Really The Rays Podcast

In today's episode we are calling out the many misconceptions that keep so many people from desiring marriage.
Marriage is a beautiful union between two individuals, but the world would have you believe that it is either supposed to solve all of your problems or create more problems than it is worth.  Both of these statements are just untrue.
Marriage is not the solution to the broken parts of your dating relationship...

On today’s episode, we are talking more about quality over quantity in your marriage. It’s not about how often you do things, but how intentional you are in doing them. Busy schedules can make it hard to have a lot of time to spend together, but when you really focus your time on making that time quality time, it can really help your marriage. It’s important to spend that quality time together to strengthen and nurture your marriag...

In this episode, we are talking all about how health is wealth. There are so many different pieces of health - physical, mental, financial. Being rich is not the sole measure of wealth - living a life of value and taking care of yourself is what makes you truly wealthy. Prioritize your health in all areas of your life. Tune in to hear more!

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In this episode we talk more about the importance of being lovers and friends. Friendship is crucial in a marriage and it is so important for a healthy and lasting marriage. Tune in to hear more as we discuss this topic of being both lovers and friends today!

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In this episode, we are bringing special guests on the show -- our kids! You'll get to hear our kids' perspectives as we dive into parenting,  setting an example, faith, and more! Tune in to hear more!
 

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In this episode of the Really the Rays,  we dive into the topic of love and how it covers a multitude of things in a relationship and marriage. We reference a scripture from 1 Peter 4:8 that emphasizes the importance of continuing to love one another fervently, even in the face of faults and disagreements. We discuss the challenge of loving someone when you're angry with them, but highlight the power of love to throw a veil ov...

On this episode, we talk about how we just celebrated our 15th wedding anniversary and we dive into the topic of why the grass looks greener in other people's marriages. We discuss the dangers of comparing your marriage to others and how it can be misleading since you don't know the work and sacrifices that other couples have put in. It is so important to focus on your own marriage and put in the work to make it thrive! T...

Welcome back! On today’s episode we are sharing with you something fun - we are doing a husband and wife Q&A! Join us as we give you our real and honest answers to these questions that we are asking each other! As always, we also have a real question from a real listener that we answer today! This was a fun episode and we can’t wait for you to take a listen!

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Welcome back to another episode of the Really the Rays Podcast! On the tenth episode of the podcast, we are sharing with you 10 scriptures that have been beneficial to our marriage. We explain each one of these and how they have helped us in hopes that these scriptures will help you too. We also have a real question from a real listener that we answer today. This was a great episode and we can’t wait for you to take a listen!
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On today’s episode of the Really the Rays Podcast, we are talking about the topic of running your own race. Just like they tell athletes to stay in their own lanes and not worry about those around them when running a race, the same should go for your own marriage. Don’t worry about what everyone else is doing. We have a few tips for you today to share more about running your own race in your marriage. We also answer a real question...

Welcome back to another episode of Really the Rays Podcast! On today’s episode we are talking more about why you shouldn’t jump to conclusions - especially in marriage. We share more about communication because we believe that is SO important in a marriage and we even answer a question from a real listener! Tune in to hear more!

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We are back for another episode of Really the Rays Podcast! On today’s episode, we are covering the topic of “Do you speak you spouse’s language?” There are few different languages that are important when it comes to marriage so tune in to find out what those are and if you are speaking your spouse’s language!

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We are back for another episode of the Really the Rays Podcast! On today’s episode, we are answering the question: do your expectations change after marriage vs. dating? We are talking more about expectations overall and even answering another real question from a real listener! We can’t wait for you to take a listen!

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Hey, hey! We’re back with another episode of the Really the Rays Podcast! On today’s episode, we are talking about sticking together in your marriage. Sticking together through the hard times is a key component to a marriage. Tune in to find out why we think that!

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With a healthy marriage comes trust. You have to trust in so many areas - finances, being faithful, communication, and so much more and today we are sharing more about that. Tune in to hear more!

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Is marriage worth it? On today’s episode we are sharing more about the topic “Is marriage worth it?” Marriage is absolutely worth it - even in the hard times. Tune in to hear our perspectives on this topic!

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On today’s episode, we are sharing more about how our experience with raising children and still having a thriving marriage. We share our personal experience with raising two children and the real and honest about keeping your marriage healthy through it all.

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Hey, hey! We are so excited about our new podcast. We want to shine the light on the real work that it takes to build a lasting marriage. On today’s episode we are sharing more about our story and what you can expect with this podcast.

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Welcome to the Really the Rays Podcast!

We are Brandi and Eric Ray, a millennial married couple, and we are uncovering the truth about things that go on in marriage - love, communication, sex, money, and so much more!

Catch a new episode every other Tuesday!

On this podcast, we are going to keep it REAL!

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