Remodeled Love

What is a yuletide? Is Matty Healy the Jess Mariano to Taylor's Rory? Is Joe reading smut??

Also: Joe's breakup, parenting fails, polyamorous guilt, Jes is over avoidants (for real this time), and Jes went on a date with a girl!

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It is really important to Jes that you know this episode was recorded BEFORE Thanksgiving and that it was supposed to be out BEFORE Thanksgiving, and she's really sorry it's only coming out now on Christmas Eve Eve. Good ol' ADHD and general overwhelm.

Also, now that the live event for "Off the Table" has passed, you can still purchase the recording!

In this episode, The Daylovers and friend-of-the-pod Chaneé Jackson Kendall sit...

Episode highlights:

• There are only 8 (actually 3 now) tickets left for Jes and Chaneé's "You Wanna Be Polyamorous But You..." workshop on 11/2
• Jes is willing to be ruined by the "Homosexual Lesbian Spirits", and also she made merch about it.
• Jes is back on dating apps for the first time in almost 2 years because of a tv show, and Joe is really happy for her for it
• Joe makes Jes late to her first first date in almost 2 year...

In this episode, Jessica and Chaneé (@chaneespeaks on all the socials) spin off of their last episode together where they talked about earning your "polyamory stripes" through "fuckin' up and fixin' it," as Chaneé says. In this convo they dive into specific mistakes they've each made over the last 10 years, and the character arcs that came out of that journey.

Some themes include:

-security and stability are illusions of monogamy

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Welcome to the first episode of Fusion Radio, produced and hosted by Nuclear Fusion App's CEO, Jessica Daylover. Fusion Radio is an enterprise of the Nuclear Fusion App. The Nuclear Fusion App is a project whose mission is to help folks across the world find, build, and sustain modern villages and chosen families. In this short episode, Jessica introduces you to the Nuclear Fusion App project, and the context of its existenc...

In this episode of our podcast (now on video!) The Daylovers sit down with their beloved friend and colleague Chaneé Jackson Kendall (online at @ChaneeSpeaks). They talk about what's new with Chaneé's project "Intentional Polyamory", Remodeled Love, and the Nuclear Fusion App. They get into why there's no point to anything and, as always, a reminder that love sucks. Finally they dive into a very complex pol...

In this episode Jes, Joe, and Dr. M sit down for a templated episode:

1. What's New with Remodeled Love?
2. Hot Goss (what's new in their super salacious and obviously exciting polyamorous lives?)
3. Existential Thoughts I've Been Having Lately (the trio share the most recent existential dread that's been plaguing their brains)
4. Dear Daylovers (the trio answer a listener advice question about polyamory)

You can...

In this episode Jessica, Joe, and Dr. M discuss all the big and new changes in the polycule, regrets they have as content creators, and the fuckery of ignorant ass people.

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I've been waiting so freakin' long to tell y'all that, after 43 years of monogamous marriage, my in-laws (Dr. M's parents), have discovered the joys of swinging...and now they're both big ol' bisexual sluts having the time of their lives—in their 70s!

And they sat down with me and my husband in our recording studio and spilled all the tea on their adventures, how they got here, and the expansion and g...

Alternative episode title: Famous Last Words

In this episode, The Daylovers (Jes, Joe, and Ash) talk about: 

*what Datty is learning in polyamory (fear of trying and failing at finding compatible partners),

*what Ash is learning about parenthood and co-parenting (letting go of attachment, not trying to immediately nip things in the bud or cast judgment, learning to pause...),

*what Jes is learning in polyamory, which she breaks dow...

In this episode: Joe finds out Ash is having an affair with Dr. M('s pores), we talk about our journey to get Ash qualified for FMLA as a polyamorous family, and we discuss, in depth, our favorite punctuation.

We also talk about what Jes and Joe are individually learning in the world of parenthood right now, and Ash shares what they are learning in the world of polyamory.

There's also some other stuff about sex parties, a...

This is by far the best and most unhinged episode we've ever recorded and we're worried we may never top it. (We will.)

It's honestly all over the place and we're not sure how to summarize it, but we talk about: age gap relationships, sleeping arrangements, Jes's new orgasm discovery she calls "bass orgasms", how Ash loves to listen through the vent to Jes and Dr. M boning, why Ash's pants were at ...

In this episode The Daylovers (all 4 of them!) try to catch you up on everything that happened in 2023, which was both the best and worst year of their lives. This is the first episode recorded as a nested polycule, including the notorious Dr. M!

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When we left off 6 months ago (holy shit), it was right before Jessica's birthday orgy and Joe was about to meet his long distance lover, Ash, for the first time. Well, now it's 6 months later and YOU get to meet her...cuz she lives here now. And she's the best thing to ever happen to our little family.

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You may know Emily, Dedeker, and Jase as the hosts of the world-renown podcast, Multiamory. And now you can officially add 'authors' to their bio lines! Dropping May 23rd, 2023 (though available for pre-order today), "Multiamory: Essential Tools for Modern Relationships" is a curated collection of the most popular communication tools, advice, and wisdom from the Multiamory podcast that have helped thousands of lis...

Breaking up is hard to do. In this episode of Remodeled Love, Jessica talks with one of her favorite polyam podcasters, ashe danger phoenix of the Dear Jessamyn podcast. They discuss why lesbian breakups take so long, and is there a way to make them shorter; can we discuss breakups with someone before entering into a relationship with them, the difference between low stakes breakups, ghosting, and breakups that rip your heart out--...

In this episode The Daylovers catch you up on all things Remodeled Love, including some yummy new support groups. changes in the structure of their personal+professional life intersections, and some exciting visions for the future. They also share some Hot Goss (the hottest goss they've ever had), aka: Jes's upcoming birthday orgy, and some delicious new elements to her relationship with her boyfriend...and quite possibly t...

In the kickoff to Season 3 of the "Remodeled Love" podcast, Jes chats with the creator of and artist over at @Shrimpteeth, Sam. 

There are several arguments against the presence of the "peer support" model in the polyamorous digital sphere:the potential for the abuse of power, the fact that there's no board to report abuse to, no official training or accreditation for "coaches", the charging of mon...