmonths, literally like every
single day, he'd be like, Mytummy hurts.
And but he it wouldn't be likedrastic.
Like he'd just say it andcontinue playing, or you know
what I mean?
And so for a while we kind ofwatched it.
And then, you know, the doctortold us like maybe try to limit
dairy.
And so we try to do that.
And so, anyways, and so we tookhim to um the hospital.
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And then she's like, honestly,it's not like considering he
doesn't have any other symptoms,considering, you know, there's
not that.
She's like, there's reallynothing that we can like test
for.
She's like, we could take hisblood, but she's like, there's
nothing that I'm like overlyconcerned about.
But she's like, I alsounderstand you're the parent,
and you know, he's kind ofcomplaining about this almost
daily for like a long time.
And so for me, and I didn'tthink to do this until then, but
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essentially, like, I tapped inand I really felt like it was
very energetic for him.
And so it was actually sincethen that I started doing these
energy clearings for him.
And it was specifically likeafter school, and I would just
do it, it was just a quick likemeditation, connecting to the
light and like clearing hisenergy through Theta Healing.
And I kid you not, you couldask my husband, but he has not
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complained about his tummyhurting since then.
And so like it was such apowerful thing for me too,
because kids are so open.
They are so open to to changeand to just so susceptible, and
as you know, from especiallyages zero to seven.
And so that was just like onebeautiful way that I saw a
direct impact.
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It was like from every daysaying it to ever never saying
it again, yeah, from thatchange.
And so I would say like thatwas the biggest thing that I've
like done with data healing onmy children.
But other than that, I mean,our children are here for their
own experience.
They are their own littlebeings.
So it's not so much that it'sus as adults that develop all
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these like limiting beliefs fromour childhood, where as adults,
we're like, that doesn't serveme.
I am ready to move past it.
I am ready to shed thoselayers.
But as kids, like they are,they already know who they are.
They know who they became tobe.
They don't have so many layersto shed.
So it's really just about likecleansing their energy and um,
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you know, clearing off anyenergy that doesn't belong to
them.
Ryann (27:57):
Yeah.
And you don't have to be atheta healer to do that, right?
Is it all about the intention?
Like if you have young kids, Ididn't realize how little your
kids were, one and three.
My gosh, so sweet.
So I guess I think, because,you know, I I mean, I've done
Reiki, like I've done a Reikitraining, but I think even not
as a Reiki practitioner, just asa mom with a bit of knowledge
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on how energy works and, youknow, how we can heal the
system, I would place anintention, like a loving
intention, and I would maybe putmy hands on my child or even
just like kind of send thisloving energy and this intention
for their field to beessentially like cleared.
Would you say that that's allyou need to do?
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Like for somebody who's like,how can I do that?
Stasia (28:42):
Yeah, yeah, I think so.
I mean, for me, the onlydifference is that I kind of tap
into the seventh plane, butreally I agree with you that
it's it's mostly about theintention, right?
And there are plenty, even likeguided meditations online to
just try to, you know, clearyour own energy and you could do
that to your children.
And for me, I even started kindof saying that to my
three-year-old out loud as welland putting on like some guide.
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I remember even before ThetaHealing when he was younger, I
would put on like a guidedmeditation and just, you know,
sometimes he would sit,sometimes he would play,
whatever.
But I'm just like, it can'thurt.
The intention is more, is morepowerful than anything.
Ryann (29:18):
So I want to talk about ambition.
You took a chance, you took aleap, you left your corporate
career, you learned how tobecome a theta healer, you
really decided from where I'mstanding to take the path less
traveled.
And for me, I think that issomething that is really
important to talk about becausethere are so many people out
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there who want to do it andhaven't for whatever reason, or
who are doing it and perhaps itfeels lonely.
So, can you speak a bit on justlike, you know, following your
dream and creating thisalternative path for yourself
career wise?
Stasia (29:58):
Yeah, absolutely.
So I I mean, I was on like aspiritual journey for honestly
close to a decade at this point.
And for a long time, I knew Ihad, you know, a calling, like a
higher calling, a highercalling or a calling for more.
And I knew there was something,you know, out there for me.
And, you know, I liked my jobin corporate, but I knew that it
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wasn't like my sole purposehere, you know?
And for a long time, I didn'treally know how to pursue that
calling and, you know, how tofrankly have the courage to step
into it.
And it was a couple of yearsago that I started learning
theta healing.
And so I was doing, and again,my intention was just to learn
it for myself.
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And so I was, you know,practicing it like literally
every day since.
And until, you know, later Iwas like, okay, I can actually
do this.
Like this is this is prettycool.
And I can kind of step intothis.
But there were still so manybeliefs around being seen.
I mean, talk about like evencoming out of spiritual closet,
as I like to call it.
But, you know, that was not thevibe in my corporate role.
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Right.
And so um, so yeah, I mean, itwas, it was scary.
And actually, well, whatactually happened was I got laid
off from my corporate role.
So it wasn't, it wasn't like Icompletely stepped into it.
But in in my mind, I wasthinking, I'm gonna, you know,
do this and make this a businesson my spare time.
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And then when I'm like makingmore money, then I'm gonna leave
corporate.
But it happened a lot sooner.
And frankly, it was this innerknowing that I was just like, I
know this happened, this layoffhappened for me divinely.
I didn't think I'm ready, butGod thinks I'm ready, clearly.
No, and I didn't, I, you know,because I could have just as
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easily slipped back into anothercorporate role and like, you
know, look for another job.
But it was just this innerknowing that I was like, no, I
know I am meant to go all in.
I know I am meant to trustthis, and this happened
divinely.
And frankly, it was thanks toTheta Healing that gave me the
courage because I don't know howelse I would have been able to
like clear, clear a lot oflimiting beliefs.
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And a big one of mine wasaround being seen.
I mean, that was that was huge.
And to even think that I'mposting videos on my social
media with my face just talkingin the videos is wild.
Ryann (32:19):
Yeah.
Oh my gosh.
I just I love stories like thisbecause there is an inner
knowing that I believe we allpossess and we don't all walk
the same path, and we're not allmeant to leave corporate
careers.
And, you know, it's not it'snot like that for everybody, but
I do believe there is a pathless traveled for everybody and
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a a courage.
I love that you use that word,that we need to tap into to kind
of step into, walk into thepath that will unfold the most
growth, that will serve humanityin the best and highest way.
You know, I do think that thereis room for us, most of us, to
step up right now and to really,really start to be courageous
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in the moves that we make, theway we work, the way we play,
the way we live our lives, theway we parent.
You know, there there's thisshift that I believe does need
to take place.
And so I love seeing peoplelike you who took a chance on
themselves and like cleared thebelief of like, I can't be seen.
I don't want to be seen.
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It's scary to be seen, whateverthat was.
And that you cleared it and youstepped through it.
And I'm sure there will beother blocks as you move along
the path.
And I don't think the work isever done.
But how do you see this like umhamster wheel?
Cause I think for a long time Iwas on a hamster wheel of like
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healing a little bit.
Like I thought, oh, just when Iget this place, oh, just when I
get this healed, oh, when I,and it was just like another
vision of like empty success,just dressed up in like a
different outfit, kind of.
So, how do you see, like, forme, your work seems just more
like one and done, like set itand forget it.
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Like, okay, I'm good to go.
Like, I don't need to now gofrom this to my Reiki session
and that then do this.
And then I can't, I don't needto do this and that and
whatever.
Like, I think I got caught up,and many of us get caught up in
this like healing loop of, oh,we're not healed yet.
We haven't shed all the beliefsyet.
Like, how do you see that fromwhere you're standing?
Stasia (34:28):
And I I hear you, and I was on that wheel for a long
time too.
I was always the person that,you know, wanted to read more
books and listen to morepodcasts and, you know, take the
courses.
And I also got certified onReiki and so, you know, and do
all of that.
And so I I totally hear it.
And I feel like to some extent,you know, sometimes it is kind
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of like a calling for us thatdoes help to lead to the next
step.
And but I think what's key isalso recognizing, I think like
recognizing who you are and andhow you show up when you're
going through it as well.
So again, going back to are youmaking this decision from love
or from fear?
Are you making it out of fearbecause you don't know enough
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and so you need to learn more?
Or are you called to it?
Because sometimes, like forexample, with Reiki, you know,
it's like maybe that wasn't mypath to become a Reiki healer,
but maybe it did serve me inthat time.
You know what I mean?
And so it's not necessarilythat the courses and the, you
know, the podcast and and allthat stuff are are bad.
Well, everyone's path justlooks different.
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But I would also just say,like, trust your own voice more
than anyone else's.
And that could look differentfor different people.
Meditation is a good resource.
But I think also when you areoff track, for example, then
life will throw something inyour path to kind of shift you.
And so I think a big thing of,you know, getting on your right
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path, following your truth andkind of getting closer to um,
you know, who you want to becomeand your purpose or your
destiny is to pay attention tolike how you react to things
that come on your path.
Because even for me, speakingabout getting laid off, you
know, like I could have seen itas like the worst thing ever.
Cause it's like I wasn't ready.
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I didn't think I was ready, youknow.
I wasn't ready to just quit,you know.
And so it could have beenextremely scary and I could have
been like, oh my God, I'mnever, you know, gonna make
money doing this on my own.
So I have to start looking foranother job and all that stuff.
But that decision would havebeen out of fear.
So, you know, COVID is anotherbig example.
I know many people for whom itcompletely shifted and realigned
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their lives, but it ended upactually creating something
beautiful in it, you know?
And so whether it's a globalpandemic or a layoff or just
something in your path that, youknow, doesn't align.
So you keep trying to push inone direction and then it's, you
know, something isn't workingout, trust that as well.
And take it all as, take it allas like, you know, breadcrumbs
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of information and as littletips for you.
Ryann (37:07):
Yeah.
What would you say to somebodyright now who's going through a
challenge, who feels likethey're kind of in a dark time,
who feels like they're trying toovercome something and they
just feel like they're kind ofup against a wall.
They maybe perceive that theydon't have the choices they
want.
Like, what would you say tothat person who just feels like
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really stuck in their lives?
Stasia (37:31):
I think a big thing is about shifting the mindset from
like victimhood to empowerment.
And I know that can, you know,sound and be very difficult in
the moment when you're goingthrough a really rough time.
But I think it can be literallyas small as making a list of,
you know, say you have yoursituation that you're going
through and you make a list withtwo columns.
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One is what I can't control,and the other is what I can
control in that situation.
And, you know, what you can'tcontrol, there's power in just
writing it down and owning it tobe like, you know what, I can't
control this situation.
And that's okay.
It's like a way of releasingit, even if it's just on paper.
But there could be micro thingsthat you can control in that,
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you know, situation.
It could be, well, you know,I'm gonna make a phone call that
could lead to this, or I'mgonna take a walk outside
because it's gonna make me feelbetter, or, you know, whatever,
depending on the situation, ofcourse.
And so I think just it's aboutthe micro actions that kind of
train your mind to start lookingfor and getting more of
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empowerment rather thanvictimhood, you know?
And and I think that's the trapbecause because of course, if
when hard things happen to us,like, you know, it it's hard not
to see ourselves as a victim.
But it's like what happens fromthere that matters, you know,
are you gonna go down furtherdown that hole or are you gonna
take little micro steps to um toget out of it?
Ryann (39:00):
Yeah, love that.
I think in retrospect, likelooking back at the times that
I've struggled, especiallyrecently, my husband lost his
job in 2020.
I got pregnant that same year.
We started homeschooling, likeso many we had financial issues,
sold a house, we moved.
I mean, it was like bam, bam,but it was like just the waves
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like kept coming and they keptcoming.
And I never really in thattime, like I never succumbed to
like, oh, I'm depressed, or Ijust like can't get out of bed.
And and I I can see why that'sso easy for people to to go to
that place of like despair.
And I think during that time, Ijust like made the best out of
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it, even though there were likesome really shitty days and some
really hard days.
And I still look back and gowent like, oh my God, that
happened.
And um, like I chose to likebring my kids to the beach and
just like play music really loudwith the windows down.
Like, I think so much of whatI'm hearing you say is like we
have these micro choices everysingle day amidst the struggle.
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And um, I also think you let meknow your take on this, really,
maybe to a fault, think likethat struggle so triumphant in
the end.
Like we have to have thatstruggle, we have to have that
friction to really like walkthrough that and become that
next up-level version ofourselves.
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Maybe that's a limiting beliefthough, that things have to be
hard.
I've kind of grappled with thata little bit of like, oh, work
has to be hard or this has to behard in order for it to really
pay off.
Like, what's your take on thechallenge and the struggle?
Stasia (40:42):
So this is a juicy one.
I love this question.
So I don't necessarily believethat work has to be hard or
like, you know, we have to gothrough a hard battle
necessarily.
But I because I think even inthe battle, it's almost like how
hard do we want to make it?
I think one key thing torecognize as well is our
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triggers, actually.
And I talk about triggersbecause they truly are and can
be our expanders.
Because when we pay attentionto what is it that, you know,
triggers us, it's like if we'retriggered by someone else's
success, for example, thenchances are there is a part
there that is ready to be healedwhere we are not allowing that
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abundance for ourselves, youknow?
Or if we're triggered bysomeone being, you know, like
too much or something, you know,then chances are there's a part
of us that's not allowing ourfullest expression, you know?
And so this is where I alsotalk about like the subconscious
work always being is like italways protecting you as well,
you know?
And so like your limitingbeliefs are not about
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punishment, they're aboutprotecting you because they're
serving a purpose in your life.
So going back to the originalquestion of, you know, do you
need to go through a struggle?
I think struggle in generalcan, you know, looks different
from for different people.
And I think it's like aboutlearning and moving through it.
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So for some people, I mean,sure, it can, you know, you
might be dealt some like a poorhand.
And um, you need to overcomethat in order to get on the
other side.
But even for me and my example,I didn't like my journey into
healing didn't come from trauma.
I didn't come from like a very,you know, traumatic background,
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but it was this knowing that Ihad like a calling for more.
And I would say, like, one ofthe biggest things that I had to
work through.
I mean, I can't say I have it,like, it's not like I'm not
trying to limit the amount ofthings I had to work on because
there was definitely likescarcity blocks and a lot of
that.
But one of the biggest things Ifeel like is really about um
overcoming the fear of beingseen and stepping into my full
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expression.
And someone else can look atthat and say, that's nothing.
Like really, like, you know,overcoming showing up on camera.
But for me, it was terrifying,you know?
And so, and so struggle is isrelative.
But I also wanna really spreadthe message that healing doesn't
need to be hard andtransformation and change don't
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need to be hard.
And I think that's really whyI'm so just in awe of this work
of Theta Healing and why I dothe work that I do is because I
realize like how quickly thingscan shift.
You know, it no longer needyears of therapy to like hash
out old trauma.
It's it's really a big part ofit, is as I mentioned, getting
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your subconscious mind on boardwith your conscious mind and
just like hearing that to beable to release it, to be able
to admit to yourself, you knowwhat?
Yeah, I did have that beliefand it's no longer serving me,
and I don't want to operate fromthat truth anymore.
Ryann (43:51):
Amen.
I mean, I think as someonewho's been on that roller
coaster of like, oh, I'll I'llbe fine when I can overcome this
and overcome that.
And I just remember telling acoach in like 2019-ish, like, I
just don't know when I'm gonnafeel like I'm not like trudging
through the mud anymore.
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And little did I know in 2019,that was just like the practice
round.
I mean, it wasn't even like youknow, the hardship wasn't even
really happening at that time.
But I really distinctlyremember that.
Our session, Stasia, was soeasy.
It was like, oh, okay.
And you asked me like as wewere wrapping up, like, how do I
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feel?
And I was like, I feel lighterand I feel so satiated and
satisfied, which like had to dowith another limiting belief and
something else I've beenstruggling with in, you know,
just like everyday life.
And it just was so simple.
Like, how often do we need todo this?
Like, is it like one and done?
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Should we do it like monthlyfor some maintenance?
Like, is it when when shitcomes up, then we we call you?
Like, how often should we doit?
Stasia (45:02):
So I wouldn't say it's for like maintenance
necessarily, because it's likethese these beliefs are lasting,
right?
And so the work that we didtoday is lasting.
But I would say, I mean, Iguess it's depending on where
you are in your journey.
Because if you're completelynew, like you haven't even
looked inward at all, you know,there might be deeper and deeper
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layers and deeper beliefs that,you know, you've been kind of
holding on to and haven't beenable to admit.
And so, yes, like it might belonger because I can't speak
enough beliefs out in an hour,you know, to get through that.
The other thing I will say isthat as long as we keep living,
we will continue to keepgrowing.
We will continue to havedreams.
There is never going to be atime where it's gonna be like,
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well, I have no more desires.
I am satisfied.
And that's not coming from aplace of, you know, not having
enough or like, you know, I'llnever be good enough.
It's like you can get to aplace where you are so thrilled
and grateful and happy andecstatic about where you are
today, but still desire morejust because you know that there
is more life to live, there'smore abundance to create,
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there's more joy to be had.
And so, you know, that's that'sanother way where it's like as
long as we keep, you know,expanding, we can be, you know,
we can always do more of thiswork to get to the next level
and the next level after that.
But I would always just saylike it's more of, you know, a
calling.
Like I feel like you wouldknow, you know what I mean?
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It's not something I'd be like,Ryan, your prescription is in
two weeks.
We're gonna be back.
Tell me what to do.
Ryann (46:35):
Yeah.
Okay.
Yeah, that makes sense.
What I heard you say in thattoo is there's a level of
contentment that if you'vealready been doing the work and
you have some, you know,understandings of where you've
come from, where you're going,what you've struggled with, like
there is this, and I can attestto this because I feel this way
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after our session today.
There's this level ofcontentment.
And I think we are so used toin our culture and our society,
like the highs and the lows.
And, you know, we're kind of onthis roller coaster with the
news and just, you know, thethings that happen in the world
and our emotions, you know, wecan really get kind of tripped
(47:21):
up into living these like highsand lows.
And for me, one of the placesthat I seek is just like simply
like peace and contentment.
Like happy in this moment, eventhough it's raining, like happy
in this moment, even thoughlike whatever is just is.
And we can be content in that.
(47:42):
And I don't know about anyoneelse, but that sounds like a
pretty awesome place to live.
Just like being content that,like, you know, things are
happening all around me, and Iget to choose.
It's like as simple as that.
Stasia (47:55):
Yeah.
And I mean, honestly, tying itback to the work, like sometimes
there is a limiting belief thatwe can't or we don't feel safe
in just being content.
We feel like we always need tobe striving in order to or
productive or moving.
And I mean, even just relatingit back to the example I gave
earlier, like I thought, youknow, to be successful, I had to
be busy always, you know?
(48:15):
And so that was a limitingbelief.
And so because I wanted to besuccessful, it was like I'm
gonna keep doing that.
And, you know, one basic thing,like one of the basic things
that we do in theta healing isactually download feelings.
And so sometimes we literallydon't know what safety in our
body feels like or what successfeels like, or what abundance
(48:37):
feels like.
And it's not to say that, youknow, the people that don't know
how that feels like thatthey'll never achieve it or
they're cursed from gettingsuccessful, for example.
But it's it's like if you don'tknow what success actually
feels like in your body, then itwill never be enough.
You can achieve levels ofsuccess and still be like, oh,
it's not good enough, or thisperson has it better, or I need
(48:58):
to keep trying, like keepstruggling, or or whatever that
looks like, where you won'tactually take the time to be
satisfied or to celebrate yoursuccess and to actually be at
peace.
And so, so, so yeah, I mean, Ifrankly like I've seen stuff in
myself as well.
And sometimes it really is alimitation and a limiting belief
that we can't actually be, orwe we rather like protect
(49:22):
ourselves or prevent ourselvesfrom fully enjoying it.
And another one I will sharereal quick as well is a fear of
when you have, you know, theperfect marriage or the perfect,
you know, success in yourcareer, or the perfect whatever
that looks like, the fear thatit'll be boring, or the fear
that it won't meet yourexpectations, or the fear that,
(49:44):
you know, it's not gonna be goodenough.
And so you keep yourself onthis hamster wheel of being
like, well, I need to, you know,I need to keep, you know, cause
chaos.
I need to do this, I need to dothat.
Because if it's gonna beperfect, it'll be boring, or if
it's perfect, it's not goodenough.
Ryann (50:02):
Those are such good examples, and I can relate to
that.
I gave up, like, I like to saylike I gave up gossip like five,
five plus years ago, probablyeven more than that.
Stasia (50:13):
And I love how you have a timer.
Ryann (50:15):
I do, I know, I do.
I'm like, I gave up gossip likehowever many years ago.
And um sometimes though, I'llcatch myself wanting to like
stir the pot in like a verysubtle way.
And I'm like, where's thatthing again?
You're trying to, you're tryingto make things all chaotic.
Or if my husband says somethingthat's like very just like
(50:36):
innocent or whatever, I'll likehave a tendency to like want to
make it a very dramatic andor umself-speaking.
Spread a rumor about you.
Spread a rumor, yeah, somethingsilly like that.
Those are such good examples.
You are a gift.
Thank you so much for the workyou do in this world.
I'm so excited to be againwalking this path with you.
(50:57):
I'm so excited for the Rise andFlourish Summit, where you will
be one of our speakers and oneof our session holders.
I don't even whatever, one ofour practitioners there.
I am like beyond thrilled thatwe will be able to gift your
masterfulness and your presenceand your expertise to everybody
there, including myself.
(51:18):
Like I'm so excited.
I created this event and Ashleyand I created this event
because it's an event that weneed.
It's a day off, it's a chanceto reset, it's a chance to let
go of the things that have beenholding us back and really,
really walk away so filled up,so just like overflowing at the
brim that it spreads out intothe world, it spreads out into
(51:40):
our families, and I believe thatthe ripple effect is real.
And so I'm so thrilled that youwill be there to help usher
this beautiful vision into theworld with us.
Stasia (51:51):
Well, Ryan, thank you so much.
And I'm just so thrilled to bepart of the event.
So thank you, thank you, thankyou.
And I um I'm so thrilled aboutit.
I mean, I'll be talking aboutthe subconscious mind and
ultimately empowering thesewomen to understand how much
power and control we actuallyhave over our realities and over
our life.
Because so often, you know,when when we have limitations
(52:14):
and limiting beliefs in oursubconscious mind, because it's
subconscious and we can't, youknow, really identify them, we
think that it's outside of us orwe think that the circumstances
happening to us are, you know,happening to us as opposed to us
creating them or, you know, orthe relationships we attract or
whatever that looks like, or thepatterns we're playing out in
(52:34):
our marriages or as mothers orin our careers.
But your subconscious is a partof you.
Like it is, it is you.
And so once you understand itspower and also how to harness
it, that there are tools to gointo the subconscious, and it
doesn't have to be, you know,years of therapy, just to
(52:54):
understand that you do have thatpower is empowering, frankly.
But also, I'll be hosting alive group data healing session.
And I'm so thrilled to that.
I've done a number of groupsessions, and of course, it's a
little bit different thanone-on-one's because one on ones
is just goes so deep intochildhood and you know, all this
(53:16):
stuff.
But group sessions actually goquite deep as well.
And I just kind of put theintention that everyone, you
know, listening, everyone thereis is, you know, hears exactly
what they're meant to hear andit hits them as much as it can.
And um, sometimes we tap intolike collective consciousness,
you know, and and clear beliefsthere.
So I'm I'm so thrilled.
Ryann (53:36):
Oh my God, it's gonna be so powerful.
I cannot wait.
I think when a group of women,when a group of mothers, when a
group of conscious women andmission-driven women get into a
room together, I just I don'tknow of anything else more
powerful.
I mean, I really use that wordpower and I am really, really
(54:00):
feeling that.
So yes, join us.
It's October 25th in DeerfieldBeach.
The early ticket sales arestill happening now, so I'll
link it down below.
Come say hi, come give us a hugin real life, come do a theta
healing collectively with us.
It's going to be amazing.
In the meantime, Stasia, wherecan we find you and follow you
(54:23):
and learn all about the workyou're doing in the world?
Stasia (54:25):
Absolutely.
So my Instagram handle is atcreate higher, higher svelt
h-i-g-h-e-r.
And my website iscreatehigier.com as well.
And that's that's where you canfind me.
Ryann (54:37):
Amazing.
So now I'm gonna ask you thethree rapid fire questions I ask
everybody at the end of theinterview.
And the first one is what'sbringing you joy today?
Stasia (54:44):
Oof, yes.
I would say connection.
I mean, this is beautiful.
Our session earlier brought meso much joy.
I I'm so privileged to workwith the people that I do work
with because I take it as suchan honor to be able to let into
your space, like your highesttruth, you know, in that way.
And so it truly brought me joytoday.
What if anything are youreading right now?
(55:05):
This is actually not my typicalreading, but I'm reading a book
called Feng Shui Manifest.
And what's interesting is I'veI'm totally new to Feng Shui,
but I've had a, you know, littleping to follow through with it.
Uh, this book is written by awoman named Chelsea Vandenberg.
And what's really cool about itis she actually ties it to the
(55:25):
subconscious mind because sheexplains that we don't actually
see with our eyes.
Our eyes just let the light in.
We see with our brain becauseour brain is what perceives
everything around us.
And so, you know, with all mywork in the subconscious mind,
it's like, of course, our brainis perceiving our physical
environment.
And so she kind of speaks aboutfeng shui and explains it from
(55:47):
that perspective.
And yeah, it's been it's beenan interesting read.
That sounds so cool.
Ryann (55:52):
Okay, the last question I have for you now is who or what
has taught you the most?
Stasia (55:56):
Oof.
I would say my husband.
My husband and and my childrentoo, but mostly my husband.
And I would say it from theperspective that everything
around us is a reflection of us.
And so, as I mentioned earlier,to pay attention to your
triggers because they are ourexpanders.
And uh, my husband and I, we'vebeen together for about a
(56:18):
decade now, married for fouryears, and he has seen me go
through my entire spiritualpath.
Like I, you know, learningabout all this and going all in,
and and you know, there weredefinitely triggers that were
brought up early on, you know,and and uh, but it's once you
focus on your triggers and work,see them as your reflections
(56:38):
and expanders, and you workthrough them, then it's
beautiful.
Ryann (56:42):
I think you're the second person who's named her husband
as her biggest teacher.
And the first time I got soemotional because it reflected
something back for me that wasso profound.
And this time I'm not cryinganymore, but I shed a lot of
tears earlier, so maybe I'm allout.
Um, again, such a beautifulreflection.
(57:04):
Like, shout out to all the menout there who are just like
holding it down for theirfree-flowing feminine wives,
because oh, I just, I just loveit.
So shout out to all the goodmen out there.
Stasia (57:21):
I love that so much.
It's so true.
I literally thank my husbandbecause I was like, not only was
it weird for me to come out ofthis closet and tell you, like,
oh yeah, I channel now.
Oh, I'm tapping into source,you know, and and yes, I can,
you know, control energy, butfor him to also be supportive in
me stepping into this work fulltime and and just kind of
(57:42):
believing in me and trusting inthat vision and and my dream and
seeing it for himself as well.
And I'm so grateful for that.
Ryann (57:50):
So beautiful.
Thank you so much again forbeing here.
Stasia (57:53):
Thank you so much for having me.
This was such a pleasure.
Thank you so much, Ryan.
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