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September 11, 2025 26 mins

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What if that critical voice in your head isn't actually you? What if it's a parasite feeding off your energy and deliberately trying to destroy you? 

Emma, trauma expert and founder of the "Reclaim Your Shameless" program, reveals the shocking truth about our inner critics - they function exactly like internalized narcissists. In this paradigm-shifting conversation, she dismantles the common wisdom that tells us to "love our inner critic" or "sit with our shame," explaining why these approaches only strengthen the very thing keeping us small.

"Shame is the gasoline that keeps trauma burning," Emma shares, offering a revolutionary framework called "break" that helps us recognize, disconnect from, and evict our inner narcissist. Unlike normal emotions that can be processed, shame leads nowhere but deeper into itself - a bottomless pit that recycles our pain endlessly.

What makes this episode truly transformative is Emma's practical approach to liberation. She explains how our language and culture have programmed us to believe we need shame to be good people (why else would "shameless" be an insult?), while providing clear steps to cut off shame's power supply. Through powerful examples and actionable insights, she demonstrates how to identify trauma triggers, release emotional baggage, and reclaim authentic self-expression.

The freedom that comes from this work isn't just personal - it breaks generational cycles of trauma and models authentic living for others. 

As Emma powerfully states, "You don't owe your inner critic anything - not politeness, not attention, not energy." 

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