Selfless to Self-YES: Embracing the Art of Self-Love, Self-Care, and Authenticity
Welcome to Selfless to Self-YES: Embracing the Art of Self-Love, Self-Care, and Authenticity, the podcast that guides you on a transformative journey from selflessness to self-empowerment. Are you tired of constantly putting others before yourself? Are you ready to shift from exhaustion and overwhelm to reconnecting with your sense of self and prioritizing your own needs? In each episode, we explore the essential tools and mindset shifts needed to embrace self-love, self-care, and living authentically. It’s time to break free from the societal pressures that tell you to put yourself last. Whether you’re seeking to nurture your mental health, create balance in your life, or simply learn to love who you truly are, this podcast is your go-to resource for inspiration and actionable advice. Join me for conversations that encourage you to prioritize yourself, rediscover your worth, and confidently say “Yes” to the life you deserve. Meet your host, Kandy Duns, former People Pleasing, Overachieving, Perfectionist. After spending most of her life putting her needs last, Kandy found herself completely burned out, leading to what she refers to as the breakdown she needed to reveal just how broken she was. Realizing she could no longer pour from an empty cup, and that she really had no idea who she was, Kandy learned to embrace the power of self-love and self-care, transforming her life. Kandy is an RN, Certified Hypnotherapist, and Self-Love and Self-Care Advocate. Join Kandy every other week as she shares her journey and expertise. Through personal stories and expert insights, she guides listeners from surviving to thriving, burnout to bliss, and from being selfless to embracing SELF-YES! If you are a woman yearning to reconnect with yourself and prioritize your needs, this podcast is for you. For personalized guidance, contact her at kandy@selflesstoselfyes.com. Website: selflesstoselfyes.com
Episodes
If you're the one who always has it together, always shows up, and never lets anything drop—this episode is for you. We're talking about the hidden emotional cost of being “the strong one,” why asking for help feels so hard, and how to finally start letting yourself be supported. It’s time to stop carrying the world on your shoulders and say YES to yourself.
Have you ever looked back at a moment in your life and whispered, “What was I thinking?” Regret has a way of lingering—turning into shame, self-doubt, and even self-punishment. But what if it didn’t have to be that way?
In this heartfelt episode, Kandy Duns shares one of her deepest regrets—a life-changing decision made at 17—and the ripple effect it had on her life and the people she loved. But more importantly, she r...
In this second half of my heartfelt conversation with Melissa Mora, we dive even deeper into the emotional toll of burnout and the powerful steps toward reclaiming your well-being. We talk about the challenge of setting boundaries in a helping profession, the unspoken pressure of being the “strong one,” and how disconnecting from the outside world can be the first step toward reconnecting with yourself.
Melissa shares ...
In this two-part episode, I’m joined by nurse and well-being advocate Melissa Mora for some real, unfiltered talk on what it takes to break free from the conditioning that keeps us stuck in exhaustion. We’re talking burnout, identity, purpose, and what it really means to come home to yourself. If you’ve been running on empty or wondering what’s next—this one’s for you.
🎧 Tune in now for Part 1, and don’t miss Part 2 d...
Have you ever felt guilty for resting? Or believed you had to earn your downtime by doing more, being more, giving more? You’re not alone. In this episode, we’re unpacking 7 common lies we’ve been told about busyness—and revealing the empowering truth about rest.
Whether you’re deep in burnout or just starting to feel stretched too thin, this is your invitation to slow down, reconnect, and say YES to yourself. You’ll h...
Have you ever held yourself back because of what others might think? That’s FOPO—Fear of Other People’s Opinions—keeping you stuck in self-doubt, overthinking, and people-pleasing. But what if the key to freedom was simple?
Enter The Let Them Theory. Instead of exhausting yourself trying to control how others perceive you, what if you just… let them? Let them misunderstand. Let them judge. Let them walk away. And most ...
Have you ever said “yes” when you wanted to say “no” just to avoid conflict? In this episode of Selfless to Self-YES, we’re diving deep into the difference between being nice and being kind—and why always trying to be "nice" can actually hurt you.
I share a personal story about a family vacation gone wrong, all because I felt pressured to be the nice person. Spoiler alert: it did not end well. But through tha...
Have you ever felt guilty for putting yourself first? Society teaches us that selflessness is noble, but what if that belief is holding you back from true happiness? In this episode, I break down five powerful steps to real self-love—without the guilt.
We’ll uncover:
✅ Why self-love is NOT selfish (and how to unlearn this toxic myth)
✅ Practical steps to prioritize yourself without feeling guilty
✅ The life...
💫 Have you ever wondered if you have Spirit Guides? How they help? Or if you’re even connected to them?
In this episode, I sit down with Renee Spears, Spirit Guide Channeler, Spiritual Mentor, and Podcast Host, to dive into the unseen world of guidance and intuition. Renee shares her incredible journey—from owning a mortgage company to embracing her true calling—and we explore what Spirit Guides are, how they communic...
Are you ready to break free from the victim mindset and step into your power in 2025? In this episode of Selfless to Self-YES, I share how to recognize the signs of victim mode, why burnout often fuels this mindset, and the steps to take accountability and reclaim control of your life. With personal stories of overcoming burnout and embracing growth, you’ll learn how to reframe challenges, set empowering intentions, a...
Tired of making New Year’s resolutions that don’t stick? You’re not alone—and there’s a better way. In this episode, we’re ditching the pressure of resolutions and embracing the power of setting intentions to guide you into 2025 with clarity, self-care, and empowerment.
Join me as I share my personal journey of choosing a “Word of the Year” and how this practice transformed my life—even through life’s toughest challeng...
In this episode, we’re diving into the transformative power of play and why it’s essential for a fulfilling life. Discover how play can reduce stress, boost creativity, and reconnect you with your authentic self. We’ll explore the pain points of not allowing yourself to play—burnout, strained relationships, and disconnection—and share five actionable steps to bring more joy and fun into your daily routine. It’s time t...
The holidays are here, and with them comes a whirlwind of expectations and requests. In this episode, we’re diving into the challenge of people-pleasing—especially during the holiday season—and exploring why it’s more important than ever to put yourself first. Discover the hidden costs of people-pleasing, how it impacts your well-being, and practical strategies to set boundaries, say no with confidence, and reclaim yo...
In this episode, we’re diving deep into the hidden powerhouse that drives so much of our behavior: the subconscious mind. If you’ve ever felt like you’re getting in your own way, stuck in patterns of self-sabotage, or simply want to understand what’s holding you back, this episode is for you.
Together, we’ll explore five practical steps to transform those subconscious patterns, moving from self-sabotage to self-empower...
In this episode, we explore the root causes of overwhelm and how saying YES to self-care and setting healthy boundaries can transform your life. Learn how to identify your needs, prioritize without guilt, and prevent burnout with actionable tips designed for care providers and anyone seeking balance. Let's navigate overwhelm with grace and compassion!
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In this special episode of "Selfless to Self-YES!," join me and my guest, Tasha Triana, as we dive into a candid conversation about self-compassion, burnout, and the journey to self-care. Together, we explore personal stories, share practical insights, and reflect on how embracing self-love can help us navigate life’s challenges. It's real talk between friends, offering you the support and encouragemen...
In this episode, we’re tackling the topic of self-care—and not the kind you’ve seen in the magazines. We’re talking about real self-care: the daily habits that nourish your mind, body, and soul. You’ll learn how to move past the common misconceptions and how to make self-care a consistent part of your life.
I’ll share my personal journey, from thinking self-care was a night of indulgence with wine and snacks to discove...
Today, we explore how journaling can be a transformative tool on your journey to self-love, self-discovery, and empowerment. Learn how journaling helps you gain clarity, uncover deep personal insights, and practice self-compassion. I’ll share practical tips to make journaling a habit—without the pressure of perfection—and discuss alternative ways to reflect if journaling isn’t for you. Tune in for prompts to get start...
Today, we dive into the power of resilience and how it can help you navigate life's most difficult moments. Sharing my personal journey of health challenges and career transitions, I explore how resilience, gratitude, and self-compassion played key roles in navigating through some very challenges times. Learn how you, too, can build resilience in the face of adversity, using practical tips and mindset shifts to t...
In this episode of Selfless to Self-YES!, we dive into the power of resilience and how it can help you navigate life's most difficult moments. Sharing her personal journey of health challenges and career transitions, Kandy explores how resilience, gratitude, and self-compassion played key roles in her recovery. Learn how you, too, can build resilience in the face of adversity, using practical tips and mindset shi...
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