You Don't Know BNWO

King Dom is a Black Sex positive, Kink & BDSM promoter and practioner. On the Mon app and other platforms, he has been able to use audio erotica to connect with people over Black Kink as well as controversial topics like The BNWO. In this special, learn about The BLACK New World Order, a safe space for all BLACK Kinksters, Fetish Enthusiasts, Lifestylers, and anyone curious about BDSM and Kink to be themselves without judgment or scrutiny from anyone.

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Episode Transcript

(00:00):
Warning, the following program is not for the weak-hearted
those who are close minded. When General, you're scared to
learn. What's behind closed.
Doors here at sapphires are play.
I want you to pour the wine. Grab somebody that you want to
hold onto or better yet. Get the vibration stimulated
through your body. Get ready for one, hell of an
eargasm in five, four, three, two, one, what is up?

(00:26):
All you sexy motherfuckers out there in radioland it's your
girls Sapphire. Fire back again, with another
special episode. And a lot of you have been
asking me, like, is this show really just back on its regular
every Sunday you're dropping an episode.
Absolutely not. I just have a lot of specials
that I want to draw up occasionally, because I don't
want to leave y'all hanging. So without further Ado, I want

(00:49):
to introduce you to a very, veryspecial moans, Stir of mine.
Yes. From the mon app goes by the
name Kingdom. Let me just say this right now,
this man is in Ugh negro as we speak.
This man has a ninja mask on with his headphones as if I've
never seen his pretty face. But that doesn't mean y'all on

(01:10):
the internet have seen his pretty face, but you may have
seen his videos. You might have heard of him on
the phone app, your kingdom. And of course, your kingdom on
Instagram and Twitter. Without further Ado Kingdom,
welcome to are Flay What's Poppin?
What's cracking? What's shaking, what's going on?

(01:30):
Miss Sapphire, if you nasty, what can I say that here?
Oh yes, you can. Yes, you can, okay?
Yeah, Miss sapphi. If you nest, because I'm also a
mother fucking nasty. My black got his Queen.
I love talking to you. I'm so honored to be here, like,
this is dope. I've been looking forward to
this for a minute without further incident, you know,

(01:52):
introduced introduction. I'm over here, getting star
stuck. As I'm looking at this beautiful
black. Woman right now.
But, um, my name is Kingdom, also known as the voice of the.
BMW also known as your God, kingdom is my official title and
handle. I am a black kingster Pro Dom
Kink and devious enemy whose years sex-positive podcast

(02:15):
holster. And again, the CEO of the BMW of
brand which was speaking about alittle bit later today.
My partner go go AKA Saint Sarahfor.
Are known as go go. Fuck me.
We've come together. And we've been building this
amazing amazing experience for alot of different people.
And we've been making a lot of strides.
So there's going to be good to be able to talk about all that

(02:37):
here on this sapphires ear play.Oh my goodness.
Oh, I should have given you a forewarning.
This man has a very sexy voice, very sexy voice, I mean.
So apparently according to y'all, I do, you know I'm
saying, sometimes I'm like, but yeah.
I can't, I can't pour it on a little bit.

(02:58):
I try not to all the time but, you know, depending on how you
feeling, I might have to feel I'm saying, but that's neither
here. Nor there were here to be kind
of like normal for the most part, even though I'm Incognito
normal. What is motherfucking normal?
Okay, let me tell you Dom. There's nothing normal about
sapphires are play, and that's why this is why I wanted to

(03:19):
bring you on because one, we're closing out Black History Month
with you and you heard the only black guess this month.
Shame on me. But you know what, you know, it
doesn't get much better with me,you know, that's black
representation, you know, so I understand, but it's okay, like,
people understand there's a legacy to be made and this is a
topic that I've never touched upon and finding the right

(03:44):
candidate to talk about. This took a long time until I
met you. And I got to know you through
the mon app and say, you know, you have very outspokenly spoken
about this life. If style because this is what it
is, but right, you know, it's a touchy subject and we're talking
about be NWO black New World Order.

(04:05):
Now, when I was doing my research because I never do
sapphires, are play with awesomeresearch.
Would anger me so much is that when I'm looking at topics
surrounding black sex, there's not a lot of Statistics to be
had with black sex. When you look at it, there's not
a soul study that you can find on black sexuality, besides
talking about the The urbanization of sexuality

(04:30):
talking about HIV 8. You know, all that STDs and STIs
when we want to talk about BMW. Oh how was it?
Founded, you know, the foregrounds what happened was
like, what are the origins? That's where it becomes a little
vague. So according to Urban
Dictionary, black New World Order is a fetish tastic term

(04:52):
related to BDSM specifically race play.
Wearing black Supremacy all overraces, especially white is
fetishize. It may incorporate other fetish
and King plays such as cuckolding to see Play Beauty.
C Alpha Beta erotic, humiliationplay etc, etc.
But then we go on to you the website that you and go go.

(05:14):
Fuck me, have revamped and revised.
You guys talked about it being an exclusive lifestyle, Society
of black fin Dom's cash that cast Masters.
Uphold the hierarchy of reddish face race fetish place.
So let's get into that. Yep, let's talk about it.

(05:35):
So when you originally hear about BMW, oh, right, you're
usually hearing about the fantasies, the thoughts, and the
imagination that comes from non-heterosexual black men more
times than not, right? And keyword non-heterosexual.

(05:56):
Black men. So, usually, these are white men
who have some type of interracial fantasy.
We know that interracial, just so I give you a little bit
better, right? We know that interracial is one
of the most searched porn genresout there.
If you look on any search enginewhether it's a porn search

(06:16):
engine, or not interracial is going to be one of those High
hitting things. I think is probably third or if
not s to stuff like hot step. Sister or stuff like that or
even mom and son, right? And that's a whole other thing.
But originally was being wo before we bought the rights to

(06:37):
the brand name, right to the black New World Order, there
were no black people really putting out the narrative.
So a lot of the stuff that you're seeing is not even a
representation of that black superiority, that's supposed to
be the highlight. And when go go, originally came
to me and she was like, I want to By being wo, she didn't even

(06:57):
tell me that she wanted to. This is literally how that
conversation went Dom. What's up?
Go go. I bought being wo.
What I bought being wo and I'm like so you, you mean you bought
the black new world? Oh yes.
I bought the NWO. Okay, let's even dived back a
little deeper. So the fact is going wo, when

(07:21):
would you say this term came about?
Because I have always heard about But I never really knew
about it. Other than the fact that I, when
I did hear about it, especially entering now we're talking 2010
2012, and I'm starting out in, you know, the adult side of
entertainment. You know, I always heard it as a

(07:43):
negative connotation with white people fetishizing.
Black people wanting to overpower us in a sense but
still at the same time praises and I'm like, well fuck that
little bit of topping from the bottom, right?
Yes, you definitely gives that. So I think that, you know,
that's kind of like when it became popularized.
I in my personal opinion, I feellike this is always been

(08:07):
something that white people havehad a fantasy about.
And if you look at historical references, right?
Even cuckolding has a lot of hisracial historic implications
based on stuff like Bull BuckingBull breaking the how the The
Mistress of the house. Having her quote, unquote Bulls

(08:29):
ravaged her and all this stuff even white men being involved
with black field slave or hand sleeves.
Right? So there's always been some type
of taboo about interracial engagement.
That's one thing that this country has to understand, this
is always been a fabric of the foundation of this country, but

(08:51):
now more. So when we get into a more
liberated space, like around 20,Ten.
I feel like the internet really kind of had that.
Boom Tumblr was a really big push for a lot of this.
This is where a lot of people were creating the captions or
the content that a lot of y'all are familiar with, right?
But again, this wasn't black people making this content.

(09:13):
This is, you know, white dudes that are inside their house.
Maybe they are non-binary, maybethey're fluid, maybe they are
gay, maybe they're bisexual, whatever their orientation is.
They're able to express that they have this feeling right.
And in the Kink in taboo, as I've come to find out there
really isn't that much of a moral standpoint.

(09:34):
And that's very subjective to depending on who you're talking
to their people on the extreme of the friends where they don't
give a fuck about any type of more.
But then you have the people whoare, very concerned, very
reserved on the friends, and they are very much, so upholding
all morals. And even then, I think sometimes
to the detriment of King can be tedious and because now you're
stifling just like outside in the vanilla.

(09:56):
World. So I think the balance has
always been like understanding as well as acknowledgement of
this might be deemed wrong for certain people, but under this
practice or under this consensual practice, which we'll
get into in a second with consensual ethical race.
Play sir a term that I'm coiningand making sure that I put out
there that it's all about being able to pick and choose whether

(10:19):
or not you want to participate. And that's where I feel like it
takes off of that offensive undertone or Or, you know, under
tasting it, cuts it to the pointwhere now you just have
something that's a little bit more palatable, a little bit
more easily digested. That way you can now have that
within you. So to go back to what you were

(10:39):
saying as far as where did the stem from.
I think again, in to answer it directly, I think it's always
been something that America has had, but we've never really had
the open opportunity to talk about it until the internet came
around. And when the internet came
around, that's when it kind of came like a free-for-all of
who's going to add to. So one of the major things and

(11:02):
not to get too ahead of anythingbut one of the major things that
we decided right at the very beginning was we are going to
change the narrative. But what is that narrative going
to be? And we simplified it by saying
black unity and black sexual, Freedom are going to be our main
focal point. Because again, we know what the
people that are attracted to this, right?

(11:24):
And again, we're being very honest more.
So, X, non black people, white people more.
So not have some type of fetish for black skin.
We see it in the fetishization of black blaxploitation film.
Something that you spoke about inside 24 horror, which really
opened my eyes to just how deep the entertainment realm of

(11:45):
things go, when it comes to this, and this is entertainment,
right? But just like with horror and I
think that's one of the reasons why that show was so profound on
Mona by, shout out to all our monsters and our Mona.
As you know what I'm saying? She has the monsters.
I have them owners are Partners momomo non a great app, that's
my boy kill you know he is created a great place for people

(12:07):
like myself and the sapphire be able to come and have these
conversations and to be able to finally do that as black people
to be able to express what we truly feel without any what's
the word I'm looking for withoutany bias or unbalanced of like
judge me if you have to watch what Saying, yeah.
Thanks like that's such a liberating thing.

(12:29):
We don't have a lot of places like that.
So again, BMW oh, when we came in contact with it and we came
up with this idea of rebranding,it, it really was making it a
safe space for all black people.You know, whether you are
liberal, conservative, extremistpacifist, whatever, the case may
be, if you're black right and we're championing black

(12:50):
superiority, we got to make it so that you as a black person
whether or not you're heterosexual your Bisexual,
you're homosexual, you know, androgynous, whatever the case
may be, we don't now have to have that divided of, I'm black,
but I'm this, it's, I'm black, you're black wear black, we're
Superior in this instance and that's all that matters.

(13:14):
You deserve the respect, you deserve the love and admiration
that you want, and you shouldn'thave to compromise that it
within your own Community as well.
So to fully answer it for us being wo is more.
So A response to the fence ization of black people but also
the unspoken discourse that happens amongst black people.

(13:34):
Let's get into that discourse. Let's talk about it.
I feel that personally you know you and I were both gangsters I
would say I'm a baby kingster because you know I'm not a pain.
Slow whatsoever, right? You know I my threshold is real
light but at the same time, you know, as I've spoken to you on

(13:55):
Mon In off. Are you know, personally for me
when I go to Kink parties with my wife partner, I do feel that
sometimes the white gaze comes over to my way and it's more.
So of, I'm on the menu, I'm no longer a person.
It's oh, there goes that chocolate sister walking in.

(14:17):
Let me see if I can worship her.And for me, that's kind of
fucking weird because I don't respond to that.
I don't respond to Two white people fetishizing.
My skin very well, it makes me feel personally.
It's a triggering thing race play in general, is very
triggering for me because it just brings me back to a point

(14:41):
where I am no longer a person. I am just the color of my skin.
I have no other qualities characteristics.
It's just black black skin equals Jezebel.
We've heard these terms. We heard these terms Mandingo
bull even in like you said, withcuckolding.

(15:02):
It's like, I even kind of have my own biases until the monad
and learning more from these, you know, cuckold races and cock
holds in these various differentrelationships and I'm like, holy
shit. This is really like polyamory.
So, how with you? Yeah and how with you know, BMW.
Oh, you're trying to reclaim thethe Justices through

(15:26):
fetishization because that's what it is.
It's a disadvantage. I feel that personally, it is
still a touchy subject because it's like how can we as black
people as united front? Make our folks feel more safe
thinking spaces when we go to sex parties, when we go to my
church and stuff like that because right, I hate being one

(15:50):
of maybe two if I'm lucky. Right, right, I hate that.
And so to answer that this and again, this is something that we
like spent extensive amount of time on trying to figure out
like, what's the best way to go about this?
And to be quite honest, there's no one answer that fits all
because it's such a complex situation.

(16:12):
But for me, I think addressing self-accountability.
And when I say that what I mean is understanding that we as
black people have to start it before, we can expect anybody
else to know. So when you do go, and I've
definitely felt the exact same that you felt going to certain
events certain Suarez parties, whatever the case may be, and

(16:33):
being one of the not, if not, the only black man in the room,
you do kind of lose a sense of your Humanity because you are
looked at as a piece of meat, not just by the people that you
might want to interact with but by everybody and that's a very
off-putting thing. But I'll even say this even more
which is more startling to me than that, right?
Because we can kind of expect that based on our black

(16:55):
experience of growing up in living a black life, but more so
than not. I feel like we faced more
scrutiny. That we don't want to talk about
within our own Community. Because just, as much as we are
fetishized by white people, we are also fetishized by our own
black people, our own people of color but we never want to say

(17:19):
it because now we're acknowledging that we have a
little bit of ownership that hasto Promote this and that's a
black man, especially right, cause we're talking about that
Dynamic. This is part in my opinion.
This is part of the reason why black men and black, women have
so much discourse because if we are supposed to be the leaders,
and we keep bringing this talking point up, and we're not

(17:40):
leading by example, how can we then expect people to follow us,
right? Not to maintain.
Let's, let's keep it all the way100 when it comes to and I wish
Keaton was on On this, his he would jump on it.
And immediately my boy key, not out to get you.
I love that boy. But like I truly truly feel.

(18:03):
There's also a disconnect when we talk about, you know, black
superiority, black superiority, and black sexuality.
Within our own Community is how we treat the lgbtq+ community
and that was another Point without, you know, with being
black. Because we treat them, we treat
people like myself as the weirdos All right, and now

(18:26):
they're they're outcasts is so much.
So In This Very is very, very solet the to take it here, right?
And because again, we're talkingabout race play.
We're talking about inclusion, we're talking about Unity.
Black love is the main focal point, so I'll start there.
I don't see how we can say that.We are pro black and that's one
of our are calling parts, right?We're pro.

(18:48):
Black, everything anti. Nothing anti nobody.
We're not out here saying that white people are bad that they
need to be white. Both face of the Earth.
That was the white rhetoric, theright, and the white narrative
that was put out all of those times on Tumblr, and that's what
people have associated with the BMW.
Or with be again, I understand it and I'm not even chastising,

(19:10):
because if white people are going to do it and they're going
to run with it, let them run with it.
But if we don't do anything to say, hey, this is black
superiority and black people that aren't or white people that
aren't even Superior in this whole fantasy or whatever you
want to call it. Lifestyle are running things.
That's a little bit contradictory, right?
That's a little bit hypocriticalso we have to take advantage but

(19:33):
in doing that right. We also have to Now understand
the complexity of the black experience in sexuality.
As you said, you know we do treat like our lgbtq brothers
and sisters and at one point in time I was guilty of this not
being able to empathize with them and this is why I love
keeping I'm glad that you brought him up because one of my

(19:53):
first conversations on Mon was with him and just in able to do
that like he helped me break down all those other
reservations and barriers that Ihad and also rightfully so
because let's be real. Sometimes our own people are the
traumatic people that we need toheal from It's not even the
other folks that we're talking about.

(20:13):
We love talking about them. But again, I'm a big personal
self-accountability first if I'mif I'm hurt as a black man as a
heterosexual, black man, and I feel that I've been hurt by my
gay and lgbtq brothers for not respecting the fact that I'm
being respectful of them, I'm always going to lash out.
And then we have this never-ending cycle of self-hate

(20:36):
black on black crime, which doesn't necessarily have to
equate to violence. It's just the way that we talk
about each other the way that wetreat each other.
So I'm on if I'm on the defense all the time because I don't
want to go to another uncomfortable situation, I'm
never going to be able to connect and also same thing for
you as a black, lgbtq member whether a queer, female gay

(20:58):
black man, bisexual transsexual.Whatever the case may be, if
you're always operating from a place of hurt, which a lot of us
black people are, we're never going to be able to come
together Absol. One of our biggest things, this
is unity of black people and then every black person whether
you are trans, whether you are non non binary, non gender,

(21:18):
conforming gender-fluid pansexual androgynous,
everything under the sun as longas you are black and black
identifying as a person of colorbecause that's a whole nother
conversation which we will get into on this interview as well.
But you got to be willing to acknowledge and respect people
that look like you first if you want other people to do it.

(21:39):
And that's Really, what this whole thing is about is being
able to make that safe space notjust for black heterosexual
couples but for black lesbian couples black, lgbtq couples
black, Trans couples and everything in between because we
don't have a place to go and we're stronger.
If we unite and accept everybodyor at least we make the attempt,

(22:02):
because that's another thing too.
We realize that we can't accept everybody.
We realize that, not everybody can be saved because they choose
To not want to be say. So in that instance, what are we
supposed to do? Well, as long as we're making
the attempt to say, you have a place to come, if you choose to
be here because one of our biggest rules is that all black

(22:24):
people are equal but especially the black male and the black
female, whether that is their natural, their natural
phenotype. If I'm correct.
And if I'm not pleased, you know, correctly or if that is
what they choose to identify as right, either way.
You're still equal. I would say, I would like to
say, that's a yes, but we have seen it all too often.

(22:47):
They were black men, do not protect all black women.
Just like you've seen in vice versa.
Black women do not protect all black Mane.
And again, it brings it back to lgbtq+ community.
If a brother finds out that a woman is trans, she is no longer
a woman, she is no longer black,right?

(23:10):
She's just there. Nothing.
That's what they, that's what they are.
We've seen it all too often in the comments.
That's why for me, whatever likeshade room or Hollywood unlock,
they have stories on the lgbtq+ community.
I kind of have to like not looking comments because the

(23:30):
comments are fucking like, you want to talk about weird, the
comments are fucking beard and it just talk about it.
It's the same reflection. When you talk about being wo,
It's like I see you. I'm now listening and I'm
hearing, I'm reciprocating it, I'm receiving it and I would
like the BMW OT even just kind of make a front on on that type

(23:52):
of shit because it shouldn't just stop at the race play.
It needs to start. Definitely, it needs to expand
out everything because the problem is that's what we are
the problems, I'm sorry. Yeah, I'm happy to say, we are
the problem, right? But see that's the first step to
Eliminating the problem, you have to address, it would have

(24:13):
to address, you can't beat around the bush and more times
than not. As I said, we like to deflect.
We like to put the responsibility on other people.
In some of it is warranted. It is just but it means
absolutely nothing if we can't take accountability for
ourselves that, right? So like you said in the
comments, when black men are attacking and that let's just

(24:36):
call it what it is when black men are attacking black.
People who are not a fab right assigned, female at birth.
That's an attack on black peopleperiod because you never know,
and here's the other thing, right?
And again, learn this from keeping, you never know what
another black man who is gay, how he feels about your

(24:57):
heterosexual activity, and your willingness to exploit it in his
face, right? Just like how you don't want him
talking about what he does in his personal.
Like, maybe he doesn't want to hear about you, doing what you
do in your personal life with a woman.
Actly. But if you if you, if you're not
willing to hear that, you never will any bring, it's such a big
fact. But also, I even say it in

(25:17):
general, when people get mad at any type of gay imagery.
I'm like, well, what makes you think as gay people?
We want to see the straight agenda 24/7 because that shit is
writing down our throat 24/7. But then people will sit here
and say what street agenda. When there is factual evidence

(25:37):
that there has been a straight agenda and a lot of that Great
agenda is called religion. But we don't like talking about
that. Why?
Because again, here's the complexity of black people here
in America, right? And I use black as a unifying
term because you can use melon ated, you can use diaspora,
whatever the case may be, these are all experiences that we can

(26:01):
tap into simply, because we are born with this Mela nation and
our skin. It's a unifying thing.
If you really think about all black people across the world,
whether they are from Africa, the Caribbean, the UK, Asia
Australia, North America and so on and so forth.
It's the same thing because we are all melon ated.

(26:23):
The world looks at us the same way, right?
And this is the the uncomfortable thing about races
that you have to face the facts.There are going to be some
people that will only see you asa black person.
They will not see you as a person.
They will see you as a black person.
And then what they associate black to being as far as good.
Because remember, there was a huge point in time, within this

(26:44):
Western Hemisphere where black was considered bad, even still
to this. Eight, right?
The terminology is known, like it's not necessarily a good
thing. Why does supposed to be Pure
White is supposed to be. Holy black is supposed to be,
you know, sacrilegious and things of that nature.
Demonic we desert using those comparisons of like, they're one
of the good ones regardless of race.

(27:05):
I mean, the only operating that shit.
Exactly. Even just, so even in King City
face and it keeps going deeper. But here's the thing, the more,
as I said, the more that we're not willing to to address where
some of these things stem from now, then makes it harder for us
to move forward. We stay in this repetitive cycle

(27:26):
in your, seeing it more and moreand more now on the internet
because more and more and more people are now.
Speaking about this openly, it'sjust never been spoken about.
So, yeah, it might seem like we're having the same
conversation over and over again, but really pay attention
to who's having conversation. Is it the same person talking
about it all the time? Or are they bringing new people

(27:46):
into the fold? And they are just Finally,
getting their voice to come out.And this is another thing about
black people, we stifle our own voices.
We don't like, allowing our Black Pete, cuz here's the
thing, right? Going back to male men and women
just to, just to simplify it forright now, whether or not they
are trying to have interpersonalrelationships, just gender roles

(28:08):
in general, right? It's such a big talking point
within the black community, but for so long, we weren't even
able to determine our own genderroles.
Within our own relationships, are within our own households
for such a long time. So, when you refuse to
acknowledge the historical, Context of these things, you're
always going to have that problem but now moving forward

(28:30):
into a time where we can have more open conversations, a lot
of people just have to get out the angst in the frustration
that they've always kept pint in.
And the internet is a place where you can speak freely,
right? But just as you speak freely
people, freely have the choice to either agree with you or
disagree with you. It's not a bad thing.

(28:51):
If we have a difference of opinion.
But with what BMW, I was trying to promote Now is tolerance.
I don't have to agree with you. I don't have to be on the same
page as you, we're not monolithic as black people, we
have a huge diversity within ourown black community, right?
But that doesn't mean that I nowneed to alienate you because you

(29:14):
have a difference of opinion, because you don't necessarily
like race play for your Myriad of reasons.
I don't now have to shame you orbelittle you or talk down to
you, right? Just the same way that you do.
Have to do that to me because I'm into race foot, but you
again, it can be so simple but we choose not to.
We make the choice of, I have todifferentiate my black is

(29:37):
different than your black, even with people from the motherland
and people from the Caribbean. And let's say like the UK, they
don't identify as black, right? Because of their own reasons.
Now, do I take that as a ffensive or do I say you know
what, you have a different set of cultural rules that you must
have. To let me find common ground

(29:58):
with you irregardless. Let me tolerate the fact that
you don't identify as black, butlet me find that common ground
that way we can unify and comingtogether, it can be very simple,
but more times than not, be complicated.
And it's mostly because we we feel the need to prove that we
are black enough. You see how you see how like

(30:19):
oxymoron all this shit is like, we believe that certain people
aren't black enough, but we always gotta prove that we're
black. Enough.
And then when we get highlightedfor the fact that we are black,
it's uncomfortable because oh shit, it's a white person saying
that they love the fact that we're black.
Boom. So like for black people, where
is happiness supposed to be? Like, where are you supposed to
get peace of mind? We're going to gonna me, we're

(30:41):
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So shout out to Dipsy for that but oh my gosh.
So before we took that break, Dom was really just laying out
there and it is so is so so true.
It is so true. When we're trying to find our

(32:38):
identity in these spaces that itgets lost in the sauce
especially amongst our own because the game the judgment is
truly real and rain. It brings it back.
Back to, who do we hold accountable for these actions.
Why do you keep letting each other?
Terry Puffs are each other apartessentially, so that other races

(32:58):
see this? And they're like, oh well how
are we going to take them seriously if they can't even
take them, they can't write, youknow, and even just like,
bringing it back to, you know, sexuality and bringing in the
BMW. Oh, I'm now getting a better
understanding. That, what you are trying to do
again is to change the narrativewhen it comes to race play it
does. It's not going to work for me

(33:19):
because again, I have my Hang-Ups on Embrace play.
Yeah, the one to the next, but Ido understand that from people
like yourself, like lady and akhanda, anaconda.
And who else? Have we spoken to go, go, go,
go. And oh, my God, your homie.
That's also a dong You told my girl.

(33:43):
Yes, Pharaoh, Pharaoh Cooks Matchmaker.
Yes talking to you know, to talking to folks like y'all.
It's like I do see the empowerment that you're trying
to make. I do see the fact that the white
people in these spaces, lady Anaconda is white.
There were some things recently that came up about her where I'm
like, I'm gonna have to get on ear play and maybe have to be

(34:05):
like, girl, I don't know what I can get with all this.
But I understand that she is trying to amplify black voices
in her own space. Now, write the whole caring seed
in in all that I think that's a little bit too far only because

(34:25):
it stems from a child cannot give consent, who was not born
right to be exposed to that. But I understand that you were
trying to normalize a culture where in a racial relations the
end up. Babies cause fully accepted,
right? But it also brings it back to my

(34:46):
biggest fear is when white people enter a space that is
predominantly black, okay? And they say that, they're all
for us that they're gonna go ride the waves with us.
We've seen this, we've seen thisoutside of King spaces with
George Floyd and you know the rest of the BLM movement and I
say that very lightly because let's face it BLM has had its

(35:09):
own problems. Within the organization.
But when we're talking about, you know, racial Injustice when
it comes to our black brothers and sisters and we have white
people that are like, okay, whatcan we do to help?
What can we do to amplify? But y'all only do it for 2.5 S,
right? And then you want to bring it to

(35:30):
the sex aspect but when the sex is done, we don't fucking matter
anymore. So how does that differentiate
with the NWO? So as you said right there
there's the uncontrollable aspect of people are going to do
whatever, they feel like they are going to write.

(35:50):
And I think what we have figuredout is that There are some
people that are just here for the Kink, right?
We cannot change their mind, no matter what, we bring to let
them enjoy the Kink, let us profit off of that.
And then, let's allocate what wehave profited from that
exploitation that they feel thatthey're getting on us, right?

(36:12):
We're using that to now Elevate promote and help re-educate the
people that are willing to listen.
So, as you said, there are some white people who are like, hey,
I want to help I want to amplify.
I want to build I Want to support and they mean that they
want to do it 24/7. But eight times out of ten, I
think what happens is they don'thave a space to go to.

(36:34):
They don't have people that theycan rely to to go to the tell
them how to be consistent. It's different for us because we
live, it 24/7. So we can automatically off the
top of our heads. We can all come up with 10
different reference points that white people need to go, right?
But I had to think about this for myself, I can never put
myself. And white person's shoes.

(36:56):
I don't live that experience. I don't understand what it means
to be white. I can speculate but even still.
I don't I don't have that recollection.
But what I can do now is if it were the reverse, right?
If I want to learn more about them, I can hang out with them
more but I'm not trying to impose my thought process and I
think that's what happens in a lot of black spaces, where white

(37:18):
people come in, they want to impose their view point and
which, which again can be warranted.
But when it's a black space, if you, and one thing that I've
been able to do with Black Expressions on the mon app, is
create that dialogue of we're going to highlight, only the
black voices for the first hour,you can come up and you can add

(37:40):
to the conversation after you sit down and listen to what a
black person's actually going through.
That could actually feel that keyword is listen.
Okay, the keyword is listening, right?
Because now, Are forced to do so, but in doing that, we've
been able to now open people's eyes to so much.

(38:01):
Like we got people like MC mistress, K Scarlet, you know,
all of our beautiful people on the phone app, right?
And this is the beautiful thing about it.
People are there to listen more times than not, they may have
questions, but that those questions are really more.
So about how do I get more directions on where to go on?
How to ask these questions? Or how do I even carry myself?

(38:23):
How do I become? I'm aware and sometimes
self-awareness is something thatwe take for granted that we
think everybody has self-awareness is a gift.
A lot of people do not have thatgift.
A lot of people have the potential to have it but a lot
of people don't want to sit downand work on it because you have
to be able to empathize and if you aren't capable of doing
that, you can never fully understand or even listen, to a

(38:47):
person that has a different experience than you.
But I think, also, one thing that we do with the BMW always,
we vet people, And we see how important some of these aspects
are like, is this just a sexual thing for you or is this more of
a lifestyle come for you? And I've come in contact with a
whole bunch of people but I think we all know from our own
experience. If you have, been able to have

(39:09):
experiences with white people outside of your community or
outside of your immediate environment, you, you are able
to kind of start recognizing when someone has a little bit of
that unspoken Truth, for lack ofa better term.
All right, so they might be like, hey, you know, I'm all for
you. I'm all for you.
But when push comes to shove, orwhen there's a real serious

(39:30):
topic, you hear the truth. Come out of them.
You get what I'm saying? We hear that even with our own
black people, right? And that's not again, to point
the finger at anybody exclusively, it's just showing
the comparison that we are more similar than we give ourselves
credit for. But also, we have to acknowledge
that. There is a difference and why
there is a difference. So going into something like, in

(39:54):
a Racial marriage interracial dating an interracial
childbearing. That's a very sensitive subject,
right? But I think more so especially
getting into which you mentionedwith Lady Anaconda.
We see this a lot with celebrities right?
Celebrities kind of put their children on consensually in the

(40:15):
public eye, right? And they do it for a myriad of
reasons. So I'm not going to speak on
lady anacondas situation per se because I I am, I am involved
with her and I am close with her.
We have spoken on many occasionsand this is no disrespect.
This is you simple. Observation by a door, the woman
it was just more sort of like, whoa, okay, right.

(40:37):
But again, this is a, this is a talking point, right?
And again, just because we're talking about it, right?
Doesn't mean that we're belittling it the valuing it or
even chastise demonizing. But, you know, for clarification
for the people that try to nitpick him like, oh, no,
they're talking about this. But yeah, you know, you gotta do
that, right? I'm like, damn it.
I'm injury prevention. So, everything that I do is to

(40:58):
make sure like, look, if you tryto sit here and say that I was
saying this, I definitely gave me gonna go ahead.
But with that being said, I think that women like lady
Anaconda. There are very rare type of
people because they acknowledge their part before anything else.

(41:18):
And this is why I admire the I've been following her for
years. I've never, once really seen
her, you know, kind of like shunresponsibility.
Put the blame on other people. I've only seen her promote what
she believes and she believes inthe BMW.
Oh, right. She believes in Black Supremacy

(41:39):
and how it relates to her, as opposed to.
This is what it is. And this is how it should be
because I'm saying that it's thecase.
A lot of people take that privilege and and sometimes it
is White Privilege, right? Because you guys have privilege
at the end of the Let's be real when you take that white
privilege and say I'm going to do something just because I can

(41:59):
that's like the ultimate slap inthe face because we know that
you can do stuff because you canexactly the whole point.
But when you have someone like lady Anaconda that singly, I'm
not doing this because I can't I'm doing this because I feel
like it's right. And here are the reasons why I
feel like this, right? And she's able to back it up
with some type of evidence. I can only appreciate that
because that such a rare thing to get from that side

(42:22):
accountability, right? As I said before, For something
that we harp on that, we sometimes have a problem with
but we demand from everybody else so when you finally do get
it you have a choice. Are you going to acknowledge it?
And then build with that build understanding, build a bridge
and then come together? Or are you going to just ignore
it which tends to happen with black men?

(42:43):
When were talking about the lgbtq experience trans women
women in general? Right.
We choose to ignore our part to play.
So again, we're starting to see how these parallels.
Now, start coincide Each other, and they start repeating.
You know what I'm saying? So, for me, this is why I like
again, accountability is a big thing night.
Now, anyone who takes account, whether you are black or white.

(43:05):
Because right now, we're just talking about the social aspect
of interacting with each other outside of the king outside of
the lifestyle. Because not everybody is going
to be a part of the lifestyle. Not everybody is built to be a
part of the lifestyle. Let's before any light as it
comes with a lot of scrutiny. Yeah.
Right. In anyone and anything in
general, but the more that you are able Well to sit here and
say like I acknowledge which yougo through, I acknowledge your

(43:28):
part. I acknowledge your Viewpoint.
I may not decide may not agree, but I acknowledge that opens up
a whole different level of communication that we didn't
have. So even if we didn't make a
truce here, let for lack of better term, right?
Even if we didn't come to some type of consensus of this is
what's going to be. We're making the effort to

(43:49):
eventually get there, and this is what interracial dating.
This is what people fear. About interracial dating for so
long in this country is that eventually people are going to
be forced to acknowledge that. We're really not all that
different. If we choose to be, we really
can coexist if we choose and again when it comes to children,
children are innocent children, learn from us.

(44:12):
So, if you automatically have racism in your heart or even if
you have a sense of supremacist ISM in your heart, you're going
to teach that. But if you can teach tolerance,
first people, Can get along whether or not they agree.
And that to me is the most important thing.
Are we saying that it's wrong for people that have extremist
views? No.
Because there are some black people some hotep.

(44:35):
Stephen, who have a very right. Black Israelites have a very
polarizing opinion on white people.
And if you take the aspect of who's talking about it, right?
I'm going to be here and say this because again, we're going
to keep it real. I personally don't see much
difference between white, Nazis,white neo-nazis, and black
Israelite. Lights.

(44:55):
I don't that's a whole differentsubject.
But yeah, yeah. And again, yeah, yes.
But again, I'm just focusing on this one point.
Look, listen to the rhetoric. Listen, to the words that are
being said the intent when you behind.
Yeah, the attention in for a quick, you know, refresher for
folks, the black Israelites basically, unlike what Malcolm X

(45:17):
was trying to do, they tried to amplify the fact that blacks
Only mattered and everything else and that White's needs to
kind of be like eradicated. Yes, off the face of the Earth.
It sounds very similar to the people that we say, or like the
whole to me evil the Nazis as neo-nazis and what they were
saying about, everybody else that wasn't white.

(45:40):
But again, it's like, oh, because black people are saying
it were Champion it and I understand that, but here's the
thing, right is right and wrong is wrong.
If we're going to say that the white people are wrong for doing
that in the interest of fairness, I have to say that is
wrong with us. Black people start doing that.
Yeah, we said well yeah because you're basically saying that
races cannot Co is this races can absolutely co-exist the

(46:04):
problem of the matter is is the fact that we think in society,
one is better than the next and that's when the disconnect Lies.
When Malcolm X was saying that he wanted to create a country of
black folks where they can be their own, it was sold Not

(46:24):
because the said it was it was because of segregation.
But it also wasn't saying we're gonna wipe out white people,
it's just more like you took us from our native land, okay?
Right essentially we need to establish something, we need to
have something of our own but ofcourse the disconnect lies with

(46:45):
so many different aspects of Islam and wipe, right?
And again another subject what Ido also want to touch upon
Splash mocha. Hmm.
When you hear about events, like, Splash mocha, and for the
virgin ears of ear, you know, the the Virgin earbuds out
there. What the fuck is flashbulb?
What is a splash? Mocha is that it?

(47:07):
Is that a new coffee job? What is this?
Listen, I might have to go to Starbucks and get me some.
Hey, can you get this last monkey?
You never know what you're asking for?
With that one. I'm trying to think when the
first time I ever heard the splash Boca but when I did, I
was like, oh, it's a Freaknik right, right.
But then when I started realizing, what type of Freaknik

(47:29):
then, I was like, wait a second,how is this not problematic?
And they nest associated with being wo?
That's where my shit was like. Oh, I'm livid because right?
It came off to me that it's justbasically white people going on
vacation seeking and degrading black dick and black pussy.

(47:54):
That that's my, that was my perspective because the way
white people were talking about / mocha once, even black people
talking about it, it was white people that were saying, oh yes,
flash mocha, you know, that's the one weekend.
My lady and I we had the free pass to go fuck as many black
people. And I'm like, wait, wait, wait,
wait, wait, wait, wait, wait, wait, right.

(48:15):
Very jarring. Yeah for the new people.
Yeah. It sounded very, you know.
Slave trade in a sense where you're just letting black
people. Letting black people get
degraded in any, which type of form just for the sole Act of
sex. And I'm like, how the fuck is
this entire story? Hmm.

(48:38):
So please know, I definitely getthat.
So one thing that I think beforewe even get started in that we
have to acknowledge that, no matter what you do sexually
there is some chance that you want that you are going to feel
degraded or or made to feel degraded, right?
Because a lot of people look at sex as a very degrading act,

(49:00):
that's it. But I think what happens is an
especially now in today's day and age especially with like
women's empowerment coming into the into the Forefront.
We're seeing people take pride in their sexuality and their
sexual activity in their sexual identity and I think in doing
that we also have to acknowledgethat there are black people that

(49:21):
are into Things that we're goingto question.
This is the beauty of Kink and BDSM again, alternative
lifestyles are made or the spacefor alternative lifestyle is
made. That is made because it doesn't
exist within the vanilla world. It's not supposed to write.
So when you come up with something, or when you come
across something like Splash motive, the expression might

(49:44):
come off as degrading, dehumanizing belittling very
fetishized, right? But now we also have to from
From a comprehensive perspective, we have to look at
the consent of the people that are being involved, right?
Because easily white. People can say like, oh, I don't

(50:05):
see how any other white people can go to the BMW.
Oh and want to be Servants of black people and and all this
stuff, they could easily say that.
Just like how we can say, I don't know how there are some
black people that want to be degraded, humiliated belittled
for their racial context, right?Or the Aspect about them.
And this is again, the main thing that BMW, I was teaching

(50:27):
people, first and foremost, tolerance, and acceptance, just
because a person chooses to be apart of something doesn't mean
that, that is the only thing that is about them, right?
That's not the only factor that they are about, and I feel like
we so project that onto ourselves a lot, especially with
sexuality right from the female perspective as a woman.

(50:50):
If you choose to just Express that, you have a Fantasy of
having multiple men at once. What happens?
She's a whore. She's a slut, she's not the type
of woman that you want to be with, but all you're doing is
expressing your inner feelings, that doesn't mean that you're a
bad person. So for me, even and again, we're
very at BMW were very much aboutblack superiority.

(51:11):
All black people are considered dominant in our order, whether
you are a black Dom or a black submissive, right?
You are dominant in our order because black is supreme Now,
with that being said, how do youthen create a balance of
respecting all black people? Because as I've said, as black
straight heterosexual, men, one thing that sets black women off,

(51:33):
is the word submission. That's a very triggering word,
right? So, how can we even create a
beat BDSM positive space within black people?
If we have a problem with the word submission, you get all I'm
saying. So we have to teach tolerance
first and on top of that, we have to teach tolerance for
people that don't Think like us.So growth Vader loves going and

(51:56):
that's cooked Matchmaker AKA Pharaoh, AKA Garth Vader the
names right taken after his brother because I also have a
whole bunch of really come back.I definitely will be.
But right, so girth, he, he loves going to Splash mocha,

(52:17):
right? He loves being in that
environment. He's the cook Matchmaker.
He Specializes In cuckold, right?
But that doesn't mean that he's any less of a black god-king as
I referred to us, right? Because we're trying to
acknowledge your divine, right of being black in your Royal,
right of being black right doubling down on that same thing

(52:38):
for black goddess, Queens, the female and black Omni Unbound,
rulers for all those who don't gender identify as male or
female again, all inclusion, allrecognition, and all
celebration. If you decide to go to Splash
mocha, you Side to go to Splash mobile.
Splash milk is not a BMW. Oh event I believe it is owned

(52:58):
and run by a black man so shout out to that but again there's
there are very specific Niche things that some people have.
So the problem for us about Splash mocha is okay, cool.
Black men have a place to go, but what about black women?
Hmm. Right.
What about black women? And this is part of the reason
why being wo so, polarizing black people, especially black

(53:21):
women is because Is rarely ever any representation of black
women in this sexual space. So, yeah, the only things that
really get highlighted or that were highlighted in the being wo
work, big BBC, white men, white women interracial, and that's
pretty much it. Black women were kind of left
over to the Wayside and again, the resentment builds even more

(53:45):
because this isn't the first time that we've kind of done
that as a whole as black men, right?
Even when we make the Paris in again, going back to those
gender role conversations or thevalue of black women are and,
and stuff like that. And the adverse is also there as
well. I think it's divested women or
women that are diabetic cut nextdoor, was talking about it, I'll

(54:06):
go look it up, but it's basically the adverse effect of
black women saying like, oh yeah, we're not going to
procreate with you guys. You guys should be wiped off the
face of the Earth. Y'all ain't King Zhou qing's.
It's going to happen because there's always two sides to the
coin, right? There's always two ways of
thinking but the more that we can acknowledge, like, yeah,

(54:27):
there's pain there. And some people get empowerment
from being embraced by the people that they have Associated
pain with for so long. And we can't, we can't disown
those people, right? We can't say that you are
without being helped, or even having a place of belonging.
It's just, you have to understand the time and place

(54:49):
that true in because it might beoffsetting to people.
That haven't Addressed that trauma yet that haven't been
able to to even acknowledge thatthey have a trauma with it.
Like you're saying, you have traumatic instances with
anything that has to do with race play, right?
So the only thing that we can dois acknowledge like, hey, race
play is not for you, but you could still be in a place where

(55:11):
black people acknowledge the fact that you are a black woman
that loves her sexuality, loves who she loves and is who she is.
Now, another thing that we can do is we can introduce you to
race play on a French Spectrum. Which, you know, I'm going to
introduce consensual ethical race plate, right?
For a lot of people race plays, only the - it's only the bad

(55:32):
words, it's only black and white.
I make this comparison all the time, a lot of people get get
praised and celebrated for theircultural or racial context.
Right? I'll use the Hispanic in Latin
Community as a prime example, right?
They're very spicy. They're very passionate their
hips. Sway and all this other stuff,

(55:54):
right? That's all race.
Play your eggs. Your only highlighting these
aspects because they're Hispanicor because they're afro-latino
their afro-cuban, right? So race play can be very
empowering. There are a lot of Hispanic
people that hear that shit and they get.
So you see we're in a meeting bybuilding exactly.

(56:17):
Why can't we have the same thing?
Now what I mean by consensual ethical race, play is If you as
a black woman are dealing with ablack or a white man.
Right? And you know, as you said some
of them, they just want to praise you because these things
they they're not used to our there, there infatuated with it.

(56:39):
It may even be a taboo but it's not coming from a bad place if
we can now teach and redirect how we do that.
Because again, the same thing can be said for me.
As a black man praising you for being a beautiful black goddess
Queen, right? Now, you were looking stunning,
right? You know what I'm saying?
Yo, your smile is smiling. You know what I'm saying?
That we are covering, but you get what I'm saying?

(57:02):
Yes, you look amazing, right? But I can easily be offsetting
to you as a black woman by highlighting these things.
So where do we find the balance?The balance, is we have to also
teach people what boundaries we accept and why we don't accept.
So, I always try to stress and this is not to try to, you know,
convert you or anything. But as a black woman, there's so

(57:25):
many times where you are not acknowledged.
You are. You are belittled because you
are black. You are the mean because you are
black, like, you said earlier, like the whole Jezebel, right?
With that being said, like we want to make sure that you
understand that, for the people that choose to celebrate for the
people that choose to empower you, right?

(57:49):
That's something that you can choose to accept.
You don't have to put yourself through it and also you have the
right especially within the BMW have the right to pick and
choose who comes within your space who interacts with you,
whether they are black or not. So instead of just only focusing
on the negative aspect of race play, as you said, you probably

(58:11):
will never be able to be empowered by it, but I think
that there is a possibility not just for you instead of only
acknowledging the negative aspect of that.
Let's let's teach you how to So,be empowered by the things that
people have made. You feel bad about, especially
something like, being a strong black woman, like II,

(58:32):
personally, I get so heartbroken, when I hear black
women say, I don't want to be referred to as strong because
y'all are and it's not somethingthat's a negative against you.
But as black men, if we weaponize that word against you
it will be you get what I'm saying.
So, even more, so with raced play if we allow Now people to

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weaponize words against us, it will always be harmful.
And for the first time, in my opinion, when we, when we
introduce something like consensual as a, a display that
is us teaching you about your power, your right to say no,
you're right to enforce. No.
And for people to have to listen, as opposed to it being

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something that you can't control.
And I think for a lot of people when it comes to race plate, we
associate it only with the things that we can't control and
Light. Hmm.
And what we're trying to do hereis show you that you can control
it in real life, you can also control it here in this most
vulnerable space. But you have to learn how to set

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those boundaries for yourself. So that's why consensual ethical
race. Play is, what is called cert
consensual? First off, you have to consent
to it. If you don't consent to it, it
doesn't go down. But also the person that you are
playing with, has to consent to it as well.
Ethical, you have to, you have to discuss it in depth, you have

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to get uncomfortable, you have to address it at its core of
why, it might be a problem for you and why it might be a
problem for the person that you're dealing with.
Because here's another thing right?
There are black people that are in the race play in their white
people that aren't but the blackperson might impose the race
play. So does that make now?
Make it okay. You get on saying.
So again, these rules are established not just for

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ourselves but to make sure that we don't become the people that
we say to me. I hate or that have caused us
pain. And a lot of times when having
these conversations if you really listen to people, it's
not even about anything else. Except I want to be able to
treat people how they have treated me.
So this is why I like I am, I ampoor people to be open-minded to

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consensual ethical race play because then you realize you
don't have to do things the way that other people do them.
I'm not called anything that I don't consent to and I make it
very clear. What you can you can speak to me
as and what you can't. The name is your god for a
reason because my submissives referred to me as my God.

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They are not allowed to refer tome as anything else.
Else. If I give them permission to
call me black god-king is because I gave them permission
to do so and if they don't follow that we don't interact
with each other. Hmm.
There's nothing else for me to say.
I don't I'm not concerned with anything that you have to say

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because you're going to say it anyway, whether I'm there or
not. Right.
And here's the thing about dealing with white people, this
is the reality of it, we never know what you're going to say,
we never know. This is a this is a Hear that a
lot of black people have with getting into interracial
relationships, but if I can havethe solidarity and the resolve,
the resilience to say that that word or those words, that

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mindset that you have doesn't have any effect on me.
I now take all the levers that they have.
All the power that makes whites of quote-unquote supreme in this
country, is because we choose tolet them do.
It is a difference. If they become physically
violent, I want to point that out.
It's a big difference. But if all they're doing is
talking, which is one of the most powerful things that

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they've done in this country forsuch a long time, is they just
spoken about things and they've made it affect us in a
resounding way. But for us to be able to truly
take that power back, we have togo into those uncomfortable
Waters. We have to go and face those
ugly truths about ourselves. Why do I find race play?
So, triggering as a black man, there's many different reasons,

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but is it It's something that I personally gone through which if
I have that's a different story.But if I've never personally
gone through it, I'm living through the trauma of other
people and not myself. Dom, my goodness, I told you
look. I'm gonna get, I'm gonna get
deep into something. No, no, this is something.

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I my God honestly, thank you, thank you, thank you.
Oh my goodness. I'll leave it.
There needs to be a final word on that because right there
died, I mean, that solidified, it all and I let me let me put
it into context real quick. Yeah, let me put it in the
context real quick too close. We're not saying that that we

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shouldn't acknowledge our pain. We're not saying that we
shouldn't acknowledge our struggles, our Journeys, but we
shouldn't let them Define us. And a lot of times, we let our
past Define as we hold on to an anchor that we say is boggling
is down and we're Drowning ourselves with this anchor.
We're trying to swim to the top but we're holding on to

(01:03:39):
something that is essentially weighing us down to kill us to
kill our spirit to kill our joy,our love for ourselves, and so
much, so to the point where it fucks with our identity.
So on such a high level on such a high degree that it stops us
from finding. Love it stops us from finding

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contentment completion. Happiness.
Just all the things that When beings need and it stops us from
doing that, within our own culture within our own
Community, within our own people.
So, what I'm saying about consensual ethical Race by in
the be NWO is it's not saying that this is for everybody,

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right? But what it is saying that if
you would like another Outlet tomaybe discover something about
yourself that you've been taughtis such a wrong evil, Bad Thing
by your own people. Maybe this is a place where now
you can just be yourself. Let your hair down and breathe
and not b, and not be chastised.Oh, you're breathing too hard.

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You're breathing too loud. You're breathing too
passionately. Which happens a lot for black
people. Just speaking about something,
we're passionate people even nowsome people might be like dams
motherfucker, he he's he's yelling, he's screaming.
No, even with passion passionateand that's what I looked up
crashing. I love to bring passionate
passion, doesn't have to be true.
Sighs. Hmm, right?

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That passion? Or that concern that worried
that you have as a black person as a black woman when it comes
to race plate, doesn't have to now be chastised because I
disagree with you if I can make you feel more at home when we
talk about this shit, like you're safe.
When you talk about it, you might become more open-minded to
it. That doesn't mean that you're

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going to participate in it, but you might be more open-minded to
it, and then you have a better understanding Standing of other
people that engage in it. And the only thing that you can
do at that point because you understand them is love them for
who they are again, black, Unityblack love black
self-expression, black sexual Liberty.

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All needs to start from that uncomfortable place of.
This is why it's uncomfortable for us to be us.
We never get the opportunity to say that we never get the
opportunity to say that within our own homes within our own
communities, within our own neighborhoods and within the
Experience of this country. So if we're not starting that

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with BMW, oh, I don't know whereelse is going to start.
And again, you can't get more uncomfortable than race.
Once we get that out the way, everything else is water race
and colorism. Let me, let me be very clear
race and colorism in gender gender Society, norms and all
that sells, once we get past allthat, we can have such a good
time, it's going to be, it's going to be smooth.

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It's going to be smooth Waters because everything else.
When there was like, oh well, you know, we spoke about you
liking, you know, foot in your ass.
I mean, I don't think your political views are going to be
that bad to me anymore. You know what I'm saying?
I'm just saying, like, again, like we find so many different

(01:06:52):
reasons to say, like, no, no, I'm not for this.
I'm not for this is like, hey, you know, it it really isn't
that bad? It really.
Isn't that bad? You know.
I just try to bring people together then push people apart
and that's what we do. BMW.
Well, again the audience Thanks you.
I hope so. I hope y'all good man.

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Thank y'all for having me. Thank you for having me.
Seth, like, Miss Sapphire. If you nasty, because as you all
can see, well actually you can'treally see.
I didn't know, they can't see, Shake too kinky but I'm also
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Oh, the way that this woman talks to me, just hearing her
laugh. I'm looking at her smile right
now. Y'all like damn it, don't.

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I'm just saying, like I love black women.
I've had to learn how to like curtail this a little bit
because I can't go on a little strong be like, look, look, lady
your lips right there. You see that smile and a little
think, I just want to see that face while I'm on top of a
mountain that pussy. No, I'm saying, but like you
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(01:07:58):
Yes, I don't even like you. Like I said you made an
exception list a long time ago you find.
I'm glad you're finally exceptionalist, you feel Well,
Dom. Where could the people get in
touch with you are the people can get in touch with me on my
telegram Channel primarily it's called Sir T .me backslash serve

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your God kingdom. That is the main epicenter for
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Definitely love them out there for doing their thing.
Shouts everybody. That's on there.
You can find me on Twitter. Everything is your God kingdom,

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that's for my Twitter, my Instagram, my Snapchat.
You can also find me on the stereo app where I do a lot of
my live broadcast conversations,they're not podcast their
podcast conversations and that'swhere you can kind of get a
little bit more of the vanilla side of me.
I go by the FNG over there. So over there is your god, the f
and g e f and g e-- and You can also find me on the black New

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World Order.com. Our Hub is going to be released
pretty soon. We're just going through a
couple of bug fixes, you know, we're making sure that the
platform is pristine but that isgoing to be the official BMW of
platform where you can basicallycome onto your own social media
platform dedicated to the BMW. Oh, and you can meet people,
there's a whole bunch of things but these are some of the main

(01:09:32):
places that you can find me. You can also follow us the BMW
at serve BMW. Oh, It's serve be nw0.
That's our official BMW. Oh page.
We are focusing on being more. So, with that page, just to just
a place to kind of like, highlight black business, black

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art, black literature, black, everything.
You know, it's not so much aboutthe point.
We have a porn thing and you'll be able to find out.
I'm not going to promote that here.
Because again, the NWO point is not the Focus, right?
We're more so really focus. On giving people a real-life
tangible representation of what it's like to interact with black

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superiority. And also mindful black
superiority that understands that maybe they have to heal.
And in order to heal, they have to be willing to be healed,
right? It's one thing to take medicine.
You have to, like, except the medicine for it to work.
Sometimes if you always fight inthe medicine, it's never really
going to heal you. So again, like we're very much

(01:10:38):
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