EP61 From Burnout to Body-Based Breakthroughs with Matthew Cooke

What happens when your body calls for change—and you actually listen? In this powerful episode, Alex sits down with Matthew Cooke, founder of Body-Based Breakthrough (B3), to explore how burnout led him away from the tech hustle and into the healing world of somatic coaching. With roots in high-performance culture and a life-changing crash into chronic stress, Matthew shares how he pieced together his own path to nervous system healing—one breath, one journal entry, and one movement at a time.

Matthew opens up about the unexpected clarity he found in yoga classes and long walks, how he began listening to his body in new ways, and the moment a client told him, “It’s a shame there’s only one of you.” That nudge sparked the creation of B3—a replicable somatic system now used by coaches, therapists, and leaders around the world. From working with senior tech execs to certifying a new generation of somatic practitioners, Matthew’s approach is both deeply personal and highly practical.

Together, Alex and Matthew unpack the principles of B3, the importance of orientation and regulation, and how somatic practices are transforming how we live, lead, and heal. Whether you’re a practitioner or someone simply curious about nervous system work, this episode is full of insights that will land in your body as much as your mind.

Key Highlights:

• [00:00:05] Introducing Matthew Cooke and Body-Based Breakthrough (B3)
• [00:03:32] From tech startup to burnout at 24
• [00:05:38] Body and mind at war—seeking deeper understanding
• [00:06:33] Yoga and long walks spark clarity and insight
• [00:07:27] Journaling during movement—early seeds of B3
• [00:08:31] Clients experience reduced anxiety and imposter syndrome
• [00:09:47] “It’s a damn shame there’s only one of you”
• [00:10:25] B3 is born—systematizing somatic coaching
• [00:11:07] The endless curiosity of the nervous system
• [00:12:09] B3 practice components: movement, journaling, breathwork, coaching
• [00:12:31] The role of orientation—start and end of the practice
• [00:12:54] Nervous system safety and external environment

Links & Resources

• Body-Based Breakthrough (B3) Website: https://www.bodybasedbreakthrough.com/ 
• Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/bodybasedbreakthrough/
• Somatic Experiencing by Peter Levine: https://www.somaticexperiencing.com/about-peter 
• Polyvagal Theory by Dr. Stephen Porges: https://www.stephenporges.com/ 
• Organic Intelligence by Steve Hoskinson
• DARe (Dynamic Attachment Repatterning experience) – Diane Poole Heller: https://traumasolutions.com/learn-dare-approach/ 
• Irene Lyon’s Nervous System Work – irenelyon.com

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Website: https://www.redbeardsomatictherapy.com/ 

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