In this episode, Dr. Jon Dabach discusses the unique challenges of divorcing in your 60s and provides valuable insights for those considering this significant life change. He highlights the major areas of concern such as financial health, social circles, and family dynamics that are profoundly affected by late-life divorce. Dr. Jon addresses the importance of reassessing the relationship before making a final decision and encourages couples to have honest conversations about their future together.
Dr. Jon also offers hope for those who ultimately decide to divorce, emphasizing that it is possible to find happiness and rebuild one's life even in later years. He provides practical advice on how to navigate the post-divorce landscape, including maintaining social connections and seeking professional guidance. The episode aims to empower individuals to make informed decisions that prioritize their well-being and long-term happiness.
Memorable Quotes
- "You're not just divorcing yourself from this person, but you're divorcing yourself from your entire life."
- "The idea of hating to pull up into your own driveway because there's nothing for you at home is not healthy."
- "What kind of relationship do you want to see for the rest of your life?"
- "Don't bring up the word divorce. Say maybe that's a conversation we need to have."
- "Don't be shy to ask for what you really want in these conversations."
- "If divorce is the appropriate option, get divorced. Know that it's going to suck for a couple years, but it doesn't mean it's over."
- "There are people, especially other people in retirement, who are splitting up just like you want to split up and want the kind of relationship you want."
- "You owe it to yourself to really explore if you're in a miserable relationship and your partner is not interested in connecting."
Keyword List
divorce in your 60s, late-life divorce, relationship advice, Dr. Jon Dabach, navigating divorce, post-divorce life, retirement and divorce, financial health, social circles, family dynamics, reassessing relationships, honest conversations, professional guidance, rebuilding life, long-term happiness, dealing with divorce, marital challenges, relationship dynamics, divorce recovery, senior relationships
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