Real Friends

This month I get to chat with a special friend of mine, Bob Alexander.  I met Bob the first year I started running with Big River Training Teams and even got to be part of his support team on an ultra-run.  Bob eventually moved to Florida several years ago to accept a new job opportunity.  If you are interested in what the running scene looks like in Florida, or what it looks like to transition through different seasons as a runner...

This month I get the opportunity to chat with an old friend and running buddy of mine, Terry Raterman, and his running friend, David Johnston.  David is an accomplished runner whose specialty is “ultra” distances.  While a lot of runners focus on 5k, 10k, and marathon distances, David focuses ultra distances like “551 miles in 6 days”.  If you are interested in what makes runners tick and what makes some runners gravitate to longer...

Every once and a while, I get an opportunity to chat with couples, like Chester and Diahann, who train at the same sport or activity.  Normally, I interview individuals to learn how running or walking impacts them individually, but how does a shared activity or passion like running or walking impact them as a couple, and what sort of ripple effect does it have on friends and family members?  If any?  And what does all of this look ...

For 2025, I thought we would kick things off by chatting with several of Big River Training Team’s “Unpaved” pacers – Adam and Brandon.   What is “Unpaved” you ask?  Unpaved is a series of running adventures offered through Big River Training Team which focuses on “trail running” and many of the popular, scenic trails in the St. Louis area.   If you are new to trail running or would just like to learn more about Adam and Brandon, s...

This year you are invited to attend our 2024 fantasy football draft.  It’s our 16th year of playing fantasy football together and the draft is one of my favorite things to attend each year.  It’s an evening of meaningless sports conversation between multiple fantasy football coaches but it’s still a good time with friends and it allows you to “peak behind the fantasy football curtain”.      Whether you are a fan of fantasy sports o...

This episode we get to chat with the dynamic duo of Cassie and Kasay – both pacers for BRTT 8:30 pace group.  I’ve developed some really special friendships through running and its fun to witness when the same thing happens with other people.  That’s part of the fun of this month’s episode.  Not only are Cassie and Kasay both excellent runners and an important part of our local running community, but they’ve also developed a good f...

One of the things that I love about hosting a podcast is getting the opportunity to know a little bit about some of our runners.  While the questions are similar, no two podcasts are the same because no two runners exactly the same.  Today's podcast with Gabe, Kali, and Tabitha is a perfect example. It’s a great mix of humor, running streaks, and thoughtful reflection and a great example of how running and the running community app...

This month I chat with a special friend of mine – Edna Rodriguez.  Amidst the background of chirping birds and the constant song of the Cicada (yes, 2024 is the year of the Cicada), Edna and I have a delightful conversation at Shaw Park in Clayton, Missouri.  The youngest of six children, Edna initially came to America to chaperone younger high school students but eventually came to America permanently and has lived in the St. Loui...

This month we chat with several friends of mine – Alison and Andy Bourey.  Many people recognize Alison and Andy as the colorful, warm and friendly couple who run with the Run-Walk group at Big River Training Team.   But Alison and Andy are more than runners.  They are also married and have many passions and interest outside of running.  If you are a fan of wisdom and insight and would like to hear more of Alison and Andy’s story, ...

In part two of this two-part series podcast, we revisit the topic of dating then pivot and discuss some of the other topics that high school students often face including faith, friendships and family.   I can’t think of a better way to enter the holiday season than sharing a podcast that celebrates these three essentials to not only a meaningful holiday season, but to a meaningful life.  I hope you enjoy it; I know I did.  Thank y...

Back in August, I had the honor and pleasure of sitting down with six of my favorite high school students and chatting with them about their high school years.  Most of them were seniors and would soon be headed off to college or transitioning into their next season in life.  It’s an exciting season of life filled with both challenges and rewards. 

In part one of this two-part series podcast, we discuss many of the topics that high...

Have you ever viewed running as a punishment?  If so, why would you choose to run later life?  And what happens if you run several hours or dozens of miles each week with the same people?  Those are just some of the questions and topics we cover in this month's episode of “Real Friends” as three friends - Leah, Sidi, and Gretchen - share their experiences and their insights regarding what they love most and what they find most chal...

This year you are invited to attend our 2023 fantasy football draft.  It’s our 15th anniversary of playing together and the draft is one of the highlights each year.  It’s silly, meaningless sports conversation but it’s still a good time between friends and allows you to “peak behind the curtain” and see how friends draft their fantasy football teams.    I hope you enjoy it.  

Thank you for listening.  This is “Real Friends”.

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This month I have a really fun conversation with several of the athletes from Big River Training Team’s 11:00 minute pace group - Kim, Kara, and Shannon. If you like honest conversation, great insights and lots of laughter, you're going to enjoy this month's episode of Real Friends.    Not only do these girls share a natural chemistry with each other, but they also share honest conversation regarding some of the challenges that wom...

This month we continue chatting with friends of mine from our local running community.  This month’s guest is Mike Flynn.  Many people know Mike as the Program Director at Big River Running Company or you may have potentially bought a pair of shoes from Mike at his store in University City.  Like many runners, Mike started his running career in high school.  But due to setbacks and surgeries during those years, Mike literally “knel...

This month I chat with two women well known and well respected in the St. Louis running community – Sadie Smith and Laura Filla.  Sadie is a master’s class athlete with a long list of awards and accomplishments.  Laura is also a respected runner and owner of her own fitness company – Filla Endurance.  Both women are full-time moms and full-time wives.  How do they do it?  Listen to this month’s episode of Real Friends and discover ...

This month we chat with both a friend and runny buddy of mine – John Kertz.  Many people recognize John as the high-energy, high-octane person who kicks off early morning runs during the spring and fall for Big River Training Team.   But John is also a devoted husband, dad, and coach of high school runners.  If you are interested in more of John’s story, including his dream to one day potentially make it as a successful wide receiv...

What would you do if you had the opportunity to pursue a new career later in life?  You had spent all your life in one field or profession, but your heart yearned for something different.  Would you follow your heart?  Follow your passion?  Even if it meant going back to school?  

Today in part 2 of a 2-part series, I resume my conversation with Ian Breckenridge as he shares how he left a good paying job in the technology industry ...

If you live long enough, you are bound to experience challenges in life.  Some major, some minor; some self-inflicted while others totally out of your control. Truth is, we all experience challenges in life.

Today, I share a conversation with a friend of mine, Ian Breckenridge.  Like each of us, Ian has experienced his own unique set of challenges in life – both financial, relational, and spiritual.  How to rebound from these strug...