"A victim does not see their agency. A victim does not see their ability to change the world. To change their world, a creator says, every morning I wake up and I create a new me, and I can create a new me with these ideas, or I can create a new me with those ideas, or I can create a new me with some other ideas." - RJon Robins
Welcome inside the vault. This is a collection of previously unreleased lessons from eight-figure entrepreneurial mastermind RJon Robins. And in case you didn't see the warning label, this content can be explicit and is for serious entrepreneurs only.
In this lesson from a 2022 Practical Profitable Mindset session, RJon guides How To Manage a Small Law Firm members through a powerful visualization exercise about mindset orientation. Using the metaphor of a bird in an open cage, he explains the fundamental differences between victim and creator mindsets. Through the exploration of the Karpman Drama Triangle of victim-persecutor-rescuer relationships, RJon explains how true creators, challengers, and coaches operate from a place of equality and empowerment.
Key Takeaways
1. Victims see the world as acting upon them, while creators see themselves as acting upon the world
2. Victims secretly feel relief from their victim status because it absolves them of scary responsibility
3. The Karpman Drama Triangle consists of victims (who need persecutors), persecutors (who need victims), and rescuers (who need victims to avoid their own issues)
4. True coaches and challengers see people as creators and equals, not as inferior beings who need rescuing
5. Creators reinvent themselves daily with new information and aren't prisoners to past beliefs or statements
RJon clearly lays out the difference between victims and creators. Real creators want to set others free, help them become equals, and are happy when students surpass them. Through raw honesty about his own evolution, RJon demonstrates the freedom that comes from embracing a creator mindset.
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