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February 25, 2024 47 mins

In this episode of "Satanists Nextdoor," Tommy and Lilin discuss the tragic loss of Nex Benedict, a 16-year-old non-binary student whose life was cut short, reflecting the broader, systemic issues facing the LGBTQIA+ community today. Their discussion stresses the importance of addressing these issues head-on.

Nex Benedict was more than a statistic; Nex was a cherished member of their community, loved by family and friends for their passion, creativity, and zest for life. Through an exploration of Nex's life, interests, and legacy, Tommy and Lilin aim to celebrate the vibrant life Nex led.

They confront the unsettling truth that Nex's story is not an isolated incident but part of a disturbing pattern of violence and discrimination against LGBTQIA+ individuals. They discuss the alarming escalation of anti-LGBTQ+ legislation, insights from the HRC's 2023 LGBTQ+ Youth Report, and the critical role of family support and acceptance for LGBTQ+ youth.

Exploring these challenging topics, Tommy and Lilin also share a message of hope, focusing on our collective responsibility to foster a world where every LGBTQIA+ individual can live openly, safely, and authentically. This episode represents their commitment to shining a continuous light on these atrocities, advocating for change, and offering support as allies.

They invite listeners to join them in solidarity with Nex Benedict and all LGBTQIA+ individuals facing hate and discrimination. Together, they argue, it's possible to champion a future where love, acceptance, and safety are the realities for everyone.


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