Ever wake up one day and think… Wait, how did I end up living a life that checks all the boxes but still doesn’t feel like mine?
That’s exactly what happened to Monica Curtis — and in this episode, she gets real about how she went from people-pleasing and playing it safe to finally living for herself.
We chat about:
What happens when you stop silencing your own desires
Why quiet moments can be your biggest breakthroughs
How to start choosing you without the guilt
And why we need more women cheering each other on (seriously — community changes everything)
This convo is like a permission slip to start chasing what actually lights you up — even if it doesn’t make sense to anyone else.
3 Big Takeaways You’ll Love:
You’re not selfish for wanting more — you’re self-aware.
Your voice matters. Stop waiting for someone else to tell your story.
You’re not alone — there’s a whole sisterhood out here rooting for you.
If you’ve ever felt like you were made for something more (but just needed a nudge), this one’s for you, Self StartHER
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