April 27, 2025 • 14 mins
In today’s episode, I share the wild and emotional ride of manifesting our new dream home — and all the fears, doubts, and synchronicities that came with it.
I talk about:
- What the terror barrier really is (and how it shows up when you're about to uplevel)
- How fear, doubt, and indecision creep in just before your next chapter
- The exact signs from the universe that gave me the courage to say yes
- How I’m taking small aligned actions to anchor into this new vibration
- Why feeling uncomfortable is actually a powerful sign you're growing
Plus, if you’re calling in big dreams right now — whether it’s a new home, new love, or a new business chapter — this episode will remind you that you’re not crazy… you’re expanding.
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Speaker 1 (00:00):
Welcome to today's episode.
So I recorded a Instagram storyon the weekend just kind of
laughing at the craziness ofwhat's going on at the moment,
and quite a few people messagedme and said they needed to hear
that message.
So I thought I'd record apodcast and tell you the whole
story.
We have been looking for a newhome to rent a bit closer to the
(00:28):
beach, closer to my daughter'sfriends, in a place called Lenox
Head.
So we've been living in ByronHinterland, which has been
beautiful, for the last threeyears, in a beautiful tree house
with a wraparound balcony andviews of green rolling hills.
But it rains a lot in the hills, something I didn't kind of
think of when I moved here, soit's always damp and you always
(00:51):
think it's a horrible day, andthen you drive down to the beach
and it's perfectly sunny andstunning.
So I'm ready to be in thatsunny weather and swimming in
the ocean more so.
Anyway, last week we were goingto look at some houses, and one
of the houses was one that cameup in December and I knew it
(01:12):
didn't feel right, but I wentinto my daughter's room it was
school holidays and I said look,let's go look at this house.
She goes mom, have a look at myPinterest board.
Like, this is the house thatwe're manifesting.
And we have these photos alsoon the vision board on the fruit
and my personal vision boardand I was like, oh, you know
what A house exactly like thathas just come available for rent
(01:37):
.
But it's way over our budget.
But let's go and have a look atit anyway.
But let's go and have a look atit anyway.
So we went and had a look andthe timing was perfect.
It was like 15 minutes after uslooking at another house and it
was available the exact timethat our lease was up in our
(01:59):
hinterland home.
So we went and looked and wewalked in and my daughter's like
, mum, if we lived in thisabundant, amazing space, you
would be receiving more anywayand we would just feel so good
and that would just meaneverything.
And I was like you know what?
You are right.
(02:19):
So we put in an application.
I did ask for a little bit lesson the rent because I do think
it was quite overpriced A lot ofthat's happening around this
area and they met us halfway andthey accepted our application.
How amazing, what a dream cometrue.
But then the terror barrierhappened, and this has happened
(02:44):
to me multiple times.
It happened to me when I wasgoing to Antarctica.
You know, I wanted to go forthree months and then two weeks
before they invited me to comeat a very nice price, but it was
two weeks before Christmas andliterally the night before I was
(03:04):
going.
Who am I to do this?
I shouldn't be going.
This is, so you know,irresponsible.
Anyway, I went and it was allgood, but every time I manifest
something massive.
This happens and it reminds meof Bob Proctor's work where he
talks about the terror barrier.
(03:25):
So so we are in a, we live in acertain vibration or frequency
and everything meets us at thefrequency or vibration that we
are at.
It's also important to be in areally good vibration and
frequency when you are meetingsomeone that you might want to
have a relationship with, but Iwill save that to another
(03:46):
podcast episode because I've gota really good example of this,
anyway.
So then we have a vision or amanifestation or something that
we want to create in our life,and then it comes.
You know you can attractanything you want if you are
ready and open to receiving it.
So it comes and that is in anew vibration and frequency and
(04:14):
what it does is it takes youtime to shift, but in between
where you're at now and this newvibration and frequency is kind
of like the messy middle.
It feels really uncomfortablebecause you're growing and your
ego and your mind gets in theway and tries to sabotage it.
(04:38):
So how this can show up is youstart to question.
So for me I was like can Ireally afford this?
Is it good enough?
Should we get something smallerthat's in our budget?
Maybe I can get that otherhouse that has a extra studio on
it that we can rent out.
(04:58):
So all these indecisions andquestioning comes up.
That's my focus keeper timer.
And then we start to doubtourselves.
So doubt starts to creep in.
And what happens whenindecision and doubt come
together?
They create fear, and then thatcan just really overtake us and
(05:23):
disable us, which is whathappened to me over the weekend
as well, where I just freak outso much that I actually can't
even do anything, even makingmyself a piece of toast or
something.
So because I get so caught upin my head and forget to
actually trust that we are beingsupported by the universe like
(05:45):
we asked for it, and we justneed to find ourselves to be
safe to step in and to receiveit.
So the terror barrier came upbig time for me.
Another thing that happened thismonth my camera broke on a
(06:06):
photo shoot in Melbourne andluckily I had my backup camera
which I always do because youjust never know when these
things are going to go wrong butI sent it away and they said,
look, you actually just need toget a new camera.
So that was, yeah, a big, a bigthing that happened.
And then also, when they saidthat we got the house, they
needed two weeks rent plus fourweeks for bond, so that's nearly
(06:29):
ten thousand dollars plusanother ten thousand dollars for
a new camera and new lenses andthat kind of thing.
So there was a lot happening.
I called my psychic mentor toget a little bit of advice and
she said ask for three signsfrom the universe.
(06:53):
When you get off this phone,say out loud, give me three
signs.
So the funny thing is we werelooking after some of my
friend's little kids and mydaughter and her friend took the
kids down for a bike ride andthey went to the op shop and my
daughter calls me and she goesmom, you need to come down.
(07:15):
One of the kids has boughtsomething at the op shop but we
can't carry it back.
And I was like, okay, what haveyou bought?
It's a Barbie dream house.
And I was like you have to bekidding me, don't you Like?
If you could ask for a sign,like what a sign a dream house.
(07:35):
That had been received.
So anyway, that was the firstsign I got.
And then I checked my emailsand saw that an email came in at
3 33 as a reminder to acceptthe offer for this house.
When I looked up at 3 33, thespiritual meaning of that is
(07:56):
you're being supported, trustingyourself.
And then the third sign was thenext day I was dropping my
daughter at a friend's house andas I left, a black cat ran
across the front of the car outof nowhere, like you cannot make
this stuff up.
I checked in what that meansagain because I always thought
(08:16):
it was bad luck.
But apparently if it runs fromright to left, good luck is
coming and if it runs left toright, bad luck.
So I am taking these as a sign.
Then, when I was actuallyworking on the budgeting with my
partner on my laptop or looking, I used Notion to keep on my
(08:39):
finances and my budgeting andeverything, and it all looked
fine.
I went away, then came back andI was going to start recording
more content for the GoToAcademy and my computer didn't
open or turn on and I was likelike what the hell?
So it was kind of a laughingmoment, but also a little bit
(09:02):
freaking out.
Going right, so my camera, Ineed a new camera.
We're moving into a new homeand my laptop just stopped.
So I took it to the Apple store.
They said sorry, it's gone,it's over, so you will need to
get a new laptop.
By this time all I could do waslaugh, thinking okay, so I don't
(09:24):
have a camera, I don't have acomputer to work, and we're
moving into this new home, whichfeels really big and scary.
And I just sat in it for amoment and was thinking this is
just an overhaul, massiveenergetic upgrade.
And the universe asking are youready to actually step into
(09:45):
this and own this?
Because you're not going tocarry all your old stuff into
this next chapter in your life.
So I'm kind of visualizing itas being pressured like a piece
of coal to turn into a diamond.
So, instead of focusing on allthe heavy stuff.
I've been focusing on waking upin this new beautiful home what
(10:11):
that's going to feel likebecause it's so open and just
has such an energetic highvibration as well.
Doing shoots with my new camera, because my old camera is quite
old actually and having abeautiful new laptop.
My laptop was getting quiteheavy and so not that it put on
(10:33):
weight or anything, but carryinga 16 inch MacBook Pro was quite
heavy, so I'm going for asmaller but more powerful
computer and how having allthese really high quality, high
tech tools, high vibrationalenvironment will make me feel
and so bringing that into myphysical being and starting to
(10:54):
feel my energy shift andfocusing on the great things I
can create from that space toreally own it and sit in it.
The steps I've been taking toreally go okay, I've got this,
I'm open and ready to receive isto actually start taking action
.
So then yesterday I startedputting all the things that are
(11:18):
no longer aligned with this newhouse and the vision and the
style of it on Facebookmarketplace, so literally
selling most of our furniture sowe can upgrade and get some
beautiful new things.
It's quite a minimalist space,so we actually won't need much,
and beautiful big walk-inwardrobe with drawers and
(11:39):
everything, so there's a lot Ican sell there.
It's been really nice justseeing that money rolling in,
releasing all those old thingsand opening myself up to this
next chapter.
So I'm going to leave it herewith you and maybe question
where are you being invited toreally step up, lean in, take
(12:05):
that leap that you've beenwanting to do and open yourself
up to receiving it?
Invitations are on your visionboard that are coming into your
fruition.
That might be scaring you alittle bit, because if you don't
do it now, when are you goingto do it?
And if they do come up and thisis something I've been
(12:26):
reminding myself if I said no, Iwould be telling the universe
that I'm not ready to do this.
And you know when are you everready?
How do you know?
Anyway, I do run a vision boardworkshop once or twice a year,
so if you are interested incoming and learning the
techniques that I do do tomanifest these big things in
(12:51):
life, sign up to my newsletteror come and send me a dm on
instagram or tell me if you'vebeen through something like this
as well.
I would love to hear.
Welcome to today's episode.
So I recorded a Instagram storyon the weekend just kind of
laughing at the craziness ofwhat's going on at the moment,
and quite a few people messagedme and said they needed to hear
that message.
So I thought I'd record apodcast and tell you the whole
story.
We have been looking for a newhome to rent a bit closer to the
(00:28):
beach, closer to my daughter'sfriends, in a place called Lenox
Head.
So we've been living in ByronHinterland, which has been
beautiful, for the last threeyears, in a beautiful tree house
with a wraparound balcony andviews of green rolling hills.
But it rains a lot in the hills, something I didn't kind of
think of when I moved here, soit's always damp and you always
(00:51):
think it's a horrible day, andthen you drive down to the beach
and it's perfectly sunny andstunning.
So I'm ready to be in thatsunny weather and swimming in
the ocean more so.
Anyway, last week we were goingto look at some houses, and one
of the houses was one that cameup in December and I knew it
(01:12):
didn't feel right, but I wentinto my daughter's room it was
school holidays and I said look,let's go look at this house.
She goes mom, have a look at myPinterest board.
Like, this is the house thatwe're manifesting.
And we have these photos alsoon the vision board on the fruit
and my personal vision boardand I was like, oh, you know
what A house exactly like thathas just come available for rent
(01:37):
.
But it's way over our budget.
But let's go and have a look atit anyway.
But let's go and have a look atit anyway.
So we went and had a look andthe timing was perfect.
It was like 15 minutes after uslooking at another house and it
was available the exact timethat our lease was up in our
(01:59):
hinterland home.
So we went and looked and wewalked in and my daughter's like
, mum, if we lived in thisabundant, amazing space, you
would be receiving more anywayand we would just feel so good
and that would just meaneverything.
And I was like you know what?
You are right.
(02:19):
So we put in an application.
I did ask for a little bit lesson the rent because I do think
it was quite overpriced A lot ofthat's happening around this
area and they met us halfway andthey accepted our application.
How amazing, what a dream cometrue.
But then the terror barrierhappened, and this has happened
(02:44):
to me multiple times.
It happened to me when I wasgoing to Antarctica.
You know, I wanted to go forthree months and then two weeks
before they invited me to comeat a very nice price, but it was
two weeks before Christmas andliterally the night before I was
(03:04):
going.
Who am I to do this?
I shouldn't be going.
This is, so you know,irresponsible.
Anyway, I went and it was allgood, but every time I manifest
something massive.
This happens and it reminds meof Bob Proctor's work where he
talks about the terror barrier.
(03:25):
So so we are in a, we live in acertain vibration or frequency
and everything meets us at thefrequency or vibration that we
are at.
It's also important to be in areally good vibration and
frequency when you are meetingsomeone that you might want to
have a relationship with, but Iwill save that to another
(03:46):
podcast episode because I've gota really good example of this,
anyway.
So then we have a vision or amanifestation or something that
we want to create in our life,and then it comes.
You know you can attractanything you want if you are
ready and open to receiving it.
So it comes and that is in anew vibration and frequency and
(04:14):
what it does is it takes youtime to shift, but in between
where you're at now and this newvibration and frequency is kind
of like the messy middle.
It feels really uncomfortablebecause you're growing and your
ego and your mind gets in theway and tries to sabotage it.
(04:38):
So how this can show up is youstart to question.
So for me I was like can Ireally afford this?
Is it good enough?
Should we get something smallerthat's in our budget?
Maybe I can get that otherhouse that has a extra studio on
it that we can rent out.
(04:58):
So all these indecisions andquestioning comes up.
That's my focus keeper timer.
And then we start to doubtourselves.
So doubt starts to creep in.
And what happens whenindecision and doubt come
together?
They create fear, and then thatcan just really overtake us and
(05:23):
disable us, which is whathappened to me over the weekend
as well, where I just freak outso much that I actually can't
even do anything, even makingmyself a piece of toast or
something.
So because I get so caught upin my head and forget to
actually trust that we are beingsupported by the universe like
(05:45):
we asked for it, and we justneed to find ourselves to be
safe to step in and to receiveit.
So the terror barrier came upbig time for me.
Another thing that happened thismonth my camera broke on a
(06:06):
photo shoot in Melbourne andluckily I had my backup camera
which I always do because youjust never know when these
things are going to go wrong butI sent it away and they said,
look, you actually just need toget a new camera.
So that was, yeah, a big, a bigthing that happened.
And then also, when they saidthat we got the house, they
needed two weeks rent plus fourweeks for bond, so that's nearly
(06:29):
ten thousand dollars plusanother ten thousand dollars for
a new camera and new lenses andthat kind of thing.
So there was a lot happening.
I called my psychic mentor toget a little bit of advice and
she said ask for three signsfrom the universe.
(06:53):
When you get off this phone,say out loud, give me three
signs.
So the funny thing is we werelooking after some of my
friend's little kids and mydaughter and her friend took the
kids down for a bike ride andthey went to the op shop and my
daughter calls me and she goesmom, you need to come down.
(07:15):
One of the kids has boughtsomething at the op shop but we
can't carry it back.
And I was like, okay, what haveyou bought?
It's a Barbie dream house.
And I was like you have to bekidding me, don't you Like?
If you could ask for a sign,like what a sign a dream house.
(07:35):
That had been received.
So anyway, that was the firstsign I got.
And then I checked my emailsand saw that an email came in at
3 33 as a reminder to acceptthe offer for this house.
When I looked up at 3 33, thespiritual meaning of that is
(07:56):
you're being supported, trustingyourself.
And then the third sign was thenext day I was dropping my
daughter at a friend's house andas I left, a black cat ran
across the front of the car outof nowhere, like you cannot make
this stuff up.
I checked in what that meansagain because I always thought
(08:16):
it was bad luck.
But apparently if it runs fromright to left, good luck is
coming and if it runs left toright, bad luck.
So I am taking these as a sign.
Then, when I was actuallyworking on the budgeting with my
partner on my laptop or looking, I used Notion to keep on my
(08:39):
finances and my budgeting andeverything, and it all looked
fine.
I went away, then came back andI was going to start recording
more content for the GoToAcademy and my computer didn't
open or turn on and I was likelike what the hell?
So it was kind of a laughingmoment, but also a little bit
(09:02):
freaking out.
Going right, so my camera, Ineed a new camera.
We're moving into a new homeand my laptop just stopped.
So I took it to the Apple store.
They said sorry, it's gone,it's over, so you will need to
get a new laptop.
By this time all I could do waslaugh, thinking okay, so I don't
(09:24):
have a camera, I don't have acomputer to work, and we're
moving into this new home, whichfeels really big and scary.
And I just sat in it for amoment and was thinking this is
just an overhaul, massiveenergetic upgrade.
And the universe asking are youready to actually step into
(09:45):
this and own this?
Because you're not going tocarry all your old stuff into
this next chapter in your life.
So I'm kind of visualizing itas being pressured like a piece
of coal to turn into a diamond.
So, instead of focusing on allthe heavy stuff.
I've been focusing on waking upin this new beautiful home what
(10:11):
that's going to feel likebecause it's so open and just
has such an energetic highvibration as well.
Doing shoots with my new camera, because my old camera is quite
old actually and having abeautiful new laptop.
My laptop was getting quiteheavy and so not that it put on
(10:33):
weight or anything, but carryinga 16 inch MacBook Pro was quite
heavy, so I'm going for asmaller but more powerful
computer and how having allthese really high quality, high
tech tools, high vibrationalenvironment will make me feel
and so bringing that into myphysical being and starting to
(10:54):
feel my energy shift andfocusing on the great things I
can create from that space toreally own it and sit in it.
The steps I've been taking toreally go okay, I've got this,
I'm open and ready to receive isto actually start taking action
.
So then yesterday I startedputting all the things that are
(11:18):
no longer aligned with this newhouse and the vision and the
style of it on Facebookmarketplace, so literally
selling most of our furniture sowe can upgrade and get some
beautiful new things.
It's quite a minimalist space,so we actually won't need much,
and beautiful big walk-inwardrobe with drawers and
(11:39):
everything, so there's a lot Ican sell there.
It's been really nice justseeing that money rolling in,
releasing all those old thingsand opening myself up to this
next chapter.
So I'm going to leave it herewith you and maybe question
where are you being invited toreally step up, lean in, take
(12:05):
that leap that you've beenwanting to do and open yourself
up to receiving it?
Invitations are on your visionboard that are coming into your
fruition.
That might be scaring you alittle bit, because if you don't
do it now, when are you goingto do it?
And if they do come up and thisis something I've been
(12:26):
reminding myself if I said no, Iwould be telling the universe
that I'm not ready to do this.
And you know when are you everready?
How do you know?
Anyway, I do run a vision boardworkshop once or twice a year,
so if you are interested incoming and learning the
techniques that I do do tomanifest these big things in
(12:51):
life, sign up to my newsletteror come and send me a dm on
instagram or tell me if you'vebeen through something like this
as well.
I would love to hear.
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