Have you ever walked into a meeting, dressed in your best power suit, ready to crush it—but then held back because someone else’s voice seemed louder, smarter, or just more authoritative? Yeah, me too.
Today, leadership and executive coach Kelli Thompson, author of the bestselling book Closing the Confidence Gap, is here to help us finally put a name to that sneaky confidence killer: Pedestal Syndrome. We unpack why brilliant, accomplished women (like you!) habitually elevate others' opinions while silencing their own and how to reclaim your voice authentically, confidently, and strategically.
From managing your energy in tricky meetings to breaking down myths around executive presence, Kelli delivers practical tools you’ll wish you'd known years ago. Get ready to ditch second-guessing and step boldly into your voice and power.
Notable Timestamps:
- [02:10] Allison's realization: "I’ve deferred more times than I’d like to admit."
- [06:40] Kelli’s "Pedestal Syndrome" aha moment in corporate America.
- [12:15] Why "going along to get along" is keeping you stuck.
- [17:30] Kelli’s 3-step Advocacy Model for reclaiming your voice.
- [25:50] Knowing when it's time to quit (Hint: Your body knows).
- [24:05] Kelli’s powerful "Career Alignment Check."
Resources Mentioned:
- Closing the Confidence Gap by Kelli Thompson
- Kelli Thompson’s Website
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