Recorded Vulnerabilities

Hey y’all—it’s Varsey. In this episode of Recorded Vulnerabilities, I get real about one of the most anxious relationships in my life: my relationship with consistency.

We always hear that success is rooted in doing the same things every day, no matter what. But what if you’re not built like that? What if your life, your body, your brain, and your values demand a different rhythm? This episode is for the folks trying to build new ha...

In this deeply reflective episode of Recorded Vulnerabilities, I sit with the discomfort of being in the in-between—those messy, uncertain spaces between clarity and confusion, endings and beginnings. With honesty and vulnerability, I unpack what it feels like to be emotionally, professionally, and spiritually in motion, even when everything around me seems still.

From confronting my control issues to redefining what rest truly mean...

In this episode of Recorded Vulnerabilities, I open up about the heartbreak, the confusion, and the growth that comes with friendship breakups. Whether it’s a slow fade, an abrupt cut-off, or a “love you from afar” moment, letting go of a deep connection hurts, and it deserves space. I talk about losing my best friend from high school and how that grieving process has mirrored the loss of a romantic partner. Sometimes, it hits even...

This episode is for anyone who's ever felt like they did all the right things, set all the intentions, stayed prayed up… and still, nothing’s moving. Just crickets. Silence. A divine “not yet” that feels like a big “no.”

This one is about the messiness of the wait.

I talk about those moments when you're dressed up with nowhere to go, ready for the breakthrough, the love, the success, and still coming up empty. I’ve been wrest...

In this episode of Recorded Vulnerabilities, Varsey Laurelle opens up about the complex and deeply human experience of loneliness, even in a life full of people, clients, kids, and community. From feeling like she never quite belonged to navigating betrayal, unmet needs, and over-functioning as a means of survival, Varsey gets real about what it means to feel unseen and unsupported.

She reflects on her upbringing, family dynamics, e...

In the premiere episode of Recorded Vulnerabilities, Varsey introduces the heart behind the podcast. She shares her internal wrestling with vulnerability, questioning whether her voice is needed in a crowded podcast world. She opens up about her unique journey as a Black woman, single parent, and entrepreneur, navigating healing and growth while parenting and reparenting. Varsey reflects on the difference between being open and tru...

In this episode of Recorded Vulnerabilities, Varsey Laurelle explores the complexities of parenting, particularly the challenges of navigating one-way relationships between parents and children. She reflects on her own experiences as a parent and child, discussing the generational shifts in parenting styles and the importance of setting boundaries. Through personal anecdotes and insights, she emphasizes the need for emotional intel...