Girl thinks it’s okay to be with other people while we are seeing each other.

Would you be okay with a girl you're seeing dating other men on the side?

Today's podcast has to do with a woman whom he's seeing who's going on dates with other guys while they're together. Is that okay? Is it okay for your girlfriend to go out with another guy right now? Or is there a cut-off line for when it just gets completely unacceptable?

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Episode Transcript

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Would you be okay with a girl, You are pursuing

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or trying to date seeing other men on the side?

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Relation-it is relationship advice podcast

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for everyone. Follow relationitpodcast.com.

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What is up guys? My name is Jameel and we are ready

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for another episode of relation. It is this

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question for the listeners or viewers of the

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podcast, if you're going to be in this situation

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where Your significant other or the woman that

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you're trying to pursue, or maybe even boyfriend

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was seeing other people on the side. Would you

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be okay with it? This is what this post is going

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to be about, it's from foreign straw. This is

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on the dating advice subreddit, and he has to

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say this girl thinks it's okay to see other men

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while trying to work up to be in a relationship with me.

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Lol. Judging from the post. I would not be okay

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with girl that I'm trying to pursue or trying

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to date seeing other men on the side, but that's

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just my opinion.

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Met this girl. Three months ago. We kicked it

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for a while and shared feelings, Etc. I told

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her I fell for her and she said some things but

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also she said she wasn't ready for a relationship.

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I told her to take her time and I'll be there.

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I recently found out she doesn't consider Us

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exclusive and what I asked her if she's going

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to see other men during the time she thinks She's

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thinking about getting it to relationship with me.

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She was hesitant to say, no. She basically implied

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and said if she wants to see other people, she

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should be able to because she's not ready for a relationship.

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Okay, I'm going to pause right there. I honestly

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think she does not want to be in a relationship with you.

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Just by just judging by what you row right now,

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by what he wrote. She just doesn't just has no

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interest in him. So I don't know why he's trying

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to pursue her because she already has told him that.

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She's not ready to be in a relationship, especially with him.

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But I'm gonna continue reading on because yeah,

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we need to. Is it me? Or is that messed up? Obviously,

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I'm done with the girl. No way. I'm going to learn

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to love someone. When they have another man's

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meat in their mouth, LOL. That is funny. But

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um, honestly, yet. She basically is implying.

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She does not want to be in a relationship with you.

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She's dating other guys. I think I know obviously

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I think he is getting the message right here

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that yeah, I mean, it's right to not be messing

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with other women will women that you know, is

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having another man's meat in their mouth, LOL.

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And he needs to, you know, move on. You need to

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stop talking to her. And move on. There's nothing

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else that he can do. She wants to date other men.

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If she wants to pursue a relationship with him.

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She will be at his door being begging pleading, please.

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Can I date you? Can I date you? Josh? Can I date?

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You Bob's lie. She hasn't done that. So. That

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is what I think. Figure out what's going on and

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also have something to add in my opinion. She

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just does not want to have a relationship with

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him because she has no interest. I feel like

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with a lot of people it is either a yes or a no it

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cannot just be a maybe if it's just maybe then

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they're not really fully invested in you and

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whatever you're offering them. If she's dating

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other people. That means she doesn't have enough

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interest in you to consider a relationship with you.

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I repeated myself, but it makes sense and I know

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it sounds really hard because you really like her.

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It woman who is interested in. You won't be seeing

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other people. Also, she doesn't have a lot of

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respect for you. She's dating other guys. Hello, red flag.

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Seems to me the this woman has zero respect for you.

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And she doesn't love you. She's being dishonest

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with you or you just haven't gotten the hint

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that she's not interested. She's hesitant.

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If people are hesitant about something, you're

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offering them, then they don't, they're not

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interested their doubting you. They're not

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invested and I think I'm going to give a lot more

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to this because I think a lot of us guys should

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learn from this because when she tells you like

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I'm not ready for a relationship and she goes off dating.

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Other guys texting them sleeping with them.

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That should be a sign that she is not interested in you.

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She's not interested in being in a relationship with you.

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She basically just straight up told you that

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she doesn't want to. Be with you, either have

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to accept it as it is or move on. No matter what

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a woman says, take it with a grain of salt. Only

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go with actions. She's obviously talking to

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other men. She's probably sleeping with them.

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It's best, you know, get the f*** out and live

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and learn not ready for a relationship equals.

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I don't want a relationship with you. I don't

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want a relationship with you. She basically

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just being nice to you because she I feel like

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a lot of people just don't know how to, you know,

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say be straightforward, and it's just say no.

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Hey, I you're not you're unattractive to me.

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And people are dishonest and just want to sugarcoat things.

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The moment, she told you that you should have

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told her that her seeing other men won't work

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or you go. No contact pursue other women, there's

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hundreds and thousands of women billions of

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women in this world, especially Even if you

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live in a small City or big city, even my city,

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there are so many beautiful girls. I mean, there's

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there's no excuse for for a guy to be like, okay.

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I just love, I love, I love my lead, Come On Eileen.

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Oh, that's where that means at this moment.

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You mean, ya know, get over Eileen, get over

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the chick, that has no interest in you, there's

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Feelings of women out there if she changes her mind.

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Great. If not, you don't have to pursue or you

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can pursue other women that actually wants

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you and there's going to be women that actually want you.

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And this is why I chose this because it's really great.

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It's really great lesson that you have to listen

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to people's actions, actions speak louder than words.

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This is a whole point of the podcast for relation

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is to learn from other people's mistakes. So

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learn that not all relationships are perfect.

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And sometimes, you know, if you're giving a

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shitty shitty hand, a shitty deal and you got to bounce.

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I've had to do that up plenty of times. And honestly,

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I mean, it sucks because I'm like, man, you know,

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I really like this woman, but you know what,

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she made the decision to, you know, not want

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to be in a relationship with me. That's perfectly fine.

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I hope I wish her the best. I say that to myself,

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are say that to a woman like a, I wish you the best.

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Didn't work out, sometimes things, don't work out.

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And if they do show up and come back and change her mind.

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She changes her mind about. I want to be in a relationship

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with you Jamil. Oh my God, I really miss you.

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Oh my God. I want to suck your penis. Don't be

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like shoeless suck my penis, or just kidding

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about that, but I'd be like, yeah, of course.

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These are the lessons that you learned. You

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got to live and learn. You gotta go by actions

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accept it as it is. She's like, hey, I want to

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be just be friends. I want to date other men accept

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it as it is and move on. There's no point in trying

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to pursue her when she already told you that

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she wants to see other men, loyal woman will

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not be dating other guys. She want to just be with you.

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There's women out there like that. Not all women

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are like that and all women. Like all women are

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bad and all women are shitty people. You just

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have to know what to accept or not accept and

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that's good that I believe he has accepted.

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That it's not worth pursuing. I think he has an update.

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You said, I didn't tell her I fell for first after

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the 20th time of seeing each other one night.

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She told me, she loves me...