Ever felt like everyone in the room hates you, but you’re not sure why? Or been told you’re “too much” (or not enough)? Today, we’re unpacking the cultural obsession with dialing women down, the perception gap, and why your biggest personality might be your biggest asset.
🔹 Are famous people actually insufferable—or just big? 🔹 The shocking truth about how others see you. 🔹 Why Jennifer Lopez gets dragged no matter what she does. 🔹 That one guy dancing like no one’s watching—what he knows that we don’t.
Notable Timestamps:
- 02:15 – Why I might actually be insufferable.
- 07:30 – The perception gap: We’re all wrong about how people see us.
- 14:45 – Taylor Swift, Oprah, and why we worship big personalities (but can’t stand them IRL).
- 22:20 – The internet’s favorite people to hate.
- 34:00 – What would happen if you truly took up space?
🔥 Let’s talk: Do you feel too big, too loud, too much? DM me or share your thoughts online—unless you’re one of those private-account, zero-follower, keyboard cowboys.
Listen! Share! Send me a DM and let's TALK ABOUT IT!
Links & References:
🎧 Brilliant Balance podcast, Ep. 383 – The Perception Gap
📖 Interesting source on how we misjudge others' opinions of us – Listen here
Call to Action:
💥 Feel too much? Good. Take up more space. Share this episode with someone who needs to hear it, tag me on social (@allison__hare), and book a free podcast strategy call: allisonhare.com/freecall.
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