Rudderless

Rudderless

Welcome to Rudderless, where we give rudderless advice.

Episodes

May 14, 2021 32 mins

It's our 20th episode! In our Golden Jubilee, we have a listener's audio question: what to do about physical affection & sexual desire imbalances in a relationship. Then we dive into what's fucked about "The Secret" thinking, Tai rants about Pitbull, and did we tell you how infuriating our neighbor is? But it might not be entirely her fault.

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Nathan and Tai address a listener question about distinguishing valid relationship needs from just... neediness. Are you trying to get milk from the hardware store? How do you know if you're just looking for some sweet, sweet - but ultimately ineffective - external validation? 

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April 6, 2021 41 mins

Nathan and Tai do baby feet and talk trauma, therapy, incest, rape, and cutting. 

Trigger warning: trauma, incest, rape, and cutting.

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March 27, 2021 23 mins

Nathan calls in from the road to discuss negative body image and caller questions about adult makers of adult art.

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March 18, 2021 35 mins

After trying not to swear so Nathan's mom can give Tai gardening tips, we answer questions on whether life is worth it after age 18 and what to do about a spying boyfriend.

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February 26, 2021 42 mins

This week, Nathan and Tai cover questions about relationships red flags, coping with clinginess, and college vs career.

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February 19, 2021 38 mins

This week, we answer questions on how to be done with a creative piece, standing up to a rude boss, and finding motivation for mundane and thankless tasks... 

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February 12, 2021 33 mins

Nathan and Tai discuss misogyny in podcasting and try their hand at solving questions sent to advice columnist Carolyn Hax.

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February 5, 2021 50 mins

We take on questions about creepy neighbors, dealing with criticism, and making sober friends.

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January 29, 2021 51 mins

Nathan and Tai solve many different kettles of fish this week! How to stop self-sabotage, reclaim "lazy," make kinky connections, and more.

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January 22, 2021 25 mins

We answer your questions on how much self-care is too much, thwarted love, and Tai tells a story about being the colonizer.

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January 18, 2021 34 mins

Nathan and Tai talk about what works for them when having a PTSD crisis, and what to watch in the zoo of reality TV.

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January 15, 2021 33 mins

Nathan and Tai solve what to do when your friend joins a culty MLM and how to support the queer youths in your life.

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January 12, 2021 33 mins

Nathan and Tai bash baths and discuss how to care for yourself when the outside world is going to shit.

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January 8, 2021 33 mins

Grim ways to stop shopping and how life can be different by going car-free.

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Nathan and Tai discuss ACA, SLAA, boundaries, and Facing Love Addiction.

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January 4, 2021 30 mins

Nathan and Tai can barely get through an episode - just long enough for a hearfelt PSA on vaginal elasticity and the best way to deter stalkers.

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January 3, 2021 32 mins

Tai and Nathan cover how to recognize love, the best and worst ways to break up with someone, and the steps to creating a hedonistic sexual revolution.

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January 2, 2021 27 mins

Nathan and Tai ring in the new year with two letters: car-buying and remnants from past loves.

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January 1, 2021 47 mins

Nathan and Tai take on your questions, including how place relates to depression, knowing Jason Molina, and why people aim for the status quo.

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