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August 19, 2025 30 mins

In this episode:
midlife burnout, high achievers, success trap, midlife coaching, feeling unfulfilled, chasing success, overachiever exhaustion, redefining success in midlife

Episode Summary:

Do you ever feel like no matter how much you achieve, it’s never quite enough? Like you’ve ticked every box, reached every goal, done all the things “right”… and still find yourself wondering why it doesn’t feel better?

In this replay episode of The School of Midlife Podcast, we’re getting honest about the real root of that nagging feeling that you’re running out of time or still not doing enough. Spoiler: It has nothing to do with what you’ve accomplished—and everything to do with why you’re chasing it.

I’ll take you behind the scenes of my own pattern of perpetual achievement (and exhaustion), and share the insight that helped me break free: “Success without fulfillment isn’t success—it’s burnout with a nicer resume.”

If you’re a high-achieving woman who feels like she’s always in pursuit of the next big thing, this one’s for you.

In this episode:

  • Why so many high achievers feel perpetually unsatisfied—even after big wins
  • How the “what’s next?” reflex keeps us stuck on the hamster wheel of proving
  • The difference between ambition and addiction to achievement
  • What it really means to define your version of success
  • How to know when you’ve hit your enough—and stop moving the goalpost

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