Whether you've been married for decades or are just starting out, this episode will help you understand intimacy in all its facets (beyond the bedroom) and how to cultivate the kind of deep connection that produces positive fruit in your relationship.
Key Takeaways:
- Defining Intimacy: My personal definition—“being fully known and knowing fully”—plus learn the biblical and practical roots of true intimacy.
- Vulnerability and Trust: Why being “naked and unashamed” goes beyond just the physical, and why you can’t have true vulnerability without trust.
- Common Misconceptions: We're busting myths about intimacy—it's not just about sex, titles, or knowing trivia about your spouse.
- The 5 Types of Intimacy:
- Spiritual Intimacy: The highest form of connection, involving shared values, faith, and worldview. Learn how to deepen spiritual intimacy even if you and your spouse don’t agree on everything spiritual.
- Emotional Intimacy: Building trust through sharing feelings, vulnerability, and honest communication.
- Physical Intimacy: More than sex! This is about affectionate touch and physical closeness that isn’t always sexual.
- Intellectual Intimacy: Connecting through shared ideas, learning, and stimulating conversation—even if your interests differ.
- Recreational Intimacy: Having fun together and sharing leisure activities to keep the spark alive.
- Practical Homework: Strengthen two areas this week: spiritual intimacy (Hint: ask your spouse how to improve it), and recreational intimacy (Do something fun together).
Resources & Links
- Get Your Free Intimacy Series Guide: Self-checks, assessments, and tips to help you and your spouse deepen your connection.
- Related Content:
- What to Do When Your Husband Does Not Lead Spiritually (YouTube Video)
- Episodes on sexless marriages YouTube + Podcast episode
Key Quotes
- “Intimacy is being fully known and knowing fully.”
- “You can’t have vulnerability without trust.”
- “Being a Christian doesn’t guarantee spiritual intimacy—shared values and open communication do.”
- “Physical intimacy is more than sex. Even long hugs or holding hands matter.”
- “Don’t forget to have FUN in your marriage!”
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