Revamp

Oftentimes when we are going through our tough times in our relationships, dating experiences, and breakups; we tend to let a person control our emotional happiness in this regard.

In every situation that has taken place in our lives, dating experiences, and in our relationships there are lessons that we need to learn. What are yours?

During our dating and relationship experiences, we oftentimes ask ourselves the "Why" questions. Observing the why in our situation will help us to draw out out factual conclusion about "The Why Factor"

At times during our healing process we where our vulnerability on shoulders, which distorts our judgment in dating process and finding love. Take ownership of what cause your to be in that vulnerable state.

Oftentimes we put so much stock into others to validate us and to make us feel whole. Doing this we sabotage our own happiness.

Believe it or not outside influences affect the way we move and communicate in out Relationship. We make impulse decisions base on influences.

Subconsciously when we want to attract what we are looking for in our dating process or relationships, we first have to take ownership of our past hurts!

Not asking those hard questions while going through your dating experiences that lead to an awesome relationship, can sometimes set us up for the hurt to come down the road.

Oftentimes we tend to look pass certain issues and flaws that does not add value to us in our love life.

In this day and time of relationships we love the feel good moments; the instant gratification aspects of dating.

Oftentimes in relationships and the dating process, we tend to forget about ourselves to appease others and we begin to become stagnant. How do we shift the norm?

Oftentimes in relationships and in the dating process, when we are that moment of wanting something different certain things distract us from focusing on the bigger picture.

Denial can sometimes be the very thing that is actually keeping us stagnant in life and in our love life.

Oftentimes in relationships and dating, we are fighting an uphill battle for the love and affection that we give to be reciprocated.

Oftentimes in our love life and dating we try to hold on to dead weight that is subconsciously suffocating us. Cut them off!

You have power in your thoughts on what you attract into your life.

Oftentimes in relationships and in dating after dealing with a breakup we use others to actually try to get over our previous relationship, which causes us to never truly heal. It causes us to subconsciously date our past.

Sometimes is dating or in relationships we forget about the wellbeing of ourselves for the sake of saying we are in a relationship or dating a specific person.

Being comfortable oftentimes creates a stagnation of progression in dating and relationships and you begin to settle for things you normally want settle for.