I'm single, lonely and a little fed up!

This episode of the podcast Is about a woman ranting about how she hates being single and venting about how the dating scene sucks now in days. She'll share why she feels that way.

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Relation-It relationship advice podcast for everyone.

Follow the relationitpodcast.com. Yo, yo yo,

what is up guys? I'm Jameel and I am back with another

relationship podcast. Alright, today. We're

going to be talking about being single and feeling

lonely as the title says, it's about a woman

that is really feeling sad about and depressed

about being single now being single. Can be

depressing, sometimes especially, you know,

keep on going on dates and just things are not

working out or maybe you want something romantic

like, man. And like I want something romantic

with someone it sucks. Like I can't get over that.

You know, modern dating can be very, very frustrating.

You know, you're just swiping on people and

then you try to go on dates with people and they

can be hit or miss. Maybe you hit it off with someone

and then they ghost you after the day. You're

like, man. That was a great day. Everything was perfect.

Like your girl, you know, you probably like

man, you know what I'm gonna sleep with this guy.

He's really charming and you do sleep with them.

And, you know, after that, That he blocks you

off of everything. You've lost your number.

He blocks you. You just basically goes to he.

He, he hits it and quits it or you're a guy and,

you know, you take a woman on a date restaurant.

Maybe you guys hit it off. You guys get some drinks

and things are looking great. You kiss her,

you know, maybe make out with her and then, you

know, you don't things are great. Then you don't

hear from her. She goes you too. Yeah. I've experienced

that and I bet many women I've experienced that too.

So this is why I picked the post because, and

we're going to read it right now, obviously,

because it kind of resonates with a lot of what

a lot of people are feeling about modern dating.

It sucks, especially online dating whether

it's hinge, Tinder. Oh, screw Tinder, by the

way, that's a hook-up app. I mean, if you're

looking for a romantic partner on Tinder, yeah,

I feel bad for you because you ain't going to do that.

If you're a guy, you're not gonna have a look

on Tinder because heck no one. You're not going

to get a lot of matches if you're You're an average

guy and then if you're a woman, all of these guys

are just going to be looking for hookups. But

anyway, let's get started with the post. Right?

So, this is from her. I want on a date yesterday.

It was very casual, just say walk on the river,

with a McDonald's coffee. We had agreed that

it would be a friendly thing. I didn't mind.

He was a little bit religious to, so we had to

stick to extremely public places. He said he

was attracted to me, but I didn't look like my

pictures shit. But he finds me attractive.

I was upset, because I felt like there was a little

tone of, you're not as pretty as your pictures,

but I still like you and Found, You attractive, whatever.

Anyway, I had a bit of an ox confidence because of that.

I didn't like him or feel a connection with him,

but I'm just ranting here, meow. Does anybody

feeling? Lonely as f***? I've paused my profile on hinge.

I remove myself from all dating sites, and I

literally give up, I want someone to meet me

in real life, also put Tan weight, which I'm

struggling to get rid of I'm working on myself,

but I live alone and I feel depressed. I've got

a best friend but I of course, want to find love,

genuine love, not fixated on. My looks women

are so sexualize. I don't get it. I don't know

how to meet men in the fashion. I would like any

more of the gym. I don't know rant over. Wow,

what a, what a rant but shoe. I can totally understand online.

Dating really does suck. And yeah, that sucks

to be called he called you. Oh, how you will differ

from your photo. Yeah, I can totally understand

how she how she feels. That's why for me, I've

deleted most of my online dating accounts.

I have them on my phone, but I don't open them.

I don't use them. I don't pay them any shit because

it's a waste of time, especially for a young

male like me. I'm 26, so it's just it's useless.

It's a waste of time. Just swiping. I call. Okay.

Hopefully, hopefully she messages me. I'm

gonna send her a text. Hey, how's it going? Earl?

Let me come up with a joke. Like no. I am more important

time on my hands. I could be getting bigger.

I could be, you know, hitting the gym. I could

be talking to chicks in real life. And that's

what I've been doing. To be honest. I've actually

had more success. I've actually have had more

success meeting chicks in person then, on online

dating, a lot of the chicks out of met online.

They do not have been batshit crazy. So I'm like,

yeah, not never again like this one chick, man.

She was she was insane. Man. Went on two dates

with her, man. And whoo, yeah, never again.

But yeah, I mean, just, it's just, I don't know.

Dating can be disappointing and I'm just going

to bring this up. I'm not going to try to be a dick

or anything, but maybe you catfished him. Maybe

you looked a little bit skinnier and from your photos.

Some guys, not all, I like them, chubby. I like

Shelby chicks. Yeah, especially when they're naked.

You. Whoo. Hey, you know, if you're chubby,

you know, you want to hook up with me, you know,

you can contact me Instagram, EDM me, you know,

but honestly, he could have you could have been

turned off by that. A lot of guys don't really

like fat girls or chubby girls and he probably

just it gave them a bad impression, unfortunately,

but that, that could be, that could be one of

the reasons why you guys didn't really hit it off.

But anyways, honestly, I would suggest you

to delete online dating. It's not working for you.

If it's not working for you then. I would leave it.

Delete it. You can, you know, stop stop using

it meet guys in real life. There are plenty of

guys that will, you know, maybe you can meet

in real life and you can hit it off with it's just

not very successful for both men and women for women.

Yeah, you could get laid. But is that really

what you want? Is that really what you want really

in the long term to just be used up by all these

guys? I don't think I would if I was a female and

then if you're a guy, you really want to waste

your time on Just swiping until you get a match. I wouldn't.

So I mean I would, I would just leave online dating.

It's just not. I don't like online dating. And

then one of the things that I would just recommend

her doing is to forget about finding someone,

you know, live life without trying to seek focus on yourself.

I know. It's so cliche, like, what, what is it?

Everybody say that? It's so cliche man. You

call yourself a relationship coach relationship.

Oh, this is weird. Ation and more like relationship it.

Well, honestly, that's it was, I was going to

call the podcast relationship. But anyways,

yeah, she needs to focus on herself. Go to the

gym, hit the gym. Do some cardio if she wants

to lose some weight, because if she has packed

on the pounds, she's obviously not really feeling herself.

She doesn't have the self-confidence. This

is what I would suggest you're doing and it's

not a bad thing being single. I know it sucks

sometimes because when you're single, you're

like, man, I want to be in a relationship. The same time.

If you weren't a relationship, you wish you

would be you would be single. Honestly when

I was like in a relationship. It was like a situation ship man.

I was like wishing I was seeing. I was like, man,

like I barely have time to myself. I barely could

get stuff done. I barely had time to hang out

with friends because I was always hanging out

with her and the end, it just it sucked because

I wasted my time and it was a waste of time at the end.

We stopped seeing each other and it sucks. So

it was a waste of two to three. Months, I didn't

really accomplish anything. I neglected my podcast.

So, I mean, yeah, of course, yes, being in a relationship is great.

It feels great. You're like, oh my gosh, this is amazing.

Oh my gosh, the sex everything, everything is great.

But at the same time like if you do not have the

confidence, no one's going to be able to give you confidence.

No one's going to be able to make you happy. And

I know this is cliche, but the same time, believe

me, there's a lot of benefits about being single

and if you can't, you know, you need to make some friends.

She said she had a best friends, but maybe she

needs to find other people to hang around, you

know, find some Hobbies. You might actually

meet someone, you know, if you find your hobbies,

these are the some of the devices that I would

be giving the I get, I'm giving because it's

important to be comfortable about being alone.

You're going to live alone, most of your life.

You're going to be in a little relationships.

And then after relationships, you're going

to rebuild yourself. I was like that too. I was

lonely but now I'm appreciating, you know being

singles actually. A good thing because I can

build myself. I can have time I have time to myself

and sometimes I can date but dating I feel like

it's a waste of time. It's a waste of time online.

Dating is a waste of time. And then if you're

lucky dating in real life, I mean if you can find

someone then I would be great. But it depends.

And then I know the rant is just some being you

being a this girl's just being emotional. It's

okay to be to rant about it because it is frustrating.

Something else I would probably do is if you

re actually do finally a guy attractive, maybe

go up to him and be like, hey, here's my number.

You never know. Like you might call you and he

might, you know, try your luck most women don't do that.

And I had a girl do that was just like hey, can

I have your number? And I was just shocked. I

was like, wait. Is this a prank? I was like you

want my number. I was like, I don't think I've

ever had and a woman do that to me. They've always

been like oh, yeah, you know I'm single you can

have my number. It's not like Oh, can I have your

number like direct their more indirect about

it? So these are just some suggestions but this

is the reason why I picked this pose. Because

yeah, socks being single sucks because you

want that you want the benefits of relationship,

but at the same time you're not ready. She's not ready.

Most people are not ready for relationships

because they need will focus on themselves.

Focusing on themselves. You'd be a lot better. Obviously.

You shouldn't give up. It takes time to build

a relationship and to develop one. And I A man

just taking a step back and realize that this

is a process, you know course, we're going to

have failures and we're gonna have successes.

And of course that day was a failure. I've had

a lot of failed dates. I've had times where I

couldn't even perform during sex which sucked

and it ruined the date which sucks, but we all

are going to go through that. Even a terrible

date with a guy that told you that that shot down your confidence.

Yeah. It sucks. But don't let you know this hold you back.

You will have a successful relationship maybe

in the The future definitely in the future,

but worry about yourself, hit the gym work on that body.

Girl, even though, you know, I like chubby girls

but work on the body because it's going to be

healthy for you and read books. Listen to podcast,

like these there are plenty of great there.

There are other great relationship podcasts

that you can listen to especially directed

towards women that focus on, you know, women

and how you can be a successful woman or you can

or you can listen to relationship podcast and

visit the relationship vodcast.com. Yeah,

about that. Anyway, Guys, I hope you liked this episode.

Well, weird one for me, just because I just picked

this one because I was like, wow, you know, sometimes

I kind of feel like this too, especially when

I put someone left me, but, you know, now, I feel

like there's a value in being single and being

sometimes, being you're not lonely. You're

not a loner, you're not lonely, you know, you're

just alone and sometimes you need that time

to be alone. So you can reprogram yourself and

you can build yourself up again. But anyways

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