Rooted in the Really Real

Rooted in the Really Real

Become more fully Rooted in the Really Real: God. Join friends Fr. Steven Borello and Ashley Pultorak as they share about the goodness of God, the importance of mental health, intentional relationship, prayer, discernment, and more. Our mission is to help you encounter your story and discover God’s presence within it. Come along for the journey!

Episodes

October 15, 2021 36 min

Fr. Steve and Ashley discuss the Ignatian style of prayer, in which God meets our story through an encounter in Scripture. St. Ignatius suggests a simple model of "be aware, understand, act" as a means to help us in our prayer with the Lord. 

Resource: An Ignatian Introduction to Prayer by Timothy Gallagher 

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Fr. Steve and Ashley talk about emotions, including emotional attunement, emotional regulation, and the six things every child needs from their parents. How are emotions relevant to our prayer life? Does the Church have anything to say on emotions? Take a listen to find out!

Resources: 

  • The Place We Find Ourselves Podcast by Adam Young
  • adamyoungcounseling.com/free-documents
  • Catechism of the Catholic Church
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    October 1, 2021 38 min

    Fr. Steve and Ashley discuss the different types of friendship, focusing primarily on virtuous Christian friendship. In this type of friendship, we have our eyes set on the same horizon, the same goal: heaven. How do we begin to cultivate holy, Christian friendship? 

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    Fr. Steve and Ashley end this series on Attachment Theory by discussing, where do we go from here? How do we move from an experience of an insecure attachment style to a posture of a secure attachment style? 

    Freedom is possible, growth is real. Something that’s central to growth in our journey here from the perspective of the attachment styles is finding the freedom to love and be loved.
     
    Satan wants our story to have a certain mea...

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    September 10, 2021 27 min

    Fr. Steve and Ashley talk about the disorganized attachment style, which is one of the four attachment styles within attachment theory. People who have a disorganized attachment style have a negative view of self and a negative view of others, they have a hard time believing they deserve love and that they’re worthy of love. They also don’t trust others or believe they would be willing or able to give them that love.

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    September 3, 2021 47 min

    Fr. Steve and Ashley talk about the ambivalent attachment style, which is one of the four attachment styles within attachment theory. The ambivalently attached person tends to believe “I am not worthy of love, I am not capable of getting the love I need without being angry and clingy.”

    In regards to others, they tend to believe “others are capable of meeting my needs, but might not do so because of my flaws" and "others are...

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    August 27, 2021 42 min

    Fr. Steve and Ashley talk about the avoidant attachment style, which is one of the four attachment styles within attachment theory. Those with an avoidant attachment style believe "I am worthy of love and I am capable of getting the love and support I need," however they also believe others are either unwilling or incapable of loving them because they are untrustworthy. Others are not reliable when it comes to meeting the n...

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    August 20, 2021 44 min

    Fr. Steve and Ashley talk about the secure attachment style, which is one of the four attachment styles within attachment theory. Those with a secure attachment style believe "I am worthy of love and I am capable of getting the love and support I need." There is confidence and security within their own acceptance of themselves. They also believe "others are willing and able to love me as I am." In general, they trus...

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    Fr. Steve and Ashley continue their discussion of attachment theory by looking at how our different attachment styles may affect our relationships, especially our prayer. 

    When we have an insecure attachment style, our prayer life has the potential to cause doubt or fear in us based on the unpredictability of it.  Much of our prayer turns into fighting the lie that God isn't who He says He is. Those with a secure attachment stil...

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    August 6, 2021 44 min

    We are back from our brief summer break!

    In this episode, Fr. Steve and Ashley discuss the basics of attachment theory- what it is and why it matters. This is the first episode in our new series delving into the different components of attachment theory and how our attachment style affects our relationships and prayer.

    There are four attachment styles: secure, avoidant, ambivalent, and disorganized. Much like our episodes on story ...

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    June 25, 2021 37 min

    Fr. Steve and Ashley discuss how to forgive ourselves due to past regrets, mistakes, weaknesses, or temptations and how to show ourselves mercy in these places. They also discuss the difference between guilt and shame, and how shame has an integral role in preventing our self-forgiveness and forgiveness of others.

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    June 18, 2021 45 min

    Fr. Steve and Ashley discuss forgiveness- what it is and what it is not, as well as the difference between reconciliation and forgiveness. We can only forgive by grace because Jesus forgives us first! So how do we begin to forgive? Listen for more!

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    Fr. Steve and Ashley conclude the series on identity by discussing how to reconcile the different sources of our identity in order to become our true selves. By virtue of our baptism, we can call upon the name of Jesus to help us renounce lies and claim truths related to our identity. Take a listen to learn more! 

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    Fr. Steve and Ashley continue their discussion on identity, this time looking to the areas we find our false identities that are not rooted in the Lord by asking the question, "Who does the world say that I am?" 

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    Fr. Steve and Ashley talk about the origins of our true identity, looking to the Father and asking, "who do you say that I am?" We'll be looking at two of the main areas the Lord bestows our identity upon us: Creation and Baptism.

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    Fr. Steve and Ashley talk about imagination from a Catholic perspective and the impact it has on our prayer. There is a sacramentality to our faith that comes alive through the faculty of the imagination that brings about an encounter with the Lord!

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    May 14, 2021 37 min

    Fr. Steve and Ashley continue discussing Lectio Divina, but in a new way. We can use the principles of Lectio to notice the Lord throughout our whole day. What stands out to us as we reflect on our day? What are the patterns? How does the Lord speak to us? He can speak to us through anything! Are we asking for the grace to notice Him? 

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    May 7, 2021 40 min

    Fr. Steve and Ashley talk about Lectio Divina: the Sacred Reading of Scripture and how to apply this method of prayer to our life. During Lectio we read with the heart, not only our eyes. We take some time in this episode to practice praying with a passage of Scripture using these techniques.
     
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    Fr. Steve and Ashley discuss the various expectations we may have for our prayer and the disappointments that follow, as well as how to approach sharing these with the Lord. They also talk about how to deal with distractions, boredom, and perseverance in prayer.

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    April 23, 2021 40 min

    Fr. Steve and Ashley talk about the two plans for your life: God's plan and the devil's plan. God desires relationship with us; He creates big, beautiful plans for us and wants us to thrive. However, the devil seeks out these beautiful plans and creates a forgery, seeking to discourage and deceive. 

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