Evan sits down with acclaimed historian Stephanie Coontz to discuss the evolving nature of marriage and family life. Coontz offers deep insights into the shifts in marital norms over the past few decades, highlighting how co-providing, gender roles, and societal expectations have changed. The episode also delves into 'silent divorces' and the complexities of rekindling relationships with ex-spouses. Additionally, Stephanie shares her experience of having her work cited in the Supreme Court's decision legalizing same-sex marriage and offers a sneak peek into her forthcoming book. This episode is rich with historical context, personal anecdotes, and practical advice for anyone interested in the future of marriage and relationships.
Topics
00:19 Welcome to the Shine On Podcast
00:55 Introducing Stephanie Coontz
03:12 Silent Divorce: A New Perspective
07:16 Reconnecting with an Ex: Is It Worth It?
11:21 Overrated or Underrated: Legal and Fun Topics
24:00 Discussing Modern Marriages
24:13 Stephanie's New Book
25:41 Redefining Marriage Norms
29:12 Historical Perspectives on Marriage
31:22 Future of Marriage and Relationships
32:40 Supreme Court Citation Experience
34:34 Advice for Younger Self
41:05 Impact of Divorce on Society
45:59 Fun Segment: They Said It
53:10 Conclusion and Farewell
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