S7. Episode 4: The Age Gap, Long Distance Love Story of the Late to Lez and the Gold Star with Charity and Holly

Listen as we chat with Charity, a late to lez, 49 year-old, looking for someone to fuel her desire to feel “alive,” and Holly, a 35 year-old Gold Star lesbian, who came out at 17, residing five and a half hours away. Tune in as they discuss setting relationship goals, challenging naysayers (although, they have had a lot of support from loved ones), communicating through a variety of methods, and offering “pre-emptive” wedding vows that offer reassurance. Don’t miss Corey’s take on the importance of having seen the movie, St. Elmo’s Fire, and Tracy’s experience with “beards” in college. All in all, this is an episode that will inspire anyone looking for love, as Charity says, “to take the lid off the box.” Show Notes: 8 Dates-Learn about 8 critical conversations to have with your partner. Hold Me Tight-Check out Sue Johnson’s book about the seven critical conversations anyone in new relationships must have. Elmo’s Fire-Watch this coming-of-age movie about a group of post-college graduates navigating adulthood. Lesbian Journeys-Find out more about Charity’s lesbian events group on Facebook.