Reclaiming Identity
Have you wondered why God allowed bad things to happen to you? Do you find yourself second guessing your decisions? Do you feel that no matter how hard you try, your efforts are never good enough? Are you tired of having bad relationships in your family, friends, and significant others? We're so glad you're here! This podcast will give you the tools to help you heal your relationship with God, others, and yourself so that you will have stronger faith, feel confident, and find balance in your life. We are Kristen Zuray, Abbi DeWitt, and Lydia Zuray, a mother/daughter team of Christian Life Coaches and Mentors from the Adi Project. From previously struggling with relational heartbreak, spiritual and emotional abuse, and long term chronic illness- we have struggled to understand God's goodness and His ultimate design for us. We tried to ignore our pain, placed our self-worth in our work, and chased after people's approval only to feel even more lost and rejected. We began to put up walls with the very God who's known for breaking them down. God showed the truth that our identities don't come from our hands. Identity is not about what we do, it's about who God is. We were designed to be a reflection of His image. When we seek to understand and believe in the truth of God's identity and in how He sees us, we begin to heal from our past traumas, grow in confidence, and begin living out in our purposes. If you are ready to reclaim your God-given identity, heal from your relationships, and discover the truth of who God is, then this podcast is for you! So, grab your spiritual armor, a cup of strong coffee, and join us in reclaiming your identity in Christ. Disclaimer: "The views and opinions expressed on Reclaiming Identity are those of the authors and do not necessarily reflect the official policy or position of any organization, employer, or company. The information provided in this podcast is for general informational and entertainment purposes only and should not be construed as professional advice. Listeners should always seek the advice of a qualified professional regarding any specific concerns." Want to work together? Here's how we can help you reclaim your God-given identity and purpose! * Snag a free gift and find out more at https://www.adiproject.org * Coaching: Has the past silenced who you are? Do you want to get unstuck? Sign up for private coaching sessions with one of Adi Project's coaches: https://www.adiproject.org/christian-coaching * Courses: Do you wonder where God was in your trauma? Want to go deeper in your faith but aren't ready to commit to coaching? Purchase the 9 week Called By Name video course, book, and workbook. https://www.adiproject.org/adi-books-and-merch * Resources: Do you want to learn more about identity but don't want to read another self-help book? Are you drawn to fantasy fiction? We have you covered with the Redemption of Adi trilogy. https://www.adiproject.org/adi-books-and-merch * Community: You don't have to walk this journey alone. Join our Identity Building Facebook community and connect with others who are discovering their true identity and purpose. https://www.facebook.com/groups/1437640954240014
Episodes
What happens when a traumatic religious experience leaves you questioning your identity, your memories, and even your view of Jesus?
In this episode of Reclaiming Identity, Kristen is joined by Kimalee Finelli, author of Under Authority, for a conversation about religious trauma, spiritual abuse, church hurt, and healing.
Kimalee shares her story, how her identity was affected after leaving a ...
Have you ever prayed for healing and wondered why you are still suffering?
In this episode of Reclaiming Identity, Abbi DeWitt talks about praying for healing, what to do when healing hasn't come yet, and how to stay grounded in the truth of God's character while you wait.
Through Scripture, Abbi reminds listeners that every good gift comes from God, that God reveals Himself as Jehovah Rapha, ...
What is the church supposed to be?
In this solo episode of Reclaiming Identity, Kristen wrestles with a question that has been growing in her heart for over a year: Has the modern church lost its identity?
Drawing from personal experience in church culture, ministry, and painful encounters with unhealthy leadership, Kristen explores how church hurt, spiritual abuse, branding, territorialism, a...
What happens when a spiritual leader crosses the boundary of the authority God gave them?
In this episode of Reclaiming Identity, Abigail DeWitt explores spiritual abuse in church leadership and how control, pride, and unhealthy authority can damage both people and the growth of God's church.
Drawing from 1 Peter 2, Romans 12, 1 Peter 5, and Acts 6, Abigail unpacks God's design for healthy chu...
What is shunning, and is it ever biblical?
In this episode of Reclaiming Identity, Kristen Zuray shares why church shunning is not the same as biblical discipline. While Scripture does address correction and separation in certain cases, true discipline is meant for restoration, healing, and protection. Shunning is something very different.
Kristen explores how shunning in church often function...
How do you tell the difference between a healthy spiritual leader and a harmful one?
In this episode of Reclaiming Identity, Kristen Zuray shares 4 biblical markers of authentic, Christ-like leadership for those recovering from spiritual abuse, church hurt, and religious trauma.
If you've been wounded by abusive leadership, it can be hard to know who is safe to trust. Kristen points listeners ...
What happens when spiritual abuse and church hurt distort your view of God, discipleship, and your own identity?
In this episode of the Reclaiming Identity Podcast, Abbi DeWitt welcomes first-time guest Rosie Tanner for a compassionate conversation about spiritual abuse recovery, religious trauma, healthy church community, and healing in Christ.
Rosie shares her personal story of experiencing ...
What does spiritual abuse look like when it happens outside the church and inside families or friendships?
In this episode of Reclaiming Identity, Kristen Zuray and Abbi DeWitt explore 7 warning signs of spiritual abuse in family relationships and friendships. They discuss how abusive dynamics can hide behind Christian language, distorted Scripture, fear, guilt, and unhealthy control.
If you'v...
Was it church hurt… or something deeper?
In this episode, Kristen and Abbi discuss what spiritual abuse can look like and why many Christians recognize pain in church but don't always have language for abuse, manipulation, control, and misuse of spiritual authority.
Drawing from their lived experiences and observations over decades, they explain how spiritual abuse in church often hides...
How do you stop believing the lies and start living in your identity in Christ?
Many believers know what the Bible says about them, yet still wrestle with shame, insecurity, fear, and constant accusations.
In this episode of the Reclaiming Identity Podcast, Kristen Zuray explores practical, biblical steps to help you recognize spiritual attacks, distinguish God's conviction from condemnation, ...
Who does God say you are?
Our identity shapes every area of life—our relationships, confidence, purpose, and faith. Yet many people struggle with feelings of loneliness, insignificance, shame, and insecurity because they've believed lies about themselves and about God.
In this episode of the Reclaiming Identity Podcast, Lydia Zuray interviews trauma-informed identity coach and author Kri...
How do you overcome insecurity through God's truth?
Many of us struggle with comparison, self-doubt, fear of rejection, and believing we're not enough. Left unchecked, insecurity can shape our identity, relationships, purpose, and even our faith.
In this episode of the Reclaiming Identity Podcast, Kristen Zuray and Lydia Zuray discuss where insecurity begins, how unhealthy beliefs take root, a...
HELP! I Lost Myself in a Relationship.
Have you ever felt like your dreams disappeared, your confidence faded, or your entire identity became wrapped up in another person?
Many people don't realize they're experiencing an identity crisis until a relationship begins to consume every part of their life. Whether the relationship is romantic, a friendship, a family relationship, or even a church community, losing your sense of self can...
What does it mean to live authentically after trauma?
Many people believe trauma changes who they are forever. In reality, while painful experiences may change how we function, they do not change the identity God has given us.
Kristen Zuray and Abbi DeWitt discuss authenticity, overcoming people-pleasing, navigating life transitions, and learning to honestly embrace each season of life without guilt or shame.
Abbi shares her person...
How Trauma Affects Your Identity | Healing from Trauma & Finding Your Identity in Christ
Are you struggling to move forward after trauma? Do painful experiences still shape how you see yourself, others, or even God? In this episode of Reclaiming Identity, host Abbi DeWitt sits down with trauma-informed coach, author, and speaker Kristen Zuray to explore how trauma affects your identity—and how healing begins by replacing ...
Is Life Unbalanced? Here's How to Bring Balance Into Your Life Through Identity | Reclaiming Identity Podcast
Are you constantly doing more but feeling less fulfilled?
Have achievements, productivity, ministry, or responsibilities left you emotionally exhausted instead of joyful?
In this week's episode of Reclaiming Identity, Host Abbi sits down with Lydia Zuray for an honest and powerful ...
Identity Red Flags: 5 Signs You Are in an Identity Crisis | Reclaiming Identity Podcast
Are you struggling to feel like yourself lately?
Do you feel disconnected, lost, restless, or unsure of who you really are anymore?
In this episode of Reclaiming Identity, Host Lydia Zuray sits down with trauma-informed life coach and author Kristen Zuray to unpack the hidden signs of an identity crisis...
Who are you when the titles, roles, and expectations fall away?
In the very first episode of Reclaiming Identity, host Abbi DeWitt sits down with Kristen Zuray—founder of the Adi Project, trauma-informed coach, author, and speaker—to explore one of the most important questions we can ask ourselves: What is identity?
Have you ever looked in the mirror and felt disconnected from the person staring back at you? M...
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