Self Kindness with Pete

Right now is the moment to experience a life you love!
This episode is focusing on how to move "intellectually" understanding what you can do to FEEL better, to leaping into from wherever you are.
The leap can be BIG & LOUD or quiet and internal.

Today:

• Feel self trust, self worth and self esteem
• Be emotionally resilient
• Live alive and FREE
• Feeling safe to be all of you

Let your life become better & better...

This episode is here to plug us in!   
We're here to flow all the good into this physical world, open the tap and let it feel good!

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What is it that you are wanting more of in your life right now?

What would help you feel more alive, connected, at ease, expansive?!

Are you ready to remove...

A different story will bring different results.
We're all telling internal stories, are you loving yours?

This episode goes right to how and why telling a new story brings different results.

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Weekly calls to cultivate a deep connection with feeling good and inspired about your own inner narrative!
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You are Safe.
It may not have been true at one point in your life, but right here and now, it's safe.
It's SAFE to let yourself feel good, right now.
It's safe to be allowing yourself feel good!

2025 SELF STORY group program info: www.petesibley.com/story.  for all the details!
Weekly calls to cultivate a deep connection with feeling good and inspired about your own inner narrative!
Plus a private podcast...

Sitting on the beach, in central California, I ask a simple yet PROFOUND question:
"Can it be alright for me to feel good w/o needing the world to change 1st?"
YES!  In fact that is the path to everything I desire to have, be, do, experience in my life,
here's how it can work for you....

2025 SELF STORY group program info: www.petesibley.com/story.  for all the details!
Weekly calls to cultivate a deep connectio...

Jan 8th Workshop Audio recording
Focusing with Intention - All of Me Makes Sense!

• Everything is based upon your perception, and you have the ability to focus what you want to see more of.
• “Between the stimulus and the response, there is a space.  And in that space lies our ability to choose.”   Viktor Frankl, Austrian neurologist, psychologist
• Your ability to “choose” is your ability to focus the vibration receptio...

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Do you know how to create peace within yourself?
This is the podcast to begin doing just that!

2025 SELF STORY group program info: www.petesibley.com/story.  for all the details!
Weekly calls to cultivate a deep connection with feeling good and inspired about your own inner narrative!
Plus a private podcast and website filled with resou...

It's cool to notice that our dreams are actually WAAYYYYYY BIIIIGGGGG!!!
Let them have a life!   Look at how big your dreams actually want to be.
This mini-episode is here to help you feel safe in noticing their breadth and depth!

SELF STORY group program info: www.petesibley.com/story.  for all the details!
Weekly calls to cultivate a deep connection with feeling good and inspired about your own inner narrativ...

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Everything we want is b/c we believe in the having of it we will feel better
Life hack - go for felling better right in this moment first - don't wait for the circumstances around you to have to change first!

More Self Kindness:
SELF STORY group program info: www.petesibley.com/story.  for all the detai...

This episode: Fear is a crap motivator.  

When I feel fear, I rarely want to then go after what I think needs to get done.  
And fear as a motivator is almost always for something that I didn’t want to do in the first place or isn’t satisfying.  

Then why do I use it?  

Because other people used it on me to motivate me to do what they wanted me to do.  So, I witnessed from those experiences that it was a powerful motivator...

What do you do when you're feeling squeezed in your life? 
The overwhelm, the too much and not enough time feeling, not seeing anything joyful on the horizon...
In this episode I talk about:
1st thing - Get out of the "trash compactor!"
2nd thing - Understand what the contrast in your life is growing within you!  (spoiler - it's better than you think!)

Drama happens b/c your brain loves to chew on things, so yo...

How to move from where you are right now, ie: how you're feeling and what you're thinking...
TO
Arriving at where you want to be, ie: feeling better, thinking more capable, confident, connected thoughts!

We want to be feeling better: more lightness, more powerful, more capable, more worthy, etc
It's much more straight forward than you might think,
it just takes being dedicated to noticing where you are, and...

Every want you have is because you believe in the having of it you will FEEL better.
What happens if you go to FEEL better first?

Redefining old definitions that no longer serve you.
Choosing to "grow" without suffering.
How are you choosing?  Is it by default?  Fear-based?

Today we explore two (2) ways to choose with intention:
1 - Choosing thoughts that FEEL a little bit better
2 - Choosing to FEEL a better ...

Are you allowing good into your life?  It happens moment by moment.

How to make small shifts to experience RELIEF and how that adds up to a good life, a great life!

Allowing things to be good and letting good into your life, bc we are so well trained to look for and expect things might good poorly.
Instead we can focus on piling appreciation upon appreciation.
Speaking to another who is in a challenging space w/o addin...

Allowing the feeling of relief, enjoyment and grounding as a result of self kindness right in this moment, is something you can do intentionally.
By putting attention on any emotion you help to create space and dissipate the intensity.
What if you lived the belief that, "All of me makes sense!"
This is the difference between indifference VS independent, being intentional with experiencing inner self kindness

SE...

Life is a journey that happens RIGHT NOW!
Are you enjoying the journey?  Do you LOVE the journey as it unfolds?

There are two (2) simple questions you can as in any moment, if you ask these questions, your life will radically shift!

1 - How am I doing right now?
2 - Do I want/ desire to reach for something different or reach for a little better feeling right now?  OR am I willing to continue to feel this "good" feeling...

Ready to expand your capacity to FEEL better?  YES!

New intentional thoughts have the power to create big shifts in our lives.
However, the mind has a lot of momentum with the old, default thoughts.

So in this episode I share how to begin incorporating the NEW thoughts (as I share and teach it weekly with my Self Story group members www.petesibley.com/story)

New thoughts like, "I can handle this." "All of me makes sense."<...

How can we deliberately choose feeling good more often, without the conditions of our lives needing to change?

Ask yourself what are you choosing in the moment, 
in this episode I discuss each of these choices:
Truth or Feeling Good

Go it Alone or With the Divine 

Past/ Future or Present Moment

Victim or Hero

Against me or For Me

Condition or Unconditional

Gain or loss

The quality of your life tomorrow is based upon the ...

There is wisdom and knowing that ever human is born with.
Stress, worry and negative emotions are indicators of whether or not you are connecting to this within YOU.

In this episode I share a way I help clients to connect with this wisdom.
You are telling the story, make it a great one!

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