215. Jabari Whitehead - Better Us, Better Them

"One of the best decisions I've ever made as a leader is just getting out of the way of people doing the work and being more of a support."

"But to go to a place where people allow you to be yourself and to grow with you is a great form of generosity that no leader should ever overlook."

"The obstacle is the way. The obstacle is the way. Whatever you're trying to get through, the way you're trying to get to, the obstacle is the most direct route. Turning and facing the obstacle is the direct path to being better."

Chapters:

• 00:00 Introduction to Dr. Jabari Whitehead
• 05:40 Generosity in the School Community
• 13:11 The Value of Generosity
• 22:01 Parenting and Leadership
• 29:22 Courage and Vulnerability in Leadership
• 35:37 Embracing Imperfection: Be Brave, Not Perfect
• 40:52 Better Us, Better Them: Leading by Example
• 50:30 The Power of Connection and Compassion

Episode Summary:

In this engaging conversation, Dr. Jabari Whitehead, principal of Chatham Park Elementary School, shares his journey in education, emphasizing the importance of generosity, connection, and discipline in both personal and professional life. He discusses the impact of community involvement, the value of daily habits, and the courage required in leadership. Dr. Whitehead advocates for a 'better us, better them' philosophy, encouraging self-improvement to foster a positive environment for students and families. He highlights the significance of vulnerability and the power of human connection in creating a supportive school culture.

R.O.G. Takeaway Tips:

• Dr. Whitehead emphasizes the importance of seeing humanity in everyone.
• Generosity in education builds trust and community.
• Daily habits and discipline are crucial for personal growth.
• Courage and vulnerability are essential traits for effective leadership.
• The 'better us, better them' philosophy promotes self-improvement for better outcomes.
• Connection with families enhances the school community.
• Being brave, not perfect, allows for growth and learning.
• Generosity leads to a more engaged and supportive environment.
• Daily practices can create a positive school culture.
• Connection is key to a fulfilling life.

Guest Bio:

Jabari Whitehead, Ed.D. is the Principal of Chatham Park Elementary School in the Haverford School District, a husband, a father of two teenagers (Avery & Evan) and an adjunct professor at Saint Joseph’s University of Philadelphia teaching doctoral and masters level courses in Educational Leadership.

With over 20 years of experience as an educator in K-12 in Maryland, New Jersey and Pennsylvania and with 17 years in school leadership, Dr. Whitehead has spent his career dedicated to the growth of his students and community. 

Dr. Whitehead received his Doctorate in Educational Leadership from Saint Joseph’s University, Class of 2017, with a focus on Transformational Leadership and the Socio-Cognitive Theory of Self-Efficacy. His prior education includes an M.S. in Educational Leadership from Saint Joseph’s, Class of 2005, and his B.A. in Elementary Education from Cheyney University of Pennsylvania. 

Most recently Dr. Jabari Whitehead has lent his voice to the following… 

• Saint Joseph’s University Unlimited Learning Webinar Series: The Role of Mental Health in Education and Leadership (9/18/2020) 
• The Bridge Between YouTube Channel with Shannon Cassidy: Journey to Authentic Leadership (7/2/2020) 
• The Bridge Between YouTube Channel with Shannon Cassidy: M