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August 14, 2025 43 mins

Dr. Bruce Chalmer explores the transformative power of forgiveness after betrayal, sharing insights from his 30+ years as a psychologist specializing in couples therapy. He reveals a practical three-step forgiveness process that creates internal freedom and healing even after the most painful betrayals.

• Betrayal comes in many forms beyond infidelity, including financial deception and broken trust between family members
• Initial shock after betrayal requires triage-like care before making major decisions
• Forgiveness is "an inside job" that releases you from pain rather than excusing the betrayer
• Dr. Chalmer's three-step forgiveness process: forgive yourself, forgive the person who hurt you, and "forgive God"
• Faith (religious or secular) helps us find meaning in suffering instead of despair
• Our tendency to blame ourselves for betrayal comes from a deep need for control
• Forgiveness doesn't necessarily mean reconciliation or continuing the relationship
• Personal transformation often emerges from confronting our deepest pain

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