Rude Advice Podcast

Rude Advice Podcast

With over 320K followers on TikTok, Rudy A is a Breakup and Relationship Coach and host of the Rude Advice Podcast. He’s helped thousands move on from heartbreak with raw, real-world advice. Married at 21 and divorced after 16 years, Rudy shares hard lessons and honest insights to help you heal, rebuild, and move forward. No fluff—just straight talk to get your love life back on track.

Episodes

February 10, 2025 72 mins

Ep106— Kayle The Dating Collective

Kayle is a dating coach on TikTok that I have been following for some time and we discuss common dating struggles for men and women. Practical tips on confidence, body language, and conversation starters to help men approach women effectively.

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Ep105— Hate Goes Viral: How Social Media is Fueling Division

Since 2015, I have noticed a shift in how people communicate and behave. Meaningful conversations seem to be fading, and genuine listening has become rare. We are more divided than ever.

Social media plays a significant role in spreading hate and division. From toxic comment sections to algorithm-driven outrage, digital platforms amplify hostility, polarize communities, and...

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Ep103— Clifton Simmons Dating on the road as a comedian, looking to settle down, and almost getting robbed at gunpoint. Clifton Simmons. A true Jack of all trades in the entertainment industry, Clifton has wowed audiences with his poetry, left them holding their sides with his comedy, and enlightened people with his intelligence. The unapologetically original Clifton was even nominated “Best Comic in San Antonio” by the San Antonio...

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January 20, 2025 72 mins

Ep102— K-Ann The Travel Chick Kristiann, a 36-year-old model and self-employed designer, recently shared a viral TikTok video expressing her frustration with the dating world. In today’s episode, she reveals how an online dating scam cost her $90,000. She also talks about the qualities she believes men lack, her vision of the perfect first date, and the reasons she has decided to give up on dating. COACHING SESSIONS AND RESOURCES ...

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December 9, 2024 122 mins
Ep98— Four San Antonio women spill the tea on what men are getting *so* wrong in dating. From first-date disasters, deal-breakers, and social media, they’re dishing out unfiltered truths. If your dating life’s a mess, their brutal insights might be the wake-up call you need! Analysa- https://www.instagram.com/_analysaaa Daisy- https://www.instagram.com/ohhhdaisypetals Alejandra- https://www.instagram.com/aly_berry.24 COACHING SES...
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Ep97—In this provocative episode, we delve into the unspoken truths about what men truly crave. You will be shocked. My guest, Sweet Mystery, a spicy content creator for over 12 years, shares what she has seen firsthand. We explore relationships, intimacy, and the deeper psychology behind male desires. Again, you think you know, but you will be shocked. COACHING SESSIONS AND RESOURCES Get specific advice from Rudy about your uniq...

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November 18, 2024 96 mins

Ep95—Three local women from San Antonio share their honest and unfiltered takes on what men are getting wrong in the dating world. From cringe-worthy first dates to deal breakers, they dive deep into the most common mistakes and missed opportunities. If you’ve ever wondered why your love life isn’t going as planned, these insights might just hold the answers. Tune in for real talk, and rude advice. Kara- https://www.instagram.com/...

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November 11, 2024 13 mins

Ep93 - Why is it so hard to move on after a breakup? In today’s episode, I explain why. You’ll learn how fear of the unknown and a disrupted sense of identity play a role, along with the impact of unresolved emotions like regret and guilt. Finally, I share practical tips to help you understand these feelings and take your first steps toward healing and moving forward. COACHING SESSIONS AND RESOURCES Get specific advice from Rudy a...

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October 14, 2024 47 mins

Ep91-In this episode of the podcast, "20 Things You Shouldn't Do After a Breakup,"** we dive into common post-breakup pitfalls and how to avoid them. After a breakup, emotions run high, and it's easy to make choices that can set back your healing process. Whether you're fresh out of a relationship or supporting a friend, this episode offers helpful insights to navigate heartbreak in a healthier way.

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Ep89- Scott Erickson, a TikTok vlogger with 140k followers, shares his recent divorce journey, discussing the signs that his marriage was ending and his experiences with modern dating post-divorce.

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Get specific advice from Rudy about your unique situation and learn how to survive your divorce and create the new life you deserve. Rudy has proven there is life after divorce. Let him help you today!

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Ep88- Is it ok for your wife to dress like an escort for a girl's night out? I'll also talk about the power of temptation and how many of us will falter in its presence.

***Recorded LIVE on TIKTOK.***

COACHING SESSIONS AND RESOURCES

Get specific advice from Rudy about your unique situation and learn how to survive your divorce and create the new life you deserve. Rudy has proven there is life after divorce. Let him help yo...

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July 13, 2024 18 mins

Ep89- On July 1st, after leaving the gym I had a mini-stroke, a Transient ischemic attack (TIA). I am telling my story and sharing what I felt to spread awareness.

COACHING SESSIONS AND RESOURCES

Get specific advice from Rudy about your unique situation and learn how to survive your divorce and create the new life you deserve. Rudy has proven there is life after divorce. Let him help you today!

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June 17, 2024 69 mins

Ep85- Are you in a Toxic Relationship? At one point we've all been in one. I'll talk about the specific behaviors and patterns of a toxic relationship.

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Get specific advice from Rudy about your unique situation and learn how to survive your divorce and create the new life you deserve. Rudy has proven there is life after divorce. Let him help you today! 5 Things to Consider Before Filing for D...

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Ep84- Having gone through a divorce, I've learned some tough lessons. Today, I want to share 20 crucial topics you should discuss with your fiancé before saying "I do." Each of these issues has been a factor in ending marriages. It's essential to have these difficult conversations now, before your big day.

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EP 81- In this episode, we explore the financial reality of supporting a traditional housewife lifestyle. What annual income does a man need to sustain this arrangement, especially with two kids in the mix? Tune in as we break down the numbers and reveal what it really takes to make this dream a reality.

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May 8, 2024 35 mins

EP80 - In this pilot episode recorded back in March 2019, I sit down with one of my ex-girlfriends, Veronica, for a candid conversation. This laid the groundwork for what would later evolve into Rude Advice. Our discussion delves into the trials and tribulations of dating in your 40s, offering valuable advice for those starting over. From navigating dating profiles to sharing dating horror stories, we cover it all, even touching on...

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April 8, 2024 65 mins

Ep77- In this episode, I discuss a TikTok video of mine that has garnered 2 million views, unveiling an intriguing revelation from the comments: it seems that women often overlook the actual words being spoken. Let's dive into the evidence.

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March 29, 2024 75 mins

Ep76 - After years of swearing it off, here I am, diving back into marriage. Whether you're a first-time bride or groom, or contemplating round two, this episode is tailored just for you. Plus, I'll delve into a viral TikTok video where a wife requests to peek into her husband's phone before he heads out to work.

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Ep75- Max “Tripp” Kramer is the founder of the #1 Men’s Dating Coaching Program with 12 years of teaching men how to attract women and host of the How to Talk to Girls podcast. Today we discuss why men have given up on date. Why are men so unsuccessful with dating apps? What is the best way to start a conversation with a woman and how women select men? Coaching Sessions are now Available!

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Ep74- I'm diving into a recent viral moment on TikTok where a single mother stirred up controversy by expressing her belief that a good man would help her raise her child. However, her statement quickly attracted the ire of incels, sparking a heated debate online. Why do incels harbor such animosity towards single mothers? And what about the role of stepdads—do they fall into the category of "simps"? Join me as we exp...

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