Self Centered with Remi

What do a social worker, therapist, socialite, and world traveler all have in common? I sat down with Mica Renee, who’s all of the above, to unpack the winding path life can take. We talked about side quests, nightlife, and a beach moment that went viral. Mica took me back to Monessen, PA, her small-town roots, and the ambition that pushed her from the small town to a life that refuses to stay in one lane for too long. From w...

In this episode of Self-Centered with Remi, I sit downwith Darien, a PhD researcher studying history, architecture, and everyday life in Guyana, to explore how history shapes our present and future.

Drawing on the concept of “Sankofa – the Akan idea ofgoing back to retrieve from the past to guide the future-“ we discuss how history lives beyond textbooks and archives. Darien shares insights from her research and t...

Major milestones aren’t always what we imagine them to be; sometimes the hardest part of the journey is the end. In this episode of Self-Centered, I unpacked what it means to close a major chapter and navigate the uncertainty of what comes next. I met with Nnaoma, a recent biomedical engineering PhD graduate, to talk about the realities of finishing graduate school and stepping into life beyond it. This conversation goes beyo...

Turning your passion into a business isn't just about making money—it's about creating something meaningful, solving real problems, and having the courage to bet on yourself. In this episode of Self-Centered, I’m unpacking the journey from passion to profit. I met with Rashuan Simon, a Virgin Islands-born filmmaker, photographer, and entrepreneurial spirit behind a fast-growing media brand. His work captures the essence...

Have you ever wondered what makes a successful person successful? What really sets them apart from mediocrity? Most people think it’s about being in the right place at the right time and knowing the right people. I sat down with Will Daniels, a young Black CFP® breaking barriers in finance, to talk about what true success really looks like - why it’s not what you think. Brace yourself. Will keeps it real. Success requir...

As the year closes, this episode is a gentle invitation to pause, reflect, and step into the New Year with intention rather than urgency. Old Year’s Revelations to Inform Your New Year’s Resolutions is a love letter to you—a reminder that you have time, that life is about the journey, and that the future is not something to chase, but something you can call toward you.

We explore what it truly means to live a life ...

In this episode, Remi and special guests, Hakeem and Rose, unpack the viral Vogue article, “Is Having a Boyfriend Embarrassing Now?” and dive into what it reveals about dating culture today. From the rise of hyper-independence to the pressure to look unbothered, we explore why so many people feel conflicted about wanting partnership in an era that glorifies detachment.

We discuss the tension between a soft life and self-...

Let's talk about knowing when to let the party die. Remi and Hakeem dive into the lessons learned in our 20s, including how to focus on what truly matters. Remi and Hakeem share some of the hilarious - and sometimes cringe-worthy - moments that made us rethink our 20s and soon-to-be 30s. Our 20s are a time for learning, exploration, and growth. It's essential to recognize when certain habits and lifestyles no longer serve us, to fi...

From Timberlands to Chucks, boom bap to G-funk—we're diving into the iconic cultural influences of regional black communities. We unpack the roots and real-life experiences that shape Black identity across coasts. Join us as we debate everything from hip-hop and R&B influences to culture shock, slang, lifestyle, and what it really means to rep your coast. Which side has the deeper roots, the better beats, and the biggest ...

What does it mean to live the diaspora? In this powerful and personal episode, I sat down with Jeff and Hakeem to explore navigating identity as a first generation American.

From childhood memories and cultural pride to identity struggles and hopes for the next generation, we unpack what Diaspora Living really looks like. Whether you're from Ghana, Nigeria, Trinidad—or simply curious about how the diaspora shapes blackness &md...

In this episode, I’m joined by my guest Hakeem to explore what really helps Black students stay in college and thrive—not just survive.

We talk about the impact of mentorship, student affinity groups, and advocacy in shaping the college experience for students. From finding belonging in community spaces to having someone in your corner who truly sees you, we dive into how these support systems can make all the difference...

Thinking about starting your own business? This episode is for you.

This week, I’m joined by the founders of ArPlans, Hanna and Josh, who turned their ideas into a thriving business. We’re talking real talk—what it’s really like to start a business from the ground up, how to make money doing what you love, and the unique challenges (and wins) of building a brand with your friends.

Whether you’re just dre...

🎙️ First to Graduate, Still Feeling Lost—Let’s Talk About It 🎓

Being the first in your family to graduate is an incredible achievement—but nobody talks about the pressure that comes with it. What happens when you feel lost, like the degree wasn’t enough, or when you don’t have a clear path forward?

In this episode, I’m diving into:
💡 The silent struggles of being the first college grad in you...

🎓 You did it—you graduated! But now what? If you thought life after college would be smooth sailing, welcome to the reality check no one warned you about. From networking to learning how to understand money , post-grad life isn’t always what it’s cracked up to be.

In this episode, I’m breaking down the five biggest lessons I wish I knew before I tossed that graduation cap. 😩

🎧 Tune in now and learn how to...

In today’s episode, I'm exploring the powerful connection between protecting your peace and stepping into your authentic self. 🌟

Here’s what I’ll cover:

• How to listen to your inner voice and trust your intuition, even when life feels noisy.
• The importance of creating boundaries that safeguard your energy and mental health.
• The power of saying “no” to protect your time, energy, and well-being.
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Success isn’t one-size-fits-all, and we’re here to talk about it. Join us—Remi navigating her twenties and Rie thriving in her forties—as we unpack what success really looks like at different stages of life. From the hustle and grind to redefining peace and purpose, we’re diving into how our goals, dreams, and wins evolve with time. Whether you’re chasing the bag, finding yourself, or just trying...

🎙️ New Episode Alert! 🚀 🌟

Life is a winding road, and this week, we’re diving deep into the wisdom, courage, and adventures that come with embracing every chapter. 🛤️💪

In this episode, we chat about:
✨ How age brings boldness and clarity.
✨ Lessons learned from life's unexpected turns.
✨ Redefining success at every stage of the journey.

Whether you're seeking inspiration or a reminder that it’s never too l...