We focus so much on searching for Mr/Mrs. Right in our love life, that we negate the preparation it takes to receive them or attract them into our lives.

We sometimes lose ourselves in our dating experiences or relationships for the sake of others. In doing this we begin to forget that we are individuals first and we question our value.

If you really zone in and focus on your process and not just the fact of being lonely, you can really find clarity on the Why!

Sometimes in order for you to make it through the low moments and lonely moments we have to get to the point of enriching ourselves; even when other don't.

We pray and ask God to send us true love or send us someone that will appreciate us, but ask yourself are you in position or prepared to receive what you prayed for.

Oftentimes when we have experienced trauma and hurt in relationships and throughout the dating process, we begin to question our value and state of being a priority.

Oftentimes we lose sight of being intentional about the process of dating. We try speed up the process to fast track outcomes, but in reality it messes us up mentally.

Oftentimes we are to content with our norm dating and in relationships, but yet continue to stay on the same roller-coaster of hurt. In order to attract something different we have do things differently.

Every decision that we make in our dating life has a consequence attached to it; whether good or bad.

Sometimes when we feel that we are ready to move on in this journey of dating or relationship process, we tend to us others to mask our hurt; which actually causes us to fall for the triggers of our past.

Oftentimes in this process of finding love and dating, we hang onto the words of a person moreso than their actions.

Oftentimes when we are going through our tough times in our relationships, dating experiences, and breakups; we tend to let a person control our emotional happiness in this regard.

In every situation that has taken place in our lives, dating experiences, and in our relationships there are lessons that we need to learn. What are yours?

During our dating and relationship experiences, we oftentimes ask ourselves the "Why" questions. Observing the why in our situation will help us to draw out out factual conclusion about "The Why Factor"

At times during our healing process we where our vulnerability on shoulders, which distorts our judgment in dating process and finding love. Take ownership of what cause your to be in that vulnerable state.

Oftentimes we put so much stock into others to validate us and to make us feel whole. Doing this we sabotage our own happiness.

Believe it or not outside influences affect the way we move and communicate in out Relationship. We make impulse decisions base on influences.

Subconsciously when we want to attract what we are looking for in our dating process or relationships, we first have to take ownership of our past hurts!

Not asking those hard questions while going through your dating experiences that lead to an awesome relationship, can sometimes set us up for the hurt to come down the road.