Reconciling Marriages with Coach Jack
On the Reconciling Marriages with Coach Jack podcast, Christian psychologist, author, and relationship coach, Dr. Jack Ito, will help you to build and restore your marriage. By learning just a few relationship skills, you can help your spouse enjoy your relationship more, while getting more love and affection from your spouse. Listen to Coach Jack as he helps you with one more step toward a marriage both you and your spouse will love.
Episodes
When Your Spouse Says, "I'm Not in Love with You"--What to Do
Hearing your spouse say, “I’m not in love with you” can feel like a gut punch, but it doesn’t have to mean the end of your marriage. In this episode of Reconciling Marriages with Coach Jack, you’ll learn how to respond with empathy and clarity instead of panic, and how to use this moment to build a stronger connection rather than lose it.
What You’ll Learn
Can Your Marriage Be Saved? What Really Determines Reconciliation
Is it too late to save your marriage? In this episode of Reconciling Marriages with Coach Jack, listeners will discover why a spouse’s current feelings, words, or even intent don’t determine whether reconciliation is possible. Coach Jack explains what really matters—and how anyone can begin taking the right steps to rebuild, even if things look hopeless right now.
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How to Resolve Marriage Conflict Without Arguments or Distance
Most couples believe conflict is just part of marriage. But the truth is, conflict slowly weakens love and connection. In this episode of Reconciling Marriages with Coach Jack, you’ll discover why arguments, blame, and withdrawal never bring solutions—and how to handle differences in ways that create respect, attraction, and real change.
What You’ll Learn
- How to replac...
Common Questions About Boundaries in Marriage
Boundaries are one of the best tools for ending relationship damage—but also one of the easiest to misuse. In this episode of Reconciling Marriages with Coach Jack, you’ll hear quick, clear answers to fifteen of the most common questions about boundaries in marriage so you can stop harmful patterns, reduce conflict, and rebuild connection with your spouse. Whether you’re dealing with con...
How to Keep Your Marriage Strong and Avoid Divorce
Many couples don't fail because they stopped loving each other—but because they stopped doing the right things. In this episode of Reconciling Marriages with Coach Jack, you’ll learn what it really takes to maintain a strong, loving relationship—and why most people wait until it’s too late to start. Whether your marriage feels stable or is starting to slip, this episode will s...
Emotional and Financial Conflict in Marriage: How They’re Connected
Fighting about money is rarely just about money. In this episode of Reconciling Marriages with Coach Jack, we explore why financial arguments are often rooted in emotional disconnect—and how solving one without the other can leave your marriage vulnerable. Learn how to take a strategic, two-step approach to end both the financial strain and emotional distance.
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How to Stop Criticizing Your Spouse (and What to Do Instead)
If you’ve ever found yourself constantly pointing out your spouse’s flaws—hoping it will change them—this episode is for you. In Reconciling Marriages with Coach Jack, you’ll discover why criticism feels so necessary when things go wrong—and why it actually pushes love further away. Learn how to shift from criticism to leadership in your marriage, especially when your sp...
Husbands' Guide to Effective Marriage Boundaries
Many husbands misuse boundaries—or avoid them entirely—and damage their marriage in the process. In this episode of Reconciling Marriages with Coach Jack, you’ll learn how to use boundaries the right way to build respect, prevent resentment, and strengthen your connection. If you’ve been frustrated with your wife’s behavior and don’t know how to respond without being controlling ...
Common Mistakes That Kill Attraction in Marriage (and How to Rebuild Desire)
Are you worried your spouse just isn’t attracted to you anymore? In this episode, you’ll learn why so many husbands and wives drift into the “friend zone” — and exactly how to become desirable again without looking fake or desperate. Coach Jack breaks down the biggest attraction-killers in marriage and practical ways to rebuild desire step by step.
What You’...
Emotional Intimacy in Marriage: 3 Daily Habits That Work
Is your marriage starting to feel more like a business partnership than a loving bond? Without emotional intimacy, couples drift into routine and lose the trust and validation they crave. In this episode of Reconciling Marriages with Coach Jack, you’ll learn simple but powerful daily habits that rebuild connection — even if you’re the only one trying right now.
What You’ll Lear...
Build a Stronger Marriage as a Couple—Without Going to Therapy
Many couples think therapy is the only way to improve their marriage—but that’s not always true. In this episode of Reconciling Marriages with Coach Jack, you’ll learn why therapy often stalls progress and how behavioral changes can make your marriage feel alive again. Whether you're both motivated or just one of you is, this episode will show you a better way to ...
Are Your Social Skills Hurting Your Marriage? Fix Them Now
Many people are sabotaging their marriages without realizing it—simply by failing to use basic social skills with their spouse. In this episode of Reconciling Marriages with Coach Jack, you’ll learn how small behaviors like tone, body language, and validation can make the difference between growing closer or drifting apart.
What You’ll Learn
- How poor social skills damage a...
What Are Healthy Marriage Boundaries and Why Are They Important?
Many people use the word “boundaries” without really knowing what they are—or how to use them in marriage. In this episode of Reconciling Marriages with Coach Jack, you’ll learn what healthy marriage boundaries actually look like, how they differ from rules, and when to use them. If your spouse’s behavior is damaging the relationship and talking hasn’t worked, it’s t...
How to Re-Attract a Rejecting Spouse: Marriage Saving Strategies
When your spouse no longer finds you attractive, it's easy to feel helpless. But waiting, pleading, or trying harder to please won’t reignite attraction. In this episode of Reconciling Marriages with Coach Jack, you'll learn how to re-spark desire by shifting out of the "caretaker" role and becoming someone your spouse is naturally drawn to again.
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How to Have More Empathy for Your Spouse
Empathy is the backbone of emotional connection in marriage, yet most couples never learn the difference between being “nice,” listening, and truly empathizing. In this episode of Reconciling Marriages with Coach Jack, you’ll get a practical guide to building real connection through validation—not just understanding or fixing. If you want to break the cycle of conflict and start making your s...
Spouse Wants a Divorce? How to Save Your Marriage and Reconnect
When your spouse says they want a divorce, it’s easy to panic or argue. But if you want to save your marriage, the way you respond in that moment matters more than you think. In this episode of Reconciling Marriages with Coach Jack, you’ll learn how to stop pushing your spouse further away—and start laying the groundwork for reconnection.
What You’ll Learn
- Why your sp...
How To Respond When Your Husband Cheats But You Still Love Him
When your husband cheats but you still love him, it can feel like you’re stuck between heartbreak and hope. In this episode of Reconciling Marriages with Coach Jack, you’ll hear Wendy’s story—a woman caught in that very dilemma—and how she found clarity, strength, and a path forward through reconciliation coaching.
What You’ll Learn
- Why love alone isn’t enough to end a...
Feel Unappreciated in Your Marriage? Here’s How to Fix It
Do you feel like your efforts go unnoticed or unreciprocated in your marriage? In this episode of Reconciling Marriages with Coach Jack, you'll learn how to break free from the resentment that can build when you feel used or emotionally neglected.
What You’ll Learn:
- Why over-giving leads to resentment—and how to fix it without harming your connection
- How to communicat...
How to Save Your Marriage When Your Spouse Won’t Try
Reconciling Marriages with Coach Jack – Podcast Episode
On this episode of Reconciling Marriages with Coach Jack, Christian psychologist and relationship coach Dr. Jack Ito shares how you can rebuild and save your marriage—even if your spouse refuses to work on it. If you're tired of waiting for cooperation that never comes, this episode will show you how real change is ...
Should You Keep Trying If Everyone Says Your Marriage Is Over?
Reconciling Marriages with Coach Jack – Podcast Episode
On this episode of Reconciling Marriages with Coach Jack, Christian psychologist and relationship coach Dr. Jack Ito helps you make sense of conflicting advice and emotional overwhelm. If you're questioning your path, this episode will help you evaluate whether giving up or pressing forward is the most lo...
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