Secret Life

In this revealing episode of the Secret Life Podcast, host Brianne Davis-Gantt uncovers the often-overlooked habits of codependency that can silently sabotage our relationships and self-worth. Drawing from her own experiences and extensive knowledge, Brianne explores the intricate dynamics between codependents and narcissists, highlighting how both seek control and power in their interactions.

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In this eye-opening episode of the Secret Life Podcast, host Brianne Davis-Gantt tackles the complexities of dysfunctional family systems and offers practical strategies for fostering healthier relationships. Drawing from her extensive experience, Brianne delves into the root causes of family dysfunction, including poor communication, emotional neglect, and unresolved trauma. With her signature blend of humor and honesty, she share...

In this enlightening episode of the Secret Life Podcast, host Brianne Davis-Gantt dives into the intriguing world of autosexuality—a term that describes individuals who experience sexual attraction primarily towards themselves. With her characteristic honesty and humor, Brianne unpacks this often-misunderstood concept, shedding light on what it means to be autosexual and how it differs from other sexual orientations.

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Navigating the world of relationships can often feel like a chaotic rollercoaster, especially for those transitioning from toxic dynamics to healthier ones. In the latest episode of the podcast, we delve into the common pitfalls that individuals encounter when they first step into a healthy relationship. 

Brianne Davis-Gantt, our insightful host, sheds light on the journey of self-discovery and emotional growth that accompanies this...

In this powerful episode of the Secret Life Podcast, host Brianne Davis-Gantt confronts the challenging concept of radical acceptance, a skill rooted in Dialectical Behavior Therapy (DBT). With her signature candidness, Brianne emphasizes that everything in life is ultimately beyond our control, and the key to navigating this reality lies in how we respond to it.

Brianne breaks down the 12 steps of radical acceptance, guiding listen...

In the latest episode of our podcast, we delve into a topic that resonates with many but is often overlooked: high functioning trauma and PTSD. Briannne Davis-Gantt, our host, opens up about the hidden struggles faced by individuals who appear to have it all together on the surface. They may be successful in their careers and maintain an active social life, but beneath that exterior lies a complex web of unresolved trauma that can ...

In this compelling episode of the Secret Life Podcast, host Brianne Davis-Gantt dives deep into the controversial topic of parental alienation and justified estrangement. With a heartfelt shout-out to those who choose to distance themselves from toxic parental relationships, Brianne explores the complexities of family dynamics and the emotional toll they can take on children.

Brianne passionately discusses the distinction between pa...

In the latest episode of our podcast, we tackle a topic that resonates with many: excessive screen time. In an age where our devices are an extension of ourselves, the impact of social media and digital distractions is becoming increasingly evident. Host M. Brianne Davis Gant candidly shares her personal experiences with screen addiction and its detrimental effects on mental health, particularly depression.

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In this thought-provoking episode of the Secret Life Podcast, host Brianne Davis-Gantt explores the complex and often misunderstood realm of antisocial personality disorder (ASPD) and highly functioning sociopaths. With a candid and engaging approach, Brianne delves into the traits that define these individuals, highlighting how they may seamlessly blend into society while harboring a lack of empathy and moral disregard.

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In this eye-opening episode of the Secret Life Podcast, host Brianne Davis-Gantt tackles the pervasive issue of "scarcity dating." With a bold and unapologetic approach, she challenges the mindset that there is only one perfect partner out there for each of us. Brianne passionately argues that with over 8.2 billion people on the planet, the idea of a singular soulmate is not only unrealistic but also rooted in fear and scar...

In this powerful episode of the Secret Life Podcast, host Brianne Davis-Gantt dives deep into the often-overlooked topic of the "father wound." She candidly explores how a father's absence—be it physical or emotional—can severely impact a child's self-image and self-worth. Brianne shares her own experiences and insights, shedding light on the various forms a father wound can take, including neglect, rejection, and e...

In this insightful episode of the Secret Life Podcast, host Brianne Davis-Gantt delves into the often-painful topic of the "mother wound." She explores how a mother's emotional unavailability can profoundly affect a child's ability to form healthy relationships and develop a secure attachment style. Brianne shares her own experiences and observations, highlighting the signs of a mother wound, such as emotional negle...

In this thought-provoking episode of the Secret Life Podcast, host Brianne Davis-Gantt unpacks the often misunderstood concept of self-care versus self-indulgence. She boldly asserts that true self-care is not glamorous or Instagram-worthy; rather, it consists of the unfabulous activities that contribute to our long-term well-being. Brianne challenges listeners to reconsider what self-care really means, emphasizing that it involves...

In this compelling episode of the Secret Life Podcast, host Brianne Davis-Gantt bravely confronts the complex and often painful dynamics of having a narcissistic father. Drawing from personal experiences and extensive research, Brianne reveals how narcissism can manifest as a trauma response rooted in childhood. She discusses the layers of false identity that shield the true self and the profound impact this has on both the narciss...

In this compelling episode of the Secret Life Podcast, host Brianne Davis-Gantt tackles the pervasive habit of doom scrolling, a behavior that has become alarmingly common in our digital age. Brianne shares her observations of individuals, including a 21-year-old who starts and ends her day with endless scrolling through negative news and social media, highlighting the detrimental effects this habit has on mental health.

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This week on the Secret Life Podcast, host Brianne Davis-Gantt takes a deep dive into the often misunderstood world of Borderline Personality Disorder (BPD). She breaks down the complexities of this chronic personality disorder, which is characterized by emotional regulation difficulties, fear of abandonment, and turbulent relationships. With a focus on the four distinct types of BPD—quiet, impulsive, petulant, and self-destructive...

What happens when you know you should feel something but just... don't? In this enlightening episode of the Secret Life Podcast, host Brianne Davis-Gantt uncovers the often-overlooked phenomenon of emotional blunting. Brianne shares her personal journey of discovery surrounding this term, revealing the symptoms that include a lack of emotional reactions, mental fog, and feelings of disconnection from others.

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Why do people cheat? In this eye-opening episode of the Secret Life Podcast, host Brianne Davis-Gantt dives deep into the complex motivations behind infidelity. She reveals startling statistics that highlight the prevalence of cheating, including the surprising fact that many who cheat rate their marriages as happy. Brianne challenges conventional notions of cheating, discussing how emotional affairs, flirting, and even pornography...

Are you tired of feeling emotionally numb and disconnected from yourself and others? In this raw and revealing episode of the Secret Life Podcast, host Brianne Davis-Gantt dives into the pervasive issue of emotional numbing. She explores the myriad ways people escape their feelings, from overworking and partying to excessive social media use and obsessive planning. Brianne shares personal anecdotes and insights, shedding light on h...