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July 17, 2025 43 mins

Larry Bilotta shares his transformative journey from living 27 years in a "marriage made in hell" to falling in love with his wife in the 28th year through the process of falling in love with himself first.

• Understanding how childhood shapes marriage and our adult relationships
• The Chaos to Purpose Scale that measures how our first 10 years impact our values
• Why opposites attract – purpose-raised people seek strength while chaos-raised people seek stability
• How "buckers" deny their subconscious programming and borrow values until they snap
• The care and feeding of a "chaos kid" requires understanding their special needs
• Creating two lists – the world of fear versus the world of love
• Moving from fear-based reactions to love-based responses
• Taking responsibility for your own transformation creates conditions for marriage healing
• Finding spiritual peace even in the most challenging relationship circumstances

Connect with Larry at LarryBilotta.com or YouCanSaveThisMarriage.com to learn more about his courses and get a condensed version of his book "This Is Not the Woman I Married."


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