Rude Advice Podcast

Ep 110- In this episode, Rudy, Cody, and Charles dive into community, friendship, and how sexuality and free speech are evolving in today’s digital age. With humor and honesty, they tackle racism, cancel culture, and shifting cultural norms. We also explore modern dating—hygiene, apps, incels, height expectations, sex dolls, and the economics of sex work—while unpacking double standards, cultural differences, and the importance of ...

Ep109 - In this episode, Heather Nielsen from Fight the Beast dives deep into helping men break free from porn addiction and heal sexual intimacy struggles. We unpack the “intimacy deadlock” couples get stuck in—where emotional walls and past resentments kill connection. Heather breaks down why honest conversations about sex and porn are crucial for real intimacy. Plus, we tackle the messy reality of modern dating and how technolog...

Ep108- Still stuck on your ex and wondering why you can’t move on? In this video, I break down the 5 real reasons you're emotionally stuck—and spoiler alert, it's not just because you "miss them." From unhealthy patterns to false hope, we’re cutting through the BS. Hit play if you’re ready to stop checking their page and start getting your life back.

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Ep107— After a breakup or divorce, it’s important to heal before jumping back into the dating scene. This episode explores 10 key signs that indicate you’re emotionally, mentally, and practically ready to start dating again, from self-confidence to letting go of past baggage. Whether you’re unsure or just need reassurance, this guide will help you navigate the transition with clarity and confidence.

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Ep106— Kayle The Dating Collective

Kayle is a dating coach on TikTok that I have been following for some time and we discuss common dating struggles for men and women. Practical tips on confidence, body language, and conversation starters to help men approach women effectively.

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Ep105— Hate Goes Viral: How Social Media is Fueling Division

Since 2015, I have noticed a shift in how people communicate and behave. Meaningful conversations seem to be fading, and genuine listening has become rare. We are more divided than ever.

Social media plays a significant role in spreading hate and division. From toxic comment sections to algorithm-driven outrage, digital platforms amplify hostility, polarize communities, and...

Ep104— Daniella Asher In this powerful episode, I sit down with Dani Laeasher, a courageous woman who escaped the grip of an abusive and violent relationship. She shares her harrowing journey—from the subtle red flags in the beginning to the escalating danger that made her realize she had to leave. 🔊 Listen now and be inspired by a story of strength, courage, and survival. COACHING SESSIONS AND RESOURCES Get specific advice from ...

Ep103— Clifton Simmons Dating on the road as a comedian, looking to settle down, and almost getting robbed at gunpoint. Clifton Simmons. A true Jack of all trades in the entertainment industry, Clifton has wowed audiences with his poetry, left them holding their sides with his comedy, and enlightened people with his intelligence. The unapologetically original Clifton was even nominated “Best Comic in San Antonio” by the San Antonio...

Ep102— K-Ann The Travel Chick Kristiann, a 36-year-old model and self-employed designer, recently shared a viral TikTok video expressing her frustration with the dating world. In today’s episode, she reveals how an online dating scam cost her $90,000. She also talks about the qualities she believes men lack, her vision of the perfect first date, and the reasons she has decided to give up on dating. COACHING SESSIONS AND RESOURCES ...

Ep101— Divorce Attorney Dennis Vetrano In this episode, divorce attorney Dennis Vetrano shares insights on common questions surrounding the divorce process. With a focus on clarity and compassion, Vetrano provides practical advice for navigating the emotional and legal complexities of ending a marriage. COACHING SESSIONS AND RESOURCES Get specific advice from Rudy about your unique situation and learn how to survive your divorce a...

Ep100— 10 Reasons Why Your Ex Is Contacting You In this episode, I dive into the surprising and often confusing reasons why your ex keeps reaching out. From unresolved emotions and lingering guilt to seeking validation or even boredom, we uncover the psychology behind their behavior. Tune in to explore ten common motives, how to interpret their actions, and what it means for your journey to closure. COACHING SESSIONS AND RESOURCES...

Ep97—In this provocative episode, we delve into the unspoken truths about what men truly crave. You will be shocked. My guest, Sweet Mystery, a spicy content creator for over 12 years, shares what she has seen firsthand. We explore relationships, intimacy, and the deeper psychology behind male desires. Again, you think you know, but you will be shocked. COACHING SESSIONS AND RESOURCES Get specific advice from Rudy about your uniq...

Ep96—Breakups are tough, but handling them the right way can lead to growth and healing. In this video, we share 5 essential tips for men to navigate the heartbreak, rebuild confidence, and come out stronger on the other side. Whether you're struggling with emotions, looking for ways to move on, or trying to rediscover yourself, this video is here to help. 💪 COACHING SESSIONS AND RESOURCES Get specific advice from Rudy about your...

Ep95—Three local women from San Antonio share their honest and unfiltered takes on what men are getting wrong in the dating world. From cringe-worthy first dates to deal breakers, they dive deep into the most common mistakes and missed opportunities. If you’ve ever wondered why your love life isn’t going as planned, these insights might just hold the answers. Tune in for real talk, and rude advice. Kara- https://www.instagram.com/...

Ep94 - The end of a marriage can be a painful realization, but there are certain signs that indicate the relationship might be beyond repair. Recognizing these signs can help you decide what steps to take next. Here are 12 signs that your marriage is over. COACHING SESSIONS AND RESOURCES Get specific advice from Rudy about your unique situation and learn how to survive your divorce and create the new life you deserve. Rudy has pr...

Ep93 - Why is it so hard to move on after a breakup? In today’s episode, I explain why. You’ll learn how fear of the unknown and a disrupted sense of identity play a role, along with the impact of unresolved emotions like regret and guilt. Finally, I share practical tips to help you understand these feelings and take your first steps toward healing and moving forward. COACHING SESSIONS AND RESOURCES Get specific advice from Rudy a...

Ep92—In today's episode, I want to give a special shout-out to DiFranco WC, a follower from Facebook, who asked me a powerful question: "How did you learn to trust again?" He added, "I can cope with the pain and loss, but my ability to trust a woman again feels shattered." It's an excellent question, and let's be real—it’s a tough one. But I’m here to share 9 tips that personally helped me rebuild trust, and I promise they can do t...