Love Unbroken: Navigating the Aftermath of Sexual Abuse Together

Links talked about in this episode

Survival Guide for Husbands

Helping Your Husband Help You Guide for Wives

Summary

In this conversation,Tom Dau emphasizes the significance of spending quantity time in relationships to foster quality interactions. He discusses how simply being present with someone can lead to deeper conversations and connections, ultimately contributing to healing and growth within the relationship.

Takeaways

Quality time is only going to come from quantity.
You can't just decide to make something quality in a relationship without putting time into it.
Sitting in the same room can lead to meaningful conversations.
Quantity time can lead to healing and closeness.
The difficult moments in relationships are often short-lived.
Investing time in relationships is crucial for growth.
Quality interactions stem from consistent presence.
Relationships require effort and time to flourish.
Communication is key to understanding each other better.
The 5% of difficulty in relationships can be managed.

Chapters

00:00 Introduction and Context of Healing
07:20 The Impact of Past Trauma on Relationships
13:05 Breaking Free from Toxic Relationships
18:33 Current State of the Relationship
23:57 Resources for Couples in Healing
25:34 Introduction to Reframing Life and Love
25:38 Actionable Insights for Enhancing Relationships

Keywords

quality time, relationships, healing, growth, communication, supporting your wife, healing from past sexual abuse