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April 14, 2025 80 mins

Elly Arrow interviews Co-Host Victoria G about the dark realities of male fetishism and her time in the fetish scene, exposing the realities of the BDSM trade as an industry, how it lures in, grooms, and breaks vulnerable women, and how predators like Neil Gaiman and Andrew Tate run the show.

Links

“Combating Cult Mind Control” by Stephen Hassan:

https://amzn.eu/d/0ZwxI7J

“Venus in Furs” by Leopold Von Sasher Masoch.

“Screw the Roses, Send Me the Thorns: The Romance and Sexual Sorcery of Sadomasochism”:

(Still problematic but at least it spoke about maintaining relationships and where not to hit someone. Small mercies.)

https://openlibrary.org/books/OL823918M/Screw_the_roses_send_me_the_thorns

Study: “Hooked up and Tied Down the Neurological Consequences of Sadomasochism”:

https://www.thepublicdiscourse.com/2015/02/14470/

Operation Spanner: 

https://en-academic.com/dic.nsf/enwiki/362113

https://www.bishopsgate.org.uk/collections/countdown-on-spanner-archive

“Backlash” by Susan Faludi:

https://susanfaludi.com/backlash.html

“Loving to Survive” by DLR Graham:

https://www.amazon.com.au/Loving-Survive-Dee-L-Graham/dp/0814730590

Squeeze/pressure writings by Temple Grandin:

http://grandin.com/inc/squeeze.html

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