In this powerful episode of Roots & Rhythm, we sit down with Cordan James Haveron (@cordanjamesspeaks) to explore what it truly means to be a man in today’s world. Together, we unpack themes of male vulnerability, the impact of the patriarchy on masculinity, and how healing from childhood trauma can lead to authentic leadership and wholeness. Cordan opens up about his experience as a transracial adoptee, navigating out-of-home care, and reclaiming his identity as a Black man adopted into a white family—forging resilience through dislocation, service, and purpose.
We dive into questions like:
- How does our upbringing shape our relationship with masculinity and power?
- What happens when we allow ourselves to be vulnerable instead of “strong all the time”?
- In what ways does the patriarchy hurt men as much as it hurts women—and how can we heal it?
- How can transracial adoptees reclaim culture, identity, and belonging in a world that often says they don’t fit?
- If you’re committed to growth, honest conversation, and the messy yet beautiful work of healing—to lead from a place of compassion, acceptance, and patience—this episode is for you.
Explore Cordan's mentorship programs, speaking engagements, story of resilience, and resources for fathers, youth, and adoptees.
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