Meet Tyler & Teachers

Episode 4 - Meet Tyler & Teachers

Welcome

Before we even get started today, I want to make sure you’ve signed up to get the schedule and links for the free coaching that I offer.   I’m a Certified Life Coach through The Life Coach School, and I have a lot to offer by way of coaching. And group coaching specifically has been a wonderful tool that I’ve used to listen to a coach and an individual walk through the model, and if you don’t know what the model is, keep listening.  I will teach you! When you first start this work, it’s very important that you get some help becoming aware of the cycles of life that aren’t serving you. If you don’t understand what cycles I’m talking about, keep listening. I will teach you!

This work has changed my life and I want to share it with the world.

And I want to introduce you to my teachers and I also want to tell you a little bit about myself so you know who you’re learning from.

GO OVER FUNDAMENTALS

So today, we’re going to go over some fundamentals.  I’m going to introduce you to three of my most recent teachers and coaches. 

SECONDARY SOURCES I want you to know where you can go to get secondary sources, especially if you’ve joined this podcast in its infancy, but I’m sure at this point you’re listening because I keep telling everyone that they need to get started with Episode 4.  That’s where things start to get good. And thank goodness it only took until Episode 4 And I know what you’re thinking. You’re thinking, “How can you consider this “getting good”. I just listened to Episode 480 and it’s STILL not good. And that’s totally cool.  I’ll hold space for your disdain, friend. I’m totally good with that.  

BONUS EPISODE

Have been since the Bonus Episode which is a cringy trainwreck.  But I’m not ashamed. I’m ok with you listening to the bonus episode because what you’re telling me is that you’re a real fan.  Like, you’re a fan boy or a fan girl. And that’s fine with me, because I know that you’re being aware when you attach yourself to this cycle I’ve created.  And I trust that you’re still thinking for yourself. That you haven’t gone zombie on me and start repeating the shit I say like it’s something that someone else didn’t already think.  But I’ll admit, it’s pretty great to hear it the way I say it, so I also hold space for you going zombie on me. No more than 3 rotations on this train wreck cycle, please! For your own safety.  Keep hold of that paddle and be the captain of your kayak. If you still haven’t watched my River of Life video, stick around. I will teach you! I love this analogy. It makes sense in every way, and I just know it’s going to get better as more people get a hold of it and continue to decipher the code.

CHRONOLOGY

There are different ways to tell a story.  Chronological is one of them, but I’m not going to do that to you today.  I’m actually going to start with the spoilers. My daughter loves to know the ending of books and movies before she watches.  So I know there are others of you out there like my daughter that will appreciate this.

TEACHERS
The spoilers in this story are the amazing teachers and coaches that I’ve had, especially recently.  They include individuals and businesses and social groups and authors and the list goes on.

So let me step into right towards the middle of this story and let you know….

WIFE AND I NOT IN GOOD PLACE

My wife and I were not in a good place together.  In following my heart, I had made some decisions that deeply hurt my wife.  She had reacted in a way that deeply hurt me. Both of our pain was valid, but we were still beholden to the cycles of life that didn’t serve us.  So we fought. And we threatened. And it was just basically hell in our home for a while there as I continued to follow my heart on the journey it was leading me on.  Thank Love for the heart, because my mind was still nowhere near awake, so my heart is all I really